"Becoming obese made me confident"

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Ай бұрын

Just because others have no goals and aspirations that doesn't mean that you have to become like them. Set your own goals and live life how you want to, not how others want you to live it.
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@balkangains Ай бұрын

Fate leads him who follows it, and drags him who resist. --Plutarch Join us 🗺: discord.gg/CtrZdyV3AT

@---Sasha--- Ай бұрын

Don't confuse confidence with delusion

@wenus4391 Ай бұрын

Although I don't advocate for being obese, thinking that you are rather confident than not is always much preferable and useful

@freewind6368 Ай бұрын

⁠@@wenus4391there’s a fine line between arrogance/delusion and confidence. Being over confident/delusional will prevent you from seeing ur own flaws or habits/actions that will hurt you. So it’s a very fine line.

@aclock2 Ай бұрын

@@wenus4391 Groundless confidence is delusion I believe. You need to have something exceptional to be confident about, whether it's knowledge, skills, money, EQ, IQ, look, life achievement......etc There is nothing to be confident about being obese, not only it's unhealthy, it shows a careless and lazy lifestyle. You must live in a place where most people genuinely consider obese more attractive than fit to be confident about it.

@gamrage Ай бұрын

I'd say "Don't confuse confidence with resignation." She's lost all her self-confidence that she believes that she's in a state of mind where it's beyond the point of fixing. That's basically giving up on life. Can't run, can't squat, can't crouch, can't crunch, can't hustle.. She's just an inedible potato..

@allegrifan4933 Ай бұрын

@@wenus4391 definitely not 'always'

@Lejeron Ай бұрын

If you cant bother to be healthy, how can you expect anyone else to build a healthy relationship with you?

@thanhdaptra Ай бұрын

-said no one, but should be known by everyone -

@elastoblasto Ай бұрын

Believe it or not there are people that don’t want to be healthy and those people do find each other and have healthy relationships. Relationships are built on trust and common interests not just health.

@tozak196 Ай бұрын

@lorduttu I agree with you, just wanted to say that the "Being obese isn't bad" is not correct. Sorry, just didn't anyone to have the wrong idea and thing it's fine!! Have a good day

@bobbobb4804 Ай бұрын

If she doesn’t respect her own body enough to not destroy it, then she definitely wouldn’t respect you.

@FilthyFrankenjoyer Ай бұрын

I'm physically well built and she still has more chances at finding guys who are interested than me finding girls. We are much more easier to get than women.

@theusher2893 Ай бұрын

Men avoid her because she's a damn planetary body and they're trying to avoid burning up on re-entry

@mssophiad03 Ай бұрын

😂

@Civoker Ай бұрын

nerdiest thing ive ever read

@monkelifter Ай бұрын

@@Civoker the fact that i knew you were black

@may-K-47 Ай бұрын

@@monkelifterwild 😭

@mrretektor Ай бұрын

Man, you're awesome

@Horzinicla Ай бұрын

That girl didnt say anything wrong though. She feels better not wanting men approaching her, shes not delusional in that sense

@mssophiad03 Ай бұрын

Woman looks GREAT for fifties. Keep on the grind kings and queens 👑

@YarbroK Ай бұрын

Age goals right there. Healthy is always in style no matter what age or set back.

@mssophiad03 Ай бұрын

@@YarbroK and she also doesn’t come off like trying too hard to be young either. She’s just BEAUTIFUL.

@amer6706 Ай бұрын

Agreeeed

@Thegreenmapper Ай бұрын

I think the first girl took “the bigger the better” a little bit too literally

@felin_de_la_nuit Ай бұрын

💀

@dashcrowngd8954 Ай бұрын

Poor choice of words

@TheIce_CreamWarrior Ай бұрын

@@dashcrowngd8954 how

@allenbeltran4696 Ай бұрын

Losing muscle really is the worst because gaining it back feels like returning to where you started instead of moving forward.

@smcdonald9991 Ай бұрын

As a former obese I can say that rejecting fat acceptance saved my life.

@Kara_._2417 Ай бұрын

asskisser

@NormalChannel95 Ай бұрын

0:18 That's a woman? - The Lorax

@memeliciousletmemesbrighte4150 Ай бұрын

"And what the hell is even that" - Angry Dad meme -

@tekashimaahshiha647 Ай бұрын

she looks healthy

@bry756 Ай бұрын

Always hilarious looking when they try to look like men and end up looking like Stephen Colbert.

@elikingyg7993 Ай бұрын

thats not a woman bro

@tekashimaahshiha647 Ай бұрын

@@elikingyg7993 ??

@EnoEshk Ай бұрын

As someone who wants to loose weight, I came into this implicitly judging the people who looked more fat in this, then it got to the end and I realized this wasn't about that, but was about confidence, goals and motivation. This video humbled the hell out of me real quick, its stuff like this that's why I follow you're channel.

@leonus_XD Ай бұрын

Good for you

@warnertesla8297 Ай бұрын

Didn't read lol

@QueeferSutherland1 Ай бұрын

"loose weight" skin removal required.

@allegrifan4933 Ай бұрын

@@QueeferSutherland1 what?

@QueeferSutherland1 Ай бұрын

@@allegrifan4933 For some reason people say "loose" when it's "lose" it was a dumb joke about loose skin..it wasn't hard to follow lol.

@hakanleventkaplan7952 Ай бұрын

Respect should always be there and has nothing to do with how much you weight but about how good character you have.

@chipbutty3645 Ай бұрын

Most people have bad character so all u can respect them on is their efforts

@coolscorpion.2234 Ай бұрын

I love how the second 2 just enjoyed being healthy, there's something really nice about that

@swagit4174 Ай бұрын

140kg???? Why the hell does that spell confidence?? This woman never been out of her fantasy bubble

@vinterskog Ай бұрын

How do you expect to be respected when you don't respect your own body?

@Fade-ks5zg Ай бұрын

ohh BURN

@chipbutty3645 Ай бұрын

U shouldn’t seek to be respect u should seek to be successful. The problem with most obese people is that they are not successful in any way. Sure being fit means very little because anyone can do it but at least it’s something u can use to garner respect

@vinterskog Ай бұрын

@@chipbutty3645 Respect is not something you seek, it is a natural consequence of your actions. And yes, it is expected to receive when you value yourself.

@ThisChannelViolatedGuidelines Ай бұрын

Do you think people who smoke, are underweight, drink alcohol, work 12 hours a day, etc. are undeserving of respect?

@vinterskog Ай бұрын

@@ThisChannelViolatedGuidelines yes

@notenoughcalories Ай бұрын

Being delusional* makes me more confident

@gravimasters8772 Ай бұрын

It’s a coping mechanism

@cmbaz1140 Ай бұрын

How the fck did these men outrun the gravitational pull ??? 😮

@christopherredford3540 Ай бұрын

The men who avoid her must be moving really fast to escape that huge gravity.

@chi7818 Ай бұрын

Naw you can move at a slow leisurely pace and still outrun her.

@thingocsuongbui806 Ай бұрын

There is 2 types of 200 lbs. First : Obese guy. Second : Absolute testosterone beast.

@CyberWarezz05 Ай бұрын

The problem is that she has the "my soulmate should like me the way I am" mentality, which a lot of people have these days. She tries to justify it with "at least men that I don't like don't try to have s*x with me", but it will hit her hard when men she likes will tell her that she's not their type. And yeah, truth hurts, but appearance matters a lot and losing weight can make you much more attractive, but most importantly it's beneficial for your health.

@Lmaoook Ай бұрын

These women who get sensitive about weight.... Are the women that dont want to be held accountable for anything... No man approaches them and they say shit like this

@Civoker Ай бұрын

what woman approaches you?

@JdjKk-oo3wg Ай бұрын

@@Civokercringy that you try to attack people for having an opinion, why don't you go hit the treadmill for a bit

@EyelessAugust Ай бұрын

@@Civokernot a single one for sure

@troublemakermadhatterprodu7836 Ай бұрын

I get sensitive about my weight. About 80% of my weight gain has been due to medication. Me being sensitive about it has nothing to do with not wanting to be held accountable..it's about knowing that no matter what I do, because of my meds, I will struggle with weight gain for the rest of my life. I have reached a point in my life where I don't care if a man approaches me or not. I have approached a few and been rejected and that's fine. But my point is...your analysis here is just a little off if you are judging large women in general. There are some like the one in the video...but not all of us think like that.

@Jonics18 Ай бұрын

The last one made me smile. Used to have that mindset back when I was fit.

@Nerdynessocity Ай бұрын

I became morbidly obese due to childhood trauma/neglect and "assaults with sexual intent" that never saw justice. I have lost 100lbs from committing to moving on from that. To see the kinds of things the 310lbs lady said bothers the fuck out of me. Like I know from personal experience that it is mental illness, but sill holy fuck. Keep on working hard, brothers. We all deserve health

@sadyoshhours2769 Ай бұрын

It isnt your fault. If you read the body keeps the score he talks about the clear correlation with trauma and morbid obesity. Have self compassion no matter what

@B3tterEv3ryDay Ай бұрын

Dude tune down the volume at the end it's way to loud.

@mattnardo Ай бұрын

There’s no escape when it comes to health take responsibility for your own body or pay the price.

@raymondcampusano2991 Ай бұрын

The most weight you lose, the most self conscious you become about how bad you were when you were obese. I look at obese people and it is just a reminder saying, I cant look or be like that ever again.

@-Yurizen Ай бұрын

Men avoid the first woman because they don't wanna get crushed 🤣

@U2befantom Ай бұрын

Translation: "I've let myself go so much that men no longer find me attractive, and I need to say something that makes me look like I don't care, as I have no intention of losing the weight"

@captainsoi Ай бұрын

Ironically, those people who choose to be obese because they "couldn't care less" about societal standards are the ones actually obsessed and talking about it all the time. Because otherwise, they'd have the mindset of those women in the video who equate being fit to HEALTH and not necessarily beauty.

@ChillBro.1 Ай бұрын

All forms of coping, but to each their own.

@shreddedgains Ай бұрын

Visualize yourself achieving your fitness goals, feeling stronger, healthier, and more confident with each workout. Every drop of sweat is a step closer to becoming the best version of yourself. Keep pushing, and remember, progress takes time but every effort counts.

@michaelurmo7984 Ай бұрын

Fair is fair

@xirlio8532 Ай бұрын

She's got that ultra wide body building gone wrong setup.

@Tiemurillo Ай бұрын

0:18 Thats a woman??? I thought jerry lewis grew a foot

@maggygonzalez4885 Ай бұрын

She looks like an older woman with short hair. It surprises me how quickly you confuse gender just because you have short hair and wear a suit.

@donwalsh9426 Ай бұрын

Platinum, gold, silver, bronze, and special mention in the 'loser in life category'. Don't let the door hit ya where the pig done bit ya.

@606thumper Ай бұрын

i lose a couple of pounds in the Throne Room - does that help?

@triggeringsmuganimepfp7611 Ай бұрын

The attitude of this channel is basically try until you W

@tracycameron2580 Ай бұрын

Escaped a relationship where i was objectified and treated like a ceks slave...as a result i gained over 50 lbs when i left, i realized i never want another relationship or to draw attention to myself in that way ever again, but now i feel safe its time to loose some of the weight, i just don't feel comfortable in this bigger body and its hurting me.

@DabbingTaco Ай бұрын

Men doesn't avoid her, her density pushes men away unconsciously.

@No-Lie-I-Want-To-Die Ай бұрын

Don't wanna get caught in her gravitational pull.

@witchreturns2263 Ай бұрын

Where do they find these ladies 😀

@matiosjed Ай бұрын

When was the last time you went for a run? Her : about 100lbs ago

@Aliciaek Ай бұрын

Don't worry...be happy...

@everw1sh Ай бұрын

I wish I knew how to gain weight so easily as others do. I've been trying to gain weight forever but my father cursed me with a fast metabolism so no matter how much I eat im around 100 lbs. Its not fair and i'm str8 up jealous of fat ppl for this cause they can eat normally and dont have to over eat by 1500 calories to just gain 2 lbs so honestly she should be confident lucky her

@fabez6073 Ай бұрын

There’s nothing healthy about being fat. You’ll often see examples of skinny people being exceedingly intelligent or at the zenith of a given hierarchy, almost never fat ones.

@everw1sh Ай бұрын

@@fabez6073 I don't want to be fat I want to be healthy I am underweight. A healthy weight for my height 5'2 would be 120. I fluctuate around 98-104 lbs. You don't know my goals nor what's healthy for my body.

@Nico-fl1jn Ай бұрын

100lbs ago... good old times

@Chris-fh3qv Ай бұрын

No motivation to look after themselves, no discipline, sedentary, lazy, no imagination (because your life, mostly, revolves around food and sitting around). Blows my mind when these people say "I just want a normal relationship". Yeah well then get to a normal weight because no one will accept your lifestyle, which is counter intuitive to living a good full life (literally).

@kgtc Ай бұрын

When you build muscle, number and size of cells increase. Detraining means the cells shrink. Muscle memory is that you still have a greater number of cells, allowing you to bounce back quicker and stronger.

@mutiyangpilingbabae9207 Ай бұрын

I hope they still observe to become healthy it's more important.

@villager12932 18 күн бұрын

If you are obese be confident,work out hardly and don't listen to other people's criticism but don't lie yourself by thinking being obese is okay. -Wise man

@jojojo89517 Ай бұрын

140 kilos ?! Bragging about weighing as much as a newborn Killer Whale is actually insane bruh.

@jenniferibarra7737 Ай бұрын

Even gaining 10 pounds affected my self esteem I want to be fit and happy and healthy ❤ blessings ❤

@prestow Ай бұрын

crazy people are many times sure of themselves

@bubblegum7661 Ай бұрын

i love how this channel is literally an incel's paradise 90% of the videos are about slandering women to make the audience feel good about them selves

@Chris-hp2gg Ай бұрын

I prefer the term, "robust".😂

@lilplaya1824 Ай бұрын

"Just truly do not care" actually means "I have completely given up."

@ViewerOnline101 Ай бұрын

Confident in what? That no one will ever hit on her? Well, she's right about that.

@tomcashin7548 Ай бұрын

YOUR LIFE CHOICES, YOUR LIFE! NUFF SAID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

@ModekaiPL Ай бұрын

"Men avoid me" hard to avoid her, she takes half of the road

@kool-aidman6955 Ай бұрын

What’s crazy is that there are people out there who actually fetishize obesity. I’m not talking about them wanting someone who’s thicc. Nah, more like they want someone who has their own gravitational pull.

@jamessm4401 Ай бұрын

If you don’t respect yourself, how do you expect anyone else to respect you?

@DuoMaxwellDS Ай бұрын

Confident people wouldn't get angry when other points out their flaw. I bet this woman would go on a melt down if someone dare talking about her weight.

@mateusz92380 Ай бұрын

Wtf bro i weigh more than 140kg and i look like half her size horizontally

@Zraihan98 Ай бұрын

what was that thing at thr end with glasses

@M8OfTheNorth Ай бұрын

Don’t confuse carelessness with confidence.

@webstertarrell9760 Ай бұрын

"men avoid me" of course, they are afraid to get eaten

@pocketpixxie Ай бұрын

sis gave up

@johannesschmitz6370 Ай бұрын

jesus loves you

@mahinkhan3708 Ай бұрын

I regret clicking your profile

@humantacos9800 Ай бұрын

She could write a book on rationalization.

@dinosaurguts14 Ай бұрын

i lost 20lb on my deficit and slowly a little confident.

@Maverickgrindstar Ай бұрын

I'm 6ft tall and weigh 244 pounds with heavy muscle mass from factory work... that blob weighs like 70 pounds more than me with no muscle... that amount of fat is sickening to think about

@NiceToMoleYou Ай бұрын

She’s not confident, she got hit with reality lol

@monitorlizard9971 Ай бұрын

i dont understand why her eating 74 trillion cheetos for breakfast has anything to do with me.

@Brian_Moser1118 Ай бұрын

failing a driving test made me a confident driver

@robertinbreed9322 Ай бұрын

I'm concerned 😢 with my recommended

@superbob24 Ай бұрын

The fact that dudes were still approaching her at 210lb is sad.

@STEALTHNINJAGAMER Ай бұрын

i can see how collestrole has side effects like confident 💀

@leonerd1763 Ай бұрын

Well, I actually don't find anything wrong with the massive lady there.Sure, obesity is deadly and not pleasant to the view, ok, but if she is alright with herself and doesn't berate her other it's fine by me.I would prefer her a bit lighter for her own phisical sanity but that's her choice

@minutesnippet Ай бұрын

5 stages of grief and for some they never make it to stage 2

@bobbyavitia Ай бұрын

She found a way to still shift some blame onto men. Only person to blame is the person eating.

@NubbinsSawyer1974 Ай бұрын

0:09 Were they even trying in the first place??? I doubt it. (Referring to the "dudes" she mentions)

@crniberi9184 Ай бұрын

Men do evasive measures when she is to close.

@Buciasda33 Ай бұрын

WTF am I watching? More importantly... WTF are you posting?

@otissied652 Ай бұрын

Basically she is saying its better that shes apathetic now W Balkan Gains

@Diego-uo3gi Ай бұрын

140kg .. good detail 0:02 thanks

@Pieman626 Ай бұрын

How to avoid sexual harassment 0:12

@petrstanovsky7648 Ай бұрын

I understand she is confident, Godzilla is a powerfull monster after all. 😅

@pallas_kater Ай бұрын

I can't say I care about societal standards, but gaining too much weight is just so inconvenient 🤷‍♀️ I can't imagine how hard is to carry 70-80 extra kilos daily

@aboxthatdrools Ай бұрын

Delulu is not confidence.

@joebot9309 Ай бұрын

Being obese is not confident. I know!!

@XDR2201 Ай бұрын

That’s what delusion looks like.

@wenus4391 Ай бұрын

Maybe off topic a bit but can someone explain me why is there such a big emphasis put on building muscle, becoming bigger etc? Not only on this channel but on several others also. I just can't grasp that. Of course sport is important and healthy but why exactly weightlifting is the way to go. I prefer swimming for example. Does it mean that I am weaker in some sense because I don't like lifting? Seems kinda goofy to me

@leguminous7564 Ай бұрын

You're completely fine being athletic in other ways, weightlifting is just popular with men because it's the fastest way to get strong/look nicer. Just activates something in the monkey neurons for some of us.

@BaldianOfIbelin Ай бұрын

If she was telling the truth she wouldn't have said it in the first place. Why does she need to say that she feels more confident now when they didn't ask her? Her only question was how much she weighed, not whether she felt good about her weight.

@CuriouslyInquisitive Ай бұрын

I noticed the attitude before her size 🤷‍♂️

@gravimasters8772 Ай бұрын

The girl with the tattoos is either lying or ignorant of her weight. She’s way over 310

@bannedtwice7767 Ай бұрын

I'm confident she won't live past 50....

@dodeker7845 Ай бұрын

The blob is an under rated mutant.

@thevisitor1012 Ай бұрын

This.

@therussianblin2175 Ай бұрын

the last girls definetly me 😂. It's so frustrating fr

@RodSherwood1 Ай бұрын

To that 300 pounder with blonde hair….. 🧔🏾‍♂️👩🏿‍🦲🧔🏽‍♂️👩🏾‍🦲love your type.

@ShawnLangford Ай бұрын

0:03 How do I pretend to look like a strong independent female because no man wants to get with me.

@fanty9910 Ай бұрын

I went today to the gym for the first time because a friend invited me. I enjoyed the visit.

@gefreyanson9885 Ай бұрын

everyone talking about the whole obese thing but no one talking about how the thing that guy lifted(idk what its called) was so heavy IT BENT THE METAL BOXES BELOW LIKE WTF .. any gym freaks care to tell me if thats as impressive as i think it is

@Dr.Ngegitigegitibaba Ай бұрын

It is a Strong Man competition log.