Before You GET ANGRY In Life, WATCH THIS! (Most Eye-Opening Speech)

Before You GET ANGRY In Life, WATCH THIS! (Most Eye-Opening Speech) | Terry Crews

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Author, action-movie hero, sitcom star, children’s book illustrator, advertising pitchman, playable video game character, talent show host, high-end furniture designer, and human rights activist all describe the man that is TERRY CREWS. Crews will release his memoir, Tough: My Journey to True Power on April 26, 2022, via Penguin Random House. In it, Crews chronicles the story of how he went from being a six-year-old boy with a goofy, toothless smile to being utterly selfish and angry, to a man who can finally acknowledge his own weaknesses and vulnerabilities and use his experiences to help motivate those around him.
After several years in the NFL (where he painted portraits of teammates to supplement his income) with the Los Angeles Rams, San Diego Chargers, Washington Redskins and Philadelphia Eagles, Crews turned his talents to the performing arts, where his talent, hard work, character, and dedication has made him one of the most sought out and respected talents in the industry.
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If you’re ready to learn how to overcome the shame and guilt that’s holding you back from achieving the peace of mind you deserve, then this episode is for you! And now, please join me for Episode 1,258 of The School of Greatness.
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@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@joannemonast8670 2 жыл бұрын

The growing in life with monkey man circus verses spiritual is different for each person's journey. As a child the Watts riots stopped before my house. 9.6 miles of terrorist violence I thought Spirit God stopped riots. When I grew I thought perhaps the drug dealer connection stopped riots. Now after survival of employment of morongo, I wonder if Indian community stopped riots. My house was in the middle of drug dealers house and Indian community. Seemingly since the 1800's nestle/morongo Indian Hitler mafia gang has been exempt of consequences of breaking law's and genocidal behavior's since the 1800's in California and beyond! Scary monopolized businesses worldwide! Then DNA testing provides them information on human beings they find disposable.

@nietzschesmuse 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lewis, I love that you dont take over the converssation, thank you.

@jeanmonicawilliams-smith7827 2 жыл бұрын

That moment of shift is "THE EPIPHANY MOMENT" NOW YOU CAN LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SEE THE REAL YOU! This is great 👍 I love ❤ this SCHOOL 🏫.

@equanox3232 2 жыл бұрын

@Lewis Howes I'm blown away by Terry's testimony regarding his rage! It's therapeutic listening to how he managed his emotions. Omg, ppl say he and I look alike... omg please reach out to me. I have a suggestion for one of your segments.

@ricardo5682 10 ай бұрын

I was wondering if Terry Crews had any contact with that childhood friend who both took an oath. (I'm a brazilian and I'm really enjoying your interviews)

@tripleplatinumllc 7 ай бұрын

This should have millions of views, thank you lewis and terry for helping me feel less alone.

@lewishowes 7 ай бұрын

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@jasonmatyi2479 2 жыл бұрын

Much respect for Terry. Especially him having the courage and humility to reveal unsavory things about his past.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@selmir369 2 жыл бұрын

@@lewishowes PAST (Sovenian) = TRAP

@mmedina5772 2 жыл бұрын

Well said. Agreed 💯

@shyne1308 9 ай бұрын

That doesn't take courage if you getting paid

@dianeoconnor7253 2 жыл бұрын

This interview is so therapeutic! I was taken back to the 6 year old little girl who was bullied! I feel instantly healed! Thank you Terry for sharing your story! Much love and Blessings to you and your family!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@YasminA-jm9zs 2 жыл бұрын

Somehow I click on these interviews and they always answer an inner question I didn’t even know I had. I am so grateful for all these people and their stories. Thank you Lewis.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@ngbhd3793 2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss

@Jean120483 2 жыл бұрын

It isn't "somehow". It's God at work.

@dianeoconnor7253 2 жыл бұрын

You can't LOVE someone and control them at the same time!♥️

@hoso2268 2 жыл бұрын

Word!

@vikisnow2439 2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@alicehong7809 2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@Jean120483 2 жыл бұрын

Praise be to God.

@spiritualsocratesthegreat 2 жыл бұрын

“Take out the parts that don’t fit. Nothing is broken, they just don’t fit.” That’s a huge testimonial to how to live your life right. You need to get rid of what is not serving you, that don’t work for you personally, and keep what does work and does fit as a perfect piece to the person you are and the life you desire and deserve, and get rid of the pieces of you that aren’t beneficial, don’t work, and are not you, and are a hinderance to you being your best version of yourself. You should never give up on yourself. All you need to do is tweak the way you’ve constructed your life and your mind, and get rid of those parts, those ideas, those thoughts, those habits, those urges, that really aren’t you, they are not serving you, and do not work with the person you really are which is to be yourself but to be the best version of yourself. Thank you Terry and Lewis for this awesome interview. Loved both of your testimonials and everything spoken from the ground up. 💯 ❤️ 🙏🏼

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@clairewheeler2937 2 жыл бұрын

That's got to be the most honest interview I've ever seen. Though difficult to listen to, especially about poor little cocoa, it was incredible to hear someone be so honest and upfront about their mistakes and bad decisions in life. To hear of the way he dealt with the abuser was awe inspiring. To hear that he stick up for the ladies in the me too movement is really wonderful. The entire interview was packed full of gems that could help someone struggling with past issues that create overwhelming anger. He has every right to be extremely proud of himself and the progress he's made. Xxx

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@SouthpawAutoworks 2 жыл бұрын

"You're not broken....you're just not finished." Whoa... Lewis, thank you for making this interview happen. I'm 43 min in, but have to pause it, to get back to work (chasing the dream). Thank you for putting some more fuel in my tank. Happy Hump Day!

@SouthpawAutoworks 2 жыл бұрын

"Don't try to be the best...be the only." Love that!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@loiten7908 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes tough and unloving parents makes great children like Terry 👌👍

@AAXS-op1vo 2 жыл бұрын

Terry, that accountability piece is EVERYTHING. Without that, everything else crumbles into dust. You win! Because you yielded to Truth and Accountability, YOU WIN.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@josyjosy7495 2 жыл бұрын

I like Terry since day 1. I hope he makes it big, real big.

@nietzschesmuse 2 жыл бұрын

I cried a few times watching this, it is so rare to see men emotionally vulnerable, it is refreshing: I love how Terry Crews described how the church deals with traumatic folks generalizing as "the devil" his honest self-reflective talk shall save a few lives. Also, is so true therapy has been changing my psychology but also opened my eyes, thank you Lewis your talks are challenging and self introspection-inducing.

@CarmenValladares1003 2 жыл бұрын

Agree! By the way I love Nietzsche!💓

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@nietzschesmuse 2 жыл бұрын

I do too thank you!

@shyne1308 9 ай бұрын

You need help if you cry watching KZfaq

@Greg-McIver 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing interview! At 50 I learned to love me, starting with the youngest me I could remember and then all my ages up to my 50 year old self. Perfection? No. But the process began in earnest. I looked in the mirror and said my name, then, "I love you" until I actually felt it. Life changed.

@Imanx602 2 жыл бұрын

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@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@Jean120483 2 жыл бұрын

Oh My GOD......... and I'm only turning 39 this year. Dude I hope you read this reply one day. You connected with me with your comment. Thank you for this, I swear to God thank you so much for commenting this.

@jeanmonicawilliams-smith7827 2 жыл бұрын

BEING CREATIVE IS BEING COLLABORATIVE WITH SOMEONE, SOMETHING ELSE,OTHER THAN SELF! This is profound!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@veraschaffer5236 2 жыл бұрын

"You can either have success or revenge. You can't have both." Terry Crews. This. 💯. Scale it anyway you want, this is truth. ⚖️. And, if your success is revenge, that's about them.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@kruckcrusher8102 2 жыл бұрын

Already like Terry and now I respect him more.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@mawescott 2 жыл бұрын

Telling your truth is SO very necessary. You free yourself and others 👑💛

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@Jean120483 2 жыл бұрын

I love everyone here absorbing this. This is one of FEW channels on KZfaq and online period with positivity like this. What a gift.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

@bunnytarot 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Terry went to my 24 Hr Fitness gym in Sherman Oaks CA in 2009 & I was this skinny pale goth dude that everyone their gave dirty looks but he was nice to me & actually told me how to lift right, I had no idea he was a celebrity at the time & recognized him years later on Hulu on that show Brooklyn Nine Nine. I was abused by my dad too just like him & was bullied, now that I know his story, it makes sense that he was nice enough to talk to me cause he probably could sense we had something in common. I can relate to so much of how he felt. Respect ✊ 💪🐇🐰🛸👽

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@valentinethompson2449 Жыл бұрын

Creativity is sharing; competition is about winning and losing! Thanks for opening up your world and sharing your struggles, Terry.

@lewishowes Жыл бұрын

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@mgmassey174 2 жыл бұрын

Men who self examine themselves, grow. Being honest with yourself is key. As a survivor, I was so impressed by his empathetic understanding of how the system gaslights us all. Abuse is abuse. Only respect and love heals

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@hjq0023 2 жыл бұрын

You just saved my life and made it even better @Terry Crews. The story about you being at the age of 30 having your big moment with your father. It kind of gave me hope that I'm not the only one who has to deal with abusive, disrespectful little family members. The story is interesting. My childhood abuse started out with my father. Which eventually made me look like the bad guy and then having every family member and relative hate me. Hate me to the point where every little family relative is a physical, mental, emotional and a psychological threat to me. These family members protect my dad and now the family members and relatives are the primary abusers now. Typically, in an abusive family system. It one guy [like a dad, mom, brother sister] that is the primary abuser and the snake's head. However at this point and the last 10 years [really TBH]. The whole family or everyone I know has risen to that level [it's called being a flying monkey in narcissistic abuse terminology] This has really made me feel like I'm stuck in the dark. However, in this past year I have realized that true self reflection and real therapy is a key to success. True authenticity is the way to go. If not then I will remain in trouble. I do recognize the fact that that I will need to totally stand up for myself here if I really wanna be that guy that I need to be here

@jangriffin-fi1yx 4 ай бұрын

All best to you, you will do it. I am proud if you know you have suffered immensely. No one knows till it affects them. You have learnt to stand up for yourself ❤ have risen above it all & can handle anything thrown at you. Best to live alone only stay with positive loving folks stay away from toxic. You deserve better.

@dublingirl1691 2 жыл бұрын

I’m really proud of Terry’s wife! She is a blessing! Lewis, your interviews are so inspiring. Thank you 🙏🏼

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@mmedina5772 2 жыл бұрын

Very True & Great Point 🥰 Agreed 💯

@HouseofAda 2 жыл бұрын

This resonate with me . I was getting strong just to fight drunk and abusive dad. Am healed now and I have forgiven him just for my heart sake

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@juliaworksonstuff 2 жыл бұрын

This is one of my favorite humans. EVER. 💚

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@insightinspiration9922 2 жыл бұрын

I am glad Terry shares his experiences so openly. No child is responsible for the environment of his upbringing. Being exposed to abuse and neglect does horrible things with a child's mind and brings up a lot of negative emotions that turn against themselves and others. The most important message of this interview is that people can change and heal! Thanks Terry for igniting this hope!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@joiluckadoo-villa9601 Жыл бұрын

Terry, I've always loved you since our days back in the 'zoo. I enjoyed watching this as it is reminiscent of our train ride talks. I pray you find peace and happiness.

@sweetpea1413 2 жыл бұрын

Captivating interview with Terry. Presenting a false image to be accepted can be exhausting.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@Hummingbird25 2 жыл бұрын

This conversation is so important bc anger is something people don’t talk about and if you don’t admit or talk about it how are you supposed to handle it. Not all aspects of us are pretty. But it’s there to help us grow if we choose. Don’t let trauma control you. Break free from the triggers and live a life of peace. Don’t let the past make you believe you are incapable of changing. Terry’s openness takes courage.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@sandralujan1199 2 жыл бұрын

Terry is talking to all the little boys and little girls out here. This is so emotional, vulnerable, healing, graceful. This should be a master class this amazing work Terry did. This is so nurturing and therapeutic. I love that these guys are talking about their therapy journeys and how positive the experience is.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@tomdixon1213 2 жыл бұрын

Terry i never knew you before today. I will never forget you from this point forward. Wow. You are wisdom.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@dels2360 2 жыл бұрын

Another gem. This is so revealing and enlightening. It needs to be a whole series. A mentorship workshop built around this. Our men need this.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@danacoleman4007 3 ай бұрын

it would be really nice if, somehow, Terry was able to know how many people he's helped over the years. Not only with his great acting and humor, but, more importantly, with his openness and honesty about working everyday to become a better person! He's such a great example in so many ways!

@LightwingsTWENTY2 2 жыл бұрын

“Assembly required” Pure gold!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@Dink1963 2 жыл бұрын

I feel you. No info. No guidance. The religious fanatic and alcoholism drugs … the lost feeling and rage. So proud of you. Thanks for being a model.

@brianwkinyua 2 жыл бұрын

Terry Crews the wise. So much wisdom here. I appreciate this so much School of Greatness. Thank you.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@Joyful-gu5bj 2 жыл бұрын

A fool becomes a vitcim, A King takes control of his good n bad decisions. "

@marisarodriguez7776 Ай бұрын

Truth always prevails AMEN...stand your ground

@denisesmith1744 2 жыл бұрын

UnForgiveness and a root of bitterness will take you out. Forgive yourself and forgive everybody that hurt you. You will Win. I love both you guys🥰

@sophiavarkeyvarkey5095 Жыл бұрын

Honesty touches the heart and transforms. Appreciate both Terry Crews and Lewis Howes🙏

@lewishowes Жыл бұрын

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@bumblebee_ms 2 жыл бұрын

Terry Crews is raw, real and super amazing.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@md3dasnipa386 2 жыл бұрын

I'm not even half way through the interview and I'm already deeply engaged with the content. Nothing But Respect To Terry & Lewis.. 💪💯

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Happy to hear this :)

@AAXS-op1vo 2 жыл бұрын

Terry, you just went to a whole new level and I have MAD respect for you. Thank you for living it, speaking it, and standing on it raw and OUT LOUD.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@teejayjordana2857 2 жыл бұрын

A renewed respect for Mr Crews. thank you for sharing. It opened my eyes and enlighten me

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 😊

@Hummingbird25 2 жыл бұрын

I had no idea Terry had this rage. He has the sweetest demeanor. You never know what’s going inside someone. I’m glad he’s being open, honest, and real with himself. Most importantly he’s learned to let go of his anger

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@joesdailybeat Жыл бұрын

Terry brings deep wisdom and insights from a life he is fully living. What a gifted storyteller. Inspiring! Thank you Lewis and Terry!

@lewishowes Жыл бұрын

Glad / Happy you enjoyed it! Happy to hear this :) Means a lot!!! Glad this was helpful for you🧡

@reneeb.585 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, wow, wow!!! Nothing but respect for you Terry!!!! Nothing but respect for you Lewis! Thank you for seeing the need and sharing.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@debifambro1039 2 жыл бұрын

There's so much to learn and I'll have to come back and watch this again. For now - "You can't love and control at the same time." WOW

@silasjhunter 2 жыл бұрын

OMG Terry. This is so good. I'm soo inspired and I'm not even half way through this.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@yehagereleji5468 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Terry! You set an example by open up for kids at similar situation.

@borntobbad 2 жыл бұрын

I love how open and honest Terry is here, such a great inspiration thanks Terry and Lewis for sharing similar stories here. Love both these men, absolute gentlemen!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@vahinipillay2660 2 жыл бұрын

This interview was more powerful than any punch could have ever been. Much love & respect for Terry ❤

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@isaacreain 2 жыл бұрын

This video needs 15 million likes:D Terry Crews people can know you now and love you for as you are:D So real and genuine I love it! :D

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@vaxamaxav 2 жыл бұрын

What’s so powerful about this is that Terry expresses something we can all relate to in such a direct, no-airs way, that I am forced to look in the mirror. Thanks to you both. Great job, Lewis!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

@bellj753 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this interview!!!!! I was amazed and appreciated how candid Terry was. It is so helpful for women to hear what goes on in the mind of men. Many don't share their deepest thoughts or insecurities and it's hard to understand what they might be going through. I hope our society becomes more open to men being vulnerable. Thank you so much Terry, you are wonderful and strong human being.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@emeraldgreene9600 2 жыл бұрын

“ Don’t TRY TO BE BEST BuT BE THE ONLY” dang..! So beautiful 🤩

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@piercejromero 2 жыл бұрын

Wow this one spoke to me - lewis thanks for having guests so willing to open up and share their vulnerable experiences. Can relate 1,000%

@xqp5503 5 ай бұрын

Respect Terry!🙌🏼💪🏼🙏

@floofygod 2 жыл бұрын

How much I relate to this man's trauma and childhood is insane. I don't agree with everything he says but he's a very strong intelligent man, worthy of his success.

@ThatTalkinGal 2 жыл бұрын

Yaass!! Terry is quoting Wallace D. Wattles in The Science of Getting Rich when he says, competition is the opposite of creativity. Wallace D. Wattles says it this way... when you compete, you kick the ladder down behind you so that others can not rise. But when you create there is no competition and others are benefitted just as you are because you are not taking anything away from anyone. You are creating something new! That statement set me free to just do the things I love with no fear of the other guy or competition!!!

@richardsmith6083 2 жыл бұрын

One of the Latin roots of the word competition means 'to strive together'. My son and I do this on the tennis court where our competition serves to raise the standard of play for both of us. In many endeavours it can be the desire to do better than the 'other guy' -together with the corresponding responses- raises the standard for everyone. I personally find a combo of 'healthy' competition, married with creativity in a group situation, really stimulating. Thoughts...?

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@ThatTalkinGal 2 жыл бұрын

My go to book is The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles. It set me free...but I see your point of marrying competition with creativity. That seems prudent. I guess for some, the focus of the "other guy" can be intimidating and/or angering. In those cases, creativity works extremely well in allowing you to focus on your success and what you can do to excel beyond expectations. This hyoer-focus can put you in a miraculous place, with respect to whatever it is you are aiming for, some call it the zone.

@richardsmith6083 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Sonya, I have known such people! - as have you obviously. Not my favs, I must say. Yes, Terry clarifies a bit further on when he talks about... I've forgotten what the word is that he used- I'm a bit tired today- but essentially mutual cooperation/encouragement towards a common goal, which is something I really love. Its been a while since I've been in the zone/flow...I need to get back there asap.! Lol Cool, thanks! I remember now - COLLABORATE!

@HolisticManifesting 2 жыл бұрын

This one might be too real for most folks. Many people like to believe stardom is everything. The internal work still needs to be done. 🙏❤️

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@nbo9026 2 жыл бұрын

Love this interview. We need to talk about these issues. Thank you for sharing and taking the courage to grow.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome🧡

@mamutshilanda9822 2 жыл бұрын

I never comment, but this interview with Terry Crews, Lewis....brought it home for me! It spoke to me on every level. The vulnerability of Terry... to see and hear him talk about the evolution of his work on himself, wow! inspiring indeed. It is so important for black people to hear and accept that therapy is so central to our well being, which will end in a domino effect in society. I shall pick up his book too! thank you to both of you for all that you do!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@mamutshilanda9822 2 жыл бұрын

@@lewishowes I am absolutely subscribed to your channel and am an avid follower of your content! Thank you for actually responding! :) 😃I clicked the link, I shall add a review there as well! ( not that you need it! LOL)

@dianeoconnor7253 2 жыл бұрын

Much respect! I was in tears knowing that you have done the work! Continued Blessings and healing!❤

@annatevesbanzon1359 2 жыл бұрын

I always say my childhood was one big Quarantine 😆. I empathize Terry, but I feel it's worse when you got apathy from your church.

@bargainhuntmom 2 ай бұрын

This is my favourite talk on the show… The amount of peace I felt is undeniable while listening… My biggest take away has been that men can change 🤎 and it’s attractive and it’s beautiful… Much respect brother 🙏🏽

@lewishowes 2 ай бұрын

Big thanks for watching! I appreciate your support! 💯🙏🙌

@bargainhuntmom 2 ай бұрын

@@lewishowes thank you for spreading healing …

@crystalnyla 2 жыл бұрын

10 years and 2 children with a narcissist sociopath… I loved him unconditionally losing myself and giving up my hopes and dreams to being successful and having a family 😢 I’ve learned I also was a product of an abusive adopted family. My adoptive mother was a narcissist and abused me something awful and I turned into an empath just wanting to love and to be loved I grew extremely nurturing and my narc ex partner I saw and felt all his hurt believing in him I wanted us to WIN 🏆 But after 10 yrs he still doesn’t want the light or the love from me or his beautiful daughters 😢 So now I’m a single mom loving myself healing ❤️‍🩹 praying for al those hurt ones out there … because there’s millions of us who have to learn childhood traumas are the cause of why we become a bad version of ourselves. Peace love and healing to all 👑🌈❤️‍🩹

@dalemorrow1959 2 жыл бұрын

Terry if you check these post , I just want to thank you for this interview. Being from Battle Creek , MI (factory town), instead of being obsessed with becoming strong, I retreated to trying to be invisible. I was content to be the "sidekick" in my friendships without really realizing it. I tried to justify it by saying that I was "learning" by watching my role models with the hope that I would take those lessons and apply them to myself. The problem was is that the 'lessons' went against my core values that I had adopted that quite frankly turned me into a "super Simp" when it came to women. I am still working to find a balance despite my age (64) with the hope that it is not too late for at least companionship. Thanks Again.

@user-pd9pk3yo5p 11 ай бұрын

My biggest take away is the need to assemble and rebuild. Wow! That's powerful to me!

@lewishowes 11 ай бұрын

Glad this was helpful for you. Appreciate you for watching! 🧡

@Santiago-pk2uh 2 жыл бұрын

Este podcast me tocó muy fuerte en el corazón. Gracias Lewis y Terry por hacerme saber que el niño que sigue dentro de mi merece ser tratado con respeto, amor y paciencia

@lettitiajoya 2 жыл бұрын

Triggering old wounds…wow this is real truth…🔥🔥

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@yournaturalhaircoach3864 2 жыл бұрын

Wow just wow.... I mean I have no words.... all I know is... I needed this.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

So happy to hear we have supported you!

@michellecardenas6072 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Tears of joy and sadness In One video ,speaks LEVELS!!!!

@suzyerichsen6184 2 жыл бұрын

Wow Terry, what a man you have developed into. I only know of you through this podcast but what great knowledge you have shared... Thank you for sharing.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@pierrevdb 2 жыл бұрын

This interview made me cry on many occasions. Who thought a podcast would have such a powerful impact ? Your voices are carrying powerful healing vibrations. You both touched my heart to the core. I thank you for this and I LOVE YOU DEEPLY!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@Hummingbird25 2 жыл бұрын

We are all internally good and love. I wish we stopped judging people and realized everyone is at their own journey in their life

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@denisegagner2887 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 2/3s of the way into this and have already shared it. You know the content is good when you can't even wait until the end to share it.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you! 🙏

@krisptaco 2 жыл бұрын

Such a blessing! Thank you both! ❤️❤️

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@annewainaina7377 2 жыл бұрын

Great interview! Really great to see men being so vulnerable. So much healing 💖

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@luismindlab 4 ай бұрын

Lewis, thank you. I been following your podcast for the longest, and learned so much from your interviews; this one reaffirmed my understanding of intimacy.

@lewishowes 4 ай бұрын

Appreciate you and your support🧡

@d3rpwolf785 2 жыл бұрын

Loved every second of this. Favorite and the REALEST Interview I've ever seen 💕

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@d3rpwolf785 2 жыл бұрын

@@lewishowes Thank you for your podcast 🙏Truly life changing topics. Showed my husband this interview and he had a huge emotional breakthrough involving childhood trauma. I watch all your vids thank you so much for the excellent content! The quality of your podcast has improved so much in such a short amount of time.

@NuVisionabroad 2 жыл бұрын

It is very inspirational when successful people open up on their trials and tribulations and share their greatest challenges. Shows their human side so we can learn how their journey was not easy and teaches us many lessons. Thank you both.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@leannbowman 2 жыл бұрын

I really loved this interview! Mr. Terry showed all of us how to do our soul work & what it could look like! Very inspiring !

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@angelaocampo6780 4 ай бұрын

i’ve always loved him. 💎💝One of the Actors i do respect as a human being. You can smell his values and grit a mile away. If that makes any sense 😅

@iamgoddessoflove 2 жыл бұрын

Staying in an unhealthy relationship will keep you from discovering your true path in life. We have to make healthy choices to walk away not only to save us from heartache, but also to protect our emotional and mental health. 💙KZfaqr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

@johntrego4077 2 жыл бұрын

WOW!!! Transparency is power! Terry is a true definition of a 💥 POWERFUL💥man! Doing the work to be ok with yourself, in your head, life changing! Great stuff💪🏼

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@monettevalliere 2 жыл бұрын

This is so deep

@marisarodriguez7776 Ай бұрын

Omg thank u for this. Ttl. Healing. If more of us wld do. We'd have peace. True love. In our lives. Thank Terri. Also. Appreciate u both❤❤🤗🤗🤗 shared on fb

@troyguyer9194 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Terry, ii hear my story in some of your words.

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@TheDioulde 2 жыл бұрын

Waoooww! Amazing! Another outstanding video! The importance of self-awareness and healing! Thank YOU!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@karharinas 2 жыл бұрын

Golden man he is

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@marykentucky7790 10 ай бұрын

This interview changed my life. Thank you.

@lewishowes 10 ай бұрын

Thank you! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

@lorraine8428 4 ай бұрын

Sooo coollll.... Two beautiful souls at the table... Lovely

@lewishowes 4 ай бұрын

Appreciate you and your support🧡

@lilc5353 2 жыл бұрын

I have never learned so much from an interview and I'm only half way! Thank you both for sharing your stories and helping the rest of us sort out our own stuff as well. You are helping so many people, much appreciated!💖

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@dianeoconnor7253 2 жыл бұрын

Terry you have an AMAZING WIFE! LOVE covers a multitude of faults! Thank you for being transparent! You have helped a multitude of people including me! We all have things that we aren't proud of! Going forward we know better and we do better!♥️

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

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@seneidasantiago1323 2 жыл бұрын

Wow wow wow this interview was so deep!!! I loved it so proud if you Terry!!!!

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Glad / Hap you enjoyed it!

@beulahmills6344 2 жыл бұрын

Wow !! I appreciate the brutal introspection and honesty it took to do this interview which is why you Lewis need to remove the word ‘speech’ from the title, speech isn’t what happened here but the sharing of a LIFE STORY it gives you courage to examine the real l and the ME

@lewishowes 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@jeanmonicawilliams-smith7827 2 жыл бұрын

BEING ABUNDANT IS INCREMENTAL/ THERE IS ABUNDANCE IN THE WORLD 🌎

@KyperApp Жыл бұрын

Terry, i thanks you because thanks to your humble confessions about your past, personal life, i learned very important things. One, its the difference between Guilty and Shame, VERY IMPORTANT, and the second its to look at the child in the photo and say: "That's a bad kid?, how can that kid could be evil? "... i am at 51 minutes of this video and i had to write this... THANKS YOU..... THANKS YOU BECAUSE IT MEANS A LOT FOR ME, TO FORGIVE ME AND CONTINUE ASSAMBLING MYSELF... RESPECTS AND LOVE FROM ARGENTINA.