Be a More Confident Public Speaker
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If public speaking sounds like your worst nightmare, you're not alone. You're one of the estimated 70 percent of the population that has an intense fear of public speaking. That's OK. On today's WellCast, we've got our Triple P method that will keep you calm during that next oral report and keep your breakfast where it belongs. Ready?
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@ElishaMarzo 5 жыл бұрын
I memorise the whole speech and go up on that stage with a blank mind
@pepiyeol2914 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I always memorize the whole text but when I'm standing in front of all people I never dare to look anywhere other than my text.
@tanyatiwari8724 4 жыл бұрын
Same... 😫 I have to give a speech on this sunday
@tanyatiwari8724 4 жыл бұрын
@licorne infanta Be calm And best of luck... 😊
@cinnamoroIIz 4 жыл бұрын
@Tanya Tiwari how did yours go? I have one tomorrow and I’m so nervous. 😭
@tanyatiwari8724 4 жыл бұрын
@@cinnamoroIIz It was awesome👏✊👍 I got second prize, I was also nerves but as I reached the podium I gave the speech without any hesitation I cant say don't be nerves (bcz the hormones will not let you do so😅) Just believe that you can do that Best of luck to you.. You will also do awesome
@roughryder5 9 жыл бұрын
I feel like im the only one that has a fear of presenting in my class.
@gerbzies 9 жыл бұрын
Elite Your never alone...
@wwaarr4063 8 жыл бұрын
samee...
@shoobnoobcoob 8 жыл бұрын
me 2
@adastra8019 8 жыл бұрын
same
@emmablack2002 8 жыл бұрын
me to
@fatima7123 5 жыл бұрын
Tips from me... 1. Think that you are controlling the whole room while presenting... 2. Know that everybody else have to present as well and they are nervous too... 3. Just know that your speech is going to end soon and it will be over and then you will be free... 4. Focus or look on one person at a time especially look at someone who is not paying attention to you.... *hope they work for you cuz they work for me* *goodluck*
@breaddstickk 5 жыл бұрын
these tips help alot, tysm!
@tumpaganguly4004 Жыл бұрын
usually I look straight up at the wall
@mr.andrewfilms Жыл бұрын
I’ll try these. Got to present tomorrow…
@Kzzler_Frnks5421 Жыл бұрын
I tried that
@Kzzler_Frnks5421 Жыл бұрын
It worked 😂
@sneakerhead6988 4 жыл бұрын
Who else has a presentation tomorrow? 😅 (Edit: It’s been 4 years and I still get likes and comments from this. Honestly, I don’t remember any of the presentations I did in school lol. That just shows you that it isn’t that big of deal. You’ll be fine 🙏. You can do it!)
@funkydaroom1830 4 жыл бұрын
Well mine is on Wednesday 😁
@TheSleepyG_C 4 жыл бұрын
me
@blueberrygacha9683 4 жыл бұрын
oof
@orangedewmelon 4 жыл бұрын
h e l p
@ayatosho9647 4 жыл бұрын
Mine is on tuesday
@tougy1318 6 жыл бұрын
Her voice gives me more anxiety than public speaking alone... thanks I guess
@1tsp0tat03 5 жыл бұрын
me 2
@Chanaaaaa442 4 жыл бұрын
Same here
@itsmariam9771 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@rakshandapinky5891 4 жыл бұрын
😣😣😣 me too..what's with the fake accent!
@cheyeb.7779 4 жыл бұрын
AHAA ME TOO
@Greapes 5 жыл бұрын
How are 30% of people not afraid of public speaking???
@greenais 5 жыл бұрын
FBI not to be mean or sound smart, but humans are part monkey 😅
@mirellehaavassalu9293 5 жыл бұрын
LunaSketches well you’re half banana as well
@greenais 5 жыл бұрын
Alyssa M. H. Yes I am
@adela2733 5 жыл бұрын
Chimichanga I really like public speaking
@liamgakodi2276 5 жыл бұрын
Public speaking is fun
@sumraee 5 жыл бұрын
All the voice changing is giving me an odd sense of anxiety and I don’t like it
@nyetre7665 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahhaha same.. it's cringy.. idk why
@filthycasual1182 3 жыл бұрын
same
@leisafiroz2862 3 жыл бұрын
same lmaoo
@MinatoNamikaze-kd4xq 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one 😅
@adrianaggressive6625 3 жыл бұрын
me too i really just don't know why
@Satan666Official 5 жыл бұрын
I have a lifechanging tip if you have this fear: Don't just "get through" a speech. Be the light that inspires your crowd, you have the chance to really CHANGE a group. If it helps, talk about your feelings from the start to make you feel less like you are hiding, but breathe in confidence. Nearly every person in this crowd is afraid to get up there, and you went far enough to actually do it. Fears are only challenges for us to conquer, not chains to hold us back. Always stand up for what you believe in. Even if no one sides with that opinion, your energy alone will inspire someone. Changing your perspective on public speaking will transform the fear into strength. Mediation is VERY helpful too.
@timkanovotna3361 3 жыл бұрын
Can't believe I'm getting tips from Satan 😌
@iamgorgeous 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice Satan. From your words I can tell u'r such a great public speaker because somehow your words are very persuasive. I wish u the best of luck in everything you do! 💜
@heatherinnes6424 2 жыл бұрын
This comment made my anxious heart beat go back to normal 😂 Tyyy! 😭
@kawithyapitigala5299 2 жыл бұрын
That is so heart warming ty for the advice
@LapissHamster 2 жыл бұрын
Ur so cute Satan
@Carlito0220 8 жыл бұрын
My personal tip is : Try to make such a great presentation and speech that you just cannot wait to tell everyone.
@brooklynstaff7109 8 жыл бұрын
I really don't have a problem with public speaking but this is a good tip!
@jiak5581 6 жыл бұрын
bravo!!!bull's eye
@linagarett 6 жыл бұрын
Yes! The best way to present a speech is to make/plan a speech so interesting that you are excited to tell people about it. Aside from that, as someone who is fond of public speaking, I recommend to speak freely and to state more examples (preferably common) than terms in order for the audience to relate more.
@rusyrose1330 5 жыл бұрын
Carlos0220 thanks 💞
@roncanaveral6665 2 жыл бұрын
TY 😘
@dangggnat 6 жыл бұрын
Is it me orrr... Every time I do a presentation my voice SHAKES!
@user-ih5fk7yw3f 5 жыл бұрын
At least your voice works to make a sound
@tristris6193 5 жыл бұрын
That happens to me and my whole body shakes. So nervous right now.
@brotaytohpotato4272 5 жыл бұрын
Potato same here😅
@Tiedlux 5 жыл бұрын
My voice cracks XD
@ritikaaa3762 5 жыл бұрын
Sameee ughhh
@zephe1574 4 жыл бұрын
I'm okay with speaking in front of large crowds where I have no connection to the majority of people- but if I'm presenting to only a few people I know.. That's the worst.
@iheardthequinagain2924 4 жыл бұрын
truuuuuue
@priyabhardwaj968 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@uroojk.6366 2 жыл бұрын
I'm the COMPLETE opposite LMAO!
@cloudycupz_5550 2 жыл бұрын
True
@fhebtakanobu4804 Жыл бұрын
This is so accurate
@lakshmisubramaniam1295 3 жыл бұрын
My hands start shaking , my voice starts shivering and I forget all my lines 😭😭😭
@bhargavimn9932 3 жыл бұрын
Same here dude 😭 how did ur speech go??
@kevonjr411 2 жыл бұрын
Totally relatable😭
@vedanth7839 2 жыл бұрын
Our pain
@IslamicKids-op7ky 2 жыл бұрын
just think of everyone as your friends and I'm sure that most of em won't even be listening. And think positively about your speech
@AftermathGameEdits 2 жыл бұрын
Your not alone
@julesmcc 6 жыл бұрын
This made me more nervous and why are you screaming geez
@impossiblegamerandgacha9096 5 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes it did same 1000000000000 times the same 😅😅
@Hyelle17 5 жыл бұрын
Same thing
@kudzaii 3 жыл бұрын
It gave me anxiety.
@NickKembel 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, the voices and screaming...oh god!
@Muunsta12 2 жыл бұрын
Screaming makes me feel more intimidated, i want to die!
@wwkcd7657 7 жыл бұрын
nope just not going to school Thursday
@mc_2850 7 жыл бұрын
Emily Blaszkow I have to do this tomorrow in science class
@mc_2850 7 жыл бұрын
Emily Blaszkow for my mid finals
@esaitellez6323 6 жыл бұрын
MC_28 how did it go?!
@abdullahsepic 6 жыл бұрын
lol this guy probablty failed cause of this video
@anaachim4760 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah... Thursday is a crappy day for me too :[
@elxxc7786 Жыл бұрын
As a introvert with social anxiety, I can say that this is a big challenge for me.
@ZMYandZYR_ 11 ай бұрын
For real
@ayaka2550 10 ай бұрын
I go like bright red when I present. It’s not even a cute blush, my forehead, nose, cheeks and sometimes neck go crimson red too. It’s not that I’m scared, it’s that I’m embarrassed of going red. I would happily be a public speaker if I didn’t go red. I can’t even stop it, my face gets clammy, then I think about how red my face must be and then that’s all I can think about. People don’t understand how good they’ve got it, it affects everything in my life. I can’t go to the gym because my face goes too red, I am an athlete and when I’m done a race all the other swimmers are pale and I’m scarlet. Whenever I talk to someone new who I don’t know, or someone I think is cute I go red. Whenever I talk to a teacher I go red. One time a doctor was asking about my symptoms and I went red. Job interviews, uni interviews, meetings, you name it I’m red. Not to mention drinking alcohol and doing you know what. I’m siiiiick of it. Doctors need to come up with a cure asap
@MilMike 6 ай бұрын
@@ZMYandZYR_ @ayaka2550 same.. I am long out of school but school was a nightmare. I remember having strong physical reactions, having black out moments.. I started to drink alcohol before presentations for a while.. Once I took too much. 🤮. Now I work and I don't need to have bigger presentations yet, but I am still struggling with talking in meetings .. I wish there was something we could use. One remedy would be win in lottery ticket and live alone in the forest. xD
@BME399 3 ай бұрын
@@ayaka2550same thing happened to me every now and then a while ago. I’ve watched many videos and understand a lot about it. I can assure you that what helped me basically never go red again was just accepting it. I know it sounds counter intuitive but it fixes the problem completely. Just accept it when you go red, don’t try to hide it. If it happens, just accept it and if anyone asks just make a joke about it or make it less awkward somehow. Then it will slowly start to go away every single time you DO NOT hide it!
@LukaWillMakeIt 3 жыл бұрын
I used to suffer from public speaking anxiety A LOT, beacuse I didn't get the cause of it. I tried all sorts of techniques and strategies, but it all turned out to be useless. Then I understood (thanks to a few video that brought me to my personal conclusion) that at the root of that gigantic fear was low self-confidence. Indeed, the fear exists beacuse especially nowdays, with social medias that make us confront with others, we tend value too much what other people think about us, instead of caring what we actually want and what makes us feel good. Therefore, my personal advice would be to start putting more value on yourselves, by repeating out loud positive affirmations and start working on whatever you feel affects you to the point that you feel bad. Another advice would be that whenever you feel you're giving too much importance to someone's opinion, acknowledge that you're giving value to what someone that judges you for no reason at all thinks, so he/she is not your friend nor anyone you should care about, and back yourself up. This would be my advice, I hope it helps some of you. Have a great day.
@nxbxxha_1764 Жыл бұрын
Well, I AM Confident, However, people may not like what I say...What's the use of putting a lot of effort in my speeches if people are only going to hate it in the end?
@LukaWillMakeIt Жыл бұрын
@@nxbxxha_1764 you do YOU. Who cares about other people and external events? Focus only on you, giving your best to make as interesting as possible, but understand that at the end of the day, most people will not care about what you say no matter what you do.
@user-pc3vs3bd4j 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly everyone is my class is mean,disrespectful and rude so that's the only reason why I'm scared or else I'd feel more comfortable knowing someone won't make fun of me
@fade9209 5 жыл бұрын
Well everyone is the same.. some won't say it on your face but most of them do..
@hannahbanana6878 5 жыл бұрын
same 😢
@randomyoutuber4919 4 жыл бұрын
Potato __ this is exactly me. I can’t stand to present during my music class because everyone in my class is very judgmental and mean.
@samearly7046 4 жыл бұрын
Potato __ you’re the one who stopping yourself not your classmates. Before going up to the Podium or stage, think about this, ‘who cares a damm about these fools’ lol. Always think you’re smarter or better than everyone else if even you’re not. Those thoughts help you overcome any speech or presentation. Trust me, I tried this in college and it works for me every time.
@ismailamarir4480 4 жыл бұрын
@@samearly7046 Thanks Bro
@minnelgonzales3399 7 жыл бұрын
I need to give a 10+ minute presentation tomorrow wish me luck
@hellomeme94 6 жыл бұрын
How was it
@eviloutlaw-9-1-17 6 жыл бұрын
I've got to talk to 100+ people for five min
@KhizarHayat-mb5jm 6 жыл бұрын
Did you get to sail over it smoothly,i mean did it fare well?
@cfjlkfsjf 5 жыл бұрын
Legend says he's still giving it...
@paulverdzekov421 5 жыл бұрын
hope it was a success
@hamimsyahrumahmadmokhtar5662 4 жыл бұрын
No one: Me presenting in class: laughs for no absolute reason, stutter, forgot where am I
@mochiasmr410 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@ee3721 4 жыл бұрын
Me before school: OKAY! I got this, Just speak loud and clear. Me in school: .............. Me after school: *cry*
@Kalaxian80animations 4 жыл бұрын
Me too man! But I didn't cry cause I don't cry easily
@mishalot7taekook435 4 жыл бұрын
Army fighting!
@nishthaanupam1473 3 жыл бұрын
ARMYYYY 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
@PinkyMinions 5 жыл бұрын
Once in the ninth grade I got asked to speak in front of my class and I got shaky and sweaty and fearsome Today I am the official speaker of my college
@hotsaucejosh8982 5 жыл бұрын
What's you're favorite bread🍞
@avalol9244 5 жыл бұрын
Man, Congratulations to that hopefully I get to that position one day
@pimpgamer2818 5 жыл бұрын
STOP STOP garlic bread
@PinkyMinions 5 жыл бұрын
Unknown _ if you are anxious practice slow speaking at home and record yourself....if you fear eye contact or feel uncomfy there’s online training where you try to look photos of people straight in the eye and it’s really helpful...buy body language books that teaches confident body language ( I bought 2 books and never regret it) Being good in public speaking is also about knowing your audience and keeping up with the trends...try incorporating memes or jokes but try not to make it cringy
@aight3842 4 жыл бұрын
And then everybody started clapping.
@slappedonhook 5 жыл бұрын
those voices made me so anxious i stopped the video lol
@Marie02605 5 жыл бұрын
Pixeled Forlife SAME 😭😂
@PenguinStuffie 4 жыл бұрын
Same! It started fine but then just got weird 😆
@epohjdionysus3431 4 жыл бұрын
It’s like too formal😂
@MONOSCHEN 4 жыл бұрын
yeah it got more and more intense and it gave me a weird vibe
@laxmisoni7258 4 жыл бұрын
YOu are not AlOnE :(
@cloudychu8053 4 жыл бұрын
I hate it when I just cry in front of my whole classmates and just smile and think that everything is okay... I always forget stuffs easily when I'm nervous... This is why I hate myself.
@iheardthequinagain2924 4 жыл бұрын
don't hate yourself
@isaaclovesJesus 12 күн бұрын
Jesus loves you so so so much. You've grown so much, trust God.
@noice2161 5 жыл бұрын
and here i am watching this minutes away from my report instead of preparing
@Aishusaii 4 жыл бұрын
me too :P
@chaeee3759 4 жыл бұрын
ARMYONCE
@jennacarreras1317 4 жыл бұрын
samedtt hahaha
@ellechan4378 4 жыл бұрын
Dahyunie hahaha
@pv650 5 жыл бұрын
This is random but do u guys ever feel like purposely getting run over so u could be in the hospital the day of your class presentation? Cus same.....
@ashleywoods3894 5 жыл бұрын
Paula me right now
@xoxo_xoxo.. 4 жыл бұрын
I dont even care about looking before i cross yhe road. If i get hit then i get hit yk
@emilyvelvet4902 3 жыл бұрын
PV yesssss lmao
@kksd2229 3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@nicoleeish7004 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@esarachettri9351 8 жыл бұрын
why is everyone hating so much... shes just trying to entertain and help you at the same time
@najaaathirah2442 7 жыл бұрын
IKR !
@subwayvesubscriber 7 жыл бұрын
I didn't mind at the beginning. Even enjoyed it because it was a change from the usual boring videos, but after a while it irritated me. I feel like especially the squeaky voice that comes in-between really hurts my ears.
@yash_thebabyburrito301 7 жыл бұрын
Esara Chettri true I'm not annoyed it's kind of good
@Spideyyy24 6 жыл бұрын
Esara Chettri true
@Spideyyy24 6 жыл бұрын
Esara Chettri THANK YOU
@Maddie-fb5kg 4 жыл бұрын
i thought having to do my speech online would make it easier.... it didn't
@marissa-. 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same wayy!!
@williambv2103 4 жыл бұрын
If I make eye contact with ANY girl, I automatically start getting nervous because I am afraid they are judging me. A few helpful tips are to dress to impress If you wear something that makes you look cool people won’t judge you Another tip is avoid eye contact with the cool kids, pretend they aren’t there, look at the non popular kods
@eviebatson3518 5 жыл бұрын
1:36 Why is she talking like that it's scaring me.
@xkey5791 4 жыл бұрын
Loooool
@marinaschilling7364 5 жыл бұрын
Who else is here because they have a speech soon?
@klifto3214 5 жыл бұрын
Fax
@abdulmoiz6256 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@abdulmoiz6256 4 жыл бұрын
Infront of 900 people. 😨
@jackhennessy8755 4 жыл бұрын
Abdul Moiz howd it go
@jackhennessy8755 4 жыл бұрын
Escape The Night Theory ahh nice bro I have to do presentations for 9 subjects in the next few months and I’m not the best at public speaking but well done 👍
@ajfhsnfjsndjsjjf6079 4 жыл бұрын
me in normal classes: **crackhead energy aff** me during presentations: u-uh-umm h-hel-helw i mean hello..... *WHYYYYY!!!*
@symbolofsin_playz2851 3 жыл бұрын
Sjjshshshshhaha
@stevenlin7555 4 жыл бұрын
"Drink some water... it'll keep your voice natural" Me: (cough) what natural voice you have there!
@ol3770 10 жыл бұрын
Preparation is CRUCIAL everyone. I consider myself an introvert, I don't talk much in front of people but I always get pretty good marks in public speaking. Do your preparation like you are going to perform your one-of-a-life-time presentation. Repeatedly rehearsals will also give you the confidence and reveal the shortcomings in your work, then you can adjust it.
@WitiPlays 10 ай бұрын
Shoutout to everyone that read and this and still blanked ❤
@williamacheson3569 5 жыл бұрын
I've been doing public speaking for 8 years now. Gotta say this is the most accurate video I've ever watched on delivering speeches. Pure goosebumps
@jans07 3 жыл бұрын
People always said that I look so confident doing my presentation but i'm actually freaking out inside
@daniellastathis8643 4 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much! I’m entirely nervous for presenting my student leader speech and needed some guidance, apparently you are now my hero!!!
@brittanytaylor3261 9 жыл бұрын
Oh god when I did my speech for class I started well, then I read to fast and got so scared and frustrated that I threw my notes and curled up in a ball crying in front of everyone. It was THE MOST EMBARRASSING thing that has ever happened to me
@otchere1305 9 жыл бұрын
Right
@emilygoodman6281 9 жыл бұрын
aw that happened to me but instead i was singing in front of people. hope we both improve in the future! ;)
@Durka-Durka 9 жыл бұрын
Don't let it get you down. It's happened to the best of us! Your teacher should've helped you out, though.
@Neat95Freak 9 жыл бұрын
Brittany Taylor omg its ok dont worry its happened to a lot of people.. ive vomited once before i made my speech and was shaking the whole time im on stage.. im just glad my voice didnt shake like my body did.. because that happened to me before XD
@christinatran8302 9 жыл бұрын
Me to
@tiyonnaklein8046 7 жыл бұрын
I don't get it, I have anxiety, but my teachers still expect me to go in front of the class like is no big deal, teachers sometimes laugh at me with the class because I shake so much. and they always say in the midle of my presentations "SPEAK LOUDER! I CAN BLRLEY HEAR YOU!"
@michimeow523 7 жыл бұрын
Tiyonna Klein I know how u feel. I too have experienced this before, like everyone start to giggle and say speak louder..but I just shake it off and just imagine that they are just bunch of skeletons. 😂
@Muunsta12 2 жыл бұрын
They always does that, or sometimes u just can't remember what ur gonna say even if u came prepare. We will always but always look at the presentation we made to bring the idea back but sometimes it does not work, and u just standing there like dam!. I remember I did a presentation it didn't go well, basically I repeat my saying, I knew the topic but when stand in front I was like I forgot how to speak. I was feeking my heart beat so fast and my breathing wasn't helping. Sweaty, shaky I was a chihuahua at tgat moment but with no bark
@anonymous29384oeo Жыл бұрын
SAME
@anonymous29384oeo Жыл бұрын
I can't speak as loud that meets their expectations my voice is more calm I can speak loud when I'm with my friends But i can't just randomly increase my volume to max (ik i have to but i can't) I can't even prepare knowing that no one would hear me and the teacher will just say in the end "i didn't hear a single word you said"
@jamaisvu181 2 жыл бұрын
As a person who has a severe fear of public speaking where I had literally puke in front of everyone and cry which made my teacher have to pull me out to comfort me and call my mom. This video made me slightly confident and actually improved a little of my stuttering speeches. It's hard, but it's a progress
@inyowalls 2 жыл бұрын
I have to give a speech in front of half of my school, but I have anxiety. My teacher has put a lot of hope into me. I'm not the best English speaker in front of hundereds and stutter very often and keep shivering when nervous. This video really helped me know what to do and what not to do, Thanks!
@xsirlast1878 8 жыл бұрын
I thought it was dory's voice from finding dory.
@NouRosaldoChannel 8 жыл бұрын
OMFG
@gilmerfilms2990 7 жыл бұрын
Xsir Last Ellen?
@sparklejumpropeprincess1 6 жыл бұрын
Xsir Last ellen😂
@vincentcabuang5216 6 жыл бұрын
Ohmygod
@lemlemwoldemichael7693 5 жыл бұрын
She's screaming the whole time
@fasilatoladeji3690 5 жыл бұрын
when her tone changes she sounds like matilda's mom ( matilda the movie)
@matdila2676 3 жыл бұрын
my name is matilda and my sleep-deprived self was confused hahah
@jenishathapa4476 4 жыл бұрын
I read the whole speech and i also practice myself by standing infront of the mirror but when my turn came to deliver the speech i forgot all😵😵
@bikramchaudhary5588 4 жыл бұрын
Same here🤥😵
@jenishathapa558 4 жыл бұрын
Me too🙄😑
@prashansakarki7014 4 жыл бұрын
Haha, same here😩
@ZORO-dk3kk 4 жыл бұрын
😐️😑
@charlotte2851 4 жыл бұрын
when i public speak my voice goes so deep and trembly like holy heck i sound like arnold swavbewjnrbghrjnnegger
@cinnamoroIIz 4 жыл бұрын
@Butter frog same here and I’m a girl..I already have a low voice but when speaking in front of people I don’t know it goes much lower. :(
@charlotte2851 4 жыл бұрын
@@cinnamoroIIz yeah, girls are stereotyped to have a higher voice than males so it is probably more embarrassing if I could help with it I would but sadly I can not
@xoxo_xoxo.. 4 жыл бұрын
One girl in our class had a dry mouth and kept clicking her mouth whenever she saud "c" or "d" and everyone was sniggering. I felt soo bad
@regina7732 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a girl and for some reason my voice gets higher and it's even worse since my crush is in my class and I'm in advanced classes so all these kids are confident and they already presented their speech but I was out sick and I'm probably like the only one left and I'm gonna have a mental breakdown right now cause since I haven't done it I have a C- in that class and I feel like I am dieing and cannot breathe and its not even today its tomorrow 😭😫😫😭😭😭😫😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@charlotte2851 4 жыл бұрын
@@regina7732 feel excessively bad for you, couldn't you ask the teacher for a private session for it? Or is it public speaking practice? If you can't get a private session all I can say is rather try your best (as cliché as it sounds ik) or take the hit and say you forgot / didn't do it. The way I got past mine was just going along with it I never looked up in the process because I would get quite and extremely anxious didn't help that I'm stereotyped as the quiet kid and people kept saying speak up. Just don't think to hard about it and try do it first for you have it done quicker I'm not the best at advice as you can see but it's all I can really offer. Just don't worry about things that much and try. :D
@HeavenStarling 10 жыл бұрын
I've been doing public speaking for 9 years now, and I still can't control my fear of the crowds. This is another lesson for me. Thank you Wellcast.
@brittanyyy2020 5 жыл бұрын
After watching the video Me: "YEAH I CAN TOTALLY PASS PUBLIC SPEAKING" In school: "Oh shi-"
@kookiesandcream1947 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@symbolofsin_playz2851 3 жыл бұрын
Same ahhahah
@JusticeForTheWin 2 жыл бұрын
It's either that i get really lucky and it clicks into enthusiasm or I just get confused and nervous.
@clintonsin Жыл бұрын
I once prepared for a presentation in school. Had everything memorised and felt like kicking off immediately. I got on stage and anxiety choke slammed me out of my conciseness.
@hahahhad8193 5 жыл бұрын
Yea.. You see I'm THE ONLY ONE in class who is TERRIFIED of reciting when called.. And what's worst I happen to be in the #1 section 😔
@Kingbird66 7 жыл бұрын
ah jesus .. I'm really bad at this it's like my worst nightmare
@mohamedtsattia 8 жыл бұрын
it's a great video , but changing the tone of the voice realy annoying and confusing .
@lmao-mx6tx 8 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I was thinking about xD
@jericagraceestose7711 8 жыл бұрын
It's not annoying,it's fun!
@combatxhoop7069 8 жыл бұрын
+Mohamed Moh yeah
@user-by9kk2xn2t 8 жыл бұрын
+Mohamed Moh you right !!!!!!!DAMN i hate those freaking voicessssssssssssss
@ckl3920 8 жыл бұрын
True
@user-eh1gc7xo7q 4 жыл бұрын
Preparing is honestly the way forward. I get a mad stutter when I get nervous which made me embarrassed and ended up in a vicious cycle. I just got more and more nervous and embarrassed. So, I did the most ridiculous thing to me at the time, and I would speak to myself. Quite often. Weird I know. But it worked. I was so confident. Bordering cocky sometimes lol. Such a difference it made when I could voice myself. What helped for me was thinking I was better than anyone else, even my professor. I clearly wasn’t, in so many aspects, but for some reason it helped so much. Hope this could help anyone
@soultheotter9216 3 жыл бұрын
Me: The class: starts laughing for no reason
@6dejavu9 8 жыл бұрын
My hands become cold..my heart throbs...my voice quivers...i have no solution for this.
@keziah7488 8 жыл бұрын
+Deja Vu toastmasters. look them up
@hydrogeddonn 8 жыл бұрын
+Deja Vu I shake, turn red, become dizzy, and my voice breaks. I basically just mumble nothing that makes sense.
@giantrock616 8 жыл бұрын
+Deja Vu Same here :/
@samyapuranik2527 6 жыл бұрын
oli oli SAME SAME SAME
@itzbomber6802 6 жыл бұрын
Same here
@MsSugarcube97 10 жыл бұрын
These tips don't really help me. T.T Every time I have to say something in front of my class, I just can't think of words anymore. And there I am, stuttering while every single person in the room is staring at me. And it gets worse and worse. My cheeks turn red and I just stare at the paper which I'm holding in my shaking hands, fighting back the tears of embarrassment. And some girls start giggling and talking to each other, I just can't- I hate it. ._.
@l.m.h8223 10 жыл бұрын
Its the SAME thing that happend to me the other day , really embarrassing
@IvyAltdrachen 10 жыл бұрын
These tips don't help me either.
@PeaceStandsxo 10 жыл бұрын
Me neither. These tips don't help me at all.
@hlokxx 10 жыл бұрын
Drink 5 mL of something strong like ob-sherry, never done it but I think it might help you.
@josephp.averagemiddleschoo3046 10 жыл бұрын
That's me too.
@its.koenaaa 2 жыл бұрын
Not me watching this video while I'm presenting in a matter of hours😭
@giancarloalvezalip6013 2 жыл бұрын
I will have a graduation speech next week, I remembered this phrase through scrolling in tiktok, it says that, "Do you think people cared if you're nervous". And it boost my confidence and continue to believe in myself.
@sweetysaputrirahman3629 7 жыл бұрын
I have presentation tomorrow! And I'm very nervous 😩! But thank you for helping me!😊😊😊😊😊
@SKY911 7 жыл бұрын
I came here for public speaking..... not to kill my self
@FrenchfryGamer 5 жыл бұрын
Don't
@ryanabbas8675 5 жыл бұрын
lol
@aboundinggrace7029 5 жыл бұрын
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" John3:16 I hope you are good
@goodfellascasino9238 5 жыл бұрын
Dont
@yifeili4661 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@zashreen 3 жыл бұрын
Not many people have this but I have this stutter that never goes away ever since I was a child. Public speaking really made it worse because of my anxiety + insecurity 😪
@lun4ticplayz Жыл бұрын
same, I only stutter when I'm public speaking
@mahinshoaib7860 4 жыл бұрын
The way she speaks is sooo motivational
@Stroopwafe1 8 жыл бұрын
I had to present something in front of my class. It went horrible, my anxiety got so extreme I could not say one word. And everybody was staring at me, which made it even worse. Even though I had prepared everything, even when I would throw in some jokes. I wasn't able to speak. I just wanted to faint or disappear. I just said "Thank you, I'm sorry" before quickly running back to my seat. The teacher came to me after class and said I could do it again at a later date. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? D':
@itsvivi3326 8 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, i have to present tomorrow to, you're not alone.. I'm terrified af
@Stroopwafe1 8 жыл бұрын
It'svivi Did it go well?
@itsvivi3326 8 жыл бұрын
+DarkPhantom10 yeah 😊
@pongangelo2048 8 жыл бұрын
+DarkPhantom10 ...MAN! you're not alone.... My presentation report at General Psychology didn't go well, I ended up sweating a lot and my classmates starts laughing while I'm in front. I better not to mess up on my another report...( Sorry I'm not that good in English.)
@Stroopwafe1 8 жыл бұрын
Pong Angelo I'm so sorry that happened to you :(
@ari-mae18 8 жыл бұрын
I really hope this work. I have to present something in class tomorrow and I'm freaking out!
@itskade7327 8 жыл бұрын
SAME UGH!
@ari-mae18 8 жыл бұрын
Khadija Hussain it went pretty well actually, I just pretended that there's no one listening to me.
@ari-mae18 8 жыл бұрын
Kalyn Mae How did yours go?
@emmagray9092 8 жыл бұрын
+Khadija Hussain i have a presentation tomorrow:((
@ari-mae18 8 жыл бұрын
Everything Emma You'll do fine. Just pretend your in your room, and be yourself
@kvzsmix8622 Жыл бұрын
I’m currently taking a required speech class (due to a program I’m in) as a high school student with extremely bad anxiety, and our teacher is making us do impromptu speeches every class for the next six classes. We get five minutes to come up with a one minute speech about a specific topic/question she presents on the screen. Today was the first one we had to do, and the paper was shaking so bad in my hands that you could hear it rattling and I was even having trouble reading the words. It’s extra frustrating because the teacher doesn’t even give us any time to prepare for our speech. I don’t know what to do, I have my next speech class in two days and every time I even think about presenting again, I feel like I’m going to cry. I want to talk to my teacher, or even the school counselor, about it, but I feel like they wouldn’t be able to do anything or help at all, and I’m worried my teacher may even get frustrated at me because the whole point of speech class is to get better at public speaking. I also think that’s kind of dumb, though, because as someone who’s had horrible anxiety since childhood (and may have an anxiety disorder) presenting in front of the class isn’t going to help. All it’s going to do is make things worse. If presenting did help me get over my fear, I would be over it by now, because I’ve given my fair share of speeches. Anyways, sorry for rambling on, does anybody have any tips?
@mcccccc453 Жыл бұрын
Public speaking sometimes is a calling. And it's one of the most fulfilling things to do because you're there to give. You're there not to present yourself but to empower, to change, to inspire people.
@Pollix780 6 жыл бұрын
1:31 Thank you Harley Quinn
@symbolofsin_playz2851 3 жыл бұрын
Jahahhaha
@cosmocelli 8 жыл бұрын
The way the voice changes distracts me from what the hell its all about
@toriherringjw7603 2 жыл бұрын
lol she was like "dont count how people there are" I can relate
@aliasoberhusband5474 5 жыл бұрын
Why do teachers make you present in front of classes don’t they understand that some people’s fear of speaking in front of people are really bad ? I have really bad anxiety and I hate presenting
@paulverdzekov421 5 жыл бұрын
A million thanks. I actually used this video during a presentation last week training some organization workers on facilitating a workshop/seminar. I can't say how the video helped me pass the message because it was awesome. And you know what?? Everyone was amazed and the project owner made me one of their officially recognized freelance trainer 😁😁😁😁
@Saguragi666 8 жыл бұрын
Hands clammy/sweating + increased heartbeat + stuttering + mental block in the middle of the speech = nightmare came true :'(
@7amma1230 8 жыл бұрын
+TheCrimsonFckr :P i feel you..especially mental block because i loose total focus every time that happens i mean everything else can be controlled but when you can't even think it become scary
@NehaGAEC Жыл бұрын
Gosh!! Where are videos like this nowadays?
@randomfemale4322 4 жыл бұрын
I start to stutter and fidget and it gets really awkward so I avoid eye contact, continue and then when I'm done, I wait for the whole day to be over so I can hide in my room.
@bleunt 10 жыл бұрын
Huh, I' the opposite. I need to kind of wing it. If I just partly improvise it's no big deal at all. It's when I've prepared "too much" and get hung up on saying the right things in the right way that I get nervous. If I take it too seriously, I get sick to my stomach. I need to just have an idea of what to say, and have fun just going with it.
@malakzaarour5151 5 жыл бұрын
I just love this channel. Its very supportive and direct to the point, i didnt need to wait until i get what i rlly want. All love and support
@tuuleluule3899 4 жыл бұрын
I need to present in front of my class. I asked the teacher if i could present for her privately. But of course no. The place where I'm in school right now isn't even where I live, i live on the other side of the earth.... So i really miss my home and i don't know how to keep my tears back while presenting...
@LuxeGirlLeAndria 2 жыл бұрын
This still helps 9 years later. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@glorianjau4958 7 жыл бұрын
I thought her voice change and tone made the video more interesting. So STOP HATEN'
@egonzo777 5 жыл бұрын
ouuu fellow carat :)
@koffinkiss 7 жыл бұрын
1:40 and you suddenly started talking like Harley Quinn?
@Samuel-wf6kk 3 жыл бұрын
This is the best and most effective video I have watched on public speaking phobia, wow. Thank you.
@stelo1558 2 жыл бұрын
omg, i wasn't expecting the first step to be said that way 1:26 . nearly spat my drink out 😂
@KristinaHalsnes 8 жыл бұрын
Did not help. It was just a lot of rules that made me more nervous
@MarkusVFG 8 жыл бұрын
Yes, I know... what worked for me was the practice and studying a lot the theme, in the way that I would feel confident and more relaxed
@KristinaHalsnes 8 жыл бұрын
+MarkusVFG I had a presentation for my class today. I was so nervous that my class had to leave the room. Then I had the presentation for my teacher. I still got nervous
@MarkusVFG 8 жыл бұрын
+Kristina Halsnes Oh wow. I hope that it gets better with time. I was a bit shy when I went to high school but now in university I can make a 2 hour presentation very comfortably, and I hope that it will be your case soon. You can try by presenting to your family or friends about topics that you are familiar with and than make it increasingly more uncomfortable. Anyhow I wish you can get better at this because I know how you feel.
@KristinaHalsnes 8 жыл бұрын
+MarkusVFG thank you so much
@SOSM209 8 жыл бұрын
Be Yourself and Believe In Yourself, Positive Self Talk in Front of the Mirror Helps and Affirmations and Control of thoughts. Oh Create Videos and just Let Go Have Fun and remembe the world is Playground..... I Believe In You and I believe You can do What Ever You Want to Do.. ..
@madeleinemartinez368 8 жыл бұрын
I have a presentation tomorrow and this made me more nervous :(
@madeleinemartinez368 7 жыл бұрын
Oh look its previous me nervous about a presentation and here I am again watching the same video because I have another presentation that Im nervous about. Guess nothing's changed :,)
@whereami2477 7 жыл бұрын
Madeleine M How'd they go?
@madeleinemartinez368 7 жыл бұрын
where am i they went okay ig. It seems like Im always nervous about a presentation and then a few weeks after im done presenting, no one ever remembers anybody's presentation. Anyways speaking of, I have another presentation next week so thanks for bringing me back to this video
@whereami2477 7 жыл бұрын
Madeleine M Ok good luck
@madeleinemartinez368 6 жыл бұрын
I forgot I watched this video omf I never learn🤦🏻♀️
@niaparihar4095 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you ... It was pretty helpful...... Now I'm so looking forward to my next public speaking opportunity.... I think I'll perform better than I always do after Ur tips ..
@jayclawwit6489 4 жыл бұрын
I get nervous everytime I speak in front of a crowd but when I made them laugh once, I forget all the nervousness
@awildsquirtle1012 9 жыл бұрын
How come she starts sounding like harley quinn at 1:30
@MichelleRodriguez-mc5mz 6 жыл бұрын
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@011azr 9 жыл бұрын
What an irony, a video about doing a public speaking, yet the one who presented seems like the worst public speaker.
@jeanbob4030 9 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking.
@jdb9262 9 жыл бұрын
Agreed.. she gave me more anxiety..lol
@daniel-josephgriffin1293 9 жыл бұрын
011azr Glad I'm not the only one thinking that. This was painful.
@WhtJon 9 жыл бұрын
So you know lots of public speakers? You could not tell what they were doing? I would like to see you try set up a video on public speaking that is not boring and monotone
@011azr 9 жыл бұрын
Jon White This is the video about being a better public speaker, isn't it? And yes, I've seen tons of public speakers both in real life, online, television, radio, etc. Why would I have to set up video on public speaking? I came here because I know my weakness, I need something, some advice to make me a better public speaker. If anything, this video can't really convince me that it's a right advice for being a better public speaker because the way the narrator speak is too hyperbolic, not to mention painful and cheesy.
@vedashrisawarkar585 2 жыл бұрын
I just can't stop my laughing😂🤣 She's awesome!
@likealways4845 3 жыл бұрын
You know what i think about? That is if i get panick attack or start crying in front of the whole class i will be more humilated.
@lksaguiar 8 жыл бұрын
I'm laughing so much at her voice! I can't even pay attention to what she says
@ashleyclvclls 5 жыл бұрын
I wish you (Yes you! The reader!) the best of luck with your next speech!
@steelinyt5516 5 ай бұрын
Thanks mate!. Imma rock it.
@dia_nx 3 жыл бұрын
Okay so I just wanted to add that you should also look at the audience while speaking because it gives more confident vibes and because it doesn’t look like your trying to ignore their existence, or you could just look straight without looking at the audience if you have a fear for eye contact like me.
@jonnybevan8 4 жыл бұрын
I’m in year 10 and I have to read in a whole year assembly I really don’t like public speaking, my voice gets shaky, I get breathless, shake and go red
@iheardthequinagain2924 4 жыл бұрын
im sure you did well 💜
@forevaschemin 8 жыл бұрын
she sounds like matildas mom lol
@abigail-gp3cc 8 жыл бұрын
omg yeah ,lol
@hollyuses 7 жыл бұрын
forevaschemin I was thinking the same thing omg
@iamsherk2605 6 жыл бұрын
No they're principal's voice
@sophiagarica6727 6 жыл бұрын
forevaschemin lol yeah
@sophiagarica6727 6 жыл бұрын
υнм уєαн not much
@mayf4iriez 5 жыл бұрын
does anyone else have a presentation soon? i have mine in three days and im SOOOO SCARED!!!!!
@blu7917 5 жыл бұрын
Ari Elle how was it
@mayf4iriez 5 жыл бұрын
@@blu7917 it was pretty awful. i felt scared in class but when i went up to the front of the class to speak, my vision got really sharp and it felt like i was looking through wavy glass, i felt really prickly and hot, but I didn't die, so that's good. ☺
@blu7917 5 жыл бұрын
Ari Elle you did well :)
@mayf4iriez 5 жыл бұрын
@@blu7917 thanks i guess, i think.... {: )
@indigoblues8454 4 жыл бұрын
@@mayf4iriez Try to practice in front of your siblings/family or friends, it'll help. I know that a lot of students get nervous, sweat a lot and their stomachs start to hurt, but just try some few things. (I don't guarantee these would work) - Practice multiple times. It'll help you remember everything so your presentation doesn't sound choppy and messy nor would it make it seem as if you're scared. Breathe multiple times - Pretend as if it's a conversation, and you're talking to someone who you trust the most. That person doesn't even have to know you. It'll help you forget that anyone's there. - Think of your classmates as some random objects that you don't care about. It'll just make you forget they're even there. - Look at only your friends (maybe teacher) when presenting. Take a few glances of other students but stay calm A lot of the time people don't want to present because they're afraid of being judged (except in front of those who they're comfortable with). But, just remember that those who you think will judge you are just plain stupid people who you do not like. Who are they to judge you? Just remember that, and soon you'll forget about them because you no longer care about them or their thoughts. When someone asks a/multiple question(s) stay calm and answer properly. When they ask the question just pretend it's someone close to you who's asking the question, then you'll answer with a more clear and calm voice. Hope this helps! :-)
@joycewhitworth4252 Жыл бұрын
Wow, this was absolutely amazing!!!!! I love your energy, it did help with my anxiety, professional tips delivered just for me in my kinda way.
@mokranevisaeverywhere8681 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. It's give me a motivation for speaking without stressed
@Gce880809 6 жыл бұрын
Just study everything and search more if necessary memorize what you are going to said the more you know the better and more confident you would A tip Write in index cards what you need to said and what are the possibility questions that the teachers would make about you presentation it really helped me hope it help someone else ❤️
@hemanthkumar3316 5 жыл бұрын
I have a speech recitation on 5th of June and it is infront of 1000 people ( approx ) But I should prove myself because , I m the first student of my school to spell up speech without script. Wish me BEST OF LUCK .....
@infxnite4431 5 жыл бұрын
So how did it go?
@isabellariv_ 5 жыл бұрын
@Hemanth kumar how did it go??
@user-ns8dr3tz4z 4 жыл бұрын
when im talking in front of the class, idk why but im not nervous at all when im sitting in my seat or just SITTING and talking in general, but once i have to stand up and talk, my voice gets shaky, i choke on my words, and it gets kinda difficult breathing cause i get SO NERVOUS
@mauroagustinrojasalvarez8485 Жыл бұрын
this video was uploaded A YEAR BEFORE I WAS BORN AND NOW IM WATCHING IS WHAT?!
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