Are Jamie’s Jokes Too Dirty? | First Dates New Zealand

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11 ай бұрын

Arna has struggled with dating in the past, as she comes across as a high maintenance 'princess'. In reality however, Arna's just a down to earth kiwi girl looking for a nice kiwi guy. Meeting Arna this evening is Care Coordinator Jamie. Jamie has been on three disastrous blind dates in the past, so is understandably approaching the evening with a little caution.
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@craigreeves5465 11 ай бұрын

They have a knack for finding THE most insufferable people for this show. It's actually pretty amazing. Their casting people are super talented!

@DistopianUtopia 11 ай бұрын

Spot on

@x00582 11 ай бұрын

its a freakshow

@hd-xc2lz 11 ай бұрын

Reminds me of the American version, in which every episode featured a poorly matched couple, deliberately put together for the entertainment effect.

@regant.cameron8237 11 ай бұрын

Why do I feel like she practices every move in the mirror for hours 😅

@alexaf2744 7 ай бұрын

If you’re picked to participate in this show, you know you have a problem

@poorhai9321 11 ай бұрын

the girls voice the laugh and posture reminds me of a 1950's mistress 😂 for some reasons

@ENFPerspectives 11 ай бұрын

Lol. Yep.

@goseemekah 6 ай бұрын

YESSSSSSSSS!!!!

@poorhai9321 2 ай бұрын

@@MissX33 are you high 🤣

@TheScotThomas 6 ай бұрын

She’s 26? She lyin, she’s at least 30

@Georgie14 11 ай бұрын

She’s so into herself it’s nauseating and she’s not that hot. Humble goes a long way sweetheart.

@ppumpkin3282 3 ай бұрын

At least she didn't talk about herself. She spent a lot of time trying to look good.

@davidyardley512 11 ай бұрын

I got to the 7-minute mark and couldn't handle any more of this.

@sterlingforbes3872 11 ай бұрын

haha i made it to 4 before i started reading comments

@user-xz6vf7gk6v 11 ай бұрын

She’s too Phoney

@vickygraham2444 2 ай бұрын

She's a legend in her own mind

@NeedAdvice2010 6 ай бұрын

I'm embarrassed for her watching her trying to be something she's absolutely not.........

@ianlaccohee7180 11 ай бұрын

I’ve never heard anybody say “yeah, sure,” but their body language says a very positive, no way.

@MichelleSullivan 11 ай бұрын

Well matched - two attractive, painfully insecure people. Sad to see, really. I hope they come to feel comfortable being themselves.

@LoloO42 11 ай бұрын

Elegance is effortless. She's not that. Why does she keep posing? I don't think she needs to worry about folks perceiving her as posh. 😆 Picking her teeth with her nails at the table was a classy move, too.

@aleonflux1138 4 ай бұрын

Agreed, her demeanour seemed unnatural and pretentious.

@Jonty161 3 ай бұрын

Im so getting that "I want the pool boy" vibes off her. This guy defs dodges a bullet here.

@TimCaruana 10 ай бұрын

One line jokes on a first date is the true sign that you were meant to be single, forever..

@zacatkinson3926 9 ай бұрын

oh bs

@ppumpkin3282 3 ай бұрын

@@zacatkinson3926 I'm no prude but that was a disgusting joke. shows poor judgement.

@CKD3332 11 ай бұрын

She is way too pretentious. No way.

@davidjones4772 11 ай бұрын

That guy had the monotone voice ever. Sounds like he’s dead inside.

@annecoll5140 5 ай бұрын

I can’t watch it’s painfully awkward! 🤔

@hilberryable 11 ай бұрын

Unrefined "jokes" by men is a deal breaker. Do you really want to live with someone who tells that type of joke for the rest of your life?

@perasima6533 10 ай бұрын

Short answer: Yes. Long answer: Hell, yeah!

@grinchoi1 10 ай бұрын

@@perasima6533😂 facts

@zacatkinson3926 9 ай бұрын

Relax!

@ScousersWife 11 ай бұрын

This is the only episode of FD that I didn't make it through. I don't know what it was. She seems pretentious. He seems aloof. Maybe it's me :) I just couldn't finish it.

@sigma8995 11 ай бұрын

I can see why you say that.

@chriskoltys9271 11 ай бұрын

I feel like she is “trying” to be high end - your 26 - just be 26 not 46

@41Gecko 11 ай бұрын

@@chriskoltys9271That’s the first thing I thought. She’s trying very hard and just needs to relax.

@angelawilliams4239 11 ай бұрын

It’s not you,I couldn’t stand it either. She was so annoying,trying way too hard.

@kjprice1443 11 ай бұрын

Wow. It's amazing the difference that makeup and lighting can have on a person. Without her makeup she looked totally different.

@bambi274 11 ай бұрын

She is prettier with less make up

@catarinarosario9867 11 ай бұрын

she is full of make up on both places. i will never get over the fact that men think women are make up free if they choose not to use much colour on their lips or eyes.

@lauradelaney5457 10 ай бұрын

@@catarinarosario9867looool it’s hilarious

@amielterence 7 ай бұрын

@@catarinarosario9867when we say “less make up” we’re mostly talking about a natural look, as opposed to bright saturated colours you wouldn’t find on a normal face.

@mvnorsel6354 7 ай бұрын

It almost be called deceit.

@cinnamongirl4896 7 ай бұрын

I kept shutting one eye watching this, her constant posing was so so cringe!!!!!!! so weird! she is way to into herself to find love with anyone else.

@bahiras 5 ай бұрын

They deserve each other

@liznicolas272 11 ай бұрын

Eek is my best word at the moment 3:54

@truthteller99999 10 ай бұрын

"People think I'm a bit of a prunciss" I don't think you're a prunciss, I think you're a can't.

@leigh7507 11 ай бұрын

Off topic - but is that a wig?

@MamawithAtude-ib4em 10 ай бұрын

Jamie; put the jokes away; not so funny. you need to show your own personality. You come across as creepy. Period.

@tsambikatsa926 11 ай бұрын

Picking her teeth and telling her she had something in her teeth. He is dry .. and she wasnt interested in him st all Wonder if these are paid acfors?? So untral

@walkwithmeASMR 5 ай бұрын

Omg the way she expected the waiter to take off her jacket. Step back into reality woman.

@TT-se4uw 11 ай бұрын

She's much more attractive than he is and his personality was surprisingly juvenile. The dirty joke should have been saved for his guy friends; treating a really beautiful woman like one of the guys was the wrong move.

@TomNook. 11 ай бұрын

I'd say looks wise they are evenly matched

@labbie1148 11 ай бұрын

@@TomNook.yeah i agree looks wise they are the same

@zacatkinson3926 9 ай бұрын

“ beautiful “

@rachelbailey-no2pp 6 ай бұрын

It's not always about the looks. It's how you both connect and get on well with.

@zacatkinson3926 6 ай бұрын

@@rachelbailey-no2pp Yes it is

@aliciamonroe615 11 ай бұрын

I'm getting some serious bad vibes off this man.

@tracyleekley1353 11 ай бұрын

Interesting that so many of the comments noticed Arna was posing, it was so obvious & weird & Jamie's nasty jokes are not for anyone but maybe his younger brother. Arna's need for attention on camera is embarrassing. Can'r believe she opted to go on a 2nd date w/ him.

@meredithr9824 11 ай бұрын

I noticed that but, do you think she's masking?

@CarolineMosesComedy 5 ай бұрын

I see a lot of similarities in myself with the guy. I tend to have major trouble with blurting out the first thing that comes to my mind, which is often a crude joke, and I also have trouble identifying the time and place for said jokes. I hope to take this as a learning opportunity.

@deborahstevens9587 19 күн бұрын

It's their acting debut.

@terminallyonline280 11 ай бұрын

I thought they hit it off. maybe I'm clueless

@unnadud9114 6 ай бұрын

she doesn't have blue eyes

@harrysaladfingers1515 11 ай бұрын

oh i fell- ~excellent 💅🏻

@mattneillninasmom 10 ай бұрын

Both of them rather cardboard cutouts with not much substantial going for them. Nope.

@cliveargyle5237 7 ай бұрын

Welcome to New Zealand.

@Johnny.bar99 10 ай бұрын

he's 32?!

@JB-hb7fd 9 ай бұрын

What's with her posing like shes in a photo shoot 🤣 SO CRINGE

@michelleroselilley4637 11 ай бұрын

Is she truly 26? 😶

@anneedrupt11 11 ай бұрын

He's creepy and she gives me the ick feeling🤮

@spiritedaway99 11 ай бұрын

they're both sooo lame omg,great match

@briannakisisa5636 11 ай бұрын

He had me 13sec in, hahe

@elcristoph7380 10 ай бұрын

I wouldn't be keen on seeing her again..

@sigma8995 11 ай бұрын

Gents, this response at 8:45 is NOT what you want to see when dating a girl. It's the response of a girl who has low interest level in you. She should have a burning desire and say, "DEFINITELY!" In the end, she reveals her low interest again with the hesitation. Although she says yes, her unspoken language says no. Listen to the latter. In situations like this, the guy just need to step it up and next the girl. Find another one to date to save him time, heartache and potential trouble down the line.

@aron.gortman 11 ай бұрын

Or being a kiwi the women should say "DEEEEFINITELEEEEY"

@ITzzDecort 11 ай бұрын

her body language from the start was screaming "NOOOOOOOOOOOO"

@goldengalsclazy 11 ай бұрын

he ended up dating a colleague at his work..

@sigma8995 11 ай бұрын

@@goldengalsclazy As he should.

@sigma8995 11 ай бұрын

@@aron.gortman Too funny. I watch FD enough to actually hear the kiwi accent.

@vambo13257 11 ай бұрын

This guy is creepy af

@sparra3819 11 ай бұрын

In terms of looks, I found them to be a really good match. I rather agree, she could turn down the posing, but it does match her flirty personality. And, well, he ruined dessert, just saying..

@berenicehickey9755 10 ай бұрын

She needs to relax.

@lindaacosta2435 11 ай бұрын

Her posing is nauseating. He is adorable!

@ENFPerspectives 11 ай бұрын

Nothing special about him imo, but she is over the top. I have a sibling like her.

@NomNomGirl1 11 ай бұрын

They ask everyone to pose what was she supposed to do

@jennifergirling6850 7 ай бұрын

Funnily enough when a woman states the specifics he said hair eyes strangely most guys criticize her.

@thecoldhardtruth1390 11 ай бұрын

i guess someone likes awkward dates then

@Dutchmadness1 7 ай бұрын

Just tell them you are filthy rich and watch what happens.

@jessicamoceri3308 7 ай бұрын

So cringe!!! First Date UK is so much better!

@zacatkinson3926 9 ай бұрын

26 ?she looks 36

@kaputfretudy 11 ай бұрын

She was a generous listener, showed interest in him, and I thought sincere and quite lovely. She has a few old world graces, which are probably from her family culture, and I don’t think should be interpreted as phony by commenters. Not surprised he found love at work, surrounded by so many women!

@SongBillong 6 ай бұрын

He's obviously heard that women like funny blokes, but he's trying too hard. Seems like a nice fella, though. She's clearly very self-absorbed.

@robertgelblum5154 11 ай бұрын

When are we going to see a successful First Date New Zealand episode again? Really, I am getting quite frustrated by the number of episodes lately that are duds in the end, that don't lead anywhere! Can't the show hire a professional matchmaker who can accurately match compatible people, who are both genuinely looking for a serious relationship? Is it really that difficult to do? Or is the problem fundamentally that this is at its core a reality TV show whose main (or sole?) purpose is entertainment and high ratings? (Side note: I found the woman to be very hot in her tight dress and all dolled up with her hair and makeup. I may have to emigrate to New Zealand from Canada, if all the kiwi women look at least this good! The guy was ok, with a sense of humour that probably puts off a lot of people, but can be a total winner with someone who appreciates his jokes.)

@MaverickLee11 11 ай бұрын

its because negativity sells sadly and people want to be entertained

@darkerbinding6933 9 ай бұрын

Arna, this is a lesson in "you snooze, you lose". Too often women think they are in the driver's seat but fail to realize that good men are in high demand. Better luck next time... don't pause.

@jay-lm4we 6 ай бұрын

Good men? The poor chat is a few sandwiches short of a picnic

@julesnorton2138 6 ай бұрын

it might just be me. but if i knew I wasn't going to be going on a second date, there is no way I'd let the man pay the whole bill. 50/50 all the way

@bobiden2859 3 ай бұрын

I love how his farts are so loud the audio distorts, dude is a walking propane tank..

@berenicehickey9755 10 ай бұрын

She is much prettier without makeup...

@zenguidancetarot 7 ай бұрын

Ughh.. decent guy.. she's level 10 annoying

@jaumepp1975 5 ай бұрын

What a beautiful and charming lady!

@SteganDaMallion 11 ай бұрын

His voice is dry….

@lauradelaney5457 10 ай бұрын

Sooooo monotonous

@0mnislasher1 10 ай бұрын

autism

@lilywilde3955 10 ай бұрын

It's the year 2023, split the freaking bill!!!!!!

@martarousselet6432 5 ай бұрын

I found him sweet and good looking. Normal to be nervous, especially when on camera and when on a date with a perceived attractive person.

@Skeezer66 11 ай бұрын

At least they were both over 22! That said, is she REALLY only a bartender? The way she posed, and 'dropped her napkin', it felt like she's used to using her looks to get attention, maybe a stripper? There are people who 'frown' on that, so I can understand her not telling. Were they a match? LMAO!!!! Of course not!!

@fatcatontario 11 ай бұрын

After seeing quite a few of these dates and based on my experience it is safe to assume that if a man likes you he will insist on paying. Anyone who wants to split are not interested. As I've thought.

@moeezS 8 ай бұрын

Disagree. Full pay or splitting isn't an indicator of interest to me. I split with my wife when it was dinner dates, and fully paid when it was coffee dates. Some people like conservative gender roles, so they want a man to fully pay but doesn't mean they're into the guy necessarily. But if you're progressive and believe in gender equality, you will be fine with splitting.

@Eveedeans33 12 күн бұрын

I can’t watch her omg😂

@deerheart87 6 ай бұрын

She looks good

@dynamicforce8051 11 ай бұрын

Why th does she behave like someone on the side streets at 3am?? Even while she’s sitting at the bar not talking to anyone! Jeez lady give it a break 🤮

@MaverickLee11 11 ай бұрын

either that or she on OF

@tracyleekley1353 10 ай бұрын

Jamie - I would love to give you a makeover: redo your teeth (braces, whitening, etc), different haircut, change up wardrobe, 3 months of weekly therapy to rev up his confidence level, and he could be a real hunk.

@thebrinksf69 10 ай бұрын

Good for Jamie. She was just going to say no.

@genebigs1749 11 ай бұрын

She is physically attractive, but she knows it and acts a little superior. He's a bit juvenile and talks like a robot. Not a good match. She needs a take charge kind of alpha male to knock her down a few pegs.

@raymondmuller6072 6 ай бұрын

Why are these Kiwis so awkward? Darn it must be difficult to have a conversation with any of them. I think its living amongst all those sheep that does it !

@beckymaggie4606 5 ай бұрын

She's so pretentious

@eijonasson 6 ай бұрын

The silly faces she keeps pulling is questionable behavior.

@manilkasheran2934 2 ай бұрын

She looks and acts like the mistress he is cheating on his wife with!

@annajames9682 5 ай бұрын

That was disgusting

@karenstieglitz3443 11 ай бұрын

I don't understand why people take so long to either commit to a second date or decline. So immature, and downright cruel to your date. Grow up, be a gentleman or a lady, make up your mind, and answer definitively! Jeez!