0:53 - How did you realize that you weren't straight? 4:40 - What makes same-sex relationships succeed/fail? 6:14 - Is there true monogamy in a long-term gay relationship? 7:07 - Favorite LGBT films? 8:07 - How was it like being gay at school? 9:30 - How did you come out to your family and friends?
@leonalu74504 жыл бұрын
how did you come out to your parents and what was their reaction, i’m bisexual and i want to come out to my mother who is, homophobic. any tips?
Love how TSL is unafraid of creating content that’s inclusive of the LGTBQ community! Thanks TSL for spreading love and light, and thank you Huy, Mars & Jes for opening up ✨
@sharifahzaharah4 жыл бұрын
BTW HUY IS A CUTE GEMMM
@hoelien84743 жыл бұрын
Imo, there is v little risk in doing lgbt content. TSL's main audience are the millenials and young adults in Singapore, which are generally more liberal and supportive of the community.
@LeeanneODonnell4 жыл бұрын
i'm very blessed that my mum raised me teaching me that being gay is normal and that when i told her i liked girls she was just like "oh yeah so what you're still my daughter" and that makes me wonder why other people can't accept it since my mum was raised similarly to all the homophobic people out there.
@Jaime-mq8lj3 жыл бұрын
My mum was against me going to a gendered secondary school just because she thinks "I'll get hit on by butches"... ;( (That was the only reason, the school is really good in terms of academic results. I ended up still getting in lol)
@peechunwee14844 жыл бұрын
Cheers to the 3 of them who came out and share their experiences! It takes a lot a lot a lot of courage to do so!! Kudos to you 3!:)
@shawnlee1084 жыл бұрын
I'm straight but it's nice and brave of you guys to come out and talk about lgbtq+ stuff! kudos jia you!
@iristhehooman4 жыл бұрын
OMG.... The toxic relatives are the worst, the things they said were horrible. Jeslene is so brave to share this part!
@imikfunartsproductions74444 жыл бұрын
No one: TSL: *Making Everyone's Stay-Home A Thousand Times Better!*
@RachhhIsTheName4 жыл бұрын
This is to Jes, I know how you feel. I was called out in a train coz my girlfriend was hugging me coz she was cold.. This Auntie stood up and screamed at me saying I was a disgrace and that this was wrong. I even got kicked out of my church because I love girls too and that I wasnt allowed to be Gods child. I left all that behind. Stopped taking public transport , stop going to church. Its really still quite hard in Singapore..
@ayulene4 жыл бұрын
This is so sad to hear :( I'm really sorry that happened to you
@54hex4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if God hates gays, then why DO they exists in the first place? I’m glad that you’re proud of who u are :)
@RonLarhz4 жыл бұрын
Thank goodness you got out of the toxicity of religion. You lost nthg but gained freedom and autonomy. Jia you!
@Wynn154 жыл бұрын
Is there any religion that doesn’t promote love and acceptance? Specifically to Islam and Christianity? If religions preach love and acceptance, where are all these “conservatives” coming from? To put it out there, these people are just practicing discrimination, not religion.
@awkwardsmile4 жыл бұрын
@@Wynn15 Religion doesn't teach us to discriminate but to embrace everyone regardless of their faults and differences. However, the faith teaches us that God created us for specific purposes and it's to do His Will. In this case, many Christians do not approve of same-sex marriage/sex because it goes against the faith's teaching that sex was made for - procreation - which is between a man and a woman. What blurred this was when humans start having sex for pleasure and prioritise pleasure over procreation. So the reason why most Christians do not support same-sex marriage/sex is not born out of hate so please do not misunderstand Christians. We can accept the person for who he or she is but please don't force us to accept your beliefs.
@whoman99584 жыл бұрын
Being an LGBTQ+ in Singapore is tough :') I wish that my family will support me but that is basically impossible
@henryng1494 жыл бұрын
at least Singapore recognises the fact that there r LGBTQ+ people and accept them lol. Malaysia is still very behind using religion as an excuse
@whoman99584 жыл бұрын
@@henryng149 True... I really hope one day the world accepts the LGBTQ+ community
@kleeonn4 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@lilskittledpikachu55344 жыл бұрын
facts
@E_ChloeSim4 жыл бұрын
I think Asians are more conservative concerning this. But over time, I hope things will be better for u.
@zanegamingtv22524 жыл бұрын
Basically Singapore is hard for the older generation to accept.
@dopiley4 жыл бұрын
it's worse in malaysia.
@Wynn154 жыл бұрын
Why must the older generation accept it though? Isn’t the younger generation a part of SG too? So we are repressed and facing discrimination because others can’t accept?
@zanegamingtv22524 жыл бұрын
@@Wynn15 I mean you're not born from a stone or a rock right. You would definitely want your family to accept you for who you are. Lolol. Correct me if I'm wrong.
@zanegamingtv22524 жыл бұрын
@@Wynn15 you've got issues bruh. Probably no friends too? 😂
@Wynn154 жыл бұрын
Zane Ong Lol. Sure I don’t have friends like you don’t have family. 😉
@evangelineng74974 жыл бұрын
this is one of the best videos that came out during this whole tough period :’) so so happy for yall
@phoebsthepothead4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I just wanna hug jes and take her pain away
@lilskittledpikachu55344 жыл бұрын
jes is preciouss
@koppio4 жыл бұрын
So glad to see that Smartlocal encourages diversity (of sexuality, races & gender) within the workplace. Happy Pride Month everyone!
@delusionalfan4 жыл бұрын
The answer to the title of the video is it depends, just like any other relationships.. Also it is nice to see Singaporeans who are informed about such topics talking about this openly. Thank you for the content!
@unknownunknown25754 жыл бұрын
Whether a relationship lasts or not, it depends on the two parties involved. It doesn't matter whether it's straight or LGBTQ. Many people think LGBTQ relationships are short-term, but look at your straight friends and acquaintances, I believe many of them also have short-term relationships. On a separate note, there is generally a lack of understanding about LGBTQ in Singapore society, even among the non-homophobic ones. When I came out to my friends, they asked me a lot of questions that made me laugh. They didn't mean anything bad, but it was their lack of familiarity to LGBTQ. Lastly, being LGBTQ in Singapore is like playing a game in the hardest mode. Family and social acceptance aside, there are also issues with housing, hospital, as well as aging.
@nadiepicface4 жыл бұрын
proud to be a part of the lgbtq community and seeing more of these types of topics exposed on youtube for more people to understand & relate...keep it up TSL❤️❤️
@DINGTONGDING4 жыл бұрын
It is honestly hard for parents to accept their child's sexuality when it doesn't seem to be the "norm". I would like to share a tweet I saw the other day that says something like "do not give birth if you can't give total acceptance to your child's sexual orientation".
@koppio4 жыл бұрын
When you put your own personal comfort over the happiness of your child, how can you say that you've succeeded in being a good parent?
@chaesmic94254 жыл бұрын
10:36 to 10:57 is the funniest part of this oml HAHAHAA
@hypothesised44534 жыл бұрын
Feel really bad for Huy though
@haarto4 жыл бұрын
love how this video spreads awareness for the lgbt community :’
@mikrokitsune94914 жыл бұрын
can I just say,, to all the LGBT+ people in SG and around the world, whether u're closeted or open about it,, stay safe and rmbr u have this trans, pan boi's fullest support! Good luck out thr and rmbr there's always someone who will love u for u and u can choose ur own family no matter what. Happy Pride, my fellow LGBT+ family :D 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
@ProjectElf4 жыл бұрын
OMG jes is hilarious. love how she's so open n willing to talk about it. her story with her mum reminds me of mulan tho. :( huy's story about his mum cutting newspaper is so funny!
@lixinnn4 жыл бұрын
That unreleased episode caught me sooo off guard
@TheSmartLocal4 жыл бұрын
we will release it in the near future :^)
@jvntnrj4 жыл бұрын
TheSmartLocal yessss
@laurenzalan28823 жыл бұрын
It's good for three of you to be in TSL, where your colleagues accept you the way you are. And for me, I'd like to send to three of you my appreciation for you being brave & courage to embrace who you truly are, 'cause I believe there are still many of human being are too afraid to embrace things going in life (not specific to LGBTQ+ thing) Greetings from Indonesia 🖐🖐🖐
@crazyformyself22424 жыл бұрын
“ you are a disgrace to a family “ WHATTT
@coquetteprincess4 жыл бұрын
That part broke a heart ngl 💔
@imhomophobic3452 ай бұрын
i agree good job to the family bro
@twinkies25114 жыл бұрын
I think it's quite sad if it is your partner who pressures u to come out to your family and friends, cos he/she would also know how it feels to be in the LGBTQ+ community and how hard it is to come out as well. Some words from relatives/family members can really be the most hurtful words u can hear from anyone.
@keibistitch4 жыл бұрын
thank you for this tsl!! it’s nice to see youtubers in singapore talk about the lgbt community :)
@cloudytears55684 жыл бұрын
thank you for opening up & providing insights into what situations lgbtq+ ppl may face,, yall r really brave & heartwarming and hope yall find the loves of ur lives 💓 stay strong ~
@espressoshawt4 жыл бұрын
this vid is amazing no cap lmaoo my best friend came out to me as part of the LGBTQ+ community and becos I am straight and my parents don't really talk abt this kind of stuff I prob like learned something from this that can make me understand abt this community better haha
@selestlim68004 жыл бұрын
happy pride month!! regardless of whether you're part this community or an ally, Singapore needs more of us :-)
@haokai18724 жыл бұрын
It takes two hands to clap one hand to slap
@DC-ru5xz4 жыл бұрын
Captain Raymond Holt and Detective Rosa Diaz approve of this video
@fiona12944 жыл бұрын
Yasss person of class
@DC-ru5xz4 жыл бұрын
Fiona TELL ME WHYYYYY
@alicia_hohoho4 жыл бұрын
@@DC-ru5xz AIN'T NOTHIN' BUT A HEARTACHEEE
@DC-ru5xz4 жыл бұрын
alicia TEEELLLL MEEE WHHHYYYYYY
@fiona12944 жыл бұрын
DC4 ain’t nothing but a mistake Now number 5
@E_ChloeSim4 жыл бұрын
I think it's really brave and inspirational of them to open up about it online. I think that it's really tough for some people to open up about themselves especially about something quite personal like LGBTQ. I really look up to them.
@ludwigvanbeethoven22164 жыл бұрын
I'm like 13 and know I'm bi, have a few friends that are bi/pan but non of us will ever imagine coming out to our parents 💔 too scary
@kinaxen4 жыл бұрын
Same... I could never imagine myself coming out to my parents, especially because their Christian
@ludwigvanbeethoven22164 жыл бұрын
I think mine don't even know w h a t is lgbtq+
@kinaxen4 жыл бұрын
@@ludwigvanbeethoven2216 Well, that's saddening, just know I'm here 😁
@ludwigvanbeethoven22164 жыл бұрын
@@kinaxen it's always good to know ppl care about u,,,even if you don't even know their name . Thxx
@kinaxen4 жыл бұрын
@@ludwigvanbeethoven2216 coming out ain't an easy feat my friend, I'll give you my support when you decide to 😸
@meifernlee44104 жыл бұрын
Nice... it’s the first LGBT vlog I’ve seen made by Singaporeans. It answered a lot of my own questions. Thank you TSL.
@RonLarhz4 жыл бұрын
Pinkdot, ready4repeal and dear straight ppl got stories. And there was the chiong's blog.
@peiyeetan16714 жыл бұрын
I wanna watch the video about Jes meeting with her ex 🥺🥺 I hope she comfortable sharing!! ANYWAYS 🏳️🌈
@TheSmartLocal4 жыл бұрын
It will be released in the near future 🙂
@mellymelly22274 жыл бұрын
The first time I found out I wasn’t straight was watching Lucy Liu on Charlie’s Angel as a kid and I was awakened
@mohamadfiv93654 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing guys. Thank you for being brave and true to what we stand for. Hugs 💕
@feliciachin23014 жыл бұрын
OMGGGG i loved this video so so much❤️❤️ everything was so funny and cute and i think yall are very strong rootung for all of yall but omg what if ur parents see this? Won't they know officially but yall are very brave 佩服💖💖
@Whitedarkish4 жыл бұрын
Hold up.. Huy dated a girl at 14, dated his first boyfriend 4 years later, and had his 2nd ex hug him at age 17 :O?
@ThisIsNotHuy4 жыл бұрын
Haha I’m old it was ages ago please take the numbers loosely
@adaniadlina17304 жыл бұрын
ahhh i've been waiting FOREVER for this vid
@user-cs8xo8cu8b4 жыл бұрын
Thanks TSL for being inclusive of the LGTBQ+ community 💕 Oh and I have the biggest crush on Jes hahaha i love her personality so much 🥺
@smallmouth.studio4 жыл бұрын
Very brave for them to share such personal struggles they have faced. Thank you and stay happy always!
@harazzyo60742 жыл бұрын
I would not recommend Blue is the Warmest Colour because of the history and controversy of the production, and the target audience the producer(?) has when they make the film.
@jorgitochen30224 жыл бұрын
Love you guys.... Thanks for sharing.... I myself is a gay person but really cannot come out because of a very homophobic family and friends... Its just nice to see that people starting to coming out...
@RobertHeslop3 жыл бұрын
I am ever so grateful that the day I came out to my parents, their reaction was literally just "we guessed that when you were a toddler, we've expected it".
@HemlockC4 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate you guys making this video. It was unexpected but very much appreciated! I hope conversations about LGBTQ+ topics don't just end here, and that this helps people with being more acceptive down the road!! 🎉🌈 🎉
@heperspires4 жыл бұрын
Totally felt their every spoken word. The youth of today honestly do have it easier as times are changes and people are evolving. Not so cute back a decade ago or more.
@faizfitri35534 жыл бұрын
Huy is the cutest thing ever
@salmaakhtar59734 жыл бұрын
some of the qns are rlly stupid ngl but whew yall are brave for this video, happy pride
@raneeong34274 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that they are so open with the LGBT community and coming out on KZfaq where so many people could see,I'm still questioning my sexuality but I feel better knowing that there are LGBT people that are in the same country as me as there are many conservative people
@zraiderz4 жыл бұрын
The last bit was a great advice esp for young people 👍❤ it's good to acknowledge your own feelings but one also need to understand and respect for others
@sethryanchin4 жыл бұрын
i need more HUY
@TakoyakiAdventures4 жыл бұрын
LOL YES. WE SECOND THIS x MILLION.
@Reece10.4 жыл бұрын
Finally Tsl uploaded again ! =D
@toestud37914 жыл бұрын
i had to drop everything to watch this 😌
@oakpkdude3 жыл бұрын
Of course there are successful gay relationships. I know men have a very strong sexual drive which make monogamy a bit more difficult but if it's more important to you not to hurt the one you love than to satisfy a fleeting desire then you can remain monogamous. I have been in a monogamous relationship with my partner for almost 28 years. Both of my parents and my 5 siblings accepted him as a member of the family. In fact we have plans today to have lunch with one of my sisters who lives closest to us.
@engweimin4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video, TSL. It's lovely to know that you'll always have our backs
@TheSingaporeGem4 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video alot!! 😊😊 It's so brave that you guys are sharing your story with the world,while trying to keep the mood as "educational but entertaining". Huy's "newspaper clipping war" part was legit hilarious, I actually laughed out loud while watching the video😆😆 I rllyrlly respect how mature Jes's opinions on compromise are, bc Jes has clearly gone through her share of disagreements about her sexuality, and she's come out stronger because of it. You guys are the best, keep up the good work TSL!! 😊😊💕💕
@valarieyyt4 жыл бұрын
Thank you TSL, this really help us in the community to speak as well!! Totally feel Jes!
@macaroncheese54544 жыл бұрын
Personally, I think same-sex relationships have a better chance of succeeding if both parties are out of the closet and comfortable with their sexuality
@nadfifa4 жыл бұрын
List of lgbt films! Call me by your name Portrait of a lady on fire The miseducation of Cameron post Booksmart Below her mouth The half of it The favourite Carol Moonlight *don’t watch blue is the warmest colour because the cast was abused in the making*
@macyng8444 жыл бұрын
the half of it is SO good hahaha
@ColouredPixels4 жыл бұрын
jesslyn, if you feel like the family is toxic and bad, have you tried moving out? it will probably start out difficult at least mentally you’re safe?
@xain3394 жыл бұрын
Hands down to The Handmaiden!!!!! Strong cast members!! (Kdrama fans will know what I meant ☺️
@user-jg5xn7dn2m4 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thanks for giving voice and space to a marginalised and minority community in Sg, TSL!
@horanghae25794 жыл бұрын
7:11 Same gurl same ;-;
@OJYang4 жыл бұрын
Really nice video to let more Singaporeans know about the LGBTQ community. It is tough to be gay in SG. Can u imagine your colleagues, relatives always asking u about marriage!?!?
@lydiatan58184 жыл бұрын
omg jes is so cuteeee i really want to know the list, how do I get more of those titles uh? hahhaa
@RonLarhz4 жыл бұрын
Les flims 1)Yes or no 2)saving face 3)butterfly 4)spider lily 5)but I'm a cheerleader 6)the handmaiden (m18-r21) 7)帅T空姐 8)wishing stars(horror) Afew more can't rmb...
@bijonprojects4 жыл бұрын
wa props to the editor!!!
@TheSmartLocal4 жыл бұрын
o o F
@leisurefarm3 жыл бұрын
gosh, i actually started crying listening to Je(? sorry, didn't catch the spelling) talk about her relationship with her mum.
@veronchia61124 жыл бұрын
first:) edit: huy is so funny ohmygod. also support lgbtq+ community wOhoOo !!
@tananansad4 жыл бұрын
not singaporean but am a malaysian neighbour, hi! :D i unfortunately come from not only a country where everything anti-lgb+ is backed by religious authorities, i also come from an indigenous minority that has a really defined gender binary, and has long turned a blind eye to the notion of homosexuality/systematically oppressed same-sex affection way before westernization :( so coming out is a total rule-out for me lmao i genuinely just want everyone to accept us as human beings and not take the term “queer” too literally, we're just as normal as you! anyways oh no pride month want to end dy but HAPPY PRIDE!! you are allowed to be you and no one can tell you otherwise ❤️🏳️🌈🤗
@natsuconstar4 жыл бұрын
hi Jes, I am so sorry to hear what you have been through, but I hope you have all the love in the world in time to come. same goes for Huy and Mars, and everyone else too. ❤️
@rivwrite4 жыл бұрын
I love this episode so much just the inclusion made me tear up from HAPPINESS
@datascience13694 жыл бұрын
Very sad and made me cry when they say their parents are not very accepting and call them a disgrace, being LGBTQ is very stressful, and everything is hard finding relationship, expecting social acceptance. At least i pledge as a straight man that i be more welcoming with my kids if they identify as LGBQT and make it easy at least from my side.
@MsTeacheer4 жыл бұрын
We are all created differently to make the world a more colourful and interesting place. Imagine if everyone is the same, we'll be no different from cookies cut out from a mould. Embrace your own uniqueness. Deep down in every parent's heart, they love their children. Give them some time. Applause to your courage for choosing and leading different live.
@user-th9qv2hn5h4 жыл бұрын
The most important question “Is Huy single now?:p”
@fafafifufu2 жыл бұрын
it is true that you should consider coming out to your family members when you are financially stable. i remember when i was outed by a family friend when i was 3 months shy to ord from my ns. i was planning to further my studies @ a local arts school. but my dad refused to finance me because he was way too distraught when he found out about my sexuality. i ended up working in retail for a few years to put myself through school myself because of it.
@bellelele08054 жыл бұрын
My cousin gonna luv dis cuz it spreads awareness for ppl from the LGBT community
@DragonBonder3 жыл бұрын
When your relatives can't even recognise your face after a haircut, there's no value in trying to please them
@yoweygirl4 жыл бұрын
i’m a girl and i can’t decide i want mars or jes. both are freaking gorgeous in their own ways
@TheSmartLocal4 жыл бұрын
You can slide into both their DMs... 🙊
@rachel-ov5bq4 жыл бұрын
YAYYYY THANK YOU TSLLLLLLL
@wishes214 жыл бұрын
Sending lotsa love over to u guys! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@wandwand73454 жыл бұрын
Omg, i really feel hurts and sad at the same times when huy said "yeah people tend us to change to normal, but we can't, it hurts us" I feel that's too. It's remind me, one of my friend that's really into her religion (call her AB), and i happened to came out and when that's time happen she's there lah and just told me something like this "if i were you, i would change it no matters how it's hards, cuz it's not right" she always likes put herself as me. And that sentence really make me thinks hard and make me stressed, i feels like yeah it's true, how can i change it, i need to change this, and it's really make me fighting with my own mind and soul. But luckily i have one friend that's really supportive to me she always accept me as a person no matter what my sex-orient (call her SA). I told SA about what AB told to me, in here i really desperate and really stressed. And SA told me "if you feel wrongs you can change it, but if don't feel it wrongs just follow your heart, and accept yourself don't deny yourself" in here i feels like more relieved i feel not being judged not being a wrong person. I just feels, yeah it's me, i just happened to likes my friend and it's just happened that person was a guy. And yeah that's it. And SA really make me realize i just need to accept myself. By the way i prefer myself as pansaxual, but i think i more interested to a guy. and I'm from Indo.
@chelseah89514 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your stories!!! Omg Jes thanks for sharing such a personal experience with us, I think it really helps the LGBTQ community!!! Thanks all and I believe that this video will provide comfort and advice for those who are out there!!!
@sweettooth88ify4 жыл бұрын
Call me by your name, fav film
@lilskittledpikachu55344 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU. IM PAN, AND ITS SO HARD. PEOPLE DONT RESPECT PRONOUNS. AND I JUST GET REJECTED OVER AND OVER AGAIN :')
@RonLarhz4 жыл бұрын
Yay. Just wanna hi5 a fellow buibui pika lover. Love ur prof pic.
@lilskittledpikachu55344 жыл бұрын
@@RonLarhz THANKS SIREE
@kai-dp3cg4 жыл бұрын
I honestly don’t know what I am I know I have an attraction to girls so I can’t really put a label to myself I don’t think I will and I don’t think I’ll ever tell anyone honestly. I’m kind of the person that never is willing to tell people about my troubles. Haven’t even told my parents that I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety in sec 1 and I’m already in poly year 1. And I mean it’s hard to not say but it’s easier for me ? Maybe not easy per say but I don’t like having to face something that can be avoided. I don’t think I’ll ever date a girl but I have had about 2 crushes and they’ve both been girls. Maybe it’s cause I’ve been in a girls school for 10 years. Maybe it really is a phase I have no idea. My parents aren’t the homophobic kind either and my friends are open to all kind of sexualities because our school had quite a handful of lesbians and girls who had different sexualities. I wish one day I myself can say something but I really honestly think I won’t ever. But kudos to everyone who had enough guts to come out and speak up about matters like this. I’m kind of sorry I never will be able to.
@sogeek7974 жыл бұрын
OMG CRASH LANDING ON YOU THOOO
@TheSmartLocal4 жыл бұрын
Editor clearly watches too much k dramas
@sogeek7974 жыл бұрын
TheSmartLocal HAHAHAH I WATCH TOO MUCH KDRAMAS TOO
@maple71914 жыл бұрын
Watching this vid make me think bout my fav couple who is gay and my friend who is lesbian. I fully support LGBTQ.🥰🥰🥰🥰
@xo25reo4 жыл бұрын
where’s the video of jess with the ex? :o
@TheSmartLocal4 жыл бұрын
we will release it in the near future!
@Thundercracker2774 жыл бұрын
thank you TSL for this episode
@macaroncheese54544 жыл бұрын
Jes, you need to watch more lgbtq+ films
@juliyanthy88744 жыл бұрын
Love Wins 🌈
@sillydibby45434 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating such content despite it not being easy
@myungwol31244 жыл бұрын
i kinda like the rainbow heart shaped decor at the background
@toestud37914 жыл бұрын
omg what if you got an aro/ace to do this 😳
@ukibrainrot3 жыл бұрын
I'm 14 this year and it's been a year or so I've kept that I'm bi/pan sexual and I identify as they/them. I'm really scared of coming to people especially my parents and when she found out that I watched BL, she started saying that it was disgusting and I shouldn't be watching it. After she said that I immediately broke down in the toilet. I felt really scared that if I were to come out to my mom what will happen to me. But the better thing was, my auntie and my cousin. They are very open minded and I talked about the topic to my auntie and she gave me advices but I still don't know if I should actually come out to my mom or just keep it to myself. I'm just really terrified about the outcome.
@ecmuah31854 жыл бұрын
there’s a channel called emoxsemo for all the gays out there:3333 i ship themmm
@yanxi974 жыл бұрын
and also funny couple tv and CACA&BELLA 🌚
@timothyburch97084 жыл бұрын
This is excellent. Congratulations to everyone involved.
@Wynn154 жыл бұрын
Urm.. not sexual “preference”, but sexual orientation please. LGBT+ individuals don’t CHOOSE to be so. We’re born to be so. And if even individuals in LGBT+ community isn’t using the right words, how can we get this point through to the others. TSL can do better, and more actually. Current society SG society needs more advocacy from people with social voices. We are only asking for equality, nothing more. We just want what everyone can do, get married and be recognized. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
@latenightcashews4 жыл бұрын
i agree that there's much more to be done. i think it's noteworthy that they've scheduled this video for Pride month and yet have non-existent lgbtqia+ focused content (for eg: short films) the rest of the time. ppl praising how this video is a "brave and inclusive" effort fail to recognise that such one-off engagement with topics surrounding marginalised communities becomes merely perfunctory and even exploitative when it is treated as a "special occasion". every TSL short with a romantic plot line has been of a heterosexual couple between singaporean chinese characters. of course, a story is only as authentic as when written by someone who has lived it. given TSL's existing productions so far, where is the lgbtqia+ presence? has no TSL staff belonging to that community been able to pitch/produce/create smth reflecting their experiences (when they want to)? being queer in a workplace is an extremely vulnerable and disadvantageous position, so has any conversation even been opened up by staff who are most protected (straight, chinese people) to include lgbtqia+ representation on the short films?