That’s the hard part, being called lazy when you know it’s not true.

Adulting for me is all about routines. If I have a routine for it it gets done. If I don’t have a routine for it or something is different from my normal routine, I just wander about in a brain fog trying to figure out what to do. Also having a to do list for chores is vital. Without one, I spend more time finding something to do or bouncing between tasks than actually working.

Oh my word, the whole "Well you were just lazy in high school" hit me so hard. I was *always* called lazy in an affectionate sort of way by adults around me, enough that I internalised that and just casually saw myself as someone who "just doesn't have that much self-discipline". I was the clever kid that didn't usually have to work to do well in school and the few times I did need to put in some work, my "lack of self-discipline" meant it got really difficult for me really quickly. And since I was "the clever kid", also being "lazy" wasn't seen as a huge problem by the adults around me - so it was just a case of, "you're a bit lazy, but you're doing fine so I guess it's just a personality quirk that you'll figure out when you grow older". And I also had some major anger management issues at home in my teens. (I've had *some* anger management trouble as an adult too, but it's been less dramatic and more manageable.) I suppose this is my daily reminder from The Universe At Large to go get evaluated for ADHD for real ...

2:22 - "I missed a lot of deadlines. But I'll talk about that later..." A gem of a quote. Glorious. The embedded procrastination potential. Thanks for the great and brave video!

LISTS! Yes, lists for chores. Big one for me. Tricking my brain into doing chores using wireless headphones to listen to podcasts / music (so I don't carry the phone/laptop etc around with me for audio, because i'll end up being distracted).

So many people talk about routine. Its SOOOOO true. I started working after being a home maker for basically 15 years. I held a few jobs on and off, I work my butt off, but cant stand dysfunctional management. My last job blew my mind. Same issues. Compleatly different mind frame, (kids are older and way more self sufficient, turn in husbands' career was overwhelming positive for or family so I was very stress free and I had stopped drinking and had a better sleep and exercise schedule) So I immediately excelled in my new job. Heavy labor, chill small crew, I was also the only female. I did so well I was offered promotion to manager in another department. I talked it over with my family everybody said go fo it. BAM Immediatly fed me up. I kept my routine, but suddenly was working 11 12 hour shifts 5 to 6 days a week. My home life suffered, I starded losing my temper with my kids more and I started swearing after pretty much quitting my potty mouth. on my days off, I was lost, My home chores suffered, my hygine sucked, and my sleep would just NO. Staying up late watching stupid youtube just wasting away. So I quit. I approached my dr, told him multiple people said I have ADHD. Do I? he laughed at me 'darling, I knew that about you about the first 3 minutes of ever knowing you' we talked meds, I took adderal like the generic kind. Literally first dose, 20mg i felt my mind go from racing thoughts to clarity. I was motivated but not manic. I started on one end of my house, logically cleaned, I had great talks with my kids. I have functioned very well with adhd my adult life, pulling myself from sucidal depression to being very efficent and useful. Very positive and did the whole grown up mature thing. I never associated my inconsistency in motivation, my need to force myself to do tasks I really dont mind, let alone love, My mania I thought was from coffee, My distructive hiccups when my routine shifts to adhd. I just thought, Some women are really good at this stuff I need a bit more grace time. My new problem. Appitie SUCKS. and i love food and love to cook, I am very healthy and exercise regularly. But now I cant eat, i legit have to force feed myself. and I cant sleep. and I take my meds at like 7;30 am ive been on them a week, well 6 days with day breaks here and there on days I didnt neeed my brain power a smuch because it was like a hard labor day. does that make sense? My typing sucks right now because I didnt sleep a wink last night. so my eyes are a bit jumpy. I had to take my dose because today is a needed brain day. When will these strong effects wear off and my body get less amped up. Mond you im not this way when their strong in my system, Its when they wear off i start to feel a bit strung out, but not tired. I feel relaxed but cant like profit from the relaxed feeling. I like the dose, I tried half a few times and it was just too little. I dont want any higher of a dose. what am I doing wrong? I still get myself in bed for my sleep routine, Im actually excited to sleep because i am so much more productive during the day Im not fillid with guilt for being a crap show. BUT I CANT SLEEP. HELP!! haha!! Oh and I agree with so much of what this Lady said of her adult experience before the meds. The temper and hyper description from my husband. Very similar to my experience.

Thank you for sharing, I suspect I have ADHD, which probably explains why I get depressed at big holidays because, while I love having my family over, I get overwhelmed with all that I have to do for the big day. Happens every year for as far back as I can remember. I'm 65 years old. When the big family dinner is over, I am so happy that I was able to pull it off, I am so happy to enjoy my family (they're a great bunch) and then I revert back to procrastinating, having a messy house, putting off things I should be doing, being extremely disorganized... basically adulting.

Im a guy studying engineering and just got diagnosed with ADHD at 37. I went through the same run around of being diagnosed with depression and stuff beforehand for year (did much more harm than good). I knew I wasn't sad fundamentally. I can't get myself to clean my house because I just don't even think about it. But then I can't invite anyone around because I get anxious that they might think its a mess. Starting meds has changed my life because I realized that I have to prioritize things, I can't just focus on what I find interesting while the rest of my world falls apart around me. Thanks a lot for these videos, I find them quite inspiring and very relatable in my case. Cheers from Australia.

I was just diagnosed last week and I’m also 33 years old. So many struggles I’ve had throughout my life have finally been explained.

I didn't know I had adhd until I was trying to figure out my kid. I feel we both are adhd and Asperger's. Drs refuse to have me diagnosed with Asperger's, as it does not exist. And the label thing. They are concerned about the label, which concerns me about what is down the line for atypical people. I know this is what's happening with me, and I dont care if I get diagnosed. Writing things down helps. Organization is a major issue, as it affects time management. Buy I keep trying. Never give up. I use my phone to keep track of all my bills. I used to have an app that I wrote down all my tasks, so I knew when to do, and what to do. I would forget when I had last cleaned the toilet, ect. I had to make a list and write down what I did and when. Because I do this, I have finally acquired a positive credit rating. I am 50. Having a relationship that requires a lot of attention, for example another person with adhd, is torture. I cannot take care of myself and another adult. I have stayed single to keep my life simple. Neurotypical people just don't want to belive you have a problem until they see you have a meltdown. I have been abused by neurotypicals my entire life. They refuse to understand I am different. So I just avoid talking to men. They think you look normal, so they can't get it, and treat you like an asshole afterwards. The shame is absolutely bullshit. I will no longer be made to feel ashamed because of capitalist propaganda. Carlton cards says you are an asshole because you can't remember people's birthdays. But if you come to my house I will treat you royally, and my love is strong. I think adhd is the major problem most people we label as assholes have. We are called lazy. But we have to work 3x as had just to be in the room sometimes. This is why many with adhd end up on drugs or suicide.

Hi Sara, Thanks for sharing your story. I’m an 18 year old boy just a few weeks from ‘the test’. I explained to my psychiatrist and our ‘middleman’ that I believe that I have ADHD because after reading about the condition and listening to experiences from people like yourself and friends of mine with ADHD, I couldn’t be more certain that ADHD is a part of me. Never in a million years would I have thought ADHD would describe me, my struggles and my strengths so accurately. I always thought of ADHD as a condition that made it impossible for one to sit still and listen during conversations. Those two things never aroused suspicion in me, because I have no problem fully engaging in a conversation 9 times out of 10, with the one other time being when I’m simply uninterested. Now that I’ve done thorough research on ADHD, I realise that in fact, I do exhibit physical behaviours which are characteristic of it. I can’t stand in a queue without becoming anxious because everyone else is so still but I feel the need to either lean against something or pace around. When having a conversation, I notice that I’m observing my surroundings or delving into deeper thought about what has just been said, but I still manage to keep the conversation flowing every time without letting on that my head is elsewhere. I believe my intelligence comes purely from ADHD, as my brain won’t stop analysing something until there’s nothing left to be analysed. This continues to serve to my advantage in academia, but is certainly the cause of my depression, anxiety and insomnia. I apologise for the lengthy comment, I’ve just never shared my experience anywhere and I feel that this video is a safe place to do so. Im so glad I have some answers and some hope that things can get better now that I know what path to follow to be helped better. Thank you once again, Sara :)

Yay Sara! You made the Today show! Thank you for being fearless in sharing your story. I was also diagnosed in my 30s, and I'm grateful for a growing ADD tribe ❤️❤️

Thank you for sharing 💙 so much of this resonates. The shame, the messy house and my heart broke when your mom called.you lazy.

I related SO much to you!! I’m 33 and was just diagnosed with ADHD. I was misdiagnosed with Bipolar for years, and those meds made everything worse. There so much I’d like to say…but please know how much I appreciate you and for putting yourself out there. I have been experiencing everything you mentioned. I am seeing a new psychiatric practitioner that I do really well with. I’m looking into equine therapy that includes psychotherapy. Trying to find what works best. But lately I’ve been so overwhelmed and overstimulated by the things going on in my life that it’s been a challenge. Thank you so much for sharing. I need to make these connections.

I just got diagnosed today at 33. This video resonates so much with me and my experiences. My whole life has been chaos, a mess and I’ve spent so much time feeling like there is something inherently wrong with me. I agree, having the online resources and connection helps so much. ❤️

Thank you SO much. i am so glad to discover you. One of my main problems is trying to explain this to my mother. It is especially difficult for people to understand how your office/house/room can be such a mess and how that would relate to ADHD. I am not trying to look for excuses. I am just trying to help people realize where I am coming from, which usually seems like outer space to my family members. :)

'You were just lazy in high school'. Ouch. All my school 'career' (and it was a long one due to being held back, what should have taken 6 years took 8) I was told that I was a 'promising student who just needed to apply herself', and when I finally did graduate and went to uni, things really spiralled out of control with binge eating disorder and having issues trying to navigate life. I am undiagnosed, but the more I learn about ADHD, the more boxes I can tick. I'll be 50 at the end of this year, I am dreading the process but a diagnosis would really help. Now to actually make that phonecall and get the ball rolling.....

The last thing I want is to feel normal. I've seen normal. It's boring as hell. I cannot maintain it and trying just about broke me. I can be disliked for being weird and antisocial or I can be disliked for being weird and social. The first feels less personal. Sooner or later, my inability to blend in shows through and people start avoiding me. I'm tired of it. And I'll just have to stay self-diagnosed and unsuccessful because I went through a plethora of health care professionals, so-called, and each was more incompetent than the last. My experience with psychologists and their kind is that they go to college to get a license to push their own agenda. When I was a teenager they sent me to social workers because I didn't fit in at school. The way I saw it, I was being sent for therapy because other kids bullied me. The social worker kept trying to win me over by giving me treats. She had no idea what she was doing. I had one guy treating me for anxiety attacks as an adult, who kept telling me to buy "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff" and said my stimming was just me trying to find order in the world. I had someone doing biofeedback just sit and have me talk while I wore sensors and she wrote things down. At one point she stopped writing to say, "So you're intolerant." When I started ranting at her for it she went back to writing. To this day I don't know what biofeedback even is. I had one good psychologist but we were referred to him by a gung ho pediatrician who had been trying to medicate my kids without a diagnosis. Turns out the good psych also was very opposed to labeling so we got help with parenting but now I and my kids have no diagnosis. I don't trust psychologists or psychiatrists. There's no consistency of competence or skill or knowledge. There's a bunch of theories and someone who is just as flawed as I am playing God with my mental health. I'd rather finish my inevitable course of burning to the ground than get my hopes up again only to get more talk therapy from some wishy-washy stranger who doesn't give a damn about me once our time is up and the money is paid.

Hi there! I was diagnosed this year at 39! Thank you so much for these videos.

I am ADHD (also diagnosed around age 33 and I'm 62 now). I've been watching a lot of videos of women talking about their ADHD and when I hear the stuff about not having people come over to your house because you're ashamed, about not being able to "just clean it up" if it bothers you so much, and so on, I can so relate. As women, we're supposed to be able to run households and keep everything organized, and for an ADHD woman, that is so shame-inducing because we don't excel at those types of skills, so we feel woefully inadequate. At some point in my life, I just said "screw my house" I"m still going to go and do the things I want to do. So my house does suffer, and I still feel the deep shame, but at least I do get out and do things I enjoy. But there is always such a big price to pay when I do that. Like my house never gets organized. I can clean and it looks good for a few days but everything just goes to shit after that and I'm back at square one.

Haha! I LOVE having people over and don't for this same reason! Konmari has helped tremendously. Although thinking we'd have the debtors forcing us to evacuate at any minute and that I'd be too busy once the school term began, was the 'urgency' I needed. The novelty and hyper focus definitely helped. Although, knowing I should do an annual review - not helpful haha. I try and be more conscious when I bought things. I've taken leave off work to try and learn 'how to live like a normal adult' haha. I love that you also research these things ;). Thanks for taking the time to share :)

This is me to a T! Thank you for sharing. Your videos give me the reassurance in my self diagnosis and the hope that I can become a teacher. Next step for me is getting a professional diagnosis and taking the exams to get into a credential program! Best wishes!

Ohmygosh, you hit the nail on the head about the shame of not having a clean house and not having people over, when you really enjoy hosting, it's the worst part of my adhd. The shame is misinterpreted as depression so often it was driving me nuts. Like, of course I'm sad I don't have friends over because my house is a mess due to my executive dysfunction not allowing me to keep it clean!

Thank you for sharing this..I can completely relate🥲

I’ve just been diagnosed with ADHD at 35yo. It’s a blessing to have found your content, I relate so much! 🙏🏼✨

"I know I'm not normal or typical." I identify with that all the time. I got diagnosed at 42 yrs old and I'm very successful at work, but it takes my everything. I'm so exhausted and I am working hard on those systems. I also struggle with cleaning. My home looks ok, but I think about all the things I need to do all the time and I just can't do them. Now that I'm on vacation I sleep a lot and do one task at a time... Well, try to. Thank you for sharing this video ❤

Thank you so much for making this. I’m in the same boat but I’m 27. I’m actually getting a test October 9 and I’m kinda nervous. I truly believe I have this, and everything sounds like me. This had given me some confidence…

I Just diagnosed at 33 as well. When you said that you thought how normal people act made me laugh 😂😂. Because that exactly how I thought after treatment to the degree I thought I had autism with adhd 😂😂

Wow, thank you so much for sharing your story! I was recently diagnosed myself (27 male). Everything you said about looking what a normal morning or night routine looks like hit home. So much of your story is relatable to mine. So thank you again!

All of your information resonated with me. Currently on the path to being assessed at 53. So far, I have been it's unlikely, but I don't agree and will continue to advocate for myself.

Hawu kuri! I recently was diagnosed (sort of…let’s just say I related to your first assessment A LOT). So much of what you said resonated and validated my experiences. Excited to dive into your other videos

Thanks for sharing your experience.

"I needed that structure, it worked for me" Main reason why my first few years of college were so hectic and I ended up in debt because I wasn't attending class. Too much freedom, and no one to keep me on the right track. I managed to get a school that ressembled more a high school and get a diploma from there, which is great. I'm in the middle of a diagnosis, I'm already convinced I have ADHD, but for now, the doctor is putting me on mood stabilizers; I guess to rule out the possibility of Bipolar disorder as well (even though I don't function by phases and know exactly why my mood shifts). But anyway, thanks for sharing!

The anger at home when I was younger! Yessss. I’ve only now made the connection. I was also diagnosed at 33 (or 2 weeks before my 33rd birthday). My whole world has been blown open. Thanks for sharing!

Thank you so much for making this video I truly relate 💓 it’s nice to feel like I’m not alone and I’m not an idiot

58 and my friend suggested this was me. It totally resonates! 😵‍💫 Better late than never..

Goodmorning, Sarah Fuller! I just saw a segment on the Today Show on Adult ADHD. I also watched your video, on the struggles you have dealt with. As I am watching your video. I felt like I was watching myself. How do I as an adult at the age of 65 get diagnosed for ADHD. I have never been able to multi-task. I start a project and never finish it. Thanks for being so open about this . It has helped me so much, to know, that I am not alone in this. I appreciate your help with this.

OMG thank youuu for this video! I have not been diagnosed but my god you’ve said everything is what I have and continue to go through

Thank you for sharing your experience with us, I teared up when you mentioned not feeling alone. I was just diagnosed this past weekend and started meds right away. Day 1 was overwhelmingly easier than the rest of my days had ever been! It was an "AH HA!" moment for sure. I can relate with the shame of not being able to adult in the ways I expected myself to. Even when I shifted my expectations of myself and worked on dismantling my ablest ideals I was still feeling defeated. I'm so thankful to no longer feel so alone! :) I'm excited to learn more and find community so I can alas build patterns for my daily life that work for me!

Great video! My story is very similar to yours! Nothing ever got picked up on during my education because I always did well academically. I personally found I thrived at uni because (with a UK style degree) it allowed me to focus on one subject of interest rather than juggling my time between many. Plus, it allowed me to learn to live more independently while being surrounded by my peers 24/7. For people with adhd, having other people around to vibe off and use as an example makes a huge difference in helping to manage executive function issues. It took a global pandemic and being locked up at home alone for months for my life to totally fall apart, which then led to me stumbling on a self-diagnosis and recently a formal one. So I guess I have covid to thank for something? I wonder how many others found out in a similar way.

Great timing it's adhd awareness months. I just got diagnosed last week at 41. 😑 A new member of the club 🖕🏾

Yeah, that "you were just lazy" or "you are just looking for an excuse" and other stuff like that goes with our tendency to get from being calm into rage or sense of being rejected and alone, doesn't it? Even the closest people could be so "understanding", feels like beating my head against a wall sometimes. I'm 44, not diagnosed yet.

You are lucky they caught it so early! I got diagnosed at 56!

I was just diagnosed a few days ago (31yrs old). Our stories are almost identical, I did okay in high school and would go back in a heartbeat as well! We have all the same symptoms which is interesting. I always thought I was broken and was just dealing with it for yeeeaarrrs, it feels so freeing knowing it’s a chemical issue.

I was recently diagnosed, but the part where you were talking about having an 11th-grade reading level in 4th and failing out of honors English is the exact same thing that happened to me. I had to do a double-take.

Planners, sticky notes, watch, timers. All of these things will help. Funny story actually. KZfaq told me I had Adhd. I stumbled on the channel how to ADHD and then I watched Dr k healthygamer_gg KZfaq channel talk about Adhd and it was like yeah I have that and that and that .......

Oooh, I feel your struggle. But I really need to know how or where I can get that librarian cat picture/art piece. I only clicked cause I wanted to see the picture. Who would have guessed, I also have ADHD :D. Also writing this while still watching xD.

Thank you.

I remember in school my teachers used to tell my parents he's capable of doing good but he doesn't. 🤦

I can relate on so many levels.

Thanks for sharing 👍😊

Thank you for this!

It’s been hard for me to get diagnosed cuz of Comorbidities. I’m seeing my 3rd psychiatrist. I have my CBT therapist and ADHD coach. All that’s missing is a diagnosis so I can be able to get accommodations at work and school. My boss has been so gracious to allow me some accommodations when I disclosed to him about it. My first evaluation came back inconclusive because I had so much going on at the same time. My depression was severe and I was having a lot of panic attacks and anxiety. Thankfully with meds and therapy, coaching im doing a lot better but I still feel like I would benefit from an official diagnosis and meds. Meds make me nervous because I have GAD and that mixed with stimulants makes me nervous. But I wanna try it!! Good luck and be kind and patient with yourself ♥️

I can relate so much to you. Unfortunately I am waiting for my diagnosis and I can't do anything in the meantime.

You are describing me too. I have very few people over because I cannot keep up with clutter and cleaning. I only started seeing that possibly ADHD might be the cause when I was researching it to see if my youngest daughter has it.

I really need your help! I just turned 35 and got my diagnosis at 32. I don't have any specialists around me at all and I've completely exhausted every resource near me. My entire world is melting down around me, and I have been pretty paralyzed the last two years. I can't fix it, so I can't do anything. And I can't find help at all. I've broken down to every single person who has the power to help, that i can, that I know of. I've over shared my trauma and begged for help. Nothing has came through. It's all a dead end. I'm in a little town, and I feel like the help available is actually perpetually making things worse. I have 3 children, and since becoming a momma it's been my life's mission to end the poverty and mental health crisis cycles in my family. I am beyond failing. I can't even fix ONE thing, let alone the list of “literal priorities" that hangs over the list of “important." I've throwing away all the “to do" lists already.

Thank you for sharing this! I thought I was lazy.

I like inviting people over to see my messy apartment, because that motivates me to try to clean it before they arrive :)

I was diagnosed today at 32. Doing the KZfaq rounds right now lol

I get what you are saying.

Just found your channel thanks to the Today Show apparently we’re in the same city and I’ve recently been trying to get some ADHD help let’s just say it’s been a little difficult especially to get evaluated one behavioral psych Office told me it would be 13 months before they could get me in for an evaluation I just laffed and told her I’ll be in Leavenworth if I have to wait that long she didn’t get it I kind of have not been pursuing this for another couple months as these things are easy to avoid I need to get back on this wagon and see if I can get it fixed a little better one doctor did tell me he wouldn’t put me on any stimulants but if they worked I think it would be better

Same .almost same...tell me how you are helping yourself to be on time....what exercise or what therapy or what tips you will give..to stay organized...

I asked my physician about a diagnosis and she suggested we try a diagnosis when I’m back in school because I’m having all these issues. I tried talking about it before but got told I was attention seeking. Wish me luck for then hah

How do you figure out the difference between the person having, say, beliefs or actually some form of resistance in terms of emotions (like fear, guilt or shame) vs the actual thing like adhd? People can choose to not do certain things or do certain things because of various factors. In adhd, as I understand, many people don't do what they know they could be doing (clean something, prepare themselves for something, study, do more work, meet somebody, go out and meet their friends for some fun time and so on). How do you know if it's an issue of adhd or something else that could be, say, just simply forced through?

It's a shame you live in Ohio because I literally work as a cleaner haha, but all the way in Ireland. Cleaning is one of the few things that I actually feel like I can focus on most of the time! Although I can't say the same for my own house... Unless I'm procrastinating an assignment; then it will somehow end up miraculously clean and tidy from time to time.

I know I have add, was diagnosed yrs ago by my family doctor in the late 90's. Didn't get the help I know I needed currently, stubborn pride got in the way. Unfortunately I just quit my job of near 7 yrs, frustration with the work culture, way things were run, undervalued. I didn't tell my manager about it and left on bad terms, going to have to write a letter of apology and possibly explain it if I can. But then again knowing the work culture their might be a lot of bias against me cause I didn't reveal it, though I know the manager knew I had difficulties.

can you make a video on adhd daydreaming, brain fog

DX at 30 yrs old for me...in retrospect, lots of things in school made sense. ADHD plus childhood trauma...ADHD (in my opinon) greaty exacerbates those issues. I flunked out of HS. In Elem & MS..i was way above average.

I was diagnosed in my 2nd year of my PharmD program. Stimulants helped me get through the remainder of the program and it was great. However, I became a mother soon after graduation and it has been incredibly difficult trying to balance the stress/work load of motherhood and studying for my board exams even with stimulants… Any tips?😢

i was diagnosed a few months ago. I am 45 years old.......shocked and going through hyperfocus trying to figure out ADHD and what i can do naturally instead of being medicated.

Hi, you mentioned that your house is messy. How interesting that your video appeared next to the video about Obsessive Compulsive Disorder people that have spotless homes. Do you have lots of hobbies? Do you know where to find your things? If yes, then you have a livable space and not a model house. And your house was ment to be livable. Invite people over, it will motivate you to clean quickly. And if you invite people often then you will always have a motivation to clean. Motivation is what we need to be less depressed and keep moving. We just need to ask ourselves "What will motivate me to do things I want to do?"

Please suggeat any videos, books, information to learn about ADHD.

Thanks for the video. I was also diagnosed at 33 this year. Basically everything you mentioned here I could relate to. Look forward to watching more of your videos on the topic. I highly recommend a book called ‘ Brain Hacks’ by Dr Lara Honos-Webb, it’s about Executive Functioning which can help you manage your adhd a lot. Thanks

When I was in university I was told by a psychologist that I didn't have adhd because my report cards when I was a kid didn't mention being disruptive. However, everytime I see something about women and adhd it resonates so strongly and I see myself. And I did have a temper, was spacey, and really disorganized and messy as a child. Has anyone had a similar experience and found out that they actually did have adhd? I'm wondering now if he thought I was just trying to get medicated.

I'm 59 and was diagnosed about 2 months ago and when people who are wondering if they may have it as well, I encourage them to do a little research, not a lot of research because you can really fall down the rabbit hole, or getting off on nonsense tangents. Like tiktok for example has content that makes it look like literally everything is ADHD

What's hard for me to justify actually going to get a legitimate diagnosis is how popular it has become recently to claim/be diagnosed with adhd. Makes me feel like I might just be lazy or kind of dumb. It being so popular makes me gaslight myself into thinking it's not real.

Please do some more videos on adhd!!!

Is it a disease? Has it any time or age limit?

I hope you have found some adhd friends in real life who will be a good guest in your home :) I'm sorry your parents labeled you lazy.