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In Japan, it's possible to hire a family member or friend to act as whatever surrogate you need. Hiroko, our Asian Boss reporter in Tokyo, spoke with the CEO of Family Romance, a family and friend rental service.
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@AsianBoss
@AsianBoss 7 ай бұрын
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@xmodmodifier
@xmodmodifier 4 жыл бұрын
Would not be surprised if the CEO was rented because the CEO didn't want to be interviewed.
@mmxxmxm
@mmxxmxm 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@syarifahsitiaisyah_1546
@syarifahsitiaisyah_1546 4 жыл бұрын
my mind is blown away
@inoueokaito
@inoueokaito 4 жыл бұрын
your mind
@cbrushira831
@cbrushira831 4 жыл бұрын
Lol yes
@HuyNguyen-ze3eb
@HuyNguyen-ze3eb 4 жыл бұрын
😆 took me a moment to understand this.
@cobalt2257
@cobalt2257 4 жыл бұрын
Japan just keeps getting more depressing the more I learn about it.
@TheLily97232
@TheLily97232 4 жыл бұрын
I know right...
@TheLily97232
@TheLily97232 4 жыл бұрын
No wonder their pop culture is so pop and colorful and crazy ! You need some spice in your life lest you die
@noth606
@noth606 4 жыл бұрын
Cobalt225 a video about positive aspects doesn't get clicks... I have a Japanese wife and I have a good relationship with her parents, I think. The biggest issue perhaps is that you don't really ever know what people really think, but they treat me really well as have all of her family. But it's probably a lot to do with me stepping up to meet their expectations a lot more than maybe a lot of westerners would, like I committed to and followed through on marrying her right away and very quickly after that we had a son, in fact the first in that branch of the clan/family and I follow and respect their customs completely. But they are not accepting of not following their customs, at least not old school traditional people. Like if you have a tattoo you are a criminal and not allowed anywhere near anyone like that, just to pick one thing. Like in the video... they simply don't care about what western people or any people of any other culture do, they judge everything and everyone through their own cultural lens. And you can't hide tattoos from your in laws in Japan because you have to go to Onsen with them eventually and wear sort of small yukata. They don't tolerate piercings either for example, or any voluntary body modification, because they see it as an insult to your ancestors who contributed to the way you were born. I understand that attitude from their perspective but it's very difficult for most westerners to understand.
@missprettyschannel
@missprettyschannel 4 жыл бұрын
Ya. Just when I thought it couldn't get worse then this...
@axlecordeta7957
@axlecordeta7957 4 жыл бұрын
This will be the downfall for Japan's future
@winesoup6907
@winesoup6907 3 жыл бұрын
Plot Twist: He's actually a rented CEO...the real one is busy spending time with the #1 hostess...
@pineapple2848
@pineapple2848 3 жыл бұрын
OMG THIS ONE SENDING ME😭😭😭
@melodiclogic9904
@melodiclogic9904 3 жыл бұрын
Stolen comment
@winesoup6907
@winesoup6907 3 жыл бұрын
@@melodiclogic9904 if you were referring to my comment...I didn't steal it. It was coincidental I didn't even know if there was similar comment before. Don't be carelessly accusing people.
@devils_maycry7307
@devils_maycry7307 3 жыл бұрын
wtf... lmao
@Diwaystation
@Diwaystation 3 жыл бұрын
Dayuunmnnn
@billysounds6452
@billysounds6452 3 жыл бұрын
I couldnt stop laughing when he said " even infants " like damn bruh fresh out the womb and got a job already😂
@ericw2391
@ericw2391 3 жыл бұрын
Dude is on Earth for only 2 seconds already have 3 years of job experience
@percycat213
@percycat213 3 жыл бұрын
It's essentially like being a child actor in a movie where a baby appears. It's an acting job, and the mom is also "on set" to watch her baby
@billysounds6452
@billysounds6452 3 жыл бұрын
@@ericw2391 he was watching video assessments in the wound and all lhat 🤣
@billysounds6452
@billysounds6452 3 жыл бұрын
@@percycat213 but I can't see why would someone rent a baby🤣
@kittenmimi5326
@kittenmimi5326 3 жыл бұрын
@@percycat213 well in acting everything in the evironment is professionally owned and managed. But the people renting infants are just regular people, not professionaly trained to do anything
@roastingpotato
@roastingpotato 4 жыл бұрын
“They might rent parents for their weddings because their real family has disowned them” :(
@auzanasyraf4551
@auzanasyraf4551 4 жыл бұрын
Alright that sounds heartbreaking
@rintoki
@rintoki 4 жыл бұрын
Oh-- that's here in the US too, with LGBTQ+ children who get married and rent supporting parents
@jaco_21
@jaco_21 4 жыл бұрын
@@rintoki how a child can get married
@rintoki
@rintoki 4 жыл бұрын
@@jaco_21 sshhh, every young person is a child in my book
@japanesesolitude2648
@japanesesolitude2648 4 жыл бұрын
Rintoki I’ve never seen such a reach in my life
@Joselina197
@Joselina197 4 жыл бұрын
When your parent tell you: “you're old enough to know the truth...” Rest of the world: “you're adopted” Japan: “your dad is rented”
@erikasdiary3111
@erikasdiary3111 4 жыл бұрын
LMFAO
@nonochanyeppoyo2490
@nonochanyeppoyo2490 4 жыл бұрын
🤣 after laughing at your comment I then realise this is sad
@lemonpie227
@lemonpie227 4 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard at thissssss 😂😂😂😂
@Abe_Hiroshi12
@Abe_Hiroshi12 4 жыл бұрын
IM DEAD
@PaperCranesAndHaiku
@PaperCranesAndHaiku 4 жыл бұрын
There’s actually a recently released movie called ‘Family Romance LLC’ by Werner Herzog! And that’s the gist! You predicted the plot haha
@mikhailvillacorta1784
@mikhailvillacorta1784 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like some of the fake family employees who gets rented are lonely too but they're just more wiser. They get to spend time with other people and get paid instead of paying to have people around them.
@wiwisjxkalnz
@wiwisjxkalnz 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@aryank3014
@aryank3014 2 жыл бұрын
or maybe they understand the pain of loneliness and just want to help people.
@learninghowto101
@learninghowto101 2 жыл бұрын
possible, I wonder if some clients applied as employees too.
@macblink
@macblink 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe because they're better at speaking and connecting with people, so the introvert, insecure ones are the ones who hire them
@kristinecanuto4846
@kristinecanuto4846 Жыл бұрын
yes po, same thoughts po
@reiiz9942
@reiiz9942 3 жыл бұрын
Family : having a great time together son : *There is an impostor among us*
@susan7374
@susan7374 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@MomoKumaridesu
@MomoKumaridesu 3 жыл бұрын
Omg 😆😆
@francescolomaglio6393
@francescolomaglio6393 3 жыл бұрын
bruhhhhh
@AnaBM9510
@AnaBM9510 2 жыл бұрын
😄
@hrittikroshan7056
@hrittikroshan7056 2 жыл бұрын
Wtf lmfao
@kevinmartinez6323
@kevinmartinez6323 5 жыл бұрын
this is the father who is always on a business trip in the anime
@chunghwapuppet6078
@chunghwapuppet6078 4 жыл бұрын
oh anime's, really reflects their society. does it?
@chunghwapuppet6078
@chunghwapuppet6078 4 жыл бұрын
@Monokuma I know. "missing parents" in anime are not because that happens in real life. such as plane crash, dad is mafia boss, dad got killed by a fox, etc.
@chunghwapuppet6078
@chunghwapuppet6078 4 жыл бұрын
@Monokuma no no I'm not upset at all. I try to be funny. can you show me the quote that show I'm upset? I watch anime too and I like to make jokes
@chunghwapuppet6078
@chunghwapuppet6078 4 жыл бұрын
@Monokuma I was being sarcastic when I commented about disappearing parents in anime reflects society, which to me relates. and no, of course not. Japan is known for other things too like maid cafe, cosplays, tea ceremonies, Buddhist temples, ninjas, samurai's, idol culture, etc. I love Japanese culture and I try to learn more of it. sorry if my joke offended you, I didn't mean to.
@chunghwapuppet6078
@chunghwapuppet6078 4 жыл бұрын
@Monokuma it's okay. Don't worry
@zaegva
@zaegva 4 жыл бұрын
"Luke, I'm just your rental dad.."
@almamater489
@almamater489 4 жыл бұрын
Truly underrated comment
@AjieA
@AjieA 4 жыл бұрын
Snake right 😂
@GeneralChangFromDanang
@GeneralChangFromDanang 4 жыл бұрын
Luke: "I accept your statement because this is entirely possible in our cultuuuuuure!"
@TheMaiah13
@TheMaiah13 4 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@redneckzen
@redneckzen 4 жыл бұрын
Sooooooo ... does that make Leia his rental sister? Which means making out with her is actually cool/hot ...? I am sooooo confused right now \('o')/
@sajidcoloma9277
@sajidcoloma9277 3 жыл бұрын
The interviewer always asks good questions. She's sensitive yet she asks what she needs to know but in a way that it doesn't feel so intrusive.
@dazvshi1585
@dazvshi1585 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine this pops up in one of his “kids"' reccomendation and they go: *chotto matte*
@jaegerbawmb687
@jaegerbawmb687 3 жыл бұрын
Underrated
@didyoustealmyfood8729
@didyoustealmyfood8729 3 жыл бұрын
"otto-san kore omae jainka nae??!!"
@Lilyium
@Lilyium 3 жыл бұрын
You got me at at chotto matte
@VC-kj9yx
@VC-kj9yx 3 жыл бұрын
@@didyoustealmyfood8729 Owari da
@suduko009
@suduko009 3 жыл бұрын
Kid be like: Naaaaaaaaniiiiii....😲😲
@Horologica
@Horologica 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine being a single parent and getting rejected by kindergartens just for being a single parent
@phantomtq
@phantomtq 4 жыл бұрын
Quite normal here in asia. Its more like ajummas making troubles saying its a negative influence on their kids.
@riseevolution
@riseevolution 4 жыл бұрын
Because of that this idea was great but ONLY for that... Like One person say should BE a company of terapy
@emillypereira3005
@emillypereira3005 4 жыл бұрын
Here in Brazil it's so common that nobody cares
@somee6823
@somee6823 4 жыл бұрын
Lara it’s sad.. we should help single parents.. not put them down..
@somee6823
@somee6823 4 жыл бұрын
phantomtq the negative ajumma is actually teaching wrong things to their child..
@kirara4953
@kirara4953 4 жыл бұрын
2018: Son, you're adopted. 2019: Son, you're rented. 2020: Son, you're leased.
@celticwarrior777
@celticwarrior777 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@basharali746
@basharali746 4 жыл бұрын
Damn
@tresnagiharto6681
@tresnagiharto6681 4 жыл бұрын
Omg
@simonetakahashi
@simonetakahashi 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@gurpreetbhamra9752
@gurpreetbhamra9752 4 жыл бұрын
*2021: son you're 3d printed!*
@elvishassassin1
@elvishassassin1 3 жыл бұрын
It's so sad that the mother had to rent a fake father figure for her child. I don't think she should have lied to her daughter for 9 years. I think the Japanese obsession with keeping up appearances is going a bit too far and will result in severely psychologically damaged individuals in the future.
@teresaw8677
@teresaw8677 2 жыл бұрын
i agree, she shouldn’t have lied. maybe just been upfront about it. like “i met him at an agency that helps people, and he wanted to help us. so he’ll be living here for a while.. kind of like a father figure.” something like that. i’d be weirded out at first, but if they were nice and we got a long it wouldn’t be weird for too long imo.
@samreenbassi4181
@samreenbassi4181 2 жыл бұрын
@Spell Check s
@davyroger3773
@davyroger3773 Жыл бұрын
When she finds out ( and she will) it wont be at all pretty
@TheMewtata
@TheMewtata Жыл бұрын
@@teresaw8677 Not easy when the kid is little. What if they blab to the school? Kids are notoriously bad secret keepers. Logically, she should at least tell her daughter when she gets older… but based on the information, there must be an incredible amount of shame attached. And so much lying happens already to save face… Maybe it feels easier to just keep up the lie forever 😔 Sometimes there are only bad options.
@yeshuasage3724
@yeshuasage3724 Жыл бұрын
Ever been to japan? They’re already psychologically damaged and everyone is lonely You try to befriend a person and talk to them about their hobbies and all they can tell you about is work or work related Everyone is like a robot over there, respectful but robotic Rest of the world works to live Japanese live to work
@zozoc5795
@zozoc5795 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine blissfully believing he’s your dad and one day he just walks away for good. That sort of thing does damage to a child.
@7evensabre
@7evensabre 3 жыл бұрын
So true. This is deeply dark and distressing to think about
@wiwisjxkalnz
@wiwisjxkalnz 2 жыл бұрын
It would be better if she had no father i guess
@LuxInfinity-ul5hw
@LuxInfinity-ul5hw 2 ай бұрын
In Conan's show they said that a contract can last up to 30 years. By that time the child is old enough to handle it.
@zainabkhan1823
@zainabkhan1823 4 жыл бұрын
I feel Japan as a society at large needs to accept that ‘Its okay not being okay.Everything doesn’t need to be perfect.’
@SomethingNewAMBW
@SomethingNewAMBW 4 жыл бұрын
totally agree
@zxhack
@zxhack 4 жыл бұрын
God bless America. Anything is OK here.
@KazukiP
@KazukiP 4 жыл бұрын
Mike Tomas if you say so but they’re the ones who are accepting it’s ok to feel lonely
@camerongunter6232
@camerongunter6232 4 жыл бұрын
It largely used to. There is the "wabi sabi" philiosophy of zen Buddhism which states to appreciate the beauties in imperfection, admiring the simple elegance of, for example, a crooked path on a foggy Autumn morning. Perhaps this idea has become lost with Westernization, which admires the perfect symmetry of a 6 pillared state building or the nuclear family. I think a lot of the world would benefit from using Wabi Sabi as a guide to relax and admire the imperfections of life just as the great Japanese philosophers of old did.
@icebear4489
@icebear4489 4 жыл бұрын
@@camerongunter6232 as a Buddhist my self..i totally agree with you my friend 😊
@nisehammeken8546
@nisehammeken8546 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so frustrated at how it seems Japan hasn't discovered therapy yet.
@spaceylacey83
@spaceylacey83 4 жыл бұрын
Counselors don't make much money and people who use them are stigmatized. 😔
@jinshezzz
@jinshezzz 4 жыл бұрын
@Radu Cris no offense. But that's wrong. Well it depends if the person even wants to get out of there and how good the therapist is.
@QuietlyCurious
@QuietlyCurious 4 жыл бұрын
It's that notorious Japanese pride. Bushido. And Radu Cris, you're right in a way. Clinical therapy isn't the end all. I had to combine counseling with spiritual study for myself.
@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa790
@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa790 4 жыл бұрын
We can consider this an alternate form of family.
@convitthoi
@convitthoi 4 жыл бұрын
Therapy in Asian generally is still a myth,people would consider you as a “crazy and scary” person if you go in a therapy session in Vietnam-where I live.
@DulyDullahan
@DulyDullahan 2 жыл бұрын
When the husband who lost his wife was explaining how he got angry at his wife for being sick, I immediately recognised he had caregiver burnout. I’ve read plenty of cases where this happens where the primary caregiver starts to get irritated and lash out on the person they are caring for. I just wanted to say that there is nothing wrong with this and just because you are irritable and tired does not mean you are selfish and mean. We’re all humans and the buildup of stress will eventually get to you. I know a lot of caregivers feel guilty about having these thoughts and they end up becoming more stressed out because of it. What I do suggest to those experiencing caregiver burnout is to seek counselling or therapy. There IS therapy made for this so don’t be afraid to reach out.
@lzkrishmom
@lzkrishmom 2 жыл бұрын
His kids should've step in to help. But it seems in Japan, they work 14 hrs 7 days a week.
@TheMewtata
@TheMewtata Жыл бұрын
From the other comments: doesn’t sound like it’s so easy to get that therapy in Japan.
@Kitty-JuneOhSixJanTwentyFour
@Kitty-JuneOhSixJanTwentyFour Жыл бұрын
@@TheMewtata If you are the primary caregiver to a very sick person, not only in Japan, but it probably would be extremely hard for the person to find time to go for a therapy in any country anyways.
@coconutmilch2351
@coconutmilch2351 Жыл бұрын
yeah i felt so bad for him ...
@mustafajuventino9964
@mustafajuventino9964 Жыл бұрын
​@@lzkrishmomI work with Japanese clients and I meet a lot of them every day, actually most Japanese people I met work 9-10 hours a day, 5 days a week
@jaimecalatayud8816
@jaimecalatayud8816 3 жыл бұрын
"How far are we allowed to go to fix something that is broken? Until the remedy is worse than the disease." Movie Morbius
@User-vb8pf
@User-vb8pf 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006
@weneedmoreconsideratepeopl4006 3 жыл бұрын
made me think, but isn't it the other way around?
@xelomigo7523
@xelomigo7523 4 жыл бұрын
You sure he isnt the hired acting CEO...
@salmarahmatia19
@salmarahmatia19 4 жыл бұрын
This had me laugh
@theresiaalfareja8840
@theresiaalfareja8840 4 жыл бұрын
hmmm ... I don't think so, because it's called public fraud and lawlessness there, lol
@greatb825
@greatb825 4 жыл бұрын
Woooow hahahaha
@sabagisara
@sabagisara 4 жыл бұрын
and the girl is fake interviewer
@hellenkekana8791
@hellenkekana8791 4 жыл бұрын
I was feeling teary eyed about the video, then this made me laugh
@SystemBot
@SystemBot 5 жыл бұрын
imagine telling your friends you're only single by choice, had 200+ marriage proposals, multiple weddings, and many kids who call you papa.
@leecrawford6560
@leecrawford6560 5 жыл бұрын
I can't even imagine what his gravestone would look like The image idea(cause he could choose to not be buried, When he dies)
@janettem3586
@janettem3586 5 жыл бұрын
Chaos unrelated but, your profile picture made me scream and run down a flight of stairs 😔
@irisgonzalez5028
@irisgonzalez5028 5 жыл бұрын
I wonder if they can ever tell they're acting...
@alq95
@alq95 5 жыл бұрын
to turn down 200+ marriage proposals and 200 emotional attachments....one needs a really tough heart
@vwgenera2918
@vwgenera2918 5 жыл бұрын
Asian countries including Korea hate Japan because they do not apologize to the victims of the past and recognize their poor history compared to Germany. In addition, if Japan continues in this situation, Japan is not able to have a happy future with Japan and other Asian countries because Japanese people are educating Japanese students to misleading history. Poor Japanese people. So sad.
@LukeYoYoRoberts
@LukeYoYoRoberts 3 жыл бұрын
Seems horrendous that a child would actually be made to believe their rented father is actually their REAL father! I mean even if they were being rented frequently that just seems wrong on so many levels!!
@xandercage4499
@xandercage4499 2 жыл бұрын
Better than being a fatherless child
@reinstate317
@reinstate317 2 жыл бұрын
@@xandercage4499 no it’s not
@alvinleong269
@alvinleong269 2 жыл бұрын
It's the rental future🔥
@mannaporanna2678
@mannaporanna2678 Жыл бұрын
@@xandercage4499 of course it's not. The feeling of being abandoned and even not knowing the reason is much worse
@nehemiah_illustrates
@nehemiah_illustrates 3 жыл бұрын
Episode Plot: “Parents disown Child for choosing wrong partner for marriage. Child goes to rental agency for parents for the Wedding. (Plot twist): Parents fall on hard times and sign up to rent themselves out for side income. Parents get chosen by Disowned Child for Wedding.”
@leezaaneja1213
@leezaaneja1213 3 жыл бұрын
Clapssssssss
@Meowmeowfilmsonly
@Meowmeowfilmsonly 3 жыл бұрын
Is there a part 2 ?
@kimrose1644
@kimrose1644 2 жыл бұрын
Boom
@jazzyochuru7480
@jazzyochuru7480 2 жыл бұрын
This should be a movie...
@BlessedBaeLLC
@BlessedBaeLLC 2 жыл бұрын
The plot thickens👀
@FrankM
@FrankM 5 жыл бұрын
Lack of communication creates a divide between people. It confounds me that Japanese are comfortable renting a family, but are ashamed or reluctant to communicate with their real family.
@YouYou-sm8tf
@YouYou-sm8tf 5 жыл бұрын
It's because of social pressure to be indépendant.
@worldpeace1822
@worldpeace1822 5 жыл бұрын
I have the feeling it’s more about not creating any kind of conflicts. This seems to happen inside a family but is also true when it comes to conflicts that might be taken outwards to save face in front of others. It’s almost as if people can’t take on difficult topics that will effect people’s emotions. Hence they are stuck with their own emotions and can’t solve them because often this would effect another person. And it seems logical when you think about what the man in the video said. Often Japanese children are alone at home and the parents are working late. It saves trouble when the children don’t make trouble...but to not stir trouble they lack communication. You can’t use what you haven’t learned....
@otakuismybae2700
@otakuismybae2700 5 жыл бұрын
vwgenera =-=
@worldpeace1822
@worldpeace1822 5 жыл бұрын
vwgenera you sound like one of those people wearing a hakenkreuz bind claiming that one should be wary of every Jew, because they all lie, extort and are generally bad bad people. The 18th century is overage and the war clans don’t exist anymore. Yet here we still hear people using the past to talk bad about everyone of another country in a very general way.... this is called culturalism and is just another form of modern racism.
@williamssister8804
@williamssister8804 5 жыл бұрын
@@YouYou-sm8tf I really don't think this is the reason. In the USA, we are raised to be fiercely independent. A service like this, in USA would not become popular unlike the Japanese, independence means that you have self-expression and don't allow the society to dictate to you your norms.
@bridget3956
@bridget3956 4 жыл бұрын
The only thing that's weird is that it's called Family Romance
@yukiharu9726
@yukiharu9726 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe it has a different meaning/vibe to Japanese people. (Could mean like "platonic love")
@inoueokaito
@inoueokaito 4 жыл бұрын
it sounds like a movie title
@Storiesbyniharika
@Storiesbyniharika 4 жыл бұрын
Actually Japanese people have a really different interpretation of the word romance. They think it is general love between family members. If it's about the word romantic, then they relate it with their partners.
@maxzurgaa542
@maxzurgaa542 4 жыл бұрын
it is possibly the best name for the operation , why not
@awts..7954
@awts..7954 4 жыл бұрын
*SWEET HOME ALABAMA-*
@s.stevens4520
@s.stevens4520 2 жыл бұрын
Most of these clients need therapy, not actors. That is heartbreaking that multiple people think he's their real dad.
@skylark9896
@skylark9896 2 жыл бұрын
My wife passed away only a few months after we married. People always say things like "It's ok to move on", but they don't understand how difficult that it. Even five years later dating someone new seems like a joke. My heart belongs to her. I can absolutely understand how a rental wife would be a thing. There's an inherent need for social intimacy, but you're unable to find it through traditional connections. The illusion is better than being alone. When the client said "(I'm) not happy at all. I can't be happy", that really hit hard. My heart goes out to these people. I hope he does find happiness again in his life.
@Grimmistired
@Grimmistired 4 жыл бұрын
Imo no child should ever be tricked into thinking a paid stranger is actually thier parent. It seems cruel and denying reality
@mariasmith2198
@mariasmith2198 4 жыл бұрын
Its better then what often happens with no father at all in their lives. Even a lie still helps the child have a role model of what a male is like. But best to be honest as soon a spossible, of course. Still, its complicated, and honesty is really not even often the best. Parents have the right to not tell kids things. Because kids are not the ones earning money or raising the household.
@susannabonke8552
@susannabonke8552 4 жыл бұрын
@@mariasmith2198 since our world is broken a little acting may Help🤷💼
@augustsunflower771
@augustsunflower771 4 жыл бұрын
Even when they do accept it it paints a picture that Love and relationships indeed can be brought..What a sick thing to teach a child.
@willn8664
@willn8664 4 жыл бұрын
You know the saying "ignorance is bliss."
@boliussa
@boliussa 4 жыл бұрын
yeah it's unnecessary.
@mynametrong5508
@mynametrong5508 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like I'd be even lonelier knowing that my happiness was so fake:(
@ikigai3232
@ikigai3232 5 жыл бұрын
Mynametrong, I feel as you do. I would look to invest that money in alternative long term relationships ( dating, hiring housekeepers - with whom I could have a cup of tea and enjoy a nice chat, join social groups that does outings etc.)
@toujoursbelle5722
@toujoursbelle5722 5 жыл бұрын
yeah I feel so too
@74261700002770825
@74261700002770825 5 жыл бұрын
Same here dawg
@wandas8044
@wandas8044 5 жыл бұрын
True
@Steve_A_R
@Steve_A_R 5 жыл бұрын
It's like a pain killer, you need it sometime
@tullyfully5214
@tullyfully5214 3 жыл бұрын
Lol, classic dad just doing an interview about being a CEO of Family Romance again.
@babyarmy7073
@babyarmy7073 3 жыл бұрын
This is beyond psychologically damaging for children who is being lied to and children told to play apart.
@kassandracox7047
@kassandracox7047 4 жыл бұрын
I'm of two minds. 1) This is really sad. 2) This is a romance novel waiting to happen.
@acanthocephala
@acanthocephala 4 жыл бұрын
there's a romance manga about a guy and a rental girlfriend. it's called 'kanojo, okarishimasu'
@lolaispure4296
@lolaispure4296 4 жыл бұрын
LOOL when she falls in love with her fake dad!!🤣🤣🤣
@eryalmario5299
@eryalmario5299 4 жыл бұрын
It's already canon though
@adam13weishaupt
@adam13weishaupt 4 жыл бұрын
@@acanthocephala -- If it's allowed to become real, it's no longer a way to earn a livelihood. The former rented person has to find a different kind of job.
@mmxxmxm
@mmxxmxm 4 жыл бұрын
@@lolaispure4296 lololol
@addy3134
@addy3134 4 жыл бұрын
Don't like the idea about renting infants though. No matter the situation, you can never trust people with infants. Plus the infant has no say in this contract
@bigboomer1013
@bigboomer1013 4 жыл бұрын
Same. The first thought that came to mind was someone renting the infant for horrible things
@AngelDeed
@AngelDeed 4 жыл бұрын
@@bigboomer1013 Infants can't be rented alone, the mother accompanies them.
@AngelDeed
@AngelDeed 4 жыл бұрын
@@lucyl15 Dude most infants start out in a hospital... And they could just as easily have visited a real family member.... Family members bring home all kinds of germs, you can't just isolate them. Infants are not made of glass.
@Rustyybucket
@Rustyybucket 4 жыл бұрын
I get what you mean but with regards to the contract, that literally applies to any media content featuring infants. The parents decides, and for the most part until you are 18, the parents decides.
@tabbyc3970
@tabbyc3970 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Weirdos out there and infants cannot speak for themselves.
@blossomlight2719
@blossomlight2719 3 жыл бұрын
My jaw dropping by hearing this. People in Japan is so lonely to the point they need to rent strangers to be part of their life 😭
@dvessel
@dvessel 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe this family rental company should expand into family therapy. Seeing a psychologist is viewed negatively in the region but a little rebranding can work wonders.
@TioDeive
@TioDeive 5 жыл бұрын
Completely agree with you. This would give people a chance to mend their relationships, going to the cause or causes of the problem.
@princessthyemis
@princessthyemis 5 жыл бұрын
Good idea!
@kseniakrasnova5151
@kseniakrasnova5151 5 жыл бұрын
I agree
@GibranRisnutama
@GibranRisnutama 5 жыл бұрын
This may works
@ledfiction9775
@ledfiction9775 5 жыл бұрын
the CEO didn't want to make it more intricated. i guess he just don't care anymore after finishing his jobs
@jayxfrost8987
@jayxfrost8987 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine having a wonderful happy childhood memories with your dad... then you're an adult and find out he was actually a stranger your mom hired to play that part. I would've been devastated.
@johnmc5935
@johnmc5935 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@_rubyrose10_
@_rubyrose10_ 4 жыл бұрын
Same 😥
@khaikhai4982
@khaikhai4982 4 жыл бұрын
Better than without a dad
@Csaykaman
@Csaykaman 4 жыл бұрын
I think I would be sad at first but thankful too haha
@Ren-kp4tz
@Ren-kp4tz 4 жыл бұрын
I’d rather not have a parent then have a fake parent and be lied to my whole life
@illsaywhatifoundright
@illsaywhatifoundright 3 жыл бұрын
I should show this to my mom who always told me you can't get a family with money from market😂 Japan can turn anything to business
@susan7374
@susan7374 3 жыл бұрын
By far, this is the most relatable documentaries and best work ever. Well done Asian Boss by bringing this to light.
@oooguotang892
@oooguotang892 5 жыл бұрын
The 248 dislikes are from people who saw their father appearing as the CEO in this video.
@veronicam2942
@veronicam2942 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@abilizard
@abilizard 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@CamilleLMacLean
@CamilleLMacLean 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@faizatulhasanah7875
@faizatulhasanah7875 4 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@donkisot4355
@donkisot4355 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@kjn1451
@kjn1451 3 жыл бұрын
just imagine seeing the man who you claimed as a “father” for so long walking down the streets with another family, pretending to be their father.. that’s cruel
@quirky-catholic-girl
@quirky-catholic-girl 3 жыл бұрын
It has probably happened at some poiny
@cyberstar26
@cyberstar26 3 жыл бұрын
They prob think he was cheating, run home to tell mom & be bewildered as to why she isn't upset at the news.
@Megan-ii4gf
@Megan-ii4gf 3 жыл бұрын
I would have prefered a loving father even if it was an act, who wasn't really my father, so that I could at least have that feeling and stability, than a biological father who walked away when I was born and step-fathers who were all abusive. I also have a grandfather who is not biologically related to me, but he has always treated me like he treats his own, and I love him dearly. Meanwhile the biological grandfather who he replaces... I don't even know his face, I hardly know his name. I've never met him, and I know nothing about him, yet he's apparently been alive all my life, and I've heard nothing. I don't know if he even knows I exist. Feeling loved is the most important thing in this world.
@chesspro22k64
@chesspro22k64 3 жыл бұрын
@@Megan-ii4gf Well said my friend..... well said.
@jra3978
@jra3978 2 жыл бұрын
@@Megan-ii4gf Im sorry for the struggles you went through in your life, i know what its like to grow up without a father or male figures. But genuinely curious about your perspective, you really would prefer an actor, even if he wasnt there most of the time, or you found out he was paid when you are older? Idk, I would feel like everything was a lie, and question whether this person really cared or was just acting. Its not the best to grow up without a parent, but I think I have overcome it in my own way and it made me who I am today.
@kungfuwife
@kungfuwife 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Asian Boss for bringing this story to light. I appreciated the CEO's comments regarding how society deals things have consequences to human beings. It was really insightful and helped to understand some of difficulties in Japanese as well as what all people deal with. Thank you.
@MrWeGe
@MrWeGe 3 жыл бұрын
I'm genuinely curious as to what will happen to Japan in the coming few decades. Will they ever be able to address and fix these societal problems like overworking, face-saving, loneliness, etc. Not saying that every other culture/society didn't have its negatives and positives, but there is certainly something very troublesome beneath the surface of Japanese society.
@ridgefrost
@ridgefrost 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly this feels like a black mirror episode
@kingharold7705
@kingharold7705 3 жыл бұрын
yess thats what i was thinking the whole time
@ssychostella
@ssychostella 3 жыл бұрын
Kinda wish they'd make an episode based on this concept
@LovednLoving
@LovednLoving 3 жыл бұрын
Omg fr
@saraquill
@saraquill 3 жыл бұрын
There is a movie, “Noriko’s Dinner Table,” with a huge focus on rental families.
@baindex6861
@baindex6861 3 жыл бұрын
@@saraquill thanks dude for the movie Rex gonna watch it
@justarandomguy6359
@justarandomguy6359 4 жыл бұрын
So in Japan you can get rental parents for high school parent teachers meeting.
@maxmustermann5639
@maxmustermann5639 4 жыл бұрын
TaeTae LOVE Outsourcing is key! I mean, who’s really interessted in making conversation with the teachers of their kids? As an example ;)
@1c2h3e4u5n6g
@1c2h3e4u5n6g 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@budle89
@budle89 4 жыл бұрын
@@maxmustermann5639 parents who care? I don't get this mentality how parents are dreading the PTA meetings in America (through social media comments & movies). You get a chance to help your kids develop more and understand them better. But I have never seen what really happened during those meetings there. So, not sure what's the real reason is.
@zeze3777
@zeze3777 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Storiesbyniharika
@Storiesbyniharika 4 жыл бұрын
Yes😂😂
@integerrandom
@integerrandom 3 жыл бұрын
Remind me of a story about a young boy who brokenhearted when he learn that his baby sitter is actually paid and not there simply to hang out with him. Imagine if it's your dad...
@Minty_Blitz
@Minty_Blitz 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is the equivalent of putting a band-aid on a wound that requires stitches. They're not attacking the problem which I believe would end up doing more wrong that good :/
@priyankasalelkar3564
@priyankasalelkar3564 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely...it is really heartbreaking :(
@piept4651
@piept4651 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, imagine being one of his "children" and getting this video in your YT recommendations.
@nicapika7970
@nicapika7970 4 жыл бұрын
I would have a break down...get my lagguage and go see my dad and give him the biggest hug! Say sorry for being a stupid daughter.
@Shimmysoup
@Shimmysoup 4 жыл бұрын
I actually feel really bad for them.. Like really bad..
@Shimmysoup
@Shimmysoup 4 жыл бұрын
@Reto Ware true that
@masanobumaou
@masanobumaou 4 жыл бұрын
I would be super depressed as well. I would rather know that he isnt my real dad but someone like a caretaker, who I can still tell my problems and go out if I want. I would probay still love him but wont get hurt...
@SoushinSen
@SoushinSen 4 жыл бұрын
It's okay, he's pretending to be CEO in this video.
@springrollwang4441
@springrollwang4441 5 жыл бұрын
I love the fake wife, she said, "we are a real family, right"? with strong eye contact, and still in character.
@aslam5044
@aslam5044 4 жыл бұрын
But its good. They tring hard to keep the family's mood. If in they worktime, they tell they are just pretending. I dont know how will that husband respond.
@minnauyeda8002
@minnauyeda8002 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, Diego, that’s harsh.
@angelofdeath275
@angelofdeath275 4 жыл бұрын
Diego Yobe go to bed
@ameerhamsa3329
@ameerhamsa3329 4 жыл бұрын
@Diego Yobe shut up
@rjmac8870
@rjmac8870 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah.but its simply because she's getting paid for her faking it.anything for money, right?
@teilorsoares8864
@teilorsoares8864 3 жыл бұрын
Not having a "traditional family" can turn you in an outcast on almost every country in the world, but Japanese are so efficient that they decided to create a service to fix the problem. I'm not sure if this is problematic or not; from a western point of view sounds really problematic.
@daviddufresne343
@daviddufresne343 3 жыл бұрын
Westerners pretend to be progressive with all the SJW stuff, but in reality they are incredibly judgmental. A lonely westerner will just end up committing suicide or doing a slow version of one through pills, alcohol poor eating etc. Japan also has a suicide problem, but it is lowering while it is skyrocketing among men in the west.
@isaiahsimmons5776
@isaiahsimmons5776 2 жыл бұрын
FAMILY IS ABOUT SUBJUGATION. IT ALL BECAUSE OF CIVILIZATION. CIVILIZATION NEEDS TO DIE. IF CIVILIZATION CANT DIE THAN LIFE ITSELF MUST DIE.
@flwrden
@flwrden Жыл бұрын
love the interviewer! she asks all the great questions!
@shivambisht755
@shivambisht755 3 жыл бұрын
That's the reason anime always focus on love, friendship and bonds because they are lacking it in real life and they want to motivate their viewers to do that in real life
@mrxcs
@mrxcs 3 жыл бұрын
I question my self if this just make it worst, since they just show a perfect version of it, and it does not teach how to deal with real problems since no relationship will have ever be perfect.
@megafro6999
@megafro6999 3 жыл бұрын
@@mrxcs for some reason the only thing that makes this worse is that people get attracted to the anime characters more than real life people lol
@kedskies
@kedskies 3 жыл бұрын
True
@rose-qk1xy
@rose-qk1xy 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@hmmmmmmm8412
@hmmmmmmm8412 3 жыл бұрын
@@megafro6999 yup ,seen lot of Japanese men marrying VR anime girls
@VeralBoni
@VeralBoni 5 жыл бұрын
This video shows how ironic it is that having a family is so basic a need but it can be such a tall order for others to have.
@seferino
@seferino 5 жыл бұрын
True. Some people wish to have a family.
@fresapreso1491
@fresapreso1491 5 жыл бұрын
woah i cried (dont get me wrong, i love my family i just empathize with others)
@khonzahanny
@khonzahanny 5 жыл бұрын
Agree! Once I was really jealous with my friend, she's wealthy, smart, and kind-hearted..but one day I visit her house, it's so quiet there. I felt a little empty inside. She's the only child, her parents divorced .. meanwhile I have 6 siblings and I can't imagine life without them. Even with all the wealth my friend have. I'm really grateful to have them
@GloRia-yp2tj
@GloRia-yp2tj 5 жыл бұрын
vwgenera What is the link with this video?
@exstee
@exstee 5 жыл бұрын
Yup. True family is priceless. My parents got divorced when I was young, but I am still thankful to have both my mother and my brother.
@dadadede9359
@dadadede9359 3 жыл бұрын
Videos like this makes me feel glad about my parents
@riojaneiro4130
@riojaneiro4130 2 жыл бұрын
"I'm amazed. You guys look like a picture-perfect family" " That's because..." family rent: "we're family." "wow" *client: "we are family"* man that really breaks my heart :")
@richardly1543
@richardly1543 2 жыл бұрын
very awkward question to ask
@aquilifergroup
@aquilifergroup 2 жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart too. Searching for words to explain why.
@ssanngkakkoii
@ssanngkakkoii 8 ай бұрын
no you are coworkers 😂
@dungnguyendinh5805
@dungnguyendinh5805 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a foreigner working in Japan. And I have to say that Japanese people are kind and polite but not very friendly. Not only with foreigner like me but even with other Japanese coworkers they don't tend to talk much, they just don't care about other's life and don't want to share about their life. They just come to work then leave. I feel so hard to make friend with them :(( So I think communication is a problem.
@hereb4theend
@hereb4theend 5 жыл бұрын
Have you tried beating them? 😂😜
@dungnguyendinh5805
@dungnguyendinh5805 5 жыл бұрын
no no... lol!
@rymc3437
@rymc3437 5 жыл бұрын
I lived in japan too and its seems like that japanese are really quiet, shy and not tend to start a discussion with their coworkers . They dont really like foreigners, i remember the look on the face of some people when i said i was a korean , they acted oddly after that . Japanese way of life is really stressful too, but its also a great country with beautiful culture, good luck and enjoy your time there👍
@deegaming7947
@deegaming7947 5 жыл бұрын
Shy and communication is a real problem there tho.. idk why, seems they have complicated mind. I mean, they hard for express they own feeling.
@valerieothenin-girard9226
@valerieothenin-girard9226 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve had many personal contacts with young and old Japanese through work and hosting. Unfortunately the problem stems in their culture of politeness at the expense of suppressing true feelings. It has been ingrained in their psyche but the younger generation is becoming more westernised (for good and bad) because of global social media. Each and every culture - yours and mine - is imperfect. I’m a 73 year old Jamaican-born Chinese married to a European and lives in Australia - that’s the background for my observation.
@lalakuma9
@lalakuma9 5 жыл бұрын
I literally screamed when he said the single mother's 19-year-old daughter still thinks this guy is her father. You can't keep up a lie forever, and she'll be shocked when she finds out.
@asmaehassani9483
@asmaehassani9483 5 жыл бұрын
@the dead lighter suga uses yes he is famous she must have known his true self
@hodannn
@hodannn 5 жыл бұрын
the dead lighter suga uses yes these days u can just upload a photo on google and find out about them.
@jaypark1224
@jaypark1224 5 жыл бұрын
@ Lala I'm pretty sure she already knows about it already but, still considers him to be her father because of what he has done for her when she was down in the ditches. I'm sure you know places like Japan, when other parents look down upon you even the children start to. She was probably bullied for having a single mother hence why she never wanted to go to school until her mother decided this couldn't continue and did whatever she could at the time to help her only daughter.
@iganduyan07
@iganduyan07 5 жыл бұрын
i think we should request asian boss to follow that girl's life, it would be interesting
@nathanielmills4678
@nathanielmills4678 5 жыл бұрын
It's completely inhumane to act as her father. I have a daughter myself and would hate for her to go through such a thing.
@ganpeace
@ganpeace 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful documentary. Lack of communications among family members and not able to express self within family members are REAL problems in real life around the world.
@candlehoarder5673
@candlehoarder5673 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I could see narcissists really benefiting from this. Real family doesn't need to deal with a toxic person, and the narcissist can pay for the family they wish they had.
@sleepaholic_6009
@sleepaholic_6009 5 жыл бұрын
Imagine being a rental dad and seeing the sad faces of little children begging you not to go when you have to leave....Breaks my heart
@annyeong9717
@annyeong9717 4 жыл бұрын
Yep superman for you
@alessbritish228
@alessbritish228 4 жыл бұрын
​He's a businessman.
@ghostHizao
@ghostHizao 4 жыл бұрын
This seriously highlighted Japanese's problem with HONOUR and dignity.
@milaaquariosoulinc4994
@milaaquariosoulinc4994 4 жыл бұрын
Social constructs that have not changed with reality.
@harshmnr
@harshmnr 4 жыл бұрын
This is totally off topic, but as soon as I saw the word "honor" written in all caps I immediately thought of Zuko from Avatar, if you guys know what I'm talking about. XD ~:~
@justsophiejane
@justsophiejane 3 жыл бұрын
Pride is a serious problem.
@amethyst1826
@amethyst1826 3 жыл бұрын
ghostHizao It's just Japanese, not Japanese's, hunny.
@tails99
@tails99 3 жыл бұрын
All this fakeness, it's the opposite of honour and dignity
@vanessavazquez5167
@vanessavazquez5167 3 жыл бұрын
great interviewer! she asked all of the right questions
@jerymie6708
@jerymie6708 3 жыл бұрын
Finally, I can tell my father to wash dishes.
@levinitabarlow9569
@levinitabarlow9569 2 жыл бұрын
😂💀
@icephoenix3565
@icephoenix3565 2 жыл бұрын
Looool
@theofficialpolitecat7059
@theofficialpolitecat7059 4 жыл бұрын
To be honest,I feel that Hiroko is the best interviewer
@pjscafe
@pjscafe 4 жыл бұрын
Not to mention she's cute too. 👍👍
@megansalt
@megansalt 4 жыл бұрын
much better than that horny hafu guy
@randomuser3561
@randomuser3561 4 жыл бұрын
@@megansalt can you tell me who you are refering to? Like which video is he in?
@greenleesuperfan
@greenleesuperfan 4 жыл бұрын
The Official Polite Cat it’s because she is genuinely interested in what the interviewee has to say
@mcchoxseno454
@mcchoxseno454 4 жыл бұрын
true. she feels genuinely interested, makes reactions that make the interviewee feel good and she is polite too and doesnt appear to judge the person. Most interviewers especially in other countries would either be sarcastic or show fake interest.
@heavylurker
@heavylurker 4 жыл бұрын
The guy should get Oscars from all that acting and hiding his true emotions, for years.
@karanraghavan9069
@karanraghavan9069 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@konliner9286
@konliner9286 4 жыл бұрын
But if he won Oscar, then his identity will be revealed publicly.
@hangrychris9566
@hangrychris9566 4 жыл бұрын
thats called being a psychopath
@alessbritish228
@alessbritish228 4 жыл бұрын
@@konliner9286 He's already into an interview with journalists.
@nicorobin7666
@nicorobin7666 4 жыл бұрын
It seems like all Japanese are brilliant at hiding their emotions and acting.
@darwinparlindungan2544
@darwinparlindungan2544 3 жыл бұрын
Great insight , closing statement : Family is everything and it's so important to have a good communication of each other's family members by at least calling them not just texting ...
@chinni2399
@chinni2399 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing video which gave me an insight of things in Japan. Thank you Asian boss! Keep up the good wprk
@Michael-bf1dt
@Michael-bf1dt 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Naomi how are you. Greetings from Ireland. Hope you’re safe from covid. It’s a good video. Best wishes 😊🙏 Michael
@JayHendricksWorld
@JayHendricksWorld 4 жыл бұрын
This is undoubtedly among the most surreal concepts I've ever encountered.
@diegogonzalez7279
@diegogonzalez7279 4 жыл бұрын
Henrik Jørgensen for real like danm , those Asian country’s I always felt there are so advance than western regions
@gomorasmith1015
@gomorasmith1015 4 жыл бұрын
Diego Gonzalez if this is advanced I’d rather stay behind lmao. This is beyond depressing, if you watch the video the service is mostly used not out of loneliness but rather out of a need to save face and project a ‘’good” image to society.
@maihaiki888
@maihaiki888 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, you're so right.
@justRuwanthi
@justRuwanthi 4 жыл бұрын
Strange what the world has become, isn't it?
@JayHendricksWorld
@JayHendricksWorld 4 жыл бұрын
@@justRuwanthi Absolutely bizarre but at least in novel and fascinating ways so I guess there's that! :)
@arsyadr8570
@arsyadr8570 5 жыл бұрын
This looks like a black mirror episode
@boomyvoomy
@boomyvoomy 5 жыл бұрын
They haven't programmed the family route yet.
@KuroKitten
@KuroKitten 5 жыл бұрын
Too true...
@ere117
@ere117 5 жыл бұрын
PAC
@benedite7850
@benedite7850 5 жыл бұрын
I was about to wrote this
@PresidentialWinner
@PresidentialWinner 5 жыл бұрын
Reality is often stranger than fiction
@sleeepybae1459
@sleeepybae1459 3 жыл бұрын
i really hope that man gets in touch with his real children someday. he seems like a nice guy :(
@angeliatengara4129
@angeliatengara4129 3 жыл бұрын
This is so insightful
@whyis6afraidof740
@whyis6afraidof740 4 жыл бұрын
That's lowkey cruel tho. Like, imagine you find out that your dad isn't your dad but earns money by pretending to be. And that he has a bunch of other fake children. Like, tf. He isn't doing the job a father (biological or not) should do. Those kids will find out and it'll hurt them :(
@usucksomuch
@usucksomuch 4 жыл бұрын
I think something like this could really backfire if the child isn’t aware about what’s actually going on
@xvenacavax
@xvenacavax 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah and imagine when they do find out...I was raised without a father and I think it’s less painful than finding out you’ve been lied to this whole time :/
@user-vq4pf7if3i
@user-vq4pf7if3i 3 жыл бұрын
@@xvenacavax their purpose in hiring a dad is probably to have a fatherly influence in the child's upbringing, something very few(if any) mothers can really give. The problem is not which way would be less painful, but how well you can bring up the child since having both parents is optimal. If the child grows up into a well adjusted and strong person then they will be able to take it.
@apoptosis9459
@apoptosis9459 3 жыл бұрын
As an adult, this sounds cruel and unjust. But children are still in their development age where they learn the concepts of the society (morals) and mentally grow. Without these strong foundations and ability to create relationships, the children went be able to lead relatively stable and normal life.
@zozoc5795
@zozoc5795 3 жыл бұрын
I can see how he could be a good influence and foundation. It just sucks I guess but if they tell the children in the right way at the right time it will be ok.
@tinomasando
@tinomasando 4 жыл бұрын
The way that client straight up said he's not happy, wow. At least this service is helping him realise he should just talk to his kids, since having a fake family is making him miss his real family.
@eyobbekele8606
@eyobbekele8606 Жыл бұрын
I feel Japan as a society at large needs a hug
@josephinemelgar2538
@josephinemelgar2538 3 жыл бұрын
So amazing and heartfelt thankful for the CEO to do such kind of business to make some people happy at their expense, its really good to uphold the dignity of those people and their behalf. Really and its reality the some people are lonely.disowned, single parent.those people are really in need And Im very happy that this video has english translation.💖
@RealH0rr0rsh0w
@RealH0rr0rsh0w 5 жыл бұрын
Take a drink every time "disowned" is said. I could go for an Asian Boss video about disownment in Japanese culture. Interview people who have been disowned by family or disowned a family member, talk about why, if they regret it, will there be rapprochement, etc.
@doejohn6197
@doejohn6197 5 жыл бұрын
Graphic Yea I wanna learn more about that ....
@ggishallou
@ggishallou 5 жыл бұрын
I second that!
@chicatwigz
@chicatwigz 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, Asian Boss please cover this, very interested in why disownment in Japan is so common. Many of your interviewees from your previous Japan-based videos have mentioned they have been disowned by family as well.
@namefinder
@namefinder 5 жыл бұрын
I was wondering the same!
@Rezzmari
@Rezzmari 5 жыл бұрын
Good topic. But for Asian culture it is usually about saving face, so if you bring shame upon your family they'd rather cut you off than deal with the repercussions of said shame. It varies from culture to culture just how extreme they are about it, but yeah.
@TKstorytw
@TKstorytw 4 жыл бұрын
So worthy of becoming a feature length documentary....one of the best KZfaq videos I’ve seen
@paulhoffmann3405
@paulhoffmann3405 4 жыл бұрын
Check out Werner Herzogs "Family Romance LLC"; its fictional but also kind of a documentary and features the CEO of Family Romance as a main character.
@somethingstupidlikeiloveu
@somethingstupidlikeiloveu 3 жыл бұрын
台客劇場耶!!
@Nell_Isabel
@Nell_Isabel 3 жыл бұрын
Dear frankie! Such a good movie
@cherriseawright6666
@cherriseawright6666 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I totally agree
@nodnarb5
@nodnarb5 2 жыл бұрын
This was definitely one of the best Asian boss videos I've seen hands down. The more videos you watch, the more pieces get put together on how Japanese society functions and the sort of cultural balance needed between (overt) saving face and (covert) direct honesty. It seems like if you're an honest person in Japan you can do really well by becoming a no. 1 host/hostess and when you're older, become a rental family member lol. The concern lies in why "honesty as a business" is such a lucrative industry. I wonder what's more profitable in Japan...Honne or Tatemae? The actual reason this CEO started this business is quite frankly, surprising, noble and illuminates the systematic disregard for anything that is outside of a nuclear family. I thought maybe a psychologist would help...but Japan has psychologists...and the issues that require Family Romance's services are more 'service' than 'solution'.
@rachels1358
@rachels1358 3 жыл бұрын
This video is truly touching, reflects the fundamental and universal problem around the world.
@Thisthatfour
@Thisthatfour 3 жыл бұрын
Plot Twist: Everyone in this video was rented, even the cameraman.
@whereeveritgoes
@whereeveritgoes 5 жыл бұрын
He had to reject over 200 marriage proposals. I want to have this problem.
@jiyaji1842
@jiyaji1842 5 жыл бұрын
You an Indian?
@shiro3940
@shiro3940 5 жыл бұрын
@@jiyaji1842: judging by his name, no, he's indonesian
@TheoCynical
@TheoCynical 5 жыл бұрын
No you don't. Desperate people don't mean emotionally healthy people. Go talk have mutual relationships
@TheoCynical
@TheoCynical 5 жыл бұрын
Also, it's based on action, not chemistry so it'll burn out quickly.
@NetiNeti-gm5bz
@NetiNeti-gm5bz 5 жыл бұрын
People can have a thousand soulmate once they unconditionally love themselves first. People are attracted to a balanced soul
@shafwandito4724
@shafwandito4724 5 жыл бұрын
This is an *actual genius idea to solve loneliness,* but at same time *it is very depressing idea to solve loneliness.*
@lemnlime66
@lemnlime66 5 жыл бұрын
I was actually googling replacement family members recently b/c my parents are a joke. They should totally start a service like this everywhere and I would be their first customer
@sadiaadil6423
@sadiaadil6423 5 жыл бұрын
@@lemnlime66 i suffered depression and anxiety attacks cz of livin alone for years in a foreign country and my family wudnt visit.If this service had been available in that country,would hav kept the job,rented parents and live there forever 🤷‍♀️🤔
@janiejl
@janiejl 5 жыл бұрын
it’s a catch 22 unfortunately but numbing the loneliness with a lie
@Maniacsurvivor
@Maniacsurvivor 5 жыл бұрын
lemnlime66 Don't. It's a hot fix, but not a solution to the problem. You would accept to lie to yourself and as a result hate yourself for doing so. And just like the guy in this video, you wouldn't be happy. You can either search the dialoge with your parents or if it's really bad, distance yourself and get comfort by some of your close friends.
@SuperAvocadoo
@SuperAvocadoo 5 жыл бұрын
This doesn't solve loneliness at all. It's just a temporary comfort. At the end of the day the rented family will leave and you know they are just doing their jobs.
@marclingcoran6783
@marclingcoran6783 3 жыл бұрын
I love your Chanel. It's so eye opener.
@GyeongmiBaeb
@GyeongmiBaeb 3 жыл бұрын
This is heartwarming and heartbreaking all at the same time
@HenachokoFujoshi
@HenachokoFujoshi 5 жыл бұрын
It looked like the rental family were gently urging this client to make contact with his own family. If this is something the company encourage employees to do then it's potentially a good therapeutic service in some cases.
@magnaesca165
@magnaesca165 5 жыл бұрын
that doesn't look like a sound business strategy though.
@springrollwang4441
@springrollwang4441 5 жыл бұрын
Henachoko Fujoshi the rental daughter has soft heart, way to soft. she's willing to lose her client by helping him. if don't help him, maybe the real daughter will rent a fake dad for wedding as well.
@d4dr4g0n
@d4dr4g0n 5 жыл бұрын
Well, there's no shortage of lonely people in Japan. This and the declining birth rates in Japan are obviously symptoms of a serious issue that needs to be resolved.
@Bianca_Toeps
@Bianca_Toeps 4 жыл бұрын
@@magnaesca165 True, but the same goes for actual therapists. I once went to a psychologist and she said: "my goal is to make you not need me". We worked on getting me a support system from my friends and family, so that I wouldn't need therapy anymore.
@yeonbeom
@yeonbeom 4 жыл бұрын
If I ever find out that my father is just a CEO of a company that rents families I would be devastated.
@mimi1o8
@mimi1o8 4 жыл бұрын
sansi uwu , that’s a recipe for long term therapy I’m afraid 😟
@shirleywong4333
@shirleywong4333 4 жыл бұрын
u should be happy his helping others
@yeonbeom
@yeonbeom 4 жыл бұрын
@@shirleywong4333 Lies are never the solution.
@shirleywong4333
@shirleywong4333 4 жыл бұрын
they want fakes as their real ones don't care . so may well feed their need . yes lies but they don't have the truth .
@yeonbeom
@yeonbeom 4 жыл бұрын
@@shirleywong4333 sad but true.
@ijustwatchsomeyoutube2186
@ijustwatchsomeyoutube2186 2 жыл бұрын
The man’s story broke my heart… wow that was so sad. But he was smiling and laughing a little about his situation.
@lifewithpurposes123
@lifewithpurposes123 2 жыл бұрын
My eyes welled up watching this. How sad to see that people in one of the most developed country are living such sad lonely life. I hope they focus on solving this matter. ❤🍀
@johnsmithee6660
@johnsmithee6660 5 жыл бұрын
'I'm just worried that my fake son, will run away with my fake wife' - Conan O'Brien, 2018
@hwnight2985
@hwnight2985 5 жыл бұрын
That fake family video from Conan 😂😂😂
@mockiemockiz
@mockiemockiz 5 жыл бұрын
that kind of story that I would love to see in JAV hahahaha
@richelgeorge2844
@richelgeorge2844 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@i_hate_rock_and_metal
@i_hate_rock_and_metal 5 жыл бұрын
MR *WTF NTR 😢*
@sleepaholic_6009
@sleepaholic_6009 5 жыл бұрын
This video actually made me tear up. Gets me sensitive and sad somehow. Not everyone is born with a loving and wholesome family
@TheRubinre
@TheRubinre 4 жыл бұрын
This is very sad. But lately I've been reading about many cultures experiencing extreme loneliness.
@omomo202
@omomo202 4 жыл бұрын
Same! I just left my Japanese boyfriend who I'm in a long distance relationship with and now I'm crying! Lol!
@mimi1o8
@mimi1o8 4 жыл бұрын
Queen of Harts crying and Lol there are miss matched emotions
@lukitchu2887
@lukitchu2887 4 жыл бұрын
Same. It was sad for me because under all the smiles and the "we are family!" "I love you family." is just an extremely lonely man who is scared to face his children after what he did, so until he has the courage he's replacing them and acting like he never lost them. I hope he made up with them, I know I'd forgive my dad if he at least apologized for his mistakes and expressed that he wanted to do better, and I think a lot of us could say the same.
@sarahmontero5692
@sarahmontero5692 4 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing as someone who has an abusive family sometimes I wish I could have uncles and grandparents who I could hug and care for. Makes me think If i could i would spend money on this things
@normal_person2
@normal_person2 3 жыл бұрын
Aww, he did this for his single mom friend, that's so thoughtful of him🥺🥺🤧
@Michael-bf1dt
@Michael-bf1dt 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Rachelle how are you. Greetings from Ireland. Hope you’re safe from covid. It’s a good video. Best wishes for a lovely week 😊🙏 Michael
@shinn3003
@shinn3003 2 жыл бұрын
No wonder their imagination and creativity is so beautiful they try to display what they really want to be true through entertainment industry
@TheRubsi
@TheRubsi 4 жыл бұрын
"she still thinks i am her father" *Shows himself publically on youtube.* Makes sense.
@sharonho6298
@sharonho6298 4 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: the CEO hired someone for the to do the interview for him.
@zula2218
@zula2218 4 жыл бұрын
I am 100% that he is a hired (by the actual CEO) actor
@mrtortoisekun4962
@mrtortoisekun4962 4 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: someone who hired by ceo hired someone to act as ceo
@Adele5554
@Adele5554 4 жыл бұрын
Bruhhh
@Lotusheart19
@Lotusheart19 4 жыл бұрын
He tells them that he’s just an actor playing a CEO, and they believe him. So the real mystery is whether he is hired to play the CEO or he’s actually the real CEO pretending to be an actor?!?
@bernardprasetyo7456
@bernardprasetyo7456 5 жыл бұрын
Can't imagine the situation when the old man meet with his fake family members outside renting schedule, will they ignore him completely or pretend to be nice??? Feel so awkward and unnatural to me
@PappyMandarine
@PappyMandarine 5 жыл бұрын
These are professionals. Most likely, they will act as being part of his family (so they don't lose a customer), and then respectfully leave without taking much time (as it is unpaid). Probably also have a Pokemon fight or something though
@KoopaBOOEY
@KoopaBOOEY 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine 2 different clients bumping into the same family member they both rented at one point. How does the family member handle both of them? lol
@RifkyAHakim
@RifkyAHakim 4 жыл бұрын
@@PappyMandarine that escalate so quickly. (笑)
@dimensionalblade2778
@dimensionalblade2778 4 жыл бұрын
@@KoopaBOOEY well just act like how you normally would as a member of the family and meet one of your business clients but I don't know what normal in Japan is.
@valentine495
@valentine495 2 жыл бұрын
This actually made me tear up, I think it's extremely heartwarming.. As someone who's father passed away when they were really young, and never got to experience what it is like to have a father, I would love this service.. Perhaps one day ^^ Seeing the man's happiness with his rental wife, and daughter, and the smiles they share is very sweet. I'm happy this service exists for people who truly need it in their life.
@dominic2009
@dominic2009 Жыл бұрын
13:55 it’s chilling to see him recount all these awful traumatic things with a smile. It’s like he’s so conditioned to never give up the facade. I really hope he has made amends with his family.
@aqua-mina
@aqua-mina 5 жыл бұрын
Ironic how we live in times where there are so many communication tools and yet communication is so lacking.
@worldpeace1822
@worldpeace1822 5 жыл бұрын
Mina in Japan because those tools are often cutting those emotional chunks and cues away. That’s why they are quick but not complete.
@BlackfireGG
@BlackfireGG 5 жыл бұрын
@@worldpeace1822 accurate! I kind of hate talking to friends and family when it's an emotional topic via phone since it is not a complete conversation, lack of gesture and facial response and you can easily fake your emotions while on the phone.
@Rezzmari
@Rezzmari 5 жыл бұрын
I don't know, it indeed is a strange thing. I'm not Japanese but I am Asian, and even in my own family we don't really talk about our feelings or anything that is really bothering us. We kind of just deal with it silently until we no longer can endure it alone, and that is the only time it is spoken about.
@chinito77
@chinito77 5 жыл бұрын
It’s really horrible here! I see young couples all the time sitting at a restaurant or park and not even looking at each other, just at their phones. I worry about the next generation of Japanese.
@sara1coco
@sara1coco 5 жыл бұрын
@@worldpeace1822 not just Japan. It's a severe world problem that's increasing at high speed and should be acted upon as soon as possible. The more ppl delve into social media and the newest technology, the more likely they feel lonely on the inside. Not long ago a statistic was released in my country that said, due to smartphones, ppl are less likely to want sex and be affectionated with one another. There was also a campaign on the radio where children pleaded that their parents put the phone away and play with them instead. They are lonely. And there is a rental grandparents service in my country. Usually the take care of the "grandchildren" while their parents are at work and signed up due their own children not caring, being lonely or having non. They are happy if their service is rented and feel like they finally have a purpose again and role fullfil. It's beautiful and saddening at the same time, I think.
@megann1685
@megann1685 4 жыл бұрын
Am I the only person imagining an Asian drama whereby the CEO of a family rental service falls in love with one of his clients?
@JeeMeeVee
@JeeMeeVee 3 жыл бұрын
looks like a great concept for a kdrama
@tete8151
@tete8151 3 жыл бұрын
@@JeeMeeVee There is a Kdrama about that actually a CEO saw a child get bullied for lack of parents he confronts the older sister and says that he will be their rental dad and then they fell in love I saw it one month ago
@RinA-ht3ps
@RinA-ht3ps 3 жыл бұрын
@@tete8151 drama name?
@freyayumang
@freyayumang 3 жыл бұрын
@@tete8151 we need the name of that kdrama
@Ana-yh8ek
@Ana-yh8ek 3 жыл бұрын
@@tete8151 mame?
@emmahardesty4330
@emmahardesty4330 10 күн бұрын
Thanks, Boss. This is a good one. Seems Japan is clearly and rapidly evolving: laying out its problems in full view, then trying unique & simple ways to adjust. Their methods are weird yet straightforward. I think it's natural selection.
@joejoe2974
@joejoe2974 3 жыл бұрын
This is so heartbreaking, even though at the end everything is fake, they still try their best to help lonely people As a lonely person myself it just feels good to see people caring about others like this, it's just really sad that one day those kids who don't know who their real father is will discover the truth ...
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