Oof, this is hitting too close to home. My parents definitely bottle up their emotions with each other and that led to me growing up in a home where there was no healthy time to cry, so it was always in my room or in the shower. Annoyingly, it led to tears being a part of my anger response where if I get too mad, I start to tear up. That can't be healthy. :/

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I just find out for me crying is the bestest method to control my anxious moments. Cry n cry cry. After that my brain and whole my body ready to access what need to. Am so happy that I could relate and find my methodology is fine. Love♥️

Whatever you said is 100% true. Even I do cry alone for sometime whenever I feel to . Last day, I shared my emotions with my close ones. Most of them were too critical coz they see me happy always. But only one person reacted in a nice way . Just like u said, acknowledged my sadness. That's the moment I felt that someone accepted me like a human being who has other emotions too rather than being happy or outspoken . After a lot of crying and talking, I realized that I went to psycho mode when I was sad and apologized .This person said that it was absolutely fine. I feel really grateful 😊 Sometimes, the advice "I have gone through worse things", be positive etc really irritates as we sometimes long to be heard

Etharam oru video yude aavasyam enikk undayirunnu. Thanks

Unfortunately, validating feelings is something that is not prevalent in our culture.

but its very irritatinbg when parents keep on stalking to know each second, our emotion..... like stalking... its very traumatic after being it in 25 yrs...

Mam I'm 19yr old girl..nte vtl karanjaalum ochatil chirichaalum samsarichaalum okke valya preshnm aan..and being a girl i get a lot of slut shaming from my parents and body shaming as well..njn medical entrance nu prepare cheyuaan..but I'm not at all interested..Nku oru dance crew start cheynm .. world wide stage shows cheynm ..atokke aan nte aagrahm..but my parents won't allow ..12th kazhinj psychology padiknm enn indaarnu..coz psychology Nku sherikum ishtamulloru field aan..but the priority is always towards dance..I'm really proud of myself coz I know how gradually was my journey towards achieving my dreams which may seem very small to others..my mom has said that as parents they've never felt proud of you..i was quite scoring student in school days..so my parents had a lot of expections from .not only from parents .. relatives, society and pier pressure haunts me like hell..I've done a lot of mistakes as a child..and i didn't admit that it was wrong infront of my parents.. society ntu karitum enn allaand they did not had any other reasons to give..so i went to take solution. I thought I'll seek help from psychologist..i went to ३-५ councillors and psychologists .. but all of them were supporting the society..even they didn't had an answer..i was quite emotional while sharing my problem..but everyone including the psychologist were judging me and criticising me for crying.. they're not able to understand what my problem is and can't give solution..they did give me the solution but i couldn't accept it..my final try is to seek help from you mam...cox I'm going through very bad phase..at times i feel to go and die..but I'm sure I have a lot of dreams..I'm struggling from my childhood not to quit..i wanna break the ceiling and fly and acheive my dream..i hope you could help me..

This is what i was searching for.. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️. Thank you mam

This is really important.. Thankyou Swathi mam🌼

Very nice👍 Loved it❤️❤️ Everything you have said is correct

Yes- embrace all emotions! Until I had my daughter and started following gentle parenting, I believed dismissing feelings is the way to cope with them. But I'm glad I could unlearn such beliefs as a parent.

which is the school where maya goes?. can anybody suggest some good alternate ducation schools in india, specifically kerala

Greats thought.. Wish to know more about gentle parenting

Thank you for your information

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Thank you so much Jyoti ma'am , lots of love💕

Very informative 💯 waiting for your next video

Very good content maam.😍Lkg kids nte school morning routine very calm and gentle aakan ulla tips tharo? And how to start making them do some of his chores himself? He is very slow in morning and is a picky eater. Pls help us.

I literally had a breakdown yesterday the self loathing tendency I was trying my best to correct in myself was just gone in a split second. Is it normal in our healing journey

Can you pls make a video about the education system that should be provided to kids actually? I feel nowadays kids are too burdened with studies(in India don't know about other countries). They are not actually enjoying their childhood. I feel like that. Can you pls tell mam where is your kid studying? What kind of schools are good?

So comprehensive lecture, Thanks for the points

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Thank you so much mam for this video. It was really helpful

It's really nice 🤩

Thank you so much for your words …

Very useful content Mam, these topics are really influential and giving me a new insight about how we need to validate our kids emotions. I mostly try to deviate or tell some quick solutions when my kids are cranky or too sad. we accept their happy emotions but not able to withstand sad moments. Like you said that also need to be validated.👍

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Very informative..

So when the child cries, do parents need to keep quiet and watch? Or should we say "it's alright" while the child is crying? I ask because CIO seems very similar and that isn't gentle parenting, right?

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O my God, u said it ..... 🥺

hi maam .. can i have some way to contact you.. i dont have instagram.. i wanted to ask something ...please can you reply...

Good content ma'am.. 😊

Hi mam I would like to know about anger in kids

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Parents nu അറിയാൻ പാടില്ലായിരുന്നു to regulate their childs emotions is not an excuse to be accepted. It does irreparable damages to a person and suck out their formative years. Unfortunately, humans might be the only species who doesn't knows to nurture one's own offsprings.

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Thanks for the video. Please share max

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Engneyaa onnu contact chyukaa? no ,mail I'd ..etc anything??...Oru odukatte break up ayi 6 months munp eallam ok aavum vijarich vijarich palatilum engege aavund palatum chyund chuttum ullavrk okke nja ok aayi varund valre quick ayit eanne tonund ....but really nja ok Alla sherikum endoekyoo feel aanu tonunate ..but avrod parayan poyaa same dilog move on ..ur strong .ur doing well now .we support u that chapeter is over move on angne ulla kure dilog actually EEE dilog bore adichapol aanu njA Enate panikalil focus ayate atond avum ate palatum click ayate but nja ok Alla ipozhum. .. engneyaa onnu ok avuka enatanu nja chindikendate endoke chindichal Anu enaik sawyam Oru good feel kittuka ariyunila atond aanu ...I'm 25 yrs Oru pennu pattichu eanne veetil paranju aswsam vangikan poyaa avidennu kaliyakkal aayirikum kittuka..so atinu nilkunilla....kurach engilim EEE emotions karayagalum okke valre real ayit parayunate minum mansilavunna oralod parayanm tonunnud. onnu help chyyuoo pls .or make a video or do something. Related to this ......eanik avidennu purth varan patunnilla atanu avsta porataininte avrod deshyam assooya angne paranjal commedy tonunna palatum ..atunakel avre ipozhum pala time il eanik ishtavum tonunnu ..Endo Oru avsta aanu ite .enaik Tanne alkrod parayan Oru mosham tonunnu alkr chirkum itoke vayichit engilim comment chyuka aanu. .Enate Oru kastam

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