😂😂😂 So true!!! 😂😂😂

They chose the bad boy to get pregnant and the good men got skipped because he's boring.

😂😂😂

Facts

Hello!!! Exactly

😂😂😂 So true!!! And what’s even more amazing is that she puts all of her personal flaws on a public platform!!! 😂😂😂

My thing is have those standards when you don’t have a child 🤣🤣not after the kid is born.

Step up you simps and make her whole. She is natural😍

But I find amazing is these women raise their standards that's like putting a car on the market for a higher price after it's been in an accident and racked up mileage

@@shonuffizhere5670 that ain’t my job

Good advice, you would always be number two. If she has a dog, you’d never be more than number three.

U can date them. Just don’t take them seriously

​@@thesupervisor3270never date or invest money with these selfish women

Real facts

@@kingjamesmayo8232 definitely

my mom, had 6 pregnancies and 4 children, myself being the 4th, with a narcissistic alcoholic husband. My dad told her after child 3, my brother, he didn't want to have more kids. My mom in her eternal selfishness had me anyway and subjected me to the same abuse, chaos and dysfunction the other 3 were subjected to. Sounds like so many selfish women, never thinking about anything but themselves....not even their children, just like the sky waitress. Had a kid too early, now the kid has to pay for it, while mom is absent 50% of the time, being a flight attendant

Most women don't actually give two shits about their children. Women make children, men raise them.

Me, I'm trying to understand how she cares for a child while being a flight attendant. Isn't she out of town half of her life? How does that work?

Well she doesn’t care about harming her child, she’s selfish remember

She’s too worry about “ having a hot girl summer”

Because you gotta cut that BS at the source

@Dominic Holloway A lot of people get angry when they hear the term "leftovers" and when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing. And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.

@@calogerocapicchioni6554 once you crush that fairy tale story that’s when all hell break loose

@@Stackem901 When you say "crush the fairy" what do you mean? I'm not really understanding the reference.

Man shut the front door I’m laughing at work 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

@MisterB A lot of people get angry when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." But, if the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) that came out of him would have to be a mistake too. Because if she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant, and given birth to one of his seeds, and then... there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it's indirectly saying that the child is a mistake without actually coming out and directly having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire situation. The only reason why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, people would have no problem with calling their bd/bm a mistake without feeling bad about it. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and there'e really no getting around it or trying to separate it from that choice/outcome/baby daddy. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. It's word semantics and sugarcoating to "pretty it up". But you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, my apple is a blessing that came from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? If the apple seed was a mistake, the apple itself wouldn't exist? It would be like a Christian saying they love Jesus, but they have hatred for God and the virgin Mary? It's like a Muslim saying they love the Quran, but hate Muhammad? If you get my drift... Honestly, the kid is the only true victim. And it might sound messed up, but the child is only going to be the collateral damage of that decision and will feel the burn of it.

Exactly. No way a flight attendant can raise a kid on their own it’s too much travel time

Flight attendants get it in too! Probably got a few different dudes in different states too 🤦🏾‍♂️

Selfish and children don't mix.

@@jamalmatthews4854 Appreciate it bro! I'm not even trying to be mean, but it has always sounded like they are trying to rationalize something that can't be rationalized. I never paid much attention to the single motherhood issue and being "selfish".... until I started watching these podcasts. I've even started noticing it within my own family. Don't get me wrong. There are some extreme circumstances where a woman is forced into single motherhood. But, most of the time, it is a choice. Widows do not make up the overwhelming majority of single mothers. It's truly only a way of emotionally protecting the child. I've noticed it more from single mothers making those type of statements. They will say that their baby daddy was a mistake or a bad choice, but that the baby is a blessing. It's only because they don't want to admit that getting pregnant was a mistake and it's selfish. They don't want the child to feel unwanted or like a mistake. But, when you look at the outcome of the situation and the way they describe their baby daddy.... that's exactly what it is. You can't say that your child's father is a mistake/bad choice, but the child is a blessing. The child came out of him (literally). So, if he didn't exist, her child wouldn't exist either. So, by default... the child would also have to be a mistake. They will never say it out loud though. If you've ever heard single mothers say these types of things, they are lying and trying to sugarcoat reality and downplay how bad it is. Let me rephrase that. It's selfish to get pregnant by an unworthy man who wasn't even good enough to marry. And if the relationship was already "toxic", then what good will come from purposefully bringing a child into that type of situation? Why tie yourself to that man permanently? And deal with him for 18 years through the court system or 18 years of coparenting... with a man you consider to be a mistake? Can't make this stuff up.

That’s why they’re not called mothers! They’re called single mothers… Totally different definition.🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

She called in earlier in the show, said her age was "old enough" then ran away...not surprised by this conversation

@@dentindahousee9635 Brutal.

They are selfish. Don’t take leftovers from anyone

@@robsawyer8034 A lot of people get angry when they hear the term "leftovers" and when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing. And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? It's sad because kids are smart and when they get older, they start to piece the puzzle together for themselves (kids can also tell when you're bullsh*tting them) The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.

Law of Attraction works big time, but it takes a lot of work and discipline. These females don’t have the consistency. They are too chaotic. I used Law of Attraction to get jacked. The weights got a lot easier, and my body started to recover a lot faster. I still had to lift the weights, though.

@@truthinyan9050 I never said the LOA didn’t work. You’re missing the point. You can’t wish yourself into a positive outcome and continue the same behavior that brought you there. It’s like saying you want to lose weight but won’t exercise and change your diet. She simply created a reality distortion field around the question and wished the desired outcome would happen without taking accountability for what created the situation.

Whenever they talk about spirituality, grand rising, zodiac signs and all that other stuff, run. They only get that way after they have nothing else to connect to

@@robsawyer8034 It's scary that some women talk this way and actually believe their own lies. I see it within my own family. Whenever my female cousins talk to my mom, they always bring up their zodiac signs and try to use it to explain a man's behavior. It seems borderline crazy. It's like not living in reality.

@@forddreamsdofly546 A lot of people create deflections because they can't handle the truth. If they were forced to look at themselves and take accountability, it would hurt them. It might come off "harsh" to some people, but we choose our consequences when we make our choices based on our own free-will. Every outcome is only the domino effect of a decision that was made prior (besides situations that involve extreme circumstances).

Your selfish sounds like responsible course of action.

@@Shushkin I'm twice as old now and when you reach my age, having done the right things for yourself, you will see how the proper "selfishness" can pay off for you. You only get to be young once. Take FULL advantage of it for the better.

@Atenciosamente, Kermit 🇧🇷 I have no idea what you're trying to say here.

At 24 I was nearing my second deployment responsible for the lives of 20 soldiers. 24 isn’t young.

"Not using youth as an excuse for poor decisions and actions" is my new quote 👌

@Keenan Smith If they have to beat around the bush, they were already lying. It gives them enough time to stall because it's a defense mechanism. They don't want to admit the truth because they are living in denial. They are not operating in a world of reality.

Women love titles because they love the appearance of things. I always make the joke that I would let my job change my job to “shit eater” for a 20% raise.

@@Mike_M. as a mother it those jobs would be far more respectable for her

Whoever came up with the analogy that, "Mens minds are like waffles....womens minds are like a plate of spaghetti..."

@@Mike_M. 😂🤣😂🤣

@T Bennett Exactly. But, a lot of women with that mindset will never see it that way. Truth be told... a lot of these single mothers are too far gone to help. Because they refuse to listen and have no self-accountability. There's also a difference between being a single mother due to circumstance versus choice. (i.e. a widow would be a single mother due to circumstance). Kevin is trying to get these women to understand that by purposefully having a baby out of wedlock by an unworthy man who wasn't even good enough to marry.... it will only make her life harder (and make dating/marriage) harder as well. Because the next man who enters into that situation will be paying a higher price than the baby daddy. The man who got her pregnant was able to not only have sex with her, but she pushed out an unworthy man's seed for a man who didn't even have to wife her. Most men (with common sense) would not want to blindly enter into that type of situation with a woman who has no accountability. Because the only one who will suffer and be the collateral damage of that decision is the child. The outcome speaks volumes of how selfish it is to do such a thing. And the sad part is that some people will still try to convince themselves that "things happen" or "the situation will work itself out." It's like a defense mechanism because they are living in denial and don't want to acknowledge there reality that they are living. So, they sugarcoat it to make it sound better than what it really is.

Exactly

Modern women are children with boobs

Is 16-24 your preference?

@@myisglim7801 Why? How old are you?

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☎ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ✚𝟏𝟒𝟎𝟓𝟖𝟕𝟏𝟖𝟖𝟔𝟏✔ ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦◦◦◦◦◦◦◦◦

Crazy I was kicking with a chick like that. After talking to her a while I found out she left her whole family behind to party and run the streets. I cut her off immediately. Last I heard, she was on drugs and selling her 😺

The Godfather, Undefeated for eternity 💪

@Rob Sawyer If a lot of men stopped messing with women who have no accountability, it would be a rude awakening. They will be left dealing with their child's father and forced to accept the reality of it.

I pray I see the day. I know two dudes, both of whom love hitting on these types of women. They go for single mother's only. So I stopped hanging out with both of them.

@@reitum.9950 curious, are they wifing these women or only sleeping with them?

This is true but it's fool's gold. If loses the selfishness and doesn't see a guy who makes decent money as settling she can absolutely find someone. Women seem to know plenty of men will smash but that attention also gives them a false sense of leverage. The fact that she's saying she'll be a wife for "the right guy" says enough honestly. That almost comes off like a man that can "handle her".

I don't even think they accept leftovers they just don't mind getting sex with no commitment

@Mark-Anthony J It's like the age-old saying goes, "There's an easy way and a hard way to learn things. Some people choose to learn the hard way." I don't know why some people refuse to self-reflect. It's the only way to improve.

They deal exclusively in the realm of absurdity and illusion. Pseudo reality at best.

& their 🐦 🧠 will reinforce the and affirm the nonsense they’re up to

The only actual solution to this would literally be to take away their ability to choose to live that way.

Most come for attention or are seeking “cheat codes”. I’m starting to believe high mortality rates before modern medicine was natures way of keeping these chaos factories in check. I know it sounds horrible but like Putin; some just wanna set the world on fire, and others need the fire smacked out of them.

And she's a flight attendant I'm trying to understand how she's going to meet a man with that type of career

@@JDMHaze She's gonna fly from D 2 D !

@@mikelarry2602 most likely

Nah, it’s somehow black man’s fault. We’re broke and dusty cause of her decision’s. Let’s be real for once, it’s always a mans fault. SIKE!

@@Dee-ye2dk Yep. When has a woman today ever taken accountability for her actions or decisions?

VERY well said.

Why do women sit up here and talk to a man that does not have a relationship and has 2 failed marriages and 1 year ago had a man in his bed on his live so he is not even living or telling his own truths

@@kimpearson5733 lol go back to real-estate school. Jk but seriously keep watching and open your mind. We need strong families out here and with how you think, nothing strong will come to you.

👍 ✔ true

I had an argument today with a dear friend who told me he was dating a single mother of 2, he told me he was over that relationship. I said "that was the best thing you've done". He got kind of upset with me, but I know he'll understand in time. No man should ever consider having a serious relationship with a single mother, period (for more context, he's NEVER been married, nor has he had any significant amount of relationships, does not have children, either). The biggest issue with modern women is that they believe a man has no inherent value by himself. They think a man's real value comes after they get into a relationship with a woman - which is an absolutely insane train of thought that society in general has ingrained into women's minds.

🥺❤️

Wise

He’s dead bro

@Bryan A He already knew she was lying. It makes you wonder... what else is she lying about?

THANK YOUU!!! She already has one child talking about she wants to have 2 more ??? Mind you she has already had a child science is already against her

Facts 😂 talking about she hasn’t tried yet 😂 god damn

Ikr

She thinks she can turn this mentality on and off, just like they think their femininity can be conditional. If she's selfish now, she will be selfish in the middle of marriage once the honey moon period wears off, or anytime things aren't going the way she wants. She'll just make everything about herself cause that's all she's about. At 30, and after 6 years of being a mother, the fact that she hasn't matured to having this understanding is something else. She's not even smart enough to hide it. If you're vetting a woman, and you ask her why she waited till 32 to start dating with intention, and she tells you I had to spend the the last 2 years in a selfish phase, RUUUN! This is who she is. They don't get better, and less selfish and less demanding as they get older. Quite the opposite. Time is running out for her and she showing she has no sense or maturity. Also run from any woman talking this pie in the sky nonsense about manifesting and law of attraction. You let her into your life, she will destroy it with this crap. She'll spend all your money on designer bags and red bottoms, then when you demand she stop, she'll tell you she's going to manifest your money back, and the bag that is for her, is for her. It's her destiny. No joke. This is literally how these people conduct their lives.

Well these last 6 years been her selfish years 😭😭😭

The friends or relatives most likely at the best. Themselves at the worst but not the mother lol.

Women heal,Men rebuilt. Women are on a journey, men are on their purpose

@Kimbo Nice It's sad. A lot of women who have that mindset have no accountability. It makes life harder when certain choices are made.

Facts

I used to work for someone who's 40 and still acts immature.

25 is already too old. Very rush. Calculate in the dating years, marriage and honeymoon, she would be 30 by that time. Even 23 is too old. Ideally, 21 or below

Karma be coming 😂😂😂

That's fine until it comes to an innocent child and it affects their upbringing and mental health.

I was banging a "mental health" provider. We popped Molly and drank wine daily. I had to drop her. She had a big client base and they were mostly younger women.

Your right

They are getting free advice, so I don't think he would go into specifics...

@Max AI Agreed. I never thought about it from that perspective, but that's a good point. I've heard many women (even in my own family) say, "Do what's right for you. Live your best life. If it makes you happy, then that's all that matters." But, it can be dangerous to base all of your emotions off of this. Sometimes, the truth isn't what we want to hear, but it's what we need to hear. It seems like there's also a bit of not wanting to break "girl code."

Yea my daughter's sister in law is a therapist and she has abandonment issues, i guess that like co-therapy 🤷‍♂️

Servants of evil on a mission.

Holy shit

@Jay-all-day They're all reading from the same playbook. They think men should sign up to deal with anything. I see it within my own family. It's selfish.

@@calogerocapicchioni6554 deeper than just selfish darn right irresponsible and need a clean up man because they don't know how to make great decisions

Just like poor Joseph

Sheesh

@@ShameenYakubu this proves the old saying 100% true. Alpha seed... Beta need!!!

i disagree, i'd say 16 to 21; 25 if they don't do hookup culture. The problem is rising expectations for said potential husband through experiences with other men, and emotional imprinting. a woman at 26 is set in her ways, why would i bother with a 28 yo if i'd want to have children and have the time to get to know her, a woman would be 33 at the earliest after 5 years of relationship. They expect a ready made nest at that age, that's another issue, it's hugely disrespectful.

@@ray076NL very true

Nah they choose to ignore it. I don’t feel sorry for anyone of them.

@Johnathan Lee Agreed. It's selfish, not only toward the next man who signs up to deal with her. But, it's also selfish toward the child... who will suffer as a result of that decision. I see it within my own family, especially with older single mothers. A lot of them are not willing to have any more children, but will want to date/marry a man and expect him to raise another man's child without providing anything in return. It's truly a cycle of dysfunction.

@@ray076NLYou're looking at children purv

And there are a lot of man like that. How many men want to be educated by Kevin.

That’s the part that people like her don’t think about. There’s a man out there that’s meant for me…. And I’m going to make him wait until I’m good and ready to be with him….. AND I’m bringing someone else’s kid(s).

@@timboslice9905 😆

Cinderella was younger, childless, selfless and joyfully cleaned and acted like a lady...This chick wants to be a Fairytale's Fairytale....the Disney Delusion is real🤦🏾‍♀️

@@Cheray_ 😆

Yeah, pot meet kettle

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@themusicman2005 Exactly. I always think to myself, "If he "ain't shit" and wasn't good enough for marriage why permanently tie yourself to a man by having his seed?" Now, she will have to deal with him for 18 years through the court system or 18 years of "coparenting"

🤣🤣🤣 No Lies Detected There🤷🏿‍♂️

Reminds me of that one Calvin&Hobbes comic strip

Their thinking is like a child. Do whatever and no consequences. The want to hit the rest buttons when the game is messed up. They only care about the kids when it comes to family court.

@@kapriece Your last sentence nailed it. That and the Child tax credit.

@@luvbig41 thats why alot of their relationships with the father end, becuase they have the kid and then they want to be selfish and focus on their wants and needs rather than whats best for their family

Lmao its a great thing really . Kinda crazy when you think about it most of these women would be in the club every weekend looking for their new “king🥰😍🥵” for the next 3 months if they didn’t have a kid to look after

I agree...

As a firemen I agree

Unfortunately when a woman’s child grows up (past 5-8) years old, the mother tends to take that as a sign to get back in the streets or let’s just say her old ways. These bad ways btw are what lead to being in this situation

we know she's selfish, She's a flight attendant with a kid, unless that was her only option It's very clear she would likely choose herself

By your definition.......she is NOT a good mother. 🤔

Facts 🎯🎯🎯

Just crazy

I lived it

More truth has never been spoken. I have also lived this.

Speaking from observational experience here. Oh alot of them know damn well how selfish they are. They often know also how much damage they do to their kids, but it is me me me, me. Delusional.

@@RisingKing1024 A lot of people get angry when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing. And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. Kids are smart and piece the puzzle together, especially as they get older. They start to realize the truth and reality of how they were born and which type of situation they've been born into. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.

@@davidmiletic6647 The most damaging thing to do to a child is bring it carelessly into these types of messy situations in the 1st place. The child will only be collateral damage of that decision and is the only true victim. Selfish as hell. A cycle of dysfunction.

That's going to be hard. It will most likely be forced by Existence than volunteered by women.

@@zitens66 FACTS

They expect more than they're worth.

They don’t want the boring nice guy.

@John Haney they call it settling because it's not who they want. You could be a good looking guy with your shit together and you still not be enough for them.

@Victor Sandoval Agreed. A lot of women need to change their mindset. You can't make a whole bunch of demands without bringing anything to the table. You have to be realistic and fair. It shows that she's selfish. Most importantly, the child is the only one who suffers.

Just don't WillySmithy it.

She won't realize she messed up until her child gets older and stops contacting her, saying now they being selfish.

They honestly believe that if their offspring have food, clothes, and shelter, they are being a good parent.

@@uncleroams279 yep 💯

It takes two of us to make a child and it takes TWO to raise the child. So fing simple!

She dumps him off onto her mother, like they all do

🤣🤣🤣

And they keep coming back for more!!!

And I knew she was going to say Russell Wilson lol

I too wonder the same thing!

Agree. Why do the least educated, least successful women flock to KS to display their delusions to over 1 million viewers? It's a mystery.

She looking happy on live 🤣🤣🤣

She tried to make what she does so important. "Ohh, I'm in the airline industry ". Come on now!!! You a damn flight attendant at best. Probably not even that, just be checking tickets.

@@TheRawledawg It's a defense mechanism. She's lying to "pretty up" the situation.

KS “ so your a air waitress “ 😭😭

Sky waitress pmsl

@Your Neighbors Dog They can't make sense out of their reality. They are living in denial.

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴍʀ ᴅᴀɴɪᴇʟ ;ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪᴅᴇᴀs.......

📱ᴛᵉˣţ𝄍✉𝑾𝒉𝔮ᴛᵗ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝🧬. ✚▫️𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟎𝟖𝟏𝟔𝟒𝟔𝟐𝟕✉... ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ◦◦...

Facts

*You're....you're welcome.

@@reeko9781 So would it be "your, you're, or you are a a**hole?"🤔

@@kevinaustin5086 It would be "you're", it's basic English grammar. No need for insults, I was helping you out.

@@kevinaustin5086 It would be *you're *an...not "a." Once again, you're welcome.

Especially after 29 years of selfishness🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

@troyforce2 McKinney Unfortunately, some people choose to learn the hard way. Some younger women might have hope (for those who listen) But, a lot of older women are too far gone and don't want to take accountability. It's a mindset. Sad to see.

Spot on...

lmaoo😂😂😂 And that my friend is what I called polishing a turd.... Just making a bullshit excuse for shitty behavior

Unless she meant selfish in fixing herself. Selfish in getting therapy and working on herself. That's the only way that could possibly make sense. 😂

Leave us alone then and keep riding Kevin’s dique🤷🏽‍♀️ …we’re good!!!

@@keylacmckemp1309 That is self-improvement. Selfishness is immaturity.

She was referring to the devil. She'll marry him in the afterlife.

I joined too. His words are changing the world

Feels over reals, baby!

I feel like bla bla bla....

@STEEL BL!TZ They want to play the victim to gain sympathy from everybody. No accountability.

Underrated comment.

It only works because weak men enable it.

Yep I was just mentioning this is a textbook chameleon, single mom flight attendant, who says she wants two more kids which I really don't believe at all. Sounds like she's enjoying her freedom and there's no way she would quit that job for a man and she is pretty much admitted it

@@JDMHaze she even said her mom made six figures but just bought groceries.

ah i still love that quote because it's true

😅😅😅. Imma borrow that

Heavy Facts 💯

They do believe it. You are just having a hard time, understanding female logic. Don't worry, so do I; isn't it amazing. LoL

@V R It's insane. It's only a defense mechanism because they can't deal with reality. They only say they enjoy being single and independent because it sounds good. But, the outcome speaks for itself.

@@calogerocapicchioni6554 women don't like rejection or taking Ls. This woman is cute but even the Big Shirley's that call in will say their standards are too high or they don't want to settle. I think a lot of women just figure a kid and pretending to be religious can replace the need for a man.

@@davyjones2032 Words of Wisdom bro. It definitely is mind-boggling behavior. People are social animals, especially women (at least traditionally). Whenever a woman has 20 cats or 8 dogs, it makes me think... there's no way she's truly happy. She has to be using that as a substitute for something. My own cousin became a single mom at 26 and recently got pregnant at 40. The 2nd time around she knew the due had 3 baby mamas. She now has a 15 year old and a 2 year old. She is now dating again. She's been telling my mom about her dates for 15 years now. None of her relationships have worked out and she always complains about something that the guy did. She usually says nothing wrong about her own shortcomings and tries to pretend like it doesn't bother her not having a man. She says stuff like, "I'm not tripping. Plenty of fish in the sea. He can kiss my black ass. I'm too good for that." I don't know if she realizes it, but she comes off as very combative and disagreeable. I think she decided to have the baby because she was lonely/desperate. But, now that the dust has settled... she wants a romantic relationship. Why else would a woman with a teenager and toddler find the time to still be dating if the baby was fulfilling her? In my heart of hearts, I think my cousin wants an escape from being a single mother and regrets it. She has also recently found out that the toddler has autism. So, that's why I say that I'm not sure where she's finding the time commitment to go on all these different dates. It seems like she has a lot on her plate.

@Jeffrey Fahie It's a defense mechanism because she has no accountability. The outcome and the way she speaks clearly says that she's selfish. Sad to see.

Silver spring she be at society lounge

@@elijahreilly9247 😂

Ah shoot, and I live in silver spring...lol..DMV woman are something else....sheesh

She's not attractive, though.

@@rawilayasharahlayahawashii4056 The majority of women who come with an attitude of “I’m in my selfie season” are snotty and brat-ish due to a high opinion of themselves. To each there own, I’m not here to judge.

@Sasha Taylor a que of Simps with no career. The moment they become successful they will leave her though

damn 😂

@@duhmarionn and she hit it with the "yeah im gonna make millions in the real-estate" at the end. Goddamn. It's sad.

@@Y1001 yeapppp , And that's why that was so hilarious to him, I just knew they would pull out the real estate I meet girls that say this shit on dates all the time the real estate is their Swiss Army knife

That's because these modern women are trying to follow in Ciara's footsteps... "If Ciara can get knocked up by a thug rapper and still get a high value man so can the average woman" In other words, she said Russell Wilson because she's looking for her Russell Wilson just like the majority of these modern single mothers

@@bluer68 facts

That’s cuzz he was with a Becky

My lily white ass has no idea who any of these people are! 🤣

Like clock work lol

Well said. She is thinking from a standpoint that she has the same options she did when she was 22 and childless.

As long as singer mothers get the equivalent of $60K a year for free from the government in america, these women will make no effort. 100% not their fault.

@@wanderingdoc5075 this is the true problem

@Welcome to Madness A lot of people get angry when they get called "selfish." But, when you look at the outcome, it speaks for itself without having to say anything. I always thought it was weird when I've heard women (and a few men) say, "My baby is a blessing. But, the raggedy person that I had it by was a mistake and a bad choice. I can't stand my baby daddy because he ain't shit. I wish I never met him. I shouldn't have had sex with him because he ain't worth a damn." If the child comes from the father (because he's the one who ejaculated) and shares 50% of his DNA.... if the baby daddy is a mistake… then his ejaculation (child) wouldn't exist either. If she never had sex with him, she wouldn't have gotten pregnant by him, and given birth to one of his seeds, and there would be no child. By calling him a "bad choice/mistake" it seems like it is indirectly saying that the child is a mistake and that the entire situation is a mistake without directly coming out and having to say it. It's like being filled with regret over the entire thing. And I think one of the only reasons why people don't want to say it is because it's a way of emotionally protecting the child... like a defense mechanism. If there was no child, she would have no problem with calling the dude a mistake and a piece of sh*t that she wishes she would've never met. Things are different when you share DNA with somebody. It has always seemed kinda weird to me because any way you slice the situation…the child is the outcome of that choice… and it really doesn't seem like there’s any getting around it or trying to separate it. It's like trying to tap-dance around it because the guilt is overwhelming. Word semantics, but you have to read between the lines. It's like saying, "The apple seed that was planted was a mistake/bad choice. I hate the apple seed. I wish I never planted it. F*ck the apple seed. But, the apple is a blessing. I love my apple, but I wish I never planted that rotten apple seed. That seed ain't sh*t. But, don't get me wrong... my apple is a blessing that was planted from that raggedy apple seed. And I wouldn't have it any other way." But without the apple seed, there's no apple? Can't really have one without the other? The child is the only true victim and will be the collateral damage of that decision. Kids are smart and piece the puzzle together, especially as they get older. They start to realize the truth of how they were born and which type of situation they've been born into. It seems very selfish, unaccountable, and continues a cycle of dysfunction.