Avoid These 6 Common First Dating Mistakes

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In our previous videos, a lot of you loved our dating tips, so we're back with more to help you navigate the tricky world of first dates! In this video, we're diving into the 6 Common First Dating Mistakes" that can make or break your chances at a great connection. From awkward silences to overthinking, we've got you covered. Join us as we share relatable advice to ensure your next first date is smooth sailing. Don't let these mistakes hold you back - hit that play button now and ace your dating game!
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@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

If you got early access to this video, can you give us catchy title ideas?

@bfdifanboi2763 11 ай бұрын

How about “6 Ways a First Date Can Go Wrong”?

@viiiRA_ 11 ай бұрын

Your video titles are usually pretty straightforward, so I think it's fine how it is.

@SL999_ 11 ай бұрын

Idk

@Blue-Robin 11 ай бұрын

6 Dating Mistakes Everyone Makes

@arerayace 11 ай бұрын

First date lessons we can learn

@historyman1652 11 ай бұрын

I cant be the only one thats never dated before and i just watch these to make myself feel better about being single 💀

@ankitatheunicorn3670 11 ай бұрын

Same.🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑

@blazebradley4276 11 ай бұрын

I have dated online, but never dated anyone locally to me. Basic on other people experiences, it could be the best thing ever or a huge time waster.

@historyman1652 11 ай бұрын

@@blazebradley4276 Exactly. That’s why I haven’t dated yet. It would be nice, but it has to be worth the trouble, which it usually isn’t.

@blazebradley4276 11 ай бұрын

@@historyman1652 I advise that every man should focus on themselves, and getting rich. It will save alot of unnecessary headaches

@historyman1652 11 ай бұрын

@@blazebradley4276 hell yeah

@DaestrumManitz 11 ай бұрын

I have reached a point in my life that I realize complaining creates negative energy. Positivity brings results.

@fiusionmaster3241 11 ай бұрын

Indeed

@shywol6044 11 ай бұрын

yeah but everything’s seems to be labeled as a complaint nowadays. don’t even know what to say

@castleanthrax1833 11 ай бұрын

That depends on what (and how) you are complaining about, though, doesn't it?

@gentlenoob2576 11 ай бұрын

I disagree I’m a person that in fact can use negative energy to my advantage when you learn to control it it gives that bloodlust to stop at nothing to get what you want

@tripletflamesrainbowstarpeople 11 ай бұрын

Yes!

@EcpliseCrow 11 ай бұрын

✨Timestamps and Major Points✨ 1. 0:37 Over or Under Dressing 2. 1:34 Showing up LATE 3. 2:57 Complaining About The Service 4. 3:55 Bringing Up Your Exes 5. 4:51 Talking About Your Fetishes 6. 5:42 Making The Other Person Pay For You I hope all goes well on all of your dates! Have a good day!

@Kraven83 11 ай бұрын

Thank you, 7 min of life spared

@CBMOA 11 ай бұрын

😐… yeah, bringing up fetishes might not be the best way to communicate (because you may never know what the other’s fetish is, that would also scared me more) Under and overdressed might be a little challenging Also don’t want to show up late (that would be late at the dentist appointment) The others, I don’t think I should worry about

@h3llmag3 11 ай бұрын

Point 5 is one point that applies to me. I hope they would know first before we go deeper in the relationship?

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

Thank you for the time stamps!

@gregbors8364 11 ай бұрын

Many women expect the man to pay for everything

@wilshned 11 ай бұрын

I haven't "really really liked" anyone for a long time. I don't think anyone has ever "really really liked" me. Going out kinda sucks. It makes me feel invisible and reminds me that I don't have a friend group anymore.

@marianletterio 11 ай бұрын

I've been feeling the same way lately. I do have friends, but I rarely see them. Idk I just feel so unloveable sometimes

@mancitiss 11 ай бұрын

same here mate

@Erica-qy8rh 11 ай бұрын

My first date with my current partner was a breakfast date. We had been on the phone all night and it wasn't supposed to happen until lunch. He told me i could wear pjs if i wanted. I did and he thought it was hilarious. I guess it all depends 😅

@petepanteraman 11 ай бұрын

That actually sounds like a good date

@fatchicken4939 11 ай бұрын

Secert vid?!

@forever_put_at_ease 11 ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉

@chill_orange8374 11 ай бұрын

2:18 when you can't draw hands but don't want to remove them 💀

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

Or maybe it's a really large white mustache! 😭😭

@JoelDJohnson1986 11 ай бұрын

I love videos that talk about love, whether it's bettering your romantic life or showing self-love and self-worth.

@fiusionmaster3241 11 ай бұрын

Just the thing that we all need

@fiusionmaster3241 11 ай бұрын

A bit of love for everyone

@legendarykk9014 11 ай бұрын

Can't make these mistakes when you have absolutely no date.

@appleitree 11 ай бұрын

1. Dont expect that your fictional crush will call you

@DasHeino2010 11 ай бұрын

AH! Right in the feels!

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

Why you gotta call me out like that 😭😭

@appleitree 11 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go sorry, it's to prevent delusions 💔🤧

@Amber-mk4te 11 ай бұрын

This should be on a t-shirt fo real lol

@DasHeino2010 11 ай бұрын

It should be on a t-shirt after citizen solider made a song about it! ^^

@A55a551n 11 ай бұрын

Timestamps 1). Over or under dressing 0:35 2). Showing up late 1:35 3). Complaining about the service 2:57 4). Bringing up your exes 3:54 5). Talking about your fetishes 4:51 6). Making the other person pay for you 5:42 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@A55a551n 11 ай бұрын

@@xzvxzvxzvxzvthanks for the compliment 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@castleanthrax1833 11 ай бұрын

@@A55a551nIt was an observation, not a compliment. 😂

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

Thank you! :)

@A55a551n 11 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go not a problem happy to help

@justjames4 11 ай бұрын

I like the Romance Killer thumbnail. I wasn't expecting that series to be referenced on Psych2Go.

@bigbadbillb 11 ай бұрын

I went on a dinner date with a gal from school many years ago. She was late and kept me waiting at the restaurant for about 40 minutes.....with no apology or explanation. Needless to say, there was never another date after that.

@metarunner514 11 ай бұрын

I absolutely love romantic killer, so loved the thumbnail.

@kleinexpoetin 11 ай бұрын

Saaaaame so cool!!

@user-fz2gc2nc4g 11 ай бұрын

every night I pray for season 2

@Miraoao 11 ай бұрын

Romantic killer is so good for a short romcom

@Juuchan17 11 ай бұрын

I've never been on a date before, so these will help me a lot when that date does happen. Thank you for the tips!

@MirageATrois 11 ай бұрын

Ahh same brub, at least ill never have to worry about making these mistakes cus I’ll probably never be on a date to begin with

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

That's the spirit!!

@magnipettersson4432 11 ай бұрын

this video made me feel a bit better bout myself dealing with self critique when i show interest. i somehow always convince myself that im being pushy or something so i end up avoiding instead. evil cycle that is

@DarkOrderSolDjango 11 ай бұрын

Just be natural, it's tiring to play a role. Alos caring for what random people may think of you is like not jumping around because you are afraid that other players in a video game will think that you are crazy.

@katiekaboom7747 11 ай бұрын

On #5: I understand keeping a kinky fetish to yourself on a first date, but... isn't there something to be said for not wasting each other's time if your kink is REALLY out there? I have a friend whose date told her about his clown fetish on their first date - like, he had to be in full clown costume and makeup for sexy time - and it saved them both a lot of time since she was never going to be open to trying that.

@MusenSusen 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for the video psych2go. But maybe a video about how to handle love thoughts when being single could be a choise for your next video? Because there’s also a lot of single people out there, who just might not know how to handle all these thoughts about love for other people or in the end themselves, 😃😉♥️.

@XenoRaptor-98765 10 ай бұрын

Best case scenario on what to wear on a first date it’s best not to overdress.

@joshandrade8436 11 ай бұрын

Yeah i made lots of mistakes but this video gives motivation to never give up in life because something new will be in front of you

@sararatliff7707 11 ай бұрын

I totally clicked on this because of the Romantic Killer thumbnail.

@cringelord7776 11 ай бұрын

I love the casual simplistic animation style, don’t know if it’s because it’s early access, but it feels charming

@fiusionmaster3241 11 ай бұрын

Agreed

@mauro27279 11 ай бұрын

Dunno, for me it looks cursed It reminds me of Tails Gets Trolled

@ExBarb 11 ай бұрын

Who drew this?? It’s bit too different for me 😭

@cringelord7776 11 ай бұрын

Love how nobody has questioned the fact I made this comment three days ago

@ExBarb 11 ай бұрын

@@cringelord7776 I think you mentioned it in the comment already

@walkingthroughdusk 11 ай бұрын

How cute how you put Mister Hijiri Koganei & Anzu Hoshino in your thumbnail! Romantic Killer is one my most favorite Netflix Anime ever!

@Mello-208 11 ай бұрын

same!!

@maximilianmilesanhour6824 11 ай бұрын

That reservoir dogs reference was incredible. It caught me off guard because not even a week ago i met up with some friends to just hang out one afternoon and one of them suggested we watch it, so we did, and before that i had never heard of it in my life

@YosukeTakku 11 ай бұрын

I love getting hugs…

@quotastrider801 11 ай бұрын

1:36 this is why almost every Spiderverse character has relationship issues

@mbuguaoliverkibe4219 11 ай бұрын

I'm actually going on a first date with someone in a few hours, I'll take these seriously

@dilli5854 11 ай бұрын

Great advice for when the time comes for me, I need to build up my confidence in the dating world too

@bryanolsen827 11 ай бұрын

I’ve never been on a date before, so I’m glad I learned this now

@RyanNerdyGamer 11 ай бұрын

On the second point, when I need to be somewhere at a certain time, I usually head to a location within a reasonably close proximity well in advance and find something to do until it’s time for the scheduled activity. By doing this, I’m able to arrive on-time without having to sit idly waiting until then, and won’t be tempted to spend the whole time resorting to mindless tapping on my phone or space out from sheer boredom. I imagine I’d follow a similar routine when it comes to first dates, so I’m optimistic about my first first date (when it happens). 💕

@Peachikeen_ 11 ай бұрын

ROMANTIC KILLER THUMBNAIL????? That anime is mad underrated I'm genuinely surprised to see it here

@adia990 11 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this video, buuut tbh not really feeling the animation style this time around :( but it's okay it's just my opinion!

@iiantixsocial 11 ай бұрын

I think you should be the one to pay for the date if you're the one asking. You can even split the bill if you're both genuinely fine with it. I see all these women online who expect the man to pay all the time, because "he's the man", but most of the time, it's because they expect to be treated like a princess. They also make a big deal out of splitting it. What's the issue? You're both going on a date and spending your time with each other. If it's a $20 meal, split $10 each. It's not like it's expensive.

@castleanthrax1833 11 ай бұрын

Most women want chivalry, but they also demand to be treated as strong and independent. They don't want to "get special treatment" but atst expect special treatment BECAUSE they are "the woman" or you are "the man." I've come across woman who became verbally abusive because I held the door open for them, and it's probably the very same women who demand to go first in a "women and children first" type emergency. I completely agree with you that the person who asks, should be the person who pays, but I've been left looking really stupid when the bill came and she had no intention of pulling out her purse.

@iiantixsocial 11 ай бұрын

@@castleanthrax1833 As a woman myself, I don't understand those types of women. They're very contradicting. Guys like you should be treated right and with respect since you're being a gentlemen. I think it'd be best to discuss how you're going to handle the bill with the woman you're going on a date with, before going on the date to avoid feeling stupid. Just like how a persons character shows with how they treat the waiter/waitress, a persons character shows with how they handle the bill situation

@Vantitas 11 ай бұрын

I’m so glad that you kept it a buck with last one. Because the amount of double standards in the dating scene these days is utterly ridiculous. Specially the women that only push for equality & traditional values for whenever it benefits them while not holding up their end of the bargain.

@iiantixsocial 11 ай бұрын

@@Vantitas I agree and I'm a woman 💀 This is why I prefer dating my friends if we both have feelings for each other, so I don't gotta deal with the dating scene

@sselemaNrM 11 ай бұрын

9 times out of 10, women expect men to ask, so what's the point? Also I've been on dates where she suggests going out and picks the restaurant, but expects me to pay.. so its a lose lose situation if you're a guy in most cases, if you think that you can split on the first date without looking bad on you. Because most women are entitled these days

@IssaRaeOf10S 11 ай бұрын

Why are the drawings so creepy?!

@dianawh0a. 11 ай бұрын

Me gustan tus videos, son identificables y me encanta aprender sobre estos como fisiología!!!❤❤❤

@gehteuchnixan3052 11 ай бұрын

These tips might come handy should I ever figure out how to get dates at all.

@sweetyflowers9681 11 ай бұрын

Wow ! Thumbnail is romantic killer ! 😍

@screamlikecookies 11 ай бұрын

I never dated and I haven't planned such a thing. Alone from birth till death and freaking happy 'bout it😊

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

I think you got the right attitude! Do you think you'll ever open yourself up to go on a date? :)

@screamlikecookies 11 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go No, I don't think so. Humans are cruel and judgy and I can't trust anybody. I'm at the end of the 20s. But its okay for me. Maybe its is something for the next life.

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing. While I do agree that some humans can be cruel, judgy, and hard to trust, I'm also hoping that maybe you'll be able to meet people that you can trust, not just in romantic relationships! :)

@screamlikecookies 11 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go thank you for your kind words😊

@ferntheinkling 11 ай бұрын

ROMANTIC KILLER ON THE THUMBNAIL LETS GOOOOO

@jujuoof174 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for all the tips!

@_kayaa_ 10 ай бұрын

i love how Romantic Killer was the thumbnail ☺

@yukihitoshi_nya 11 ай бұрын

Got here in an hour. Glad I did!

@streberkind4863 11 ай бұрын

I really like you're videos a lot, but I kind of have the feeling that the audio quality get's worse every time I am watching them. I always have to turn up the volume and there is some 'white noise', which distracts me a bit, but that was never a major problem, until now, but I couldn't understand this video without subtitels. The intonation of the words and especially of the sentence got totally lost and the ever repeating melody made it hard to concentrate on the subject.

@Haurhaurharhaurharharharharhar 10 ай бұрын

THE ROMANTIC KILLER THUMBNAIL🔥🔥🔥🔥✨✨✨✨✨✨ its one of my fav anime's

@Jaystaysolo 10 ай бұрын

I love the thumbnail romantic killer was a AMAZING show

@eigenstate9611 10 ай бұрын

The service one is the most true. How they treat other people is so important because it’s how they’ll eventually treat you. The only one that I don’t necessarily agree with is being late. I’ve been on dates where people have been 10-20 minutes late. Not a big deal for me personally. I understand that things happen, traffic happens, and busses and trains get delayed. There are valid reasons for being late that won’t affect my first impression of you.

@oddlybored 11 ай бұрын

I've realy needed this vidoe❤

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

Thank you! Do you mind if I ask why you felt like you needed this video?

@oddlybored 11 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go I've had realy bad luck with relationships and sometimes it's comforting to know that I could do a little better and they also got to be apart of this. So thank you so much. And sorry for the late reply when you repyed it was 2am 😅

@sunkistbabe 11 ай бұрын

The last one is a bit off. I suppose trying to force someone to pay for you that has expressed they don't want to isn't proper behavior. However, a man that isn't willing to pay for dates will likely not receive many second dates. It sends a message of not being really interested.

@mikewatman5445 11 ай бұрын

Ah Romantic Killer was such a good romance anime. Sad there is no season 2…

@NewKibbleFountain 11 ай бұрын

there is no season 2?? noooo

@liamvachon8782 11 ай бұрын

I'm sure they're working on it!

@nabilsadik 11 ай бұрын

I've seen so many videos on relationships. But fun thing is I'm afraid to approach girls

@Astrofrank 11 ай бұрын

Same with me, but I can extend to women.

@fedem8229 8 күн бұрын

I've been in a few relationships already and I have always been afraid to approach girls and I am still afraid, so don't give up hope, it is possible

@bola_m_a 11 ай бұрын

Thank you

@RocBrew 8 ай бұрын

Lol I love this character design 😂💙

@Warriordan44 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this..

@Psych2go 11 ай бұрын

No problem 😊 Did you learn anything new from today's video?

@Warriordan44 11 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go Not bringing up ex's, talking about fetishes not making them pay.. Standard stuff just hasn't seemed to work for me yet..

@Jessica-3-c4c 11 ай бұрын

I'm 21 and had never been in a date...

@crow3370 11 ай бұрын

The dating world is not what it once was

@jassnow7298 11 ай бұрын

Hello such a great video

@averycanicus6092 11 ай бұрын

I do not understand #5. I want to know what kind of weirdo I’m dealing with before attachments are formed. Since “everyone is weird, but at least you pic the flavor” I like to know the flavors will blend instead of being one of the bodies that’s called so creative.

@hicknopunk 11 ай бұрын

Who talks about a fetish on a first date!? Wtf!?

@jhibehhhkkooo6t99 11 ай бұрын

I just clicked here for the romantic killer thumbnail🤣

@liamvachon8782 11 ай бұрын

Same

@BradyHughes-ed1de 11 ай бұрын

I've had two dating mistakes before. I mentioned my crush on a BeReal caption two days ago after my school shut down for two days because of Hurricane Idalia which was not far from my hometown and I posted another BeReal saying that I was going to try to bring my ex-girlfriend back to my school after getting rejected after her visit day even though she got expelled last year.

@priti3114 10 ай бұрын

the romantic killer thumbnail 😭

@fluffymango529 11 ай бұрын

I love these videos ❤

@hilda6045 11 ай бұрын

Man they made this video with the left hand

@FurbyCraftYT 11 ай бұрын

I clicked because of the thumbnail I love that anime

@AhsokaTano101 11 ай бұрын

That thumbnail of romantic killer got me so intrigued

@jbird1152 11 ай бұрын

I'm going on my first date ever at age 22 soon, so good timing

@christophersanders3252 11 ай бұрын

How'd it go bro?

@music..YunSoo 11 ай бұрын

Very nice good video Thank you ~♡ My good friend Have you a happy days~~ To see you again~

@Auricale 11 ай бұрын

1:22 bro came as peter griffin 😭😭

@jasmine...- 8 ай бұрын

IS EVERYONE JUST GONNA IGNORE THE ANZU AND HIJIRI THUMBNAIL?!

@MASTERCRAFT938 11 ай бұрын

05:43 If making the other pay for you is a mistake. Then the only option is to always pay 50/50?

@kingarth0r 11 ай бұрын

went on my first date ever for valentines day. All, and I mean all, these mistakes were made.

@Quin_BNK 9 ай бұрын

So u had an ex without having dated ever... wut

@theponystark 11 ай бұрын

Aww yeah, Romantic Killer in the thumbnail!

@dezrons5679 11 ай бұрын

when your past is being dumped on valentines without being told why and dating again only to be told she lost a bet and that was the only reason she was dating me..... THAT is hard to ignore.

@Ibrokemywrist 11 ай бұрын

Watching this even though I am 5000% single

@eve_the_human 11 ай бұрын

I haven’t went on a date in almost 8 years and that was because I was in high school so in case I decide to date again I will remember this video

@victorwallec2534 11 ай бұрын

never insult Mr. Pink. He tought me not to tip, best lession i ever had.

@quirkymixedgirl 10 ай бұрын

I’m just hear because they put Anzu and Hijiri in the thumbnail ❤😂

@pilotboy 11 ай бұрын

why is this unlisted

@williamheadland5533 8 ай бұрын

Would asking if they've dated anyone and what their dating experiences are be okay? Thankyou!

@ThatGenkiGirl 11 ай бұрын

WAIT ROMANTIC KILLER OMG I LOVE THAT SHOWWWW

@MonkyDollqueen 11 ай бұрын

😅 awsome video

@palaknain8494 11 ай бұрын

I love the fact that you watch anime 🤧

@baIIsy 11 ай бұрын

how many vids u gonna upload today?

@SL999_ 11 ай бұрын

Thia video is so cool!!

@meganwen 11 ай бұрын

7. Distracted by your phone 😭

@shinobuuu_ 11 ай бұрын

The romantic killer😂❤

@partygamer62gamereviewsand76 11 ай бұрын

Was that thumbnail from Romantic Killer?

@Texan.Insomniac 11 ай бұрын

Idk if anyone else notices buy the Romantic Killee thumbnail with Hijiri is very approriate for this video

@michaelflusche2634 11 ай бұрын

I've made them all, and I've been single for 13 years.

@RayPeng-07 11 ай бұрын

I think I could screw up in point 1 and eventually 4. The rest is fine I think . :>

@BabyZinc666 11 ай бұрын

I've seen the show in the thumbnail but I'm so mad because I can't remember the name!

@emerson7589 7 ай бұрын

It’s ‘Romantic Killer’ if you haven’t already remembered it (it has been 3 months lol)

@BabyZinc666 6 ай бұрын

@@emerson7589 lol thanks I keep forgetting it when I do remember or get told

@ConnorAustin 11 ай бұрын

I have only reached the first date twice second date once and in the opposite order 😂

@hicknopunk 11 ай бұрын

Exes are not baggage...wtf. They are your family. Shared bad times makes family.

@silverwurm 11 ай бұрын

By this logic my school bullies are my family

@hicknopunk 11 ай бұрын

@@silverwurm i didn't mention it is shared good and bad times. But if you shared meaningful, good times with your bullies...then you might be dysfunctional family. Family had nothing to do with genetics or blood.