Ask Nick - Flirting With an NHL Player | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

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Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We start off the episode by addressing your gentle parenting responses and diving into the ideal dating expectations of men. Then we get to our callers…
Our first caller wants to shoot her shot with a professional athlete. Our second caller is back with her ex, and is afraid to tell her parents. Finally, our third caller is thriving in her occupational industry but is afraid it turns off the men she’s dating.
“As a woman who’s very successful and passionate about her career, that should never feel like a negative for you”
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@JennSkywalker. 2 ай бұрын

Wish there was time stamps 😭

@nk47100 2 ай бұрын

Calls start at 28:18

@lisadee1623 2 ай бұрын

Call #1 went on WAY too long!

@Goddess_Jade 2 ай бұрын

You told the first caller (flirting with NHL player) EXACTLY what she needed to hear. She's fooling herself. Stop devaluing yourself, you deserve more.

@sheerinazhari6930 2 ай бұрын

Don't want to be rude but the last caller seems a bit full of herself. She didn't call for advice, she called to rant and show herself off. I wish these types of call were not entertained.

@laurab5849 2 ай бұрын

Same…there is no way people are sooooo threatened by her success.

@emilyolson85 2 ай бұрын

Came here to say the same thing

@mrsjessicasmith 2 ай бұрын

I can see why no one wants to date caller 3 and it has nothing to do with her job.

@Sb93387 2 ай бұрын

I agree, insufferable

@hotsoup429 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes the lack of knowledge on this show bothers me lol. STEM's definition is in its name: science, technology, engineering, and mathematics.

@chanelhamilton4840 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@peidan86 2 ай бұрын

Well Nick is an idiot who thinks he is smart so of course they wouldn’t get it right and not care that they didn’t.

@kayla21bug 2 ай бұрын

The men’s rights speech was a wild choice for someone who acknowledges that his audience is mainly women.

@SaraPratt-kt4xp 2 ай бұрын

Andrew Tate vibes … eek

@Sarah-br5bm 2 ай бұрын

This isn't the first time he's gone off on this topic either. It's really weird.

@peidan86 2 ай бұрын

He thinks men are victims for some reason. It’s most likely because he is a 43 year old man child who thinks the universe revolves around him.

@TheStezo83 2 ай бұрын

it's getting cringe!

@Urmomlovesyoutube 2 ай бұрын

Lol it’s not about Men’s “rights” it’s about men’s place in society..

@jennyt1701 2 ай бұрын

Nick’s misogynistic rant that men over 6 feet “get all the sex“ like it’s a student loan fund was insane. He’s encouraging incels who think they are ENTITLED to sex. Had to stop listening to the pod for the first time. By the way it’s a lot harder being a woman who’s 20 pounds overweight who wants to date than a man who’s 5’10”.

@Urmomlovesyoutube 2 ай бұрын

@jennyt1701 How is that encouraging the behavior? There is literal viral songs about women wanting tall, handsome, rich men. The first caller literally was willing to give up all personal values to be with the guys that’s described in the song. It’s facts. Why is it so important for women to have a tall guy? That means nothing in a relationship, how he will treat you, respect you, etc. So yeah tall handsome guys DO have bad behavior bc they have thousands of options, once we start valuing the other things, those men will have it all.

@seven92023 2 ай бұрын

You're absolutely clueless. You don't know men and the reality of the dating market.

@abcdefghijklmnop_861 2 ай бұрын

Amen! 🙌

@assyrianprincess3 2 ай бұрын

Explain to me how it's misogynistic? Why is it OK for a woman who are not "conventionally attractive" able to say that they deserve love, but it's not ok for a guy that's not conventionally attractive to say that he deserves love too?

@jennyt1701 Ай бұрын

@@assyrianprincess3 he didn’t say love. He said these guys were “getting all the sex” as if women have a responsibility to spread “the sex” around.

@littlemissmaybe480 2 ай бұрын

#1 caller did NOT need that much advice. She was probably just fan girling in Nick.

@maydaze5934 2 ай бұрын

It’s weird how much pick me guy vibes Nick is giving considering he literally married a women 20 years younger than him. Like clearly these things matter or he would’ve married someone his own age.

@sydneybharper 2 ай бұрын

I really do enjoy this podcast, but the speech on the perception of young men lacked a lot of nuance and simply missed the mark. So much I would say on this but would be a novel. Also Nick saying he wanted a woman with ambition but didn’t care as much about career was valid, but let’s keep in mind he dated Natalie at 21 (if not sooner). So of course she wouldn’t have had an extensive career by then…

@caylaobrien1298 2 ай бұрын

Exactly

@phoff783 2 ай бұрын

He started dating her at 19 so that’s really something

@andreaadams9743 2 ай бұрын

@@phoff783not true -they started dating in 2020 when she was 21

@Urmomlovesyoutube 2 ай бұрын

She was on the healthcare field.. that sounds ambitious to me.

@madyhughes5772 2 ай бұрын

I’m seeing a lot of these comments regarding his take on the perception of young men being misogynistic… but I think he has a real point? And I’m someone who considers herself a feminist. Idk

@nafafonafafofo 2 ай бұрын

Last caller kept laughing at her own jokes, which weren’t even funny

@larz_w 2 ай бұрын

Nick is giving men's rights and he would say personality doesn't matter since he has a 20 year old wife.

@andreegodbout868 2 ай бұрын

Number one caller needs to get a clue.

@UserName-rr9hy 2 ай бұрын

nick talking about topics from 2019 and its complete news to him haha

@lboston1294 2 ай бұрын

oooo nick getting into incel territory at the start

@Sar_rawrrrr 2 ай бұрын

In what world is west “conventionally handsome?” He’s literally painful to look at. He’s a 2 at best.

@seven92023 2 ай бұрын

He's attractive enough for Ciara to have sex with him, want a relationship with him and cry over him.

@carolinedonlon601 2 ай бұрын

what the actual f*ck was that 3rd call..... I also think you gave 1st call the most perfect advice, a good mix of tough love but getting her on the right track.

@erikao3982 2 ай бұрын

STEM is science, technology, engineering, and math (not business 🙂)

@elisemarie105 2 ай бұрын

Yeah like where was the b lol

@Sb93387 2 ай бұрын

That last caller was insufferable. She says she’s always told “you as a person are intimidating because you are beautiful, successful, and smart.” Also she has a bubbly personality and a backbone! Wait and did she mention she’s hot and rich? lol I can’t believe Nick humored that whole call, it’s clear why she’s single and it’s not because of her amaaaazing job

@rhiconnect 2 ай бұрын

Really overthinking call #1..... just have fun and live in the moment and if it doesn't work out then oh well. Lord, we are dissecting someone saying hi and then a little make out session.

@mmeshke 2 ай бұрын

These answers are 3x longer than they need to be. Nick repeats the answer over and over beating the dead horse. Tighten it up! Can’t listen to these anymore.

@katherinesosa3897 2 ай бұрын

Unrealistic expectations is sooo true. It’s like ppl go one way or the other either super unrealistic or way to low of expectations

@neco971 2 ай бұрын

Tried Nicks interview advice! I watched this 30 mins before I had a job interview and I asked the questions Nick suggested!!!!! Ty for the unexpected advice that was super helpful! Interviewer really liked the question (is there any doubts you have..) Ngl I was like is there a glitch in the simulation how am I randomly watching this literally minutes before starting my interview😅

@erikao3982 2 ай бұрын

I think people are divided on that interview question. If they bring something up that you can’t really give a great answer to, you leave the interview on a bad note

@allysonreilly 2 ай бұрын

Caller 3 would drive me to drink too.

@hamp-s3r 2 ай бұрын

std jokes of any kind are absolutely not funny- even with the "apology" afterwards. i've listened for years but this show is going downhill

@SaraPratt-kt4xp 2 ай бұрын

Is this first call, for real? lol

@SaraPratt-kt4xp 2 ай бұрын

Ok and the 3rd call. … also real?

@mrsjessicasmith 2 ай бұрын

On top of it entirely too long giving advice.

@rtidball5650 2 ай бұрын

First calller is so annoying she has no idea what type of life he lives just cause he is an athlete

@lauramoor7730 2 ай бұрын

I’m sorry but west is a 3 1/2

@kativanmeter4928 2 ай бұрын

I conduct interviews at my job and if someone asked me “Is there anything you’ve learned in this interview that would cause concern?” I would be so shocked and impressed

@Sar_rawrrrr 2 ай бұрын

lol you’ve never been asked that? I was a tech recruiter in a previous life and I coached every candidate to ask that.

@kylierae1370 2 ай бұрын

@@Sar_rawrrrr I work in tech (data science) and conduct a fair amount of interviews, and when candidates ask questions like that, our hiring committee has always viewed that negatively. We've never liked on the spot questions where candidates ask for immediate interview feedback or ask about the interviewers' perception of them in the moment. Not saying that viewpoint is right or wrong, but I was surprised to learn people see that differently. And also reminds me why I despise interviews myself haha, it can totally depend on the interviewer.

@Sar_rawrrrr 2 ай бұрын

@@kylierae1370 meh well that’s fair. I think the important part is how it’s communicated. Asking if they have any concerns that could be addressed based on the conversation is different than asking what they think of them as a candidate. But yeah, hiring committees can definitely be bitchy af. That’s why I loved sitting in on the feedback meetings. Always the most entertaining part of my day, especially at wayfair. 😹

@jennyonthecoast 2 ай бұрын

Sober is day by day, you could be sober for years and fall off the wagon

@cynthia0917 2 ай бұрын

I loved the advice on the first call. No disrespect, just pure honest advice you’d give to your daughter probably.

@assyrianprincess3 2 ай бұрын

Being a real feminist is also acknowledging male issues, but you guys aren't ready to hear that conversation

@AilsiePath1122 2 ай бұрын

I home school / non school. I am their guardian, and i guide them with who they are. It didn't start that way, i tired to control them. My youngest was non controllable 😅 I stopped trying to control them, and that is when the battle ended. They are kind, creative, and very aware. I feel that non schooling them is very important until you understand their interests and talents. My 12 year old is dyslexic and has developed/published 16 video games. School would have destroyed him. Other children do thrive in school environments. Im not discrediting that. ❤

@adrianac2997 2 ай бұрын

The first caller was like a good 5 minutes tooooo long. A whole therapy session. Had to skip.

@RaquelMontolio-lq9xu 2 ай бұрын

What was the name of that book you recommended?

@phoff783 2 ай бұрын

How is the nhl guy sending his friend over a red flag? I feel like people do that all the time. I’ve done it for my friends who are just nervous.

@Emily-oq9vl 2 ай бұрын

He literally explained in detail about why it is a red flag 😂

@Urmomlovesyoutube 2 ай бұрын

Bc that guy is clearly not nervous, he’s confident..

@brisamarcelino4540 2 ай бұрын

Red flag, and I also find it to be disrespectful.

@AlexisAvedisian 2 ай бұрын

hope you get Prof G on the pod so my two favorite pods will collide lol

@meftahi84 2 ай бұрын

Yada yada yada has got to go 😅

@AB-cx1yk 2 ай бұрын

On top of everything Nick said West is also hilarious and charismatic. Dangerous game.

@swtdi40 2 ай бұрын

I really agree with alot of what Nick is saying

@claudiapawlak6894 2 ай бұрын

A bully can put power over another person. Mobbing is discomfort upon another person through physical contact, words & other ways . Every body is vulnerable when intimidated or harmful. The imbalance of physical or social power can use force, threat to aggressively , dominate, & intimidate . The next generation & beyond need to be educated about where you come from . The girls are also bad. When the Medical Therapy does not look any further . When my son can be used , for her expensive lifestyle. Does he know that about her family ? Cooperation to Therapy is sometimes negative . Religion teaches you marry for Love. The materialistic world & household world is together .