Nasheka Thanks for sharing this im in a relationship right now and i dont feel that we are on the same level so what do i do? i do love her and care about her but i feel like we arent on the same page we have been together for 2 months

Marcell Barrett The only advice I can suggest is that you answered your own question. If you know both of you aren't on the same page, why waste her time? She's not going to change for you. Sometimes love can be mistaken for lust early in the relationship. Just don't waste her time and yours. There is someone out there for you.

Marcell Barrett right , don't waste each other's time.save the heartbreak of breaking up later.

This is SO TRUE, and one of the things I utilize most. Remember though, it still will not reveal to you who they truly are. It will only help you to understand how they communicate with those people. Men typically show their “representatives” to their loved ones, and those they care about impressing. Pay extra attention how he treats STRANGERS. How he treats waitstaff, cashiers, people in traffic, children, etc. Observe how he treats NATURE. Most importantly, watch how he reacts to and treats you in times of turmoil, rejection, disappointment, and pain. Only then will you get as close as possible to learning who he genuinely is. Pass this along, thank your stepdad, and embrace your husband. Best wishes❣️

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I agree that we must be complete for ourselves and shouldn't expect anyone to complete you. THAT is so true my sister. However, My sister, I don't think being equally yoked is about compromising at all. For example, if a man only likes a woman that is a size 0 only. He may not compromise and be with a size 8. I respect that. A lot of times even if that man does compromise and settles with the size 8, he might inwardly resent her and himself for doing so. So, this concept of not settling goes into the spiritual and relational as well. it's about being real about accepting people's standards and the other accepting our standards. There is compromise in life for some things. but, being equally yoked is about your standards agreeing with another person's standards. You have to have standards or you settle for any and everything.

AnissaRenaii yes ma'am!!

mlm302 Right! Lol. I was like GIRRRLLL!!!! STOP!

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Lmaaaaooo. Maaaan

Thought I was the only one lol 😂😂😂😂

I thought i was the only one... Lord! 😂

Sarah Maslen #TeamIyanla lmao

Sarah Maslen she'd sell those like hot cakes lol

Sarah Maslen Me too!

charlita25 because we're standing in the way of God leading us in the direction of the one he has for us. we try to "find" the one rather thab letting God "lead" us to the one

charlita25 great question!

Jalina Nails it is hard to even date because men these days don't want to have real relationships or be married so what is even the point... If you have respect for yourself and don't put out the guy doesn't like you and he will find another, if you do see someone for a while and put out he dumps you. it's a no win situation!!! you can't make a guy want you. men even pretend to be good guys and they are really not so I just give up!

Sis, you would LOVE my college Philosophy Ethics course. We debated many reasons for just that argument. Fantastic arguments were made for homosexuality, polygamy, huge age disparities, and more. Certainly makes you think, but also overstand Humanity, Society, and Relationship, thus judging less. But it can be some crazy, dark stuff, which oft feels unfair to the female. Conception (and prime time for it) is mostly to blame. Sorry to shortcut it all, but it gets deep. And you won’t love many of the answers. Honestly, I’d love to revisit that course now, as I passed it nearly a decade ago. Best wishes❣️

This was my problem with my partner and today I’m single because I felt like he was holding me back and he felt like i was oppressing him and undermined him as a man ..... how did you handle it I hope you guys sorted it out

Perhaps you didn't ask previously and your need grew until the point of singledom.

The next person you meet and you think you could have a relationship with

Tekishia Chambers I'd say it's a learned behavior

I always talked to our daughter about this. I was born to narcissistic parents. She turned 19 one month to the day she met this (boy) and left home to move in with him and his family. This is absolutely taking a toll on me . She doesn't want anything to do with her family.

My non-medical understanding of narcissists is to stay away at all costs! That simple. We can get into why and this and that, but simply put, “Stay away from narcissists!” Heed the warning!

Hmmm, sounds like you need to have a few conversations. Hoping for all the best.