I pray you get the courage to change especially for your children and mostly for your own health. Call on God He promises to answer when we call. He will show you and give you the strength you need.

come on you got this! your kids really need you. you can do it just take that one step limit how much you drink and smoke and lower it for that day. Or visual aid: get a picture of a smokers lungs and picture of a liver with cirrhosis. Sometimes our worst enemy is not the person outside but it is the person we see in the mirror.

Ok please stop I m scared...

😶

It all starts with day one, the psychology and determination to change. Find other outlets, maybe wood working, the gym, sports. Do something you love besides self destructive behavior. I was in your shoes (add drugs too) It starts with day one. Keep listening to JP and go for a walk with your family.

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Yes - I am thinking of William H Macy's character in Fargo.

My opinion of a weak person (male or female) is someone that can't do much on their own. They typically drain the life out of you with all their dependence on you . Mentally exhausting

I worked for 8 years teaching a domestic violence prevention program to adujacated men. This statement is so true in the wheelhouse of male abusers. My family and friends would ask are you scared of the men in your group? I would reply, no, they need time and compassion because in my groups these tough men could figure out their weaknesses.

Thank you

*^(@,The Chancellor 😊😉💡☻😎)^*

I love this thank you and you are so right. Incredible person 🥰😍

Thank you, incredible person.

Thank you

Keep going on! You're on track to total recovery. Why not? I'm 67 and just got myself back on track after years of health issues and addictions and a whole plethora of troubles. Jesus and Jordan (in that order) have given me a new lease on life, in this life and the next. Yes, keep going on!! ---Keith

I love this post and I’m very grateful for it. I am 62 years old and figured it was too late for me at address my mental health problems (understatement) but just knowing I’m not alone means everything. Thanks to all. Never give up.

Men shouldn’t be made to feel worthless they are fantastic 👍

I found the secret to happiness have no fear. Fear is crippling give it to Gd believe me it works

@@estherdoyle6408 Esther, you placed your faith in the Gangster Disciples? Brave!

...And it's not even an exaggeration. And people tend to throw around big words a lot nowadays. For Jordan it really isn't an exaggeration to say that his abilities are beyond ordinary.

​@@Valineris_The_Phoenixppppoppp😊😊😊😊😊😊

😊😅

​@@Valineris_The_Phoenixok bud

He is a gift to humanity

agree

The establishment can’t risk acknowledging any achievements that have the potential to threaten their power.

Still Sober??

@@bobbychadwick8585 I am man. Haven't relapsed once. I don't even have cravings because of how sick drugs and alcohol made me. 14 months sober so far :). Thankyou for asking

@@J.A.07 who is this??

@@bobbychadwick8585 what do you mean? I was replying to your question. You asked me if I'm still sober

@@bobbychadwick8585oops gi

Love this comment

Isn't that brilliant - hope you are doing well. I'm kinda the same and I have to remind myself constantly that I am a work in progress - 'under construction' I say ... and that we all are and always will be... I'm always trying to get to point X or point Y.... so I have to stop that and remember that it's the journey that counts - even though that sounds a bit cliché! When we get to point X or Y great - but then what?... you know the first thing I thought when I read your comment was- I wonder did she clean her room - LOL - that's what I'm doing now and it's great - I am doing my loft - putting a floor down to declutter the house - right now it's a mess but I'm getting there! x

Being a great mother is at the core of a good universe! You are life, and life comes out of you

I think THAT is every Woman's purpose... and every Man's purpose is to facilitate women achieving that. When that is commonly understood, humanity shines... so humanity is a bit dim, these days.

Hello Melissa, how are you doing?

Hello Melissa, how are you doing?

carry on mate💪

Her spirit is close.

Get wreked scrublord

Death is a transfer of consciousness. Shes still with you

This is so true

Mom had this “super power”. I panicked when I could have truly made a difference. Alas, with age, for me, comes wisdom.

So true. I am so quick to react I simply attack and right after it’s like wtf is wrong with me? It’s bad for all!!!!

Calm but dont disassociate

Don't go into poetry

Hope she is doing better!

❤️❤️

How?

@@shishirahmed3756 How did he save my life? Or, how will I help the next guy?

@@bestself2438 both

Hello Yvonne, how are you doing?

Mine, too! God Bless Jordan Peterson! He is making a difference in people's lives!

Me, too!

Absolutely 100% Agree, so thankfully for him!

Hello Samantha, how are you doing?

Hello Christine, how are you doing?

Just don't tell him you're having trouble sleeping......

I’m proud of you my man! And I bet your wife is too! It’s so good that you found him, but the fact you’ve been doing it this long without this mans wisdom is already a huge win, and now it’s even better because you have his wisdom on top of how much you’ve already succeeded going forward. I wish you and your wife the very best! Keep on doing what you’re doing and remember that, for all of us, everyday is an opportunity to be better than who you were yesterday!🫶

Sometimes it feels like telling the truth gets you in deeper trouble than anticipated. But it still feels much better, internally, than lying. I'm waiting on his 12 rules and beyond order books to arrive in the mail. Should come any day now. I'm excited to dive into them and learn more about my own life through his wisdom.

Hello Jessica, how are you doing?

Arrow-Cross Nazi Orbanuskisser JBPerverson: "My message to the Hungarians Do not rebel against your PM Your leader is trying to restore the metaphysical foundation of the 1000 years old Hungarian empire I would like to tell you a secret about Jesus and a secret about your PM. Another name for Jesus is Viktor"

Hi Jessi, how are you doing?

Awesome, and his voice is easy on the ears as well lol ... Good work he is doing, good luck to you and all who will listen.

I think he does too!!!!

Hello Linda, how are you doing?

What? A prophet who didn’t believe in God? 🤔 what has he predicted? I’m curious. Has his predictions come true? If not he’s a false prophet yet I’ve never watched his biblical videos. I’d love to see them.

Is he an atheist ？!

@@recuerdos2457 He's not actually, she got it wrong.

Hello Nancy, how are you doing?

I understand that feeling. As Jordan Peterson says it "Do a bad opan, do the best you can but do it anyway" And I say it to people around me all the time "Say what you have to say, if you need to rephrase afterwards, then do that" I don't know to what degree it affects you but those who love you will allow you the space to grow, rephrase, course-correct etc, do you love yourself enough to allow yourself space to grow? Rephrase? Course-correct? All the best to you

Love the respons Solly!

The mouth is clear when the mind is clear

You need to journal write rehearse, practice regularly and daily to yourself, pet, spouse and peers. kNOW what you know so thoroughly and backwards or else everyone around you will be all the poorer for your lack of not knowing what you know, how to spit it out in various ways, in various settings.

Hello Lori, how are you doing?

@@Fredjohnson2920 I am doing fine

Hello Julie, how are you doing?

Hello Patricia, how are you doing?

Do you think gratitude might help give you strength and focus? Grats for what you have as well as what you realize, and opportunities. Maybe it helps us realize the power of what remains. Mebe...

Thank your for your support Michael!

Me too

How did you do it?

@@barnone.3808 well first I started with a cheap small bike and I mean cheap like $50 cheap. I was dirt poor and in HS but living on my own. I was very much a mess. I tinkered with it for a year made it the best it could be modifying what was there and whatever I could make work out of the trash. It's worth mentioning I grew up as a mechanic I wasn't clueless with what I was doing I knew enough of enough trades to build it better and make stuff. Then I saved and bought a turbo that took a year. Then I played with it and thought too long and didn't do enough. I did make it work badly a few times. Then I found a xr200 a Honda dirt bike that was trashed. But something that was a huge upgrade to the cg 125 that was in the frame. Then years went by I barely touched it. Then I started listening to JP and I heard the anything worth doing is worth doing badly and I laughed. I saw somethings jump out at me. I started to work on me and in the same time this bike. I made my goals small but steady. First strip all my old work off too much ghetto. Second this was to be a test mule so pretty wasn't needed quick but good prototyping was fine small leaks were the norm. Then I started rebuilding things changed from a pull through carb set up to blow through. That made the bike run like stock until you got on it hard then boost would come in. I made a video on my newest fuel system to try and offer a simple cheap solution that ppl could copy. After i understood this new better way of carburetion well I started to turn the boost up, first 10psi then 15 then 20. Soon after we started breaking stuff and I started making better parts. After replacing everything atleast twice with an improved version I made in my humble shop I decided the Dyno mule was cool but it was time to get serious. At this point I had had it for 4yrs and spent not including consumables about $400 on it it leaked a bit of oil and didn't have the prettiest set up but we were making about 50-55whp I don't remember but that was with 198cc. So now I wanted to drag race it so I stripped it again I made it as light as I could and built a fresh engine using every trick I knew and a this point I had maybe 10 of these engines in pieces that iv gotten out of the trash over the years. I had lots of spare parts for me to play with. I was reading lots of papers back then whenever I could on the important subjects. I ended up building parts and trying them and seeing what worked and trying as much that should help. Finally I settled on a bore and stroke ratio and actual bore and stroke that gave us 155cc. Why go down well it's pretty simple HP=(tq*rpm)/5252 shorter stroke makes reving higher easier and longer lasting(important when you push the limits) it also let us employ a few trick all at once. I made a longer rod with the short stroke this does a few things one it slows piston speeds around tdc and speeds them up around bdc. It also lowers rod angle making it stronger. It also moves the powerband up some.

@@barnone.3808 Then we made the first good oil system I had. And we made the valves huge lots of ceramic coatings inside the combustion chamber. Made a big cam. Played with combustion chamber design alot. I offset bored it also. That moved the center of the crank offset from the center of bore. This makes sure that at tdc the rod has some leverage on the crank very important. It also offset the effect of the rod some further shifting the powerband. Then I started doing what I was told couldn't be done and started using high compression ratio with lots of boost 30psi+. This got us there. Along with lots of timing. Now iv started to make some special turbo parts and I'm maximizing what that can do hopefully this week we should see the first 50psi run down the rd. Should be around 90-100whp but at 155cc this gets us over the hump on the highest boost setting. Now I have started racing it so Iv been working hard on making it use that power well to go down the track and making it lighter. Iv gone so far that this is Version9 and version10 is right around the corner. It's gonna be something special. Iv been prototyping some carbon engine parts and frame hoping we can get me the bike and fuel under 320lbs this way along with some special advantages inside the engine with carbon. Some things I can't make like carbon carbon. So no pistons yet but everything else seems to be going great even in the trans. Hopefully I can make this thing take a lot of records. I thank JP because in these 10 versions of this bike you can see my life everything else was in similar effort and it was just coming to a point where everything needed attention. Still working on these things both in my life and this bike.. I'm fairly proud to say I have spent about $1500 on this bike so far although that's doubling soon with version10. But that will actually be a whole new bike a Taylor made platform. Obviously I'm not including my time as I don't have a clue how many sleepless nights iv spent.

@@barnone.3808 Sorry for it being so long I just thought ab actual response was worth doing. Also I shortened that alot lol all that happened lots of times before we got here. I grew up with carbs and I mean 3yr old me was cleaning carbs. It took me a good 3yrs of really trying to learn and understand the 3d tuning of blow through carbs. I learned alot about alot because of this project and others but this ones cheap enough that I can really go wild and try to break barriers.

@@oliverscorsim woah......it was long but totally worth the read. It seems like you had a lot of trials and hardwork on both the bike and your life man. And with that you could basically say you've started to make your own bike engine and prototype of bike models. That's cool. My hobbies and goals aren't anything as great as those man. It's just doing at least enough to survive but alas as it seems that's not enough....to survive it's also about thriving. Which your doing now.have you posted it any where could I see the bike? And do you have any videos with the test runs? Pls let me know that would be dope fr.

Hello Vivian, how are you doing?

Loving yourself first is the prerequisite to loving others well. Your goals and dreams, to be sustainable must serve you and the greater good of humanity. That its what drives your will to pursue them relentlessly. By pursuing your goals you are helping ppl. Wearing yourself thin, neglecting your needs and boundaries sabotages your ability to help others which leads to resentment. Helping others should come from an overflow of love you have for yourself and commitment to your personal mission. Its a constant ego check so you don't fall into the trap of pretending to love and be in service. Hope that helps.