Nerd Goes On Date With Pole Dancer | First Dates New Zealand

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11 ай бұрын

Having not spent much time in the dating arena, Seb hopes he can meet a clever girl with similar interests to his own. Meeting Seb tonight is design student Tracey, who has a passion for fashion, and a tendency to disobey her parents. It only takes one drink however for Tracey and Seb to discover their hobbies are worlds apart; Tracey dabbles in the creative arts, Seb enjoys all things science and sports.
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@franciskakocifaj344 8 ай бұрын

He reminds me a lot of my boyfriend when i met him. He's also an engineer and was so shy and cute on our first date. He still is so pure in his thoughts. I utterly adore that about him. Nerdy guys should get more recognition from ladies. I find them really funny and nice. Never met an engineer who doesn't have a dad hummor hahah

@alexaf2744 6 ай бұрын

Uhhhh I wouldn’t want a guy like that. Seems like he’s got a dismissive-avoidant attachment style

@alexaf2744 6 ай бұрын

And problem keeping eye contact.

@laurastuart3814 4 ай бұрын

@@alexaf2744 Are you a psychiatrist?

@skinnymac2411 11 ай бұрын

She’s 19! acted mature which is a good thing

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents and short men are a bad thing

@TMPreRaff 11 ай бұрын

Did she order a "Cosmopolitician"?

@miriamsheppard6162 11 ай бұрын

hahaha I thought it was a new kind of drink maybe

@lauradelaney5457 11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 yup. I thought I was hearing things

@leezlvontrapp 4 ай бұрын

@@lauradelaney5457Arghhhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@leezlvontrapp 4 ай бұрын

@@miriamsheppard6162I’m still waking up and so I thought that my brain was having problems getting my hearing started. That was hilarious! 🙊🙉🤣

@harryvanderveen773 3 ай бұрын

@@leezlvontrapp :D

@star_tribe 11 ай бұрын

Cosmopolitician 🤣

@heartpursuer 11 ай бұрын

Never heard of that. I'm guessing the bartender lies about the ingredients.

@ShizukaRose 11 ай бұрын

What is that?

@star_tribe 11 ай бұрын

A cosmopolitan is what she meant 😂😂😂

@jasminaj3682 11 ай бұрын

They both seemed genuinely into the conversation. Never a bad start.

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents are a bad thing

@Skeezer66 11 ай бұрын

My God!! 19 and 20!! First Dates New Zealand takes the 'first date' part too literally!! The trend continues! LOL!!

@supremennn3829 11 ай бұрын

At least get older people who know how to socially interact

@Skeezer66 11 ай бұрын

@@supremennn3829 Exactly!!

@portman8909 11 ай бұрын

Age has nothing to do with it. It's about how extroverted a person is and good looks don't hurt either. @@supremennn3829

@leigh7507 11 ай бұрын

New Zealand version has way younger people on the show. The UK version has more adults over 30

@nzrockboi 11 ай бұрын

Both cute as hell, good conversation, rebellious and self-determined and yet neither were interested.... smart people are so weird OMG

@aron.gortman 11 ай бұрын

Not sure why people have to decide upfront whether or not they want to see each other again. It's like a corporate interview.

@MaverickLee11 9 ай бұрын

too true

@hotdoggington6962 8 ай бұрын

If the spark isn’t there, it’s not there 🤷 And no amount of being right on paper can make up for that. It is a shame tho, they’re both adorb

@alexaf2744 6 ай бұрын

He can barely control his arms/hands?

@samsongomah1318 6 ай бұрын

He saw the red flags all over this rebel woman and wisely cut his losses and ran.

@supremennn3829 11 ай бұрын

Because he does engineering and doesn’t look like the typical party guy he’s labeled a nerd 😒 First dates is savage

@obrianhayles3144 11 ай бұрын

Nothing is wrong with that. Society labels everyone.

@thewillprince1 10 ай бұрын

0:54, he says they consider him a nerd, so I am sure First Dates labeled him off what he said.

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

If a man has morals these days, organizations will ridicule them.. in this case, they try and shame him to the world by calling him a "NERD".. thats a man with principles in my book, he knows what he wants in his potential woman. Yes, I said HIS WOMAN.

@robertgelblum5154 11 ай бұрын

Oh no!! They both are only getting "friend vibes"? Not again! Come on, First Dates producers, get with the program and please, please try to pair people who you think will hit it off and have chemistry. For what it's worth, I thought the young lady was lovely, cute and sweet. The fact that she does pole dancing only makes her appear more exciting in my eyes. And the guy made a good impression on me: nice, friendly, sincere - and I think he would be considered nice-looking.

@TomNook. 11 ай бұрын

the problem is that most women don't find most men attractive. And of the minority of attractive men, they also need to have some charm on the date. Therefore the "spark" that women are looking for on dates is quite rare.

@portman8909 11 ай бұрын

True af dude. I've near enough given up on this whole fad. Escorts are the way to go.@@TomNook.

@SoulOutWusic 11 ай бұрын

Her sound YIKES!

@laurastuart3814 4 ай бұрын

Dreadful isn't it.

@rhiannonhooper 11 ай бұрын

Cosmopolitician is the cutest thing I heard since a Long Island ice tea lol

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

lol

@JamesCraigWhoop 11 ай бұрын

I never understood someone saying they would not consider dating someone from their own race. Just seems odd to me.

@mirabella2154 11 ай бұрын

Not really odd when you know exactly the cultural specifications and don't agree with them.

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

She ashamed of herself

@Smallmanbigworld1 11 ай бұрын

Didn't she more imply it was an attraction thing? Slightly different as everyone has physical preferences.

@kbrodie3677 11 ай бұрын

Internalized racism is a real thing

@leigh7507 11 ай бұрын

They're often expected to be subservient to the man. Western ideals are more equal.

@MamawithAtude-ib4em 11 ай бұрын

I actually found the name "cosmopolitician" instead of a straight up Cosmopolitan a great name for a new drink! Bartenders, Vodka companies: Get on top of that!

@patrickwilson183 10 ай бұрын

Come off it

@pepper1188 11 ай бұрын

Thought they were both older....

@OriginalBigThing 11 ай бұрын

❤ the way he’s pink to beet red after realizing what pole dancing is…

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents are a bad thing and short men are no good

@jennifergirling6850 Ай бұрын

Been single his whole life yet not even classed as an adult till 21. 😂

@emeralddreamscapes 4 ай бұрын

Artists and engineers go really well together when they have other things in common.

@metime4325 4 ай бұрын

He's a Spiderman !

@craiglewis4357 11 ай бұрын

I really liked the way they ended there date night.👍👍👍👍👍

@aron.gortman 11 ай бұрын

Homonym master man.

@teyemanon1970 11 ай бұрын

She sounds like Stewie from Family Guy.

@PBWK 11 ай бұрын

Ugh I hope she gets rid of that vocal fry by age 30.

@adriana.ostfriesland 5 ай бұрын

Super annoying right!

@laurastuart3814 4 ай бұрын

Dire isn't it.

@Turnpost2552 21 күн бұрын

19 is like right out the womb.

@portman8909 11 ай бұрын

Sort of can't believe I'm 2 years older than this lad. My excuse for no dates thus far is I'm a munter.

@mirabella2154 11 ай бұрын

Stop telling yourself that.

@nelamukbang3357 8 ай бұрын

He's got alot to learn 🤦‍♀️, Men if you want to be a gentleman, then pay for the bill!

@BunkerWise215 6 ай бұрын

Unless you're date is a back alley sally

@CurseTheDarkness Ай бұрын

Amen.

@coradallinga6349 6 ай бұрын

OMG!!! She is so annoying. just listening to het talk. Can you imagine waking up to that voice

@user-sl4cd2sz5l 2 ай бұрын

Pole dancing is fun. I've done it ❤😂❤😂

@dynamicforce8051 11 ай бұрын

Cosmopolitician??😳

@labbie1148 11 ай бұрын

i think she just meant a cosmo

@kaputfretudy 11 ай бұрын

Both have clearly had sheltered upbringings, and came across as slightly wet behind the ears in dating terms. Perhaps they were too similar.

@Deranged-Lemonade-Stand 11 ай бұрын

Ha, they judge me with one glance. Pretty much over within a second due to their misrepresentation of me.

@MissMilly321 11 ай бұрын

dude ofc he gonna judge you if you say stuff like that. Just say with confidence 'i do pole dance'' And you probably will less likely judge.

@labbie1148 11 ай бұрын

is there ever gonna be successful nz date??

@lauradelaney5457 11 ай бұрын

Trying to figure out if it’s worse than the Canadian version

@freen773 11 ай бұрын

What’s the thing with pole dancing. Don’t really get what the issue is. I mean she’s not a stripper

@josealejandroizarodriguez3782 11 ай бұрын

right! the fact that she says "you're gonna judge me for this", means she's not totally confident and might herself even judge that... just be casual and proud of your Hobby 😎

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

Like a guy running naked on the street to stay fit. Totally cool yea? Nothing wrong with staying fit 🙄

@jennifermae134 11 ай бұрын

@@avo6198what a ridiculous comparison 😅

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

@@jennifermae134 I know :D I wouldnt make this ridiculous comparison if some people actually didn't have ridiculous thinking. Just comparing apples to apples here

@freen773 11 ай бұрын

@@avo6198 you do realise pole dancing as a sport is more discreet than what you’d see at a strip club? Well at least normally

@davidmorley5430 11 ай бұрын

Does the NZ version only feature young people? The UK version has a wider age range and is far more interesting than akward teenagers.

@hulitonuras4177 11 ай бұрын

Bro's an atheist but still looks down on pole dancers 😂

@ENFPerspectives 11 ай бұрын

🙌🏽🙌🏽

@7somekindofsomething 10 ай бұрын

Where’s the connection between these two views?..

@speedythings7396 9 ай бұрын

As if atheists can't be conservatives. Most intelligent westoid

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

thats a good point, but being a non-believer and still have morals, self-respect, principles and knowing what you want in your future wife/mother to children does not mean you have to be a believer.. can still have class without believing

@itslikethesamebutdifferent8020 7 ай бұрын

This just in- atheists look down on religious people.

@plus7560 11 ай бұрын

"Not as tall as I would have imagined"😅 When I tell my parents how my date with someone was, I've never said something about their heights tho. I feel bad for him.

@Random_Blip 11 ай бұрын

And she doesn't want him to judge her.

@pleun315 11 ай бұрын

@@Random_Blip😂😂

@MaverickLee11 9 ай бұрын

lol! yes ! @@Random_Blip

@susank2463 2 ай бұрын

He likes that she rebels, but wait until he has kids, he won't like it then.

@tracyleekley1353 11 ай бұрын

Chick - this is a well-accepted form of dancing in the U.S., and I imagine internationally; She is being way way too dramatic over it;

@terminallyonline280 11 ай бұрын

wild child

@tpartisupporter 11 ай бұрын

She is adorable, friendly and sweet, needs a more exciting guy.

@ivanleon6164 8 ай бұрын

seems she is exploring that with the pole dance classes, lol.

@darkerbinding6933 10 ай бұрын

Too bad, they both needed to relax and just let it happen.

@pleun315 11 ай бұрын

Yep, great match, have a lot in common...... ------🤪-------💥🔫

@tracyleekley1353 11 ай бұрын

Pole - dancing "as a form of living" is a different animal. Even so, one can make a very good living doing POLE - DANCING.

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

it was a massive red flag, young man was wiser than people assume he is

@patrickwilson183 10 ай бұрын

I will be honest. They both seemed to be much older than their age. I wouldve said he was closer to 30!!!

@junelee5975 11 ай бұрын

friendship can develop into love too

@sabbottart 11 ай бұрын

Friend Zone! Buh-bye.

@CanMoose 5 ай бұрын

I wouldn't want my daughters dating any guy who doesn't pay the WHOLE bill!

@LMLification 5 ай бұрын

Oh, saw it. She insisted on splitting the check. Probably because she was not really interested in him.

@CanMoose 5 ай бұрын

@@LMLification could be, but I still think the man should pay. I'm old though, but when I was young that was the way it went down.

@LMLification 5 ай бұрын

@@CanMoose I see. Yeah, times are changing. When I was dating Northern Europeans and some from Germany, they insisted on going Dutch. In most other cases, the man paid.

@CanMoose 5 ай бұрын

@@LMLification yeah, times have sure changed alright...sigh

@LMLification 5 ай бұрын

@@CanMoose Yeah, on occasion, I have even seen some women pay the entire check.😲

@naomimeyers84 11 ай бұрын

Cosmopolitician, as per the Urban Dictionary: A drunk who thinks he knows everything, specifically, one who has a few drinks, and then thinks he or she knows the solution to all the world's problems. So did the bartender just make a cosmo and leave it at that? LOL... She's not into non - believers, has strict parents, and likes to pole dance.... lol... what? Oh to be 19 again.

@michelleroselilley4637 11 ай бұрын

Does it make you feel better about yourself judging a 19 year old?

@naomimeyers84 11 ай бұрын

@@michelleroselilley4637 LOL... well, I mean you seem to feel better about yourself judging me.

@michelleroselilley4637 11 ай бұрын

@@naomimeyers84 My comment points to the fact and asks a rhetorical question. Your first comment is bias and your second comment is a baseless claim. Reflection of oneself is a way of learning to be better rather than bitter... no matter your age it is not too late. Best of luck.

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

amazing comment

@mikepwillis88 11 ай бұрын

I really don't think he understood what the poll dancing class was. It's literally a womens fitness class. He looked very shocked by that.

@Frombie_01 11 ай бұрын

Wrong 'pole'.

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

she belongs to the street!

@tankiebot704 11 ай бұрын

No its not lol

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

I love how you tried to rationalize that, its a massive red flag, unless its in the privacy of her own home

@CurseTheDarkness Ай бұрын

Women in America go with their friends to classes.

@j.t.1086 6 ай бұрын

She pole dances for money or at pole dancing classes? Two completely different things

@dynamicforce8051 10 ай бұрын

I’ll hit you up on Facebook some time 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ccc4102 4 ай бұрын

Pole Dance is a completely different to Pole Sport. They are trying to get Pole Sport into the Olympics. There's no 6 inch heels and you have to be super fit. BIG difference.

@Watchmeplay-ui9zj Ай бұрын

Dafuk orders a cosmopolitan/cosmopolitician anymore? Satc hasn’t been on TV for 2 decades.

@jasonbasham1993 5 ай бұрын

Run!!! Sorry, not sorry. Too much attention for the wrong reasons.

@HliasPsinakis 11 ай бұрын

Judging him for being short ✅ Judging her for being a stripper ❌ Feminism 2023 in a nutshell.

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

the short thing is very feministic, but the pole dancing is called morals.. she is 19!

@TomNook. 11 ай бұрын

8:38 "let's split the bill" "Sure" ... Either my man was being a total engineer and taking her completely literally, or he has more game than he realises, found out early on that she wasn't giving him that "I want you" vibes, and wisely cut his losses.

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

props to that bro

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

you damn sure there, he wiser than people assume he is

@CurseTheDarkness Ай бұрын

Even if she’s not into you - he should have paid it.

@suejowell 11 ай бұрын

She is amazing. He must be mad. Sexual preference cannot be judged

@tankiebot704 11 ай бұрын

She's nothing special.

@aron.gortman 11 ай бұрын

Misandrist in the house.

@speedythings7396 9 ай бұрын

Average Misandrist Argument

@MaverickLee11 8 ай бұрын

he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents are a bad thing and short men are no good.. he wiser than people assume he is

@chrisw6337 10 ай бұрын

If this was good conversation and a good time, give some paint to watch drying and we’ll really have a blow out night. What has happened that makes conversation between two apparently intelligent people a shattered salad of stumbling cliches and stiffness.

@jack1d1XB 7 ай бұрын

So, the Judge, judges a suspected Judge, huh sounds rather assuming and that I JUDGE to be rather impetuous and ignorant!

@tracyleekley1353 11 ай бұрын

Am so bugged by female expectations of: I desire a man of 6/2- 6/6 (unRealistic Expectations). Unless u are in Northern Europe where all ppl are over 5/11.

@speedythings7396 9 ай бұрын

Damn, a woman criticising a woman. They might label you of having "Internalised Misogyny"

@genebigs1749 11 ай бұрын

She could do much better. He's about as exciting as watching paint dry, and she's a cutie.

@speedythings7396 9 ай бұрын

He can too.

@ShizukaRose 11 ай бұрын

They both seem really old.

@Turnpost2552 21 күн бұрын

That girls totally put that pole dancing thing as a bait. Like no guys likes that sht why would anyone be excited by that sort of thing.

@silverdale3207 11 ай бұрын

Wish young women would lose the vocal fry .

@LordBattleSmurf 11 ай бұрын

I like it because its a good red flag indicator. Nose piercing is another good indicator of a crazy/ promiscuous woman

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

@@LordBattleSmurf yupyup. them piercing, bunch of tats, choke chains... we know what they mean. recreational use only lmao

@SpanishCultureinKerala 11 ай бұрын

@@LordBattleSmurfNot always is an Indian custom nosepiercing

@laurastuart3814 4 ай бұрын

Terrible case of vocal fry. Unbearable to listen to.

@ShizukaRose 11 ай бұрын

A lot of incels in the comment section.

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

Like u?

@cbeautifulworld11 11 ай бұрын

@ShizukaRose the misogynistic minions enable each other here. It's the closest they'll ever get to a date.

@sophiewelsh8619 11 ай бұрын

I've noticed that in a lot of videos on this channel, tbh. Not sure why they tend to hang out here.

@cbeautifulworld11 11 ай бұрын

@sophiewelsh8619 it didn't used to be this way, it started about six months ago, maybe more. It used to be fun but that group has pretty much destroyed the life of this channel. Tons of viewers have left because of them. It's just not fun anymore.

@GraceH81 10 ай бұрын

I was so hoping that someone else noticed that, too! It's so vomit inducing reading all of these 'WHATEVER' and 'Tate' groupie comments. 😂🤦‍♀️

@sportsman4545 6 ай бұрын

I thought she was lovely. He was an idiot not to ask her out. He should have been a man and paid for the dinner. He didn't reach for the bill. He never leaned into her.

@tankiebot704 11 ай бұрын

Good on him, she's meh and the pole dancing is a red flag.

@Peteristrate 11 ай бұрын

Pole dancing, huge red flag. He dodged a bullet, made the right choice as a smart man that he is. No wonder her parents do not approve of her "hobby".

@hilberryable 11 ай бұрын

Some women do pole dancing as exercise. It does not mean that she does it for money for men to sit and gawk at her.

@mirabella2154 11 ай бұрын

Any normal person associates Pole dancing with prostitution. If you are into exercises there are plenty of other more suitable ways.

@sigma8995 11 ай бұрын

@@mirabella2154 well said.

@avo6198 11 ай бұрын

@hillberryable yea sure. Just like that creepy guy running around groping girls at the park. He’s staying fit so it dont matter how he does it right? Totally normal

@hilberryable 11 ай бұрын

Refer to @mirabella2154 comment who said it was normal.@@avo6198. I did NOT say it was normal anywhere in my comments. Thank you.

@junelee5975 11 ай бұрын

if you are not interested in ur own race, don't expect other race ppl to like you as well.