Before & After Black Wife Effect Trend On TikTok/ Black Husband Effect too 😂

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Maria Davids

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22 күн бұрын

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@user-xp6xw8zl6z
@user-xp6xw8zl6z 20 күн бұрын
I'll just say this, when you ask a Black woman why she married her White man; she'll talk about the traits he has. When you ask a Black man when he dates a White woman, he'll talk about the traits she doesn't have. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
@roseinharlem8152
@roseinharlem8152 20 күн бұрын
And the same with a white woman who marries a black man. Her reasons are all physical and attraction etc. Which is why their marriages are least likely to last. Cynthia G once said, a black man and a white woman share the same pathology. Basically both are narcissists that deserve each other. White men who marry black women have the most successful marriages. Their traits and desires align perfectly.
@ElisaSarah
@ElisaSarah 20 күн бұрын
Spoken like a TRUE forever-alone single man.
@Michelle.1952
@Michelle.1952 20 күн бұрын
That's true. It just shows that even when they date out they're still thinking about us. They need to value for Becky for who she, is not for who she isn't.
@darncash2056
@darncash2056 20 күн бұрын
You forgot he'll talk about why he doesn't date black woman. We never hear why he values this white woman as a human being and woman. It's always to reinforce why they don't like themselves or black woman.
@user-xp6xw8zl6z
@user-xp6xw8zl6z 20 күн бұрын
@@ElisaSarah 🤣🤣🤣 damn you think I'm a man and single. You need to fix your radar Hun 😘😘 keep walking 👋🏾👋🏾
@melsutubeification
@melsutubeification 20 күн бұрын
This is exactly how black men became so popular... because black women were dusting them off and shining them up... now we're just taking our Godess given talents elsewhere!! 🎉🎉❤❤😂😂
@mora_007
@mora_007 19 күн бұрын
Yes girl
@MysticalPreshXO
@MysticalPreshXO 19 күн бұрын
Exactly!!!
@Ifeanyiijeh
@Ifeanyiijeh 19 күн бұрын
You believe that?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@brittneyrobinson4471
@brittneyrobinson4471 19 күн бұрын
❤THIS RIGHT HERE! Yeeeees maam 😊
@PatoNani18
@PatoNani18 19 күн бұрын
People really believe the most out of pocket sh*t
@KiaraMarieeee
@KiaraMarieeee 20 күн бұрын
Black women are soooo fire. I really love us 😫
@tree_the_kid
@tree_the_kid 17 күн бұрын
Mhmmm me too love ❤️🙌🏾 and our beautiful black sisters are glowing and happy that’s all that matters to me frfr.
@summersultra
@summersultra 2 күн бұрын
We are The ONE.
@HHCF713
@HHCF713 20 күн бұрын
All the white guys went from nerds to Jon B swag. 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@Michael22352
@Michael22352 12 күн бұрын
what puzzles me is y'all will do this to a wyte nerd and not a black one, y'all are hypocrites, at this point, stop talking about black men, y'all culturally appropriating black swag and just hand it off to the damn cave dwellers like have y'all not learned yet?
@thebrownblossom8683
@thebrownblossom8683 10 күн бұрын
That part. You nailed that one in the head. I can’t unsee it now😂.
@theartistmind7028
@theartistmind7028 8 күн бұрын
This 😂 and I’m sure Jon sees these comments like “now how I get in it?”😂
@LoveK1
@LoveK1 20 күн бұрын
BM can’t even help themselves let alone help you.
@tsholanangphalatse998
@tsholanangphalatse998 20 күн бұрын
😂 wow I'm dead
@balancefound
@balancefound 20 күн бұрын
It’s COLD 🥶 in the shade😂
@shygirlcomplex
@shygirlcomplex 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂👍🏽☝🏼
@user-zz4pm5ll9r
@user-zz4pm5ll9r 20 күн бұрын
OMG This comment took me out. But it is so very true.
@Melanated483
@Melanated483 20 күн бұрын
This is why I REFUSE to have ANY children (#Happily Childfree) especially with my husband. I just need to stay moisturized, keep up my skincare routine, moisturize, get a chemical peel, stay hydrated with WATER 💦 and keep my edges growing consistently at my Hair Salon. I am too beautiful to ALLOW a BM run me down and DRAIN my beautiful essence like my Dad did to my Momma, and we grew up in the quiet suburbs 😂 Having kids/children will AGE YOU FASTER with a BM. If you don’t believe me, just look at the project/hood areas…💯🎯
@kennyav25
@kennyav25 20 күн бұрын
It should be called "WHEN YOU TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE THE AMAZING PARTNER THAT SHE IS "
@obatalaosun2222
@obatalaosun2222 20 күн бұрын
THIS
@MelanatednNature
@MelanatednNature 19 күн бұрын
Bingo
@yolaaaaa120
@yolaaaaa120 17 күн бұрын
Right nothing to do with color
@spacebar9733
@spacebar9733 16 күн бұрын
@@yolaaaaa120 not exactly. In terms of race white male black female couples have the highest happiness rate and are the least likely to divorce.
@BlackJesus_888
@BlackJesus_888 14 күн бұрын
Other way around to treat a hard working black man how they deserve to. Be treated to
@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds 20 күн бұрын
You ever notice how so many Black men, when asked why they chose the wyt woman they're with, don't talk about her *at all,* and instead will start talking negatively about their experiences with Black women? Like, it won't be "I met *her,* and I fell in love with *her,* because *she* is A, B, C, D, E, and our principles and ethics aligned, and her being wyt never entered into it." So often, it's "Black girls weren't checking for me, they called me corny, they're this or that." It's really rare to find one who fell in love with a woman and she just happened to be wyt. Alot of them went *looking* for a wyt woman to be with, and that's the weird part.
@AleishaJones-ek1mi
@AleishaJones-ek1mi 20 күн бұрын
It's so true. I've seen wyt women treated like garbage by bm. They cheat on them and the wife looks written down. And they have the nerve to complain about bw. They want someone that they can control.
@EnchantedLove30
@EnchantedLove30 20 күн бұрын
The part that no one will ever be honest about.
@ap19sehkmet
@ap19sehkmet 19 күн бұрын
Always
@loyaltyb71052
@loyaltyb71052 19 күн бұрын
Yes because black men would have to say, "because she's not black"🤷
@D13vest
@D13vest 18 күн бұрын
BW do the same exact thing and the worst part, BW have have never dated ever in their life always come up with some elaborate lie as to why they "date" wm
@eliteluxurymeditations950
@eliteluxurymeditations950 18 күн бұрын
I see a bunch of well loved and well watered black women. Because she is treated well, she is able to pour back into him. What a beautiful circuitry. This is how it should be! 💐
@deebeepbop
@deebeepbop 16 күн бұрын
Amen!👏
@SunseedStarchild
@SunseedStarchild 20 күн бұрын
BW can literally make anyone and anything better!! ❤❤❤
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
Exactly
@digimonalvatrax2738
@digimonalvatrax2738 20 күн бұрын
I just hope they don’t forget about themselves AND other Bw/black girls
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
@@digimonalvatrax2738 true
@jrobinson39
@jrobinson39 20 күн бұрын
Except black men. There is no hope for them 😂😂😂😂😂
@Melanated483
@Melanated483 20 күн бұрын
@@digimonalvatrax2738The issue is that are other BW ready to Date and Marry outside 👨🧔🏼🧔🏻??? Are BW teaching their daughters to exclusively level up in class and date, court and marry Middle Upper Class Foreign 🧔🏼👨🧔🏻 Men?? Are BW ready to Leave BM behind in the community and explore, experience, and expose themselves to other communities’ cultures??? If the answer is No, then BW will have to leave them behind and let them find out on their own, hopefully it won’t be too late 😢and cost them their life.
@Jadaistyping
@Jadaistyping 20 күн бұрын
I’m married to a Korean man and he has definitely changed for the better in the fashion department lol 😂❤
@zinhlekheswa5237
@zinhlekheswa5237 19 күн бұрын
I wish I can see pics Good for you ❤
@ReinaAfricana
@ReinaAfricana 19 күн бұрын
Awww it's that black girl magic you have❤
@D13vest
@D13vest 18 күн бұрын
Thats all that matters? Fashion
@readyornot27
@readyornot27 18 күн бұрын
@@D13vest It's not all that matters, but it's the most relevant in this context given the topic of the video.
@c16621
@c16621 16 күн бұрын
..but Korean men are hot, so the potential is there.
@victoriousspirit8955
@victoriousspirit8955 20 күн бұрын
The black husband effect has me crying laughing! LOL! LOL~ OMG!
@kia.203
@kia.203 20 күн бұрын
Crying. Okay 😂. I was looking like " when she glowing up"? 😂
@miyangtangwan7046
@miyangtangwan7046 20 күн бұрын
With the rates of divorce of black men, I need to see the baby mama effect on white and Hispanic women.😂
@FreeBirdee
@FreeBirdee 20 күн бұрын
I hollered so loud😂😂😂
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 20 күн бұрын
It’s worse than that and y’all know it! The world knows it😂eeew
@Melanated483
@Melanated483 20 күн бұрын
Ciara is the only glow up effect we can see on a BM and that’s probably because Russell Wilson accepted Ciara, and trust her with his Heart ❤️ Soul & Mind and Russell is not fully indulged into the Culture of BM. He is very much separated from BM. That’s why Russell Wilson had a Glow Up, when Ciara Leveled up.
@nothingbutme1150
@nothingbutme1150 20 күн бұрын
Of course it’s black girl magic because black woman are literally Magick in human form. IYKYK.
@Laquia
@Laquia 20 күн бұрын
✨🧍🏾‍♀️✨🧏🏾‍♀️✨💅🏾 ✨🧍🏾‍♀️
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
Exactly we got ppl out here paying for what we have naturally
@nothingbutme1150
@nothingbutme1150 20 күн бұрын
@@shaypope4732 Nothing is wrong with anyone paying to enhance their looks or get work done regardless of race or gender. What I meant was black women Magick is our essence, swag and the way we love and embody love. Now that’s something many have tried to replicate and it will never be the same sauce.
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 19 күн бұрын
@@nothingbutme1150 never said it was all I said was we got ppl out here paying for what I got naturally ie big lips big booty
@kirawong4629
@kirawong4629 19 күн бұрын
We add sauce to everythang!
@daebak_hana
@daebak_hana 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 this is 100% accurate. I politely asked my hubby to replace some items in his wardrobe. I actually got rid of 95% of the items and he looks 1000% better!
@Spokentruths725
@Spokentruths725 19 күн бұрын
A black man would say you were in your masculine even though they never are 😂
@rebeccasmith1008
@rebeccasmith1008 20 күн бұрын
When you treat your woman good she will BLESS YOUR LIFE. There isn't a couple I know of where the men lack because they treat their women well.
@miyangtangwan7046
@miyangtangwan7046 20 күн бұрын
We need this black wife effect trend with the Beyoncé song 'Upgrade You'.
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
Lol yup
@mora_007
@mora_007 19 күн бұрын
Yeeeees
@fasameijer794
@fasameijer794 19 күн бұрын
Yessss😂
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 19 күн бұрын
Nah, something better than that-Bey herself wasn't smart enough to dump her oWn Naker and get with a levelled up Brad! I vote for K Michelle and Justine Champagne's "Country Love Song" instead! 😍
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 19 күн бұрын
@@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 true but most ppl know queen b song I tried to sing it in the comments lol
@harajukugrl
@harajukugrl 19 күн бұрын
The men are gaining weight from all that good, seasoned food. And they also look relaxed and at peace.😊
@MariaDavids
@MariaDavids 19 күн бұрын
Yes they do
@lolomora9056
@lolomora9056 20 күн бұрын
the ww in the black husband effect look HAGGARD af
@sukichann6739
@sukichann6739 20 күн бұрын
Haggard 😂 clock it LMFAO
@aaunyea4799
@aaunyea4799 20 күн бұрын
She went from looking 20 to 40 real fast
@kirawong4629
@kirawong4629 19 күн бұрын
Because they’re stressed out, overworked, under loved 😂
@The13thGoddessAries
@The13thGoddessAries 19 күн бұрын
Honey that stress will age you like no other lol 🤡💀
@Dolphinboi
@Dolphinboi 18 күн бұрын
You people hate white women but love white men. Terrible. Y’all must feel intimidated by white women. White men do date white women far more often than they date black women
@E.V.A.P.
@E.V.A.P. 20 күн бұрын
I'm so happy to see black women being uplifting just sad that it's by other cultures and not our own culture of men.
@caramelmocha7680
@caramelmocha7680 20 күн бұрын
Black men are not “our men”.
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 20 күн бұрын
They're not our men, and they're proud to tell the whole world that fact every single day.
@NamasteInYourLane
@NamasteInYourLane 20 күн бұрын
Didn't black women say, "we are the mothers of humanity"? That would mean ALL men are our men. Lol 🤷🏾‍♀️
@caramelmocha7680
@caramelmocha7680 20 күн бұрын
Black men are not nor have they ever been “our” men !
@kirawong4629
@kirawong4629 19 күн бұрын
Love who loves you❤
@ambasd733
@ambasd733 20 күн бұрын
The blk dude at the end is CLEARLY the Stay at home mom ... in his relationship .. he has time for all the videos ... 😂😂😂
@miyangtangwan7046
@miyangtangwan7046 20 күн бұрын
All that time and not a lick of sense in ANY of his videos. This dumbbell said women hadn't watched enough animal documentaries to choose the bear over a man. We have watched enough true crime documentaries and seen the stats of black men unaliving black women and kids.
@truettadevil
@truettadevil 20 күн бұрын
He don't even wear a wedding ring. He's too bitter to be someone's husband 💅🏾
@Michelle.1952
@Michelle.1952 20 күн бұрын
Ok?! I thought I recognized him, didn't he do a video mad about the man vs bear scenario? I do wish BW would stop commenting about 🖤 xy marrying/dating out though. We all know how those relationships fare out but even if we didn't it's none of our business. We need to focus on giving the black wife affect on those men who value us.
@Jadaistyping
@Jadaistyping 20 күн бұрын
He’s clearly bothered. They don’t want us to move on and up. Bw dating out is becoming more popular and it’s scaring them imo at least that’s what it looks like.
@truettadevil
@truettadevil 20 күн бұрын
@@Jadaistyping this guy is married to a whole White woman and he's STILL bothered 😭 All of his videos are him commenting on Black women. He misses the seasoning, clearly 💅🏾
@quianaj27
@quianaj27 20 күн бұрын
The black husband effect 😂😂😂😂😂😂 . The black wife effect is amazing. Black women better start dating out.
@mangopudding5979
@mangopudding5979 9 күн бұрын
Aren't they dating out already?
@maef7026
@maef7026 20 күн бұрын
All the men look sexier and healthier.
@rtj2397
@rtj2397 20 күн бұрын
Paul Wall is another example of black wife effect
@Melanated483
@Melanated483 20 күн бұрын
Ciara is the only effect we can see on a BM and that’s probably because Russell Wilson accepted Ciara, and trust her with his Heart ❤️ Soul & Mind and Russell is not fully indulged into the Culture of BM. He is very much separated from BM. That’s why Russell Wilson had a Glow Up, when Ciara Leveled up.
@LeviThaBoi
@LeviThaBoi 18 күн бұрын
Paul wall imitates black dudes. Why y’all like him if u don’t like black dudes?
@rtj2397
@rtj2397 18 күн бұрын
@@LeviThaBoi what black dude is he imitating?
@CoffeeMate-mu6ng
@CoffeeMate-mu6ng 18 күн бұрын
@@LeviThaBoi I like black dudes. They don't like me though
@__gemoftheeast
@__gemoftheeast 17 күн бұрын
​@LeviThaBoi I disagree. He behaves like the white guys I grew up around. White but culturally black. Lol
@gothhydran
@gothhydran 20 күн бұрын
I guess this can be equated to that movie Napoleon Dynamite when the older brother met his black girlfriend online and left his boring hometown with her all changed.
@miyangtangwan7046
@miyangtangwan7046 20 күн бұрын
That was one smooth movie recommendation right there. Appreciate it.
@TheSentientSensei
@TheSentientSensei 20 күн бұрын
Lafawnduh!!!
@Iloveallmsc
@Iloveallmsc 20 күн бұрын
Great example!! 😊
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 19 күн бұрын
#KipAndLafawnduh!!! 🤩
@BlueJay-qj1rm
@BlueJay-qj1rm 18 күн бұрын
I love that movie lol
@barefootedbougie
@barefootedbougie 20 күн бұрын
"Watergun Kelly" "Look like a little boy and old woman at the same time: 🤣 I see why she married him. That sense of humor sexxxxiii 😂
@DaughterofDiogenes
@DaughterofDiogenes 20 күн бұрын
Right!
@MugethiGitau
@MugethiGitau 20 күн бұрын
Exactly what I said! He's hilarious 🤣
@asoultress
@asoultress 19 күн бұрын
I bet she glowed up his humor too. Em folks too bland by themselves. Eeks.
@valencia9981
@valencia9981 19 күн бұрын
😂 yes. He be outta pocket with some of these comments.
@barefootedbougie
@barefootedbougie 19 күн бұрын
@@valencia9981 From that lil "enter the blk wife" quip I said booooy watch it with your crazy self 🤣
@__gemoftheeast
@__gemoftheeast 17 күн бұрын
"Enter the black wife, which i do every chnace i get." "Call me a leaky ceiling bc i am dripping." 😂😂😂 he had me dying chile
@extra_small
@extra_small 20 күн бұрын
Mark Zuckerberg missed out on his glow up and his goatee ❤
@Laquia
@Laquia 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 SHADE!!!!!
@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022
@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022 20 күн бұрын
All men aren’t willing to go on the glow up program and we respect his choice, the point is that he’s happy, glow up or not. But we love nurturing people; its nice when they play along instead of calling us nags.
@allenkihunde6945
@allenkihunde6945 20 күн бұрын
😂
@Bobisworld
@Bobisworld 20 күн бұрын
Can you please explain this? Mark zuckerberg?
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 20 күн бұрын
He sure did.😂😂😂
@blaqwabbit
@blaqwabbit 20 күн бұрын
Out here leveling me up like pokemon what's going on lol
@PaperMario64
@PaperMario64 20 күн бұрын
You made me crack up at work
@Laquia
@Laquia 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kehonan
@kehonan 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@kirawong4629
@kirawong4629 19 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@db6881
@db6881 Күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@kia.203
@kia.203 20 күн бұрын
Well, we know who didn't get the "glow up" 🤣🤣.
@Laquia
@Laquia 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@PeachFitnessTV
@PeachFitnessTV 15 күн бұрын
when BW love, they loveeeee when WM love, they loveeee
@helsinki-syd
@helsinki-syd 20 күн бұрын
OMG this was so funny 😂😂😂😂. What I love is that it's the husbands themselves who created the trend because if it was the black women who did I'm sure black men would have twisted this somehow saying black women are haters or wanna be picked
@dantayhylton9938
@dantayhylton9938 20 күн бұрын
A true look at ciara husband, his style got better than when he was with his white wife.
@briana14333
@briana14333 17 күн бұрын
Right! And this trend is showing the beauty spectrum of Black women and I think the men that marry them know they’ll have to and actually want to elevate.
@monkey.dchomsy9464
@monkey.dchomsy9464 20 күн бұрын
My favourite vers of the black wife affect is Patricia Bright's husband. Like it's crazy how much a moisturiser can make such a difference 😂😂😂😂
@greenytaddict
@greenytaddict 20 күн бұрын
😭
@Bobisworld
@Bobisworld 20 күн бұрын
And Lauren and Cameron
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 20 күн бұрын
lol dang lol
@Karla-op1gn
@Karla-op1gn 19 күн бұрын
Told you seasoning makes everything better. 😂 😂 😂
@sarauniyaGH
@sarauniyaGH 15 күн бұрын
"Enter the black wife... which I do every chance I get" OKAY CONNOR 🤣🔥
@Neetabeeta1972
@Neetabeeta1972 20 күн бұрын
I have so much to say here but I won’t…i will only say this, black girl magic is real, don’t let anyone stifle your light.
@DifferentDose
@DifferentDose 20 күн бұрын
That Black Girl Magic, that Black Girl Magic! 🎶 😍 😁💜💋💖👑🤩
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
So true
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
​​@@and93077you got that special touch no stylist needed
@DifferentDose
@DifferentDose 20 күн бұрын
@@and93077 Dang, went from snowman to straight fire.⛄➡🔥👌You Go!!!
@Summer_Sunset15
@Summer_Sunset15 20 күн бұрын
Right on!
@ericamena333
@ericamena333 20 күн бұрын
This brings to mind Travis Kelce and Kayla Nicole! He was looking real dapper after he starting dating her and now that he's with Taylor he has regressed.
@Michelle.1952
@Michelle.1952 20 күн бұрын
I mean, he's a kept man now he doesn't have to put in the work. Taylor will have an iron clad pre-nup though. He gives very much house husband. I can't believe he made that girl pay her way for vacations when HE was the football star. And she foolishly went for it 😔.
@ericamena333
@ericamena333 20 күн бұрын
@@Michelle.1952 - Right! How he fixed his mouth to suggest 50/50 when he makes WAY more than her and then still cheated, I think she dodged a bullet because I really don't believe Travis and Taylor will last and if it does there will be a lot of drama. I give it 5 years tops, then Taylor will make songs about all the shit he did.
@vonnii1013
@vonnii1013 19 күн бұрын
I noticed that too
@ITEEZ-
@ITEEZ- 15 күн бұрын
White Dusty 😂
@IAMGROOT4EVA
@IAMGROOT4EVA 20 күн бұрын
Why do their skin complexions seem to darken over time 😂😂
@AramintaRossPistol
@AramintaRossPistol 20 күн бұрын
Those pictures could have been taken during the summer.
@nightingale4786
@nightingale4786 20 күн бұрын
their pretty women be working the camera settings to somehow find lighting that suits both of them rather than just the default blasted white balance settings lmaooo
@michelleokafor1268
@michelleokafor1268 20 күн бұрын
They be outside
@blackbeaty1000
@blackbeaty1000 20 күн бұрын
You show up dark next to someone lighter complexion especially in a camera shot
@zanealexanderZA
@zanealexanderZA 20 күн бұрын
How can something be so funny and so sad? That first black husband effect I kept waiting for change then it ended Those black wife effect glow ups were mind boggling Those men looked so different I couldn't even recognize them because they had a glooow up
@jezebelle57
@jezebelle57 10 күн бұрын
I kept asking where is the After? If anything, poor white girl look like she been rode hard and put away wet.
@mhizummy2091
@mhizummy2091 18 күн бұрын
The last guy is jealous asf 😂😂😂
@Nitra813
@Nitra813 17 күн бұрын
I’m not into trends but this effect is absolutely true. I’m crying at the black husband effect 😅
@peachesandpoets
@peachesandpoets 20 күн бұрын
Y'all. This is the first time I'm admitting it... So when I was young I dated black men and other races of men but never really had a relationship until I was with a huwight man for a couple of years and then I didn't date for many years... and then in 2022 the devil decided to show up at my doorstep and he was a 6'4 black man, muscle bound etc. I was looking better than ever at the time, I was a few glow ups in at the time, fitness was on point, business on point etc. Long story short, within 6 months I'd gained a bunch of weight, was depressed and miserable... Luckily I then found out about narcissists and got away so it wasn't long. I had a full on glow down my first relationship with a black man. I'm still trying to fix what he broke. Until this sister did the video about the glow down I hadn't admitted it to myself. I didn't want to. Even though I didn't have a relationship with a bm before, it was my fantasy. In fact I had put it on my ex that maybe our relationship would have worked out if he was black lol. But hell, I didn't get fucking traumatized and abused and degraded and shit! That abuse from the narc was the worst shit I've ever imagined! I've just accepted that black males and black women are different fucking groups, man. Because the mental torture black males can put on us is different. They know us inside and out and can gut us in ways that nobody else can
@tanishakennedy4616
@tanishakennedy4616 16 күн бұрын
Now that's deep
@ntombifuthigumede
@ntombifuthigumede 20 күн бұрын
Black husband effect🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables
@DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables 17 күн бұрын
I'm looking through old pics of my husband before we got married and after, and this trend is accurate. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@THErealOGse
@THErealOGse 20 күн бұрын
Half Arab, half white here, cousin married a black woman, this is legitimate. Also, Arab women, we expect men to look good. At least those of us with self respect lol
@lilpinkbubbles6592
@lilpinkbubbles6592 16 күн бұрын
I can’t speak for everyone’s BM effect but my experience was it caused weight gain, depression, and lost years.
@ninaj.4885
@ninaj.4885 19 күн бұрын
I knew a couple like this. Saw an older picture of the husband before his blk wife gave him a makeover. He went from looking like a nerdy math teacher with ill fitting clothes to a silver fox. When I saw him in person he had a low salt and pepper beard, buzz cut with full wavy salt and pepper hair on top, and stylish clothes and different glasses. I couldn't believe he was the same person in the picture.
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
@PettyIsMyMiddleName 20 күн бұрын
This funny AF 😂🤣 The guy had me rolling with “it might have been the BM because he saw no difference “ I was thinking the same thing. And to the last guy , it’s not double standards because BM always talk down on his own race of women . Heck , there was a song back in the late 1800s or early 1900s talking about “I don’t want no dark skinned woman “. The facts are in the data , BW and WM are successful at marriage. Meanwhile, dusty talked down on BW, went out and got Becky with the good hair ,Maria , and Ling Ling, and in 2024 they claim “modern women “ are the issues and now they want the impoverished exotic women lol🤦🏽‍♀️
@Melanated483
@Melanated483 20 күн бұрын
I have heard that song. I heard that song on Cynthia G channel 😢😢 It was sad.
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
@PettyIsMyMiddleName 20 күн бұрын
@@Melanated483 It really is , short story. My mom is Louisiana creole , white passing. My skin tone is in line with Tina knowles, Tia and Tamera, etc. All of my aunties on mom side are varies shades of light skinned, some white passing , some Spanish passing, some just light skinned. However, the youngest aunt was my grandfather’s shade and she was the only aunt that was dark skinned. She’s identical to granddad. When I was a kid and would visit family in Louisiana, I ALWAYS used to say I wanted to look like her. I mean she is gorgeous even now she’s late 60s and not a blemish , wrinkle, NOTHING. Her hair was long down to her back and her back . Now it’s a pretty salt n pepper color. My point is I grew up in the burbs and light skinned at that, there was a period of time where I was TOTALLY oblivious to the struggles, ridicules of dark skinned. Plus , I’m a millennial, 40, and we simply didn’t have the exposure to hear others. I’m guilty of being oblivious to my dark skinned sisters out here. It’s a dam shame honestly. Babyyyy I’m at a stage of loving my creator created , but if I had to choose I’d be one of those beautiful azz dark skinned, flawless skinned , sister frfr lol. At the end of the day , I’m not sure whether you are a believer in the Bible the TRUTH and not watered down religion Christians, but the TRUTH. The Bible was created and is only speaking to the TRUE Israelites, not the “ish” people and not the gentiles. And black skinned is the color of our Creator, His Son, all the characters of the Bible , all the angels in heaven. Our melanin protects us from the sun . Even light skinned I don’t wear skin screen , I just get darker in summer. We are not even to date outside our tribes , yet BM love to date these hybrid people who are a result of fallen angels. Deuteronomy 7:3 It’s ridiculous AF
@deebeepbop
@deebeepbop 16 күн бұрын
ok.. now we're really talkin about something. you need your own show... air it out! not ling ling doe lol😂
@deedee2730
@deedee2730 20 күн бұрын
So True. My mom husband of 40 years is white. This is so true 😂😂😂. We upgradem
@chosen1afrique304
@chosen1afrique304 20 күн бұрын
Here come John Cannon with his hating azz 😒
@TheBetterlife101
@TheBetterlife101 20 күн бұрын
He just hates black women...
@ntombifuthigumede
@ntombifuthigumede 20 күн бұрын
I know when you start smiling, it's going to be good😂😂😂
@kimberly6243
@kimberly6243 20 күн бұрын
They also tend to fare better economically when paired with a blk woman as well. Educated Black women push their loved ones to challenge themselves toward achieving better. Bm dont appreciate that trait until they dogged you out and lost you. Then he's in your dms begging you to take him back. NEVER take them back.
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 20 күн бұрын
Yes, they really don't want to better themselves, their families or their communities. Thank god black women have realised this and have stopped trying to flog that dead horse. Our talents are too exceptional to be wasted, as this video shows.
@Michael22352
@Michael22352 16 күн бұрын
you really believe this, wyte women even more powerful than wyte man in society, black under everybody else with black men being lowest cause we are barred from cooperate structures.
@Michael22352
@Michael22352 12 күн бұрын
you must be on the ZA or something, no way you believe this, bro wyte women alone is power!!!! wytness is power!!!! your bl@ckass ain't powerful in the system of wytness, the hell you on.
@SPARTANN879
@SPARTANN879 20 күн бұрын
We do black wife effect with the kids too that's globally what we do...
@MonochromaticBlues
@MonochromaticBlues 11 күн бұрын
lol they’re like that when they can’t bully you
@reformedgirlblogger
@reformedgirlblogger 19 күн бұрын
This is a very distinctly Black American style/swag, especially the haircuts. It’s cute to see others appreciate the aesthetic
@SISTAGURL
@SISTAGURL 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂this was funny af
@IAMHERE486
@IAMHERE486 20 күн бұрын
Even Bill Burr is looking very handsome these days.Of course it’s because of his BWife.
@heneverforesakesme4038
@heneverforesakesme4038 20 күн бұрын
Ladies, there is no "savior" race of men that is going to be better than the last, in the end they all show themselves. Now, if a relationship is successful, I am all for it...congrats, but remember, ALWAYS remember, the young lady in Milwaukee. Evil is evil, don't get so caught up with stereotypes, that you lower your guard when it comes to danger, evil can come in the form or a smile and gentle nature upfront at anytime. I truly believe in my heart, that is what got that young lady, unalived. She trusted that man because he wasn't the typical...sigh...please be careful ladies, please.
@femmefatale71
@femmefatale71 20 күн бұрын
BW are deleted every 4.5 hours in the USA by BM and have the second highest deletion rate only second to native women. AT THE HANDS OF THIER OWN MEN. Nuance is needed but do NOT dismiss facts and our biggest predators, this INCLUDES ratio.
@Michelle.1952
@Michelle.1952 20 күн бұрын
🙄 here we go. I'm surprised it took you this long. No, there is no savior race but what you call stereotypes, are actually statistics, and the statistics are that every 5 hrs a BW is removed from the planet by an XY that looks like her. Yes, the same can be said for other women of other communities but the instances that it happens to us are the highest.
@khrisi9410
@khrisi9410 20 күн бұрын
Shut up.
@successfulOn3
@successfulOn3 19 күн бұрын
Gtfoh..... rest the stats and data.. Blk men are difficult to date and make single mothers. Lowest educated and highest incarceration.... highest unemployment.....
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 19 күн бұрын
There are certainly dusty guys in every race, However the FACT remains that No One Unalives Blaq women more than Blaq males, and that is one of the MANYYY reasons why they are noT better than other men (collectively) though all races Should be vetted, but in no way are Blaq males "equal" in general to other Men and that's just the way it is!! 💥
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 20 күн бұрын
Brad and them value BW. They have always treated me well. BW magic has been bestowed upon them.❤❤❤ MD: you know why the world knows there’s no secrets.😂😂😂😂😂
@LadyAstarionAncunin
@LadyAstarionAncunin 18 күн бұрын
This is interesting, though, because a boyfriend (white guy) told me that I could dress him however I wanted. Like, I've always been stylish, so he wanted to be able to match my level of style. I told him that he didn't have to, but now as an older person, if I'm gonna date/marry, I want a man who's on my level, style-wise. I wanna stunt whenever we go out. I want to take editorial looking pics. I wanna be "that" couple who people know as local legends. I mean, if I'm gonna bother.
@JustAnEmptyCageGirl
@JustAnEmptyCageGirl 20 күн бұрын
9:07 I love how the wife proudly rests her elbow on her husband. Her face is like "yeah, I made this! I'm Michelangelo!"
@peacefreedom4930
@peacefreedom4930 20 күн бұрын
I want to see the wife of the last blk man who decided to make this about black men having white wives. I want to see if he leveled his wife up or did she get the same old blk man effect.
@briana14333
@briana14333 17 күн бұрын
His beard and speech aren’t telling enough?!
@peacefreedom4930
@peacefreedom4930 17 күн бұрын
@@briana14333 😂🤣Yes, but I just want to see for myself.
@briana14333
@briana14333 8 күн бұрын
HA! Understood@@peacefreedom4930
@EnchantedLove30
@EnchantedLove30 20 күн бұрын
The men look so healthy and happy ❤ with black women ❤
@TheLeslieMichelle
@TheLeslieMichelle 18 күн бұрын
This gives the Beyoncé's song "Upgrade You" a whole new meaning. 😂
@meforever4330
@meforever4330 19 күн бұрын
No. That second to last guy CANNOT be the same person. Talk about Black Girl Magic ✨✨✨
@kingbee44
@kingbee44 20 күн бұрын
These women got these men looking and smelling good AND they are in better shape! You can tell she got him hitting the GYM! A glow up all the way around, not just superficially.
@gertrudesmergenderge3590
@gertrudesmergenderge3590 18 күн бұрын
I hope these men appreciate all that their wives have given them. If you raise a man up he’ll look down on you.
@ntombifuthigumede
@ntombifuthigumede 20 күн бұрын
Maria, you know damn well why 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@brittneyrobinson4471
@brittneyrobinson4471 19 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@beautifulgirl1375
@beautifulgirl1375 17 күн бұрын
There might be something to this. When I married my husband one of the first things I did was upgrade his clothing and toiletries. Got him eating healthy and getting enough rest. We also laugh a lot.
@MyriadLove
@MyriadLove 20 күн бұрын
1:35, his wife 'Shemar'ed' him. 😂 Yezz.
@corimoon3360
@corimoon3360 19 күн бұрын
LMAO 😂😂😂
@kirawong4629
@kirawong4629 19 күн бұрын
To the Black guy talking… let us see your wife before and after
@stevemeters3090
@stevemeters3090 8 күн бұрын
These Black Wife Effect videos make me happy.
@theartistmind7028
@theartistmind7028 8 күн бұрын
😂 it’s you trying to hold your laugh in for me😂😂😂😂
@MugethiGitau
@MugethiGitau 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 Maria you're killing me with your laughter
@DaughterofDiogenes
@DaughterofDiogenes 20 күн бұрын
This is what happened for my soon to be ex. He had no style at all and was too skinny. I built him up and got him looking good and then he forgot who made him this way so I had to get rid of him.
@Laquia
@Laquia 20 күн бұрын
Bro fumbled you smh 😔
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
F him plus they always come back lol
@Michelle.1952
@Michelle.1952 20 күн бұрын
That's the downside of leveling up a man. Any man. They are always on the hunt for something better. We need to always make sure we're getting out more than we're putting in for situations just like this.
@MyWorld-xw6ic
@MyWorld-xw6ic 20 күн бұрын
@@Michelle.1952teach Michelle!! Never level up a man.
@beianli4620
@beianli4620 19 күн бұрын
Ok, so i knew there would be nothing but pettiness coming out of this video...But i'm still here for it 😂😂😂
@kellymaresha
@kellymaresha 20 күн бұрын
I’m READY to change a white man’s LIFE!!!!✨🙌🏾✨
@ia7072
@ia7072 19 күн бұрын
Same here, let's go girl, reclaim what you deserve and mutual love ✨ 🙌 (Btw I'm not even black 😂)
@kellymaresha
@kellymaresha 19 күн бұрын
@@ia7072 😂❤️❤️❤️
@mhizummy2091
@mhizummy2091 18 күн бұрын
Same here 😂❤
@Igbobabexoxo
@Igbobabexoxo 13 күн бұрын
“Miss lady I don’t think this was a promotion” 😂 sir please!
@PhomoloKhan
@PhomoloKhan 18 күн бұрын
huuu... its so refreshing to hear positive things about us black women. Heeey black woman this video made me so happy lol.... now people are waking up to see the black man for who they are hahaha.
@robertlmckenzie1606
@robertlmckenzie1606 15 күн бұрын
This is more than new clothes and some grooming. These women are literally taking years off these guys!
@TanyaBrightFuture
@TanyaBrightFuture 19 күн бұрын
This video is hilarious 😂😂😂so true about black husband effect. ❤❤❤😂😂😂
@cocoace7587
@cocoace7587 20 күн бұрын
Is that the same BM at the end , the one who was upset & apologized to our bear comments ? I guess he doesn't work . He said he has a clear wife , yet he's ALWAYS in OUR faces / spaces . # boy bye # get a job 😅
@Melanated483
@Melanated483 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 His beard looks unkept. He didn’t have any special effects at all with his Becky wife. But at least he admitted that BW have always been nice to him in “real life” except maybe on the internet 🛜
@readyornot27
@readyornot27 17 күн бұрын
Right? It's a wonder why he never makes videos directed at the white community/white women.
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 16 күн бұрын
@@Melanated483 rite least he did admit the truth. BW are nice in person. The problem is alot of BM think BW are suppose to chase and wor$hip them. They want us to have so much energy for them but not vice versa.
@biancajful
@biancajful 20 күн бұрын
Omg, this had me giggling so hard! I love to see it!❤
@BABYDOLL87LOVELY
@BABYDOLL87LOVELY 19 күн бұрын
A LOT OF THE TIMES THEY TREAT US LIKE THE QUEENS BROTHA'S 4GET WE ARE!
@Sherrell_S
@Sherrell_S 20 күн бұрын
The black husband looked worse
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 20 күн бұрын
Yup cause they stressing everyone out
@laquettaowens6120
@laquettaowens6120 19 күн бұрын
@@shaypope4732 😂, I like your pop and it says be respectful I wasn't ready for that 😂.
@shaypope4732
@shaypope4732 19 күн бұрын
@@laquettaowens6120 lol
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 16 күн бұрын
Yep notice most BM when they got with WW and Non BW they start looking old and losing their attractiveness.
@taleasmith543
@taleasmith543 20 күн бұрын
We’re just a ray of sunshine ☀️
@UseYourVoices
@UseYourVoices 7 күн бұрын
He said, "That's all right." and "I was still waiting for the after". The Black Husband Effect and the Black Man effect are hysterical! 🤣
@taleasmith543
@taleasmith543 20 күн бұрын
Let’s not forget the black gf effect either lol
@whileflower5543
@whileflower5543 7 күн бұрын
Love it coming from a black queen lady....EVERYBODY LOOKS LIKE KINGS AND QUEENS but ONKY ON THE BLACK QUEEN AND THE WHITE KINGS❤❤❤❤❤
@jcjc4363
@jcjc4363 17 күн бұрын
"They're not giving 'vanilla baby'" lol
@user-sy7oc8og5p
@user-sy7oc8og5p 14 күн бұрын
I think it’s great these people found there soulmates. If you level up even better. It shows that you never know who your right person is out there.
@CantHaveMyPeace
@CantHaveMyPeace 20 күн бұрын
I’ve been 200% invested for 3 days. I can’t leave it alone!❤
@JessicaA777
@JessicaA777 17 күн бұрын
We are the king makers, you treat us like a queen, no matter your race, you will be king 'ed.
@orevaonaemor3865
@orevaonaemor3865 12 күн бұрын
Yes o,the oyomesi(king makers)
@ajwriter5699
@ajwriter5699 5 күн бұрын
“If Machine Gun Kelly was anemic” HOLLERING!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@user-ec5uh3qs1f
@user-ec5uh3qs1f 20 күн бұрын
The problem is they always think that somebody's trying to be their mother. And all's we're trying to do is help them. We're supposed to be helping one another. If I look bad. Help me look nice. If you look back I help you look nice. Why is that so hard?😢 And somebody's white man are grateful. That's the part that everyone is missing. They're truly grateful and that's why they're sticking by their black woman. They understood the assignment🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@mizzmolly7649
@mizzmolly7649 20 күн бұрын
This is a SCREAM! 😆😆😆
@TheArtPaige
@TheArtPaige 20 күн бұрын
I get but I still don't want to be Barb the builder.
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 19 күн бұрын
Barbara The Builder is a tired, used and abused woman who cooks, cleans and PAYS $$$ for EVERYTHING to keep a Naker happy, these women are NOT that!
@NovaPrincess
@NovaPrincess 19 күн бұрын
Exactly!! This is not the flex black women think it is. I'm leveling ME up, not no male. Period. I own my house and my car.
@AyAReI00
@AyAReI00 19 күн бұрын
Something i learn real fast is that men don't value that, one dude i help to recoger his self love and selfesteem the first he did was cheat on me one he look better 😂😂😂😂😂
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 19 күн бұрын
@@NovaPrincess You're Missing the point anD definition of what These Queens husbands mean by "levelling UP", not 1 time did they mention their Wives mulling, caping, etc. for them Or buying them Anything, they simply said their wives made their lives Better with their Love and Presence, Stop comparing this awesome Ode of Blaq Gyal Magic to that of Tyrones who Do use, abuse anD manipulate Sistahs and get yo'self a Naker if that's what yoU truly want!!! ✴️
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 19 күн бұрын
@@AyAReI00 Then, You either got involved with a Naker or a Wigger, because Real Men (keyword) Don't mistreat Blaq Queens this way at alL!
@tennillepayne9605
@tennillepayne9605 20 күн бұрын
Not a lateral move ahahahahaha
@BOAREDBEAUTY
@BOAREDBEAUTY 10 күн бұрын
Ohhhhhhhhh. Oh, the black husband effect, broke my heart, it’s true. I’m trying to laugh, but it’s p*ssing me off. DANG, I’m so sorry. I’m so angry lol. ❤🎉
@shygirlcomplex
@shygirlcomplex 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂... the black wife affect is a real thing and the black husband affect is also a real thing..but tbh the white men were nice looking anyway so it was a smooth transition
@nemotheo1629
@nemotheo1629 20 күн бұрын
Effect not affect
Before the ✨Black Wife Effect✨ and after. Y’all asked for it, so here you go 😂
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