Personally the clearest sign ive had that i wasn't much of a looker was my mirror. All it took was a single glance. Was a real eye opener. Really made me see the truth of it.

Here's a REAL EXPERIENCE I've had: · I only make friends in places where I'm mostly covered up like when I'm skiing or doing downhill mountain biking. This one girl was super friendly with me while we were skiing, she wanted to spend all day with me, let me choose the slopes, gave me her number, saw me without the helmet and goggles... and then she never answered to a single WhatsApp message.

God, the one about always getting poor customer service is soo true

they use reddit

1) They ask question like this one

I was waiting at a train-station, standing on one of the platforms. Two blonde, chic, pretty girls (teenage or early 20s, don't recall precisely) were sitting on one side of a large bench on the platform. There comes this dude. You could tell from his body-language that he was a friendly, laid-back, nice person. He was obese, his clothes looked poor and old, his hair was greasy, he was sweating and out-of-breath from running to catch the train. He sat down on the bench, on the opposite end to the girls. The very second his bottom touched the bench, they got up and left, deciding to wait on the train somewhere else. He didn't seem to notice. But I think, on a subconscious level he did.

The part with the Tiktok Video is so true, they'd say stuff like that to make you feel better

Damn, society really treats people like shit. That's sad, man.

A really bad one is peoples reaction to the possibility of dating/being with you. I have someone that really likes me now. But people I have NEVER shown interest in would pre reject me and get super offended when I would tell them that it wouldn't happen anyway because they aren't my type. Had many childhood instances of chicks im hanging out with outwardly being DISGUSTED if anyone even MILDLY suggested we could be a couple. Really a confidence tanker :/

People looking at you, but with disgust.

"You are smart and articulate."

One way I knew I was unattractive is the many women that looked at me with a grossed out expression a few have even said “ewww” right to my face haha dam that hurts more then getting kicked in the balls! 😅

Gave a picture of myself to an indirect friend of mine, actual friend of my sister, who claims what she knows a couple of women who are looking for a relationship. I am sure that the moment thewy saw me all of them probably went "eww." I know I am not attractive, I have actually been called a creep just for staring blankly, lost in my own thoughts. Receesing hair, and forehead that possibly looks like it could be used as an emergency bottle opener. I stopped caring after a while. By the way, even my parents tell me that I am attractive. I told them how much BS that really is, I could look like a Cronenberg creature and I would still be called "hsndsome."

All these, except the Kids one. Additionally, my Mom would say, "I don't get it, at Parties all these Ladies would tell me how Handsome you are." I would ask in return, "Then why are they telling you and not me? Face it, your Son is Ugly as Sin, they just want to make you feel better, not me."

Is it bad that I relate to most of them 😭

0:20 based. Women constantly do this.

The worst part is when you have genuine interest in someone, and they are the one to ask you out, just for it to turn into a joke between her friends, so she leaves you because they're hurting her for it. Feels way too shitty. Single women keep other women single.

When only Mom tells you you're handsome or when you talk to a girl and her answers to your questions are only "Yes", "No", "Mhm" and she continues to show you're not interesting for her by doing stuff like sitting on KZfaq in middle of a conversation. Been there, saw that.

If someone says you're ugly...

Some of them are just signs of bad self steem, not necesarly being ugly

When they caught a glimpse of you, and they immediately switch to Flight or Fight response.

The “friend zone”. Loaded term, but if you hit it off with single people of the opposite gender but they don’t see you as potential bf/gf material, you’re not hot.

When they look at you with disgust when you remove your mask.

God, the entirety of this video hurts me personally.

When you pass out at a party and wake up with more clothes on than before! -Amy from the Big Bang Theory.

What made me realize I was unattractive? Have you ever heard of mirrors. One look in that bad boy and I automatically knew that I was most likely going to die alone.

as someone who used to be chubby, with acnes and bad teeth and lack of flattering styling (in terms of hair & clothes, may i add that i was also horrible at makeup) through my entire teenage years and only had a glow up now in my early 20s, i still genuinely cannot tell that if somebody shows interest in me, if that's actually genuine or are they just joking but i used to get hit on as a joke back then too. and obviously i see myself as prettier now cuz only i know the differences that changed, but i'm still not a 100% sure if i'm on that level of fitting into the beauty standards yet so i can be treated better. cuz the truth is that looking appealing definitely gets you more ahead in life, if i'm being honest that's the entire reason i wanted/want to look better. cuz i was getting too tired of ppl whispering about me when i pass by or just being rejective despite of me acting nice & approachable. in an ideal world, we wouldn't have to worry about these things so much...

funnilly enough, the second last one might just be you putting yourself down, it did not say the person showing interest was just joking, but that YOU convinced yourself that that is the case

A women said im ugly right in front of my face, she is a friend. I had to lock in after this one

Im not that bad looking, but I know for a fact that because of my acne (getting better), my attractiveness gets cut down by more than half.

Well I always thought that was the case with me when I was younger (and well now as well). This pretty much solidified itself with the following experience: I reached the end of my school day and was about to head home when I met my friend before leaving and we started to talk. Then after some time I heard the voice of a girl behind me trying to get my friends attention while we conversed and I looked back to see who it was. In that moment she saw my face and went „Eww“. To this day I am upset…. at myself for not finding a good comeback.

my girlfriend (now ex) of 6 years said she never found me all that attractive and I was at best a high 2 or a low 3 on a scale of 1 to 10

The juxtaposition between the topic and the background music is diabolical

0:31 Average redditor

This video gives off the same energy as an ASPCA commercial. 😅

1:36 THIS WAS ME. I had horrible acne until I was 25, it which point it finally subsided (mostly). Literally, I started getting attention from women almost right away. It was legitimately disorienting to have women interested in me to that degree after basically being told (implicitly and explicitly) that I was ugly for most of my life.

the good news is, the more you grow up and people around you grow up the less people care about how you look when it comes to regular social interaction. people will like you if you're good to just get along with. doesn't apply to dating tho, there looks will always matter to a very large degree. teenage years and adolescence are by far the worst time in life for ugly people

1:37 sadly it does not matter what I do I keep thinking this and that is what I hate about finding someone or even making friends, you can NEVER be sure and that is the biggest reason why I am so asocial.

I relate to like 75% of this

half of these apply to me yet the other half are the exact opposite of my situation, i am left even more confused than before

I can’t even tell if I’m pretty or ugly because of all the mixed signals I get. I’ve never been hit on and I’m almost 16, which is still young, but I’m seriously concerned that I may be ugly. But then again my female friends treat me like I’m pretty. I’ve been told I come off as intimidating and I never have shown interest in guys, so I wonder if that has something to do with it. Or maybe it’s the fact I’m 5’6 and always wear dark makeup. At the end of the day I’m convinced I appeal much more to girls.

Benefits of being unattractive: -less likely to receive unwanted attention or harassment -you'd know if people genuinely like you or not -you don't need to worry about maintaining your beauty and spending so much on products -you're forced to develop other skills such as personality, humor, going to the gym, etc.

The social media comments one (with the old men and family being the only commenters) is so fucking true

I can’t tell if I can relate to this. I’m 20 male and have never been hit on, although my male best friend once asked me out and he was serious about it. I have only had one person ask why I am single, and that was an old woman I had never met at a family function. I am very social in university part of a lot of friend groups but I feel like I get little one-on-one attention. I cannot tell if I get bad customer service or if people see me as a ghost because I have nothing to compare it to. I’ve had a lot of people overreact to slightly offensive jokes I make even though I’ve seen other people make very similar jokes to the same person.

0:21 THIS IS GREAT

What’s with the sad music???

0:21 no bc this is SHOCKINGLY true

When I went through 2 years of hard acnea and skin problems I really doubted my attractiveness since I stopped interacting with girls less and less. Nowadays I think I look decently good, most skin problems are gone, acnea has calmed down and I'm relatively fit. Unfortunately I'm studying in technical school with no girls so it's hard to say if they find me attractive, but I have confidence in my looks now.

bro 😭

Sounds like it sucks to be ugly, ngl

These are relatable and hilarious😂

Bro…. I’m cooked 💀😭

If you're having worries why would you even read all this. It literally can only hurt lol, wallowing in self pitty is about the most useless thing you can do.

i honestly think im average looking. some people think im attractive, some people dont. it'll go as high as someone wanting me and as low as someone blocking me

One sign is that you always ask these questions 😂😂😂😂😂

Today i learned i am ugly. Well... i did know already tbh. I do nothing with my long ass hair and i dont care about clothes at allXD I would be surprised if i actually was attractive. But i have fun in life anyway. It dont really matter:3

I thought I was for a while until I found my partner. Their opinion of me has dissolutioned me of such pessimism lol.

The clearest sign is that you use reddit

People call you ugly

Definitely my face lmao, I literally have blister sized pimples 🤢

Damn... this shit makes me feel sad.

The deprecating jokes is what got me the worst. I pretty much cant make anyone laugh so i stopped trying a long time ago. I did notice the awkward silence probably because they knew it was true.

When grown adults laugh at you in the store

my shmeat is not a whole foot long :((( day ruined

Real...

Turns out I’m not as ugly as I thought I was

They just like me fr

Keep toxic friends around you and they will tell you.

69: You dont have a profile picture, not related to me im just an otter.

I wish I was a pretty girl

This video comes up

be me

Chuldren run to their mothers screaming make it stop it pretty telling

I’m just fat :)

When you get zero matches on tinder.

I always have the teenage boys yelling at me for being ugly. It makes me scared to go outside :(

Using reddit.

Help 💀 I relate to some of these lol How about this…when someone hits on you, you’re confused and think it didn’t happen or that they were flirting with someone else

Honestly, unless you got a hygiene problem or a medical condition specifically affecting your face I refuse to believe you're ugly. Everyone has a cute side.

You're on reddit

Can't relate

At least put that annoying AI voice, i put these on while painting , I can't read it

I’m a very attractive man and man don’t hate me but life is very easy. I’ve never not gotten a job, I’ve literally had multiple women walk up to me and ask me for my number and tell me I’m cute, I’ve always bagged in the first date latest is third date if it’s a more serious person. Women always do that hair flip thing when they walk past me. I’m tall and muscular so people will always get out of my way. People generally want to associate with me in any given social situation. I personally think a lot of people are weird so I stay to myself but get attention anyways. Whenever I approach a woman it’s 9/10 a positive situation. Very rarely have I been turned down and I have slept with many attractive women. Everything in life is relative and over time you get used to things. Don’t be so impressed by material things or how someone looks. Be impressed at how someone is in a spiritual sense. There’s no amount of external stimulus that can make you a happy person, it all comes from within. Even if I were ugly fat and wheelchair bound I would still find a way to be happy. I was ugly as a kid so I know what it’s like btw.

Holy shit, skunk_weed. I'm 33 this month and I haven't been hit on once, either. My brother from another mother.