Are the straights okay, TikTok edition. What do you think? As a reminder, I'm not talking about all cis straight people when I say 'The Straights', and actually not all of these were terrible..but some really were haha.
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@starlightthewolf66123 жыл бұрын
The reason why "ugly" girls talk more is because you're paying attention to what they're saying instead of daydreaming about sleeping with them
@beanerbeanie3 жыл бұрын
🐊
@slimetank3943 жыл бұрын
The tea is extra hot today
@maem74623 жыл бұрын
True lol
@FlameWing-fi1tx3 жыл бұрын
Love this, I'm glad someone understands this
@icedcream4143 жыл бұрын
@@slimetank394 it is *scolding*
@sleepyote3 жыл бұрын
Straight TikTok is basically just emotionally abusive relationship TikTok.
@elliecarlson27883 жыл бұрын
I’ve never read a truer statement in my life
@spicybeantofu3 жыл бұрын
Yes I say that everytime I scroll through shorts
@alyxian_does_stuff3 жыл бұрын
DOGGO
@meepmoopiethe3rd3 жыл бұрын
I've definitely seen videos that are just a tutorial for how to gaslight your girlfriend. Definitely some sketch peeps on there.
@SevCaswell3 жыл бұрын
@@meepmoopiethe3rd And I've seen video of guys pretending to be rapists on ther too... tiktok is a nasty place unles you're gay or trans...
@TempestuousInquiry3 жыл бұрын
Spoiler alert: someone being a "nerd" or passionate about their hobbies doesn't make them immune to cheating on you. Source: personal experience.
@joythecat19503 жыл бұрын
Oh i am so sorry
@lochnessy6913 жыл бұрын
Yup scum bags come with all types of interests
@eshiboo3 жыл бұрын
Another one of those "positive" stereotypes that are actually just harmful.
@stargirl15893 жыл бұрын
Agreed I dated 3 guys who were nerdy and gamers, and they either cheated, assaulted, or threatened me 😃
@licoricecookieswife40793 жыл бұрын
@@stargirl1589 oh that’s *great*
@desdes56223 жыл бұрын
I feel like the underlying assumption that "my boyfriend is too nerdy to cheat" and I don't like that. It's your personality and morals that keep you from cheating, not your interests.
@SoniaSephia3 жыл бұрын
Whenever they say my boyfriend or girlfriend is "too nerdy to cheat," it's just a low-key way of saying "they're too ugly to cheat." People who say such things need to be immediately dumped! 😆
@bch79053 жыл бұрын
Completely understand the sentiment of your statement (bc cheating can happen to and from anyone, and I've def gotten cheated on by someone who was/is a huge nerd and anime fan), but in this case iirc the tiktoker and bf are actually pretty sweet so just going based on that in this instance I think she was saying that her bf has hobbies that he's clearly comfortable with sharing them with her (iirc they're both star wars fans too). I really don't think it was exploitive. However, I've definitely seen degrading versions of this tiktok and it's very upsetting.
@skylerchan77463 жыл бұрын
Its a personality trait alot of nerds have thats why girls trust them more
@totallyoutofit69893 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@susannbadewitz833 жыл бұрын
Also being a nerd doesn't make you not a misogynist... Just look at the Big Bang Theory it is misogynist as fck and they're all supposed to be " adorable nerds"
@Wasabi-rs5lv3 жыл бұрын
That star wars dude didn't deserve that. He's a sweet passionate dude just trying to vibe with his hobbies. Plenty of people would love someone like that.
@bluester71773 жыл бұрын
He really didn't, I don't understand why it would have anything to do with faithfulness, there are many people out there who would share his interest and want to date him, and even people who don't, it's possible to not like something and still respect it, it's so stupid and full of stereotypes.
@iKit3063 жыл бұрын
Exactly. If she doesn't want to appreciate him and his interests I'll happily do so. Though he and my other partner might get along so well they could forget I was there... lol Risk I'm willing to take because he was so adorable.
@werewolf-mp33 жыл бұрын
He reminded me of my boyfriend, honestly. It's so nice when people talk about things they're passionate about, and he was obviously excited to he able to share his thoughts about something he loves. It made me really sad knowing why that video of him was even taken.
@ArnLPs3 жыл бұрын
@@werewolf-mp3 Honestly that video made me more happy than mad because I was like "Aww how cute!". But I think videos like this are fine if the partner is in on the joke which in both cases they were.
@excessivelyfangirlingbookw33393 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Imagine if this guy sees his gf's video later and reads comments that make fun of him for being passionate about sth. He deserves better and I hope he in fact will never cheat on this woman because there no longer is a 'them',
@existenceispain43333 жыл бұрын
That guy talking about how to "deal" with women who don't want to sleep with you actually made me physically sick to my stomach
@barrylangille35233 жыл бұрын
Kind of made me feel that the woman he's trying to manipulate might realize she's in a position to dodge a bullet and would get out of there fast.
@RowanArk3 жыл бұрын
I know right? Ugh he's horrible.
@johnrees95543 жыл бұрын
And just how many women want to sleep with now? Is he aware that women can see tiktok too or is he just dumb? Ugh!
@holaXchola923 жыл бұрын
Someone should send that video to his mother. Aunt. Grandmother.
@sajteapot3 жыл бұрын
Yup! Nasty, nasty guy.
@moppuchii3 жыл бұрын
"His masculine supoort and structure allows me to surrender even deeper into my yummy and juicy feminine flow" sounds like a line straight out of 50 shades of gray.
@juniper6173 жыл бұрын
It sounds like a line that got *edited out* of “50 Shades of Gray” because the Ick Factor was too high.
@justmeoverhere41923 жыл бұрын
@@juniper617 fr
@totallyoutofit69893 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo isn't it?? 😭
@caitlynwilson29583 жыл бұрын
why is this exactly what I thought about when I watched it???
@shado-13453 жыл бұрын
God that line was so disgusting. Who tf refers to feminine energy like that? Heck! Just saying "feminine energy" sounds cringy af. I wanna shoot myself for reading that and saying the other thing!
@sloths.enthusiast74193 жыл бұрын
“i brought the pastor, i brought emily-“ emily: *waves* IM SORRY THAT WAS TOO FUNNY PLEASE THE POOR GUY
@humburger9998 Жыл бұрын
How is there a thousand likes and no comments, let’s change that!
@pigurl3.1453 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, I promise that all cis women find people calling us "females" slightly uncomfortable as well
@riannaf9273 жыл бұрын
it just gives off MASSIVE incel/antifeminist vibes. I did know one guy with English as a second language who had no clue it had that connotation though and stopped immediately when I said so that's something to bear in mind
@fae913 жыл бұрын
I agree
@collyflower66233 жыл бұрын
Yes! It feel weird and analytical, definitely incel vibes
@Kat-kh6gt3 жыл бұрын
It's dehumanizing
@Vakrios3 жыл бұрын
I come from a farming background so whenever a guy refers to women as females, I automatically think about livestock and so I feel as if those men see us as such. Like we’re a breed of some species and not individual human beings. It’s gross.
@Victoriasm313 жыл бұрын
"My yummy and juicy feminine flow" is a phrase I hope I never hear again.
@laurena95633 жыл бұрын
It honestly looks like some weird parody that would be on a show like "Parks and Recreation" or "Superstore." xD Like, people actually unironically do this crap? xD
@blackcopycat49673 жыл бұрын
I don't get grossed out by a sentences but i think that line was the first that made me wish ii didn't have an imagination
@livingmachine98723 жыл бұрын
I FUCKING SNORTED MY COKE PUT MY NOSYRILS
@celebrityguest.95303 жыл бұрын
i am in physical pain after hearing that phrase
@bluebird19143 жыл бұрын
That phrase sounds like something you'd read in a really shitty romance/erotica novel. Like the r/menwritingwomen kind of novel.
@svftmgc3 жыл бұрын
there should never be a ‘but’ after the words “i respect your boundaries.” ever.
@cursingsteak01242 жыл бұрын
I disagree "I respect your boundaries, BUT you've got to respect mine too"
@meadowagbor43702 жыл бұрын
@@cursingsteak0124 i feel like thats an "and" type of situation tho
@Sincerely.Nature2 жыл бұрын
@@cursingsteak0124 That's the only but that's acceptable.
@ElfsArt242 жыл бұрын
@@cursingsteak0124 no because if you're saying but that means if they don't want to respect your bonderies you can do what ever you want to them too
@streamvideogames83873 жыл бұрын
Ok, but can we appreciate the one dude get so happy about his star wars figurines. That's adorable FIFNGKRKVKRKD
@marzbar58773 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed. Like, being nerdy doesn’t mean you can’t cheat, but that guy was just so frickin cute
@marias-i33333 жыл бұрын
Also, that tiktok gave me the vibe of "oh, my bf is too nerdy to successfully pick up another girl" and that's just shitty
@hannaszekely17683 жыл бұрын
@@marias-i3333 like I in no way support cheating, nor would want to be a side chick, but damn I love nerdy boys getting excited over their fandom things. AND I love star wars, so damn yes he could get me lol.
@alexa_3663 жыл бұрын
Yess i love the collection its so cool i wanna get a collection like that
@tropicalbird2723 жыл бұрын
Fell for a clone wars nerd myself. If that girl thinks extensive knowledge of the 332nd isnt a turn on, she's in for a rude awakening.
@rosey57433 жыл бұрын
"I'm going trans" sounds like what you'd yell before transforming into a magical girl with a trans pride themed outfit edit: wait guys i just realized.. magical girl TRANSformation
@kae413 жыл бұрын
How do I aquire such an outfit? Am not trans myself but I've got several friends who I'm sure would be quite interested
@rosey57433 жыл бұрын
@@kae41 ok so first ur gonna have to locate a magical amulet that will give u transgender powers-
@rejainkalangutkar30813 жыл бұрын
@@rosey5743 and it’s coloured blue white and pink and it’s like in your heart?-
@akitokutikabanae70103 жыл бұрын
I want this-
@LadyAneh3 жыл бұрын
We need a Sailor Moon or Cardcaptor Sakura reboot where the magical girl is trans. 🪄
@vocasoti3 жыл бұрын
One of my pet peeves is people being condescending against guys who have "nerdy" interests
@ducky52773 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I love nerdy guys it makes me so happy when they start talking about the things they love and they just light up its rly cute honestly Edit: also I get nerdy about things too so it's nice to not be judged when I hyperfixate on something for a month and can only talk about that specific thing... currently it's werewolves...
@fluffy6983 жыл бұрын
@@ducky5277 It's just like listening to toddlers tell stories. You might not understand what they're talking about fully, but seeing their interest and how happy they are just is amazing.
@mizuecto403 жыл бұрын
@@ducky5277 Literally, almost all of my guy friends *are* nerdy (I am too lmao), like legit they are my people so I don't understand why it's bad to seem nerdy or not as masculine. Like, nerdy people are amazing human beings and I love them all
@moiaussi77223 жыл бұрын
Not to mention it's kind of humiliating for autistic people like me, it feels like they're saying I'm not worthy of love because I'm autistic and that I'm lucky I found someone who tolerates me
@Typhio3 жыл бұрын
@@moiaussi7722 yeah I’m getting the same vibes Nothing wrong with having special interests and talking about them with loved ones! This video makes it seem like that may be a bad thing and that’s sad, he seems so genuinely happy he figured out the jet pack :(
@SuperJezzara3 жыл бұрын
I feel like the guy with the wife holding up the notes was actually poking fun at the straights who are in miserable relationships but pretend they're not.
@kurootsuki33263 жыл бұрын
same i actually laughed
@toomanyopinions83533 жыл бұрын
Yeah that one made me laugh
@vashikumar36813 жыл бұрын
That’s what I was thinking
@DehydratedArtizt-3 жыл бұрын
Same
@rekwa38603 жыл бұрын
Yes, he was, it was an ironic video, even though not wery good. I mean, it is a joke, but not a good one.
@mikeriley47253 жыл бұрын
Me - A female who is 5’6 and a brunette Also me - *Scared lesbian screeching*
@thegirlfrommars43863 жыл бұрын
*Bisexual bellowing*
@sabrinagriffin16373 жыл бұрын
*asexual anguish*
@migraine_spaghetti3 жыл бұрын
*Pan panicking*
@julielovesslife3 жыл бұрын
*aromantic attacking*
@CrissCorner3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely adore these replies
@Lis_Kid3 жыл бұрын
Ugh the guy talking about girls being time wasters when they don't sleep with him is absolutely horrible. The way he talked about it like it is normal to manipulate people into sex by making them insecure makes me sick to my stomach. I pity every woman in his life.
@emfgull3 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@Dog_In_Disguise3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@paniccake12193 жыл бұрын
Amen
@koalaeucalyptus3 жыл бұрын
If a guy pulls some shit like that on me, I'll be the one glad for getting rid of a time-waster, I'll just be mad he didn't show his true colors sooner...
@TheCatMurgatroyd3 жыл бұрын
@@koalaeucalyptus I'm more worried about the girls that don't have that confidence :/
@abigailvanr3 жыл бұрын
The use of the word “females” to described human women feels dehumanizing to me.
@sneakysnek5723 жыл бұрын
Yes! Exactly! We’re not animals! It’s just plain gross! Hell, I’d be upset if people started calling men “males,” because that’s rude too
@mavisseafoam3 жыл бұрын
I think for me it depends on the context. If you say “there’s so many females there” it’s kinda dehumanising, but if you say “being female is probably tiring” for some reason I don’t find that offensive
@River_Katerina3 жыл бұрын
@@mavisseafoam yeah, there's def a difference between medical/scientific context and casual context. As someone who was afab, it is gross to be called female in casual context and not just because of dysphoria.
@aceatlasska43433 жыл бұрын
@@mavisseafoam I would agree, I think the difference there is "being a female" vs "being female" as well. If someone says the former, unless they're also saying "males", it definitely comes off in the uncomfortable/objectifying way.
@jasper37063 жыл бұрын
@@mavisseafoam I think generally the difference you're thinking about is the adjective vs the noun! Female is more often used as an adjective, whereas the noun form is almost exclusively used either in science or by sexists, because "woman" is universally preferred by most people. The noun form of "female" often feels clunky in this context, and you're left sort of looking for a noun (person or human) that isn't present. Edit: Also, outside of science, female (adj) is generally "of or pertaining to *women*" and the correct noun form for like 99% of sentences would be woman, not female. For example, "female sports" is "sports for women," "female washrooms" are "the women's room," etc. etc. So when somebody uses the noun female, they're going out of their way to not use the term woman, and we instinctively question their motives. Like calling a burger "sustenance." Yeah, it's technically true... but why aren't you calling it food?
@Bananakin5013 жыл бұрын
Other people: I'm testing beauty products so you dont have to. Jamie: I'm testing straight people so you dont have to.
@sweetenlemons86593 жыл бұрын
Your pfp is fuckin beautiful
@sweetenlemons86593 жыл бұрын
Like, setting the gayness aside, the colors just look so fuckin good together.
@withoutaname40073 жыл бұрын
i test straight ppl everyday by being trans and gay
@jamie2233 жыл бұрын
my name is jamie so i got confused for a hot second
@ircusing98753 жыл бұрын
I'm straight so I can test myself lol
@aamie63303 жыл бұрын
What if - and stop me if I'm being too crazy here - women aren't just sexual objects that can be thrown away when we say "no". What if women are people who have feelings and don't just want to sleep with a guy and actually want to get to know them and potentially fall in love and have a future. I know it's 2021 and my ideas are insane and futuristic but hear me out guys... 🙄
@myname85093 жыл бұрын
No, no... You might be on to something... Could it be... Is... Is the prophecy true?!
@mewo29543 жыл бұрын
woah thats unbelievable 😰
@becauseicannope37893 жыл бұрын
Oh my god. . . I think you might be on to something. . . Your a genius
@salmamichelle093 жыл бұрын
honestly the concept is just too grand to be understood
@kitkie3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god…it’s like…so brilliant…i think my mind has just been bloowwwn 😳😮😱😱🤯🤯🤯
@bold_n_brash3 жыл бұрын
friendly reminder that consent is freely-given, informed, and ongoing!!!! if someone only has sex with you bc you manipulated them into it, it wasn’t consensual!!!
@damisslave24063 жыл бұрын
This honestly needs to be said more
@hawleyolsen1703 жыл бұрын
Enthusiastic consent is top tier, don't settle for less!
@delicateghoul3 жыл бұрын
I got that extra spicy (and consensual) 69th like
@jacklynn.71503 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of FRIES (from Planned Parenthood)! Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific. Consent is important for anything!
@ukbtsarmy47253 жыл бұрын
This, ffs yes this !!!
@MewWolf53 жыл бұрын
I HATE the jokes about men being put on the spot to say their girlfriend or wife is beautiful and good for them or else she'll be mad. It perpetuates the idea that all women are shallow and want lip service for validation. If you have to be forced to say your partner is someone you find beautiful and beneficial to your life, then it's not a good relationship. Why are you even there?
@theomacer30943 жыл бұрын
She cornered me in a Target. I panicked
@karinelfwing90953 жыл бұрын
Side note: I like the colors in you pictures. I have the demi version beside my name at my work teams space.
@just_jana99593 жыл бұрын
I like your profil picture
@MewWolf53 жыл бұрын
@@theomacer3094 I wasn't talking about the Target video. My comment was in response to the video of the guy reading signs his wife was holding up behind the camera.
@MewWolf53 жыл бұрын
@@karinelfwing9095 That's cool that you get to be out in your workplace.
@LaPetiteMorteRisin3 жыл бұрын
The guy responding with his wife holding up cue cards in the mirror was hilarious. That one was 100% a joke just meant to be funny. The other things...They’re lucky I can’t reach through my phone and smack them.
@rekwa38603 жыл бұрын
Yep, a joke, but not a good one. I feel like it just perpetuates the stereotype of "controlling women".
@LezbeOswald2 жыл бұрын
@@rekwa3860 yeah it normalizes the misogynistic idea that women just want to control and harm men, as well as makes light of abusive relationships.
@bast7132 жыл бұрын
The trope is gross. Yes it's a framed as a joke but it's a really tired one.
@Pippis783 жыл бұрын
If a person started making booty calls in response of me not wanting "adult fun time", all I would be is very happy about the choice I made.
@aidenharkrider81323 жыл бұрын
do i sense a One Topic fan???
@Pippis783 жыл бұрын
@@aidenharkrider8132 You do indeed! 😄
@Red-in-Green3 жыл бұрын
Big same. *Oh, all you wanted from me was sex? Glad I’m getting rid of a time waster.*
@savannahjones-verity33083 жыл бұрын
Literally.... respect my choice and if you want to gft it from someone else go ahead I'm still not gonna f**k you..I'll happily leave
@lokicooper46903 жыл бұрын
And then I'd run the hell away from him as fast as possible.
@sylvaticaquercus3 жыл бұрын
Let's all just appreciate that Jamie had to find and watch the cringiest cishet tiktoks so we don't have to
@marlyd3 жыл бұрын
I mean we did end up watching them, just through a happy yellow spud filter
@mavisseafoam3 жыл бұрын
We don’t have to? I- didn’t we watch them too?
@HiBuddyyyyyy3 жыл бұрын
We shared the watching with him.
@FlameWing-fi1tx3 жыл бұрын
@@marlyd perfect explanation
@Aidildesigns3 жыл бұрын
His fyp is going to stay dirty for weeks 😭
@rhiwright3 жыл бұрын
I think that even if the Target couple got married, their relationship would be doomed and end in divorce a year or 2 later. You can't pressure and publicly humiliate your partner into marriage...
@agustinaluchelli83743 жыл бұрын
who would say yes in that situation?Maybe it was her way of coping, a bit dramatic but definitive at last
@OM-md6ki3 жыл бұрын
Amen you right
@bibianaguadalupeislasherre98803 жыл бұрын
Or they would annul the marriage in seconds.
@OrontesRM3 жыл бұрын
I don't think it was real, though: the white collar of the "pastor" wasn't fitting under the collar of the shirt
@lemonadewithstrawberries3 жыл бұрын
@@OrontesRM According to some articles that I briefly viewed on the internet, it is indeed fake. Which doesn't really restore any faith, but it is something at least
@bigdognuniff3 жыл бұрын
"Females" is also kind of objectifying. Especially when "females" is used to describe women and "dudes", "guys" or "men" etc is used to describe men in the same sentence....
@coltrane10163 жыл бұрын
yeah it's used by guys who are trying to manipulate them, like, those pick up artists who teach men how to manipulate women
@lokicooper46903 жыл бұрын
When you say it like that, yes, totally objectifying/dehumanizing. If "males" isn't used in the same sentence, then it totally feels that way.
@zeydalynn86342 жыл бұрын
It’s reducing women to their biology
@emmadecker95153 жыл бұрын
"Females" is used most when talking about animals from what I see. Like in biology class we might talk about female specimens of like, rats or something, so it feels very icky to use if for people. Also, no one says "I need some males in my life", so if makes it even more icky that only women are talked about in non-human terms (in this situation).
@imaneclair48363 жыл бұрын
That dude who was saying what to do when a girl doesn’t want to sleep with you- Like sir that is just using pressure and manipulation to get what you want I am still so surprised that people actually think and act like this what is wrong with human beings
@RedRosemary3 жыл бұрын
It's kinda illegal
@TertiaryQuota3 жыл бұрын
At least we women know who to avoid now, so he made it easy for us lol
@imaneclair48363 жыл бұрын
@@TertiaryQuota hah yes
@bluegirl2783 жыл бұрын
Plus, not now doesn’t mean they are “wasting your time” or aren’t planning on sleeping with you ever (also, how degrading is that, he thinks if she’s not going to sleep with him then he has no reason to spend time with her. He literally only cares about sex with this person). She could be on her period, be waiting until marriage/a certain time/ a certain relationship milestone, or just not feel ready yet.
@Theartisticyoshi3 жыл бұрын
@@bluegirl278 Yeah, the only person who is wasting their time here is the guy himself, since he doesn’t seem to understand what a relationship is. If he thinks he’s entitled to have sex at any time without considering the thoughts of whoever is unfortunate enough to date him at the moment, he’s better off doing it with an inanimate object for the rest of his life. He’s looking for one anyway.
@sayonitepaskide79763 жыл бұрын
Straight tiktok is either weird flexing, misogyny, or things that should just be private.
@moiaussi77223 жыл бұрын
How bout all three
@pepper_thepenguin3 жыл бұрын
@@moiaussi7722 yeah I'm glad that I didn't know straight tiktok existed when I was using the app
@corginand3 жыл бұрын
The "Tell me" ones are basically "Tell me your relationship is unhealthy without telling me your relationship is unhealthy"
@tremordenny16703 жыл бұрын
The use of the word “female” is weird because female refers to any living organism, while a more appropriate term, “woman”, refers specifically to a human. Give that first guy a female otter. Under 5’6, and brown hair :)
@aross50353 жыл бұрын
I've always felt that when people say "females" it's kinda objectifying women (or who they see as women), because it's stripping us down to our reproductive organs and stuff. It's not really the word per say, but the way they use it, because they never say "males" they always say "men"
@kira76833 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's so pretentious and condescending. Like they're documenting an animal species
@ludameri13843 жыл бұрын
It's because they don't see women as ✨human beings✨
@lookhowlittleiamimalittleg85463 жыл бұрын
this is is thank you for putting it in words
@helenvane2 жыл бұрын
if I say this out loud, I'll get laughed at and called "sensitive" because it's so difficult to explain WHY dudes using "female" in that specific tone is so icky and uncomfy. I think all women feel this way. it's just... creepy and gives you an idea of what kind of person that man is but if anyone asked me to explain WHY "female" is such a telling word, I wouldn't be able to explain it.
@onbearfeet2 жыл бұрын
I ways assumed they were either implying women aren't human OR avoiding using terms with age connotations like "woman" or "girl" because they don't want to discuss their possible preference for underage partners. I've never met a "females" dude who expressed a consistent desire to date women over 18, no matter how old he happened to be. It was always, "Get'em young before feminism happens to them (and before they develop an adult personality)."
@vidya57323 жыл бұрын
bruh if the girl doesn’t want to sleep with you, she doesn’t want to sleep with you. and that’s on periodt. no excuses.
@morganmahn78473 жыл бұрын
The last guy with the Star Wars figures is a friend of mine laughing at himself, he and his wife are both passionate Star Wars fans who love each other a lot! It makes sense in the context of his channel, but hard to tell out of context ☺️
@Nerobyrne3 жыл бұрын
if your GF shows up in a wedding dress and with a pastor and gives you an ultimatum, just say "well damn I'm sure glad I found out before we got married. Have a nice life."
@alicia3793 жыл бұрын
I also think female is kind of frustrating bc men have used it in a negative way to speak down to women. You know, saying shit like, “do this right now, woman!” or “All females are [insert negative adjective here].”
@AB-gh5be3 жыл бұрын
yeah! then there's the fact that they're using an adjective as a noun… really makes it feel like that's all they see you as
@sneakysnek5723 жыл бұрын
It’s super dehumanizing. I hate it.
@Erideah3 жыл бұрын
Yep, only gotten worse with pickup artists and incels talking about women as a group pretty much exclusively as “females” (or worse variations thereof), and the way the language of “getting a female”, “finding a female” etc has spread from that world to dudebros and pretty much into mainstream use I almost prefer the days when “getting pussy” was the most overused expression, because at least that’s honest and direct about what they’re referring to, and it was limited to hookup context; it’s worse when the entire person is reduced to that in much broader contexts
@Jessica-kb8jf3 жыл бұрын
Also it, unlike 'woman', doesn't exclude girls, which also feels very off.
@juliaparr17753 жыл бұрын
Its got the same energy as calling black people "Blacks" Like its super weird borderline offensive
@tatianaleutwiler18673 жыл бұрын
The woman going to the supermarket to get the dude to marry her felt like an episode of Superstore
@gracefulspork3 жыл бұрын
I like to imagine the manager coming out and saying "Ma'am, this is a Target."
@akitokutikabanae70103 жыл бұрын
What is it ? ;;
@BahamutEx3 жыл бұрын
Putting someone on the spot like this is not ok.
@acek20163 жыл бұрын
@@BahamutEx exactly
@tatianaleutwiler18673 жыл бұрын
@@akitokutikabanae7010 It's a sitcom that ran its last season this year, really good one.
@eleanorread38813 жыл бұрын
I feel horrible for the last guy, he seemed genuinely passionate about star wars. People should be allowed to be interested in things without being made fun of.
@oliverzwatermelongum3 жыл бұрын
Yea
@cerberaodollam Жыл бұрын
Stakuyi's wife kinda does that too and it's sometimes funny but sometimes it's just... Oof.
@yourbifriendaspen36293 жыл бұрын
I thought that the "m y w i f e i s n o t c o n t r o l l i n g m y l i f e" One was pretty funny actually. I mean, at least his wife was in on it. XD
@cloudypie94663 жыл бұрын
Me explaining to my friends the difference between straight people and THE straights.
@blackcopycat49673 жыл бұрын
its the same as trying too Explain "boys" and "THE BOYS🥶🔥😈"
@girlbye73 жыл бұрын
@@jellybeans3994 they are 😳
@AllenTax3 жыл бұрын
Maybe they need their own flag?!😅😐
@skyee73 жыл бұрын
@@blackcopycat4967 what's THE BOYS?
@blackcopycat49673 жыл бұрын
@@skyee7 its just of homophobic, misogynist little boys.
@emobeaglesroo1653 жыл бұрын
notice when the whole "super straight" tiktok phase was going on, *not many women came out as transphobic* (coming from a trans guy)
@sleepyote3 жыл бұрын
Yup, I've only seen cishet men call themselves super straight.
@maem74623 жыл бұрын
Honestly. The majority of the videos of ppl saying they’re “super straight” were men. Those were most the ppl that supported it. I did see a couple women making videos in support but it’s rare
@grizzlybear27023 жыл бұрын
Venesa vokey and posie parker said they were super straight. Maybe it’s just not as common. Maybe more men desire biological children then women but I don’t know for sure.
@whiteface513abandonedchann83 жыл бұрын
@@grizzlybear2702 it's nothing to do with desiring biological children. Just a thin veil over their transphobia, which is in turn, a thin veil over their homophobia and fear of being pinned as "gay"
@delicateghoul3 жыл бұрын
@@grizzlybear2702 I can guarantee these men do not care about procreating, they only care about recreating- and recreating only in a certain specific way that they've decided is the right way. That's why they get so personally offended that attractive trans people exist because it challenges their ideas on how sexual relationships work
@xxnightmarebearxx89533 жыл бұрын
When we say “the straights” most the time we mean “the jackass straights” lol
@brizzle26973 жыл бұрын
@@loisa2pa868 Yeah there is being straight, and then there are 'the straights'
@kris84303 жыл бұрын
The guy really said “I’m going trans 😤” as if he’s saying something like “I’m going sicko mode 😤”
@keirak94873 жыл бұрын
I'm straight and straight tiktok still scares me 😫 what is happening
@toph34873 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@Doctor-Infinite3 жыл бұрын
I’m a straight 19 yr old dude myself and even I struggle with what the hell is going on with my peers
@idk.31843 жыл бұрын
Me watching most of these tiktoks: Ok,then, just why? Can’t you be slightly normal and ok if people are slightly different from a “perfect person”.
@Sarah224103 жыл бұрын
Same me too
@sasha27943 жыл бұрын
Because most straight tik tok is abuse/ misogyny
@elijahreid94593 жыл бұрын
I saw the title of the video and I just shouted, “NOPE.”
@ic4rus943 жыл бұрын
lmaooo same bestie
@yoonhyunsuk3 жыл бұрын
same😭✋🏻 saw the title and was like "is that even a question??"
@iampidgeon69233 жыл бұрын
I went "is this even a valid question its a known fact they aren't"
@BozoBoyest3 жыл бұрын
Same thoooo 😂
@NaiveDJack3 жыл бұрын
And that's no lie
@crafterlula13283 жыл бұрын
I asked my SO, "If a guy says Female, what's your first thought?" Without missing a beat, they say, "Incel..."
@teritt3 жыл бұрын
How I know my boyfriend won’t cheat: We take naps together. Literally just nap and cuddle. Nothing more nothing less. And all sorts of people think it’s weird. But it works for us.
@lokicooper46903 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with taking naps and cuddling? I don't get why anyone would think that was weird. Go you and your boyfriend!
@teritt3 жыл бұрын
@@lokicooper4690 It’s cause sometimes we would visit each other just to nap together. We didn’t need much else, we talked sure but napping was comfortable to us.
@Cherrycreamsoda12 жыл бұрын
I would really love to find someone one day who I know won't cheat on me.
@osmium36913 жыл бұрын
"Tell me how you know your boyfriend won't cheat on you without telling me he won't cheat on you" Proceeds to film her boyfriend being very adorable and nerdy. I mean come on, who wouldn't want to sleep with that man? Or was her point supposed to be that he's too interested in his figurines to cheat? I'm so confused
@moiaussi77223 жыл бұрын
Her point was that he won't find anyone to cheat on her with because he's a nerd
@enter_eagle3 жыл бұрын
for my sanity i choose to believe she was just showcasing how her bf is like wholesome and sweet
@osmium36913 жыл бұрын
@@enter_eagle I like that interpretation best. It didn't feel like that when I was watching it, but I'm gonna choose to believe it anyways
@lemon-fg4wo3 жыл бұрын
honestly, i refuse to believe she meant it in a bad way- i looked at that tik tok and thought, “wow. maybe they’re really comfortable with each other, and he can talk freely about his hobbies and interests and he trusts her” or smth-
@Shoulderpads-mcgee3 жыл бұрын
Uno reverse card, now everyone is attracted to your cute star wars boyfriend
@kathilisi30193 жыл бұрын
The "controlling girlfriend" one HAS to have been a joke, surely? If you watch it thinking they're serious is totally not okay, but if you watch it as if it were a comedy sketch, it's kind of funny.
@g5rearea3 жыл бұрын
100% a joke. She's positioned perfectly in the mirror.
@lynn8583 жыл бұрын
I get it's a joke. I just feel like that brand of humor normalizes unhealthy relationships, demonizes "controlling" women, and berates men who don't assert control for the sake of it. What makes me even less comfortable is the age of these people. This joke was considered prime humor in the 1970s and 80s. It's born out of a fear of women taking over if they're given too many rights and feminism goes "too far".
@s.g.i87643 жыл бұрын
That was some serious boomer humour
@anabeatrizhenriquedeolivei64223 жыл бұрын
Hey, I realized something and didn't know where to share it, so here I am: I am the only menstruating being living in my house. I live with two other women, my mom and my sister, but my mom doesn't get periods anymore and my sister takes medicine to not get them because she gets such terrible cramps and headaches and her body just collapses everytime. So, I am the only menstruating being living in this house. If we were going by some transphobes' logic, I would be the only woman living here. See the problem? It just doesn't make sense. It's a logicless logic.
@TheGreatBackUpVIDEOS3 жыл бұрын
Shh, that requires considering that women are more than baby makers and transphobes don't think of women as human.
@elektra1213 жыл бұрын
No, it absolutely is logic. Only it takes false premises and so comes to completely false conclusions. But the logic in itself is flawless. People overestimate "logic", thinking it means "sensible decisions".
@TheGreatBackUpVIDEOS3 жыл бұрын
@@elektra121 "reasoning conducted or assessed according to strict principles of validity. " I dunno, I'm not sure where you can fit "blatant falsehood as one's foundation" in here.
@elektra1213 жыл бұрын
@@TheGreatBackUpVIDEOS Because the "reasoning" (=drawing conclusion according to valid principles) itself doesn't say anything about the validity of the premises. "If all A have the characteristic of being B" and "my subject is an A", then logic says it must have the characteristic of being B. "All things that are made out of frozen lemonade are pink. The moon is made out of frozen lemonade. So, the moon is pink." This is absolutely valid, flawless logic, even if being absolute bullshit at the same time, because the premises are wrong. Only because something is "logic" doesn't mean it says anything true about our world. Logic isn't truth. It can be, if the premises are true (which, in the cases that we talk about, aren't). But "logic" in itself doesn't say anything about the applicability of the conclusions to our world. So, the guys conclusions are absolutely wrong while being absolutely logic acvording to his false premises. I know it sounds weird.
@shalamandere3 жыл бұрын
The word "females" makes me uncomfy but the *"juicy"* female energy makes me very uncomfy
@Visshaldar3 жыл бұрын
i'm an old cishet married lady and that last one was not only incorrect it was just mean. no matter the fandom there are girls who are just as in to as any dude. it's one thing to joke and mess around with your partner but she's basically saying he's such a dork he CAN'T cheat on me, no one else would take him TO THE ENTIRE WORLD. girl he's not going to cheat on you, he's just going to leave you b/c you're mean.
@bigolsimp94233 жыл бұрын
The guy with the action figures excitedly explaining that to his girlfriend is so wholesome and adorable on his part to bad she was just filming it to berate him he seems so nice and genuine
@katsukibakugo86883 жыл бұрын
I've seen a lot of things how it was probably about "he's comfortable with sharing all this with me, he gets so excited about things like this! we're happy together, that's why he wouldn't cheat!" and i can't help but agree with them. Just decided to point that out in case you didnt see those comments :)
@chickadee69253 жыл бұрын
I think the last one was about how he talks about his figurines to his partner like he knew her his whole life. If my boyfriend would talk like that to me I would trust him too tbh
@dentedface3 жыл бұрын
tbh I really liked the last one! sure, part of the joke was "haha he's such a nerd" but also that little glimpse into their relationship showed that he has, in the past, shared a really big interest of his that's clearly very important to him, and she listened and paid attention. he clearly felt very comfortable sharing all that with her and I think that's v cute
@rosellastar4683 жыл бұрын
As an asexual person I know sex does not define a relationship you can still be in a romantic relationship without being a time waster. Also Jamie Is literally the sweetest
@pandaseal16113 жыл бұрын
@The Emo Trans Bimbo both are completely valid
@pandaseal16113 жыл бұрын
@The Confused Pansexual Emo oh ☹️ I’m sorry I didn’t know if the other person/people is okay with it then why do others care? 😔
@pandaseal16113 жыл бұрын
@The Confused Pansexual Emo that’s true 😞and that’s sad
@Cats-dv1ji3 жыл бұрын
@Agent Of Chaos 666 be who you are comfortable being and are happy with! It is your body so be proud of being aware and acknowledging something like this. It's a hard thing to accept when others are against it and I'm glad you acknowledge it. Just be happy and safe, that's all that matters! I'm similar in a way, people who call you certain slurs just are too close minded. A lot of my friends don't understand and are against it themselves, but they never put me down or give me hate for it. ^-^ I'm sure you will find some accepting people.
@min_nad3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! As a fellow acespec, this is so true
@CoilCannon3 жыл бұрын
That marriage one is exactly why I don't wanna get married. The whole pressured commitment thing is so off putting to me. And the whole feminine flow thing made me feel so unbelievably uncomfortable and has further cemented the fact that I myself am indeed Trans. Thanks straight TikTok, I hate it
@WolfgangDoW3 жыл бұрын
All relationships are built on open communication and trust No marriage should be a surprise, there should be a lot of discussion beforehand It should be a partnership not a dictatorship
@moiaussi77223 жыл бұрын
Tbh I want to get married because it'll make a cool party but I don't really think anything would change in my relationship before and after marriage
@tetsusumu3 жыл бұрын
to be fair anyone would hate the stupid "feminine flow" thing. It's the stupidest shit ive ever heard.
@sajteapot3 жыл бұрын
I'm not married, but been in a perfectly good relationship for 23 years. I don't want all the expense and people pleasing and family politics. Happy how we are. He did ask, I said no and why. 🤗
@lucidattf3 жыл бұрын
@The Emo Trans Bimbo I don't see any mistakes in their reply, but your reply has a mistake.
@HBBabe943 жыл бұрын
I just told a guy the other day that talking about Star Wars is actually really sexy for me. I’m not even lying. So that’s last TikTok was absolutely the cutest freaking thing on the planet and now I’m smiling like an idiot.
@pal85423 жыл бұрын
I also hate being referred to as a "female" and I'm a cis woman. It's just always felt condescending. and slightly offensive to me, I guess because it's always been used that way towards me.🤷♀️
@crabsbelikesnap61963 жыл бұрын
The last guy with the Star Wars figures is actually a super sweet creator. Tbh I don’t think that trend was too bad because for the most part it I think the point is showing that your boyfriend has nerdy golden retriever energy, and therefore wouldn’t cheat on you
@kaepiper3 жыл бұрын
yea it’s a trend on tiktok has a bit of a weird feeling but for the most part i don’t think the ppl participating are trying to be mean to their partners, hopefully
@Moon-Archive3 жыл бұрын
That's what I hoped, cause it seemed like it was accidental to make it seem...Pretty rude- I can see how it was meant to be nice, but I can also see how it can be really rude, so-
@Confusion71823 жыл бұрын
Yeah. What I got from that video was more along the lines of "my boyfriend is perfectly comfortable rambling about his interests to me, showing that he trusts me completely and is therefore highly unlikely to cheat on me". Though perhaps my read on the video has been warped by my own discomfort with showing my interest in Star Wars to people lol.
@exist40463 жыл бұрын
That guy seems hella wholesome anyway, i relate to that "telling people you love stuff they may not like a ton, but they still listen cause they know i like it and it means i like them too"
@void-highlighter3 жыл бұрын
He was so sweet. I am now very interested in star wars action figures. I need to know more!
@V3xxe3 жыл бұрын
I really can't tell if the woman in the last one is making fun of her boyfriend for his hobbies or being like "Look how dedicated he is to this, it's adorable and we are happy together"
@paigeseliger8363 жыл бұрын
I think if she were unsupportive of his hobbies, he wouldn't feel so comfortable making that whole (adorably) nerdy speech to her. He would probably keep that part of him to himself instead. I can see how the video could be mean, but I really think she's just saying "look how excited he is to tell me about this nerdy stuff, there's no way someone that jazzed to tell me about jetpacks would cheat!"
@eshiboo3 жыл бұрын
I think she made it with good intentions but it kind of made me uncomfortable tbh. Like, she's infantalizing him and desexualizing him, and so there's no way he would cheat because he's basically a dorky immature child? That's kind of the vibes it gave me.
@V3xxe3 жыл бұрын
@@eshiboo Yeah, that was what had me confused. My guess what she intended it to be what Paige said, but it comes off wrong.
@scaredyshibe5743 жыл бұрын
That dude all excited about his figures was adorable, people talking about things they're passionate about is 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻
@E_FoxSnowspirit3 жыл бұрын
I feel like some people just don’t get that transitioning isn’t a choice….. From what I understand ( as a cis person) it’s trying to physically get closer to who you actually are in your head, not just ooooh I guess I can be a girl no hey lollll
@alexshemwell83202 жыл бұрын
The desire to transition is not a choice. But actually doing so is a choice, one people may hold back from out of fear.
@storyspren3 жыл бұрын
The only straight who's okay in this collection is the guy in the last one lol, but he deserves better, someone who won't make fun of his interests for clout.
@laurena95633 жыл бұрын
Like, seriously. Plus it just seems like the aura is weirdly smug from behind the camera? Like just because the guy has 'nerdy" interests that no one would want him and therefore she has her "claws" into him? Gross all around. >_>
@kiralonely13073 жыл бұрын
Literally! He was so innovative and it was clearly a passion he was excited to share with the person he cares about! Like, I kinda date nerdy people on purpose, because I myself am nerdy and I love the passion for that kind of stuff, even if I don't like it or get it. I loved the whole thing he did with the floating stand and jetpack, and like he said, sucks since it was a rare figurine he got the jetpack from, but that still was cool! is it weird I was legitimately interested in what that man was on about, cause like, that's kinda how my best friend/ex acts about his nerd stuff I don't always get. I don't know a ton about Star Wars for example, but I like it okay, and I love to hear him ramble on about stuff he loves about it and how he'd go about problem solving, and try to understand, or at least acknowledge he's sharing something that brings him joy, and that makes me happy, lol
@amidar66343 жыл бұрын
@@kiralonely1307 if this isn't relationship with mutual respect, i don't want it I always thought if you love someone, you love their passion for hobbies. Like maybe you don't like fantasy, but it's adorable to watch your love ramble about it for hours(and maybe even get you interested). It's so easy to listen to your partner and everyone is thankful for someone who lends an ear
@silverseen83003 жыл бұрын
@Marilyn Matt what?
@bluebird19143 жыл бұрын
That one really left a bitter taste in my mouth. It's like his gf is trying to say 'Look how nerdy my bf is, he's so nerdy that he wouldn't be able to get another gf.' yikes lady...
@victoriaroberts70343 жыл бұрын
To that guy who said he would pretend he was calling another girl, "I MAY have at some point in the future wanted to sleep with you but that attitude would turn into a hard nope, never, no thanks hope I don't see you again soon"
@cgmanning3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking. He seemed to think that if a woman doesn't want to sleep with him one time, they will never want to sleep with him. Dude, it's doesn't work like that. Sometimes you're in the mood, sometimes you're not.
@lolilo27593 жыл бұрын
There are so great vibes on this video. It’s really something else than my racist, homophobic and thransfobic and overal discriminating family in quarantine with me right now. Thank you for existing and making the world a better place by influencing good things!! I love your videos! :D
@dianne52683 жыл бұрын
7:30 I'm so sorry, but this is so cute how he's just talking. It's adorable~ Seems like a joke, but he was just so passionate talking about his figurines that it would suck if she didn't care
@SomeOne-pg2js3 жыл бұрын
7:25 he seems like such a wholesome, sweet and passionate guy and I feel like his partner doesn't appreciate him in the way that he deserves it :/
@andysartz3 жыл бұрын
I know right?? That one made me so sad! :(
@raemorefield46773 жыл бұрын
I hope she does appreciate him and his interest and is just showing he's too wholesome to cheat?
@katthebunnyqueen51893 жыл бұрын
@@raemorefield4677 I really hope that's what she meant but I have a feeling she didn't and that makes me sad
@leea87063 жыл бұрын
@@katthebunnyqueen5189 I think she is really supportive, the reason being he was fully ok with telling her all about his hobby with seemingly no fear of judgment. I think she seems to think he’s just as cute as the comments do. It was a sweet TikTok for once.
@Shahjahani7773 жыл бұрын
O goodness. It's my 14 year old son in the future. And I'm down for him holding onto his passions. I hope he finds a person that loves and appreciates this passion.
@MaddieTheMermaid3 жыл бұрын
In regards to that “females”-related topic, I’ve always seen that any man who used that specific language, when not talking about anatomy or animals, it is always in a weird sort of possessive way. Like I’ve heard cis men talking about how “females like so-and-so” in regards to sex or sexual pursuits. It’s always been used in demeaning and dehumanizing ways. I’m always suspicious when I hear men talk like that-it’s a clear indication of what sort of personality they have
@OrangeHipster3 жыл бұрын
I would like but it’s at the perfect number 😔🤚
@eipheres3 жыл бұрын
fun "some straights are ok" story: my parents were once at a bar together and my dad went up to the bar to get them drinks. a woman complimented his star trek shirt, and started pretty obviously flirting with him. he had no idea she was flirting (hes kinda clueless with social things) and just started talking about how he had a full spock costume at home 🤣 anyway theyve been married for like 30 years and are still happy together :)
@halfpintrr3 жыл бұрын
The last guy was super adorable! My best friend is also a nerd, we’ve rewritten the sequel trilogy like 3 times
@zin67493 жыл бұрын
I think the one where she filmed her boyfriend setting up his figurines was so sweet, he looked so wholesome and happy when he turned to face the camera
@andi7143 жыл бұрын
the straights(TM) are never ok, but they are especially not ok on tiktok
@beanvillus3 жыл бұрын
Not all straights are like that.
@imaneclair48363 жыл бұрын
@@beanvillus we know that, but some are like that
@beanvillus3 жыл бұрын
@@imaneclair4836 Yeah, (to me) it just sounded like "the straights" like "all straights", so I just wanted to clarify that.
@crunchevo89743 жыл бұрын
@@beanvillus nah memes are 100% true of everyone.
@imaneclair48363 жыл бұрын
@@beanvillus yeah that’s fair not all of them are bad but just these ones on tiktok need to stop haha
@robinthefarmboy59723 жыл бұрын
Ok but the boyfriend talking about his figurines was so cute like omg his smile at the end. He looks so happy and that’s what we like. Happiness is great.
@Mooskym3 жыл бұрын
The one about the guy with the 'not-controlling' girlfriend was quite funny imo. The other clips Jammi talked about ranged between cringy to very creepy, though.
@guabu213 жыл бұрын
His eww at 6:35 made me laugh so hard. You can tell he is genuinely disgusted
@llGemini193 жыл бұрын
Ok but the last one that guy having a hobby he's really passionate about, that was cute as heck! I love when people have hobbies they love and are super passionate about and aren't afraid of letting the world know!
@oliversszx3 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: (it happened to me today) being trans and lesbian I would technically be a man that’s still likes women so I would be “straight” But someone said, if you’re gay as a woman you’re gay as a man. Tf- if I was a woman that liked other women, If I switch I’m not automatically gay. I like women still.
@fabplays65593 жыл бұрын
This confuses me so much.
@chelseyaustin60153 жыл бұрын
@6:50. Manipulated consent is NOT CONSENT
@Rockhoppr33 жыл бұрын
"Are the straights okay?" Oh no. "ON TIK TOK!" OH NO!!!
@gracefulspork3 жыл бұрын
oh no no no no no no
@MadameCirce3 жыл бұрын
Okay, that last one with the guy gluing the jet pack on his collectable figure actually made me smile, that was adorable. I'd say those straights are okay. The others though? Nope.
@akitokutikabanae70103 жыл бұрын
No, THIS straight is okay, his girlfriend making fun of his passion isn't :(
@Beetledraws133 жыл бұрын
Hey Jamie. I know you probably won't see this but I recently started using they/them pronouns and have had my first experience with discrimination within the LGBTQ+ community. I wanted to thank you for making these amazing videos and helping me feel comfortable with who I am despite what other people say. Thank you. ❤️
@noamm55343 жыл бұрын
Never understood the "crazy lady wants a wedding or else". I know a TON of couples deciding not to marry or have a wedding. Why the obsession? What is marriage changing in your life?
@thatbitchnoemie3 жыл бұрын
Right ? Like personally even if I stay with the same person for 30 years I still don't want to get married. To me it's just an expensive piece of paper that complicates everything. TO ME. Doesn't mean I have a right to criticize anyone who wants to get married. I wish we could just let everybody do whatever the hell they want.
@trishapellis3 жыл бұрын
Marriage is useful in a few situations. First off, in some places you get tax benefits, and inheritances are easier to manage when there's a wedding contract in play (which makes it kinda hard to see those women who die-hard want a wedding and not wonder if it's about the money, though I know that's not true in all cases). Secondly, if there are children, if there's no marriage involved some other document may need to be made to make sure they inherit the father's inheritance. That may sound nitpicky but the last thing you want to so during your SO's funeral planning is also fight his family over the inheritance. Thirdly, though this is a minority of cases, if both partners are from different countries and may need special Visas to be able to visit or live somewhere. My husband and I have both been legally living in Spain for years but when we went to Sweden or something he had to bring his Schengen Visa until after we were married. (They still spent over an hour looking into it before they told us we could go in, but yeah. If you think America is hard to get into, Europe's not far behind. Bring that passport when crossing borders inside the Schengen zone.) But I'm with you on marriage not being necessary at all.
@catboy_tylerr3 жыл бұрын
"tell me your boyfriend won't cheat on you without telling me your boyfriend won't cheat on you" that guy is so cool tho??? like, i wanna be friends with him and talk about our mutual love for star wars and figurines
@simrandyal22923 жыл бұрын
When jammie wants to say it's "uncomfortable" Jammie : that's ✨ interesting✨
@MindyGhost3 жыл бұрын
The guy with the figures made me so happy. I love seeing people passionate about their collections/hobbies
@nuvolaellana3 жыл бұрын
Your videos always make me smile when the world doesn’t feel ok :)
@odditytheoddity91883 жыл бұрын
Can we just give a sec to our good sir One Topic? Like Dudes I didn't even know he wasn't bi till he told us and I love him even more for it-
@nightshade89283 жыл бұрын
OT is bi?
@raspberryy_jamm3 жыл бұрын
i don’t remember him outright saying it, what episode was that in?
@crustlyn57563 жыл бұрын
Isnt OT straight? I thought he was just a mega ally or something.
@honhonhonbaguettes3 жыл бұрын
Wait OT is bi? I never even knew that, he’s always been seen as the best ally lol.
@adora67693 жыл бұрын
Wait he’s bi?!!!!!
@Wren7963 жыл бұрын
Straight tiktok is never okay, I'm very glad I was never on that side
@Sigmaskycasino3 жыл бұрын
Same! My cousin was on there one time and she would always send me videos from that side and it’s scary on there😖 I wish it never existed
@airplanes_aren.t_real3 жыл бұрын
Same
@jay_art30323 жыл бұрын
I wish I could get off straight tiktok.. but for some reason it won't work???
@Sigmaskycasino3 жыл бұрын
@@jay_art3032 oh no💔 you can have my fyp it has a lot of lgbtqia+ stuff, art, birds, nails honestly anything except straight stuff and yk anyway so I will gladly share mine with you to get u off of there.
@avanipanji3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I was never on tiktok in the first place
@Sybergobnz3 жыл бұрын
The guy with the action figures was so cute he was just so passionate about his stuff and I love that for him
@Maerahn3 жыл бұрын
0:44 - They have BRUNETTE Christmas trees now? Yaaaay, straight tiktok - the tiktok that makes me sad to be straight! 😟
@LucielGhost3 жыл бұрын
That last one, giving him a jetpack and a floating stand, that was adorable.
@tiredace_29983 жыл бұрын
3:19 me an Asexual: This makes me extremely uncomfortable. I felt very disgusted while watching this tiktok
@theneonghosts3 жыл бұрын
It is extremely hard to watch
@lillyflower2593 жыл бұрын
Me not being an asexual but feel disgusted as well. Wtaf was going on there😃? Did they really think it was a good idea to share this thing?
@tiredace_29983 жыл бұрын
@@lillyflower259 i don't even want to know what was going through her mind when she posted that
@subratanandy21423 жыл бұрын
Im not even an asexual , ( I'm trying to figure out for sometime if I'm actually a demi) ..He could have simply talked and tried to know her a bit better , at least a few days ..before calling her a time waster. It totally disgusts me .
@barrylangille35233 жыл бұрын
This is actually the only one that the woman is being creepy. He's just supporting her in her exercises. The movements are dancelike and graceful. She's making it uncomfortable with her comments. Why does she think she has to be "yummy" and "juicy"? There's your ew factor.
@min_nad3 жыл бұрын
At moments like this I'm so glad to be a lesbian
@ill_prepared_optimist3 жыл бұрын
It just occurred to me that I "found" your channel last week because I was trying to remember the name of the cookie that Doctor Who likes. And I have to say that your content is some of the best stuff on the internet these days. Thanks for sharing your story, thoughts, and feelings.
@xandra39843 жыл бұрын
You know, Christmas tree shopping is always SO hard when you’re not
@LucasBurrell3 жыл бұрын
The amount of stores ive been kicked out of because im 5"6.5' is countless. •~•
@zach33943 жыл бұрын
I'll go Christmas tree shopping with you.
@princesspeach79363 жыл бұрын
Im so lucky for being non binary, 6'1 and purple haired
@moiaussi77223 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'7" and blonde
@alanm78383 жыл бұрын
Can we all just take a moment to appreciate how amazing Jamie's beard is?
@WasteOfPain_t_3 жыл бұрын
the last video was actually adorable idk why i found it so cute but he was so excited abt his little figurines and i just
@phoenixs.10723 жыл бұрын
Hey Jamie, I think you’re my new favorite KZfaqr right now. It’s good to see positive and fun trans KZfaqrs. I adore your content, keep up the good work💛