I think this is more true than most people think or want to admit

well said!

They are.... Truly the most evil people you can face

100%

A lot of narcs used to be into hard drugs Ive noticed. I am really starting to think these people's original born mind gets replaced by a demon if they do that for long.

Yes. Even though you may feel very tempted to tell them off. Don't play their game. They love to argue.

@@davidsalo8397Actually she did not “love to argue” really, though manipulation, etc, yes.

Sounds like my first "love".

I would accept it, if I knew it was the truth?

I am free from this curse for more than one year so far b

I was in a relationship with a narcissist. I almost married her, but she was cheating lying. I left her 3 years ago .

That’s all they do. Cheat and lie. They want you to catch them. They are never so happy as when they destroy people who care about them. It’s deeply pathological from childhood. Check out Sam vaknin if you want to know more. 99.9999 % can not change. Ever.

I almost married the bisch too! 😂🎉 Thank God it was obvious enough she was a narcissist psychopath but it took time of course:; the almost was frighteningly close!

@bradlloyd6261 I'm glad you got out. As I did being a survey of a narcissist, it does get better in time, but the triggers will always be there . Narcissists wear many masks, and you'll never know which one their wearing. It is very frightening.

I am free from this curse for more than one year so far

Same here.

you are right I am free from this curse for more than one year so far

Take enough time to really get to know the person you consider marrying. Six months is pretty risky. Most narcissists can fake it that long.

@@davidsalo8397 Yeahh.. I wasn’t “abusive” till the last yr or so of over 5 yrs, so I’m not a narcissist, my ex gf has BPD.

In relationships, narcissists don't act that way in the beginning. Instead, they agree with everything you say, laugh at all your jokes, go out of their way to prove they can be trusted and relied on, and it's all part of the love bomb package. When that is happening, would you know you were dealing with a narcissist or, as the human heart yearns, your soulmate? Best example is Amber Heard. If you look for pics of the couple when they first started dating, she dressed just like him and that's a very unique look! She really sucked him in and then when she went off the rails, Depp thought the relationship was worth saving because of the beginning when things were good and she was his "soulmate." Narcys are some tricky, sneaky effers; like the devil pretending he is Jesus and lures you for damnation not salvation.

I would say a mature and smart person can spot a narc but there are many situations where people can't easily avoid them. For example, a person might work directly with them and depend on them or a person, at first, might have fallen in love with a facade and have invested a lot of time and resources into a relationship so it's very gut wrenching to let go of that relationship.

​@@JeremyBardot when they are family This is an special hell

She must know my mother! Never realised until after she died how profoundly unmaternal she was. One example, I come home with the week's groceries. She screams at me because the tomatoes are frozen, so she can't have a BLT sandwich. Gee, mother, it's forty below, there's a blizzard on, it's twelve blocks to the grocery store, took me an hour to schlep everything back, YES THE TOMATOES FROZE!

I know the feeling. My mother was unpleasable about everything I did for her. Never good enough. Always had something for me to do,nonstop like a fucking slave.

Maybe she meant it sardonically

You are grammatically correct but it is permissible to bend rules of grammar to make a point, as here. Classical literature abounds with examples. Dickens and Wilde were experts at it.

Me, too. Then I realized she was talking about a couple of people who have been in my life.

Narcissists love to get you addicted to their brand of narcotics.

That’s gaslighting and classic narcissist. Run very far away and never look back.

This. Calling everyone a narc to deflect from criticisms seems to be the norm

Maybe that's some people. The victims of narcissist abuse would not say what they experience if it were not true. Don't minimalize abuse. Educate yourself first.

@@tinyvr7036 I didn’t take anything away from them and I would not doubt the validity of their experience I’m referring to the trend of unqualified people labeling one another using psycho babble clinical terms they are unqualified in using. I’m sorry for your experience, I hope you have found resolve and peace ✌️

@@tinyvr7036 how am I minimizing abuse? I’m not referring to the actual victims of abuse or de validating their experiences Im referring to the explosion of the overuse of the term narcissistic personality disorder to anyone anytime they disagree A diagnose takes a long time even for a trained psychologist to determine

The worst are narcissistic narcs. They will plant drugs over and over again just to get a promotion. They don't care how many lives they ruin.

Get help.

@@louk6196 Thank you for your concern Buttercup.

@@tomlavelle2333Trump still living in your head rent free after all these years! You’ll never recover!

🔼 here we go…. The loser sheep bot of the post, Trump just ATE his mind. Astonishing. Grow up.

His followers are addicted to his BS. But are unable to recognize it.