Asking your friends to be chambelanes

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5 жыл бұрын

Hello future Quinceañeras! 👑
The question you’ve all been asking about has turned into a video. Learn 3 different techniques/ strategies you can use to ask your guy friends or family members to be a part of your Quince court. Asking friends to be your chambelanes is so nerve-racking, which is why you need to build that confidence that’s within you and get yourself to ASK.
What’s the worst thing that can happen right? Honesty and sincerity is always the best way you can get what you want.
Anyways, we hope this helps out! 😁
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@guadalupevazquez3857 5 жыл бұрын

I don’t have any close guy friends and idk what to do😂

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Cousins, neighbors, siblings???

@serxndipityy._2840 5 жыл бұрын

Clearly Lupeee! I only have one close guy friend 😂 my mom said we can rent some and I’m not sure about that option😂

@ashlantic_1562 5 жыл бұрын

@@serxndipityy._2840 Haha I rented one guy for one of my damas and he turned out to be pretty cool and we all became friends with him🤣🤣

@ashlantic_1562 4 жыл бұрын

@@brittr4318 we didnt really use a company. He was friends with the choreographer and he dances in quinces all the time

@bananajin7159 4 жыл бұрын

I don't have any guy friends either. Or any guy cousins that are close to me. :(

@emilyz7747 5 жыл бұрын

U remind me of becky g! 😍ur so pretty!

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Haha, I get that a lot! 😭 Thank you love ❤

@ashlantic_1562 5 жыл бұрын

I asked my crush to be my chambelan for my quinceanera and he agreed and I'm so happy❤❤❤❤❤ and I really needed this because I need a chambelan for one of my damas. Thank u so much my quince is in june😭😭

@marthalopez3129 5 жыл бұрын

My is too

@andreavalencia1598 5 жыл бұрын

He should be ur main chambelan

@serxndipityy._2840 5 жыл бұрын

Angie R. Congratulations sweetie!! I hope your quince goes well with him!😁

@katieromero358 5 жыл бұрын

I want my crush to be my main chambelan 😂 not just because I like him but he’s the only guy I’m actually close with 😅

@ashlantic_1562 5 жыл бұрын

@@katieromero358 omg ikr, hes the only guy I'm close with too😂 so I'm so grateful he said yes or else I dont know who I'd be stuck with🤣😅

@nathaliegaribay3655 5 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing

@goosey6553 2 жыл бұрын

I just got asked to be a chambelan, didn’t think much of it, jeez I didn’t know she was nervous and scared to ask

@micheruv 5 жыл бұрын

all i did was be straight forward and said “will you be my chambelán?” And they said yes lol. I have 5/7 chambelanes!

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Easiest way to go! 😁

@aresol6487 4 жыл бұрын

yodeling yoongi I have 7 right now!!! I want to have either 9 or 11 bc I’m not having damas 😳

@febag1 4 жыл бұрын

fam I have no chambelans and my cousins are old and idk who to ask I have girls but I only have like 3 months to prepare a dance, what should I do?

@readercw 4 жыл бұрын

@@aresol6487 Omg same, I'm not gonna have damas :D and Im the only girl in the family so all my cousins are the chambelanes lol

@aresol6487 4 жыл бұрын

When everyone else steals your friends for chambelanes bc your quince is in a popular month

@jocec9975 3 жыл бұрын

Im scared for my 15 because I don’t have any guy friends I want in my 15, and my cousins and I aren’t really close so I feel like if I ask them they’ll be bored in my court :((

@toes5704 3 жыл бұрын

Same girl same👨‍🍳

@jocec9975 3 жыл бұрын

@@toes5704 idk about u but i ended up going with all girls and my brother as my main :)

@montseh9945 3 жыл бұрын

@@jocec9975 I might have one in less than 2 years maybe, but I also don’t have any close guy friends rn, and I kinda want to do mostly girls bc I’m more into them.. but I’ll probably do a cousin or something, how was it was it fun?

@wyn1720 2 жыл бұрын

You're not alone, I dont have any guy friends either.

@emelynavarro5424 5 жыл бұрын

This video did help me and now I have 4 chambelanes for my quince in October 🙂

@berniehenry1960 5 жыл бұрын

Your videos are so helpful. Even tho I'm not having a court I still clicked on this. With some of my guy friends (even close ones) it might have felt a bit awkward asking them, idk. lol.

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

It can be the most awk thing ever! The hardest part of asking is, getting yourself to ask 😅

@emilyz7747 5 жыл бұрын

Yes ive been askin my friends that are boys and their either like i don't dance or no

@karlapadilla8124 5 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Castillo OMG GURL SAMEEE - I BE LIKE COME ON IT ILL BE FUN AND MY choreographer will teach u . And they b like “ idk “ I’m not sure “ - and I’m just like then “ BITCH BYE “

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Why not ask some who are outgoing and optimistic? There's a lot of boys who dance now!

@emilyz7747 5 жыл бұрын

@@quinceaneraexpo i mean i am like the only girl in my family and i have friends that are boys and none of them are hype

@aileenbb3273 5 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Castillo I FEEL YOU 👏🏽

@robumentaries 5 жыл бұрын

my friend asked me and i was like yuppp

@amber-cj3fu 5 жыл бұрын

The fact that you said November 10th and it just happens to be when I turn 15💀💀

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Fun fact: My birthday is Nov. 10th 😜

@lilianasoliz9132 5 жыл бұрын

sameee

@felix_hobi8207 5 жыл бұрын

My birthday is November 10 too!!!!!

@apricotcity7535 4 жыл бұрын

happy early birthday to yallll

@hinokamiluckas 2 жыл бұрын

Bro this is my first time being a chambelane, I'm hella nervous bro honestly ggs bruh

@julizzazafra3313 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks this helps

@alessandraalvarado5136 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t have any guy friends , what can i do ? i need chambelanes soon !

@Antonella_abril 5 жыл бұрын

How do you tell your dama that you don’t want them to be in your court anymore?

@melanie-iz3rw 5 жыл бұрын

Antonella Abril ur so beautiful

@Antonella_abril 5 жыл бұрын

melanie thank you:)

@danielaflores8090 4 жыл бұрын

Antonella Abril what’d you do about your situation?

@claudiab4014 4 жыл бұрын

Can we get an update because I'm now invested

@emmamaria306 4 жыл бұрын

angelica schuyler sameee and i love your name!

@johanaaguirre4919 4 жыл бұрын

How do you ask a guy u domt really talk to but he is in your class??

@quinceaneraexpo 4 жыл бұрын

I would recommend you talk to him little by little before popping the question. :)

@lunabean2050 4 жыл бұрын

that’s currently my struggle

@stephanievilla3222 3 жыл бұрын

Meeeeer

@biscuit3456 3 жыл бұрын

How do you ask a crush to be your main chambelan/chambelan de honor without it being awkward

@allisonmtzz 5 жыл бұрын

Love yall💎💙

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

We love you too doll!

@marthalopez3129 5 жыл бұрын

For it was hard to find some chambelánes but good thing that i have them all now im like so excied and its almost here in june 8 just can't wait for it

@ashlantic_1562 5 жыл бұрын

Omg my quince was June 8th too😱😱🤣 how did ur quince go?

@xltlalicastro3738 5 жыл бұрын

Okay so I have to do my own choreography but I don’t have anything that’s good for a Quincenera dance, and I don’t want to embarrass myself in front of my friends and chambelánes please help.

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Check out KZfaq videos or take some dance classes love 😊I'm sure everyone will be very supportive, just let loose and dance to the beat of the music 💃

@aileenbb3273 5 жыл бұрын

i asked my friend (he ain’t latino) if he wanted to be my chambelan and he asked me what it was i tried explaining but he was still confused and I don’t know what to tell him!! Any answer i could give him?

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Show him a surprise dance video and tell him its super cool! 😅 You can also say it's similar to a Sweet 16

@aileenbb3273 5 жыл бұрын

quinceaneraexpo thank you so much 🥰

@happyplace2792 5 жыл бұрын

Loved thisss plz do a dancing video for quince or some moves and songs for surprise dance I’m really struggling thanks love ya. ❤️

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

I have a couple videos on dancing, hopefully we can come out with some more 😏

@desirae4012 5 жыл бұрын

I need this 😐😬

@stephanielunaa 5 жыл бұрын

I'm just gonna work with other dancers bc they are all in the same location I'm gonna have my quince (I travel 😅)

@sammjamz6219 2 жыл бұрын

i picked my chambelanes so easy, like i had so many options i feel bad for some friends I didnt pick

@ximenanava3281 3 жыл бұрын

I don't have any friends but I want a quinceanera what should I do?

@alondramartinez7325 3 жыл бұрын

Ughhhh it’s so hard for me! I don’t have any close guy friends and I started online school this year and haven’t gotten close to any guys. Idk what to dooo

@montseh9945 3 жыл бұрын

Do you have any guy cousins,neighbors? What I want to do is mostly girls.. but idk I have less than 2 years left 😅 anyways good luck finding some!

@alondramartinez7325 3 жыл бұрын

@@montseh9945 well my brother and 2 cousins are gonna be my chambelanes. I just need 3 more, thankfully I got close to some guys at my school but I don’t have the courage to ask them. 😩 I get scared to get rejected.

@evamarie4262 3 жыл бұрын

I’m kind of new to this I just started planning but what does a chameleon do

@mochiecat306 4 жыл бұрын

Video: straight up Me: ahhh I will get too nervous Video: make him feel bad Me: I can't do that's too hard for me cuz I'm a good person Video: Compliment and recruit Me: Okay now that's an easy one for me cuz I always compliment my friends so that's easy btw I'm here 3 years early until my quinceanera

@lizzierubio2311 3 жыл бұрын

Yo my quince is in October and I need 5 chambelans but all my boy friends live 8 hrs away :( how cud I convince them

@isabellamontano9647 5 жыл бұрын

I have a twin sister and our quinceanera is Nov 9 so she picked my partner (I'm not very social) but she can't find a chambelan so this video should be very helpful💕

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

How cute! Congrats to you both 😍

@isabellamontano9647 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤️

@andreavalencia1598 5 жыл бұрын

Wtf you know what so weird is that i have a twin sister too and our birthday is in nov 9 😰

@isabellamontano9647 5 жыл бұрын

My date actually changed to Nov 16th because my mom didn't get the venue in time

@andreavalencia1598 5 жыл бұрын

@@isabellamontano9647 oh ☺

@calvelo9873 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video I need to find 3 chambelanes

@karlapadilla8124 5 жыл бұрын

Cal Velo me too

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Best of luck girlies! 💃

@cruzpmendoza2530 4 жыл бұрын

Me being a guy clicking thinking it’s gunna show me how to be good main chamalean

@quinceaneraexpo 3 жыл бұрын

HAHA it's just the asking process, maybe I can do a video on Do's and Don't for damas and chambelanes 🤔

@carsforlifelater1594 3 жыл бұрын

@@quinceaneraexpo you should

@biscuit3456 3 жыл бұрын

@@quinceaneraexpo yes please

@sophie3184 5 жыл бұрын

At my school there isn’t that many Hispanics and I’ve tried asking some girls to be my damas but they don’t really want to and it’s the same with guys :( I don’t have any cousins boys or girls around my age I only have a brother that’s 1 year younger than me but we don’t really get a long lol another thing is that I don’t really want to do a baile de sorpresa cause I feel like they’re always awkward and I can’t really dance but I wouldn’t mind doing one with a whole court (which I’m struggling a lot trying to get one) so idk what to do

@olgaj8341 5 жыл бұрын

sophie you could also do a little vals with just your brother, it’s way less work, and it will still look good:)

@quinceaneraexpo 5 жыл бұрын

Make RSVP cards to make it sound legit! Let them know it's like having bridesmaids and groomsmen. 😬

@marthavazquez7 5 жыл бұрын

Girl im in the exact situation too😭😭😭

@dreamvelvet5324 3 жыл бұрын

I have barely any guy friends at school or anywhere. My parents are going to pick them if I can’t get any myself. I feel like that’s going to be awkward because I don’t really talk to them. Any advice on how to get guy friends for my party or just in general 😅😅😂😂

@noeliacastelan7236 3 жыл бұрын

@Alexandra Flores YOU DID NOT💀

@noeliacastelan7236 3 жыл бұрын

@Alexandra Flores lmao let’s be friends 😼 ima turn 13 in like 5 months idk

@noidealol 2 жыл бұрын

Cousins neighbors and family friends to old and my crush would tell all his friends

@torirodriguez5751 2 жыл бұрын

If I were to have chambelanes idk if I would rent them because they would have to be close like my family or my best friend…

@samanthamartinez4481 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t have any guy friends and I’m not close with my cousins. Maybe I shouldn’t dance?🤷🏽‍♀️😧

@HWYLIVE 4 жыл бұрын

Just do a dance with your girl cousin or girl friend

@jocec9975 3 жыл бұрын

Honestly same, like my cousins we talk but I feel like they’d be bored in my court but imma ask anyway. What did you do?

@a.33308 2 жыл бұрын

Wait can you ask your tios to be your chambelans too? Cause I don’t got any cousins and I barely have close guy friends… but I have these two tios in their 20’s that I’m really close with. But like I don’t know how exactly choosing chambelans works 😭 helppp me pleaseee

@sonyacarrasco8455 Жыл бұрын

how advanced should i be asking the Damas and Chambelanes to be part of my court, 6, 8 months or a year?

@Forgotnatalie Жыл бұрын

mines in 4 months and im barely asking now😭😂

@speakfacts4579 2 жыл бұрын

Any one know where I can rent chambelanes in LA area

@quinceaneraexpo 2 жыл бұрын

Try Royal Boy Creations

@melaniemae2002 3 жыл бұрын

Is it ok if u only have damas in ur court ??

@quinceaneraexpo 2 жыл бұрын

DEF

@savonnahmoe8424 2 жыл бұрын

My quince is coming up this June and in a tiny country town in MISSOURI so ifk how to ask my only guy friend to be my chambelan! If I asked him he'd prolly say no and not even know what it is. Someone pls helpp

@quinceaneraexpo 2 жыл бұрын

As your only guy friend, let him know you're counting on him. Explain to him the best way possible, show him a video, and let him know how special it'll be to have him.

@savonnahmoe8424 2 жыл бұрын

@@quinceaneraexpo Thank you so much! I asked him and he said he'd think about it! (Its better than a no)

@_Raphsway_ Жыл бұрын

POV: the guy asks you what’s a chambelan

@angel_1683 3 жыл бұрын

I don’t know how to dance

@brissacastillo 5 жыл бұрын

what if you don’t got friends

@JoselynRamosPerez27 4 жыл бұрын

hello its me rent some friends

@jennifermazariegos8885 3 жыл бұрын

Josii Ortiz how do u rent them? 😭

@lorelaikaplan 4 жыл бұрын

None of my friends are also Hispanic so they have no idea what a chambelane even is 😂

@Cupids_Obsession 4 жыл бұрын

can a chambelan be a girl?

@sir_glob7133 4 жыл бұрын

i mean theres Damas? Its kinda like a girl chambelan?

@hi-em3zh 2 жыл бұрын

Tbh I don't even know why I got picked for this I haven't seen this girl in like years and my parents and her parents were asking if I can be the Chambelane

@romero6141 4 жыл бұрын

Can a girl be a Chambelan ?

@quinceaneraexpo 4 жыл бұрын

Girls can definitely be a part of it too, they're called damas. :)

@atxxjenn 3 жыл бұрын

i dont got no guy friends,no boy cousins,no older brother i honestly dont know what to do lmao

@montseh9945 3 жыл бұрын

I wish I can replace a guy with a girl but I might have to end up having to do a boy cousin or something, I don’t think you HAVE to have a chambelan but good luck finding one!