the fact that this exists in 2018 feels like a warm hug from smudged eyeliner. we need more of this

Music industry: Emo is dead, move on. As It Is: 'Scuse me? Hold my beer

EMO NEVER LEFT IT JUST WAS HIDING IN OUR SOULS DONT HIDE IT SHOW FALLEN ANGELS

Me 2018: 19 Years old. Father. Hard working professional. As It Is 2018: Dye your hair black again. Buy more eyeliner. Wear dark clothes. So glad that emo is making a come back

*runs to bathroom and puts on more eyeliner*

I love how he's challenging the whole stigma with boys and mental health, this is an important topic that needs to be talked about. As it is has got my full support 100%

Even though I'm a girl, this song's message speaks volumes to me.

This song has a very strong message about what society says is acceptable for boys to do. Like they can't wear makeup, like cute things, be "soft", or cry. Even though forcing people to live by this is not only toxic but a type of emotional abuse because you are hurting them in ways that are not visible on the surface. I love this song for that reason

It feels like we're back in 2005, and it feels... sooooooo good!!

This may look dated to alot of people now in 2018 but i bet in about 5 or 6 years, emo/scene and post-hardcore will be back in style because of 00s nostalgia thats already starting to replace the current 90s nostalgia trend.

jared leto and gerard way had a child

I prefer this a million times than the current trend in music.

It's happening. The emo Renaissance is happening.

Is anyone else already in love with the new As It Is era? The way they're focusing on mental illness and using their music and platform to break the stigma is inspiring. They've already helped so many people, they're only gonna help even more. Love this band. Thank you, As It Is. 🖤🖤🖤

i cried when he got punched and cried more when he started crying...……. then they locked the knob head out and when he smiled and giggled to himself I don't think I have ever smiled so much... I love this song, I love this band and I love this album... I pre ordered it and honestly it is all I listen to most of the time... I fucking love this band

This song sends such a strong message and I love it. I’m a pretty soft guy and this made me cry. Well shit guess I’m not a boy now.

Finally a video that focuses on male depression!!! Thank you so much!!! My only problem is that it didn’t come out sooner!!!!!

This actually hits a hard message if you think about it

Why is everyone saying how “emo is back”? Emo never left. I’ve been emo for years and I know tons of emos who are the same. And there’s been tons of underground emo bands. Emo music just hasn’t been popular for a few years that’s all. BTW IM STILL EMO AND IM NOT GONNA STOP FOR A FEW MORE YEARS!

I’m a boy and this song made me cry because of how true it all is and how meaningful and relatable this is and ya know what I ain’t ashamed

emo to the extremo

Its realy good, Emo alive!

I am surprised that I couldn't find a mention about the ending of the video in the comments. it is such a meaningful moment for the video depicting the fact that girls are also expected to act a certain way. It just leaves an untold section of a story about gender expectations that keeps you thinking after you watch the video. So good job whom ever came up with the music video.

Why cant I stop listening to this? ...I mean seriously, i've had it on repeat for days and cant stop. When I'm not listening to it, this song is playing in my head. Please make it stop.

The ending to this video makes me think that there is going to be a similar song on the album on female social standards, and i think its going to be just as important as this beautiful song

Beautiful... I'm literally crying now. This is such an important topic to talk about, it's so toxic for boys and men to not be allowed to show emotions, that's why the suicide rates are so high for men. Beautiful lyrics and video, I feel like this is a perfect example of the macho culture. Thank you, this band is amazing and I love their new sound so much. I'm so excited for the album, it will be great!! ♥️

EMO NEVER DIE

The fact that this was made now in 2018 when there’s been so much awful music lately makes me so happy.

Me yesterday: emo is dead move on. Me, 3:35 ago: I need to bring back guyliner.

seems like it was never just a phase

His voice is beautiful😍💓

Are they trying to make us emo?? Because this how you do it.

First time hearing these guys got a new fan with this song

I love how Patty's shiney blue eyes pierce through the black hair... it does something to me xD

This song was in my recommended so I listened to it. The lead singer reminded me of something but I wasn't able to tell what it was until I checked other songs of them and I realised that 3 years ago I used to listen to them. I was in the middle of my pop punk phase and I was subscribed to Patty's channel. I used to love his covers and when he stopped uploading videos because As It Is signed Fearless I checked them out. I liked them but then my pop punk phase went to end and I started listening other types of music...anyway I can't believe that i've totally forgot about them in these 3 years😅 (also they look so different how the hell could I recognize Patty😂). Now that I listen literally everything (including pop punk) I found them again and after I've listened to this album I want to say that their new sound is amazing. I don't like so much their old songs, but I really appreciate their changing: bands usually goes more pop but this went more "emo"... I love it

ITS BEEN TWO YEARS??? TF I THOUGHT IT WAS ONLY A YEAR AGO?

first song I've heard from them. Now it's time to follow all their social media. Download pictures of them. Yeah...

This band might be trying to singlehandedly bring back emo music. Best of luck, you guys are great!

5 years later this song is still so important to me and has such a powerful message

I see a pain behind your eyes I know you feel it everyday It's like a light that slowly dies But it's better not to say It's better not to say such things out loud Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now Don't let them see you fall Stay strong, hold on You've got to keep it together now Just dry your eyes 'Cause boys don't cry No-oh, no-oh Boys don't cry No-oh, no-oh 'Cause boys don't cry You feel an emptiness inside How it sinks into your soul But it's nothing you can't hide Just forget about the hole beneath your skin That's swallowing the best of you with it Don't let them see you fall Stay strong, hold on You've got to keep it together now Just dry your eyes 'Cause boys don't cry No-oh, no-oh 'Cause boys don't cry No-oh, no-oh 'Cause boys don't cry Keep it all inside, 'cause boys don't cry Are those tears behind your eyes? Nuh-uh, no! Boys don't cry! Keep it all inside, inside No, 'cause boys don't cry Not until the fateful day you die No, 'cause boys don't cry No, no Boys don't cry No, no 'Cause boys don't cry Stay strong, hold on You've got to keep it together now Just dry your eyes 'Cause boys don't cry No-oh, no-oh

I love when bands write songs about mental health. It's a serious condition that targets people of all ages.

New As It Is? New The Amity Affliction? It’s a good day!

I can't believe this song is two years old, I feel like it only came out yesterday 🙄🖤

this song legit made me cry

I only just heard about this band but I'm already hooked?? This song is not only great but it tackles an issue no one all's about (which is toxic masculinity) literally love this and the Great Depression album

Full lyrics for everyone: I see a pain behind your eyes, I know you feel it everyday. It’s like a light that slowly dies, but it’s better not to say such things out loud. Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now. Don’t let them see you fall. Stay strong, hold on, you’ve got to keep it together now. Just dry your eyes, ‘cause boys don’t cry. No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry. No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry. You feel an emptiness inside, how it sinks into your soul. But it’s nothing you can’t hide; just forget about the hole beneath your skin- That’s swallowing the best of you within. Don’t let them see you fall. Stay strong, hold on, you’ve got to keep it together now. Just dry your eyes, ‘cause boys don’t cry. No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry. No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry. Keep it all inside ‘Cause boys don't cry Are those tears behind your eyes? Nuh uh, no, boys don't cry Keep it all inside this time Nuh uh, no, boys don't cry Not until the faithful day you die ‘cause boys don't cry ‘cause boys don't cry Stay strong, hold on, you’ve got to keep it together now. Just dry your eyes, ‘cause boys don’t cry. No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry. No, no, ‘cause boys don’t cry. ‘cause boys don’t cry. ‘cause boys don’t cry.

Every time i start to cry , i tell myself “no , don’t do that , boys don’t cry .” Im trans masc , and i’ve felt as though if i hide my emotions , it’ll make me more masculine ; but it doesn’t . Hiding emotions and something everyone does doesn’t make you more or less man . This song holds a very special place in my heart . Thank you 🫀

Do you ever just hear your favorite song and feel safe but at the same time you want to cry because it’s so beautiful? That’s what this song does to me.

I’m so impressed with this song! I’m gonna have to look into As It Is. this day and age we have only hope for music with meaning!

This album is gonna blow up, Invader Zim is coming back, 2000s nostalgia is coming in, the world is primed for an emo renaissance

2021 and i still love this.

the way that i blasted this for a month straight when it came out...

I love how they're making everyone feel emo again. I also feel like this album is going to make their following blow up. Proud of these emo boys

This band reminds me so much of the early/mid 2000s emo. I miss that era but it’s pretty great to be able to watch a new wave of emo rise up and to be a part of it.

Hopefully this marks the comeback of emo even though this isnt a new band

I've been listening on repeat since I found it. I'm a very emotional guy, but I was raised to suck it up and be there for others. I've always been the one everyone goes to for help, so strength was my nature

If boys don't cry how come my eyes are streaming

Now this is the emo I remember ✊

Friend: your emo Me in all black: i am not Friend: you listen to Get Scared, At It Is, Three Days Grace and Set It Off so your emo Me in my head: wait am i emo? i guess so

This made me think about the amount of times I heard my stepdad "lecture" my little cousin on how he "needs to be a man". It is quite horrofying.

This is giving me Helena Vibes MCR💕

The military dude's facial expressions are hilarious

Patty is the first person I’ve seen go backwards in time to the emo years, and I’m not even mad about it.

metalcore came back emo music comes back what else??

MAKE EMO GREAT AGAIN

I’m more straight up metal, but I gotta admit this stuff ain’t bad

This, still to this day, is the most heartbreaking music video I’ve ever seen in my life. It doesn’t make me cry, it makes realize why I shouldn’t.

OMG Emo is making a comeback!! I'm literally so happy, *runs to the bathroom, put on more black eyeliner*

I just saw the video,klicked it,and found my new obsession. Thank you.

I actually cant stop listening to this

This song always makes me cry for some reason

How does this not have more views???

*2018 EMO AGAIN!*

I like the 2000's emo asthetic.

the fact that this is almost two years old.... this song means a lot to me and i’m so glad i found this band in 2018.

2021 and still is an awesome song

make world emo again

please stop emoing me I thought I escaped that

Me: *doesnt know this band* Me: *sees thumbnail and panics (at the disco)* Me: WOW! it looks emo *clicks* I just found a masterpiece that’ll help me to bring the emo era back! Yay! Ily guys!

Theres less than a handfull of things that can make me truly smile. music is one of them. amazing band. #bringbackemo

I like the meaning of this song, it says that guys are also humans too, they have feelings.

I enjoy music from bands that give their bass guitar more sound over the drums and other guitars. Deep bass chords and higher vocals in my opinion give more feeling in a song.

Metalcore, Classic Rock, Glam Rock, ...all the nice genres seem to make a comeback!

Someone: EMO IS DEAD💀 Me:(wearing black clothes and black eyeliner, earphones blasting rock music full volume) IT NEVER WAS DEAD 🙅🖕🖕🤘

I'm a born again emo thanks as it is

♥♥THIS BAND RIGHT HERE IS FREAKING AMAZING THEY ARE LIFE! AS IT IS MY FAVIORTE BAND♥♥

i listen to this daily. i love everything about it. thank you guys for keeping the conversation going♥️

This song is an emotional rollercoaster

does anyone see MCR in their new look? lol or am i too old for that

I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS ALBUM TO COME OUT

My little boy heart is very happy and comforted by this song 🖤

This is the first song I've ever heard from As It Is and holy.. I LOVE IT. The message is accurately portrayed and I like that they spread such an important message, it really needs to be done. And the song in generally is so catchy and ugh, it's just perfect. Not screamo or something, like the old songs of 2000-sth, the songs I really like. Glad I found you :) (Sorry for any grammar mistakes, English isn't my first language)

Thanks to As it is for bringing emo back

the 11 year old emo me from 2007 made a huge comeback just now

the number of times this song has helped me is crazy thank you

"Just Beautiful " In a way that pleases the senses or mind aesthetically.

Here is the new generation emo👍

I’m so in love with this era!! Can’t wait to see them this weekend

I used to watch all of Pattys covers back several years ago, I went back onto his youtube page today and this band showed up, I am extremly pleased with this find

I couldn't cry in public... This song changed that. Thank you. I wear my heart on my sleeve and can't hide my emotional state. I'm a bad liar and all my friends know it.