Many men get married with someone thinking that sex is going to be the main "attraction" in their life and when they realise that you spent so much more time dealing with other things outiside of sex, like doing the dishes or cleaning up or washing and taking care of your cloths, paying the bills and working for the money to take care of everything, they most often will divorce rapidly because it is a lot more of other things and sex is often so little time compare to all the rest. Love you guys, ,you are so natural and I do not mind the randomness of your discourse. Keep being who you are, that is what we love about you two, you are so real. It is refreshing.

This was not a disastrous video at all. It was very informative and went into more detail about asexuality than most of what I’ve seen. Plus it’s not just an academic discussion but something that pertains to your lives, and that makes it more interesting.

There should be a second “L” in LGBT+ just for how lovely the two of you are with one another 🥰

Clearly you guys love each other a lot. It is nice to see you together and enjoying each other. This content is on an intellectual level that is excellent. Keep up the great content

This video was informative and well spoken, as usual, and was definitely not a disaster. Your willingness to always be open and honest about your individual lives and relationship sets you apart from the overwhelming majority of KZfaqrs and does not go unnoticed or unappreciated. Keep posting more great content!

Thus oriented asexual plus is how you describe yourselves the plus being the “urges.” The final vlog product was not a disaster. Very informative and it certainly gave me a better understanding of both asexuality as well as your relationship.

Hi guys I must say I find your videos very informative, I am a gay man from the uk and been living with my husband for 45 years and you are right it's being romantically attracted to someone that's important in a relationship, for us sex played an important part but we have not had sex for over a decade and yet I think we are happier than we've ever been (ok we are a couple of old farts) but as they say Love is Love. Take care of each other

Introverted or extroverted….we are all social creatures. We are not made to be alone. And conversation is just “thinking out loud”.

Very informative first hand account of a topic not talked about. All the best on your journey.

Being autistic there is rigidity, and sensitivities that can be hard to describe. Touch, sound, social mental development. Touch, could be so sensitive that it can even become violent. The wrong sounds can melt you down that almost lead to a seizure. Rigidity of thought so routine that it inhibits your mental development especially toward thinking of relationships in a sexual tone. Obviously, this would take a partner that can be extremely understanding, and expecting this from someone is completely unreasonable.

Aww I love you guys. U are such an amazing couple and I really appreciate the honesty about your relationship. I would give anything to meet somebody on the same level as you guys who appreciate each other and enjoy spending time together. Sex is so over-rated, if it happens it's nice, but it's not expected and not an issue if it doesn't happen. I have had 6 LTR in my life and almost every one of them has seemed to have been based on the physical side. I would love somebody with the same interests to just share time with. You guys are so amazing and sweet. Much love from the UK

You guys should do a video talking about the 5 love languages and your opinions on each of them!

I'm neurodivergent and asexual, and I am, in fact, VERY introverted haha

Thank you for your candor. Putting yourselves out there, as you do, helps other people come to terms with a lot of things.💖

Thank you so much for opening up to us about your relationship!! Great topic, you both explained “A” sexual well as other sexualities. I look forward to your videos:))

I swear you guys are so wholesome. Your videos never fail to make me smile 😊

Thanks for the video. I found it very informational and enjoyed your side conversations. Keep well.

Thanks for sharing the insight into your relationship. You are enjoyable to visit with and watch , and so easy on the eyes too.

Very informative, enjoy listening to you guys x

Loving your shirt, Elijah

You talk around and around without getting into the specifics leaving people to wonder about the details. "I think they kinda mean that... and they definitely say what they DON'T MEAN in the way of exploitation" which many of us can recognize, but then there are some who WANT THAT.

This is a great video! I am interested in clarifying what you mean by having a physical attraction to eachother- do you mean like a sensual attraction (wanting to cuddle and stuff) or like aesthetic (thinking the other person is beautiful like a painting kinda thing) 😊

Great job!⭐ 👍

Yeah i was watching a bipolar video of Taylor Robbins when your first asexuality video pop up and I'm a follower till then

Looking forward to more videos on asexuality. I believe I'm somewhere on that spectrum but I can't get my head around it. It maybe because I'm old! 😂 I'm an introvert, btw and ND (ASD and ADHD).

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My sexuality is the Gay version of Orchidsexual, which is where a person experiences physical attraction, but doesn’t have any interest in/is disgusted by the thought of sexual intercourse. It’s for people that prefer romance. I guess you could call it homo-orchidsexual. It really seems likely a minority number of people in that group too. I’m also neurodivergent too.

After watching you guys I happened across a video of a black woman who was highly upset over the subject and totally opposed to the idea of it.

You can be gay and asexual

I'm glad that I have a dog.🐕

You guys are so cute

You two look different to Pt 1. Older plus sitting in opposed positions.

I'm definitely an introvert!

Because asexuality means you don't feel the need to have sex, but still you fall in love of a person (men or women)

I personally don’t get a lot of things,about your relationship mainly because you’re gays. I as one too,keep myself wondering:how is it possible two cuties and hot boys like you,loving each other as you do….. I don’t know!!!Love you guys,from Brazil.

Just wondering if you have had your testosterone level measured. No judgement either way, just curious.

Do you and Elijah fit the category of Demisexual?

What are your tik tok site addresses?

What are your instagram addresses?

Another term for asexuality is, gay people that are sides, which are people who are in a gay relationship but there is no sex , so sides.

Wish you would have felt comfortable giving examples of what you are comfortable with. Do you and Elijah get each other off, or do you just share a bed and frustrate each other?

If you don't have sexual interest, what brought you and Elijah together? Are you just friends, or is there more to your relationship? I don't understand your reasoning for marrying each other if there is no sexual attraction.

Neither one of you wear ACE rings. Is there a reason why you don't wear ACE rings?