Are you comfortable with tough emotions ? do you express it ? or hide it ? also if someone else expresses their tough emotions do you get into solution mode or do you let them process it ? watch to learn more...
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@chaosfire3212 жыл бұрын
Oof, this is hitting too close to home. My parents definitely bottle up their emotions with each other and that led to me growing up in a home where there was no healthy time to cry, so it was always in my room or in the shower. Annoyingly, it led to tears being a part of my anger response where if I get too mad, I start to tear up. That can't be healthy. :/
@bipinramesh3332 жыл бұрын
കുറച്ചെങ്കിലും മലയാളി ആയതിൽ proud തോന്നുന്നത് നിങ്ങളെ പോലെ ഉള്ള കുറച്ച് പേര് പങ്കുവെക്കുന്ന അറിവ് കിട്ടുമ്പോഴാണ്..... Thankyouu💓
@parvathym76692 жыл бұрын
Exactly 😊
@keerthyar4912 жыл бұрын
I just find out for me crying is the bestest method to control my anxious moments. Cry n cry cry. After that my brain and whole my body ready to access what need to. Am so happy that I could relate and find my methodology is fine. Love♥️
@evanahannah28952 жыл бұрын
Whatever you said is 100% true. Even I do cry alone for sometime whenever I feel to . Last day, I shared my emotions with my close ones. Most of them were too critical coz they see me happy always. But only one person reacted in a nice way . Just like u said, acknowledged my sadness. That's the moment I felt that someone accepted me like a human being who has other emotions too rather than being happy or outspoken . After a lot of crying and talking, I realized that I went to psycho mode when I was sad and apologized .This person said that it was absolutely fine. I feel really grateful 😊 Sometimes, the advice "I have gone through worse things", be positive etc really irritates as we sometimes long to be heard
@devanandars21762 жыл бұрын
Etharam oru video yude aavasyam enikk undayirunnu. Thanks
@whatsinaname5712 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, validating feelings is something that is not prevalent in our culture.
@travels96532 жыл бұрын
but its very irritatinbg when parents keep on stalking to know each second, our emotion..... like stalking... its very traumatic after being it in 25 yrs...
@nandu59662 жыл бұрын
Mam I'm 19yr old girl..nte vtl karanjaalum ochatil chirichaalum samsarichaalum okke valya preshnm aan..and being a girl i get a lot of slut shaming from my parents and body shaming as well..njn medical entrance nu prepare cheyuaan..but I'm not at all interested..Nku oru dance crew start cheynm .. world wide stage shows cheynm ..atokke aan nte aagrahm..but my parents won't allow ..12th kazhinj psychology padiknm enn indaarnu..coz psychology Nku sherikum ishtamulloru field aan..but the priority is always towards dance..I'm really proud of myself coz I know how gradually was my journey towards achieving my dreams which may seem very small to others..my mom has said that as parents they've never felt proud of you..i was quite scoring student in school days..so my parents had a lot of expections from .not only from parents .. relatives, society and pier pressure haunts me like hell..I've done a lot of mistakes as a child..and i didn't admit that it was wrong infront of my parents.. society ntu karitum enn allaand they did not had any other reasons to give..so i went to take solution. I thought I'll seek help from psychologist..i went to ३-५ councillors and psychologists .. but all of them were supporting the society..even they didn't had an answer..i was quite emotional while sharing my problem..but everyone including the psychologist were judging me and criticising me for crying.. they're not able to understand what my problem is and can't give solution..they did give me the solution but i couldn't accept it..my final try is to seek help from you mam...cox I'm going through very bad phase..at times i feel to go and die..but I'm sure I have a lot of dreams..I'm struggling from my childhood not to quit..i wanna break the ceiling and fly and acheive my dream..i hope you could help me..
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
Watch all my videos. Especially the ones titled hitting my child, and love or force.
@jasminekrupajose2 жыл бұрын
Hey sis.... I can feel you💕🫂 Don't quit... Just fight for your dreams....❤️ I know how hard is your situation.... After achieving your dreams, Finally your family will admitt u and they will proud about u..... 🫂🫂🫂 Don't be tensed Just go ahead Your emotions are valid.... I can understand u 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 Moreover I can feel ur emotions❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@nandu59662 жыл бұрын
@@jasminekrupajose thank you 😊♥️
@jasminekrupajose2 жыл бұрын
@@nandu5966 No mention dear❤️ It's my pleasure... Take your time 🫂🫂
@harikuttan1028 Жыл бұрын
Fly high buddy. Don't let the society tarnish your dreams❤
@aysaisu2 жыл бұрын
This is what i was searching for.. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️. Thank you mam
@athipournami67262 жыл бұрын
This is really important.. Thankyou Swathi mam🌼
@elinmaryroy247 Жыл бұрын
Very nice👍 Loved it❤️❤️ Everything you have said is correct
@ashamathew89812 жыл бұрын
Yes- embrace all emotions! Until I had my daughter and started following gentle parenting, I believed dismissing feelings is the way to cope with them. But I'm glad I could unlearn such beliefs as a parent.
@hansafiroz6437 Жыл бұрын
which is the school where maya goes?. can anybody suggest some good alternate ducation schools in india, specifically kerala
@fasalf2 жыл бұрын
Greats thought.. Wish to know more about gentle parenting
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
There's a video titled hitting children, 4 tips for parenting, missing my child etc on this topic
@vishakhcs1403 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your information
@aiswaryar.krishnan72714 ай бұрын
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@kavyanair39502 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jyoti ma'am , lots of love💕
@StickSomeBooks2 жыл бұрын
Very informative 💯 waiting for your next video
@sums85392 жыл бұрын
Very good content maam.😍Lkg kids nte school morning routine very calm and gentle aakan ulla tips tharo? And how to start making them do some of his chores himself? He is very slow in morning and is a picky eater. Pls help us.
@anjaliv952 жыл бұрын
I literally had a breakdown yesterday the self loathing tendency I was trying my best to correct in myself was just gone in a split second. Is it normal in our healing journey
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
Yes.. Healing doesn't mean one fine day we won't experience any sad emotions.
@giftycv5280 Жыл бұрын
Can you pls make a video about the education system that should be provided to kids actually? I feel nowadays kids are too burdened with studies(in India don't know about other countries). They are not actually enjoying their childhood. I feel like that. Can you pls tell mam where is your kid studying? What kind of schools are good?
@fahismuhammed85652 жыл бұрын
So comprehensive lecture, Thanks for the points
@zionsystems4742 Жыл бұрын
Very helpful... 👍🏻
@sandrasanthosh1326 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much mam for this video. It was really helpful
@primestick2089 Жыл бұрын
It's really nice 🤩
@manishakaryat8797 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your words …
@giftycv5280 Жыл бұрын
Very useful content Mam, these topics are really influential and giving me a new insight about how we need to validate our kids emotions. I mostly try to deviate or tell some quick solutions when my kids are cranky or too sad. we accept their happy emotions but not able to withstand sad moments. Like you said that also need to be validated.👍
@abhilash.k11622 жыл бұрын
Thank u Swathi ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
@blissworld14482 жыл бұрын
Very informative..
@whatsinaname5712 жыл бұрын
So when the child cries, do parents need to keep quiet and watch? Or should we say "it's alright" while the child is crying? I ask because CIO seems very similar and that isn't gentle parenting, right?
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
Gentle parenting and cio are opposite to each other. Watch my video on hitting kids to know more.
@whatsinaname5712 жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 When Maya cried for 45 mins, did you keep quiet and just be with her or did you talk to her ? If so, what did you talk? Cos if you keep silent, then it means you are letting her cry it out , right? I have watched your video on GP :)
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
@@whatsinaname571 no listening and supporting a person's emotional outburst is not CIO. read the books i have suggested on the gentle parenting video (hitting children is the title)
@dhanyarajagopal89672 жыл бұрын
Thank you mam ❤️❤️
@aishwaryanr40722 жыл бұрын
O my God, u said it ..... 🥺
@nambringoody14862 жыл бұрын
hi maam .. can i have some way to contact you.. i dont have instagram.. i wanted to ask something ...please can you reply...
@ajeesh80972 жыл бұрын
Good content ma'am.. 😊
@Vishnupriya16912 жыл бұрын
Hi mam I would like to know about anger in kids
@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Жыл бұрын
Latest video!
@prince1995moh Жыл бұрын
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@akhilbs96252 жыл бұрын
Parents nu അറിയാൻ പാടില്ലായിരുന്നു to regulate their childs emotions is not an excuse to be accepted. It does irreparable damages to a person and suck out their formative years. Unfortunately, humans might be the only species who doesn't knows to nurture one's own offsprings.
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
It's not an excuse to make children feel traumatised but if one knew something one would have done it. So we can't help but realise they didn't know it.
@Biniyp2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@malcolmx16072 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. Please share max
@anniegracias55822 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@sirajulmunee Жыл бұрын
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@aswathyadarsh71342 жыл бұрын
Welcome mam😘😘😘💕💕💕💕
@goodsoul772 жыл бұрын
Psychology padichett indo.?
@anagh_prasad Жыл бұрын
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@doctorcoding2 жыл бұрын
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@binuben51352 жыл бұрын
താങ്കളുടെ വീഡിയോ വളരെ ഉപകാരപ്രദം ആണ് പക്ഷേ പറയുന്നതിൽ ക്ഷമിക്കുക മലയാളം കുറച്ചു കൂടി നല്ല രീതിയിൽ ഉൾപെടുത്തിയാൽ നന്നായിരുന്നു
@mayasamma-malayalam46662 жыл бұрын
athreyum malayalame ariyathollu.
@binuben51352 жыл бұрын
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@sumioommen97052 жыл бұрын
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@ingenious5523 Жыл бұрын
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@prajithpraji78072 жыл бұрын
Engneyaa onnu contact chyukaa? no ,mail I'd ..etc anything??...Oru odukatte break up ayi 6 months munp eallam ok aavum vijarich vijarich palatilum engege aavund palatum chyund chuttum ullavrk okke nja ok aayi varund valre quick ayit eanne tonund ....but really nja ok Alla sherikum endoekyoo feel aanu tonunate ..but avrod parayan poyaa same dilog move on ..ur strong .ur doing well now .we support u that chapeter is over move on angne ulla kure dilog actually EEE dilog bore adichapol aanu njA Enate panikalil focus ayate atond avum ate palatum click ayate but nja ok Alla ipozhum. .. engneyaa onnu ok avuka enatanu nja chindikendate endoke chindichal Anu enaik sawyam Oru good feel kittuka ariyunila atond aanu ...I'm 25 yrs Oru pennu pattichu eanne veetil paranju aswsam vangikan poyaa avidennu kaliyakkal aayirikum kittuka..so atinu nilkunilla....kurach engilim EEE emotions karayagalum okke valre real ayit parayunate minum mansilavunna oralod parayanm tonunnud. onnu help chyyuoo pls .or make a video or do something. Related to this ......eanik avidennu purth varan patunnilla atanu avsta porataininte avrod deshyam assooya angne paranjal commedy tonunna palatum ..atunakel avre ipozhum pala time il eanik ishtavum tonunnu ..Endo Oru avsta aanu ite .enaik Tanne alkrod parayan Oru mosham tonunnu alkr chirkum itoke vayichit engilim comment chyuka aanu. .Enate Oru kastam
@gokulkrishna34932 жыл бұрын
Time edkum, and Whatever you’re feeling right now will change maybe it’ll take 1 or 2 years , me personally is going through the same , but we’ve to focus on ourself Whatever happened happened and there’s nothing you can do to change it , only way is to accept it and acceptance would take a hell lot of time , take baby steps , little by little you’ll be okay and it’s okay to feel sad , alone , lonely , depressed feel everything you want to feel , we’ll only be healed of suffering when we experience it to the fullest. Good luck to you mate you’re not alone We’ll get through this storm one way or another