Why is it either or? I have stocks, and property, AND designer clothes/bags. People make a lot of assumptions about those of us who like luxury items. And let's be honest, the whole luxury market is overpriced. Loro Piana, Brunello Cuccinelli, Ferragamo, Kiton, etc. are not worth what they're charging, but you can believe that millionaires are definitely buying these brands. I also disagree that the designer bags are lesser quality than non-designer. My luxury bags get thrown around when I travel and are used often but they still look amazing, while my cheaper bags (with the exception of vintage Coach) get destroyed within a year or two. People who rant about this topic seem to be a bit jealous and judgmental, no one is forcing them to buy branded items, but they feel the need to poo-poo on those that do. I just feel like saying: MYOB and get a life.

I think all these “luxury is for the poor” videos are just another trend because ironically, poor people actually do want to believe in that. Also, why are people only shaming women for spending on expensive/luxury items? Men have been spending ridiculous amounts of money on cars / watches / cigars for ages and when they do they’re usually praised for having a curated collection or elevated taste. Why do women have to feel ashamed for spending our just as hard earned money on a little fun and joy in this very difficult journey called life?

Stocks gives me no joy. Bags give me joy.

I’m lucky that I am now in a position to have stocks, property and now some very nice handbags. So shoot me for liking nice things. I don’t have a massive collection but I love what I have and I don’t care what others think

Like I said in that video, I live in a nicer neighborhood and it is fairly common to see designer items. The families have money for house, car, retirement, AND designer items. Like after certain point in savings, what's the money for? If you have enough to live in savings, what's the point of saving additional? Might as well live life a little and spend on things like hobbies and nicer things in life. Otherwise, money earned is pointless.

Hey Jessie! Was cool to hear I was featured in one of your videos as I’m a fan of your channel ❤️ I think my issue with luxury fashion as a whole which I also mentioned in my video is that most luxury brands have been rapidly accelerating prices while the quality of the items have reduced drastically. We all have an understanding that these things aren’t worth it and part of what you’re paying for is the brand name. That being said, if I’m spending $10K on a bag or $3K on a jacket it has to be significantly better constructed than a $100 item and be made with superior fabrics, you could count on this in the past. Unfortunately, in today’s luxury market this is no longer the case and that’s my biggest issue with the whole thing. I still buy into luxury fashion but I buy brands that from my experience of buying them still make good quality items (Rick Owens, Trickers etc)

Tamara took it down?! That’s a disgrace.

I hope Stephanie’s video comes back! I did not get a chance to see it and I love that you are so happy to have been in it! I don’t know what the argument that only poor people buy designer bags because the brands give the rich the designer bags for free. Of course they give the celebrities the bags for free…so they can advertise them! Also, are they arguing that we should not buy any designer bags because someone else gets it for free? That is so asinine! We can buy designer bags for any reason-to wear, to hide or use as a pillow. As long as it makes you happy, who cares! I never begrudge anyone purchasing a luxury bag-it’s **their** money💃🏿

Her video was made for girls who are not in a financial standing to be buying designer bags, the audience was not meant for the really rich who can afford bags with no dent to their wallets.

I sold all my designer bags a while ago, I just realised I bought them for the wrong reason and I feel enough as I am. So now I just have a capsule style wardrobe and a few high quality bags but nothing expensive. I feel happier not focusing on material things, but I still enjoy your channel and this trend of people selling their logo things now is eye opening and reaffirms my feelings ❤

I love designer bags because of the fashion history, 1…and 2, I like to flex. 😂 simple and honest. I said what I said 🤷🏻‍♀️ doesn’t have to be complicated. To each their own. Other people prefer replicas and throw their bags on the floor. Designer bags aren’t a big deal to them. Just saying. I think everyone feels differently. And that’s okay. The point is, just do what makes u feel good and happy. Honestly I have no shame admitting that. It is what it is. I love that you’re very passionate about luxury handbags Jess. No matter what, continue to live your life without guilt or shame about it. 💜

i totally agree. i buy bags not to show off . but i love the fact of hunting down a "rare" item at a good price thrills me

That sweater is ADORABLE on you by the way…🥹

It is a dilemna that I suffer each time I make a choice and it saddens me that I can't afford to both invest and buy handbags.

I didn’t know anything about handbags until about a year into the pandemic. I wanted a particular midrange brand and I started watching KZfaq videos. I was shocked at all these regular looking people buying designer bags. I didn’t know it was a “thing”. I thought those things were for rich people, it never even occurred to me to think of buying them. Honestly I’m still confused. I usually still presume people with a lot of bags are rich or upper income. But then I was watching Dacob’s livestream where they were chatting about 200k income and it seemed like many chatters considered that to be a lot of money. It is, but it’s not *that* much, in my mind, to be buying so many expensive luxury items. I don’t know, I’m still confused, lol. Since we must self-fund a lot of our retirement in the US, far more of my money goes to my retirement accounts and other savings than luxury, so I only have 2 “luxury” bags, but I enjoy my contemporary plenty. I hope others aren’t actually broke, buying LV …

Not buying luxury items won't make you rich, and it won't have much effect on your income long term. Plenty of ultra wealthy people buy luxury just like anyone else.

I use dividends from blue chip stocks to get classic designer bags, and also own property that’s profitable too-it is possible to have all three. Time is the most priceless thing on this earth, and if people want to make assumptions about what I wear… there’s no point dwelling on it for me. They can stay being judgemental strangers, and I’m all the better off for not wasting my precious time on caring what they think. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Carrying a luxury bad doesn't send the message it once did.

I'm glad I was able to watch Stephanie's video before it got taken down. Happy to see you mentioned in her video.😊

Tamara has no chill. NO chill.

I love that pink tweed Chanel suit 🩷

I have to admit when I’m looking to my stocks and see the total amount, it makes me happier than a bag!😂 But I love bags very much and I totally know it’s not the smartest thing to do. At the same time, should we just save all our money? To me the answer is no, I try to find a balance between being financially responsible and still enjoying things that I really love. It just that it took me years to be in a spot to be able to buy these beautiful bags without impacting my future. The wait was totally worth it though.

Stocks first. Then after some returns THEN the designer bag! 😂. There’s some cache to the bags. But some of the canvas totes are definitely NOT worth spending that much. A well constructed leather bag is lovely.

I'm the absolute opposite; if something is an "It" bag, I don't want it. I don't want to belong to a crowd; I want to stand out as an individual with unique style.

I think maybe in this economy people are holding onto their money a little more especially if they already have designer goods.

I think we’re in a pre recession era and everyone got over the overconsumption of everything def designer stuff. Also with tanner analyzing leather quality of designer bags being low mid, Dior bags being made for less than €59 euros, Chanel and lv quality plummeting, Hermes sales associates giving everyone the ick. It’s just so much that I have no desire for any designer bags right now. But yes logo flaunting is for the brokies. Technically at the end of the day depending on the designer bag, it holds its value or even appreciates in value where a cheap bag will be worth nothing. So cheap bags cost more at the end of the day.

pharrell here, pharell there, I'm tired.

Just saw this Jessie! I think you're brilliant! So down to earth (and your lipstick shade is perfect!! please tell me the name haha!) big love to you xx

I love to wear my designer bags, I got some from my mum . The first one I bought after I had my second apartment loanfree. For me that was the right moment and they make me feel happy. My little Hermes Collection ❤

As long as we remember there is a difference between having fun and being happy, buy what you want to buy.

omg im so glad i found your videos, i watched steph;s videos but didnt see your channel from her video then YT recommended yours to me hahaha

I agree with the escapism on shopping, but I do enjoy the brand. I agree feeling like it can be a bit wasteful but we all have our vices ; I’m on a low buy year ; I’m allowed 1 more bag before the year ends and I’m eyeing the Monoglam Neverfull (love the silver look ) or a Goyard Villette

I saw you in that vid before it was taken down. Watched her for years. I didnt realise she had so many subbies now. I eco so many things you’re saying. Im a handbag addict. For the same reasons as you it seems. It also makes me feel a part of a digital community. Trying to find something cheaper to collect. Now Im buying bags & jellycats 🤦🏼‍♀️ Its great these things are being questioned.

Im investing in my future. Have been threw Lowe's for 26 and years. But I do enjoy my bags now. My husband enjoys Fishing gear. Buying vintage Fendi now. Not broke girl, just love some of the styles.

I've been an over thinker, always intelectualing every single thought of mine and only now at 28 I am allowing myself to enjoy some escapism and it is so underrated. We are all escaping anyways. Let us have our pretty little things. I think it's better to live the luxury fantasie than to be buying from fast fashion every single day, throwing clothes away constantly and harming the environment

Excellent commentary. I did see Step’s video. It was good. I personally like the community it creates. It’s fun! There’s nothing bad about that. It’s so easy to get caught up and make an impulse purchase. But I wait before I buy and stick to my wishlist. It makes me happy to look at my designer handbags. I mean some collect sports cars etc. btw Jess, I bought a Fiorucci angel tshirt after seeing your cool one in a video! On sale!

Hi Jess! Enjoyed this video! ❤

Never understood people’s problem with spending discretionary money on things you like. Many people have enough to save, invest, pay fixed expenses AND buy luxury.

Interesting topic ❤

Hi, Jessie! Your knitted sweater is gorgeous ❤

I really enjoy my mid-range bags and preloved pieces. I know I will get high quality and long term use from them without breaking the bank. I can’t bring myself to pay today’s prices, so for me, buying a bag is not an investment.

you are such a sweet heart jess 😘 designer bags are for fans who appreciate them - whatever your income bracket. to me it’s not about the status, it’s about the aesthetic and the leather. if i earned 50% less or 50x more my current income it’s likely i will still love the same things.

I did watch the video! I do think that buying because you like something as the main reason is way different to buying to show off or buying as an addiction or buying to avoid thinking about your problems. The idea of “luxury goods” is not anything new. And there is nothing wrong with spending within your means (as Steph said in her video) to get the look you want. The problem is when brands are exploiting workers or not taking any environmental responsibility. While there is nothing wrong with spending your own money how you want, I don’t know how I feel about supporting brands that are doing thjs.

Honestly, people need to let people do what they want with their money, bags they purchase and let people buy whatever they want. I think people who pocket watch and bag watch others and judge their spending or usage of their items have issues. Everybody has a hobby or something they choose to spend extra on. Whether its sports, outdoors, traveling, cars,food or other items that they consider worth spending money on. Why is it an issue with bags? I never hear anyone telling a car collector they need to stop and ease up on the collecting…Like ease up on collecting those cadillacs and invest in your Roth IRA…that’s ridiculous…😂 LOL…

First, I ❤ your sweater! It complements you very well. Second, I disagree with that whole “brands are for poor people.” There are folks who genuinely appreciate the fashion of it all. I did watch her video and disagreed with it. It was interesting to watch though, like this one! ❤ Great video Jess!

Everyone loves different things, there's no right and wrong. I enjoy using my bags, and I do buy property and stocks too. They all serve different purposes to me xx

I would be embarrassed to overtly show expensive items other than jewelry. That doesn't mean that other people should be like me. Appearing humble and simple while amassing money may be more materialistic and complicated than someone who wants to buy some expensive bags to show off so I don't think I'm better than anyone else and I recognize that I'm also into acquiring things, just different things. Also, my investments profit from people going out and spending their money so I genuinely have no problem with people spending.

My best friend was suddenly killed at 27 years old by a drunk driver. These things happen every day. Live your life RIGHT NOW. Do what you love RIGHT NOW. Love your life. Love each other. I’m not saying be reckless, go into major debt, don’t plan for the future, etc., but??? Enjoy yourself. You might only have today. ❤

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people saying designer or luxury bags are for "broke" people or "middle class" are so weird and projecting because I've seen a few rich people actually being into them. they like dressing up and it's inevitable they will like certain brands. dressing nicely is also proper etiquette.

Designer brands are for whoever likes them and whoever can aquire them. Period.

Off subject, your sweater is so cute. ❤

The heritage lux designer brands will survive for sure. Worse case they may close non profitable stores in a few markets and maybe cut production some. Frankly I do not know why they have so many collections? Why does Chanel have 10 collections per year. I think it is plain greed and wasteful. All these brands both high end lux and fast fashion need to do a serious re-think. I’d say a spring/ summer and a fall/winter makes sense. That is two collections and then they can do a few limited drops like maybe 2 couture shows for the ones that do that and a couple of capsule collections. I think it will be better for the environment as this obsessive need to constantly shop ( we have been brainwashed) with all these collections is causing landfill issues. I have stopped the obvious fast fashion when I saw the condition of the landfills in Ghana..I felt guilty and stopped buying from Zara, and H&M. Now I buy around 40% second hand and 60% new and my goal is to get to 50/50 by the end of the year.

I think that is cope. I have stocks, crypto, savings AND luxury items. Granted I have moved away from super recognizable logos, but nonetheless I have a nice collection of luxury bags and watches. These things bring me joy when I wear them. I won’t do ready to wear though. I simply cannot justify paying 3000$ for a blazer. Just no.

TJ Maxx sells designer bags also, but I get your point 😂

I love your cardigan. It looks gorgeous on you.

Luis Vuitton and Gucci are at the lower end of luxury. I see so many of those standing in the economy seating line @ the airport.

I'm a collector at heart and I've been collecting bags for over 30 years now. I also have shares and investments but they don't make me happy. Financial investments give me financial security but handbags make me happy. If something makes you happy and you're not going into debt to buy it, why not? Most things are cyclical and although luxury bags are not as popular now as they were they'll rise from the ashes like a phoenix 🥰

and what's the point of all your money being used "responsibly". why cant you also have some for things you enjoy. if you're always focused on the responsible things without a little for you, there would be no joy in life. yes it's nice to have for future, but what if you die. others will enjoy all your hard work. there is nothing wrong in enjoying some of that money in a hobby. for me if it wasn't bags, it would be car parts, which I still do but at a slow pace lol.

Jess you make me want to get cute bag charms- hee hee Fomo is real 😍

hey jess🌈🌞

I've Always Considered It To Be Art 🎨 I Enjoy These Things Nothing Smells Better Than Good Leather 😂 If It Makes You Happy Then Do It If You Can Afford It 🥰

You are so cool🙂

I put my money in funds and buy no name or vintage leather bags.

Your sweater is cute! I did watch her video. When I look at my collection, I can see that I got the wear out of my bags and they are not falling apart. Before having these, i would wear through non-luxury bags quicker that I do find it worth it to spend on a bag. I also invest. As long as there is something I really want, and I can buy it, I think it is okay to do so.

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The average American doesn't have $1k to cover emergency expenses, so how could they uphold a multi billion dollar industry

I like my money where I can see it - Carrie Bradshaw.

Oh I saw that and felt immediately you were taken out of context which I guess happens when it's a short clip but there was a lot more context about what you were saying in your video.

Get her Tamara!

I can’t believe she struck the video. 😅

That girl stepanie must be broke? I don’t care to watch any of her videos but this topic sounds ridiculous to me.

I don’t love that term “broke girls” at all. It triggers me.

Uploading videos while sitting in front of the designer bags already makes the influencers they are broke…..its like they don’t have brain , talent, style, taste for fashion 😅…,…….. spending alot of money on designer stuff for multiple items n lot of money on plastic surgery makes personality so cheap ….. it’s always better to carry single designer bag n shoes style differently on multiple occasions cuz it adds the value of that pieces to the style like made for you .. your iconic……… plus noooo plastic surgery looks go with natural beauty ……

don't come crying to me Jess when it gets you in the middle of the night! 😂 😂

Saw the thumbnail of the video, but didn't watch it because I feel like her takes are really repetitive and boring tbh. But if I knew you were in it, I would have clicked fast! lol

Thank you for a🤔video❣️ (😍your👕🌺🤍Where did you buy?)