AUDITING YOUR MARRIAGE | WIFE TALK FT

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Buli Makhubo

Buli Makhubo

Жыл бұрын

Hey Fam
In todays Episode We talk about the importance and benefit of auditing your marriage
Thank you to out wonderful guest Zizi Moloko for sharing and dropping gems
follow her here:
IG: / zizi_moloko
KZfaq: / @zizi_moloko

Пікірлер: 180
@mathapelomohaleroe1880
@mathapelomohaleroe1880 Жыл бұрын
Iam not even married but because Zizi is here, I had to follow bandla!
@nasiphingceza4627
@nasiphingceza4627 Жыл бұрын
Same here🤭🤭😅
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
And you definitely don’t need to be married ❤️❤️ it’s content for all to watch and enjoy 😊
@katlegopru
@katlegopru Жыл бұрын
Nam wethu! Ubeloved bandla 🥰🥰 love this girl sooo much! Her smile? Ghosh!!
@TalitaMda
@TalitaMda Жыл бұрын
Samee
@gin.k
@gin.k Жыл бұрын
Literally me!😄
@mapulemadi262
@mapulemadi262 Жыл бұрын
I can listen to Zizi talk the whole day bandla! I love her❤
@LefenyoEveryday
@LefenyoEveryday Жыл бұрын
“Don’t expect immediate change just because you communicated once”…I liked that point, people are computers that you can reprogram…they need time!! This was a wholesome conversation ❤
@boitu.m2080
@boitu.m2080 Жыл бұрын
Zizi’s face is the moment 😍😍
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Her smile is the cherry on top! Oh and you should smell her 😍😍 I say wow 🤩
@Missjay.Nkuna13
@Missjay.Nkuna13 Жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this, it’s so amazing to witness young women in marriage embrace and speak so well of being married. We are slowly moving away from hearing young couples speak so ill of marriages and I love it for us♥️As a married woman myself I’m taking away so much from this conversations
@kudzaifidze6121
@kudzaifidze6121 Жыл бұрын
I watched this because of Zizi ❤
@Kay_H441
@Kay_H441 Жыл бұрын
As an engaged woman I am so grateful for this conversation. Thank you ladies❤
@paballopule9929
@paballopule9929 Жыл бұрын
Wife talks are truly a blessing to us Buli! I'm not even married, but I'm always camping here! Beautiful conversation as always, love you both😍
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for watching and being so kind ❤️
@CCME029
@CCME029 Жыл бұрын
This is a collab I didn't know I needed!!! I love love love this ❤️ Thank you Buli❤️
@itumelengmbane5922
@itumelengmbane5922 Жыл бұрын
Please ndiyamthanda uZizi dhiye 😍💃🏽♥️
@zethudhlodhlo6478
@zethudhlodhlo6478 Жыл бұрын
I love how Zizi referred to advisors (pre-marital counselling) because they’re able to provide scenarios you wouldn’t have thought of because their experience guides things to think about and that’s invaluable. Thanks for the video ladies!
@MrMphongoma
@MrMphongoma Жыл бұрын
Hello ladies I come from Zizi’s channel😀.Buli you have scored yourself a new subbie ♥️
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Awww what an honor . Thank you and welcome 🥹❤️
@tarirompho6074
@tarirompho6074 Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of a pastor the video was one of those which was seculating on the internet. He mentioned somthing like wen u are a wife and a husband sometimes reason God does not answer neither the wife or hubby prayers is cause ther not aligned. How does one ask a car and another house like who is going to answer so u need to sit or pray and get to the point that u all want a house or u both want a car. Which I think leads back to take stock , have a monthly meeting, weigh in like u weigh weight every month after consistently going to the gym.
@keabetswekhalo8223
@keabetswekhalo8223 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video so much...watching this as someone who is not married has given me clarity on how I should approach marriage and relationships in general. May God continue to bless you Buli ❤
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
And that means the purpose of this series is fulfilled! I’m so grateful ❤️
@nompilopatience1393
@nompilopatience1393 Жыл бұрын
Buli always puts a smile on my face xem 🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for bringing this beautiful queen on Wife’s talk..ngyamtsanda losisi❤️❤️
@bangibabs
@bangibabs Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful conversation and here’s to speaking positively and realistically about marriage 🥂🥰💯. Marriage is so so beautiful when you are intentional and have a lot of honest conversations with our spouses. Lovely lovely discussion.
@SunshineDeeKay
@SunshineDeeKay Жыл бұрын
Hey Buli. New subbie here!! Marriage glow up on you ladies is so pure. I just love how authentic both of you are respectively on your vlogs.♥️♥️♥️
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much 🥹❤️
@leratotsita26
@leratotsita26 Жыл бұрын
You could not have chosen a better guest, Zizi is such a hun🥰
@matodzidavhana
@matodzidavhana Жыл бұрын
Zizi is wise. God bless you guys. 🙌🏾
@kgomotsomoloto3962
@kgomotsomoloto3962 Жыл бұрын
Started following Zizi'a channel last year and honestly i learnt so much from her and how i want be as wife. Definitely my favorite episode so far coz she is such an apologetic and amazing wife. Love her so much. ❤️
@gugulethumthimkhulu6480
@gugulethumthimkhulu6480 Жыл бұрын
What is this 😍❤️❤️❤️ so so happy. To see this my favs in one video . Can't wait to watch
@shamimnomphelo1628
@shamimnomphelo1628 Жыл бұрын
I'm here for Zizi ke sana
@katlegomalau6309
@katlegomalau6309 Жыл бұрын
Hosting my fav!😝...beautiful my ladies, really enjoyed this
@lindyn4
@lindyn4 Жыл бұрын
Major lesson:Patience when you voice your concerns, I like the point of someone is coming to our place are u happy with that?Thanks ladies I feel like now will follow Zizi
@hopethani523
@hopethani523 Жыл бұрын
Two of my absolute faves seated together 🥹. I cannot wait to indulge in this match of authenticity🤍. Love you both tons🌸😘
@buyisiwembatha6698
@buyisiwembatha6698 Жыл бұрын
Buli, you are a great host/interviewer.....I love how you listen, allow your guests to speak and also share your experiences respectfully...... Your heart and respect is everything ♥️
@missauthenticme6390
@missauthenticme6390 Жыл бұрын
What an honest conversation! Thank you for the treat ladies.
@aliciamudumela1383
@aliciamudumela1383 Жыл бұрын
Yes mama ka Esi. Another wonderful episode. Thank you for this; learning so much from this wife talks.
@Tshego_LIVE
@Tshego_LIVE Жыл бұрын
On the issue of personalities I relate so much. My ex was so extroverted with a big community of friends. I, on the other hand, a homebody. We fought so much because I'd often feel neglected and when I tried to meet him at his level I'd feel absolutely depleted. Thoroughly enjoyed this video. Thank you ladies ❤️
@refilwemahlanyane8787
@refilwemahlanyane8787 Жыл бұрын
Currently feeling the same way
@HlobeezHive
@HlobeezHive Жыл бұрын
Thanks yall this is very insightful for newly weds and people who are engaged. These are things we tend to overlook and this video made me realize how important they actually are.
@leratoserwalo9494
@leratoserwalo9494 Жыл бұрын
Zizi Gang!🥳🔥
@Andy-hz3nm
@Andy-hz3nm Жыл бұрын
Zizi Moloko❤️❤️I love her and i could listen to her speak all day long..Great guest Buli..I am not married but listen im watching this episode because of Zizi😍Enjoyed this talk Buli ,great work mama💐💐💐
@prudencedantye9297
@prudencedantye9297 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful conversation guys! Definitely took mental notes lol. Had to watch coz Zizi is a fav❤
@mhigama9820
@mhigama9820 Жыл бұрын
Wow the smile I have while watching is on another level as I love both of you guys ❤❤
@zinhlelungilegama1049
@zinhlelungilegama1049 Жыл бұрын
Zizi in the building....so excited for this one 😅💃
@leratoranamane9529
@leratoranamane9529 Жыл бұрын
I love Zizi so much 🥺❤️ Thank you for this video sis Buli ❤️ Take home: Preparation is key - start those conversations earlier on 🌟💯
@onenkosisimilemkize3191
@onenkosisimilemkize3191 Жыл бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. Love Zizi ❤️ thank you for this video.
@thembiditshego6924
@thembiditshego6924 Жыл бұрын
This will definitely be my go to video, all the time ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽
@Kamogelo_Langa
@Kamogelo_Langa Жыл бұрын
Wow!!! What an eye opener, thank you for this Buli and Zizi.
@Sissy_Ngwenya
@Sissy_Ngwenya Жыл бұрын
Will definitely be implementing this in my marriage. Thank you ladies ❤️
@SineNkosi.
@SineNkosi. Жыл бұрын
Listening to the informed wives. So inspiring even to us who are not married.
@londiwemadondo3350
@londiwemadondo3350 Жыл бұрын
Love Zizi ❤ Loved this conversation. Reminds me of how we're early in our relationship and marriage this was kind of revival thank you. Thank you ladies.
@nwabisabottoman1812
@nwabisabottoman1812 Жыл бұрын
I'm at the office ,but only viewing notifications now.. can't wait to watch.. My two favorite wives together😘❤️
@bridgetgalane2963
@bridgetgalane2963 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥😍Quiet learnt alot especially about communication and Finances in a relationship 🙂
@muswa3805
@muswa3805 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for Mrs. Moloko. We love her so much!!
@letshegomancoe4481
@letshegomancoe4481 Жыл бұрын
These conversations are always so good.
@samukelisiwengxongo134
@samukelisiwengxongo134 Жыл бұрын
These conversations are the hill im gonna die on bandla♥️I appreciate you Buli your content is everything.
@aobakwemoeng8628
@aobakwemoeng8628 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sis Buli for always giving us such wonderful conversations with all these beautiful women 🥺❤️
@naleditendanimoloi
@naleditendanimoloi Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love these conversations 💕
@thelivingexperience5323
@thelivingexperience5323 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely lovvvvve this segment. Thank you for bringing such conversations to us.
@EverHopeful555
@EverHopeful555 Жыл бұрын
My girl Ziiiiiiiiiiiiii ☺️😍🥰 love her sana!!
@matseliso3344
@matseliso3344 Жыл бұрын
Buli, only discovered your channel now, my goodness. Totally love it. I'll catch up. Loved this vlog! You both are so warm. Beautiful topic girls❤
@roselineuiras8603
@roselineuiras8603 Жыл бұрын
Information well received. Thank you, ladies.💖💖🌼🌼🌹🌹
@tshamaanonemurangoni4402
@tshamaanonemurangoni4402 Жыл бұрын
Zizi speaks with so much knowledge and wisdom...girl you and Buli should host an event were we have such talks love thisss
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
I’m hosting my first event on the 1st April 2023 I hope you can make it ❤️
@yethugamedze7317
@yethugamedze7317 Жыл бұрын
Mine ngititsandzela Zizi wami❤
@leawilbard6416
@leawilbard6416 Жыл бұрын
Here for my dear Zizi 😍😍
@thembiditshego6924
@thembiditshego6924 Жыл бұрын
Oh Zizi, so much wisdom wethu. Love you loads ke my dhiye ❤️. Thoroughly enjoyed this video ❤️❤️
@lindyn4
@lindyn4 Жыл бұрын
I heard it a lot but 9 years later I truely understand and I'm learning that marriage is effort(esp.when there are kids involved) just like any other things u want to grow in your life like money.
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams Жыл бұрын
Guy's mna anditshatile but I love me some marriage content. Just getting to learn more about the institution as a whole...I'm big on love. I love being somebody's baby
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
This is why this series exists. Equipping you so that you thrive and do better than some of us when the time comes ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for watching
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams Жыл бұрын
@@BuliMakhubo Thank you for the series sis. It's super educational❤️
@ongeziwengodwane5673
@ongeziwengodwane5673 Жыл бұрын
Yho I loved this so much I even subscribed
@phumzamayekiso5156
@phumzamayekiso5156 Жыл бұрын
Owww I enjoyed this conversation between these two ladies, very educational and learning other things about marriage. Nice work Buli and keep it up, girl.
@bettygugumoyo8512
@bettygugumoyo8512 Жыл бұрын
I love Zizi, had to follow her here
@cindy_andrews5346
@cindy_andrews5346 Жыл бұрын
I love loooove Zizi❤thanx Buli
@matodzidavhana
@matodzidavhana Жыл бұрын
This is my favorite episode 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@violetmoabelo3083
@violetmoabelo3083 Жыл бұрын
I love Zizi so much. I could listen to her speak all day. Loved this conversation. Thank you Buli. ❤️🥹
@mmamolemomodisadife2726
@mmamolemomodisadife2726 Жыл бұрын
This was beautiful. Thank you. I have ended a relationship because I pointed out the fact that the person is terrible with money and he got offended. I figured that he's clearly not willing to have uncomfortable conversations. And that's not going to work for me.
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
This is wise . It’s not easy but it was a wise decision ❤️
@nzalisekocutu9801
@nzalisekocutu9801 Жыл бұрын
In your next relationship try and be gentle with your approach. Some people are "terrible" with money because it's their trauma respoce to having grown up in lack. So when you want to address such behaviours, be gentle so that the other person can feel you are a safe place and being a safe place allows the other person to open up easily to you.
@mmamolemomodisadife2726
@mmamolemomodisadife2726 Жыл бұрын
@@nzalisekocutu9801 mm.. Considering the fact that I'm blunt, I will continue to work on how to say things nicely. However, in this case, he grew up getting everything. He never knew lack. He was spending his money on food and not paying rent. That is an irresponsible adult. Not a cross I'm willing to carry.
@nzalisekocutu9801
@nzalisekocutu9801 Жыл бұрын
@@mmamolemomodisadife2726 Valid sis!
@NandiMate
@NandiMate Жыл бұрын
I am definitely pinning this. I know I will need to come back time and time again to soak up the knowledge. Thank you Mrs Moloko love you and Mrs Makhubo
@ChefSharon263
@ChefSharon263 Жыл бұрын
Zizi is so beautiful shem.. thank you for this video ladies! Learnt a lot..
@Prism446
@Prism446 Жыл бұрын
M here coz of Zizi ,her aura is on another level .Love you Zizi 😍
@aobakwemoeng8628
@aobakwemoeng8628 Жыл бұрын
These women are beautiful hey🥺🥺, Yoh sis Buli you so gorgeous mama😍🥺
@ladye1253
@ladye1253 Жыл бұрын
Lalela Buli, this was the initial reason I loved your channel, I love the content and nawe futhi. Thanks for awesome content.
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Thank you sis ❤️❤️
@SibuleleTafeni
@SibuleleTafeni Жыл бұрын
Just discovered wife talk and am grateful. The talks are so difficult. I hope one day will reach this point with my hubby...
@wewemhlaba7593
@wewemhlaba7593 Жыл бұрын
My girl Ziz❤❤❤Well done Bulz for this segment
@mothebaagnes7377
@mothebaagnes7377 Жыл бұрын
Marriage embrace, what a fruitful conversation. keep the fire burning Ladies. Lenyalo kela Modimo.💌💌💌
@nomfundosammy2689
@nomfundosammy2689 Жыл бұрын
💃💃💃💃 yazi I was about to ask you to invite Mrs Zizi Moloko, Buli you read my mind🤣🤣🤣
@kozibamtyutu6507
@kozibamtyutu6507 Жыл бұрын
❤ wow loved the conversation.
@lindomhlungu8158
@lindomhlungu8158 Жыл бұрын
This has been my fav video in this series. So relatable and learnt quite a lot from it and a lot to take home. Thank you Buli.❤
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Yay! ❤️ thank you for watching
@arinahosharon6354
@arinahosharon6354 Жыл бұрын
Yoooh this was soo beautiful hey👌👌yooh as for bringing someone in the house without being told im going through that hey my inlaws even have keys to our house they come as they please 😭😭😭it really kills me inside that i dont have opinion over my home,marriage etc wenever i try to bring it up he gets soo defensive and start to say "you dont love my mom shes old just bare with her also on his pay day she calls 5am in the morning saying you must not dare forget me" ....like she controls everything ive evn decided not go back home on holidays because she will just rock up
@carolnamakay7797
@carolnamakay7797 Жыл бұрын
This was such an important topic to bring on the table. ✨✨✨
@tholoanamatoka9931
@tholoanamatoka9931 Жыл бұрын
Thoroughly enjoyed this, thanks Buli❤❤❤
@mpoomzadube1429
@mpoomzadube1429 Жыл бұрын
Not married yet but these talks are definitely needed i feel like I'm growing
@pontshophilathole3253
@pontshophilathole3253 Жыл бұрын
This was so needed. Also you ladies look stunning
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@PalesaMotang
@PalesaMotang 4 ай бұрын
I love this conversation so much and I think it can be used also in serious relationships and partnerships.
@tshiamochauke5915
@tshiamochauke5915 Жыл бұрын
Good points Mrs Moloko 🙌
@thembinxitywa9754
@thembinxitywa9754 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed watching this 👌 🙏❤️
@Tendani.Ramadie01
@Tendani.Ramadie01 Жыл бұрын
So much knowledge ❤
@ThembelihleBhengu
@ThembelihleBhengu Жыл бұрын
You ladies look absolutely beautiful ❤
@sikhanyisovenkile9588
@sikhanyisovenkile9588 Жыл бұрын
I'm here for Zizi!!
@siziphiwempayipheli2684
@siziphiwempayipheli2684 Жыл бұрын
Firstly how gorgeous are you ladies haibooo🥰😍
@senamilemkhwanazi697
@senamilemkhwanazi697 Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this video❤️❤️
@keneiloemyoli
@keneiloemyoli Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this chat..made me think about a few things
@FAYWACHO
@FAYWACHO 7 ай бұрын
I just love zizi, she is just likeable
@nicolletnyoni4371
@nicolletnyoni4371 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful conversation 😍😍
@azukiwempokeli33
@azukiwempokeli33 Жыл бұрын
My faves both in one video🥰🥰
@olwenenenoncokwana8943
@olwenenenoncokwana8943 Жыл бұрын
I feel sooo bad that all this time I have not subscribed, I feel like a criminal. Zizi kaloku is gorgeous and looking happy as always😍😍🥰Buli such a sober and lovely lady😍
@angantontela2493
@angantontela2493 Жыл бұрын
I am here because of Zizi😊❤
@phumezajonas8735
@phumezajonas8735 Жыл бұрын
Zizi 😊💕🌸
@akhoyengama8501
@akhoyengama8501 6 ай бұрын
Zizi is such an elegant lady yho
@tshebeletsoselela5237
@tshebeletsoselela5237 Жыл бұрын
Fave! I'm ready for taking notes 🥺❤️
@BuliMakhubo
@BuliMakhubo Жыл бұрын
Yay! ❤️ thank you for watching ❤️
@chockbrown1
@chockbrown1 Жыл бұрын
I totally enjoyed the segment
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