Why did y’all get out of the Army? And what do you think about some of these reasons? 🤔

I got out of the army because of toxic leadership. I have been a civilian for 17 years now. No one in the civilian world has ever treated me as bad as those leaders I was under in the U.S. Army. Bad part is: They Still Get Promoted

Quick tip depression and anxiety is real ..the army will either increase or never get rid of it.. go talk to the mental health people . The army fixes their problems not you're problems.

I think high percent of the soldier leave the army due the toxic leadership and bullying. It's really sad ; with the overtime They kill motivation on the soldiers

Leadership for sure. And lack of personal time. I’m active right now and can’t wait to get out.

Toxic leadership And lowering the standards

I felt this. When I got to my new unit, everything was good. I was on top of my game and I felt motivated. I had an incident that fucked me up mentally and I haven’t been able to recover. My leadership turned toxic and it really started to weigh on me. It would get so bad I’d have breakdowns and often critique myself for not being good enough. I’d spend hours on trying to correct things, push myself to be more focused and get shit done. Just to get my leave approved I had to work hard and exert myself. It was like pulling teeth. It got signed, but they didn’t want to let me go. When I did fuck up, I’d be belittled and treated like a child. Mass punishment would ensue. There wouldn’t be plans on how to fix the issue, just threats and aggression to “fix ourselves”. I was relieved to know we were gonna get a new NCOIC, only to be disheartened when I saw the two laughing together and getting along. Oh, no. As soon as one toxic leader left, another came in. Off the bat he picked up the same habits as the last… The Army ain’t what I though. If you plan on joining, think carefully and be prepared. I’ve got 20 months left. I hope I have enough strength to keep going, cause this shit ain’t it. Lol

The standard of living and quality of life shouldn't be based off your marital status

There is also a term that says “if its not dumb, its not the army”.

We all know the shitty aspects of everyday soldier life: low quality of living, mandatory fun, pointless formations, ntc/jrtc ect...but personally the biggest reason I got out is the fact that the modern Army is an absolute fucking joke.

Getting my DD-214 on the 26th cannot fucking wait

Im getting out after 8 years in the military because of favoritism, toxic leadership, and not being seen for my true potential.

Quick tip when you change duty stations, if you tell your phone service provider your former employer is harassing you they will change your number for free!

I’m just tired of the lack of autonomy, field exercises that feel meaningless and being forced to babysit soldiers.

Dude! I am still active, and can’t wait to get the F out. I love the army, but I hate my leadership. It’s been toxic since I got here. The biggest factor is favoritism! Bad soldiers get all the opportunities, while some of us good ones get sh$&t on all the time. We get all the BS while the homies of the NCOs get all the privileges (never in the motor pool, field, range , duties, etc.). Some how they get comp days and free time all the time.

I left active duty because of all the stupid shit

The army’s not bad for someone getting in at 18/19, but once you’re over 23, it’s pretty much a complete waste of time, unless you are commissioning.

Soldiers are second class citizens.

I will be 13 years in when I get out, not doing the other 7

I had a horrible experience in the Army. Basic training and AIT I experienced racism/colorism and that continued until I completed my contract. Sexually assault is huge in the military and it’s so disgusting. Many people in the military know about things and don’t acknowledge it. They always say, “See it report it” but don’t and that goes for EO as well. A lot of the topics you touched on I have experienced and it shocked me a bit that you mentioned those. I joined at a young age and when I got assigned to my unit in Kansas I just knew that I would have a horrible experience and that I wouldn’t re-enlist. I experienced Toxic leadership, favoritism, SHARP, harassment, bullying, hazing, EO and just want to let others know that this is definitely a thing and just keep that in mind if you’re thinking about jointing.

Man I’m getting out of the Army today after 8 years. I’m just getting out because of my family, but it’s hard because a large part of me doesn’t want to leave the military. This has more or less been all I’ve know for my adulthood, and it’s shaped me into a much better person than I was before I got in. I’ll miss that Infantry life, best of luck Queen of battle.

I was 32 when I joined. I figured it would be a way to get me out of my crap retail job and into a meaningful care where I could learn valuable trade skills, get paid well, travel the world and do something respectable. Turns out, it was the worst choice of my life. I just uselessly threw away 4 years of my life.

Every organization has its problems. Let’s not forget the primary purpose of the army is to fight and win wars. Nothing more or less. If you have a goal in mind stick to it. Get your post 9/11 serve your country get out. And get an education or a skill that’s worth a damn. You have a free degree and you have a work ethic and an understanding that you can work long hours to get ahead in the civilian world. Don’t get out without a plan or being able to provide for your family. It’s nothing wrong with getting out. Just be smart and use your resources. And never stop grinding !

Yeah after 6 years, I'm getting out of AD and going NG. the toxicity and stupidity along with the constant strain on my body and mind just isn't worth it anymore. Less than 6 months left. Imma miss the boys and my Joes, but it is what it is. I'm gonna get that retirement somehow though. Even if it's only one weekend a month and two weeks a year. Lol

A shit ton of racism. Joining the Army was the worst decision I’ve ever made, no doubt about it.

I feel Active duty is a day care full ego driven Leaders especially officers, and reserves isnt bad depends on your job and unit. Atleast you dont have to see them everyday and have your freedom.

What did it for me was the non stop being screwed over. Your mos will have a big part in this. I was a 92g, a cook. The hours were relentless. The nco's didn't care about anything but work. When I went to reclass, the retention nco sent me to a school that was an advanced version of the AIT for people that already had experience in the mos from the civilian side, or army. Needless to say, I didn't make the cut. And got sucked back into being a cook for another 4 years. An E7 was taking the course too and he was in that mos before. He pulled me aside and told me "you know they sent you here to screw you over, right?" Then he proceeded to drop a bunch of knowledge on me of how to get it fixed. When I went back to my old duty station, the paperwork essentially all got stuck in paperwork purgatory. I currently have 2 years and 4 months left, and I cant wait to get out.

One of the biggest reasons I saw when I was in was medical discharges

30 seconds in & this video already makes so much sense & I’ve been in the army 6 months

Thank God, I left. Best decision ever!

I’m a 11b and the reason why I getting out is medical separation broke both my hips at basic was there for 9 months got to my unit and shit got worse joined Aug.19 and we are now finally getting my date out of the Army

I took the med board and got out with 100 percent VA disability. Not bad for 7 years of NG time plus one year deployed to Iraq. I got out of the Army because of medical reasons.

Just got out a few months ago and it was the best decision of my life. Unfortunately i was too much of a pussy to stand up to my plt sgt gaslighting me to get my injuries checked out so nothing was ever documented. Im not gonna wait 6 months for a 30 minute va interview just for them to tell me its not service related either lol. Great video tho.

I didn’t feel comfortable lying about my major health condition at meps

You hit it dead spot on. From top to bottom from everythinh you said. At I was going to do 6 years and get out. But now, I rather cut my losses after this contract. It’s just not worth it anymore.

I was active duty 4 years and joined the reserves after a short break. Became a MilTech 10 years ago and love it mostly because I love being a mechanic on military vehicles but hate all the BS involved with wearing the uniform.

My uncle got thrown out of the US Army back in 1979, but to be honest he really was a dumb ass. He use to drive one of those giant all wheel drive trucks over in Germany, he rolled it and pretty much totaled it, it apparently was an expensive truck and he wasn't the sharpest crayon in the box.

270 days to get out of this anticlimactic life style. Can't wait to ETS.

Nailed it. Mass punishment is the dumbest thing ever thought of. In AIT at Fort Gordon in 2014. Mass punishment came down from the Batallion commander to the entire Batallion on iet soldiers and tocs in AIT over something that happened in another company before I got there

2 more years and im fucking out counting the days

Hey just found your channel! I was a 68D in Ft Bliss. I got out thankfully 😅

Jealousy is one of most primal instincts, favouritism will ruin the army.

Great video.

It was fun while it lasted never got into trouble and did my job,but it was alot of toxic people that were power hungry or didn’t understand boundaries . In the civilian world i get to be on my own and do what i want i got a year left can’t wait to get out fun it was while it lasted.

I think you should make a video that will help people or soldiers adapt to bad leadership or learn where to seek help if they are in a really bad situation because of a toxic leadership. I know the big Army really are concerned about their soldiers. I know there are ways and proper channels that a soldier can go to if things really get bad but they dont teach that in BCT and AIT. So if you already had a bad leadership its going to be really hard to live and progress as a soldier.

Damn so many people want out bad!

You had it easy you should have had commanders fighting like they were in Europe during WW2 in Vietnam. I got 4 years of college in the Army. The only thing I hated was females getting promoted for gender or race equality to fill a quota.

💯 can’t wait to get out

It is true for some people it’s difficult but with courage and above all motivation there is a wonderful career for everyone.. Thank you Sir.. Stay Safe

11B airborne two times combat veteran. Real combat is horrible.

My son is Air Force. He says poor leadership will be his reason for bailing. He has refused to go to E-5 because he wants nothing to do with being one of them. It’s that bad.

♥️♥️

Did you keep your rank when you got out? Cuz I might do the same once I’m out and I change my mind

Great video.. I quit years ago. I find out on KZfaq there’s lots others like me who quit. .. I happy now I quit. Guess it wasn’t for me .. I not into the set up dramas from others. Who ment to be ur brother and sisters. I don’t trust anyone or play well with others. Anyway:. Private sector more me

It’ll be 12 years by the time my contract is up. I was mapping my career all the way to 20 years when the army shifted from readiness to “people”. Then started asking me to call soldiers parents to let them know little Johnny is ok. Then started demanding “talks” about skin color. Then wouldn’t shut up about “white supremacy” while silent for 6 months as blm, a racist communist organization, burnt the country down. Then I started getting cute emails inviting me to attend “unconscious bias” training and seminars. Then I was being encouraged to promote lgbt ideology during the month of the sacred heart of Jesus. At the same time told that delusional people who pretend they are the opposite sex are to allowed in. Then I listen to Gen. Miley defend critical race theory before congress. Those are just the big picture items. That doesn’t even cover the disturbing decline of standards in training and systematic decline in influence local leaders have.

so I’m having second thoughts. I told my recruiter that I wanted to go into the reserves but after talking with others that are in active duty I think I’ve changed my mind. I already took the asvab and I’m supposed to go take the physical next week I believe. I need to talk with my recruiter to ask if I still have a chance to change but at the same time I want to do reserves. I need advice lol I’m 17 I know it’s still young but I really do want to join

Honestly couldn’t said it better.

Left with 12 years under my belt

Aloha Ever heard of bytecargo & security.

So they don't get shot or blown up in some stupid action that these politicians and generals think up. Duh.

Got out 18 years ago. I can see that not much changed!

Wow! So nothing has changed since I got out in 1994.

I like being a civilian better, because if your organization and your leadership is shady or corrupt, and they are engaged in shady and corrupt operations, YOU CAN QUIT! The military, you cannot. You will be confined if you do!!

If you are trash, you get treated like trash. Too many people believe that they have “toxic leadership” 90% of the time that’s not the case. It’s always the junior enlisted complaining about their NCO’s who do their job and try to motivate them. Wish we could bring back the old army.

He forgot to do a booger check.

15 months left

Hi, so I plan on enlisting in the military. it's my dream and I'm willing to work hard for it. I'm currently studying for my GED and the ASVAB to enlist. But when I was younger(13) I was diagnosed w anxiety. It has gotten much better and I dont even take the medication because of how well I've been doing. will it disqualify me from joining? Even though it's better? If I'm able to get in I'm going to try my hardest and be one of the best soldiers. I'm praying and hoping that I can get in. If God be willing I'm joining in 1 or 2 years!🇺🇲✝️🙏😃 tysm for these videos! just found your channel!

Two words fort 🪘

Bro can you stop saying "sour taste in peoples mouths" that shit make me feel uncomfortable the way you say it 😂 every time you say it, I pause the video.

The A Combat Veteran channel explains the reasons why soldiers get out of the military. One of the reasons is the transgender sensitivity training 😅

FTA

A lot of “dumb shit” is an understatement bro 😂