Ashley definitely gives me vibes that she is not in love anymore but have love for Hollywood. They don’t need to get married.
@darchejackson94783 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing she’s done she want kwame she want something new
@feliciap.23363 жыл бұрын
Exactly just don’t want to embarrass him.
@janetherron87293 жыл бұрын
This Is So Deep....I Love Ashley & Hollywood, Only Time Will Tell....I Wish Them Both The Best!
@lewiscarter8433 жыл бұрын
NEITHER ONE OF US WANT TO BE THE FIRST TO SAY GOODBYE. Ashley is no longer in love with him.
@lewiscarter8433 жыл бұрын
@Chinky C WOW!! I just got that lyric.
@MrsDavis-vm8tq3 жыл бұрын
This relationship is the prime example of " History over Happiness" people stay in relationships and hold each other hostage because of the time they invested into one another. We get comfortable and will stay and put up with things and not truly work on it to make things better. The love is there but no one wants to be "the one" who left or called off the relationship to safe face.
@mayberry24103 жыл бұрын
Wow great post History over Happiness,explained very well.
@MrsDavis-vm8tq3 жыл бұрын
@@mayberry2410 Thanks, thats all I could see when they kept mentioning 9 years this and 9 years that like it was the only thing thats keeping them together. Sometimes we just need to learn when to truly let go and not be held hostage by time.
@candijj13 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head.
@joyous10113 жыл бұрын
💯Like he said, " Committed to THE COMMITMENT "!
@michellebelk99513 жыл бұрын
Gladys Knight sang “Neither one of us wants to be the first to say goodbye”.
@KRey1123 жыл бұрын
Hollywood can take his future into his own hands. Don’t allow someone else to decide your future! Ashley take your happiness into your own hands too! If the relationship was where it needed to be - “Kwame” could never ever happen.
@zheahra3 жыл бұрын
Hollywood should have been more curious about why Ashley opened up to Kwame. That's what she wanted from Hollywood. She wanted him to realize the reason(s) why she pauses at deciding to marry him. He isn't emotionally available to her. He is committed to his hurt, pain, and past trauma. Brother needs therapy. Periodt!
@ruthjuliana92223 жыл бұрын
he knows why...thats why he was attacking kwame
@kingcoward3 жыл бұрын
The smile on Kwame face 😂
@dineoportiamagoro32123 жыл бұрын
I saw that as well. Lol...
@wandadaniels10083 жыл бұрын
Yes they love each other love was blossoming
@kangoocutee11983 жыл бұрын
😁😁
@Librynerd3 жыл бұрын
Hollywood and Ashley need to not waste another year , Ashley already checked out of that situation, her heart only needs time to process what her mind already knows.
@Sydonnewarren3 жыл бұрын
They were both daring each other to break up but neither of them have the guts to do it lol
@charleebvue3 жыл бұрын
LBB91 I agree with your opinion and I feel if Hollywood would really let his heart break for Ashley and let her go she would go and see about Kwame. I think she doesnt want to be the one to hurt him on TV but if he breakup with her she will be fine with. The 9yrs is holding them both hostage.
@tatucorreia3 жыл бұрын
Ash is so emotionally articulate Hollywood is like a toddler compared to her. They are not on the same level. She concern about his feelings.
@divathedivinegoddess80013 жыл бұрын
Yes she is and when I watch how she so eloquently express herself I WISH I was that emotionally articulate as her. 🥰
@tatianadaniel35693 жыл бұрын
Hollywood didn't do anything wrong to her. She's mad that her father passed before he was ready to be married. She wants to make him pay (emotionally) for that. She hasn't really forgiven him. She's the one being emotionally abusive at this point. Yes, Hollywood could improve. We all could. But he loves this girl with a purity and he wants to be the man she can truly depend on but she is wasting her time and His at this point.
@nessawithsmiles3 жыл бұрын
The first sentence is facts.
@droosyg2523 жыл бұрын
She said she doesn’t feel emotionally safe with him. It’s not about right and wrong.
@tatianadaniel35693 жыл бұрын
@@droosyg252 Obviously, she doesn't feel that the way he goes about her emotions is right... sooooo.....
@sylviaa57853 жыл бұрын
I think Ashley enjoys seeing Hollywood jealous.
@hopeeason17743 жыл бұрын
Hollywood reminds me of women who was cheated on and goes after the other person instead of their partner
@genikathompson54323 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel, and I REALLY APPRECIATE YOUR CONTENT. It is really refreshing and Thank you
@angiemac68843 жыл бұрын
No one asked the question were they both ready to be married 6-8 years ago? Doing that time there was never a mention infidelity, she continue to be with him and let time fly without doing the work with some kind of counseling in the church or professional. I’m still going to say she used this platform to degrade Hollywood for calling off the wedding and her not asking the question if not now then when so that she could walk away, he was a crutch for her. As pretty as she is her self esteem is low because he called off the marriage.
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
Love n appreciation
@GrowingwithRome3 жыл бұрын
I wish this show had the couples separated. I think that going on dates and seeing your partner right after swayed how this ended. Time apart to process each date would be nice to see. And being separated they can go on dates with both someone new as well as your partner. I think going on dates when you haven’t slept beside them would’ve sparked more or less sparks in the relationship.
@GrowingwithRome3 жыл бұрын
I also think it would’ve changed the therapy sessions too
@GrowingwithRome3 жыл бұрын
9 years together I’m sure Hollywood and Ashley never really go on dates anymore
@IsisBlu3 жыл бұрын
@Aalyha Giles That show is called Temptation Island LOL
@GrowingwithRome3 жыл бұрын
@Chinky C very true. I agree but Hopefully next season the couples really do this experience differently. Interesting shoe for sure
@mosellafelder21713 жыл бұрын
Totally agree Aalyha. No contact from each other for at least 6 months.
@keishawilliams75463 жыл бұрын
If she doesn’t end up with Hollywood she doesn’t need Kwame either. She needs to work on herself and heal periodttt. If she doesn’t take that time to heal she will end up in the same situation with Kwame. I think Hollywood could definitely improve (seen small improvements) but Ashley could change as well and i find it crazy how nobody says anything about her but keep going in on him. Nobody is perfect in a relationship and it’s like Ashley is perfect and he is the only person that needs to change.
@valarie93143 жыл бұрын
He's honest about his ghetto views flaws etc. She points the finger too much
@IAmMsGoldenT3 жыл бұрын
No Ashley is not perfect, and I agree she needs time to herself to work on herself but it seems to me she's doing some of the work in the relationship she's no longer in love with Hollywood emotionally that's why she was vulnerable to allow Kwame into her heart. Some people in life move that way when they're unsure in there relationships, It may not be right or healthy but it is what it is.
@msvanessaceo3 жыл бұрын
That is very true LBB91, going on dates is breaking the boundary. I'm really not sure if this method would help any couple, just my thoughts.
@KT-gg4fl3 жыл бұрын
"If it's Not a Yes, then it's a No!" Wise words👏🏾, & like Dr. Nicole said on the reunion, its time to be more emotionally honest w one another & YOURSELF! Ashley has taken at least a step by saying why she won't move forward with a wedding. You don't want to enter marriage with doubts. It would be very difficult to be married to a man not emotionally mature, stable, & supportive bc marriage can get deep! I agree real time apart in that quiet place will help reach some clarity. Still doubting after 9yrs & to end this process in the same spot as where they started is a cycle& something isn't right.
@LivingwithTsepo3 жыл бұрын
Hollywood has emotional immaturity. Who tells the girl they love that "its fine, she can leave, you don't have to do this" He needs to keep quiet and respond in an appropriate manner.
@pameladavis59483 жыл бұрын
You did an EXCELLENT job of breaking this relationship down. Red flags All over the place.😟🥴😖😫."You got to know when to hold em, know when to fold em... " SMH
@Juliana-lr7wu3 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and I'm really enjoying your videos because you're really insightful! 🙌 I look forward to watching more of your content
@darchejackson94783 жыл бұрын
She’s over Hollywood she need to let him go that’s why she keep saying he can leave so she can do what she want with kwame and not feel guilty like u said before
@ExtraordinaryAF3 жыл бұрын
‘Exchange’ is to ‘kiss’ as ‘entanglement’ is to ‘an affair’
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
Wooord of 2021 loool
@divifemtv3 жыл бұрын
😩😂
@maralinautube3 жыл бұрын
@Nathan M... Yoooooo!!!! 🤣
@annco98013 жыл бұрын
Ashley moved OUT of the place she had with Hollywood, that was a physical representation that she is over this relationship.
@MrsDavis-vm8tq3 жыл бұрын
Kwame lives in Atlanta so if Ashley is there as well aint no telling what sparks may fly. Whether they just talk on the phone or what, Kwame may shoot his shot again !!😂
@GrowEvolve783 жыл бұрын
Ashley moved out?! I missed that. It's a wrap.
@qcomfort393 жыл бұрын
I'll say this and leave it right Here... It is possible to Grow out of Love and yet still Have Love for someone
@seed_more3 жыл бұрын
I respect how real your comments are, very eye opening.
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
By grace of God thank u so much
@MrsDavis-vm8tq3 жыл бұрын
After watching all these interviews it seems like Ashley has checked out all the way. The only thing that is keeping them together is the 9 Years !!! Kwame was even shooting his shot at the reunion infront of Hollywood. Its like she was getting a rise out of them fighting over her. And please tell me why would Ashley go on IG live with Kwame when she know how this man feels about her. Hollywood said he didnt mind waiting on her but he said dont leave him hanging which I truly agree. I feel she just needs to be single. I feel Kwame is just an distraction for her and Hollywood doesn't make feel emotionally safe but she invested so much time withh him. Ashley just take a break for yourself.
@soulstarmusiclover12543 жыл бұрын
Mrs. Davis It's alot deeper in my opinion. He asked her Father for her hand in marriage and then waited for yrs to marry her and her Father passed away during that period. And she bought her dress and he canceled the wedding .
@MrsDavis-vm8tq3 жыл бұрын
@@soulstarmusiclover1254 I wanted to include that but just wanted to shorten it to down because everyone who watched the show knew the details about the wedding issue. I know Ashley still hurts especially mostly about her father is why I think she should either take a break for herself or just end the relationship if she knows she cant depend on Hollywood to be emotionally stable for her. This situation is the most complicated out of all the couples on there because of the length of their relationship, hopefully they will work on themselves indivually and stay together or just seperate to prevent holding each other back any longer.
@TawandaVance3 жыл бұрын
Her and this damn 🍍 exchange, girl stoooooop it 🤣🤣🤣.
@droosyg2523 жыл бұрын
Like Jada’s ‘entanglement.’ 😁
@janetherron87293 жыл бұрын
Both of them enjoyed that Pineapple‼️‼️‼️🥰
@lularay28803 жыл бұрын
Pre-marital Counseling. God is not the author of confusion praying 🙏 for you both❤
@tonyaformby54263 жыл бұрын
Hollywood messed up by proposing and not marrying her twice before this show.
@drea77173 жыл бұрын
I was thinking like many others that she loves him but is no longer in love with him, but not I changed my mind. I think she wants to stay and build with him; they’ve been working well together for 9 whole years outside of the engagement debacle. What she truly wants is for him to sit in the pain and humiliation-withOUT the constant threats of leaving-in order to feel vindicated and at peace with moving forward...just like she did. Without that, she’d be going into the marriage feeling like a pathetic fool, like she played herself. If he truly wants her to move forward, he needs to hush while consistently showing her through his everyday actions that he’s the best man for her. Easier said than done for a man like Hollywood lol.
@yeswe_buy_houses18053 жыл бұрын
This review was OUTSTANDING. The way you likened Ashley opening her eyes to Eve opening her eyes with the fruit helped to realize you're right . Ahsley IS choosing between being single and Hollywood.
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
its real out ere...its sad too because thats 9 years
@phillygyrl343 жыл бұрын
I appreciated your vantage point and observation, there were a few points you touched on that I was in agreement with
@qcomfort393 жыл бұрын
When your in a relationship, each individual tends to Grow. 🤔Now, knowing this you have to come to and understand that You just might not Grow in the same direction or together. Hints the reason why more people should really do some Soul Searching&Repair before getting Married.
@sherilwray55593 жыл бұрын
Ashley doesn't want to commit to Hollywood, it's been 9 years. She doesn't want to hurt his feelings, there is i no intent to marry Hollywood.
@dawncemberwillis37663 жыл бұрын
Thank You for this breakdown of Hollywood and Ashley.
@SwissMissss3 жыл бұрын
I kinda feel bad for Hollywood a little at this point🥴 I just wish she would follow her heart 😩
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
I hear that for real
@SwissMissss3 жыл бұрын
@@LittleBlackBook91 much respect bro!
@annco98013 жыл бұрын
Ashley KNOWS Hollywood loves her and wants a commitment, she doesn't know Kwame enough to know if it will work. Because Kwame could cheat or it could not work out and now she lost a guy Hollywood who wanted to commit.
@gingerlee41163 жыл бұрын
Hollywood needs to take a break... Only thing I would have heard is if we weren't together then you would be with other person.. I would be done at that point..🤔
@gossipchoppedandsrewed74103 жыл бұрын
⭐️⭐️⭐️🥇 you deserve it Kojo
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
Thank u I appreciate that
@willjackson61633 жыл бұрын
I feel Ashley doesn’t respect Hollywood by her actions. It is not possible to love without it. I feel she will respect him only after he dumps her.dumps her
@TawandaVance3 жыл бұрын
I really think they're avoiding inevitable, their season seemed to end 4 years ago. This show only exposed an underlying issue but they're ignoring it. They're probably better off as friends. Hollywood knows it just as much as Ashley but he's holding on for dear life, he's trying to give her the choice to leave instead of making the right choice. He was definitely displacing his anger on Kwame, Kojo I said the same thing, he only had loyalty to himself.
@hey_itsmele3 жыл бұрын
Tamika NEVER liked that guy
@betterme20473 жыл бұрын
I concur with everything you are on point. I didn’t start watching the show until episode 4 because I wasn’t feeling the whole Concept.
@lizh48173 жыл бұрын
My man would neverrrrr go on a date and I willing know 🤦🏾♀️🥺. Breaking all boundaries!!!! Ashley needs to pack her bags and start over...
@sing4louve3 жыл бұрын
Ashley is a kept woman, she's not ready to give that up. Don't get me wrong, she loves Hollywood as he is comfortable and what she knows. There's security with Hollywood. She really needs to be alone, and work on herself
@creole1queen3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a kept woman. He doesn't financially take care of me.
@stephaniesqueaky79053 жыл бұрын
@@creole1queen you shut that down!
@creole1queen3 жыл бұрын
@@stephaniesqueaky7905 idk where that narrative came abt our how it even started. 🤦🏽♀️
@droosyg2523 жыл бұрын
@@creole1queen, it’s so disgusting! Where do these people come up with this stuff? 🙄
@creole1queen3 жыл бұрын
@@droosyg252 riiight
@nikkiepperson78553 жыл бұрын
This reunion revealed what I think we already knew she loves Hollywood but not in love. She has been with him a long time. She wants to be free. I think she needs to take a break all together! I told her fast pray and ask God but I think her and Hollywood’s time is over in my opinion!
@bkgurl4life883 жыл бұрын
Hollywood & Ashley have been together for a long time and clearly, they do love one another- chemistry, emotional connection, etc. They may not always “hear” one another, but their bond is real... I think it’s normal for Hollywood to feel hurt if the woman he loves may seem attracted to another man. Not really sure if Kwame’s interest was an emotional investment though...
@qcomfort393 жыл бұрын
You have to take Ownership of your Feelings
@niasymphony3 жыл бұрын
I love watching your reviews bro ❤️
@willjackson61633 жыл бұрын
What will make Hollywood dump Ashley?
@LivingwithTsepo3 жыл бұрын
We can do this relationship thing differently 🤣
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
honestly manne
@newlookzone69023 жыл бұрын
God bless you bro, great videos
@MsToiBox3 жыл бұрын
Ashley + Kwame=LUST - In the ' Honey moon stage" Ashley + Hollywood= Loves him /Hates him (Memories 9 yr thing) - but no longer IN LOVE WITH HIM. Ashley + The Ring = Vindicated Giving the ring back= Could be priceless...because she was "NEVER" healed from the hurt-Now, he has to wait. It's her way of showing him how it feels to be deeply hurt.
@RockinNappyRoots3 жыл бұрын
If I was Hollywood I would just have to move on after seeing the reunion because whatever happened in the nine years they were together it’s still hurting Ashley and she can’t forgive herself or him for it. That’s clear! Now anything he does is going to irritate her! He has to be Jesus with her now, and that’s not realistic or fair. I love Ashley I wish she just let him go because even Ray Charles could see this isn’t going anywhere! She needs time to heal by herself.
@blessedbeyondmeasure32653 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%, "if it's not a yes , anything else is a no".... Sometimes that hard truth will be better than a soft no, trying to save someone else and you yourself are collapsing is not helpful to anyone. The only one that can save ppl is Jesus Christ we are not meant to save ppl, we are meant to be a light . Sometimes God will pull ppl apart to heal that brokenness if we are truly calling out to him cause a broken heart is real it hurts. So I pray they allow God to do his work in them and they become who he wills for their life. In this time we are in, sometimes when ppl are professing Christianity God will remove situations to get you closer to him because he has work for you to do and he gotta get the trash out of you so you can SERVE HIM. JESUS CHRIST IS SOON TO RETURN ALL THAT SHACKING AND STUFF HAD TO END BECAUSE HE WANTS THEIR ATTENTION. God bless you...and remember " it's better to marry than burn with lusts"
@autiran.41113 жыл бұрын
She needs to give that ring back! She wants to keep it and then get back to him. Ashley is playin games and not taking accountability that she also by her actions is not providing him emotional stability. It goes both ways. She allowed a lot and is not taking accountability for it. She dismisses Hollywood's feelings a lot and plays victim. She really needs to to be honest about what she is doin. She never healed from the wedding and is punishing him for it.
@emcqueen31373 жыл бұрын
Goodbye Ashley, everytime you smile when Hollywood is upset is telling that you are actually too broken to be in any relationship. You need to heal. That is scary that you are enjoying his pain. You should have left Ashley when he hurt you! Being this Vandictive is not cool A. Hollywood got pushed into this dating other people thing at the last min. You can see that. He keeps saying it. The show tricked him. The host was tring to hide that too. She flipped the script as soon as he said it.
@essbenita3 жыл бұрын
Hollywood's voice is annoying 😂😂
@kangoocutee11983 жыл бұрын
A tad bit😂
@showorchid3 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen multiple comments saying “Hollywood should LET ASHLEY GO”. Is it really on him to release her, or should Ashley make this decision for her life?
@droosyg2523 жыл бұрын
Both have a choice
@lularay28803 жыл бұрын
Holy Matrimony does not mean leaving the source who ordains marriage out of the equation. Hollywood and Ashley put God first and he will give you your answer. There is hope in Christ Jesus and you have to be obedient and in alignment with the word of God. Instead of putting a ring on it try pre-martial counseling and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you.
@qcomfort393 жыл бұрын
Little Black Book are you going to follow Married at First Sight🤔 I believe you can help them through some situations
@ruthjuliana92223 жыл бұрын
now that you really getting into their dynamic, I think there was a storm brewing right before they got on the show. there was some emotional insecurity and unrest and then going to start inviting other people into the relationship. that is probably why Hollywood was so against her going on dates and looking for an emotional connection elsewhere. Like with Che and Mike, Mike had no issue because he knew Che's heart is with him so she's not going anywhere. Hollywood had called off a wedding then tried to marry Ashley and she said no. That was when he knew she was slipping and thats why his jealousy is all over the place. Ashley has Hollywood but she's looking for heaven elsewhere but I said this before, if she is not willing to forgive Hollywood, she needs to let him go. I think Hollywood has come to a place where he is going to be alright without her and it shows when he said if she wants him, she can go ahead or if she wants to stay, I will wait but she has to let me know. She didn't choose Kwame twice, it is over with him.
@dineoportiamagoro32123 жыл бұрын
Powerful...
@dawncemberwillis37663 жыл бұрын
Maybe they need to break up, heal, and start over slow.
@zheahra3 жыл бұрын
They were having issues before the show. And they will continue to have problems after the show. You don't bring other ppl into your relationship if you don't want your significant other to catch feelings for someone else.
@majesty99853 жыл бұрын
LBB this is unrelated, but would love to hear your thoughts on Mase (ex rapper and ex Partner of P Diddy) pastoring the Gathering Oasis since Ps Cornelius and Heather Lindsey stepped down. Sorry but there's no way to message on YT lol.
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
boyyyyyy that one is a bit maaaaud
@majesty99853 жыл бұрын
@@LittleBlackBook91 😅😂😂😂
@nurseladylibra7673 жыл бұрын
Hollywood addressed kwame because he won’t hit a woman but he is wrong check your person because y’all know what the boundaries are not the side person
@LittleBlackBook913 жыл бұрын
yaaaaaagaaa u right
@hotrod62993 жыл бұрын
He need to leave her cut his loses he can get 10 of her
@askaligna3 жыл бұрын
This breakdown was inaccurate of the intention of the show and the professional advice given by the therapist all of society does not have the same rule