I live in America and I have noticed that if I wear colors people don’t look at me half as much as if I was to wear all black. To avoid stares it’s better to wear colors in certain areas. Go with the norm of that area as to not stand out.
@nazmakhanam7846 ай бұрын
Right
@melissahoney83176 ай бұрын
true
@Blackgreenwhitered6 ай бұрын
Agree!
@ZosiaDami6 ай бұрын
Yes yes that’s why I do this also
@uzmaifath6 ай бұрын
True
@anasemelianova57595 ай бұрын
I feel like a pink abaya is going to draw a lot more female gazes then male.
@masdi7274 ай бұрын
Why
@m.abdullahyousaf98634 ай бұрын
😁
@spongebob-xt5lb4 ай бұрын
@@masdi727cuz pink, goes with everything
@fuzzyoshea4 ай бұрын
exactly!! But i dress for myself and i like color.
@moonwalker12174 ай бұрын
@@masdi727cause pink slays💅🏼
@tahiyya93446 ай бұрын
I think the goal is to not stand out, so wearing something that's the norm in your country should be fine.
@Ped1009521 күн бұрын
You must cover up properly
@deyababe97415 ай бұрын
The people who are throwing shade on the sheikh clearly did not listen to the video, he said that depending on the culture, meaning that if you come from a place we’re colours are okay then wear colours, if you come from a country where most women wear the same colour then wear that colour. Like in some African tribes for example women wear really bright colours that pop, in this case if you were to wear dark colours or black you’d stand out, and that’s not the point of hijab obviously. So here you wear colours ofcourse. So please listen and understand. And additionally, Islam was made perfected for us whether you like it or not. We receive the order from Allah and we obey. Don’t argue. Don’t dislike it. Don’t give your opinion on why you think it’s wrong or right. You just obey. الأحزاب - الآية ٣٦ وَمَا كَانَ لِمُؤْمِنٍ وَلَا مُؤْمِنَةٍ إِذَا قَضَى ٱللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُۥٓ أَمْرًا أَن يَكُونَ لَهُمُ ٱلْخِيَرَةُ مِنْ أَمْرِهِمْ ۗ وَمَن يَعْصِ ٱللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُۥ فَقَدْ ضَلَّ ضَلَـٰلًا مُّبِينًا Al-Ahzaab (The Combined Forces) chapter 33 verse 36 Dr. Mustafa Khattab, The Clear Quran: It is not for a believing man or woman-when Allah and His Messenger decree a matter-to have any other choice in that matter. Indeed, whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has clearly gone ˹far˺ astray.
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
Yes, but the Kur'an does not order these things. Instead, these are orders coming from a man who is forbidding what is not forbidden and spreading lies about Allah, in the name of Allah, at the expense of women. He is creating and encouraging oppression and corruption of the perfected religion, and this requires people to speak out with the truth. It is an obligation on Muslims to speak and act the truth. That is the way of Allah. This man is putting his own interpretation, based on nothing but his own ego and desires for control of women, in the name of Allah. He is making himself a false God and he is speaking falsehood about Allah. There is no restriction on colors in the Kur'an. In fact, the Kur'an says that the diversity of people and colors are a sign and blessing for us. The Kur'an also describes that clothing in heaven will include those of specific colors, suggesting, again, that Allah has no problem with colors. The Kur'an also states that Allah created seashells and such so that we can decorate ourselves with adornments and praise him. Allah's names include the name for Beauty. One of his characteristics is of beauty. Beauty is not a black sheet thrown over a person to hide them while they tremble in fear that they may be raped by any stranger that walks by. This is a reduction of humans into animalistic behavior, where men are seen as rapists and threats, and that any woman who even wears a specific color is open and available as prey to be attacked. Allah encourages retraint, chastity, modesty and also fighting against oppression and persecution. It is time for Muslim women and men to resolve this issue and stop attempting to control women's bodies and autonomy. Muslim women should not allow fear of men to dictate their clothing. Muslim men must learn to control their sexual urges and nefs, and to appreciate the nature of a woman's soul (which Allah says is equal to a man's). If he cannot control his nefs, Allah has the solution: lower your gaze.
@ruqoyyahshaba94584 ай бұрын
@@DullahNoor. I don't get your argument. Allah Commands women to wear Hijab in the Qur'an. It's not the man. Qur'an 24verse 31, Qur'an 33 verse 59
@StrongMajor11783 ай бұрын
The color does not matter
@StrongMajor11783 ай бұрын
@@DullahNoor I agree with you so much
@nathym.v.84222 ай бұрын
If you go to a country that is not yours, respect it, if you don’t want to respect that country, don’t go there . Easy
@user-wt5qi6rz2y7 ай бұрын
Assalamu aleykum In my country (Uzbekistan) wearing dark colors is extravagant and everybody starts looking at such hijabis. So my parents tell me to wear light colored ones such as green, mint, white, light blue. It's common and normal, in this way people don't stare like when I'm wearing black abaya. I hope this is permissible
@DinoBryce7 ай бұрын
Im my country (South Africa) the women are now wearing very colourful and bright clothes. You can even buy Hijabs with glitter!
@maryooma-77457 ай бұрын
yes because usually, the point of wearing a black abaya is that it is usually what people wear and won't attract attention to you, but if you live in a place where light colors are the norm then wear these light colors as they wont attract attenttion
@DinoBryce7 ай бұрын
@@maryooma-7745 Yeah
@striyako246 ай бұрын
You are from Uzbekistan?
@areebahmahveen53876 ай бұрын
im a non hijabi and 😭 i look at black abayas of women and it caughts attention mann
@StrongMajor11787 ай бұрын
Yes they are permissble. Women can wear whatever color they want along as its modest
@KJ-iz3eq6 ай бұрын
@zain1132 didn't you just hear the sheikh or were you watching muted ?
@StrongMajor11786 ай бұрын
@@KJ-iz3eq I don't care what the sheikh says. Women can wear any color they want
@st.18136 ай бұрын
@@KJ-iz3eq, there's nothing in shariah which "prohibits" wearing colours other than black. And the sheikh said the same. You need to improve your English grammar / comprehension, perhaps. The only thing sheikh emphasizes is that it's better in some places and at some times to wear darker colors which don't draw attention.
@sobanbabbar24516 ай бұрын
@@StrongMajor1178 Why are you here then? Are you yourself a Shaykh or a Scholar or something that you are behaving in this manner? Who are you to disapprove? Do not mislead people along with you.
@StrongMajor11786 ай бұрын
@@sobanbabbar2451 im telling the truth., its the truth you are being brainwashed by extremist muslims who make up random and non existant rules about islam
@afsha536 ай бұрын
So basically, anything you feel would draw the attention of others to you is not appreciated.
@unknown-us5yh5 ай бұрын
Yes
@StevenSantos-nm1ie24 күн бұрын
Yeah that's what I understood too
@amaanmansour31784 ай бұрын
I don’t fully like the inclination that the hijabs purpose is to not draw attention to oneself - because that is negated when you live in a non-Muslim country, where most women do not wear the hijab and by consequence, every hijabi automatically draws attention to herself. By that logic, we would have to take the hijab off, which obviously is not the case. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying the Shaykh is wrong, I just think that NOT drawing attention to yourself is not or at least not the main purpose of the hijab.
@Glycaine4 ай бұрын
The clothing is to blend as best as we can, if we cant, then we are settong the example
@theemirofjaffa22663 ай бұрын
The lesson was for muslim societies not non-Muslim.
@femaleselfimprovement2 ай бұрын
The purpose of hijab is to be identified as a Muslim and protected from harm
@K.w897Ай бұрын
The purpose IS to de attract and remove attention from urself. Even in an nisa 34 Allah forbids women from stomping loudly when walking, why? Cause it draws attention and its for the same reason that high heels and even loud jewelry is not allowed to have even under your clothes, since it makes sound and draws attention. Allah ta’la even commands women to stay at home in al ahzab 33 unless she has a need or necessity to go out, because the less a women is seen, the better. Even in al ahzab 53 Allah swt tells the wives of the prophet ﷺ to be completely behind a barrier when his companions visit, and this ruling is for all women, the asl of the hijab is to be hidden. Fatima bint Muhammed RA said: the best of women do not see men and is not seen by men Prophet ﷺ said in a hadith: Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allaah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688. Even if u live in a non muslim country, u couldnt possibly tell me that wearing a hijab draws more attention than if u were half naked. Even so, the stares are because of hijab being strange to them, its not a stare of lust and attraction, which would have happened if you were half naked
@rowaaSHKhedr6 ай бұрын
In egypt black was kind of eye-catching more than bright colours, but this changed a bit now
@coloringforms5 ай бұрын
What Egypt are you living in sister ? 😂 In Cairo, we all wearing black. It's NOT eye-catching at all.
@lanilau43873 ай бұрын
@@coloringforms You don’t know how to read. Key word, this has changed a bit now.
@coloringforms3 ай бұрын
@@lanilau4387 "a bit now" is he talking about egypt in 1975? Cause between 1999-2024 all i've seen there is BLACK. so what does "before" refering to?
@powr_24Ай бұрын
@@coloringformsI’m from Egypt, and I wear a black abaya and hijab. Alhamduliah, but whenever I go everyone stares. And has even made fun of it even, saying things like “where’s the funeral?”
@amoameera4 ай бұрын
In Africa, we are people of bright colours and if you were anything black people are gonna stare at you until you're out of sight, wearing colour means you're gonna blend in with everyone.
@user-mu6fz4yd4b7 ай бұрын
Allahuma Barik ❤
@user-mu6fz4yd4b7 ай бұрын
May Allah guide us and help us to put this in practice Aameen ❤️
@hafizaparbin4006 ай бұрын
But in today's generation there is no colour that can stop men to look at woman , infact black attracts 10 times more men than the normal colours . What should we women do now ? What should we wear ?
@StrongMajor11785 ай бұрын
Any color is fine
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
You should wear what makes you feel you are being modest. Allah has given you the gift of free will, knowledge, and guidance. This is what separates us from animals. Use your gift and decide for yourself, what makes you feel you are being modest? Modest means: you are not flaunting what you have. The only rule for clothing is to cover your genitals and your breasts (unless you are an elderly woman, in which case you're exempt) and except in certain company. You have a lot of freedom for what to wear. Don't let people mislead you and take away your freedoms, that is an oppression on you against your human rights.
@theemirofjaffa22663 ай бұрын
Stay home. That's what you should have been doing in the first place.
@StrongMajor11783 ай бұрын
@@theemirofjaffa2266 wtf no women do not have to be imprisoned at home
@damsykl2 ай бұрын
@@theemirofjaffa2266yea right so our husbands can watch women who do be outside and not at home… very clever
@alinaaamir32225 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum everyone here❤ I read most comments on colors... There's one thing i understood from this video and also telling all of you so that no one will make false incorrect rules by themselves! . . . If you live in a country where people don't get attract towards black then wear it...! And if you're living in a country where if you wear black and people might stare at you then wear normal colors But not so vibrant... People who are saying colors don't attract attention also knew that they are wrong!! COLORS ATTRACT...and people who are saying when we wear black people see us but not with other colors....so they need to know that THERE'S A CLEAR DIFFERENCE IN STARING AND GETTING ATTRACT.❤ And people who are demanding to provide hadith and ayat on colors, need to know that there are some matters Allah didn't mentioned in Quran but set his beloved Prophet and his wives example Infront of us to learn from them....❤ So please everyone watch your words and don't make your own rules...!
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
The Kur'an sent one specific line instructing the wives of the prophet about certain clothing. Are you the wife of the prophet? Estafurla, no you are not. Therefore, that rule does not apply to you. Stop peddling your oppression onto other women and acting as if it is normal or desired by Allah. It is not normal and it is not desired by Allah. İslam is a religion against oppression and Allah desires it to be easy for us and to have no compulsion. Allah states in the Kur'an that it is the highest shirk to forbid what is not forbidden and to enjoin what is forbidden. You are actively helping spread lies about the religion, which is forbidden, and you are placing limits that are not in the Kur'an, which is also forbidden. You are transgressing and oppressing and misleading. Regarding Hadith: most Hadith is not credible. And good luck on judgment day when Allah questions you and says, why didn't you follow my guidance? And your answer is, oh, I saw some man write a Hadith and other people were following it, so I thought I should, too. Allah will ask you what you did with your knowledge.
@nathym.v.84222 ай бұрын
What about staying in those countries where that is the rule? Civilized countries are not to everyone.
@kushiali65783 ай бұрын
I used to wear only black but with time I realised that wearing floral abaya is more concealing than plan one so now I use the colour blocking technique to hide the shape of my body.
@rotube7396 ай бұрын
Jazakallah Khayr Sheikh
@radyahshin4 ай бұрын
What I have understand by this video is The main motive behind wearing abaya is to protect women ourselves from catching attention from non marham. You can wear any colored abaya as long as it is not eye catching and it is modest in color. For example any nude or pastel or even white colored abayas. The shaikh said it is culture in arab to wear black abayas, but Allah and the Quran didn't give any restrictions in colored abayas as long as it is modest and not eye catching. In western countries if any women wear black abaya, it is also eye catching isn't it and it contradict this topic!! So wear abayas in the same as the society and environment you live in and that's how it will not be eye catching. But like red, pink, bright yellow if you can avoid those colors then you are fine😊😊. Correct me if I am wrong!!
@Hello_Glow5 ай бұрын
I myself wear black abbaya, so one time i was outside shopping i saw a sister wearing red 🍒 cherry red colour Abaya, which actually drew my attention instantly, it tempted me as a woman, i thought that's a beautiful colour I'll definitely add it to my collection of abayas, but then all of my abayas are black then this kind of thought can erupt in our mind i as a woman is feeling this then a man can too get attracted and keep glancing over you for the colour of Abaya, so it's not wrong but try to adopt to black it really doesn't attract attention at all.
@iluvoreo72895 ай бұрын
You're a woman, of course you would be tempted to buy it as you also can wear it, it's different for men
@tasmiahmasih38638 күн бұрын
It's so good having a sheikh. I don't have to even think anymore.
@noorminhas37 ай бұрын
What about abaya with some stone details not fully covered in stones but some
@zakia_qamar296 ай бұрын
No! totally haram cause that's gonna catch more attention.
@user-xs5pw7ny7g6 ай бұрын
Thats tabarruj ukhti, it defeats the whole purpose of hijab/modesty/niqab
@wardahbinteammar6 ай бұрын
really depends is it attracting male gaze because if it is a norm, every woman has it but try to avoid it and keep it simple i am not a scholar and not giving a fatwa that is something i would do to stay on the safe side
@HarleyLuna316 ай бұрын
@@wardahbinteammarany beautiful woman is gonna attract the male gaze
@benamarasarra65346 ай бұрын
@@zakia_qamar29Haram? do you know how big this word is, at least say makruh, the word Haram is absolutely big not made to use for small things like this
@RimshaPervaiz-ww5wu5 ай бұрын
THERE IS NO WHERE MENTION ABOUT COLOR IN OUR RELIGION WE ARE ORDERED TO COVER OUR SELF THAT'S IT
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
Thank you and thank you for the all caps. I hope he gets the message. This is sad....
@user-vi4jg1um2h5 ай бұрын
A small piece of advice is that not to attract men's attention that's it which color which style U know that's best.Allah is aware of everything so keep on mind and wear those simple abayas ❤
@4U_X4 ай бұрын
@@user-vi4jg1um2h that is men's problem not women's. Men should control their desires.
@UmmuFarras4 ай бұрын
There's a hadeeth that says that when the order for wearing hijab was sent down to the Prophet Muhammad may Allah be pleased with him, and was mentioned to the women companions, they immediately cover themselves with garments that made them look like a crow, black. This is why Arab women mostly choose black for their outer garments. On occasions one though, Aisha was seen wearing red. But black was still predominantly the color of outer garments at that time.
@shameelmohiuddin13523 ай бұрын
there's a purpose to the abaya. just don't go against that purpose and stuff is permissible. anything that would gain attention of the opposite gender would go against its purpose.
@servantofAllah2676 ай бұрын
Wearing dark abya is permissible
@user-sx3ml4kf3v5 ай бұрын
Jazakallahu khayran
@Dona5166 ай бұрын
This makes me feel like everything will be my fault. Men staring, talking, and whatever it might be. Is it really that difficult to be happy muslim women? I wear long dresses (I love it) but my dresses are sparkly and colorful. I’m extremely picky about what I wear and not wear. I want to feel like a queen inside the house and outside. I don’t have the intention of attracting or wanting people to look at me. After hearing this, it makes me question my own worth. Maybe I may end up in Jahanam because I chose to wear clothes which attracted men.
@TK-ns6rt6 ай бұрын
Subhaanah Allah sister. Why would you say you may end up in Jahannama or you question your worth because of what this sheikh is saying? Islam is simple and Allah doesn't intend to make anything difficult for us. Be modest, humble and purify your intentions for Allah alone. Don't condemn yourself because some sheikh choose to tell you, even if you're modest, a certain color is problematic. Men are also commanded by Allah to lower their gaze. So if they choose to stare at a woman who is modestly dressed that's on them. Allah instructed us how to dress and not what color to wear or not to wear. I didn't see color mentioned in the quran. Islam is not meant to imprisoned women but some men want to make everything extremely difficult. Islam is not a person or a place and it is perfect.
@zeenatkhan93376 ай бұрын
Sister don't say like this!! It's okay of whatever color Abaya you wear. The is actually trying to say that don't wear anything which looks extremely attractive just like if you will wear neon color things its obviously going to make everybody look at you even girls will stare. So obviously wear whatever Abaya you want. And second Allah will first question to men's that why they haven't lowered their gaze🤷♀️ so don't think that if somebody is staring at you even if you are covered and modest it's your problem NO its their problem, they should worry about their jannat😊
@prettygoldfish9536 ай бұрын
@@zeenatkhan9337 just thank you for this message
@ACommunistLoveStory6 ай бұрын
These sheikhs speak for hours and hours about women's clothing but always forget the party about men lowering their gaze.
@Dona5166 ай бұрын
Thank you very much brothers and sisters! May Allah be pleased with you and love you. This kind of messages put ease into my heart. When I listen to knowledgable speakers, I get discouraged because it makes me feel like maybe I am doing something wrong or I am listening to Shaytan more than Allah. At the end of the day, I hope I am on the right path and pleasing the Almighty. May you all be safe! And May Allah reward you for all you do!
@Rasheedat-fo5kd5 ай бұрын
Asalaam Alaykum waromatullah wabaroqatuh sir. Is white color jalibab acceptable as well?
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
All colors are okay. You should cover your breasts (elderly women are exempt) and your genital region. There is absolutely no basis in the Kur'an for anything else that this man is saying. He is making a false God of himself and oppressing women.
@quratulain849620 күн бұрын
Plz answer this woman can wear jalabi and cover their head and go to Haram for namaz
@r.nasiri5584 ай бұрын
The only reason woman around the prophet tried to go unnoticed was to be safe from the enemy! Also, in Islam, men should refrain from looking at things with a sexual intent. Basically, what is being said here is that women are responsible for the men committing sin or not. If your faith and your self control id so that by seeing red, pink or purple you have inappropriate thought, you have to work on it. No one else is going to be bow to make me do or not do anything but my faith and my heart!
@sara.m882 ай бұрын
That's not what he said at all. Both men and women are equally responsible and have to do their parts
@kisuli27344 ай бұрын
Oh God so also colours can provoke men? 😅💀 please Maybe men should control themselfs more and not put the responsibility on women
@Andro-qt6hj3 ай бұрын
Never found coloured abaya in any way attractive nor the black ones I don't know what sheikh is taking about
@Cristina65374 ай бұрын
I can not believe men are debating this !
@Abdur-Rahman8624 ай бұрын
Did a woman come with the Quran?
@Cristina65374 ай бұрын
@@Abdur-Rahman862 who cares who came with the Quran. Women in seniority / leadership positions should be debating this. Not men.
@user-ss3jr1ms7k4 ай бұрын
@@Cristina6537 he is a sheikh. Womens too can talk about abays , its not haram of course
@rockyywashair3 ай бұрын
@@Abdur-Rahman862who’s wearing the hijab? A woman or a man? A woman ofc. Why tf do men think they can discuss things about what a woman can wear. Men will never understand the responsibility of wearing a hijab.
@ambitiousmuslimrecordings34513 ай бұрын
I understand your perspective. There are plenty of woman scholars who say the same thing about women dress code. Feel free to look them up. The reason this man is answering this question (among THOUSANDS of questions on thousands of topics) is because he is an exceptional man with accredited Islamic education.
@Precious-n4i6 ай бұрын
Black draws attention too
@maimalatus77184 ай бұрын
Jazakumullahu khairan
@Precious-n4i6 ай бұрын
Why is this a question? And always asked by men?
@Coding55915 ай бұрын
Because they can’t help themselves they need treatment
@Precious-n4i5 ай бұрын
@@Coding5591 sounds like you need help sir stop worrying about women so much
@Precious-n4i5 ай бұрын
@@sayem1337 there are so many other important issues regarding our Iman. His daughter/ wife/ sister can ask for herself. Why would the color of an abaya be an issue anyway?
@Precious-n4i5 ай бұрын
@@sayem1337 this is not a critical thinking issue but seems to permeate social media that men are so concerned about how women dress, it’s not just this question. Men are commenting on women’s videos to criticize dress and that is my issue since you seem to care. That is why I commented . I do not see this the other way around. My question would be as an ummah can we focus on bigger issues, other than clothes.
@Ana663895 ай бұрын
@@Precious-n4iyou twit I am a woman 😂😂😂😂
@spoofyguy54126 ай бұрын
I was wondering as this Shiekh said that the main goal of the abaya is to avoid attention of other men then how the non-mahram boy would fell in love with her to marry her or is the non-mahram allowed to look at hijabi girl face because men are ordered to lower their gaze within the presence of non-mahrams
@smileorcry72046 ай бұрын
Dont worry 😂 ..our soulmates are already decided they will their way to you .and our soulmate will love us for our personality not for looks.❤
@alhannie46486 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum you can't say that directly to her instead talk to her mahrams about it inshaAllah
@smileorcry72046 ай бұрын
Mai bhi pakistan say hun or shadi ki fikr na kro ,parents issi kaam k liyay hain
@zaraahmadov60795 ай бұрын
Salam alaikum brother. Thank you for enlightening us abt colour but I have watched several of your video and learned a lot abt different subjects. But some of your videos you said unlike hanafee unlike mathab . For example shape of prayer 5x a day isn’t what you said abt hanafee mathab. As a hanafee mathab member we pray exactly same. Abt abayah hanafee mathab is the most says must be in black for not get attention from outsider brothers other than your mahrem so pls correct your statement. It might be different in your country but hanafees in most of the Muslim countries isn’t different . I am Turkish and wear abayah not even show the face . I suggest you to go Istanbul -fatih-carsamba province. You will see women how they wear . Our mathab not different then other mathab. Because Alhamdollilah we also learn Islam and fiqh from our holy prophet saw Hadith. May Allah guide us all . Amin
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
Sister, who forbid you to not show your face? I will pray for you, inşallah you will come into the light. Allah does not expect this from you. You are misled.
@wjufrjwieg43456y6 ай бұрын
i have a questio n if your in a place where women where lots of colors like pink red and other vibrant ones and you know that if you wear black you will gain attention is it permissible to wear vibrant colors in these situations
@maryamsalah1355 ай бұрын
Yes, the main purpose of wearing hijab is to not stand out or attract men, therefore logically if you live in an area where wearing black clothes isn't common or normal (and thus it attracts people's attention) then you should wear what the range of colors that are normal there in order to not stand out
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
@@maryamsalah135Please be careful with your words. Hijab does not mean abaya. Hijab is not in the Kur'an in reference to women (read your Kur'an) - hijab refers to a metaphysical barrier, such as between Solomon and his horses, or between the people on their way to heaven and those on their way to hell, as in the Heights. The abaya is a construct out of oppressive Arab culture, and it is not İslam. Women are under suggestion (not an order) in the Kur'an to wear a jilbab (and outer coat) to identify themselves as Muslim to trigger protection in areas that may be unsafe. Separately, the wives of the prophet were instructed to wear specific clothing, which does not apply to any woman alive today because none of us are wives of the prophet.
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
The point of your clothing is not about attracting or hiding from attention. The Kur'an says it is for purposes of modesty. That is all. You are not supposed to act in a manner that is too sexual, which encourages zina. That is all. Putting the two together, your clothing should not in itself be an act of zina. That is all. Colors themselves are not sexual and to a normal, rational, healthy person, are not going to tempt or lure a man into sexual thoughts. There is no reason why a healthy person will see a cherry red bedsheet and think, oh yes, sex, let me think of sex. That makes no sense. You are oppressing yourself and allowing men to oppress you by putting burdens on you that do not belong on your shoulders. If you are already taking the step to wear an abaya, that is more than what is required of you for fulfilling the rule of modesty. I caution you that if you go too far with this, you are training and encouraging men to not control their own nefs, and worse, you are encouraging a social norm that puts all women at risk of danger, because men believe that a woman who is not dressed in this all-black sheet are somehow complicit in their rape. This is wrong. Wear what makes you feel modest, and put your faith in Allah. Remember Al Fatiha: we turn only to Allah for guidance.
@wakeup117604 ай бұрын
i think you are the one who should read better your Qur'an @@DullahNoor
@maryamsalah1354 ай бұрын
@@DullahNoor so you're telling me that I, as a Muslim hijabi, am being oppressed? I'm actually not. I wore it out of my free will without getting forced to wear it. Men need to lower their gaze in all cases, whether the women are covered up or not.
@user-ej9zx9wh7l5 ай бұрын
Jazakallah kheran
@user-cf4mp4gn1n5 ай бұрын
Colored abaya attract people. In my point of view I think black is the best and in our country Pakistan mostly girls wear black which is normal🖤
@firaca1002 ай бұрын
Yeah, it depends on the region. I am from Indonesia. If i wear full black in a big city like Jakarta, it's okay and will not draw attention (jakarta is more diverse, you can find people with colorfull outfit also people with monochrom outfit). However, if i go to village, if i wear full black, i would definitely be the talk of the town 😅
@melekmelissaau5 ай бұрын
Makes a lot of sense. Definitely food for thought when it comes to my future wardrobe choices
@goldenashtv51364 ай бұрын
Shukran shaik
@EtherealStar13 ай бұрын
Nowday women are not too modest event those that are covered..a lot of them wear dresses that outline their body or they wear belts and necks are showing, their hair is sometimes showing, they wear tons of makeup
@Blue_angel_65275 ай бұрын
I live in a multicultural,multi religious country. So In my country the black is the more eye catching colour. If I wear black habaya to public places; I noticed more people stare at me, so if I wear colour habaya it's normally unnoticeable.... So I stuck up with colour habayas 😊
@artejikeme36734 ай бұрын
I disagree red is just a colour and men will find any reason to give women attention, no mater what they wear.
@yunarai-ms7mw2 ай бұрын
i totally agree
@am320742 ай бұрын
so it depends on where you go. For example in Saudi culture, the best colour for an abaya is black as everyone is wearing black abayas so of course a coloured abaya would stand out more. And I lived in Saudi before and differently, I feel like I fit in more wearing black. However, if everyone is wearing coloured abayas for example in countries like Emarat or Egypt, a coloured abaya would not draw attention. It would blend in with everyone and therefore draw no attention due to colour. unless the colour is bright red, tiger print, neon green, magenta or similar. Islam did not specify a colour but it told us we should not draw attention to ourselves when dressing modestly, which means the colour depends on the culture and what the norms are on what draws attention. This could be a personal experience only but I live in Canada and I feel wearing a colourful outfit (soft neutral colours) makes me fit in more versus if I wore all black I visually stand out more and I can feel the stares. I feel like black in this case makes you look more elegant thus eyes would turn.
@mardiyakezire52552 ай бұрын
«It’s permissible to wear colorful abaya as long as it’s the norm of the country (not like 🇸🇦 ) and it doesn’t goes against the purpose of hijab » wearing the color he mentioned won’t make anyone “stand out” nobody call out emo people why would they call us out for dark-green and grey abaya😂? Allah 3lem✨
@DeLaDanse1004 ай бұрын
Not Gonna Lie Wearing Hijab where I’m from causes more attention period
@fenghouse1717Ай бұрын
I am from the Caribbean countries and here if a woman wears a black abaya she is seen more than if she wears a pastel pink abaya.
@Minced.Phalanges2 ай бұрын
But aren't you just supposed to wear dark clothes while mourning. And I only heard about men not being allowed to wear bright colours
@AnnettaDarandri4 ай бұрын
Yeah, in my country, if you wear all black abaya and niqab, you’ll attract more attention since it’s so different from how people dress here.
@SR-007-BONDАй бұрын
The colour of the Abaya that we should wear should be the least we should worry about! Try perfecting your deen by loving one another for the sake of ALLAH and give your brother what you want for your self. Don’t oppress! Protect and be kind to the poor and the weak. Don’t steal,hurt, kill or even badmouth anyone and do what Allah commanded you to do worshipping only him alone. If you do this ALLAH ❤ will protect you and forgive your shortcomings! Salam😁. Ooh 🙄how can I forget? Keep smiling 😃 that is sadaqa.
@r.nasiri5584 ай бұрын
Lower your gaze An-Nur 30-31 No one should be held responsible for another person’s behavior, thoughts or actions! We are all held accountable for our own actions, and “his” or “here” behavior made me do things does not fly with god!!! God and his words are enough for me! Our relationship with god is designed to be uniq to each one of us! I don’t have to follow the interpretation of one person or another of how the female around Prophet Mohammad behaved 1400 years ago!!! This kind of talk are what I have to constantly explain to none Muslims, as how none of this mamba Jamba is actually is what god or Prophet Mohammad preached!!!
@KN-pe1wi2 ай бұрын
What about white and green abaya ..
@samradizdarevic42604 ай бұрын
Stop preaching what should women wear and mind your own fashion style
@ambitiousmuslimrecordings34513 ай бұрын
This sheikh should be respected for the accredited knowledge he has. May Allah guide us all to the straight path
@imaneferradj96065 ай бұрын
Elegance is in staying discrete The Sheikh is right
@l.fruchtzwerg89322 ай бұрын
It is important that the clothing does not emphasize her body. It should be as inconspicuous as possible (by the way, it is not allowed for men to present their bodies either!!! see sunnah of the Prophet sav), the color is secondary, preferably muted colors. I have also heard from a sheik that the Prophet sav does not like the black clothes. Christians often wear black, especially at funerals and other important events. Many countries are multicultural, so the black abaya is much more noticeable!
@tabassumfatimaahmad12514 ай бұрын
Dont wear brighter colour so you look spotted in crowded. Otherwise can wear colours. I have read hadith sahabiya used to wear colour abaya but its shouldn't be bling bling
@SR-007-BONDАй бұрын
Exaggeration is also a subject 🤣 Not that long ago I heard one woman tell another that if you wear nikab and tie around your head instead of inside and the shape of your head shows is wrong! 🤔 I want to know who doesn’t know that everyone’s heads man or woman is round? So my answer to what colour of Abaya one should wear is whatever will be pleasing to Allah and you next. Who cares what one wears around the continent? I fallow the scripture not the people. ALLAH ❤️ knows best and may ALLAH forgive our shortcomings. Ameen.
@user-pb8my3ey5j5 ай бұрын
According to a study, the least attractive colors to men for women to wear are neutral yellow and yellowish olive green. Could these be the best colors for hijab? And there's such a thing as Universal Camouflage Pattern
@HdhfHdhd-wp9xj5 ай бұрын
Hiii everyone I have a question if u don’t mind. So if any of u guys know is it ok for a women to wear like a black abaya that has glitter or rhinestones??
@userofyoutube_4 ай бұрын
Can wear such abayas as long as its not too extravagant , with mild glitter and rhinestones here & there (at the abayas) can wear it
@StrongMajor11783 ай бұрын
Yes you can
@JemimaRuby293 ай бұрын
What about the Hadith about a woman wearing green , and speaking to Aisha Rad , about a matter ?
@dilrubaakhter26084 ай бұрын
Maximum women wear fashionable abaya to look them good. Subhanalloh, they pluck their brow and use dark make up too.😡
@user-hx9qz8wu9e3 ай бұрын
What about white abaya.???
@davidskolik53034 ай бұрын
In free societies, you can wear what you like.
@ambitiousmuslimrecordings34513 ай бұрын
To be a Muslim is to submit to Allah’s commands. That simple.
@davidskolik53033 ай бұрын
In psychology, that is referred to as a sado masochistic relationship.
@yossefgamerr3813Ай бұрын
@@davidskolik5303 Who made the study of pyschology? Humans Why should I care what a bunch of humans say about the beautiful relationship between God and man. God is the supreme, I am not following a bunch of sheep. I am following the creator himself.
@davidskolik5303Ай бұрын
@@yossefgamerr3813You obviously care about what other people say. Your “holy” book was written by men.
@yossefgamerr3813Ай бұрын
@@davidskolik5303 The Quran made prophecies that came true and are confirmed by non-Islamic history The Romans have been defeated in a nearby land.1 Yet following their defeat, they will triumph within three to nine years.1 The ˹whole˺ matter rests with God before and after ˹victory˺. And on that day the believers will rejoice at the victory willed by God. He gives victory to whoever He wills. For He is the Almighty, Most Merciful ˹This is˺ the promise of God. ˹And˺ God never fails in His promise. But most people do not know. Quran: Surah Arrum Predicted the outcome of a battle, Predicted a very unlikely outcome since the Byzantine Romans were just destroyed so them winning after such a short period was very unlikely, Even better predicted when it will happen, and the best part is calling this prophecy "The Promise of God" who has this much confidence to call a very specific random guess the Promise of God, especially if he were a false Prophet why would he risk his authority by making a random guess like that? en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Byzantine%E2%80%93Sasanian_War_of_602%E2%80%93628
@omniahkh48516 ай бұрын
"it may or may not be culturally accepted" no one asked about your "culture" the person asked about religion not your personal opinion
@ateji17385 ай бұрын
if ur smart, you'd know that what colours catch the eye would be different depending on where u live, so culture is important to consider, if I were to wear all black abaya in a country where black is not worn as a norm, then I'd likely catch the attention of people, which then would be a bad thing.
@maryamsalah1354 ай бұрын
@@ateji1738 I agree with you, some *cough cough* many Muslims need to be open-minded
@Sophia-bj3wm3 ай бұрын
Here in subcontinent region, even if you are wearing a full black burqa men stare at you like deer in headlights. They have no concept of 'lowering the gaze' and they keep looking as if they have x-ray vision. Those who want to stare will always stare and those who know about true islamic values don't. avoiding going outside is not possible as sometimes you need to go out. Like for example when you need to go to the doctor. But thank you for clarifying this.
@ayannur94803 ай бұрын
Men need to learn self control!
@Maaz7594 ай бұрын
I wear dark blue abbaya as I like that colour and in my country women wears black or coloured both abbaya........what I thought in black definitely I am not looking attractive and no one. Notice me ...but since I like dark blue so I bought that. ....ohhh what to do ???
@rasheedahlyte89034 ай бұрын
Allah is beautiful, and he wants us to be beautiful
@ambitiousmuslimrecordings34513 ай бұрын
Be careful, the Shaytan is our enemy. Don’t let one piece of literature outweighs others. May Allah guide us all to the straight path
@Dimensionalalteration4 ай бұрын
I'm wearing black rn,but also wear other colours sometimes
@fatimaesf83642 ай бұрын
It is the men problem. They should control and hold themselves. Allah has made this world colourful and beautiful. In any way, they want to limit women. Lovely ladies wear whatever colour you like.
@shameemaumar16675 ай бұрын
What if it is to prevent the heat?
@ThamizhiAaseevagar5 ай бұрын
Black terrible choice to prevent heat, white would be best.
@user-pb8my3ey5j5 ай бұрын
@@ThamizhiAaseevagaractually, white reflects the radiant heat from the ground and the thermal energy a human body produces. Flowy black is the way to go🤓
@aromaseawater14924 ай бұрын
The clothes worn by Aisha and Ali are on display in Istanbul. Aisha’s abaya was white. Does it even mention a colour in the Koran?
@ThamizhiAaseevagar5 ай бұрын
So, men's r always in temptation.what a shame.in countries where it's extremely hot and humidity factors, black is terrible to wear,it absorbs more heat, better wear white,why it's always about what other's think and not about us.sometimes change is needed, this is issue,it not about culture,it comes down to science and comfort.
@jamaiah65226 ай бұрын
Thank you Sheikh. I shall not buy abaya of bright colour. I was abt to buy online, for eid. Alhamdulillah. Black or any dull colours is for me. 😊
@StrongMajor11785 ай бұрын
Sister you can wear any color you want, don't listen to these extremists who make up rules about islam
@feelfootball64015 ай бұрын
Same I support you@@StrongMajor1178
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
Sister, you are being misled. This person is telling lies about the religion - please read your Kur'an. There are only three verses dealing with women's clothes. There are much more dealing with men's behavior and there are also verses about the beauty of diversity, of colors, and of nature. Allah means beauty. You are allowed to wear colors and you can choose for yourself what "modesty" means to you. Allah will ask you, you individually, what you did with your mind and knowledge and the revelations he gave you. That means you, specifically you, must go and read the Kur'an and think for yourself about what it means to you. Do not take the easy way of following some person online simply because he has followers. The Pharaoh also had followers. The corrupt kings of Ad, Thamud, and Lot also had followers. Allah says the worst shirk is to be a false God and to forbid what is not forbidden, which is what this man is doing. Please read the Kur'an, wake up, and think for yourself.
@radyahshin4 ай бұрын
The main motive behind wearing abaya is to protect ourselves from catching attention from non marham. You can wear any colored abaya as long as it is not eye catching. For example any nude or pastel colored abayas. But like red, pink, bright yellow you can avoid those colors then you are fine.
@TheBudgetTraveller7864 ай бұрын
May Allah azawajal reward your intention, be careful of those trying to misguide you.
@scout4177Ай бұрын
Assalam-o-Alaikum Please don't stop praying for Palestine🇵🇸 Pray in your 5 daily prayers in tahajjud , fast, donate What ever you can do, do it Ppl of Gaza need us, our prayers, help Remember on the day of judgement you will not only be questioned for your salah and fasting we have to ans ppl of Palestine as well. And don't forget Dr. Afiya Siddiqui what's happening with her today is unimaginable and beyond tolerance they are literally harassing her sexually as a punishment like what... how can they do such things??where is humanity don't forget her in your dua #justiceforDrAfiyaSiddiqui They will ask us that what we did for them What will we answer ? Are we preparing ourselves for that so that we will be able to ans them? Prepare your self brother and sisters You have to answer one day in front of Allah Jazakh Allahu Khairan ❤
@nishanisha.a33682 ай бұрын
We want freedom from iblees ya allah 🤲🏻 protect us, 😢 protect my daughter, n my son😢
@timathiam66059 күн бұрын
Thanks😊😊 you
@noorunnisarasheed64264 ай бұрын
Why men all like this
@anoodsiddiqui70503 ай бұрын
Dark colored abayas is acceptable, avoid wearing light colored abayas.
@damsykl2 ай бұрын
Instead of supporting palestine we worry about colors unbelievable
@quratulain849620 күн бұрын
Can woman wear only jalabi and perform thier namaz in haram
@SamSam777714 ай бұрын
Sheikh Ji AOA, Wear an abaya which does not draw attention, so jewel colors like Red, Emerald, Royal Blue all bright colors attract attention . These days Black is adorned with net, silk, ribbons, laces, cutwork, crystal and embroidery and what not designs and embellishments ! So even Black is not serving the purpose any more . ALAS!! the less simple and over decorated and panels, cuts makes it more expensive and higher class!! Pls ladies...wear simple Abayas in sober colors with simple design or fine trimming. Not as a show piece.
@tetrobunn-31753 ай бұрын
it's fine to wear any color. it's an abaya, and you're fully covered so no man would lust for a color cuz that's ridiculous. the attention you'll get is, as he said, is because of the cultural difference.
@davidskolik53034 ай бұрын
In a civilized society, a woman can wear whatever she chooses.
@yossefgamerr3813Ай бұрын
is that an objective statement? Who gets define what is a "civilisied society"? Who gets to make the rules here? God.
@davidskolik5303Ай бұрын
A civilized society is where a person can do, think and dress in their own fashion as long as no laws are broken and does not harm or infringe on the rights of others. Quite simple, actually.
@yossefgamerr3813Ай бұрын
@@davidskolik5303 Okay so you gave a definition based on your opinion, I don't agree with your definition. A civilised society is a one that follows God's commands. Which definition is right? Yours or mine? if you say yours is the right definition then that's just an opinion. keyword: stop using subjective criteria to judge others
@nathym.v.84222 ай бұрын
The only time I stared at a muslin woman using clothes like hiyab or burka. was to thanks that I born in South America.
@audriadaud31684 ай бұрын
We Malaysian women were colourful abaya n others colours.
@ranasameh20863 ай бұрын
I wanna buy from the abayas in the video image 😂
@harjad95465 ай бұрын
Wear white and you'll be rewarded. Inshallah!
@lawana162 ай бұрын
Can Muslim woman wear an Afro?
@zeinyrazagi32563 ай бұрын
How exactly do you differentiate people's stare out of lust or stare out of interest or admiration, anger, fear etc etc? Not always you have other cues like facial expressions, what you have is their own outfit for you to better judge their mentality and based on that you guess their perspective on you. People are going to stare eventually for whatever reason. It's about statistics, I think us trying to decrease the chances of stares out of lust is what actually God wants. I am already hiding all my provocative parts, It's unfair for me to be responsible for people's interest, curiosity, hate ... too. And my God is fair. I'd say he would expect the other party to look away. I've done my part.
@meers3334 ай бұрын
Alhamdhullilah, those women's got to go to fajr Salah. Which husband is taking wife to fajr salah?
@kisuli27344 ай бұрын
What if you live in a country where its absolytely not normal to wear abaya and it will only make people stare at you??
@lilratulАй бұрын
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@sunflowerabubakary5486 ай бұрын
ALLAHU AKBAR THANK YOU
@user-sx6xb9rr1i2 ай бұрын
What if you are not yet MARRİED and as a young lady you'd like to not only attract a husband but wish to save your black abaya and white eşarp for when you are married
@srl123-u7z2 күн бұрын
why not men where it - so that women wont even attempt to attract ghost looking figure.
@sssaaa7236 ай бұрын
Show your Quran proof if you ever are truthful. You imposter you should be DENOUNCED
@DullahNoor5 ай бұрын
Completely agree. I am so tired of seeing this man and so ashamed of how many followers he has. There are women sending links to his videos and really believing it. He is misleading so many people from the Path. İslam is a religion against oppression, and for truth and justice and liberation. It's men like him who are misleading the umma, and the umma -especially the women- are so oppressed that they're afraid to think for themselves, even to read and reflect for themselves, on what the Kur'an says. It is shameful and hard to see.
@user-vi4jg1um2h5 ай бұрын
It was written on hadees obviously so don't judge others and U don't like hijab so don't wear it .Don't tell others he is good or bad just see yourself .Don't judge and make peace.we are not forcing to wear you hijab but it's sunnah of our nabi S.A.W.S so u know that and don't tell show quran it's correct or not U even don't know a page .Respect others and they Respect you.If you are wise then.
@munazzahkanth6956 ай бұрын
Sheikh it doesn't behove you to pick on a school of thought!
@satishramteke7955Ай бұрын
Burkha, naqab and hijab is haram
@ThamizhiAaseevagar5 ай бұрын
Think about stone age,were human would not think about all these materialistic choices, only thinks about survival.hunt,eat,search,rest reproduce and move on.did we chose to civilize or god chose it.why think about life after death,we r alive now, let's live good life, heaven and hell r within us.after death, what is eternal means.after death we leave our physical body and we r another dimension,we should have more scientific approach to it.
@yunarai-ms7mw2 ай бұрын
short answer is, they are allowed to wear colorful abayas. our generation in this world is not such that we can only wear black. the weather is terribly hot, and we care for ourselves. if we are covering our body and lowering our gaze, then the colors we wear arent our fault about gaze but ratherly the mans fault. if you are interviewing someone, you will be in the spotlight. there are many moments in life where we will be in the spotlight. A man should lower his gaze, it cant be that a woman has to do everuthing to the point where she cant even embrace herself and wear colors.
@tavosman45646 ай бұрын
This man playing God. He is creating rules and expect us to follow his feeling and personal rules. People like this guy push other people away from Islam. The goal is to dress modestly and cover the bodies in order to respect oneself and others. Islam means peace, and submission to God.
@Roshany_5116 ай бұрын
nope thats not something he made up it is said by Allah that it should not be something that draws attention before coming to comment on someone go get some information
@user-yp8tv4gf6d6 ай бұрын
@@Roshany_511get a brain may Allah guide people like u. Claiming stuff as haram which isn’t haram is a sin
@Roshany_5115 ай бұрын
speak for urself get some information about hijab or abaya then call me brainless @@user-yp8tv4gf6d
@SShahids5 ай бұрын
And how Islamic is it to bash each other disrespectfully even if you have difference of opinion. Your opinion may differ from sheikh because you may be more knowledgeable but he is still spreading the word of Islam so how is it right to disrespect him
@hijaraabangad45555 ай бұрын
Agree. We may all have different interpretation and understanding but we all have one mission and that is to obey ALLAH s.w.t to best of our capacity and WE as muslims, we should respect one another and spread kindness and peace. Salam to all.
@struggling124 ай бұрын
Bright colours are haram in islam
@tetrobunn-31753 ай бұрын
"There is no mention of dress colors in the Quran. Muslim women may wear any color of clothing they would like" . these are a mufti's words