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@Jelle1880 Ай бұрын

'You haven't grrr once' 💀

@jackiecolon2898 Ай бұрын

I almost spit out my chips at that. 😂😂😂

@G254611 Ай бұрын

"Smells so bananery"😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@masterpuzzlegaming6349 Ай бұрын

The funniest thing he has ever said, i had to take a lap around my apartment

@junglekxngtalksanime Ай бұрын

I CAN'T with him😭😭🤣

@shanebest4699 Ай бұрын

FAM what the hell bananas oh my

@mattayc266 Ай бұрын

Ok ok 😂

@VerdictV Ай бұрын

Wilddddddd! 🤣🤣🤣

@grumpie925 Ай бұрын

The “almost as dark as you” is a shared experience for all brown and black kids in white spaces😂. We all just let a collective groan

@kelseymay4791 Ай бұрын

The wayyyy I would get it from Asians sooo often. Basically any group the prides themselves in having lighter skin tones. Traumatizing

@elchavodelocho2055 28 күн бұрын

On god!! So fnk disrespectful n annoying

@LadyJoolree 20 күн бұрын

Adults too. I've heard this in every office and school I've worked in.

@tharealnytro69 Ай бұрын

"For someone who smells so bananery...!" WHAT?! 😂😂😂😂

@belindanaarlamleholbek4250 Ай бұрын

Shoooot .. “ I love that for you” is something I use pretty often, and I’ve always been sincere 😂 and now I’m just wondering if everyone else has thought I meant it as a backhanded compliment 😂

@panthercat38 Ай бұрын

Same!!! But it just takes one mean girl to turn any phrase to shit lol

@chichi2425 25 күн бұрын

Right I feel like multiple of these are actual compliments it just depends on the situation it's used in

@amazondiva7000 Ай бұрын

"You're so well spoken" definitely triggered me. Growing up, that's all I heard from Caucasian people in the US south. I was also considered an Oreo to my own people. Not using slang but using proper grammar and enunciation was considered negative. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@XiAdu2 Ай бұрын

SAME!! It was always the teachers! I used to hate that shit.

@The0-2DemonKing Ай бұрын

This is going on my list of "How to explain Crabs in a Barrel to my non black friends"

@jerryberry8967 Ай бұрын

Same thing in South Africa when I go to visit family. Ironic thing is a lot of my family members who have never stepped out of South Africa are a LOT more articulate than me 🫠

@Noceepour Ай бұрын

I use to get that alot working at a call centre dealing with people in the US, they would be so shocked when I say I’m from South Africa. “Like wtf they teach us english here as well.” 🙄

@dragontyrant5607 Ай бұрын

I grew up in SA too, they used to say i had an American accent.

@megangomezaddams Ай бұрын

0:29 Rem with the COMPLETE ick from the statement 😭

@jmagswag Ай бұрын

James went crazy here he had the whole club crackin up the whole time

@junglekxngtalksanime Ай бұрын

4:21 bruhh Ellis' facial expressions 😭😭😭🤣🤣

@mnqobisithole5594 Ай бұрын

😂😂 "How could they"

@shanebest4699 Ай бұрын

Yeah hahahH

@beccadotelpy Ай бұрын

Lil bro was shook.

@donetello8000 Ай бұрын

They forgot "Oh, you're one of the good ones". I'm still speechless about that...

@XiAdu2 Ай бұрын

You’re about to set off so many triggers within me 😂 The unmitigated gall…

@kellygirlaj Ай бұрын

If I had a dime for every time I've heard, "You look better without your glasses."! Problem is, I can't see without them.

@mimim868 Ай бұрын

I also wear glasses and I saw this comeback once: You also look better without my glasses on.

@michaelcooper8889 24 күн бұрын

Thai is literally the reason I switched to contacts cuz atp I gotta change sum😂

@Katja-xy5zt 22 күн бұрын

So you don’t actually look at all without your glasses

@kellygirlaj 22 күн бұрын

@@Katja-xy5zt No, I can't. Everything is blurry. The only way I can see is if the print is 100x bigger.

@tellmywifiloveher6748 17 күн бұрын

My glasses serve as protection from accidentally giving my number to someone unattractive. I'd only wear contacts for the baddies. Average looking can humbly accept glasses

@andrewdiaz8603 28 күн бұрын

That bananery line had me cracking up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@timjohns8215 Ай бұрын

For someone who smells so bananary😂😂😂

@_jerina Ай бұрын

“You look good today or you smell good today” 😭

@tali_rise Ай бұрын

That 'Today'

@justinhunter-knox4897 21 күн бұрын

James was cooking this episode 😂

@michaeljackson2724 Ай бұрын

The high pitched “yeah” 😂😂

@greyscalesx Ай бұрын

James has litteraly said "I love that for you" to Ellis multiple times on the pod bro 😂

@ekuaakumanyi6349 Ай бұрын

That line "for someone who smells so banana-ery" Has me smiling like the joker! That's a try Jay-Sus not me!!

@TimpossibleOne Ай бұрын

When someone says, "You look better without makeup." What they mean is "your makeup application game is trash."

@iliilliliiliilliliiliillil9137 Ай бұрын

Some girls are really good at it and make it look natural. Others not so much. I mean, they don't necessarily look like clowns, but I hate that obvious makeup look. Like reds being too red, and the contrast with other lighter parts just isn't right.

@vickylovega23 Ай бұрын

You can come if you want. Like no I'm not going. You don't seem interested enough for effort😂😂😂

@rosieblythompson4255 Ай бұрын

I love how gassed James gets when Fuhad laughs hard at his jokes

@kwhisper1960 Ай бұрын

Yeah I’ve had that “I’m almost as dark as you” a lot too 🤦‍♂️ jarring 😂 I’m brown af so no Karen you aren’t even close 😂

@Caz8142 Ай бұрын

Yup has that too, I just tell them at least mine don’t fade away and go about my day

@tamirerdenebat2571 Ай бұрын

What if... James comes up with same convo to Fuhad after Tenerife?

@iliilliliiliilliliiliillil9137 Ай бұрын

@@Caz8142 yo why do you sound so offended by that. Absolutely no person who would be willing to come up to you and say that means it in an offensive way. You find it offensive because you are deciding to take it that way. I'm white - in Thailand a monk sat beside me on a train, held his arm next mine and pointed how I'm lighter than he is and proceeded to laugh. A monk, bro. Full outfit and everything. Of course I saw him about an hour later playing on his phone. It's was a funny experience - also something funny to bring up when you talk about traveling

@user-un8gk2qv5t Ай бұрын

@@iliilliliiliilliliiliillil9137Yes, for YOU 🤣 you can’t be jarred about how other people feel, that’s YOUR experience. Come on chief this is not science hao. You typed a paragraph for what hhayi 🤣🤣🤣

@magburn Ай бұрын

Abt 18yrs old I wore cheetah print suede leggings, chilling on the dance floor cuz another band was setting up, this girl tells me I could never wear those pants😭😭not picking up on the shade I said ofc u can….

@samsmith8954 Ай бұрын

A 26yr old black guy told me i was the first black girl he had ever been with and sorry but i could not process what he said. It was too much pressure 😂 Heres another 😂 My sons dad said he got with a girl because she reminded him of me ... When i found out who it was 😩😤 i haven't spoken to him since, its been 3yrs 🤣🤣🤣 it was a whole insult even my mama was pissed 😂😂

@Katja-xy5zt 22 күн бұрын

Girl 🤣🤣

@RastaSawgg Ай бұрын

So well spoken 😭😭😭😭felt that

@cudacush Ай бұрын

As a music producer, the 'music thing' hit me hard💀😂

@AlalubosaOmo-sz1gm 27 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 How 'bout....... "Wish you all the best"

@chefykitty Ай бұрын

I nearly choked while laughing during this vid!

@ummik8336 Ай бұрын

I was born and raised in the Netherlands, i am a muslim woman so i wear the headscarf. I work at a pharmacy, and when i help clients they literally sometimes say; your dutch is really good. Imlike: yea.. thank you.. i guess :)

@tashascott8402 Ай бұрын

I am loving these clips .. if I don’t want to watch the whole episode again I come here because you guys are funny as hell 😂lol 😂I love you guys

@reginafromrio Ай бұрын

You're so well spoken. Watch how I hold my utensils. It's crazy!😅

@TheCornDavis Ай бұрын

Oh no... I've been an "i love that for you" girl 😂

@hayaabdulla6236 Ай бұрын

James I’m literally living my school years with you.. also I got you’re so pretty for a black girl🤣🤣

@GoCrazyBaby3 Ай бұрын

8:42 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this yeah was too perfect

@leelee4455 Ай бұрын

You're smarter than you look. A genius even.

@naturallybecoming831 22 күн бұрын

There’s something about me that you know that I don’t 😂😂😂 when you in denial lmao

@Ron-iq5pf Ай бұрын

daddy fuhad is definitely having a sugar crash in this ep🤣🤣

@lorainabaker828 Ай бұрын

“I love that for you,” the funniest 😂

@keeksartstudio 26 күн бұрын

‘You look better without glasses’ like wow, I’m just trying to see

@reginafromrio Ай бұрын

Ha! I had a guy I was dating who told me I had this doppelganger who worked at the pizza shop near his house. Of course I had to check it out. I met her and told her someone thought we looked alike, and I could see the resemblance (but she was years younger than me) and she says, "that's sweet". Aww way to break it to me😂. I could feel her thinking wtf..

@footballfreak2728 28 күн бұрын

James was too good on this video😂😂😂😂

@melowen6890 26 күн бұрын

People always say 1:59 that to me “I wish I had your confidence” or I get “I love how you can wear that style of clothes so confidently” lol

@tkgod9346 Ай бұрын

1:31 no when someone asks me do i think their partner is attractive. if don’t think so i always say “they are cute for u”

@reehoneybee123 Ай бұрын

You look better in person … so my pictures are butters?

@Cajun_Seasoning 29 күн бұрын

yes

@raichelletempest Ай бұрын

I know Ellis be BEET RED in the face from holding in his laughter.

@feliciaharris5981 Ай бұрын

My manager said that to me after returning from beach trip “look I’m almost as dark as you” 👀👀

@greenegreene6042 Ай бұрын

I wouldn’t know whether I should laugh or feel disrespected 😂😂😂

@m.7054 Ай бұрын

james says the most unpredictable thingd ever lol

@KatherineBerns 9 күн бұрын

4:37, ffs Katherine. Whyyy? Thou are your name not worthy! 😂

@emmanuelkojodwumfour-poku3530 Ай бұрын

Fuhads watch game tho 🔥🔥🔥

@superdry93 Ай бұрын

5:22 - listen to it. I fell off my chair LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@danic933 Ай бұрын

That dress is so cute but would look better on me...

@Ditumisho Ай бұрын

That’s fight talk 😂😂

@angiescully2110 Ай бұрын

James is a problem! 😂😅😂😅😂 & I freaking love it!!!

@here4551 Ай бұрын

now I'm rethinking every "compliment" I've gotten

@ncl2580 Ай бұрын

I love this😂❤ thanks for the laugh

@preciouskhoza4573 Ай бұрын

In South Africa its "You speak English so well "...... I swear I'd be holding back a hot backhand🤬

@TsundeRea Ай бұрын

lol my friend from there can barely speak Afrikaans. 😂 He always speaks English.

@ahblezasellars Ай бұрын

My side hurts so bad 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Dam0la_55 Ай бұрын

Like I watched the pod already but the grrr spun me again 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@justdontinquire7576 20 күн бұрын

“Look I’m almost as dark as yo-“ *unrolling whip*

@darayy6352 12 күн бұрын

"You're fr a angel fallen from heaven" so y'all just casually calling people Satan now okay 😭

@IDKBOXING Ай бұрын

"You can come if you want" is literally my life lmao, whats so funny is they never asked me to go with them on their own, they only said "you can come if you want" if i asked them if i should come too. I always knew no one liked me in school ever and i never had friends, but i still wanted to go out sometimes so i went anyways. Even though i knew they dont like me.

@TsundeRea Ай бұрын

Nah if they actually didn’t like you they wouldn’t have said that! They like you don’t worry!

@greenegreene6042 Ай бұрын

Maybe they get the vibes that you don’t feel comfortable and it makes them feel awkward, so they want to extend the invite but not make you uncomfortable by doing so. Maybe have a smoke or drink before you go next time and enjoy being there. I’m sure you’re a ball of fun once you relax and come out of your shell. 😘❤️

@G254611 Ай бұрын

I LOVE these gents❤😂

@valleykart Ай бұрын

6:27 my 6th grade teacher, was convinced i was nigerian, i called her out once cos she said ,”u speak so well ,u must be nigerian”… i was like bro have u heard nigerians speak, just say im dark and leave me tf alone😭😭

@PandaJanna0604 Ай бұрын

No, because the "I'm almost as dark as you" was out of HAND in school. One girl did it to her friend, and I visibly cringed and said ew no. Pissed her all the way off. I'm glad I could make the guy laugh, though.

@mattayc266 Ай бұрын

Wish i had your confidence Cool thankyou wish i had your bliss 😂

@CrazyAce777777 Ай бұрын

"you got that mia"

@ChristinaQueenHeart 18 күн бұрын

"I LOVE THAT FOR YOU" can be both good or bad.

@bnada7313 Ай бұрын

I went to a comedy show once and my brother was sat next to one wham geezer who turned his rotund self round and fully stared my bro out any time he laughed at a fat joke 😂😂😂😂

@IDKBOXING Ай бұрын

The "you look better without makeup" from me is literally a compliment. I dont care what anyone says. If i tell a girl she looks better without makeup all im saying is she has natural beauty and doesnt need any of them chemicals on her beautiful face... I understand how it can sound like an insult, but it is NOT.

@Cajun_Seasoning 29 күн бұрын

It doesnt matter how you intended it to sound like it isn't an insult, it still is. What you feel about that backhanded compliment isn't the general perception and knowing that, and still telling women that, is knowingly letting them feel like they've been insulted regardless of what you think of it. Because everything James said about that haircut is exactly how it feels to receive it. You're telling them all the time, care and effort they gave to put into their appearance was a waste. And as a woman who's received this before and know other women who've received this before, collectively we all agree 'literally who asked?' every single time. The only time a compliment of this nature is fine, is if you're compliment a woman that isn't already wearing make up and you want to make her feel beautiful in her natural skin, not when someone already went through effort to look a certain way.

@IDKBOXING 29 күн бұрын

@@Cajun_Seasoning that's on them then. Not on me. With all due respect that's just being insecure

@BlackGirlMarvel Ай бұрын

The coordination with the goodies 🫶🏽🤌🏾

@Ironworker92 Ай бұрын

James your mixed tho 🤣

@neverstop9731 Ай бұрын

bananery was brazy brudda. that shit was big brazy yo...

@melmac3464 18 күн бұрын

"ur house is surprisingly alot cleaner than I thought it was gonna be" I COULDN'T BELIEVE SHE SAID THIS RIGHT IN FRONT OF THE GIRL WHO LIVES IN SAID HOUSE 🤯🫣 My jaw hit the floor and the home owner smiled and loved it like a compliment. Who says that? Ppl weren't raised right.

@sheover9171 Ай бұрын

I thought I was the only one that didn’t care for the “ I love that for you” saying. It gives mean girls vibes. Idk

@nizakaluba3470 10 күн бұрын

Jaaaaamess😂😂😂 first bananery then grrr

@leahcimtooms Ай бұрын

BANANARY!

@reginafromrio Ай бұрын

You look better without makeup is low key " you don't know how to put on makeup".

@dianaafxo Ай бұрын

BUT I SAY I LOVE THAT FOR YOU THINKING IT WAS A NICE THING BECAUSE I GENUINELY AM HAPPY FOR THEM AND LOVE TO SEE GOOD THINGS HAPPENING FOR GOOD PEOPLE😭

@user-hw5ui8fv2b Ай бұрын

James yourself esteem was low back then to stay with a girl that said that to you. We love to see the growth

@xMouffffx Ай бұрын

Why didn't you wanna show Ellis during the bananary joke 👀😂😂😂

@aldodray69 Ай бұрын

Bros we talking Dave Chappelle? The 🐐🐐🐐🐐

@ddogg713 Ай бұрын

Great job to not have the camera go to Ellis after James said "banana'y"

@briel7904 Ай бұрын

"Have a nice life."

@b.razzy_t.t5818 Ай бұрын

early!! and nobody could tell me "I don't usually like black girls".... id fall over

@Bintmaster2000 Ай бұрын

I'M DEAD !!11 WHITE SIDE WAS SHOWING THIS EPISODE !!!!!

@Nani-0613 25 күн бұрын

Any time a pwrson says rhey are almost your completion or trying to be as "dark" as you You're so well spoken Your hair feels soft. i thought it would be hard, nappy, or like wool You can't be mixed. You have to be just black Your so.... for a .... person Your one of the good ones... Your not like the others... If you like it i love it Did you ever achieve your dreams I also agree with the ones you guys had

@mattjeffries465 Ай бұрын

For some who smells so WHAT 😭😭😭

@cssatkins77 Ай бұрын

She saying your character and you don't act like ignorant 😂 I had 1 or 2 tell me that shit!

@eleosde7045 25 күн бұрын

I have always hated the skin comparison. I started making jabs saying I don't go in the sun to avoid wrinkles and suggest they find a better sunblock if they get baked that hard.

@bellaprincesa2452 Ай бұрын

I was telling someone about my dad and they said “I’m glad you know him” 😅 bruh my parents have been married 30 years this year and contrary to popular belief there’s more white kids without dads 😂

@victoriascott9613 Ай бұрын

Poor Ellis

@G254611 Ай бұрын

Ellis is a cool dude though. That's why we LOVE him so much❤ He has a great sense of humour ❤ Also I could hear him laughing in the background ❤❤

@GrandRho Ай бұрын

HELLO DADDY'S

@anaguduri2527 21 күн бұрын

I’ve had a LOT of people say “oh you speak English so well” just cause I’m from India and I had to go “yeah, colonised for 200 years, remember?” For it to feel just as awkward for them 😒

@timjohns8215 Ай бұрын

Lets gooo

@xxjazzxx2160 Ай бұрын

8:28 I say “if you want” just to give them the option because I don’t want them to feel like they HAVE to come, I want them to come to have fun. If I ask someone if they want to come, I do want them there but I just wanna give them the freedom to choose. Should probably avoid that now 💀 in case I insult them

@thaliajonas8324 Ай бұрын

I hear the “Mia Khalifa” ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL THE TIME! First time someone said to me when was when I was like 14, I didn’t even know who she was back then 😂💀 now I need glasses n don’t have a choice

@Theycallmejassi 23 күн бұрын

I’ve got that Mia Khalifa one so many times SMH and guess what, it’s always from little wee wee teenagers

@michellaborregaard541 19 күн бұрын

Remember guys, not all girls wear makeup for you. We wear it for us, for us to feel good and to be told we look better without is just useless info when we are dressed up.. Just say you look good. No one asked how I looked before I got ready.. Love you all keep making us laugh.

@rosieblythompson4255 Ай бұрын

I work with a lot of Nigerians and when I come back with a tan it’s them telling me I’m almost as dark as them. Obviously as a joke because they are dark and I come out dark beige lol

@XheartbrokenXTeddy Ай бұрын

I will say I use some of these. Like I love that for you... and I don't mean it in an insulting manner. It literally mean to me like I'm happy for u. And I will say I say I wish I had that much confidence... and it CAN go either way. But I generally mean it. And I get the hey twin all the time but only to close friends.

@sesethubangushe2448 Ай бұрын

Bruh... Like when they go I got option but you're my number, the fuck bro... Charge it... Bruh, same time we ain't playing right there like the fuck... What do you mean you got option.