Not really, but sometimes being single for a long time gets comfortable. Especially when you are good at making yourself happy.

Being alone is better than entertaining foolery and shenignans.

being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship, or in a relationship with someone who makes you miserable or stressed, etc. I love seeing how more and more women are becoming less dependent on men to take care of them

I'm comfortable with being single. I'm alone, but NOT lonely.

I love being alone... nothing like the peace I feel now with who I am . I am positive I'll never put up with the BS of a toxic relationship again!!😉❤

As much as I'd love to be in a relationship and possibly get married one day, I'm content being single and continuing to work on myself. I refuse to date someone undeserving of me out of loneliness.

Singleness is PEACEFUL.

I LOVE my own company!!!

Stress free from the stress of being in a relationship. You can't replace PEACE!!

I’m very comfortable with being single because I don’t view myself as being alone. I love chillin and being productive with myself. Happy holidays y’all! 😘

I've been single for 10 years after my divorce and I'm happy being single. The only person that needs to validate me is me. I want quality of life and being single works better for me.would I like a relationship !? Of course but not with someone at expensive of my mental health and quality of life

Ladies, respect your peace of mind.

That's a CONFIDENT woman. She knows what she want, n dont mind being alone...NOT LONELY. Her options are still open. She will not stand for no Bs. Very well said, Mr. Jxn.

Nobody really ask guys this questions because many don't know how to be alone, constantly in and out of situationships. It's unfortunate that alot if males are looking for someone to use, fund their dreams, sugar mommas and caregivers.

I'm extroverted & I love socializing. But I also love my solitude. When it comes to dating, I will remain happily alone until I see the right qualities in someone.

I actually love stretching out and not sharing my bed! It’s luxury 🥰

I'm comfortable being single and can't see myself being in a relationship again.

Peace is priceless…..

This might be true. I am very comfortable being independent doing it on my own. Love my independence.

I'm comfortable being alone honesty I do as i please no drama no bitching or complaining and the peace and quite is awesome I'm a grown woman I can handle being alone....

I have been single for seven years now. I am comfortable, and God is working on me.

Current comfort doesn't mean ultimate desire.

I rather walk bare feet than in uncomfortable shoes. I am good being single 😊

I’m good either way. Ain’t pressed fo shit.

What’s wrong with being single? I have traveled extensively during my singlehood and this experience allowed me the time to know myself and explore! Derrick is making sense!!!

I'm comfortable being alone sometimes

We took back our power💪

Maybe it's a matter of us grinding and depending upon the grind yes we be in bed early...doing 12 hours is no joke.

Dam straight we are

Yes am way comfortable being single than I ever was when I was in relationship

Very comfortable being alone/single 🙋🏻‍♀️ That much that i feel like dating right now would feel like a chore

why do you men pretend to care? loving the single, dust-free life. without y'all.

I absolutely love my alone time. I actually crave it. Now does this negate sharing my time with a special person, no, it does not. My alone time allows for reflection, growth, and learning who I am individually.

Who says that life should be defined by you being in a relationship?? I am single, at peace with everything, I wasnt even thinking about "being alone", I have my family...the only time I am truly alone is when my baby is alseep and enjoy my me time. nothing wrong with being alone..whats wrong with being in a relationship?? oooh I can think of many things, personally I am not ready to deal with

Do I like being single...no. Nut it is far less stress to date around than to be unhappy.

I am very comfortable not dealing with BS. I am happy in my singlenesses until my husband comes along

Sometimes we are spending time healing ourselves too. Before complicating things by involving other people in our mess.

it's 8:40 I'm in the bed comfortable stress free and FNF. gotta be up early from work so need my rest

Too comfortable or just tired of bs? Hmmm

Yes sir. Home is where the heart is.

No such thing as too comfortable.

I wish I could find someone as clear minded as Derrick. Seriously this is exactly what most women talk about but MOST MEN never dare go there because it bruises their ego.

I'm happily married and I'm in my bed with my husband of 11 years right now. We are all tired. Goodnight.

This is my bedtime! I love being alone with myself. ❤️🙏🏻❤️

The message is the important part, not the messenger. Great commentary!

I'm loving being single!!!! 15 years and counting!!!

I don't agree because you have to be selfish or somewhat unsecured (afraid to open up to people who can see your shortcomings) to be too comfortable being alone. Someone with potential who is a giver cannot be too comfortable being alone. People are becoming more and more selfish and unsecure that's why they prefer to be alone and build the habit to be comfortable being alone. Sometimes we need to be alone. But when we are too comfortable being alone, then it's a problem. If you are too comfortable being alone it will be hard to accommodate anyone in your life, you will become disable for relationships. That's why we witness parents who don't even enjoy the company of their children and want to chase them out of the home when they are young adult. And even children who don't enjoy the company of their parents or siblings. These are problems that results from loss of moral and family values in society. People are also becoming too harsh and merciless that it's better to be alone than to share life with them. But that's not normal. We are social beings and it can be confirmed with children who like to discover people and be friendly with anyone. We like to discover people and befriend them. It's embedded in us by default. But we should express that quality wisely.

I love you guys so much ❤️❤️

Big up big up to ME TIME !!!

I feel personally attacked from this post😭😭

I’m extremely comfortable being alone.

Womon say they are comfortable being alone instead of saying your not attractive to them or something like I saw you with someone last night, we have a heart and we don't want to break yours, take a hint and don't take it personally

There is no such thing as a woman being 'too comfortable alone'.

I can do bad by myself

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So the implication in this question is that what, we should be out bar hopping looking for something outside ourselves?

He never answers the question without asking another question or saying that question shouldn't be asked.

Wonder how Derrick marriage going right now

Derrick you are THE BEST

I’d rather be alone

I love being single 😅

What you're saying is pure common sense...which is lacking in the current popular narrative regarding women.

I appreciate you speaking on this. I agree 100%

What does being in bed early have to do with it? I gotta get up at 5 on work days

Yep

I totally 100% agree with you here

Exactly ..... Thereeeeeeee ya go....... I'm loving it...... Amen Amen!

Its the word "too"

Clapping. You're right

I'm not alone I have my cat😻

no, not if you are the alternative 😝

I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️

The legend "homer SIMPson"

WHY DOES IT MATTER 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

You’re so attractive it’s distracting. Rock on

They are not in bed by 7pm they are online checking their feedback and validation. In fact, they are alone physically, but not socially. Women are hardly comfortable being alone.

Derrick, your biggest fear

I love u

Hello!!🙌🏽💯

No

Women think Derrick is a real person they are gone find in real life. This isn't thwme 1940s 50s 60s. Men don't want to be in a relationship because it's to consequental for men when it don't work out