ഇപ്പോൾ 28 വയസ്സ്. വിവാഹം കഴിഞ്ഞിട്ടില്ല. പാചകം ഒഴികെ വീട്ടിലെ മറ്റെല്ലാ ജോലിയും ചെയ്യാറുണ്ട്. ഇതുവരെ 3 കുട്ടികളെ അവരുടെ 4 വയസ്സു വരെ നോക്കാനും പറ്റിയിട്ടുണ്ട് ( its more than baby sitting ). കുട്ടികളെ കുറിച്ചും പാരന്റിങ് നെക്കുറിച്ചും ഒരുപാട് കാര്യങ്ങൾ മനസിലാക്കാൻ പറ്റി അനുഭവങ്ങളിലൂടെ. ഇപ്പോഴും പുതിയ പുതിയ കാര്യങ്ങൾ പഠിച്ചു കൊണ്ടിക്കുന്നു.
@chiruthachiru2100 Жыл бұрын
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@anoopanu7327 Жыл бұрын
അറിവിൽ നേക്കാൾ തിരിച്ചറിവ് തരുന്നത്തിനു🙏
@ajipet11 ай бұрын
I am single dad of teen and tween girls. I work full time, cook, clean and manage the house. Not impossible for men to do it. Not easy, but doable.
@deeparahul2697 Жыл бұрын
Good content ❤️ & the way you presented it in a nice way🤗
@lithathilakan6657 Жыл бұрын
So relatable ❤.. After having twins, my husband had a span by himself with friends here in usa. He learnt from all of their cooking styles and from my mil over phone. Now he takes pride in cooking for guests whoever visits us. I take pride in cooking healthy meal for my family 😊. We both have our own days of anxiety. we open it up and then partner steps in a bit more. My only guilt is morning waking up time. He knows I am taking baby steps to improve
@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Жыл бұрын
Aren't we all work in progress ❤️
@adhithyans815011 ай бұрын
5:55: no marriage.pinne vtl enth job anu ullath.earn 1 million salary order food or go hotel.
@priyankan7604 Жыл бұрын
Although a lot of points are valid, i think this is also quite over simplified. Some men just choose not to contribute at home. There's no arguing, discussing or cajoling or begging that can get them to do it. One cant simply say stop mothering tour husband and he'll grow up. What of he doesnt think growing up includes learning to contribute at home? What if he thinks financial contributions from his end is all thats required and anything more is expecting a little too much from him? Contribution to household chores is not just about supporting your partner, its about working as a team, growing and learning together, growing closer with every cup of tea you make for your partner. Hiring househelp is a solution but that doesnt give you the knowledge or confidence thatjust knowing that you and your partner alone can take on a world of responsibility, any outside help or not.
@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly why I told such men too don't have references to know what to do, how to do etc.. I don't believe in simply blaming them for what they haven't seen or experienced. With joint effort everyone just learns how to split tasks equally at home.
@gopikamurali37564 ай бұрын
Solution is to catch men young , when they are boys,teach them how to do basic chores
@su8792 Жыл бұрын
Idhile comments chilath kandille, namuk chyan patula we want to relax at home. Avaroum marula
@WorldofLP Жыл бұрын
Love all your videos ma'am 💓 well said
@aravindt.k2624 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful content mam.❤. Its so good to see u presenting the topic so clearly. Your way of presenting is very good mam. Iam a big fan of u and ir works. Wiating for your workshops in cochin. I would like to attend intimacy and relationship session. ❤ Hope there will be a workshop☺️
@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Жыл бұрын
People reading and intimacy and relationships session coming up in coimbatore, in case you understand tamil. In cochin sex ed workshop for parents will come up. Relationship workshops, I'm not sure about the demand. In coimbatore, Chennai and bangalore the demand is really high.
@aravindt.k2624 Жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 ys i know mam. In cochin the demand is very low. But I am in cochin and currently iam working. I only have leave on Sundays. Anyways if the sessions are on weekend then will try to attend. And by the way I am a Tamil Brahmin so no probs in language. I would like to hear u in Malayalam as our Tamil slang is different but still I am able to understand Tamil. Anyways hope someday I can meet u in cochin ❤️👍
Open discussion nadakkathavarkku enthegilum option undo?
@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Жыл бұрын
Evaluate why the relationship isn't working.
@athirakvish Жыл бұрын
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@609neo5 ай бұрын
Just get a goddamn dishwasher and a robo vac. If financial situation doesn't allow that keep egos aside and work as a team to rise out of the poverty pit. End of story. A house divided among themselves will not stand, let alone prosper.
@aswathysr5710 Жыл бұрын
Last paranjath correct aanu.. Ente hus enne kond ellam cheyyuppikkum.. But njn ith expect cheyth alla vannath.. That mothering thing pulli enne padippikkuanu.. Kitchenil onnum help cheyila😮😮😮😮😮😮
@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Жыл бұрын
Slowly get him to chop veggies etc at times... If he's totally not keen in kitchen activities, there's plenty of household chores that one can do.
@aswathysr5710 Жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 ok dear Thankyou 🥰🥰
@sinivishnu6802 Жыл бұрын
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@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Жыл бұрын
Lactation care counselor course. Course details on nourish and nurture website.