BEING SUCCESSFULLY SINGLE by Bishop RC Blakes
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3 жыл бұрынThis is a cyber bible study on singleness. It’s a biblical perspective on the matter.
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@breeze6103 3 жыл бұрын
‘The reason singles are so unhappy today without a mate is because they have not found their true purpose for living’ so true 💯🙏🏾
@johnalynnbillups1238 3 жыл бұрын
I am single and whole just as I am in my home that I own, on my retirement income that I earned and enjoying the life that I am building and forming just as I want. I don't need a man to make me feel whole. When I am ready for a mate and God puts a man in my life, then I will have a man. I am busy growing in my spirit and in truth.
@pamk1967 3 жыл бұрын
I am content as a Single after almost 8 yrs of being Divorced and I am alone but not lonely because God is always with me, this is not a churchy statement, it is a Fact. You can have joy in Singleness. God bless🙌🏾🙋🏾♀️
@ttenda2836 3 жыл бұрын
6 months now since my breakup and the time i came across The lovely Bishop Rc Blakes...am far away in uganda East Africa...my life completely changed...i decided to love God and love myself..the fulfilment i have is indescribable...i was broken before i started watching your videos..i feel whole to the point i forget am single sometimes...i feel valuable...God will bring someone along the way..I love You Bishop
@lindsay5348 3 жыл бұрын
I love myself and I love being single .. it’s very freeing 🙏❤️. God is my focus
@margaretrefile8207 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@iheal-me 3 жыл бұрын
Amen, may the God/dess' divine blessing ALLways be upon you and yours🙏🕯
@jtsonfn 3 жыл бұрын
Praise God! I'm content.
@cyvonnejohnson8389 3 жыл бұрын
@@iheal-me ¹¹q
@sagenosnibor9173 3 жыл бұрын
"Are you wasting God's time, begging for someone other than God." 😨💡
@joanneroysterrn 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Definitely a light bulb moment for me!😩
@erikaromansaint-pierre3719 2 жыл бұрын
This part…
@shegotstandards Жыл бұрын
Being a woman I found out being around single female friends, they are always ready to be married have a family and kids; the male friends seem to be satisfied for the most part with their singleness. The men never seem to want to rush the marriage issue. They are just as happy going to a basketball, football game, wrestling match and traveling or whatever it is they want to do. Furthermore I think it's the conditioning of the male and female mindsets. Sometimes I noticed the men seem to just live Carefree lives whereas the women could do the same but we always seem to end up talking about wanting a man. To be honest sometimes I even get tired of the conversation especially when you been single for years and nothing happening. I want to learn to enjoy my singleness because I had to make up my mind just what if I don't get married I want to learn to love me and my Life as a whole single.😊
@lyndellemodeste2439 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this teaching so much dear Pastor Blakes. I will be 53 on Tuesday 6th October. I am single and i am a work in progress still. Never been married, never had children. There is a life story behind that. It has always been my heart's desire since my teenage years, to be married and have my family. But God is in charge. While i am still single, Jesus is my heart's desire and i will enjoy it even when i go through challenges. I am contented to be alive and well, and fulfilling His purpose for His Glory. I still have the thoughts of being happily married. But i choose to be happy anyway. Love and appreciate you💖🙏🇹🇹
@MizTChuckles 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday!
@lyndellemodeste2439 3 жыл бұрын
@@MizTChuckles Thank you so much dear. God bless you💖🙏
@Noneofyabusiness1 9 ай бұрын
Happy Blessed Birthday 🎉
@lajamost273 3 жыл бұрын
I think I’m so miserable being single bc I am a single parent and loved my child’s father and thought he was going to be my husband. I am now learning that God has bigger plans for me so I’m am opening my heart and ears to this teaching. I have the time to work on me and that’s something I need to do. Thank you.
@BishopRCBlakesJr 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely get it. I deal with people frequently who are in similar positions. I think you probably have to just grieve the end of that relationship. It sounds like you may be stuck in the past. When you grieve it, bury it and move forward you will step into your life again. Praying for you.
@lajamost273 3 жыл бұрын
Bishop RC Blakes Jr. Amen. Thank you for your teachings. I will start my daughter on your videos early.
@ttenda2836 3 жыл бұрын
God loves you...Love your self more beautiful...and u will find someone that will love you with Gods love....
@samildeperez8399 3 жыл бұрын
So great that you can be so honest about where you are at and where you want to to. Deliverance starts with being true to yourself, to God, with others and then walking out your process. If it hurts it hurts. If you love you still love. The Holy Spirit will meet you where you are, take your hand, and walk you at your psce to your NEW. Enjoy the journey with him
@WovenPsalm 3 жыл бұрын
I asked God to reveal to me what my purpose is. The answer was to walk in Order according to His word in every single thing that I do. I was skipping steps. I think in this world of 'hurry up' and too much unnecessary information we overlook to necessity of order in the details. This video was a blessed affirmation to my reset. God bless you and keep you Pastor Blakes.
@Leci_Bella24 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message ❤️ you are truly amazing ! I hope every woman listens to you especially in this day and age . We really need to wake up ! It’s definitely much easier said than done when the devil likes to play tricks on our minds , tell us that we’re lonely , we’re getting old , we’re missing out . Always when we’re focused , fulfilling our purpose and drawing closer to the lord . But we must Pray & Keep the Faith . Happiness is fulfilling our God given purpose on this earth ! .... I pray to meet woman who understand a message like this instead so many women I know are entertaining clowns, rushing marriage and having children out of wedlock.
@joanneroysterrn 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! We should start a support group!❤️
@Shay.bae92 3 жыл бұрын
Girl.. u are spot on.. I used absorb the devil speaking that nonsense in my ear. I laugh now pray and keep it pushing.
@iheal-me 3 жыл бұрын
I love being single! It was scary at first, but since I gave it up to the Holy Spirit...my relationship with the divine nature that is my soul has blossomed💫🙏💜 Thank you for this very wise reminder!!
@ladyvance1434 3 жыл бұрын
Greetings from California. Everything that we need is found in Him. What a beautiful lesson in singleness.
@meli7315 11 ай бұрын
Thank you beautiful soul. I think people are tired of being single as having all this weight of life and surviving by themselves and hope finding someone for sharing this weight of life …
@loisleonard3055 2 жыл бұрын
Thou shall get a life. Amen
@nola8504 3 жыл бұрын
It cost me my marriage to discover that I am a complete and whole individual without a partner.
@Simone69214 3 жыл бұрын
The only relationship you cannot do without is your God relationship.
@andrewmulokozi8251 3 жыл бұрын
Singleness The definitive verse Genesis 50:20 But as for you, you thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass as it is this day, to save many people alive.
@kennetttodd8325 5 ай бұрын
Jesus is my everything!
@elmyra.jackson 3 жыл бұрын
Being single is not a curse and being married is not a cure!!
@biblequeen4sure823 3 жыл бұрын
No man will ever come before God. I'm looking forward to traveling when the pandemic stops. Places to go, people to meet.
@tharesafrazier6080 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy being single I can focus on making myself a better person
@imrana932 3 жыл бұрын
Love it when u say .....come on now ✨👍🌹💫
@BishopRCBlakesJr 3 жыл бұрын
🤗 Thats funny. Thank you.
@Leci_Bella24 3 жыл бұрын
😅
@Pacifica74 10 ай бұрын
Being single is doable, but being with the one you love and the one who loves you is beautiful.
@antionettelawrence191 3 жыл бұрын
I have a great life as a single person. I love the relationship I have with my Heavenly Father.
@LisalovesMichael 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy being single to an extent. I do love my freedom, space and time with God.
@cpbeauvoir 3 жыл бұрын
God is my #1 priority whether in a relationship or not 🙏🏿
@yasminemohamed367 3 жыл бұрын
With the craziness out here, this came at the right time ! I love watching your videos on celibacy, being financially independent, respecting oneself while on our journey before marriage. It keeps me on my toes and makes me evaluate how I manage myself. Thank you very much !
@kuiwanguistephanie Жыл бұрын
Well said
@b.tabati911 3 жыл бұрын
Always on point!!! And delivered with such love and wisdom... Gosh Pastor Blakes... you crack me up so much!!!🤣🤣🤣... I love your analogies. Bullseye 🎯🎯🎯🙌🏽🙏🏽... Bless you and Lady Lisa🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤗🤗🤗
@snowleopard7952 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 53 y.o. Turns out, i’m one of the people in my life who has not disappointed me🌺
@elmyra.jackson 3 жыл бұрын
That was so good!! I'm so thankful I cooperated with the Holy Spirit to become whole so I don't spill brokenness all over the man God has for me!! I'm complete as a single knowing my purpose and secure with my intimacy in Christ Jesus!! Thank you Bishop!!
@missvanria7174 3 жыл бұрын
Bishop Blakes you are changing my life and breathing life into me. The way that you bring the bible to "life" and make applicable to situations is growing my bible knowledge and helping me grow closer to God! Be blessed. I hope to bless you one day soon.
@lizb2012 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor, I was so unhappy. This has opened up my mind. I am going to live as happily as I can. I'll continue to pursue my studies, which I had just been dragging my feet due to depression. I'll also seek to find God through His words. Thanks again!
@colleenl5252 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully said. Thank you for this education.
@BishopRCBlakesJr 3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@tonyaarnett2461 3 жыл бұрын
When God created us we were already completed. He gave us all that we need to live here on this Earth.
@dianeoneil5376 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I heard these words 20 years ago, but I’m thankful to hear them now. Your words are such a gift! I share your videos with my 20 something children. Such wisdom!
@queenlauralee47 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! Time to be about our Father's business of finding purpose. The mate will be an accessory to our purpose:)
@ruthkaunda3343 7 ай бұрын
On Christmas watching this 2023
@no_prisoners6474 3 жыл бұрын
I spent so much of my life feeling inferior cause I've never really been in a serious, longterm relationship. And now I am so glad that those relationships never stuck. I can't even imagine where I'd be. It really tire me up and I hated myself. But now, God is doing amazing things inside of me. So much that I am ready to serve him in singleness or marriage. I don't think I could've understood who I am as a child of God had those relationships lasted. I don't know why some mediocre relationships actually last but can we just be glad about the ones that pass us by? ❤️Long Live Christ our King 👑
@johnene 3 жыл бұрын
This is exciting!!
@maameyaa2910 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir Wisdom flows through you God bless you always
@danaray 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOUR TRUTH....YOU ARE STRAIGHT FORWARD....and WE NEED THIS...🤣😊🙌🏾Your realness is so funny though!!
@biblequeen4sure823 3 жыл бұрын
Living my best life successfully single and very happy 😊
@Sandy-wd6oc 3 жыл бұрын
Powerful message ty
@princessgigiking 3 жыл бұрын
You must first be an Asset as an Individual before you can be Valuable in a Partnership. Each person must bring something to the table. 💎💎💎
@azaleacoqui754 3 жыл бұрын
I'm miserably single because I'm about to turn 40 and all I ever wanted was to be married and have children and I've never been married or even had a relationship and I feel like my life is about be over and I never got my dream.🙄
@adefunkeraji8756 3 жыл бұрын
@Azalea your life is not over, the fact that you are alive means God as a purpose for you. Some people wish they are you, look at all the blessings you have been and still are for so many people. There are still so much to do, as you go about your purpose you will meet your ordained husband, please stop looking at your age- you are very young, just 40😁
@adefunkeraji8756 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus loves you and he is smiling on you Azalea, he will surprise you sister 🙏🏾
@akferren1 Жыл бұрын
I was in the same position and desperately wanted to be a mother so I adopted my son at age 43.. don’t let not being in a relationship stop you, you can still have that and more all by yourself❤️
@TheLuvlfe 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Bishop Blakes :) Right on time. God is and will always be my JOY. Thank you Jesus !!
@kaybellefonte4277 3 жыл бұрын
Sad part is it's usually other women that are in relationships(usually not happy in it or they wouldn't be worried about someone elses life) who try to make single women feel eel some sort of way as though being single is a disease and something is wrong with you.Standards and self respect have never gone out of style in my opinion and singleness serves a purpose but it's up to the individual to usw that time wisely. Thank you for this msg!
@no_prisoners6474 3 жыл бұрын
God created us for Himself. And so our souls are restless until they rest in Him. That's st. Augustin
@Hilary945 Жыл бұрын
It's been hard, watching every other girl on socials get an engagement ring 💍, but instead, I get left. There's no good prospects in sights either.
@KAAT2239 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you RC ... your teachings are a true blessing in my life...
@princessgigiking 3 жыл бұрын
1st Commandment God Gave To Man: Thou Shall Get A Life. 💎💎💎
@Sandy-wd6oc 3 жыл бұрын
Amen ty brother
@sparkle9482 3 жыл бұрын
AWESOME PASTOR VERY ENCOURAGING❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@ruthkaunda3343 7 ай бұрын
Powerful 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾
@overcomerbtbojesus 2 жыл бұрын
We have to get to the place where we love ourselves more than an engagement ring or a wedding band- marriage is not the disney fairytale that we are led to believe - it is hard work involving sacrificial commitment moving in purpose with God at the center together thru life - that is the only marriage worth having
@dreamiedips8624 3 жыл бұрын
@8:17... That perspective is so wonderfully said by Pastor Blakes. Thank you so much. God bless you!!!☺️❤️☦️🙌🏻🕊️
@runfast2457 3 жыл бұрын
This was so spot on!
@coriwilliams1983 3 жыл бұрын
This is so True
@lindaharrell1871 3 жыл бұрын
Great words of wisdom. Absolutely wonderful!. I am so happy and content being single.
@biblequeen4sure823 3 жыл бұрын
Bless pastor father God for sharing this.
@aliciasnow7866 3 жыл бұрын
I'm on board!!!!!!
@antionettelawrence191 3 жыл бұрын
Thou shall get a life. I love that 🙌🙏
@caline626 3 жыл бұрын
Help us Lord 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@lindaharrell1871 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful singles message.
@cocktailwhisper8457 2 жыл бұрын
That was enlightening
@Kelly_Lee 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Pastor! We're here!❤🙏❤
@tamnyfitzpatrick1811 3 жыл бұрын
I love your teaching ❤️
@tamnyfitzpatrick1811 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a single woman and it really helps me with everyday
@beletabutts746 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful revelation- thank you Lorf for this ministry
@lenitaramossunshinerealty6606 2 жыл бұрын
I am enjoying every day myself ! Very glad I am in this path of ❤️ myself and discovering whom I am on my own! It is very exciting to have a relationship with myself I like spending time alone and with my books and listening to your teaching every day! Thank you for donating your knowledge and wisdom!!! I do appreciate your mission
@deborahgardner5268 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor Blakes, I am really enjoying your teaching daily. I have been watching 3-4 video's daily and taking notes.
@snowleopard7952 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You 🙏🌅
@tatipro3098 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing message thank you Pastor! I married to myself! Love my singing life after horrible divorce.❤️ God bless you!
@kimwalkermitchell6199 3 жыл бұрын
They enhance each other.
@LisaLee123 3 жыл бұрын
Listening.
@Adrianna512 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Pastor/Uncle Blakes! I’m ready for another Live please when you get the time. So that I can hopefully get my questions in and answered. 😩😁 Thank you for everything you do 💜
@mycatsheenacashappid4240 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings
@kaybellefonte4277 3 жыл бұрын
Sooo true!!!
@snowleopard7952 2 жыл бұрын
In other words, get it into the “Vortex” with GOD and connect to the Universe, connect to your Purpose FIRST, -be happy in your PURPOSE! BAM! 💥 💫🌟
@kw3036 3 жыл бұрын
I am learning how to be single. I am not miserable being single, I just feel a part of me is missing at times after being in a marriage with the person I have been with for a total of 20 years! I pray everyday God continues to show me how to be content! I don't want to run to another relationship just to help me get over being by myself! Thank you God for continuing to keep me!
@joanneroysterrn 3 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same situation after 25 years with a clown in a crown!
@kw3036 3 жыл бұрын
@@joanneroysterrn Hang in there, I know it's hard but I believe it gets easier over time 🙏🏽! I have to stay in contant fellowship with God otherwise I start getting side tracked!
@joanneroysterrn 3 жыл бұрын
@@kw3036 Thanks for you response,insight, encouragement and for sharing your experience ❤️❤️I’d like to stay in touch! R u on social media?
@kw3036 3 жыл бұрын
@@joanneroysterrn Yess...email me Sooblessed06@gmail.com and I will give you my FB info! I don't want to put it on here 😊
@ottooldenhardt 3 жыл бұрын
This man is very glib about your deep suffering. Run from him
@byericgriffey5283 3 жыл бұрын
RC your right
@theorama5711 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happier, whole and balanced when single than when in a relationship.
@carolkiley9008 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, God first! Then self, others. Yes to purpose! I wonder if even whole women feel a certain physical/emotional protection/safety with a healthy whole man in her life. Also shared laughs, support, affection. We offer different gifts to each other. A soft place to fall. Thoughts?
@mrs.m.9226 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this and thank you for staying on topic! Good length and excellent message!!
@mrs.m.9226 3 жыл бұрын
1. Person with a real deposit. Prov 27:17 (If person doesn't bring something real and only takes from you, he is not from God. Period.) ...Ouch. But truth and thank God for truth. 2. Person who will be totally honest and open. 3. Person who will celebrate you and not just tolerate you. Gen 2:23
@byericgriffey5283 3 жыл бұрын
RC I blew it
@meryemchetouani5912 3 жыл бұрын
JUST WOW
@knz2731 2 жыл бұрын
It is my limiting beliefs that make it challenging for me to be single
@elizetes7313 3 жыл бұрын
He’s funny Go get a life 😂😂that’s really true - very helpful God should be first
@confidentalways7526 3 жыл бұрын
All other ground is sinking sand.
@byericgriffey5283 3 жыл бұрын
He right
@byericgriffey5283 3 жыл бұрын
I realize that
@lalaheart76 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this precious message. My question here is does that mean those in a relationship or married have fulfilled their purpose in life? Why has to be when you are single you have not found your purpose 🤦♀️🤷🏾♀️
@sscott504 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the Pastor is speaking to Wendy Williams spirit but ours as well.😊
@byericgriffey5283 3 жыл бұрын
RC my grandfather
@louiseottley4995 3 жыл бұрын
We need a woman seminar with u in Trinidad
@nicoleanthony2727 3 жыл бұрын
Pastor said “Thou shall get a life” 🤣🤣🤣
@NBWITNESSIAM2006 3 жыл бұрын
💜🎺👑
@nataliewilliamson38 2 жыл бұрын
Thou shall get a life😂😂😂😂😂😂God is too funny😂😂😂👰🏽
@HisaLight2mypath 2 жыл бұрын
I'm miserable single market Primula me I just long for a hug and affection from a man but there's no one no one wants to be serious and I'm a good woman is well
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