The first red flag 🚩 was that he was MARRIED 🥴🤞🏾🥴🥴🥴

She should've left him when she found out about the other woman being pregnant.

If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!

She is so pretty. Girl, go find somebody else, but make sure he’s not married. You knew better, but you got with him anyway and now we’re here…

Legally in a relationship.....that's a new one!!!!! What an eloquent way of saying, he was married! Gurl bye......😂😂😂😂😂😂

He has told her multiple times in multiple ways that he didn’t want her. Should’ve listened the first time 😢

I bet that ex is on standby.

He's not even a prize period. He's the tool with everyone, girl, move on, please

The way you get them, is the same way you lose them. He was married and creeping when she met him. She continued into a relationship with him. He's been cheating on her throughout their marriage. He is who he is . She was just the next one in line. She thought she was the "special" one.

He’s got somebody else so he ain’t fighting for nothing. There was no pleading or asking for forgiveness and even just a true apology. Wish them both the best, she can find another man in a heartbeat.

He's a complete jerk.

I don't like this man.

Getting with a married man then being upset when he cheats 🤦🏽‍♀️

she’s so beautiful; praying she moves on and finds herself again…

His first statement says it all. He is not interested in the marriage, he wants to play. They are both wrong

She was totally complicit from the beginning. She thought she could change him... maybe. He flirted with her on his route...all while being married. What did she think she was getting? He's a dog. She's manipulative.

Leave him he has shown you who he is.

As a borderline feminist I’m going to say this. We can’t always blame the man for this mess. She should’ve backed away after he told her that he was married. You lose them the same way you get them. Then, forgiving him after he had a baby on you. Some women can do that while others can’t. She did the ultimate disrespect thing by engaging in intimacy while they had a house full of people and he was present. Both of them are wrong for their part but the best thing he did was admit that he no longer wanted to be married to her. She’s hurt because she’s probably afraid of change and is use to being in a unhealthy relationship. I hope they both find peace

I see most of these comments addressing his issues. Her issue was she accepted a man who wanted to lay and play but not stay. And at the end he showed her exactly what she already knew. It wasn't all on him.

New Jersey is in the building!!!! I saw him in Wal-Mart today alone being real quiet 😂

Lady Run 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

She started sleeping with him when he was married… I have no sympathy for her…

Seems the secret to long marriages/relationships is tolerance. Putting up with any and everything until you can't possibly put up with it another second. That's gonna be a no for me dawg

Find your “Happy” because it is not with him ….

If they'll cheat with you they'll cheat on you

Yeah he never wanted to get married in the first place. He wasn't ready.

At 3:33, when Lana said Derrick was in a legally relationship instead of plainly saying he was married, showed that she was a side chick at the beginning of their relationship. Trying to disguise what she did, was a hypocritical move. And then, with time, she decided to ignore all the red flags he displayed in front of her. If she thought she wan a prize winning him over somebody else, she was in for some disappointments she kinda deserved.

Judge Star don't ever go away sending you flowers🎉🎉🎉

4:00 The whole him trying to talk to you on the bus while he was married is a huge red flag!!! She lived a life of turmoil with him because she asked for it and knew the type of dog she was dealing with.

She’s trying to lessen her behavior from his. Just like Robert said, “guns blazing” on each other. Furthermore, this marriage is over on the ground of server emotional abuse💯💯💯

Men don't realize that the woman you're suppose to hold in high esteem and in your heart, is being shared with other women in the same way. He wants to play and expect her to be a faithful wife.

There walk out at the end speaks volumes. Body language!!

She’s no better than him and it explains clearly the 18years together. I don’t feel sorry for either of them.

The foundation was not strong to begin with and he was in over his head in the beginning with too much going on

She met and married a player. What did she think would happen? That bus driver was after plenty fish!

She said, he was in a relationship… Legally Judge Jones said, that’s called a marriage. For the man that a woman wants, she’ll drop all kinds of morals, values standards, and boundaries just to get that man.

The situation is just shameful and intentional from him. She should have left him from he got that other person pregnant. He's just disrespectful

Just go your separate ways . She didn't forgive him for his past issues. She stayed, used sex as weapon then also found intimacy in others.

I hate divorce, but sometimes it’s definitely necessary.😢

This brother don't wanna take responsibility for nothing.He's a Main child!

Oh okay...I wasn't expecting this uber early upload... but I'm gonna watch it!!!

The other guy was "fixing things" alright, probably plumbing 😉

She is absolutely gorgeous, she knows how to communicate her needs effectively and she's feminine. After 18 yrs of marriage, she'll need a little time to heal, BUT she'll be just fine!!! ❤

Some people would do anything for their spouses, and some people will do anything to their spouses

Shes better off without him.. he can't keep it in his pants and how many other kids has he got during their marriage??

Mr. Cribb isn't A One Woman Man, And He Probably Never Will Be!! This Marriage Was Over A long time Ago, just A lot Of Back And Forth!!

Lets rewind a bit. Shes 42 and together 23 years. This means she was 19 upon meeting and he 29. She said how they met was he was legally in a relationship, but at those ages he knew more. Both still wrong. I also wonder if she was in a fragile place to be seeking out something so intense at a young age. Or being young, got caught up in his interest. He showed his true colors from the jump. He's narrating of their happiest time -meeting. He said "i thought it would be fun..didnt think it would turn into anything" 2 kids and 23 years later, not a smile cracked in recollection. So sad. Case of young girl taking things seriously when he just wanted tail. And he still only wants tail! He also does not appear remorseful about his actions. Older but not mature. Girl, you're a beauty- roll on. And if something isn't working- dont cheat. Just go. Ruining your character in revenge is not worth it. That other person isn't worth it 🙏🏾

He moved in with his ex. I bet they are still sleeping together. She should've left when ahe found out about his child.

LANA, YOU ARE TOO GORGEOUS AND STILL YOUNG ENOUGH TO ENJOY YOU AND YOU ALONE…LET OLD DADDY GO BE DADDY ON HIS OWN,..LANA YOUR TOO GOOD FOR HIM!

Unfortunately, the judge went against him instead of going in on both of them. The foundation was built on dishonesty and cheating, then it came down to lack of loyalty, trust and communication and they stayed together in their dysfunction. The judge should have been on her case about her choices as much as she was on his. How is she playing the victim card by choosing to stay with a married man, then carrying his child right along with some other woman carrying his child at the same time, then using sex as a weapon to control him? Neither of them wanted to remain married and they just needed this last push from the judge. However, they both need therapy

23 years together… she’s 42 not and they have a 10 year gap? 🤔 29 dating a 19 year old is crazy .

There is no way you going to be with a woman and move in my house No F****ing way 😭😂

Damn so many years wasted. She doesn’t look like she’s been unhappy which is good. She looks amazing. He’s raggedy.

Girl bye! I was over this case the first 5 minutes. If you decide to get with a man who is still married and you think you about to get a different man than the wife got, as far as I'm concerned, you get what you get. I am not trying to hear you crying and complaining on divorce Court. Sorry not sorry.

The man wants to deflect to what she's done when asked about his bad behavior.

He gives off creepy bad vibes… ion trust him. STRUT ON SIS you’re too beautiful and good for that weirdo!

She was soo happy walking out that court room you go girl 🎉👏👏

A man isnt going to fight for a relationship that he doesnt want.

Mothers, as a daughter , please teach your girl children to listen to their intuition. To listen to their gut feeling, and to not need any evidence to back up why they feel off about a man. Teach them to leave it a man lies and doesn’t change. Teach them they are whole before and even after a man. Because this keeps happening to our community! Teach them!

Dating a married man is crazy then marrying him is nuts… Not having se with your husband is bonkers… both are equally wrong… it’s women like her that hurt women like her…

It was over when he cheated. Ladies and Gents, try working on the relationship, don't cheat, . If you already know it can't be saved just leave. It saves a lot of unnecessary drama and sometimes it saves lives.

He doesn't know the difference in love and liking is mate

She got the man she wanted...a cheater

Have no sympathy for neither. They are both guilty of infidelity.

She stayed with him after he got another woman pregnant and didn't leave then so why does she want to leave now.

He wants someone move passive than her. Imagine that?🤷🏾‍♀️

In the words of Judge Toler's words: Don't ever let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you. Too many red flags

That’s right girl, walk out with your head held high!!!😂

Not a geologist. 🤣 Stand up, girl. 👏🏽

Gorgeous woman! The first RED FLAG was the husband being married and enticing her into a relationship. I hope she has learned and moves on to a better and healthier relationship! It's not worth her losing herself anymore!

Oh this is an EARLY upload

Staying with someone to hurt them doesn't make things right. Don't understand why she didn't leave him a long time ago.

Go girl you can do what you like now don't take him back you wasted to much time

He wasted her time when he could have easily said I don’t want to fight for this

When they walked down the hall did it for me, she looked amazing, beautiful walk, head held high, had a great outfit, classy woman, but he walked beaten down, hunched over, and looked very weak. It's because when you live a devious lifestyle of cheating and doing wrong you reap what you sow. He looked like her dad walking down that hall. It pays to live right no matter what. Living wrong and committing adultery will beat you up. The wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

I don’t feel bad for her unfortunately.. You knew he was married.. make it makes sense

He was wrong for all the things he did to her, however i am pretty sure she has been doing her own thing too. He was still married and she was the side chick!!!! PLAIN & SIMPLE

Judge was soo mad she yelled at my bailiff. Young lady needs to find her happy like the judge said.

Salute to Mr. Cribb! Ain't nothing honorable about that woman.

People in relationships fail to see that how it starts is how it ends. Once a cheater, always a cheater

So fast to get married to someone who was married and also pregnated two women at the same time. She goes out the way she came in. Tit for tat relationship.

He has check out of this marriage.... This is why I never want a male that is married, separate or divorce...😊

I didn't think he wanted to end the marriage I think he meant he didn't want to come back to court. Although he didn't express himself as well as I think he could have, I really feel he meant to say he wanted to save the marriage but he didn't want to go through the drama. I Also feel she has someone else and he is going back to the ex. The children are now21 years old so he will not have to pay child support.

The first time a man play with you… Leave!

I liked this video because it's awesome!

Y’all, just say what it is. God bless.

These recent episodes have to be scripted. I don’t know anyone that’s this bad. I know you are who you hang out with, and I don’t hang out with anyone like this. But this is ridiculous.

You lose em how u got em 🤷🏽‍♀️ I hope she moves on, and I hope he grows up..

From 19:04, she was speedily moving on with her life with some beautiful steps!

Does anybody else notice 🧐 that one of the women who are in the audience was also on Divorce Court or ready to love last season?? It's the woman with black curly hair at 20:14

She has learned the hard way a bit too late. She got with him knowing he was married and that was 20yrs ago but karma has still come knocking 20yrs later. Women destroy other women and expect a better outcome for themselves. 😊

She stole someone else man, but can't handle it when it happens to her. Ma'am you knew he was a cheater when yall began. The only person I feel sorry for is the original wife.

She needs to realize her worth, leave him, seek therapy and heal. The damage and toxicity that she endured during this marriage can and will mirror into her next relationship. Therefore, healing and being a mom should be her priority. I hope she opens her eyes and comes to term that he doesn’t want her, and her attempt to match his energy is draining her soul and becoming a better woman and living her best life.

Not sure why women who deal with married men don't think it will happen to them???? if he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you.....

When you mess wuth a person who is married that what happen..people stay away from married folks

😲 Mrs. Cribb was getting busy at the crib! lol - Can't say I blame her! 14:43 - JS went DJ Khaled on us... And another one 😂😂😂 18:31 - JS is steaming - but why take it out on Robert! "Serve the Papers" LOL .... She tried to save them but Brother Cribb had checked completely out - matter of fact - he never checked in !!!

3:47 he was married. Chile.

Marriage was the red flag #1 what goes around comes around.

I thought 🤔 she was older than that

I know we ask to see legit married couples on the show but it's something heartbreaking about seeing a marriage of 20+yrs dissolve so easily and publicly 😭 Especially for entertainment. It sounded like a dub but still kinda messed up to witness