Ask Nick Update Special Episode - Part 19 | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

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Nick Viall

Nick Viall

2 ай бұрын

Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special “where are they now” update show where we give you updates from our past callers to see what’s happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show. But wait… first we bring back our Thirst Trap segment: Coachella Edition!
Our first caller originally called in because her parents diagnosed their adolescent son every time they saw him. This time she calls in with her husband and sets new boundaries on whether he has the right to intervene. Our second caller first called in because she wanted to send her husband noodz. After healthy discussions, new boundaries, and her new planned escapades, their relationship is better than ever. Our third caller is an OG. She originally called in questioning if moving to a new country for her boyfriend was a good idea. As her second update, she has now moved and updates us on how it’s affected her relationship.
We also have some written updates - Our caller who fell in love with her prison pen pal, and our caller who no longer found her boyfriend physically attractive.
To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers:
Original Episode numbers for callers:
Episode Number: 721 Ask Nick - My Parents Are Diagnosing My Child
Episode Number: 724 Ask Nick - My Pregnancy, His Career
Episode Number: 562 Update Special Episode - Part 8 (Originally on Episode 442 Ask Nick)
Original Episode numbers for written updates:
Episode Number: 624 Ask Nick - Falling For My Prison Penpal
Episode Number: 618 Ask Nick - My Online Situationship Owes Me Thousands
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@jillianphoenix3270
@jillianphoenix3270 2 ай бұрын
The broken back take was WILD. I feel like saying “everything happens for a reason” in situations like that is suuuuper demeaning and minimizing of what the person has been through.
@madibailey7392
@madibailey7392 2 ай бұрын
Attachment theory is actually a researched psychological theory credited to Bowlby in the 1960s. It’s not a tiktok concept or an internet phenomenon.
@madibailey7392
@madibailey7392 2 ай бұрын
Ps I just got my masters in psychology yayyyy 🎉🎓
@yolicious17
@yolicious17 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! My therapist is the first person to teach me about attachment styles not tiktok haha
@rebi3867
@rebi3867 2 ай бұрын
100%. The problem is people simplifying attachment theory and therefore not fully understanding it.
@BK-cn2rn
@BK-cn2rn 2 ай бұрын
My first thought exactly
@SoulsEnlightenedCA
@SoulsEnlightenedCA 2 ай бұрын
YEAH Scoots. Get educated 😅
@juicie25bt
@juicie25bt 2 ай бұрын
That last caller sucked the life out of me😂
@reanaburnett
@reanaburnett Ай бұрын
I hate to be that person and might be the thousandth commenter suggesting this, but timestamps are so nice, especially on these “ask Nick” episodes. It can be frustrating and time consuming for those of us who want to skip to the most relevant questions, topics, etc.
@deannahernandez8991
@deannahernandez8991 2 ай бұрын
If that man bought that computer for HER when hers broke.... that computer is not his... It's hers.
@moriahelizabeth3831
@moriahelizabeth3831 2 ай бұрын
Trying to figure out if I’m in Nicks demographic audience. He’s my age yet I’m a mother of 2 little ones and I don’t care to discuss thirst traps don’t understand why this has been a thing on this show several times now. Just need to fast forward…I appreciate pop culture and things that actually have substance when it comes to the show.
@madibailey7392
@madibailey7392 2 ай бұрын
I love the fun the new household is bringing with their little games and mini topics
@mrsjessicasmith
@mrsjessicasmith 2 ай бұрын
I'm also close to his age with 3 kiddos but I find the thirst trap bit funny. I like it.
@jazminfancy
@jazminfancy 2 ай бұрын
Wow I thought I was the only one 😂. I think it’s just because the people who work for him are early 20’s. I had to fast forward too.
@cindyellis4821
@cindyellis4821 2 ай бұрын
I really enjoy these bits because they are not my norm. I'm not taking thirst traps or worried about if my pictures are thirst trap. However, I do enjoy judging others from the comforts of my home. 😂
@ningyding
@ningyding Ай бұрын
I feel the same way, I fast forwarded. I don’t enjoy this team like I did Ally and Amanda.
@kylalee8358
@kylalee8358 Ай бұрын
I love this thirst trap thing. It's been on my mind recently. It definitely proves a point.
@MrBOOBOORO
@MrBOOBOORO 2 ай бұрын
Why do I not believe the caller whose husband watches porn? 😅
@maydaze5934
@maydaze5934 2 ай бұрын
1:14:05 not y’all trying to rationalize her broken back
@sandralinke9150
@sandralinke9150 2 ай бұрын
Omg yes that was soooo inappropriate and f-ing uncomfortable If I had been the author I would have been so pissed They really crossed a line
@kekemac3167
@kekemac3167 Ай бұрын
Yeah this was beyond tactless. “Everything happens for a reason”??? What an arrogant, mindnumbingly insensitive thing to say to someone going through a painful, life-changing trauma. I know these people are privileged and sheltered but holy shit.
@peidan86
@peidan86 Ай бұрын
So true, they weren’t hit by someone who fell asleep at the wheel, literally the guy she said has bad habits fell asleep while driving her and crashed causing her to get injured. If this happened to them, they would absolutely be dwelling on that. They’re unbelievably out of touch.
@hkholverson
@hkholverson 2 ай бұрын
Attachment styles can change depending on the relationship you're in
@isabelf2678
@isabelf2678 2 ай бұрын
I’m pregnant right now and the boundaries conversation is giving me anxiety 😭 appreciate this context 🫶🏽
@heatheraggus7501
@heatheraggus7501 2 ай бұрын
Justin, if you took 20 photos of background shots, you're posting a thirst trap shot. Clearly.
@emilyhanlon2972
@emilyhanlon2972 2 ай бұрын
Happy wedding weeeeeekend!!!!! 💕💕💕💕💕
@allysonreilly
@allysonreilly 2 ай бұрын
Are your kidding me? She gave the baby wine??? What the actual F? Honestly this woman needs to find a backbone, that’s insane.
@claudiapawlak6894
@claudiapawlak6894 Ай бұрын
Walking through the clouds, when your parent's want to meet him . Passion you cannot explain . Life your parent's gave you . Soulful is Love you to the moon & back . For Sure Love prevails .
@mmeshke
@mmeshke Ай бұрын
Can we drop the “thirst trap” game for “the household”? Ugh.
@leggs4113
@leggs4113 2 ай бұрын
Where are the time stamps?
@leggs4113
@leggs4113 2 ай бұрын
Is that Cam at the desk?
@jazminfancy
@jazminfancy 2 ай бұрын
The whole thirst trap debate segment in the beginning felt so gen z. As a millennial I feel so disconnected with these kind of topics 😂. I feel like there are way more important topics to talk about and more relatable than posting a picture of yourself on social media.
@sandralinke9150
@sandralinke9150 2 ай бұрын
Ha! And as a Gen X-er the whole thing seems ridiculous 😂
@Badnewsfeminist
@Badnewsfeminist 2 ай бұрын
Dude I felt my iq actively dropping during that conversation.
@nafafonafafofo
@nafafonafafofo Ай бұрын
That was cringy and went on way too long. Isn’t Nick like pushing 50?
@autumnsavage6419
@autumnsavage6419 Ай бұрын
Did I miss what happen to Derek?
@candy07831
@candy07831 Ай бұрын
He’s more behind the scenes & is on the Viall Files+ episodes
@resolute01769
@resolute01769 2 ай бұрын
How is the first caller still in contact with the parents still? Grow up already and do what you want to do.
@allysonreilly
@allysonreilly 2 ай бұрын
Listen to her was hard. The situations she’s allowed are ridiculous and at this joint, her fault.
@nk47100
@nk47100 2 ай бұрын
Please please do not sleep train before 5 months or earliest 4 months!!! You can do gentle sleep coaching but not full on sleep training where you allow for periods of crying and independent sleep in another room.
@rachelfriesz4413
@rachelfriesz4413 2 ай бұрын
To the woman who’s ex broke her back, go get yo check boo.
@beckstemple
@beckstemple 2 ай бұрын
I POSTED THIS TODAY UNDER LINDSAY HUBBARDS PODCAST, BUT DIDNT KNOW IF YOU READ COMMENTS FROM MONTHS BACK & THOUGHT NICK MIGHT LIKE TO READ ABOUT BEING A DECAN 3 LIBRA. Hey Nick, some psychological insight for you about behaviour. Sincerity doesnt convince anyone its sincere. Sincerity will share with u their experience & their feelings. If this was a FBI interview, the agents would profile Lindsay's communication to be leading, dominant, deceptive if she behaved the same as she did here when giving evidence, or her account of the details surrounding Carl's ending of their relationship. Lindsay could manipulate many people, whom are unaware of the deception behind convincing discourse. They may perceive her account as raw, and by extension, real. On a different matter, I watched a few episodes today and i think it was one with Angela White aka Blak Chyna, Nick shared he was Libran, and someone asked is there a difference between late Sept Libra's and Late Oct Libra's. There absolutely is Nick. I think I remember you said you were 21st Oct? Youre a 3rd Decan Libra. Each sign is 30 degrees of space along the ecliptic, which gets divided by 3, so Libra Decan 1 is double Libra, the next air sign is Aquarius, so Libra decan 2 is Libra/ Aquarius, and the next air sign is Gemini so Libra decan 3 is Libra/Gemini, and this makes Libra decan 3 great communicators, desire for information and knowledge, strategic, crafty, intelligent, but Libra decan 3 is also conjunct the fixed star Spica, this is a position of dignity (strength) Libra decan 3 think Kim Kardashian, Ryan Reynolds, Angela Landsbury, and you and me, Nick :-) Libra decan 3 loves an underdog. Anyone overcoming huge difficulties is inspirational. I'm a better astrology than Ally. I have 3 decades on her. I also have a psychology qual. You can google Libra decan 3, Nick and read some published interpretations. Libra decan 1 being double Libra's i envision people like Tom Schwarts, no back bone, needs to collect an army of followers and keep them in around or in his life how ever he can, so they can do the liking for him so he doesnt have to like himself. Its the shadow side of Libra, to move out of the shadow a libra must embrace the ugly, not just the good, the beautiful or the fair. Libra decan 3 is better equipped to commit to brutal honesty with themselves and greater capacity for self awareness. All the mercurial gifts are there, because Mercury rules Gemini, and Venus rules Libra so theres a mental interest and desire to understand relationships theoretically. Im not too sure how much you know about the gottman institute, Nick... but i know youre gonna love learning how predictive behaviour is, and how "turning towards" your partner observations can predict to the day the decision to divorce by a couple. www.gottman.com/ Gottman is the worlds leading research institution on relationships. The barrier is both couples have to be committed and the applied findings from their research is successful. Thats not always possible in a relationship. I'm sure youre as idealistic as me Nick (I'm the 16th Oct, Decan 3) when it comes to ideas of relating. I think you should be hosting dating shows or the bachelor, Libra decan 3 is born for that role.
@maydaze5934
@maydaze5934 2 ай бұрын
Okay but kinda weird for your boss to commenting on if you’re hot or not. 12:15
@cindicleee
@cindicleee 2 ай бұрын
❤️
@Itsallgravybaby777
@Itsallgravybaby777 2 ай бұрын
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