I agree with you Benjamin.At 23 you are still young and not mature enough.Some girls get married very young to the wrong person and later come to regret.
@ruthjere83874 жыл бұрын
They're some who find it early and get married but for some it takes so long... Age doesn't matter God knows what's best for all
@nikitatuo63604 жыл бұрын
Such a talkative man like Benjamin is hard to deal with though I love his ideas. He's smile is so brighter than all my relationships
@tttholu-thando63964 жыл бұрын
Aww this is the same man who said marrying at 40 is not good and called it a Sin now being married at 23 is wrong Awa... Lemme tell you something y'all God's timing is never too early nor too late. You take God out of your relationship then you will be confused but put him in and you will be happy at any legal age. But guys it's my opinion am not opposing any point made.
@Samone6814 жыл бұрын
Love this... It provides you a different perspective.. Don't be overly invested until he makes you exclusive.
@salocalbroadcast96873 жыл бұрын
People fail to understand that even if you do get married in high school what Benjamin is saying is that people grow apart and end up staying in the marriage for the sake of parents and people,they are most likely to be unhappy. If not unhappy, pretty much bored the fxck out of life. Married at 23??lets be serious now! By the time you reach 27 you'll be looking 45. I think the ideal age is 27. If a man wants to marry at 23, he should be willing to wait for you till you've unleashed your inner being successfully...
@lucyc12234 жыл бұрын
I totally agree, grow as a person see where your career is taking you or your bussiness (Have your own vision).Date so that you will know what you really want and what you dont want.Take time to pray and develop a relationship with God so that He will guide you and when the right one comes you will know.
@nurugizani30754 жыл бұрын
I agree
@cynthiaesther52274 жыл бұрын
You are talking like this because most probably you are still single, stop consoling yourself face reality. How many ladies are financially stable but walking everywhere looking for a husband which they haven't found. If your right person comes it doesn't matter your age, God first and the rest will be a success
@isaaczulu28494 жыл бұрын
There people who met in primary school and got married after finishing there school and to date there together stop deceiving people marring early or late doesn't guarantee a happy home marriage
@eduurono63134 жыл бұрын
Age doesn't matter it's only God who 🙏 bless the family
@nancieprincess73634 жыл бұрын
True
@rachelwaweru84794 жыл бұрын
Very very true,put God first in everything,🙏🙏🙏🙏.
@bonfacemacharia87124 жыл бұрын
Look at the effort one puts if someone is interested in u they will put in the effort to see u
@eunicewairimu50154 жыл бұрын
There is some lies and perception here.!! Some people got married at a very Young age no so called "explore" and their are still there, some got married at 30s.... And their didn't last 🤔ndoa hulindwa na mwenyezi mungu is not about age..
@ednanyaboke45364 жыл бұрын
Exactly marriage Ni Mungu
@rosenyokabi6084 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@barbaramacharia24934 жыл бұрын
marriage ni Mungu pekee because honestly not everyone has the strength to wait long and some people actually find the right person really early
@nurugizani30754 жыл бұрын
Its v.hard though
@farhiyaa48804 жыл бұрын
Men should wait till 30s to marry - he will have accomplished many things by then. But most women benefit from getting married before 28 years. Career cant replace the desire for having children and a husband. You can always return to career when children are in school. It becomes hardest for women in their 30s, 40s...men their age is not interested.
@maryliam57094 жыл бұрын
Lakini joyce ni kitu she is so beautiful
@yudelleanlisatajirikenyana45194 жыл бұрын
This guy is funny 😂😂😂
@thandazalengs26034 жыл бұрын
thank u Benji iv been preaching ths to my sister that females should not be leading relationships whr men r not clear on wht thy want. If thts the case a lady should walk...really just stop co-operating, move on. Bcz sometimes he has more thn 1 lady n wants to c which is which so keeps u waiting. Move on baby gal
@marialaxmi68534 жыл бұрын
I got married at 20 three years late I got my first born n trust me its amazing this is a myth n even a fifty yr old woman anataka complements from the man she loves
@Shortie5664 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with this guy.... Sometimes some people get in good relationships that early.
@ednanyaboke45364 жыл бұрын
U can marry mtu wa miaka mingi pia for nothing
@nurugizani30754 жыл бұрын
It will be a roller coaster
@amen35454 жыл бұрын
That is why he said MOST people, he is not applying to all - hence he is right, well I think he is!
@ashleyzihowa7178 Жыл бұрын
Problem is you are failing to get the point here. You might have a good marriage but your potential for a better fulfillment and reaching your dreams is totally left unattended.
@ManisoPreddi954 жыл бұрын
I am now at the age 25 and my husband and I have been together since 13 years old. We married at 20.... So. Yes we have had our shortcomings but that's just like any other couple. We know older couples who still don't understand marriage. And others who have come up to us and said they want their marriage to be like ours. So with that being said if God gives you your mate at a early age. Why wait, our timing can NEVER compare to God's timing. But the things is knowing that God sent him or her to you and not your flesh being infatuated with that person.
@karenmwendwa10304 жыл бұрын
Like seriously married at 20 for 13years and now you are 25.what about 33.I think ladies attended a different maths class for calculating their age😂
@judymaina25974 жыл бұрын
@@karenmwendwa1030 they've been together since age 13 not married for 13 years.
@thulisindane99894 жыл бұрын
@@karenmwendwa1030 Read to understand, not reply.
@Sekhere2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@bingimwenyewe54164 жыл бұрын
Sound is very low
@jazirahjey4 жыл бұрын
I just found this dicussion ..but i judt fall on love with it..thanks much ...mr.Benjamen and u pretty lady ...blessings
@isaaczulu28494 жыл бұрын
Nowadays marring a lady who's 25 means you are the 26 man in her life
@sharonmuga9432Ай бұрын
No problem you can go and marry your sister who is the first in your life!
@jacksonatonya95424 жыл бұрын
Dating people need to hear this.
@millicentimbuchi17154 жыл бұрын
I love your discussion guy and am learning more.
@cutekenyan16794 жыл бұрын
I know people who married at 22 !
@emmaculateaokoochieng69114 жыл бұрын
Wow,,like where you say shake the water 👏👏👏😆😆😆
@davidkirugo86604 жыл бұрын
Ur opinion though. not to everyone
@joskyshams47584 жыл бұрын
Preach it!
@georgeochieng80134 жыл бұрын
That chick is endowed weh na venye ana upole ... redcross sojas Black lives matter
@catherinekhaitsia8694 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the show but dear there people who denied themselves at the early age but right now they are just in dilemma, and there those who got married and they are successful, ie marriage is God's plan age doesn't matter
@mykolvanking54694 жыл бұрын
Some are lucky to find good Partners right from an early age, then let it go simply because of age...or maybe they were young. It's so sad.
@kama61964 жыл бұрын
Who told this one he is the one who determines what age people should marry, there is no formula. Same person will say at 40 you are old to marry. Nonsense.
@bingimwenyewe54164 жыл бұрын
Love it
@Empowered_University4 жыл бұрын
very very true
@puritymanguya52783 жыл бұрын
Hahaaaaaaaa this one made my evenning p
@Vuvu_Vuyanzi.4 жыл бұрын
Really true
@ericawanja17494 жыл бұрын
Likes for anyone below 23😅😅😅
@ummimaridhia47454 жыл бұрын
Hahaha nice one though
@adaaproject84324 жыл бұрын
Pls English
@crochetwithcharity4 жыл бұрын
Hapo kwa kuexplore ni gani?
@bigben34624 жыл бұрын
I hope he doesn't mean what I think otherwise morality should be observed among the young generation
@tracydebora32924 жыл бұрын
Watching this at 25 married for 7 years with 2 kids🤷🏾♀️ irriz what irriz
@ksubsnovideo-yv1qe4 жыл бұрын
Nyinyi ndio mkifika 30s mtaanza kutangatanga na younger men, no offence tho.
@tracydebora32924 жыл бұрын
Fuck you and your stupid opinion, did you hear me say I was miserable or unhappy? Get a rocket ship and go fuck yourself out in space kanyeshee mbali na comment yangu.no offence my foot
@chepkorirvicky75584 жыл бұрын
@@tracydebora3292 why are you mad all of a sudden?
@thenetwork10453 жыл бұрын
@@ksubsnovideo-yv1qe this is sarcastic have manners