Hehe! Just because I don't have an Apondi in my life doesn't mean I can't learn from Kitt's Apondi. I would appreciate if you could talk about toxic parents in the future. Looooooove ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I haven't seen the father of my daughter in 11 years and I just forgot he ever existed. I was remarried when my daughter was 3 and life just went on..... And I went on with my life. Some things aren't worth it really. I got my king and life is good 🥰🥰

Let me just say I don’t know how I lived my life before I met your mother on KZfaq kitt!😂😂😂🤣🤣wooow! My mind is blown away! Please bring her more often🥰💯❤️

Apondi is a walking encyclopedia. Very knowledgeable.

Great conversation. Loved the 'Karen' moment. They almost called the KZfaq manager..

The beauty of being a new subscriber , I have lots of great content to watch. This is what I signed up for !

How enlightening. I watched while nodding my head in agreement throughout. Good job Kitt and Apondi. Important conversation, this needed to be said.

I love love Apondi and Kitt duo.This is a Monday treat!Love this analogy.

Apondi's articulation is unmatched Yohhhh... She paints pictures and the path is sooo easy to follow... She is a Sage.

How I am committed to watching this channel is unreal wueeeeh

Lovely!! Thank you so much Kitt and Apondi…Our generation needs this

For me, what stands out of Apondi's story time is that the man actually left the first woman but still carried both the kids. One was the lady's but he took her in and even moved with her after the marriage ended. Where on earth are such beautiful souls? I believe the woman was selfless enough to recognize that the daughter needed a safe place and that place was with her new daddy. I love it! Absolutely!😍😍😍😍😍😍 Ati the grandparents adopted the new family???????????????? I can't take all this maturity and selflessness and non-conformity and all beautiful descriptions!!!! What a way to start my morning. Thank you Kitt and Apondi. You have no idea how this will change so many kids' lives through their parents.

When a clown enters the palace he doesn't become a king,the palace becomes a circus. 😍❤ If you don't gerrit forget about it 😂

I love loved this conversation,,and the tension that comes when you talk about such issues and still well communicated with the best yet simplest examples and yesss we want more Maam

hmm.. what an interesting conversation; so enlightening and lots of food for thought, including about what exactly constitutes "family" . Thanks, Kitt & Apondi.

I love the knowledge your mum is passing here Kitt... Am all ears.

Very insightful, I like. Beautiful mother daughter convo!!!

You are such gems for this generation ❤️..Thank you for upholding sanity🤗

Your mama needs her KZfaq channel. She is amazing! Wise and I can’t wait to implement what I have learnt from here 😘😅😅🙊

Absolutely enjoyed watching this. “Mwacha mila ni mtumwa” came to mind a lot while watching this segment.

First of all I looooove how Kitt you connect with your mom. This discussion is very enlightening. Everytime I watch your videos I come out wiser... can't wait for the next

Love this conversation. Mind blown.

Quite informative... I love how everything flows in this discussion . That's a good mother daughter relationship You guys relate so well...we need more of this from the duo...

I love the anology you just did....splendid

Thanks for the courage to speak on this topic. Truth and reality! May we learn.

Everyday i learn but today! Ihave been schooled. Asante

I absolutely loved this conversation

Apondi is back, yeeees thanks kitt

This is the most sensible conversation I've heard in a long while.

God bless Kitt and Apondi and may God continue giving you wisdom.This advice is so timely for me and I'm happy I made the tough but right decision to step up for me and my child .

Wow! Wow! Wow! I loved this! 💯 💯 💯

Mumzo is such a gem, she really knows how to put things into perpective

Wueeeeee its the ending for me🙌🙌🙌so much insight though..thanks Apondi and Kitt

Thank you ladies. This was timely

Great content there.Kitt and Apondi.soo inspiring

Love you guys! Such real nuggets ah! 🙌🏾

Was waiting for this topic after Apondi had it in some event a few weeks ago and my brother and SIL were attendance. I love you guys and looking forward to the day I will finally meet you! Very great topic.

This is very informative and I love your mother's earrings collection they are as unique as her

Wauuuu..... positively triggered!...thank you for this thought provoking episode. Love it!🤎

Wisdom right there! Apondi 🥰 Kitt 🥰

O how I love it here🤩🤩

This is very timely.....thank you

Once Again! Important Topic. . Love it 💕

I have goose pimples from watching this video. The wisdom from Apondi and Kitt I believe should be shared with as many people as possible because Eh! 🙌🏾

Good info and your mum really broke it down vizuri👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

awesome awesome 😊😊 I love the debunking of this theory

Wow u guys, the part about culture and language was so on point i was agreeing the whole time.

I loooove it hereeeee🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳💜💜💜

This was great content and full of facts.

Impeccable conversation 👏👏👏

Apondi, I get your blended family story. It’s a relatable scenario.

I love it here🤩

Insightful as always...💕💕💕

@kittnkiarie no other generation between us n our parents.... 😞 We are literally the next-generation of grandma's Good job gal... Weee nuggets loaded 👏👏

What a privilege it is to listen to this awesome topic. Not clowning! I have refused. Women power here. Let’s take back this power. Let’s stop clowning.

We STAN Apondi....Love she is such a GEM

I learn so much from your mum..kitt, thank you for sharing her with us❤❤

Wow! Wow! Kiit and mum Apondi, you've said my story and I'm at peace now, if a man could have a need to sire children, why would he again be reminded to retain their integrity and provisions, love is to the willing, love ain't by force or cohesion, or even persuasion.

Just plugged my mom on this... mama Mos jo Internet

Wow so mind blowing conversation

Loved this...

Well Apondi’s wooden ring is dope…..beautiful mama Africa. Jaber

Jackie Kenya of Blended Family Network should be in the convo.... Love it thanks for addressing it

Magnificent ✨

Great great insight.Learnt alot

Wow, mother &daughter have really dissected&made me look at this words quite deeply. I agrree with Apondi it's a generational culture. Now, after all, I don't think I lost by not inviting a clown into the palace. Mother is very wise.

Lots of wisdom by apondi😍

I love the little gal in Apondi and her smile too.

Damn!… You ladies are briiiliant!… You just did a ‘Mama Ryan Explained ‘ video…🤣

Wow. I am learning

Beautiful conversation

Really fascinating….the past happens if you can’t make it work move on. Don’t drag the children, that should be someone’s first priority-children sanity.

Great talk

it's the Lucy description from mum Apondi for me... my loves

Preach Apondi! Preach!!

i wish there could be ,but nobody can be like Apondi ,even Kitt won't be like Apondi ,Kitt will be like Kitt , Apondi is a gem that if not for life's limitations i wish she could live on forever ,and she's never old news or predictable, fresh and fine content👌🏾 each and every time ,i can never get enough of her ,, wish i or more people would have been raised in such a way ,such a privilage

You know, you've just confirmed everything iv been doing with my kids. Iv had people ask why I don't demand maintenance etc, but I legit don't see the point of forcing a grown man who willingly chose not to participate, be a part of the equation. So I just raise my Schmoozies solo. It was hard in the beginning but now I'm just going. Yes there are some legalities which require involvement but other than that. This is our normal and we do what we can with what we have and keep it pushing. You and your mom are just amazing. Remind me so much of my mom and aunts back home. Xo

Whoaaaa🤯🤯🤯 powerful

Kitt wueh! You and Apondi are the goldmine! I think it's selfish to prioritize your 'wants' from the baby daddy/mama over your child's wellbeing. I was that child and what you end communicating to the child is that they are the burden you pass on. The child is sometimes afraid to even talk about whether they had a good time with the other parent because it's always a competition of who did what......totally selfish and never ever about the child. Plus can we just choose the have children for us so that we take total responsibility even if the other partner slacks off. Your child, your responsibility.

Yaani unpacking this stuff these are hard truths.

The wisdom🤭🤭🤭. Weh!

Conversations with Apondi👌

True. In fact an angry woman is the worst mother a child could have. Give them to their daddy!Normalize it.

My mom is also called Mrs. Apondi..at 2:30 " Caren is a good name😊" ... coincidence.. . ❣️

Kitt, How do I thank you and Apondi? I'm just starting over and you guys have answered all the questions I had.

Even before I finish watching, Apondi & Kitt have challenged me to stop sitting on my hands waiting for a job & my husband. To get up and dorritt!!

I have just read a book by Tayari Jones... An American Marriage. I honestly haven't read a book in 3 days for the longest time! I highly recommend it!! I love the relationship you have as mother/daughter. I miss the relationship with my mum who went to be the Lord almost 4 years ago now 💔 .Please treasure it as memories are made of this!

I wish it was as easy, but in reality it isnt when you are dealing with peoples egos, brokenness, insecurities and just human nature in general. Wisdom is rare

Kiiiiiittttttt n Apondiiiii..... Louder please

Jo video, aww, Apondi

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Can you just visit me in TX for the weekend? ...just want to have the pleasure of conversing with y'all.

How things have changed....i feel the previous generations build us up to be this way

Well said!

Wow ...

When a clown enters a Palace,he does not become a king. The palace becomes a circus 🎪. Jesus!!!! Your pple have been delivered

Tunangoja story ya Albert 🤣🤣

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Culture gives language to context. How true this is. When we consume music and the shows and literature blindly and apply said cultural artefacts of language and fashion and beauty standards we unknowingly sign a kind of contract with said culture that brings with it the tax that you speak of. The cycle of absentee black fathers and incarcerated black men is a self fulfilling prophecy. A child from a fatherless home is more likely to join a gang or be recruited in to a gang or have a relationship with a gang member. Gang members eventually end up in prison for this or that duration or die as a result of gang violence. They'll tend to start romantic relationships young to underline their "maturity" with equally younger girls - hence the name "baby mama" the super young mother. Meanwhile these girls will be raising children in a single parent home who will grow up to end up in similar romantic relationships and/or join gangs...and the cycle continues And even the ones who escape the prison cycle - going even to college, successful in business - are still lacking the positive manly modelling are very likely to end up having a child with a woman not married to them...and on it goes

Timely discussion

Not Kitt, sipping water.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣