Let me tell you Tony, this time last year, you made video called "Are you the price?". That video challenged me and hurt me a bit at the time. It also pushed me to make lifestyle changes. A year later today, I have dropped 40 pounds, I eat clean and exercise regularly. These messages may sound harsh in the moment but they are good for us.

I’m on a budget so I stopped getting my nails done and I use cuticle oil every day...my nails have grown longer, stronger and healthier. I take my vitamins, meal prep and drink a gallon of water everyday and my hair is thicker and my skin is clearer. I love to workout so I threw away all of my busted active wear and invested in my clothes. It has helped me a great deal to love myself and I even work out even more 💕 there’s so many alternatives to live your best you! Now I’m ready to leave San Diego and explore. It’s helping me to work towards writing my book. Let’s get it family!!!!

Great message Tony. So many single women don't understand that there is a preparation that comes before marriage. Not only do you need to be taking the best care of yourself and present the best version of yourself before marriage, you must continue being attentive to yourself once you're married as well.

when u look good u feel good

Self care = self respect

“If you can’t afford a bottle of nail polish, you don’t need to be worried about no man!” 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂 but that’s real…

🙌🏽 Esther, Rebekah and Ruth were not running around with loose booties. Matthew 25 talks about the 5 virgins that were ready with oil and 5 virgins that weren't ready for the bridegroom to come. As women of God, we have to always stay ready or in preparation for our bridegroom to come. We do not know the day or hour. Esther prepared for 12 months with oils Rebekah stayed about her business Ruth also stayed about her business Stay about you're business and take care of you're body and God will bring that man into you're life at the proper time.

Before this pandemic , I used to get my nails and feet done every 2 weeks . After the pandemic hit , and the nail spa closed. I purchased a gel UV light with gel nail polish from Amazon for $40 bucks. I learned and started to do my own gel manicures.

I love Tony’s old videos. I know he’s tired of talking about the same thing over and over but these videos have such jewels I love watching them over and over

God ain’t sending no king to a mess!!! 💯 Point, blank...PERIODT [in my TG voice🗣😜]

Not to sound like one of those pick me simps, but the same women asking “why do I need to do all that for a man” are the same one’s missing out on potential matches. Expecting a man to be everything on your lists but you can’t even tweak your appearance or whatever it is to really catch that man’s attention isn’t fair. Be the best version of yourself.

BacteriER 😭 Tony Gaskins is hilarious man

Ladies take care of yourself and invest in your beauty routine, however that looks for you. Stepping into your feminine power is attractive and important ✨

Stay ready so you ain't gotta get ready 💯

Tony is doing right by his wife. If people want to hate on that, there’s something wrong. I know men that make good money that would rather have the nicer car and make himself look better than the wife. I got the message and it’s not about materialism. Stay blessed.

Ladies, we need to stop gettin booty hurt when we hear messages that tell us to “level up” honestly we ought to be doing this already, before desiring to attract a future husband. DO 👏🏼YOUR 👏🏼WORK!!! It’s our pride and rebellious spirit that’ll keep us with “I ain’t doin this/that fo no man” 🤦🏻‍♀️dennnnn go sit in yo single corner 🤔😑Because with that attitude you ain’t ready to be wifed-SUBMISSION requires we learn in sacrifice in singleness-sometimes that sacrifice requires us to sit in front of that mirror and reflect on why we aren’t already desiring to be our best-for God, self then others. 💯💯💯

Stay in your lane, do not kill yourselves trying to afford something that you can not. Aspire to reach your goal but if you cannot afford top quality, do the best you can until you can do better. Complacency is the issue. Do not stay complacent.

“ Don’t wear the wig and not comb it out!! “ Break it down Tony... 🤣😂😂🤣😭😭

“Don’t settle when you know you’re not where you want to be” TG 🙏🏾

It's going to take another year for me to get my look together after all I've been through, but I will become all of that and the best version of myself!

There is a huge difference between materialistic impressionist and a humble, respectful decent citizen who is asking for authentic love.

I died when Tony came out with that pillow 🤣😩

I exercise almost everyday I eat healthy, and I focus on my brand brain body and that is me being the best version of myself . You've taught me a lot. You're amazing at what you do

“That’s not in the budget. I’m tryna have financial peace. I just lick em” 😂😂😂😂😂

This man said” looking like you just fell off the back of a train!” Lmbooooo 😆😆😆

ladies ladies ladies it’s so important to take care of yourself. if you can’t take care of yourself you can’t take care of no one. stop worryin about a man and worry about ya self😘

I watched a similar video at the beginning of 2020 and I dropped 20 pounds and toned up my body. Also, stopped the cussing. Gross 🤢 can’t Beleive I used to cuss like that Starting reading more, doing my makeup everyday and putting on those eyelashes to work and drinking a gallon of water a day. I’m telling you, how differently people treated me. Even the grocery store lady bagged my own groceries, when your supposed to bag them your self and she put them in my cart. Men acting very different. Putting me on a pedestal. Always asking how I’m so in shape and what do I do, to get my hair that long and shiny. I didn’t know men liked women with long, shiny hair. Anyways, I had to look at myself and make a change, because I too want to attract my husband.

Tony is simply saying it's ok to enhance urself. but be urself!

I NEED a man with clipped and clean fingernails. 💯🤞🏽👏🏼 It’s so important to me. Hands/shoes/teeth Funny, my sons are 22/24 and I never see their hands messy. I taught em well.

Thanks for the laughter and light heartedness here Tony! The “dont be out here lookin like Raggedy Ann” the fake belly, and the beaver chewing on the finger nails! 🤣💅

Take care of mind, body, and soul in 2021.

When he slid the lace front I hollard 🤣🤣. He ain’t lying.

Listening to you and my mom walks in saying “speak brother! He’s telling the Truth” 😂 keep doing ya thing Tony! We appreciate you!

It’s a mindset if you can’t afford makeup, cosmetics, or good quality clothes it’s a choice. They have so many companies that participate with Klarna, afterpay, and affirm. These companies will break down your order into 4 easy interest free payments. Not trying to advertise just spreading knowledge, sometimes you have to fake till you make. Thanks Tony, not trying to disrespect you are your family by this comment. 🥰

“If I clip them.. then I’ll be the 5th member of Jagged Edge” 😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀

Go to the store looking a mess and see if that man in front of you hold the door; He won't, but when you looking good they run to get that door.

“well no that’s not In the budget I just lick them and that gives them a shine” had me dying 😂😂😂

I started getting ready for 2021 November last year! Lost 30 lbs and still going. Getting in shape jogging 7k 6 times a week, growing spiritually and mentally! Gotta work on my 3 B's...issa must!

Tony shifting the lace front!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Excellent advice, Tony. Ultimately ladies, we ought to be adorned with Jesus. With the necklaces, crown and jewels he places on us. Our bodies, including our appearance, are the temple of the Precious Holy Spirit. Eat better, sleep better, get into a good and fun physical fitness program for you, wear appropriate and lovely makeup that works for you, style your hair, nails etc. but make sure our houses are in order too. Keep our eyes on the beauty of Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit shall usher us into true undefiled beauty inside and out. The man shall come when we are ready but Jesus is our first love. Blessings and Happy wonderful New Year 🔥🌈🌟

Tony, are you sure you aren't a comedian on the side? You have me screaming in this house! lol!

You know at work tomorrow (first day back since Thursday) I can honestly say I’m excited because I’m going to have these videos LINED UP for me in my head phone in one ear and the other ear free to incoming patients!

Oh boy!! OK.. I need to stop biting my nails, get my cuticles cleaned and start wearing polish!!! I do bite my nails!! I'm the kind of woman that wears sweats and jeans to work!! Time to clean it up!! We need to look more soft, y'all... Im not a tomboy, I just dont take the time to fix myself up anymore because I've gained 70 pounds, I'm in gradudate school and I never go anywhere... It's time for me to get it together!!

Ladies, I'm not one to wear acrylics. They make me so uncomfortable, but i decided to start taking care of my nails 2 months ago. I use nail polish sometimes, but I found some inexpensive nail polish strips called dashing diva nail strips and I absolutely love them! They make my nails looks so beautiful and clean! Drop your self-care tip below! Let's level up our appearance this year!

My Zig Ziglar, Tony Gaskins. Almost listened to that plucking weeds Sunday sermon 16x’s! I need to hear all of this cause it’s already what is on my heart and this is like always, my CONFIRMATION.

This message came right on time! I've been preaching to the choir about how important it is to level yourself up, in all aspects of life, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, before being concerned about being in a relationship. Some people just aren't ready to receive such a message. Meanwhile, I'm focusing on elevating myself while some women I know refuse to do the work on themselves and wonder why they continue to attract, low-value, no good men.

If you don't take of yourself, how can you possibly take care of someone else? How can you take care of a husband? Self care is urgent as we strive to be our best! Happy 2021! Life Coach Sophie

The truth hurts, but it’s necessary. Thanks Tony.

Yepppp-both Esther and Ruth 👑

Yes! We have to be the best versions of ourselves period. There’s no getting around that. Side note: I just about died when Tony pretended to have a huge stomach. 🤣😂

Tony, I workout 7 days a week. I walk or ride my bike. I am fully invested in myself. I wear "NIKE" from head to toe because their legging/ tights are excellent quality wash after wash!!!

Ladies please listen to Tony, as an esthetician it still blows my mind when a woman comes to see me and during the consultation she tells me “oh I only wash my face 2x a week” 🥴😧 this is unacceptable bc I see you with this 80inch silk weave but your face is congested with dirt😐 when you take care of your self from the inside out and invest in whole foods, fitness , and proper skincare, you will have a natural glow💕

Yes I agree Tony woman should keep themselves together rather they are married or single. Good video.

I had to turn my phone down cus now Tony coming for me 🤣😩 I’m broke busted an disgusted but I’ll change 😌

Nowadays women don't mind changing the outside of themselves to look the "part" but when it's time to strip away mindsets and patterns there's a conflict. We should desire to be pure gold not 14k plated gold....just as we want a pure heart ❤ and body . Don't be in a rush for a thing (a man, a job, a title or position) go after God. Desire to be what He says you should be. Stop caring about what men say and inquire about what the Lord says. Growth is beautiful ....work on you and WAIT ON THE LORD

This is my tagline for my signature at work. Be YOUR Best

"You are enough...but there are different versions of you" ✔ Thanks TG 🙏🏾

Back in the day we use to dress for success because you never knew whose watching but this person could help you to get a better job. So why not be your best self? Losing or gaining weight is not easy but gotta get on the work because BMI to high can cause diabetes and high blood pressure. You don't want to finally meet a spouse and be sick. I will admit since March 2020 Covid-19, being home it has gotten easy to be lazy jogging pants, PJ's & not have hair done working from home. However, I will make myself presentable if I must go out. Thanks Tony I appreciate your honesty which is the best policy. I can't stop laughing you are crazy! Going in today Tony. God bless you and your family, the truth shall set you free. Amen

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The water bottle & the pillow nearly took me OUT!!!

OOOOHHH WWWEEEE!!!!! Tony stepping on all kinds of toes in this one! This one had my dying laughing out loud, Tony even laughed at himself on this one. Seriously though, this is nothing but facts. We all should be always working on improving ourselves and not be complacent.

Some people JUST DON’T GET IT, they got a rebuttal no matter what you say. But, thank you for taking the time to HELP them out. SMH

Thanks Tony for this! The coaching call on Friday inspired me to level up, and help me break out the poverty mindset the next day I decided to go to the mall & get matched correctly for makeup because I said why not upgrade my look & I decided that I would try and purchase some quality makeup because I usually buy make up from the drug store (not to say there isn’t quality makeup at the drug store) I just wanted to get in the habit of exposing myself to the finer things in life. Unfortunately because of C19 the makeup people can’t touch your face BUT I walked away with some quality skin care products to improve my natural skin so when I do wear make up it’ll look better! So I’m excited to improve myself & my wardrobe I said I wasn’t going to buy anything for myself until im at my goal weight but why not treat myself to a nice pair of shoes or a quality purse in the meantime. I feel like this year I need to really focus on the body B in the three B’s more.

As I journal?! Two videos! Wow! God’s glory! Praise GOD!!

YESS presenting ourselves as our best version to attract the best version

“You is a beaver”😂😂😂😂

I have to level up this yr. Great video.

2021 is going to be a great year...TG just gets better with time! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

I know watching ads help so sometimes I will walk away and make a cup of coffee or tea and let the ads play. I am so glad that I came across Mr Gaskins. Knowledge and a laugh all for free.

Tony, you are hilarious!! The wigs though!!

“Who want somebody who nails look like u is a beaver?” 😂😂😂😂 God Bless you Tony !!❤️

I’m so excited about what 2021 has in store for me! Going to continue to do the work on my spiritual being, physical body, and mind.

I appreciate your words of wisdom and knowledge. Whatever we need to change we must take necessary steps to improve. Thanks God bless you

Perfect video to conclude the night 💫

All the “oh’s” are killing me 😂

I'm really thankful for your free course you just gave out if yall haven't went to go sign up at Tony Gaskin academy soul tie and self love course you will be very grateful like me

Tony was off the chain in this one 🤣🤣🤣

The blessed tribe is here 🙏

Tony is spot on in this video!!! Being on the journey of becoming a "Better you" is such an empowering and liberating journey! Not only are you preparing yourself for Who God has for you but you're also learning more about yourself as you evolve through the process. Physically, spiritually emotionally and financially.

I agree. Everything you mentioned is a part of self love. How a person looks is a representation of how they feel about themselves. If you love and care about yourself you will always strive to be your best self. Looks and otherwise.

😂😂😂😂😂 That water-bottle belly!

Your messages are spot on. I’m 25 and have been listening to your videos for about a year. You have helped me so much! God bless you.

Tony I was laughing so hard about how you were describing the wig I was crying!!!

The parody of the Spirit of Beg to Differ is the absolute best.. it’s how and what a loving big brother would say to his sis, and it’s got the right amount of truth and positive emotion to integrate the lesson. So good! Thank you, Tony! ♥️

I know this isn’t supposed to be funny but I be needing these laughs. I be cracking up, I hear you loud and clear though Mr. Gaskins

I remember when my eldest daughter told her lil brother girls don't like dirty boys we couldn't keep him out the bathroom lol.

I agree in keeping your appearance up

This man delivery cracks me up 😂

Lol, fifth member of jagged edge. We need to hear your singing skills now Tony. You are hilarious 😂😂😂

I can't with Mr. Gaskins and the pillow and the beaver nail biting 🤣 You are not lying in this video Mr. Gaskins 💯

"I held bike" for "I held back".. Tony cracks me up 🤣. Love his videos!

A quote I came up with is “You are more than enough YOU DESERVE THE BEST YOU.” Don’t seek to validate or conform. When you’re your better self everything will fall or start to fall in place.

This is probably one of my favorite videos 😂

I don't know why ladies get so offended when a guy who works out, eats right and takes care of themselves is not attracted to them who are overweight/obese, doesn't eat right and say I'm "curvy" not realising a man doesn't want to do extra weightlifting!

This was 🔥🔥🔥... I believe in investing in self, and if it's not the level you're able to afford, do you in that season, but don't get comfortable there... Coach Tony always putting it plan and easy to follow, I truly appreciate the nuggets of wisdom, confirming this journey I'm on 🙏🏾Blessings to you and your family... BLESSED TRIBE

I love this message, invest in yourself! I have Locs and they’re freshly re-twisted with a new hairstyle. My hairstyle and clothing before was kinda matronly looking. Just changing my hairstyle and clothes I’ve noticed more men have been paying attention and going out of their way to help me. I feel that it’s because my hairstyle and clothing choice is more feminine so I’m probably giving off more of a feminine vibe, whereas before I was just wearing what was more comfortable but the clothes and hairstyle wasn’t flattering. I’ve also started to eat better mostly fruits and vegetables. Now I need to get my eyebrows arched, nails done and exercise daily.

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I can't with him he soo funny 😂😂😂😂😂it's the true. TG. U the best 😊😊😊

Yes I'm starting a new eating lifestyle change. Order me an Ab and squat mini gym. Tread machine is next. Reviewing my closet. I'm doing a self evaluation with these video. Thank you Coach Tony! it's tight but it's right. 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽

Whew my spiritual brother talk dat ishhh this video right here gon strike alot of weak bihs you speak the truth and nothing but the truth I was cracking up the whole video 😭😭😭😭

Hi everyone! all I have to say is Tony does read his emails and comments! I’m cracking up at some of his comments 😩😩 but he’s keeping it 💯 we as women do have to absolutely take care of ourselves! Men pay attention to everything, nails, elbows, tracks 😩 and feet, and not only that, it feels good as a woman to pamper ourselves we deserve it! Blessings ps Tony Gaskins we hear you! Blessings to you and the Queen 🙏🏾