My father tells me this everyday ; marrying the wrong woman is the absolute worst thing a man can do to himself

I know Kelly Rowland is somewhere smiling every time Kevin says she's prettier than Beyonce lol

Her: " I don't want baby mama drama" Also her: "The father of my children is incarcerated".

Her: "I don't want baby mama drama" Translation: " I don't want a man with kids because i want all of his money and attention on me and mine"

Dating a single mother is like arriving to a party after everyone left & you have to clean up the mess. 👀👀👀

"I don’t want a man with kids" because "I don’t like the baby mama drama”....says a baby mama 😳😳🙄🙄

Look a woman who actually LISTENED and was non-combative. Talk about a breath of fresh air.

I actually really like this young woman. She calls him “Mr. Samuels” and is respectful to both him and to herself, she’s reflective, and honest both with and about herself.

Dude said, "Why would a childless man, who is in the top 15% of all earners, want a women with 2 kids, and her baby daddy is in jail......😭😭Goodnight yall

How ironic that she doesn't want a man with baggage yet she will expect that he will take care of kids that's not even his....good luck with that 😂

I swear all the women that call his shows are “six figures earners”.

Kevin is very accurate with this conversation. My mother was a high earning woman, and I have no memories of her attempting to act masculine or dominant. My father passed, and she always had men trying to marry her. She finally married her husband, and even though she made twice his income, she relinquished control over the finances to her husband. I even asked her if she loved him, and she said that she knew he would be good to her and take care of her. That was enough for me, and I supported her wisdom. Btw, 20+ years later, they're happily married and enjoying retirement together.

"Ive never had a problem co-parenting" well ma'am he's in jail

Modern Code Words: Starting with " I feel like" " I hear what you're saying, but" " I believe" "I understand, however" " I don't think" " Can I ask you a question" "Well...I think" " That's true, but" " I'm trying to be respectful" " I've never seen your show" "A friend referred me to your show" " I understand, but" " Well...I dont see it that way" " If you knew me, you'd understand" "People I know or knew" " I was with a high value man, but..." " I've dated high value men, but..." " I don't think that's fair..." " I want to introduce a different perspective..." " I have options too..." "I appreciate your show, but..." " Well...look at it this way..." " How do you know..." " Yes & no..." " Me personally...." " Femininity depends on..." " What do you mean by..." " I dont have to..." " I was engaged, but" " I filed for divorce" " I broke off the engagement" " But kevin...." " Okay mr samuels" " Do you have problems with black women" " Well...men do it too" " Why do women have to need men" " Who hurt you..." " You hate black women" " I'm speaking my truth..." " I know plenty of women that did etc, but" "I knew what I was doing, but" " That's a great point kevin, but" " I have a question for you" " Not all men are great men, but" " I'm not trying to make excuses for women but" " I dont think I'm overweight..." " Some women won't ever be skinny or healthy, So I believe" " As a woman myself, I don't think" " Yeah, but alot of black men are broken" " Black women still love black men, even though..." " I had kids with him, but he was crazy" " Well...I was young & dumb.." " Do you think...etc...no judgement though.." " Well...when a woman does it..etc.." " I felt like it was a toxic situation I was in" "I decide when I want to get married" " My father taught me how to be a wife...but I'm still learning" "May I say one thing" "I was done with the relationship.." " He cheated.." "Marriage wasn't a big deal on my end.." " I don't personally believe that a man should...." " Well, I never had to or needed a reason to" "Some women don't see marriage that way" " You know what I'm trying to say" "That's just me..." " I haven't met the man that made me want to...." " Yes we do need families, but.." " So, what's the difference..." "I'm not going to let a man..." "Mmm-hm...ok..well.." "But kevin, you don't know the whole story.." " I'm trying to tell you, but.." " Ima let you talk..." " Can I speak now...can I say something..." " I have kids, but..." " Well...to you..." " Guess my age..." " I find it funny..." " But some men like big women" " I want what I want..." " I'm the exception..." "Well...I was young & dumb..." " Well....what do men say..." "I think it's just weird...." " I'm overweight, but I've been working on it..." " Well...that's a European standard of beauty..." "Why is it, when men...." " He was a narcissist..." " I can be submissive..." " Why should I be submissive..." " For the right man, I can..." Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!

I love it when someone doesn’t get defensive and has the ability to reflect and listen. This was one of the most measured interviews I’ve seen on this channel. She’s probably gonna find a husband. She’ll learn in time if she keeps up that attitude.

This woman was the more reasonable I've seen in this show so far she even said she’s going to work on her agreableness that is a huge win.

She says I don't want a man with kids because there might be baby mama drama but then says her kids father is in prison 🤦🏽‍♂️😂 you can't make this up.

Her: I got to be less masculine. All Guys around the world: No, don't be masculine at all.

She’s solid. She took all the critique and thought about it. I love that

I’ve been a step father before and man that was the worst .. Never seen somebody be so ungrateful before ever in my life who did absolutely nothing for me

She lied on her ex husband. She instantly made up something that made him seem immature and irresponsible. He wanted to run his household and she didn’t cooperate.

It’s amazing that almost every woman on this show is a business owner making over $100K, but their baby daddy is in prison. We believe you ladies 😂

KS this is one of the best conversations I’ve watched. I compliment the young woman because she was truly engaged in your advice.

She don't want you to have kids because she wants you to concentrate on her kids providing for her kids

Woman with two kids (for a man in prison) says she doesn't want a man with kids because of baby mama drama. Ma'am you are the textbook definition of baby mama drama. Can't make this shit up.

A woman with two kids can go around saying she doesn’t need a man with kids. Other women will support that “ yasss sis, know your worth.” But soon as a man say he won’t date a single mother “ he is a misogynist, who hurt you ? Not a real man.” See the patterns.

You know, once that guy gets out of jail, he's coming to the house 😂.

I've only just found Kevin the last couple of days and this conversation felt really fruitful. She was willing to have an open dialog

Being raised by women I was only ever taught "how to treat a woman". No one ever helped me understand what a woman is supposed to do for me. In practice this helps me understand my responsibilities as a man, by understanding a woman's responsibilities to me. Thank you.

We just want peace. 4 kids by 5 men isn’t peace, it’s war.

OMG!! I live in OKC and I remember those girls back in the day. They've jumped a girl that was a dancer, she was light-skinned with naturally long hair, and cut it off!! A bunch of jealous girls. It was deplorable.

Excellent commentary. A much needed conversation and realization💯

It’s interesting how almost every woman who calls into Kevin’s show makes over 6 figures

“I don’t want a man with kids” but she’s someone’s baby mama! The nerve of this chick 🤦🏾‍♂️

Baby daddy will get out of prison, and then the real drama starts.

This woman was at least receptive and willing to receive information and criticism. Pleasant to hear. I have hope for her.

“Who raised these feminine, weak Black men that you have a problem with?” The million dollar question that gets a zero dollar answer🤔

I ran into a woman like this a few years back. She had two kids and I have zero. She said she wouldn't date a man with kids and I'm thinking to myself "how are you going to have a standard for a man that you can't maintain yourself?" That's when I decided to never talk to single mothers again.

What a beautiful exchange and lesson. Way to go, Kevin!

🎶You Let Him Hit It Raw With No Thoughts At All🎶 Now You A Single Mom🎶

“Yup, I found a good one. A felon’s baby mama. This will go great” - no man ever

"You don't want baby mama drama" even though you are a baby mama with drama. The lack of self awareness is mind boggling

Never, never, never date a single mom with kids. She’s already proven she’s irresponsible.

I am encouraged because she is willing to change. She comes across as confrontational but she has potential.

I appreciate the fact that she was on here trying to learn and grow.

I've never looked at a girl and thought, "How much does she make?"

This was a very healthy and constructive conversation. Self-awareness and being honest with yourslef as a person is very important.

Now that was a GOOD CONVERSATION 👍🏾👍🏾💕💕💕

A woman's cooperation is highly linked to her respect for the man.

This is the most hypocritical thing ever women with kids want a man without kids

One of the best episodes I’ve seen so far. They both had valid points

This episode was so, so much better than the others I've seen thus far. To sum it, I would say it was more informative and much, much less entertainment and 'bottom of the barrel' ruckus. Extremely informative. Thank you so much.

The nerve of these marginal, entitled flawed women with kids A obese woman doesn't want a obese man A Short woman doesn't want a short man A ugly/unattractive woman doesn't want a unattractive man A poor woman doesn't want a poor man. And the insanity goes on and on...

This guy is like a dose of truth to black woman and they hate it when they should love and embrace it!

His conversation with this young lady was soooooo refreshing & you can tell she was taking it all…. Very good conversation 100%

Probably one of the best interviews. Good dialogue and she was very receptive to the information. Nice

I'M A GUY IN MY 20S BECAUSE OF KEVIN I GOT BRACES WORKING OUT MORE GETTING MY FINANCES IN ORDER BE REALISTIC ON WHAT I LOOK LIKE AND ATTRACT

Protect Yo Money & Yo Seed Brothers It’ll Save You A Lifetime Of Headaches. 💯

Didn't know your were from OKC. Right on man, makes a lot of sense why I've been watching your channel for a while now. I hope all as well. Keep on killin' it Kevin!

Solid convo 💯

I think Gucci said it best “When you’re broke you’re ugly, when you’re up you’re handsome”

All of the women that call Kevin's show make 6 to 7 figures and are business owners and have PHD's.

I enjoyed that conversation 😊

She is so respectful. Wow. And actually listening and taking in what he saying

Woman with 2 kids with a BD in prison says she wants a man with no kids...and initiated a divorce with another man..And wants a man with no kids because of no drama.. DELUSIONAL

Young lady, white women have nothing to do with this conversation. I'd love to see the majority of us black women rockin our own hair, eyelashes and eyebrows but I know it's wishful thinking but people could actually know what we look like.

9:46 Kevin you divorced him on what grounds? Caller "On what grounds...?😧 I need a reason

Kevin, its is great to see a bright woman who is interested in learning and being more reasonable. I truly enjoyed your conversation. She was respectful and not talking over you which so many black women seem to do here. She was enjoyable to hear....this gal is going to get what she wants and deserves because she is willing to learn and make changes. She is more realistic than most i have seen on your show. Its nice to see an open minded woman who has ideas which are sensible and she addresses you as “mr.” she doesn’t want a man with kids....she will compromise on that for the right man....because she is smart and wants to be a better person. She has made mistakes but she is learning. Keep up the work of helping these woman understand the reality of life. You are doing a super job!

We need a HBO show about the Ho-Busters. 😂👌

"...I don't want baby mama drama..." However, you expect a man to deal with your convicted felon baby daddy? Girl, you better just get your dogs/cats picked out now. Mr, Samuels, please que TAPS.

Her longest relationship was 3 years? Wow...🙄 We hit 20 years this year.

"At the end of the day, black women don't want to be told what to do" - BOOM!!! Bold face truth right there - and I'm a black woman so I know. We have such an awful problem with being told what to do - to our own detriment.

This is why vows in marriage are stated, better or worse, sickness & health, richer or poor, til death to you part. Ppl be in La La Land at their own wedding.

“YoUr NoT mY dAd.” Says every kid to a step daddy 😂

This was an excellent segment

Amazing content!

Kelly Rowland is fine af. She’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve seen in person. And I saw her at a target with her hair tied no makeup on.

Her longest relationship is 3 years. Meaning she gave a man 2 kids who she had dated for less than 3 years.

The reason why she is Divorced is the Husband wanted a kid and she did not. I was with three different single Mothers at different times. All did not want kids. I finally said to all of them, "You were with a Man you say was not worth a damn but you had kids with him so now when a Good Man comes along. You say no kids". I said good by to all of them.

This was an informative chat about black history. My thanks to the (late) Mr Samuels and the hair stylist.

"My kids come first," said no woman worth dating, ever.

Carlos and Julio standing at home depot and lowe's get cooperation from their women all day long

“A boyfriend with a marriage certificate” “Come on ma” Damn I miss my brotha 😂✊🏾🤦🏾‍♂️

Don't worry, Ma. I don't want a single mother of two either

Funny how women who never grew up with their real father always talking about what a real man is. How you gonna talk about what a real man is when your momma , your sister and grandmother are all single mothers. Shit is really sad.

🔥, man I hope sisters listen to his teachings!

It's amazing that women like her always got the right thing to say after they wreck thier homes

In this moment. I cannot say what's wrong or riiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

She will be just fine as a single mother. She's extremely combative, and argumentative. Too much stud energy.

RIP to the GOAT. Kevin, you have helped shape the future for men. I hope he had an idea of how many lives he helped. We lost a legend.

This was a good one.

I’d rather walk through asphalt barefoot in 100 degree weather than spend one dollar on a single mother.

What women don't understand is that it's not about them, it's about the damn kids. The amount of narcisstic women never ends.

Women look for a future in a man, when marrying. Men look for the past in a woman, when marrying.

I think the most valuable portion of this video is his clear and concise explanation for what ails the black family today. Everything he said was completely true and well tied together. Something Thomas Sowell regularly says but never changes.

That’s so true, being a step father is so under-appreciated. And he will still get blamed for the failed relationship...All the risk and blame with zero reward...and yet there’s still men out there that will step up to that...

Take a good long look everybody. The modern woman in a nutshell! Wants stepfather/husband but no step-kids?!

Ex with 2 kids asked to try again after 5 years. Now I’m rich and healthier and I have options. I turned her down especially remembering the hell she put me through

Refreshing to see KS have a convo with a woman who is respectful and doesn't have an attitude. Hope she does the work on her side and finds someone(if not the ex). She has more of a chance than most of women that came on

It’s crazy because what he said about BW not wanting to submit to their man just opened my eyes more. My uncle’s wife is Asian and she makes well over 6 figures and my uncle is a sheriff making somewhere in the 50k-60k range and she submits to him. They’ve been married for 15 years now