My family disowned me after my girlfriend accused me of struggle snuggling her...

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8 ай бұрын

My family disowned me after my girlfriend accused me of struggle snuggling her, and now they want to reconnect. Plus two updates.
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@colliness 8 ай бұрын

I feel bad for OPs brother…he tried to reach out to him, and his mom blocked him. I hope OP will re-establish his relationship with him and that the brother goes NC with their mother!

@xyouthe 8 ай бұрын

thats somewhat how i felt too, the brother seemed like the only one who cared and wanted to help out, not his fault the mother held him back in secret

@reneeharper84 8 ай бұрын

I agree

@MartynCole 7 ай бұрын

There is more to this story. He does reconcile with his brother and the brother goes to visit him and his family in his new country@@reneeharper84

@TylerTrailer1 7 ай бұрын

@@xyouthe He made an edit where he said he allowed his brother to fly over hand visit his nephew and niece

@Kalimar07 7 ай бұрын

@@TylerTrailer1thanks for this comment

@SnowWolfAlpha 8 ай бұрын

The girlfriend can talk about her guilt all she wants but she didn't confess until she was caught. She would've probably gone the rest of her life without spilling the beans.

@nobody2906 8 ай бұрын

yep in france that'd be 5 years in jail and a lot of money outiside any form of compensation ofc.

@nancestpasmoi1834 7 ай бұрын

@@nobody2906 onely for the parent, the girlfriend would had nothing.

@NoNo-xh7ru 7 ай бұрын

That’s the funny thing about guilt innit? People only seem to feel it when they need to convince someone to forgive them. I’d have snapped at the mom and ex for crying, like THEY’RE somehow the victimS in all of this.

@jasonsandoval3823 7 ай бұрын

Until to the end of the story, she still lie as she have multiple partner after him, after the event. Never trust a cheater guys!

@willambonney 4 ай бұрын

She's full of bs....she's feeling guilty cause she got caught 🙄

@sugarsammy7209 7 ай бұрын

Annnd this is why false rape allegations should get the same time in prison. She ruined his life and faced no consequences. Disgusting how awful men are treated in society

@BoomboxMasterYT 6 ай бұрын

If it makes you feel better, I read a story about a false allegation that has a better ending. So this guys mom, let’s call her Alice, finds out that one of her employees is accusing another person of assaulting her. Everyone in the office was demanding that he be fired, so Alice suspended both of them but didn’t fire anyone yet. The truth came out that nothing happened during an investigation, and Alice immediately fired the woman. Alice then gave enough money for the accused employee for suing her for defamation, and long story short the woman got imprisoned.

@MahsaKaerra 5 ай бұрын

Indeed. If it were me, I would make any reconciliation with the family conditional on her serving prison time for the false allegation, and for the defamation, and until then any further attempts at contact would be considered harassment and subject to legal action.

@nehcrum 4 ай бұрын

@@BoomboxMasterYT Imprisoned for defamation?

@alexs2195 4 ай бұрын

@@nehcrumthis is not defamation, is false accusation of crime

@MerlynMusicman 4 ай бұрын

If you don't think men are treated better than women by society, you have a skewed vacuous perspective. Anything of real value is firmly in our sphere.

@basedsalazarslytherin 6 ай бұрын

"Why are men afraid of commitment?" "Why don't men approach anymore?" "Why don't men make the first move?" "Why do men not want relationships?" Can't imagine why.

@rhondathompson6942 4 ай бұрын

cause right now modern women are trash im a woman to and we are going into danger zone when i hear words like belive women with no evidence to back it up i feel for men now

@argonianaccount1876 2 ай бұрын

Yup. A real mystery…

@TheGreenerItGets 2 ай бұрын

🙄

@bonthebunnycat667 Ай бұрын

Imagine letting reddit stories inform how you handle real life interactions

@deluca4750 Ай бұрын

@@bonthebunnycat667 Imagine thinking it's not something that actually happens in real life.

@yozarahirvi4750 8 ай бұрын

the the ex GF 1) cheated on OP 2) accused OP of r*pe 3) kept it hidden until proof of her actions came up and then she have the audacity to tell OP she loves him ? and lie about not being with anyone waiting for him so that they can get back together ? disgusting woman, disgusting parent who abandon their child in the blink of an eye !

@Sakyosha 8 ай бұрын

But feminists would have you believe this stuff never happens and women never have false allegations

@nancestpasmoi1834 7 ай бұрын

@@Sakyosha it's laughlable when they affirm this, like women didn't had the capacity to lie... isn't a sexist thing to say?

@Raving_Rando 7 ай бұрын

@@Sakyosha Feminists: "Women don't lie." Men: "Men are better liars than women." Feminists: "How dare you! Women are far better liars! We're so much better at lying it isn't even funny how much better we are than men!" Men: "So women lie, eh?" Feminists: "...NO."

@jessedunn9835 7 ай бұрын

Ya the feminist mom,dad and x all played exactly that even though they all knew better the whole time. Father cares to keep his position as pet cuck to his wife l, also has no love for his own kids just like wife. They knew him his whole life they knew better but valued his x more. Cheaters tend to do that.

@NathanXYX. 7 ай бұрын

@@Sakyosha "feminists" is the most laughable word ever. Children make more sense than that race of filthy women

@ern1813 8 ай бұрын

the op showing the cheating ex the photos oh his wife and kids all happy and telling her what she could've had if she wasn't unfaithful and a liar was so satisfying. She will remember this memory as a burden for the rest of her life and may never recover from this.

@danteerskine7678 8 ай бұрын

Reminds me of a tweet I read long time ago about a guy telling a chick if she would date a struggling guy and she said hell no, then the guy told her "you know, for me you're that struggling guy" and she complained on Twitter how she wasn't able to recover from it😂😂😂😂😂

@scaredpaul540 7 ай бұрын

She is sociopathic, she doesn't care about him or anyone else...her "guilt" is just for show and some excitement in her miserable life

@ern1813 7 ай бұрын

@@scaredpaul540 well said

@FoidsRtrashmisogynyisgigabased 5 ай бұрын

@@scaredpaul540*female

@Mery1119 Ай бұрын

Best roasting ever

@tonychan8558 8 ай бұрын

False accusers of r**e should go to jail.

@aleksandarvil5718 8 ай бұрын

For Life

@EpicBunty 8 ай бұрын

100%

@Between_Scylla_and_Kharybdis 8 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@jamestown8398 7 ай бұрын

I think that false accusers, regardless of crime, should get the same punishment as the crime they made the accusation for.

@einjharrelraca 6 ай бұрын

rebounded sentences. you get the 15 years that comes with r@ape and you are now on the sex offender registry.

@ncd2164 8 ай бұрын

Atleast reconcile with ur brother like what did he do? He even tried sending u money bruh

@scalingstories 8 ай бұрын

OP commented later down the line that he’s open to letting his brother fly over to meet his niece and nephew but he forgot to mention it in his post and that he hesitated at first as he and his brother weren’t really on great terms growing up, brotherly rivalry and all that.

@brighamemfield174 8 ай бұрын

@@scalingstories Nice, I heard this story before and was sad for the brother, thank goodness op and him were able to reconnect and reconcile

@Mashamazzi 8 ай бұрын

@@scalingstoriesnot on great terms, but he tried to come through anyway cause thats what brothers do

@thehengy3232 8 ай бұрын

A girl tried to falsely accuse my brother of doing the same thing and my families reactions compared to OP’s families reactions are quite the contrast. My mom laughed at her and told her to fuck off and not even ATTEMPT to pull something like that out of her ass because she knows who my brother is at heart and that if she did a world of hellfire was coming her way. It was funny how fast she buckled and admitted to it being bullshit. I think if my brother ever actually did something like this he’d be dead to me but I know he never would. I can’t imagine disowning family before getting the facts and stories straight. It makes me sad hearing this guy’s story.

@alexandrudumitru170 8 ай бұрын

@@thehengy3232give dad reaction plz i wanna see

@Baronstone 7 ай бұрын

Yeah, I think he needs to include his brother in the list of family. Afterall, he did try many hundreds of times to contact him to make sure he was okay and offer support both mental and financial. As for his ex, he needs to file a lawsuit against her for $250 million

@wubraxco4836 6 ай бұрын

There has been an update where he has allowed his brother to fly in to meet with his niece and nephew. He has managed to patch things up with him it seems, so happy ending for the two brothers.

@thetruth1223 6 ай бұрын

Hopefully he keeps the birthgiver and the sperm donor at arm length and never let them meet the kids ....

@LouisWarren530 5 ай бұрын

@@thetruth1223More like dumps them in a negative 1 star old folks home with a no contact order

@thetruth1223 5 ай бұрын

@LouisWarren530 1) LGRW.. 2) that would be interesting but honestly that would take to much of op time just have a NC and restraining order against the 2 and be done with them Forever..

@Sg190th 8 ай бұрын

She really had the audacity to apologize and thinks therapy would do wonders. Also, sounds like the parents never really loved OP. Accountability is KRYPTONITE

@OnterribleBlows 8 ай бұрын

i do feel bad for the brother, he tried after all it's more then any one else in his bio "family" did for him, but i also can understand the feelings toward him out of association but i do hope he can reconnect with his brother one day

@scaredpaul540 7 ай бұрын

He didn't tried enough...if i am OPs brother I will reach via Facebook, instagram, another phone,through friends...OPs brother reached by phone with block? You can see that you're blocked if you sent message, it's just poor excuse

@OnterribleBlows 7 ай бұрын

@scaredpaul540 it could be seen as a bad excuse if you choose to or it could be respecting the wishes of someone who doesn't want contact with you instead of trying to harrass them

@scaredpaul540 7 ай бұрын

@@OnterribleBlows this way or another, there is no forgiveness after what that "family" did, they should apologise to him and leave him alone...they deserve to be disowned by him. OP have his own family now and he's happy

@kylewilliams5454 7 ай бұрын

@@scaredpaul540 He chose to allow his brother back into his life and we don't know if he had social media.

@asw654 4 ай бұрын

@@scaredpaul540 I wouldn't blame OP for cutting off his brother, but that would clearly be an emotional move. The brother tried hundreds of times, tried to support OP financially. We don't know if the OP had any other social media, and we don't know if the brother just felt after a lot of calls that he needed to respect OP's decision to heal on his own. It's say the bro's fault in this is minimal. EDIT: Just checked OP's comments. He doesn't have social media, and doesn't blame the brother for not being able to contact him. This happened a while back before social media took over.

@superstan2310 8 ай бұрын

"I still love you" YOU FUCKING WHAT?! So cheating, ruining their life, and not even telling the truth (out of guilt or remorse) even after all those years are the actions of someone in love? Fucking hell I've heard it all.

@MrToubrouk 8 ай бұрын

Even better: why the hell is she still around? WTF?

@potatoheadpokemario1931 8 ай бұрын

False struggle snuggle accusations is as bad the actual Crime, she would have had an easier time she was trying to win him back if she did the Crime she's accusing him of

@Mashamazzi 8 ай бұрын

@@MrToubroukprobably mother mentioned op was coming back that day

@tonychan8558 8 ай бұрын

That is the logic of women, unfortunately!

@shadabkhan-sy3sp 8 ай бұрын

@@tonychan8558I am thinking if a woman can do this all when she says she loves her man then what can she do to those she hates? 😂

@diffsnicker 8 ай бұрын

The dad is a very lucky and foolish man. To betray someone so close to him in a such a heinous and cruel fashion... people have been broken by far lesser struggles. He's lucky he made it back home with his life.

@rachelprosper6097 5 ай бұрын

Agreed 💯

@njts1985 8 ай бұрын

How bad times are shifting. It was suppose to be PRESUMED INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY.

@lolzorze 8 ай бұрын

welcome to current world where you are guilty until proven without the shadow of a doubt innocent but you are still guilty anyway.

@SnockLock 8 ай бұрын

@@lolzorze Unless your a women.

@P-XIII 8 ай бұрын

It's been like that for half a century when it comes to such stuff.

@scimbrelo 8 ай бұрын

The presumption of innocence is not a societal dictum, it's literally just jury instructions, but people love to conflate that lmao. It's literally that simple. It's jury instructions, so unless you're on a jury that means nothing.

@einjharrelraca 6 ай бұрын

not if your a man. we are 8th class citizens under the law in court rooms.

@ion_playz4341 7 ай бұрын

the brother is the only family that truly deserves him

@TheJared1445 5 ай бұрын

False SA allegations should require the accuser to register as a sexual predator!

@lightyagami3492 Ай бұрын

Facts! If proven in a court of law like an actual rape allegation.

@MizzShortai 7 ай бұрын

I hope OP can build a relationship with his brother as he did try to reach out to OP multiple times. The parents saying "they made a rash decison and seeing him in handcuffs broke their hearts" seriously.? Wow just wow. They dont deserve forgiveness. They didnt even give OP a chance even after their was no evidence. Disgusting pieces of work they are. I hope they are filled with regret for the rest of their lives. I also hope the cheating idiot feels guilty for the rest of her life and pines for him forever and i hope any relationship she gets in she gets cheated on.

@jackspring7709 3 ай бұрын

Yep. Garbage scum parents. Its difficult to believe they ever treated him well, given how they reacted towards him over those claims.

@heyyitsjanea 8 ай бұрын

struggle snuggle ?? i get censorship but bffr😭

@bazyl3357 8 ай бұрын

I love it, I am stealing that.

@dumbidea1007 8 ай бұрын

@@bazyl3357 not really stealing that thing is a pretty old meme

@bazyl3357 8 ай бұрын

@@dumbidea1007 Old or not, I like it. Too many memes can't always remember all of them.

@wisnoskij 8 ай бұрын

Oh, it was changed for YT. That was more confusing than just bleeping it.

@TheVercci 8 ай бұрын

It's a Reddit reference. Used to be a subreddit with videos of it.

@nayanD69 3 ай бұрын

I heard there is an update. OP is still pretty low contact with parents but he is trying to repair his relationship with his brother. The brother even met OPs kids and wifie

@robertmancuso4383 8 ай бұрын

really op went soft on the ex girlfriend i would have told her straight up get the hell away from me disgusting excuse of a human and told them having her there was a mistake on them to even still have her around for what she did and that never seeing the parents again would be better cut all contact after that and say actions have consequences you disown me and threw me out and i moved on now I'm going to do the same and disown you two and never contact you again this meeting is the last you see of me and the whole brother thing he can reconcile but tell the brother to never have the parents involved if he does but parents believing her without questions and still have her around even after it was found out she lied those parents are a sorry excuse for humans still showing they care more about his ex girlfriend over him

@izanamisgrave 8 ай бұрын

me timbers be shivered

@qt_s 8 ай бұрын

punctuation left the chat

@Mashamazzi 8 ай бұрын

OP mentions she was cut off, so she was probably only there because they knew when OP would show up

@islixxn 8 ай бұрын

npc@@izanamisgrave

@davidkermes376 5 ай бұрын

at least op got to show her the family she would NEVER have with him. sometimes twisting the dagger makes up for betrayal.

@jamestown8398 7 ай бұрын

I’m glad OP stood firm and kept his dignity intact. I hope his ex and his parents never emotionally recover from this.

@princessstarpeach9161 8 ай бұрын

Op needed to sue that girl for deformation.

@lolly166541 8 ай бұрын

Shit like that doesn't really go anywhere - just look at the recent case of a student in some high-level university in the US... Even tho' proven innocent he still can't attend the school etc.

@Songforyall 8 ай бұрын

@@lolly166541 yeah even though proven innocent the school decided to have their own kangaroo court and find him guilty without any cross examination illegal btw and now they're sueing the school no?

@lolly166541 8 ай бұрын

It doesn't really matter for the justice system if it's illegal or not. Sounds dumb, but let's face it - most of the time it's like the saying "It is better to ask forgiveness than permission". They pay maybe a small fine and say "woopsie daisy" and call it a day. It's a womens world.@@Songforyall

@maxherrera5344 7 ай бұрын

There is edit on the last update: as some of you asked, I have decided I would allow my Brother to fly over and meet his Nephew and Niece. I completely forgot to mention this in the post. Apologies. (I hesitated at first as me and my brother weren’t really on great terms growing up, brotherly rivalry and all that.)

@jackspring7709 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for updating on that story. I was wondering if there was an update on the brother. A number of stories came up on my youtube this evening of families turning their backs on their own flesh and blood over false accusations of various sorts. To me its incomprehensible that a family would do that to their own without even wanting to hear them out. Best of luck from the UK. Sounds like you have a great family now.

@torondin 7 ай бұрын

Thank Goodness. I do find it ironic that the one you didn't have the best relationship with was the one person in your "family" that actually wanted to help you and even tried to. Here's wishing you and your true family, including your Brother, all the best,

@ember3579 6 ай бұрын

Got a link to the story?

@Walhor 8 ай бұрын

False SA reporters should be jailed for years

@crazyadam9281 7 ай бұрын

I agree but it'll never happen.

@kevincaruthers5412 6 ай бұрын

Anyone who would abandon you without rock solid proof... is not your family. Move on and than God he provided you with a real family.

@thetruth1223 8 ай бұрын

Op should've ended the meeting telling them all " these kids will grow up with love and care and never know the easily manipulated disgusting fools that abandoned you just out of convenience and then think a sorry is gonna fix everything you will never meet your grandchildren you will never know them dont ever look for me again as i disown you both as parents " .....

@l0rdapophis 7 ай бұрын

I feel bad for laughing everytime I hear "struggle snuggle" 😭

@jackspring7709 7 ай бұрын

What a wonderful family - turning their backs on their own son over the claims of some girlfriend. How nice of OP's ""father"" to not confront the lying GF. He had no hesitation confronting and turning his back on OP.

@Gen_Max_Foster 3 ай бұрын

naw if your family believes your gf with out checking the facts then they ain`t your family man

@Gen_Max_Foster 3 ай бұрын

and you made a good decision man

@MrJustin1009 8 ай бұрын

They never explained why they believed the girlfriend instead of their son.

@Tyranid_Hive_Mind 8 ай бұрын

They apparently made a "rash decision"

@willambonney 7 ай бұрын

Their own child flesh and blood never mattered to them apparently....

@zardox78 Ай бұрын

Self-preservation.

@matthewbarabas3052 8 ай бұрын

it took me some time to figure out what struggle snuggle even was. can we not use such words? use the word rape. that what it is.

@Ichigo29ify 8 ай бұрын

Yes plz

@50shadesofmidnight 8 ай бұрын

It's because KZfaq would take the video down if that was in the title/video

@matthewbarabas3052 8 ай бұрын

@@50shadesofmidnight no they dont. theres countless videos with that as the title, let alone the video, and it does just fine.

@Kyuubi112LOL 8 ай бұрын

@@matthewbarabas3052 No, they are not doing "just fine". Most of them are demonetized, and are not appearing on the main page of YT and some of them are later taken down by the algorithm. Any author who wants to make any money or have a significant number of subscribers out of their videos sadly needs to avoid using "banned" words and "controversial topics" per KZfaq guidelines.

@matthewbarabas3052 8 ай бұрын

@@Kyuubi112LOL you shouldnt be using youtube t make money, because their rules are too restrictive and actively harmful. do t you remember they demonetize videos for talking about covid?

@markanthony1004 7 ай бұрын

OPs brother for the win as he and OPs friend were the only ones who didn’t just toss him away

@Showmeurmousepadbro 4 ай бұрын

LAW IS BULLSHIT THE EX SHOULD BE IN PRISON

@angerydestroyer 5 ай бұрын

Op has a better family the family that threw him out is trash

@angerydestroyer 5 ай бұрын

His ex is garbage

@lodunost 6 ай бұрын

FALSE ACCUSERS need to get whatever the max sentence is for the crime which they falsely accused someone of. My friend Ross Bullock took his own life over a very similar issue. He only had his family and a few friends. He lost everything from his job onward. People painted him as something he wasn't the police knew early on after checking his phone but still pressured him and harassed him. People wouldn't talk to him and treated him poorly and mocked him. This woman never seen any repercussions. All because she was embarrassed about the encounter after the fact. His parents were the ones to discover him. I regret not talking more but I'm in the US. He was only 38. His mother didn't deserve to find him like that. But he had no one. What I would do is. Turn it around on the GF working with your family just long enough to ensure that the police and the area you were in are aware of the truth and exonerate yourself. Then what you do is go no contact with all of them. You can't trust people that didn't even manage to trust you. You were innocent and without proper evidence or proof you were basically exiled and ostracized. Better off alone than with those who could have cared less about the truth in the first place. Took them how long to come to you? Took them how long to open their eyes? No, you're better off alone.

@thomasprogli3372 6 ай бұрын

BELIEVE THE WOMAN !!! That is our culture now. Putting women on a pedestal as if they were saints and never would abuse trust and honesty. We are going to see a lot more stories in the future to come.

@lawsonallen7741 2 ай бұрын

PUT HER IN JAIL!

@MrToubrouk 8 ай бұрын

TL;DR: Parents believed the cheating Ex-Gf because "Me Also", disinherited son moved on.

@Deathmonkey361 8 ай бұрын

Poundme2.

@jgrAnimations23 7 ай бұрын

@@Deathmonkey361hasty generalization

@Deathmonkey361 7 ай бұрын

@@jgrAnimations23 Yeh thats why I call it poundme2 cus a lot of the time it's false reports or reports for shit that isn't even anything to do with grape.

@TheKadanz 3 ай бұрын

Always the waterworks when getting called out on their bullshit. It's standard procedure.

@trevorsreya8277 7 ай бұрын

So let me get the sequence of events on these two moments straight: 1) The parents were broken up about seeing OP in handcuffs. 2) After being released for lack of evidence, parents just say that OP is *lucky.* Sounds like poor excuse making if you ask me.

@fameasser123 8 ай бұрын

XD "Struggle snuggling"? That is probably the funniest way I've heard somebody say rape without saying the word "rape".

@__________________________9140 8 ай бұрын

i think it is the most horrible way nothing hilarious at all

@fameasser123 8 ай бұрын

I think all rational people would agree that rape is wrong and a horrible thing, but calling this is just an absurdly funny way to call it.

@__________________________9140 8 ай бұрын

@@fameasser123 no it isn't

@Mery1119 Ай бұрын

It ain't funny, more like insensitive. Trying to minimize the people who got a lifetime worth of trauma using a much less serious word is definitely apalling

@Ravnesss 8 ай бұрын

The brother catchin some strays.

@jessedunn9835 7 ай бұрын

So guy found a woman like hearted to his mom, then she decided to dump son after he cough her cheating. They knew him his entire life. They knew better the whole time. Cheaters support eachother over anyone else. His dad is dumb enough to not relize he marred a feminist. They kept his x in his place. That says everything you need to know not a one has human decency only tries to act like it. If the brother actually wasnt just trying to tell him off or act like he is guilty but***.... Then he would have reached out really. Different numbers,email, social media and kept trying if nothing else to know he wasnt dead in a ditch somewhere. X staked him and his mom found out there was grandkids shielded from her. This lead to sending her pet cuck to sing the b.s. story to him trying to sucker the guy back into the spiders web. He should have just called cops. Then who cares to talk to the friends who ditched him at his lowest.

@abloshow91 7 ай бұрын

Bros just like "hey man come on"

@nayshawnjones6946 2 ай бұрын

He should’ve reconcile with his brother because the brother tried to talk too him but the mom blocked him on all their paid plans so he really should’ve forgave the brother

@somerandomcanadian1575 8 ай бұрын

I get that this story is fucked but I laughed my ass off when I heard "struggle snuggle"

@actaemazantor9558 3 ай бұрын

Well, to be fair, the brother did nothing wrong and actually tried to contact him and help.

@pan1ni82 8 ай бұрын

them reddit script writers keep getting better

@tracys169 8 ай бұрын

struggle snuggle, what is this...

@PhotoJeticPoet 7 ай бұрын

The father finding him is when he lost me. How did he find you under a different name in a different country? And you weren't at all curious enough to ask?

@pan1ni82 7 ай бұрын

@@tracys169 strugle snugle is rape

@pan1ni82 7 ай бұрын

@@PhotoJeticPoet brother changed his name easily build up a succesfull life without education in a diffrent country under a fake name. too many things that are too rare to happen. not impossible but unlikely

@PhotoJeticPoet 7 ай бұрын

@@pan1ni82 he did his education in that country

@Babidi111 8 ай бұрын

- unless he has the phone with the messages so you can launch a civil suit or at least send the proof to everyone in your lives he should go f himself.

@bllahblubb8072 8 ай бұрын

It's funny to read it.... most of these story's have this in commen for whatever reason the ex gf/wife/bf/husband is still in contact with the family..... how the fu*k do these family's still have some kind of a relationship with the ex partner of their son/daughter.....

@overheavendio5665 11 күн бұрын

Damn, losing all relationship with your old family is tragic, not to mention when you don't even see them as family anymore.

@TJS-Real- 8 ай бұрын

Struggle Snuggling is crazy

@thabihotboy9376 7 ай бұрын

Ahh yes, the Struggle Snuggle Coined by the one and only Jimmy Carr

@Noluckman 6 ай бұрын

I hope he got back in contact of some sort with his brother, as his brother hadn't seemed to have abandoned him, cause of the mother's actions, he wasn't able to help.

@AliothAncalagon 7 ай бұрын

Should have reconciled with the brother.

@jestosebno666 8 ай бұрын

Thank god for urban dictionary, because who da fck knows what struggle snuggling means.

@Business458 7 ай бұрын

Thats a messed up family because they are supposed to believe their child or support them even though its true This is why I just ghost them whenever I see redflags. Who the hell needs an explanation when it doesnt change the fact that you have to break up with them and when it could cause them to accuse you of something.

@NafiuUllash 8 ай бұрын

"i still love you" I would hope you could come back I legit said Fuck no why Tf would i do that 💀

@potatoheadpokemario1931 8 ай бұрын

such a lie, if she really still loved him she wouldn't have cheated nor make a false struggle snuggle acusation

@grant8653 6 ай бұрын

Not enough people use Struggle Snuggle, It is a terrible thing but people need to stop calling it things like Graping. Makes my testicles hurt.

@Im_Just_Here248 26 күн бұрын

I felt terrible through watching this but when I found out that the brother tried so hard to help and OP never knew because of the evil mom I literally wanted to throw up with how evil and spiteful a human can be to take extra measures that could cause their own son WHO WASNT PROVEN GUILTY to make sure he couldn’t get help

@victorv1151 7 ай бұрын

Nevermind the gf, imagine getting betrayed by your parents like that.

@bruceyoung565 Ай бұрын

The brother was a victim too, he tried to help. I hope you repair that relationship.

@Catsclaw-ru6zw 7 күн бұрын

OP should re-establish a relationship with his brother since he did try to reach out but their mom had him blocked if I were the brother I wouldn't talk to his mom anymore. As for the ex she destroyed a family why they hadn't kicked her to the curb is beyond me.

@JanaSzIsBasicGlitch 6 күн бұрын

Hey man, they gotta name it differently, because I am imagining more like snuggling with person who is tired or struggled through the day....

@sheepisfortheweak6164 Ай бұрын

That ex-girlfriend has no right to even speak about loving him. The things she did are not something you do to someone you love.

@generalalduin9548 8 ай бұрын

wait, what did the brother do? not even going to reconcile with him?

@artcasual99 8 ай бұрын

Apparently in a comment, OP said he's open to letting his brother fly to his country to meet his niece and nephew but he forgot to mention it in the post and that he was initially hesitant since he and his brother weren't too close growing up.

@nagiiboo Ай бұрын

Honestly out of all of them the brother should gain pardon, he tried to be in contact - the mother blocked that from happening

@legoyoda645 Ай бұрын

Dad lore is gonna be crazy

@darthmadeus 25 күн бұрын

It's so sad the brother wanted to help but couldn't even get through bc mom blocked the phone plan. Disgusting

@NS-tm2th 2 ай бұрын

And girls wonder why a lot of guys just don't bother dating. This, this is why. I've asked some of my guy friends, coming as a friend and really just curious, and this has come up as a reason so often. One of them even had it happen to him but he had proof. Didn't stop his university chances from being ruined though. It's not a surprise that none of them wanna date. Hell, they don't even wanna hook up anymore of the chances of this happening. Just not worth the protential risk to them.

@dude9318 Ай бұрын

Horrible parents Abandoning their own son over something there is no proof over Very sad

@drifter139 8 ай бұрын

this. this right here is why you don't blindly believe someone without evidence to back up their claims. otherwise you lose out on important moments because you sided with a lying cheater

@user-fw7fj3df5r 8 ай бұрын

OP you did good 👍

@ReaIHuman 7 ай бұрын

If there's no proof, I refuse to believe anyone especially when it comes to accusations like this. If you don't have any evidence I don't have a reason to take you seriously.

@kalcibone 3 ай бұрын

personally? tell the father he has a possibility to speak to your kids in time and slow effort to reconcile. same with your brother. Tell mother she has VERY long time for anything of the sort, but it requires them to help you sue EX for fraud, defamation leading to financial damage. treat them like cousins you barely know, on very thin ice, and only if they -make sure due justice is made.-

@jeremydale4548 2 ай бұрын

I wouldn’t give those idiots a chance. The brother at least tried. The parents are pieces of shit that don’t deserve forgiveness for what they did Seriously, who the fuck believes a GF over their son?

@pdfileMuhammad54yo 17 күн бұрын

No forgivement to traitors

@williamb.8762 8 ай бұрын

0:22 So because it never went to a jury (because there was not enough evidence to press charges) he was guilty???

@DCD762 29 күн бұрын

Turn him away He choose to believe another over his own child

@mothic 10 күн бұрын

About Brother: There was an update OP let his brother come over and meet his family. He didn't blame his brother.

@strength45 7 ай бұрын

WHAT?!?!?! Op's brother should feel no guilt towards his brother he tried to make his peace.

@gigaSLAYER66610 Ай бұрын

He feels guilty that he couldn't do anything

@christopherwilliams1042 4 ай бұрын

When I finally figured out what "struggle snuggle" meant I was so excited but then I had to restart it from the beginning 😂..... If you don't know.... She accused him of rape

@ghostboytez5821 2 ай бұрын

Don't cut your brother out that ain't fair he tried his best to help you the mother stopped it and you vanished he and your best friend are the only sincere people

@Rorschachqp 2 ай бұрын

This is a known story and has updates. I remember OP let the brother back in slowly.

@hypezar 7 ай бұрын

From my perspective, the ex gf is like the OP parent youngest kid, assuming that she still lives with OP parent because she asked OP dad to clear stuff on her phone and most likely OP parent felt guilty on what on their mind think OP did and let her stay with them. So, like most parents, they always sided with the youngest one. The fact that OP brother tried many times to contact OP to help is the sign that he is the older one. So, OP is like the 2nd kid. Like most 2nd kid, in most situations they are not treated fairly. So basically, the ex gf doesn't even need to be the gf. She can literally be the real youngest child and accuse OP and the parent will still act the same way to OP.

@johnyzero2000 16 күн бұрын

Why do those women break into those goddamn crocodile tears?

@prettyboyswaglicious 7 күн бұрын

The brother was tryna actually help i wouldn’t be mad at him

@justanapple2102 3 күн бұрын

I’m sorry… STRUGGLE SNUGGLED???💀💀💀

@Vibes_FC 7 ай бұрын

The brother tried to reach out tho... he would be the knly exception in my eyes... i feel sorry for him.

@Elavationproductions 21 күн бұрын

nah if parents really cared they wouldn't have simply cut off contact with her. They'd be cutting off something else

@gregmiller4387 7 ай бұрын

You should reconnect with your brother, he tried to help you, to keep in contact, he didn't turn his back on you, but maybe it too much because that would likely keep your parents in your life. Do what you think is best Op but brothers are hard to come by.

@higharchbishopofteatasting6217 7 ай бұрын

In a later update op says how he'll allow his brother to fly over and meet his niece and nephew, he just forgot to mention It in the first post. cheers.

@darrylblanch8463 Ай бұрын

OP should try to keep in contact with brother, the rest can DIAF.

@aleksandarvil5718 8 ай бұрын

5:00 *Thomas Has Never Heard Such BS Before !!!*

@knote4958 5 ай бұрын

Something similar happened to a guy in my small town, except he didn't get to have a happy ending. He hooked up with this girl in his class at a party, but turns out she had a bf in the next town over and because social circles overlap it was only a matter of time before word got back to him. She got ahead of all that by claiming he r*ped her and even went to the cops with it. His family was poor and couldn't afford an attorney, so he got absolutely screwed in court and is now on the sex offender registry. Half of the guys in that class know she lied about it, but because she's a little blonde white girl everybody else believed her. It's bittersweet, seeing how the internet now helps people learn the truth about this and overcome the social programming, but at the very least guys are learning about this so they have a chance to avoid it

@aaronjohn786 2 ай бұрын

But please at least reconcile with your brother

@viking-journey 6 ай бұрын

I think is ex GF Is so dum or stupid...only After the sessision She can understand...really?

@JosiahTheScienceGuy Ай бұрын

the only reason I clicked on this video was because I had absolutely no idea what a "struggle snuggle" was

@nEver_asked 10 күн бұрын

So we are not going to talk about how many guys go through this becoz of false accusations?

@unclelink 5 ай бұрын

This is waaaay too common. False accusations, siding with the wrong instead of the wronged, empty remorse. He should at least give his brother a chance since he was the only one who made an effort but failed because of their mother. Ultimately, it's his decision... a cool uncle is the best though.

@real_mushroom_hunter 8 ай бұрын

wtf is struggle snuggling

@emycharaa 8 ай бұрын

SA probably

@zeussoulhd2169 8 ай бұрын

What is SA tho

@sbond8765 8 ай бұрын

Sexual assault.

@zeussoulhd2169 8 ай бұрын

Thanks

@potatoheadpokemario1931 8 ай бұрын

It's a euphemism for rape

@JoshSi19 9 күн бұрын

Yeah I wouldn’t have forgiven any of them either except maybe the brother. I would’ve even been more petty than this guy I would’ve rubbed it in so bad that my life was going well. Never would have talked to them again