That’s great!

ooooh, that's good.

Very nice Cheryl

but if you really listened, the problem is that you have disrespected yourself first

@@meyersonfire If she really listened to the narcissist?

I agree! When he used the term pathetic ness, I almost turned off the video lol! I believe being raised by alcoholic parents molded me to marry a narcissist, and now one of my kids resembles this also. I really have been working on setting boundaries but it doesn’t come naturally. Thank you JP for your honesty in this video.

Right?

Whats up with that nose bump dude?

YHWH 4PS only thing to do is witness the feelings when they come up and be gentle and loving to yourself. Don't judge yourself for the pathetic feelings you feel, just know it's not your true self. You are Beautiful and no one can determine your worth , Only your Creator can. Know you are loved 💗behappy it's coming up for release and turn it over to the Holy Spirit in you ...we do this together 🙏🏼

Truth is love. Lies are hate, even if they make you "feel good" for a short time. Proverbs 27:6 “Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”

Music teacher thank you, exactly right. I want to be loved but needed will do. I love to look after babies. My man was broken when he was a child I feel sorry for him. He is destructive and has rage. His mum said we had nothing in common. We both had injured inner child. 💜

Wow this was deep

Absolutely! I'm sure he means partners

Thank you for saying that. Now l don't feel like I have to stick up for us. 💕

Spot on as well. 💕

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It also happens the other way around-the. Hold paints you out to be a horrible abusive mother so “it’s your fault they can never heal”. Having to help a friend past her decades of being told this by her daughter. She’s coming around and getting out of the patheticness her daughter beat into her. I told her she let her do it but the daughter is wrong- she’s old enough to play her own cards in this game she’s playing-and you are not required to play just because she’s your daughter...your TOXIC daughter.

Beautiful comment. 🥰

Only the Gospel is Gospel and ...yes , this guy is great.

@@antinorum9820 I don't believe you need to "virtue signal" about the "Gospel", God already knows your heart. --->I was acknowledging the Gospel as the peak of truth, and comparing JP's words to that level of truth. It is a valid use, and not meant to diminish the Gospel.

SAME

You were /are an empathy not pathetic .

Same Thats because the only way the relationship can work is if you don't see your selfworth!! They slowly diminish it. Once you love you their game is over!

Self empowerment!

Same... Was such a toxic relationship... Love was only from my side, caring as well... He totally destroyed my self-esteem, my beliefs, even my salary was totally under his control... Eventually he left me and this was a blessing! As i understand now

you said my thoughts exactly ...

Like everyone loves their favorites youtubers

Are u making a example! or stating truth! Don't become the norm!!!! Normal is comformity x

Pathetic me; all the time I was listening to this I was asking myself "What's in it for me?"

Same

Thank you 🙏🏼 God bless y’all.

Yes, break that cycle! And with the Lord as the rock, His Book as the guide, friends who become family to replace the toxicity of your blood family, with like minds. It's more possible with God's help because it's a spiritual war.

Same 😭

Yes agree. Thanks

That's world wide, and the more we feel sorry for ourselves, the longer we're going to be in this relationship.

Yes it's time to put on the big boy pants and say fuck it

That’s a psychopath

Of course... with all the social media and selfies that we need likes.. has given narcissistic behavior to the masses and conditioned people. and political polarization on social is manipulating and cashing in on this. I hope people catch on. I know I had to do a lot of self reflection and growth to see it for what it is. Good luck everyone #Shadow work

@@aviladoom9424 we seem to be in the age of narcissism but I think we're starting to turn a corner

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Hope u treat him like a King! A royal relationship. 🙂❤️

Been working on this about the last 8 years myself. Still no one. Being alone is better than being with a narc so I guess that's progress... kudos to you

Hi jeez i just did that with my partner after 6 years. i been there and i hope one day i found a girlfriend that understands me too

While that is practical for those who are getting away from one narcissist, those who fall into a pattern of repeatedly getting into the same style of relationship with people who have the same kinds of personality traits is a pattern that requires recognition in order to break it. But the idea of self-esteem is actually pretty worthless, and might be what leads people into those kinds of behaviors to begin with.

Frank C worked for me!!!

No contact is fine, but one still has to examine what in their own life has caused them to be drawn to such a person. Self examination isn't for the faint of heart.

I don’t believe that it always has to do with the self-esteem. I had already worked on my self-esteem, and felt like my cup was overflowing when I got into a relationship with a narcissist. Then he did a world of damage to my self-esteem. I get what this video is saying… but I do believe it borders on victim blaming.

Absolutely! Truly the only way to be free.

Yup!

This is so true!

Amen 🙏😉❤️

You said the words I wanted to say.

Thank you for saying those words. I needed to hear them. 🙏

Same here. In the long run I really am trying to fix me so I can avoid the narcissist that may come my way again. This was a great serious vid from JP.

You only heard one sided analysis of empath of empathic psychology mind drug ! Which never leads to healing the world only deepens the wound and get far from dao!

Patheticness is codependency....and yes being pathetic i spent a lifetime with narcs....and i am a "vulnerable narcissist " opposite of grandiose narcissists! 🙂 4 yrs single and healing my shit!!

@@sunshinecompany1 you have to be careful this empath video is a conspiracy. Its actually a veil to something sinister! There are two kinds of people to say the least... Both can be toxic and can see each other relatively toxic but society uses so called empaths to control the other type because the other type can be dangerous to the system and can produce leader type people who may not be joiners to the new world order agenda ...while the controlled type usually due self suicide and may kill its own religion and identity just to join society no matter how crapy it may get!!! Of course yin and yang types can become bad or good!!! But here we have a social discrimination and an eradication of an essential type of human! Don't fall for it! You are extremely necessary to existence! But you will never get credit for it!!! You may become toxic if you try to get credit for it and of course you will not be seen for what you are ! And by arrogance no one will accept that you have any use at all! This world we live in is controlled by sorceress who don't care what becomes of you as long as you are being fed on in a pyramidal construct!!! And doesn't care if you die inside as long as u serve as batteries... But this system isn't forever. It is inevitability crumbling as any society before!!! You may the last of what remains of authenticity and you may go against yourself and destroy yourself just to fit in! But it may not work! Because what else can you be but yourself!

Can you send me some information on this?

@@lbeschrich Dr. Ramani is one of the best in field on this.

They can be genuinely loving but eventually, their own self-loathing won't allow for empathy in others. What is passive is sticking with someone like this when you finally understand what they are and accepting the false belief that you are to blame for their behaviour. You're never, ever going to fix this person, so you need to empower yourself enough to leave.

@@lbeschrich Check out The Laws of Human Dynamics by Brian Greene

Great! You will learn a lot on this subject from Dr. Les Carter.

Yes I went to therapy several times heartbroken, trying to fix myself and improve communication. It doesnt work with narcissists, you HAVE to cut ties.

Children who understand narcissism have tools to handle a narcissistic parent.

Yeah, I didn't watch much of this video, whether it's meant to be funny or not, because the first part is not funny. Bad relationships happen because either one or both partners is not after a relationship, but looking to use the other. Unfortunately, though, a selfish person doesn't enter their so-called "relationships" advertising that. We can all get used or have our identities stolen or become victims of crimes, but it's not because of who we are or something we did that makes us the perfect victim for it. That said, I do suspect narcissists seek out people who seem kind and forgiving, the types of traits that would make that person a wonderful relationship partner for anyone truly seeking a relationship, but unfortunately it also makes them somebody who can be used long term and repeatedly by a narcissist.

I came here specifically to make the same comment! I was raised by narcissistic parents and then married a narcissistic spouse because I didn't know any better. I'm fortunate enough that my husband has changed quite a bit since I've started standing up for myself.

@@Dawn737 Yeah I agree, I listened to the whole thing because someone shared it with me so I was curious - but I think his view is a little too simplistic. It's fair to examine yourself and ask what you could do better, or why you are drawn to unhealthy people, etc. But it's not always the case that you're with someone abusive because of *you*. And romantic relationships are not the only ones we can have with narcissists - if you have a narcissistic parent (which is the worst imo, but you could also have a sibling, boss, etc) you didn't choose this person but you need to learn how to handle them so as to not let them damage you.

Exactly.

Revrant Me too Omg

Me too! I was expecting this video to be satire, and I'm impressed with his wisdom articulate-ness. I thought I'd be disappointed if I was expecting a joke and got a serious talk, but I wasn't!

We expect him to be satirical all the time but in this instance he is dead serious.

It's really, really not satire.

Narcissism is incredibly destructive, i grew up with npd parents, its a dark place. Narcissists want to destroy you so they can feel important.

Especially if you are married to that person, have children with them and see the effects on the kids all along. It's like a watching a very slow train wreck.

Sometimes we are born to them. Those relationships are hard to get out of, too. Divorcing yourself from a parent comes with consequences like losing large numbers of family members, or being completely excluded from family for the rest of your life (but it was worth it).

Whirled Peas so true.

Yes, especially when it comes to a covert narcissist that hides behind lies and manipulation.

@@StephanieKraft yes, 50 years of a malignant narcissistic mother. No contact is the only way for me. Yes, many lost family members and more blaming and shaming from them. Still the only choice for my life and sanity.

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Modern day Jane Austin

Well the way he told us who we are (pathetic :-) ) definitely made me lough too. Two times he explained he was not being judgemental with "patheticnessist I loughed quietly and stil loughing as I remember it. :-))

Lol

jennybugs - i know, right?

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I steel foil my feelings

Most excellent truth. But, then, ability arrives with a willingness to change, urged by a conscience and the prompting of others around them.

HighFrequencyLiving you’re beautiful and you have another thing going for you which is you know your enemy. I hope you can use what you know to avoid attracting the same kind of person. My parents divorced when I was a kid my mom married a narc she’s still with him. He’s always been a loud mouth bragging Center of attention telling fake stories with his friends huddled around him. He would shit if we didn’t put on a good show in front of his friends. He interrupts conversations when he needs narc supply like praise. He just walks up and says check out this or something. His friends got tired of pretending to admire him so he got desperate for supply. My mom called the cops on him once and he’s talking to them at the front door saying what do you think of my new car? Just begging for any kind of acknowledgement of self worth. Dominating conversations was annoying but he has a bad temper and drinking problem. He likes to throw his weight around even now that he’s past 60 hasn’t changed one damn bit. I hate the man. I was talking to my mom a few years ago she called me and told me that he did the most embarrassing thing. They were moving at the end of the month so he made a picture slideshow on DVD with about 7 copies of the new place they were moving to just to make his neighbours go ohh wow it’s beautiful to get his praise. His brain cells are so dead from drinking and smoking pot for 45 years straight that he didn’t know that every neighbour was laughing at him. My mom said omg I can’t believe he did that I’m so embarrassed I can’t go outside ever again! He often emails ppl pictures of whatever new thing he bought to get praise that way since he figured out how to use the internet. Someone made fun of his dog calling him a runt and he was deeply offended😂 a couple years ago I wanted to put a name to his fucked up weirdness so I googled this: person who always needs praise and narcissist popped up all over the place. When my moms parents passed away he was like well I’m gonna order some new tv channels I can’t find anything good to watch. Lalalalala like nothing’s wrong no fucking empathy at all. My moms been saying she’s leaving him for 25 years..

here's how you deal with an ex who was/is a narcissist. You write a song & video where you rip the piss out of her !! kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fs6bld15vbCndWg.html

Unlikely you'll see this a year later, but the truth is painful when you haven't recovered from the experience. It is also true people can be intentionally harsh, unexposed as they are to the psychological mauling. When you've recovered, you will dissociate. Concentrate ~ Get well & don't read it!!

That was my experience as well. Taking responsibility for oneself is taking one's life back. How joyful is that? The bonus is that you get to cease putting thought into the narc. Why let them live in your head without paying rent. I was indeed victimized. I sure in the hell wasn't about to be a victim. I have that power.

Yeah i don’t think he is trying to be serious here. He is well known for his sarcasm and this video is more of the same. I’m am astounded that so many people have commented that they thin he is serious in this video!

@@gbsailing9436 he makes a lot of sense though and looking through the comments Seems as though his helped a few people

@@reginagilby1101 Oh you're right, probably because sarcasm hints at the truth we often know to exits in life, but we fail to acknowledge it openly to others - perhaps because we are afraid of what or who it might offend or hurt. We can acknowledge it in the safety of our homes and minds, and this makes us feel comfortable within ourselves.

@@gbsailing9436 I think so too, looking from a different perspective can be eye opening

@@reginagilby1101 I'm going to assume you'll know which to do first... 🤣🤣🤣

Sounds like something a narc would say

There’s a lot of truth in this video, but I bet you’re onto the right thought or action more often than you get credit for. You’re the captain of your ship and there’s no white knights to save anyone because that is a myth, but sometimes you’re not depressed, sometimes you’re just surrounded by assholes.

Let go and let God.

I hope you escape this and find the middle. Your message is wonderful to read. I hope your children are happy and healthy too xxx

It's a very hard thing to do, as the cycle is full of push/pull and deep emotional manipulation. I had a narcissist friend for over a decade. She did the classic love bomb/abuse/discard cycle multiple times. The last time I started talking to her again I set up firm boundaries, and told myself if she crossed them she wouldn't get another chance. Within a year she did exactly that, so I did what was best for me and my family, and ended her cycle of abuse. She was big mad and said horrible, hurtful things, but my life has been much quieter since she left. My mother, on the other hand. That's a lot harder. I'd like to say I'm only holding onto the relationship so I don't stress out my elderly grandmother, but idk. It's a totally different dynamic when it's family. So I get your struggle. Just know you don't always HAVE to walk away from a narcissist. If you can keep them at a healthy boundary, and not cosign any of their bullshit you can have a casual relationship with one. Just be on the lookout manipulation tactics like love bombing to get their hooks back in you.

Good for you. I’m definitely not a match with narcissist because those narcissist can’t stand me at all 🤣🤣🤣 I might be worse than them I guess. 🙈

@@SarahJonesDecor there is a problem of confusion in recognition!of other and self and union of the two gets it difficult to do the job... We live in a society that destroys family and urges to more freaky ones!! Separation is bad it makes recognition of yourself in other or as other painful!!! But escaping the pain won't change the nature of creation which is separation of a whole but In the whole!!! Escaping might provide some peace of mind! But never all peace of MInd! Because you are not all!! No matter what u accuse the other with is also seen in you!!! From their point of view!!! And people go until neglecting god when he !manifest through the other I noticed In the people before us that they used to suffer this but they fought through and they lived happy and died happy . because they didn't have the American dream!!! And new this life isn't eternal and happiness in it is nothing but a trap of destruction!!! .for this females and males fought through and passed the test! But today people absorbed Antichrist deception!!! ," yes we can " lol

@@mommakimmins5554 Yup yup yup. And I'm the family nurse. They often use self inflicted medical issues to get attention, then when I have boundaries, "you take care of every one but us now?" ....literally as I'm like, doing CPR on them they are saying this. Italian blood too, so it always gets verbally and physically ....rough. Your last two statements....absolutely worse than any physical pain, and I've been there done that. The mental gymnastics, heart break and head ache. Over and over over.

Olaf Bellefroid SAME

Olaf Bellefroid Lol, right?

Yeah got me too! I was looking for his angle!

I will withhold compliments in honor of your humblicity.

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"semi-encrypted combination of satire and vicious truths which make people think for themselves and take responsibility for their own lives...." Thank you - Nicely stated. I was searching for a concise and sincere phrase to sum-up JP Great Work. Although it is difficult to write sincerely using insincere glyphs. Dissonant utterances for the Tards I'm sure... The Tards (solipsists) likely think JP's creation is the antithesis to Infinite Waters (Diving Deep) Ralph Smart's Great Work... Thus the Tards remain trapped in their Hegelian opo-same Tardville. THAT would be OK if it wasn't messing up the place! Butt Tards gott'a do what Tards got to DO. Apoptotic suicide is their concise definition.

Huh?

Ya it is some good shit.

Antisthenes,Diogenes of Sinope,Crates of Thebes, JP Sears :)

Oh boy here goes the train of unreflected idolisation again. Yeah you are soooooo enlightened now you watched him, better oil and butter his ass plenty so you can slide in whole and without efford. Oh boi, oh man.

Lex Conor 👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Yes but it doesn't last long, and you get very clear signs what they are about pretty quickly. Once you see them, and it does not take too long, then it is on you to shut their toxic asses down. A healthy person can do that...a fellow toxic person will try to convince the narc to change.

Healthy people don't fall for love bombing.

Lex Conor True.

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Love this!

does the reverse also happen? does " Participation trophy culture" and parents with low expectation praising for subpar effort do they create narcissists?

@@hidenwatch7592 I think narcissists are often very insecure so I don't think it necessarily comes from parents spoiling their children but serious narcissism and egomania seems more often something to make up for a deficit a deep problem and deep insecurity.

Not always. I had parents like that, but they were even worse. I am able to be narcissistic, and throw that narcissism behavior right back at a person who tries to be that way to me, at the same time. But I'm not a narcissist. :)

@@hidenwatch7592 I know of a person who was raised like that and they are the biggest jerk ever.

Love your name!

Oh my goodness this comment is an oasis in this comment section.

Ah yes I agree. Nicely articulated!

Nicolas YLB I agree. We need to acknowledge how we play the victim before we can break out of it. No need to judge, or blame. It is a source of power.

From a recovering co-dependent, you have to 'shake the shoulders' of those of us who just don't understand why we keep attracting a-holes into our lives. It may seem cold or cruel at first, but you'll never get through to the NPD. The only hope is to get through to the codependent.

Toxic shame says `I am wrong`, deep belief about our unworthiness as a person. Guilt says `what I do/did is wrong`, we usually experience it when we act against our values.

insignificance, insecurity : both arent mutually exclusive. You need a sens of meaning in life in order to feel secure

He really means empathetic in fact if you take em off and leave pathetic you can actually bolt other words onto the front so what does pathetic mean?

@@LlamaOates That's why I use the word "empathic". That's how the word was originally pronounced before uneducated people got hold of it. Believe it or not, we NEED more empathic people in the world, but there are people like you who don't think so, so I truly think we need to put you guys together to live in your own unempathic communities with the rest of the unempathic people.

I admit I didn't watch the video very far in, since if he has a point, he's taking too long to make it. The first part truly comes across like he's blaming kind people for the things selfish people do to them. Only selfish people feel any need to do that. Most people don't want to enter a relationship with their swords drawn. There's no point in a "relationship" with somebody who is not also seeking to have a relationship. The way people behave when they want a relationship is they are kind and empathic and forgiving. They don't use their partner and then blame their partner for failure to speak up for themselves. They don't force their partner to have to speak up for themselves, because they are willing to consider their partner's needs. Who wants a "relationship" with somebody who doesn't do that? If that's what you've got, you simply need a new partner, not accusations that you were gullible for getting used by your current partner.

How do you set and enforce boundaries?

@@daliceh7510 you can't with a psychopath .. they just go on the down low and create a secret 2nd life.

I get it...awesome sharing.

@@daliceh7510 you leave

soo basically my mom and dad😅😅😅

Oh God.

I was raised in a family of narcissists, then started dating narcissists. Now I enjoy flying solo. I don't think my patterns were narcissistic, I just needed to stop trusting and moving so fast.

@@michellefoy5198 Same here ...until some degree I thought that was "normal", but when being able to see right through their BS, one can summarize such relations as a waste of precious time.

@@MartinZeitler Yes. People who were raised like that deserve to know real love and kindness.

yes. especially in the workplace. and especially women doing it to other women.

Dallas Stamm BROOOO 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

TaunTaun's Mr.President bro whatever you’re going through, i hope you fight through it 😘

TaunTaun's Mr.President you hate your life don’t you :/

TaunTaun's Mr.President What school did you go to? I want to make sure I send my kids there so they can be just like you.

@TaunTaun's Mr.President You used an apostrophe when you said "millions of emoji's". You don't use apostrophes for plural nouns. Apostrophes are used to show the omission of letters or possession. If you want any further help with your grammar let me know.

Kudos to you! And good luck! Most people don't want to change and I'm proud of you

RICHARD GRANNON SPARTANLIFECOACH Your channel was the first one I found after learning the word narcissist. Year's of therapy nobody ever mentioned personality disorders. There are stages of healing and targets need validation at the beginning from someone who says "I believe you". I was really excited about trying to see you on the 23rd, but found out my knee injury was a fracture and torn ligament. I'm not going anywhere I can't drive. Bummer

RICHARD GRANNON SPARTANLIFECOACH I agree about taking control of your life but I disagree regarding narcissists. See my comment above for why. Thanks.

RICHARD GRANNON, love your work. You're always spot-on. Thanks Brother.

RICHARD GRANNON SPARTANLIFECOACH It’s a little more complicated and insidious than that, but I agree with your point. The problem is, narcissists being such charming manipulative people, it takes years to put 2 and 2 together. Once it’s done, however - and given the non narcissist is not too pathetic ;) ... the narcissist will get their butt kicked pretty fast and pretty hard too... and the relationship will come to an end. But what if there’s children, I hear you ask... well, making children realise that some behaviours or personality traits are wrong and doomed is a pretty powerful, thus anti-pathetic message, isn’t it. Anyway, JC, my man, keep up the good work you have me smirking away every time 👍🏼

why does it have to be "sad" when it's where they are at

Ayahuasca much? Lol. Love and light sister

Flaco Kerrigan So youve read my mind I see lol😅😂

Ayahuasca is the only fast track through. She has helped me so much. My recovery has been accelerated by Ayahuasca and lil shamans wisdom. I am grateful for everything in my experiences

@UV Who is *we* in your statement of ‘We worship those who can…’? I don’t worship those people - I worship God. Sometimes, God is reflected in the people around me and sometimes He is not. This allows me to see the people around me as complex beings just as capable as I am of falling short of ‘the highest possible goodness in all of creation’. Not all of society worships false gods. ❤️ Have faith! 🙂

You are completely correct on this point! The fans of narcissist celebrities don't live with their idols so can't see the real character. Also for some people their fame & fortune can enable them to embrace narcissistic attributes as their vanity is unnaturally fed by fans.

Very true, persinally speaking, I was a performer for some years, in that cut-throat world you need to believe 'I AM THE ONE' to dare reach for those roles, to dare consider that you could make it where countless fail. Also, a performer, as part of their job, must develop an external 'sight' looking at themselves in their mind's eye in order to moderate their performance for others i.e. know what you look like to others at any given moment. Point being, I had a breakdown after a few years of that and, for 2 years thereafter, I wasin hell due to the fact that I had arrived at a point wherein my identity had become entirely defined by what others thought about me -I had no ability to define myself - and therein was ruined over and over again by the lack of recognition I was then receiving (wreck that I then was). After 2 years, I was lain in bed one night and a very curious thing happened, it sounds crazy but I felt the point of focus of 'my mind's eye' shift suddenly, moving back inside myself, into my cranium. It was exceptionally strange, happened in an instant. A moment after that happened I suddenly thought "Huh, I could go ride my motorbike and I'd be happy." ...At the time that thought was bizarrely shocking - the realisation then, once more, that I had command over my own state. Point being, I think what you write is absolutelt correct and that, well, what I am describing above is, actually, more or less exactly what social media forces on everyone - being defined by onlookers, a never ending performance, a life on show. Contemporary existance is, by it's very nature narcissistic. ...I don't use social media today. I live in the woods, alone, and don't care that I look like a tramp. ...So, I think I cured that issue anyway.

@@JesseP.Watson that’s incredible, thanks for sharing!

I thought the same thing

yur mom you were not pathetic, my sister. I wish that you would have known that and gotten away from that narcissistic sociopath so you would still be here. I love you and miss you so much.

Me too. I have history of attracting Narcs as friends and was in long term relationship with sociopath. I'll take a Narc any day you have some really good times with them until the shit hits the fan and they want to be king, sociopaths on the other hand are in their gas lighting you from very early corroding you away slowly.

@@LlamaOates I hear ya! (I’m of the opinion that most of us who tend to “run into” narcs a lot, had parents or a main guardian who was/were narcs. 🤔)

​@@888LCK Yer it seems pretty common and the cycle continues until someone learns what is happening and goes about changing themselves.

@@LlamaOates Amen! But, it’s sadly very rare that they are capable of seeing it in themselves, let alone getting help for it. 😔

Praise Yahuah

If people would read Scripture and want to understand it instead of resorting to [H]umanism, which solves absolutely nothing. Bless you Lynne!

I've cured myself while at the same time seeing the Bible as the most evil and devisive book ever written. Blind faith is not the cure, it's a dirty bandage.

@@matthewjohn6094 God was created in man's image.

Wow...you feel love from a make believe entity? That's the saddest thing I've ever heard. You know how the book of Genesis tells you that 1000 years is like a day to God? Here's a math problem for you... Let's say you live to be 80 years old. How long is 80 years for God to know you? Do the math. It's barely 2 seconds. How much love do you glean from that insignificance?

Exactly.

Aurora Goforth glad you were able to see it and lived to talk about it

Good for you Aurora. I'm worried about those who disagree with this video.

Bless you ♡

Summed up well

Wow preach

i felt this alot. ive had to take alot of time dialing back my giving to show myself that people will still be my friend etc... when i dont give them everything they want

Couldn't have put it in better words

Best way I’ve ever heard it!

+Livingroom NexusPlayer uh

IKR!

Not all his videos are meant to be funny. It's depressing that you haven't noticed. :-)

I do not agree with JP'S story telling that, people who trap into the MASK of a narscist are the other side of the same coin. Mostly they havent anything in common, except that the where neclected or abused bij narsistic parents.. or by violence, depression, illness or parents had no time for them, in there family in early times. Thats why they efface them selfs.. or would help to much to make there world better. They learnt that love =pain or love is nobody land.. so they think thats love. Unfotiunaly they attrack narscists, thats true. But a lot better said: The narscists smell them like a easy prey!! brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr They are by shore not pathetic at all, they just suffer unconscious as long the're not awakening.. For shore is every narcist pathetic without feelings!... How about you mister JP?

when would a narc seek to use already pathetic loner , aathic or troubled person, and when would he seek to steal the person alrready esteemed person 's persona as its next mask? " its in nobody's nands and think that is love" delude your self into accepting any attention?

Yes…. What JP missed was the initial lovebombing stage that is the usual trick, then eventually financial control that moves in slowly to close off easy paths of escape .. but also the lovebombing appeals to the ego and not actually the heart so there is truth in those JP words. I see all the connections from youth with 6 siblings and the parents (now deceased) and all the damage done to all of them, at least 2 I now believe are narcs till the end

Cameron Smith agreed

Well it's good for people who chose to be in a relationship with a narcissist, not if you had a parent that is one.

Cameron Smith I think you need a mirror dude you don't know wtf your talking about.

I agree 100%!! A lot of people here are still in their anger phase and need to do A LOT more reflecting and inner work to understand what he’s talking about.

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If you would´ve healed your wounds, you wouldn´t have called them parasites. The need to insult comes from dissatisfaction and every insult you do contains something about yourself. Means if you call someone a parasite, there´s a high chance of you thinking you´re a parasite yourself. This I had to learn myself recently because I was the same, thats why I´m reacting. I hope you get your things together and I hope you can heal your wounds. Much love is sent to you from germany

Nevera , same here. How we were raised is the clue for this in most cases!

@Nevera....your past sounds like mine. My Dad suffered from the same issues as yours and I grew up watching my Mother serve him hand and foot, eventually disassociating herself with books and escapism....leaving my sister and I to bring ourselves up alone. We grew up walking on egg shells around him, always hoping for that rare smile or positive affirmation from him. I then became an adult who couldn't understand, with all my good and caring intentions, why I was constantly ending up with men exactly like my father....narcissistic, self absorbed, moody, depressed and verbally abusive. 10 years ago, I chose to isolate myself from men so that I could work out my apparent issues before considering another relationship.By spending time alone in meditation as well as being careful to be gentle and kind to myself, I was able to work out what I was doing wrong in life. Still single by choice, I now live a peaceful life in a rural island community surrounded by caring friends/ neighbours and can sincerely say that I'm finally at peace and content.....but it took time and a lot of answering hard questions to get here.