Very nice. I love salads, but I'm often self-conscious eating them in restaurants. I'll practice my folding!
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Yes, at the highest circles they want us folding lettuce if it’s too big of a piece, and it is not the Romain variety. Sometimes Romain is so huge. You can just go ahead and cut that, but the cutting all goes back to that interesting history of metals, changing the flavor, interacting with a salad dressing. Important thing about etiquette is not to take so seriously, and just be reasonable, a kind, decent person, and the rest of the pieces just fall into place. I know you are the kindest of souls. Wishing you a wonderful week! Heidi. 💕💕💕🥗🍴
@jemimahjenewari1152 ай бұрын
Thank Youuuu!
@HeidiDulebohn12 ай бұрын
My pleasure!💕
@ulysses87852 жыл бұрын
Hi Heidi, I love the hisotorical perspective you bring. Thank you
@HeidiDulebohn12 жыл бұрын
Hello Ulysses! How very kind of you to watch the video, and leave an encouraging comment! I am fascinated by the historical roots to everything, especially all things etiquette. I’d be very grateful if you would subscribe to our channel, help spread the word, and kindly offer any suggestions you have for future video topics. We’ll make them! Warmest regards, Heidi💕
@ulysses87852 жыл бұрын
@@HeidiDulebohn1 Thank you, and best!
@HeidiDulebohn12 жыл бұрын
@@ulysses8785 The very same to you!
@OneManParade Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the info. Beautiful room.
@mandibrady4085 Жыл бұрын
Excellent! I loved this! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I am so happy to hear about salad being eaten at the end of the meal in Europe for digestive purposes. I enjoy the historical information in your content. Your training is helping me to instruct the youth in my city. Thank you! Beautiful scarf too!
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello Mandi! Thank you so much you are always so kind to me! I love the history behind everything and trust me everything has such interesting and rich history, and it gives us the reason why we do what we do, especially when it comes to etiquette. Thank you so much for the compliment about the scarf, it’s a fun little scarf I got at the Metropolitan Museum in New York, it’s was from the Frank Loyd Wright exhibit. Thank you so much for your time, and leaving such a lovely comment! I’m sending you very best wishes for a lovely weekend! Warmest regards, Heidi💕💕💕
@MamiTT237 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
You're very welcome!! Warm regards, Heidi💕🥗
@ilenevalian4 ай бұрын
I love your way of referencing from the history❤
@HeidiDulebohn14 ай бұрын
Thank you! Thank you for watching, and indulging me on my fascination with the history behind etiquette! There is a “ why” behind! So much fun to learn the origins story! I tried very hard not to go onto too much about the history, because I could go on all day, lol, I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, as I said. I appreciate your interest, and thank you for taking time to watch!💕🍰
@FaithandFun-w6q2 жыл бұрын
Looks so delicious, love it, thank you for sharing!
@HeidiDulebohn12 жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you for your kind words! Who knew there’s so much etiquette involved with eating salad! Thank you so much for taking the time to comment! Do you have any suggestions for other videos, I’d love to hear them! Warm regards, Heidi
@rociomejia28593 ай бұрын
Beautiful tip! Thank you🙏🏽
@HeidiDulebohn13 ай бұрын
Thank you very much!!💕💕🥗
@stacyannmcfarlane6673 ай бұрын
Wonderful tips
@HeidiDulebohn13 ай бұрын
Thank you very much! I’m really appreciate your comment, you’re very kind!💕💕
@DrAnkitJangid5 күн бұрын
Ok mam.. Valuable video
@HeidiDulebohn13 күн бұрын
Thank you, very kind of you! I’m very happy the video was helpful. If you’re interested in the etiquette of some foods, including tricky foods, I’d be thrilled if you’d watch some our other videos and offer your comments! I take all of the comments and suggestions to heart! Best wishes for a lovely day! Heidi 💕💕🥗
@spudsmccallaghan Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Heidi.
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello Peter! Thank you so much for taking time to watch my video and leave a nice comment! Salad is one of those things that has an interesting history as to explain the reasons for the etiquette. I feel very grateful if you could please be so kind as to subscribe to my channel. Help me spread the word about it, and let me know any videos topics that interest you, will put them in our queue. We’re posting new videos all the time, so please keep tuning in, and I’d be very interested in your thoughts. I’m sending very best wishes for a lovely day! Warm regards, Heidi💕🥗
@nettierg Жыл бұрын
Also was taught when prepping a salad, never cut, always tear. Cutting turns the edges brown. Also, curious if no cutting, how do you eat wedges and complete romaine leaves?
@maryellenelizabethhart7370 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@RachelWeiss-dt7dxАй бұрын
great room
@HeidiDulebohn126 күн бұрын
Thank you!💕
@jdeanshaw9334 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooooo much.
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video and leaving such an encouraging,! I hope you are enjoying a lovely holiday season. I’d be so grateful if you would be so kind as to subscribe to my channel. Warmest regards, Heidi.💕💕
@zxxxrain80702 жыл бұрын
Love your content
@HeidiDulebohn12 жыл бұрын
Hello, and welcome! Thank you so much you’re very kind I appreciate you taking time to watch, and leave such a wonderful comment! I love making these videos, and I would be so grateful if you would subscribe to our channel, help spread the word, and offer any topics you might like to see for future videos, anything that you’re interested in, in particular. Sending you very best wishes for an amazing day! Warm regards, Heidi💕
@agreenscorpio10 ай бұрын
Hello. Very useful video! Could you, please, make a similar one on how to eat fish proprely in a restaurant when it's served whole? Where do I start, how am I supposed to open the fish properly, how do I get rid of grated spine , rhese are only some of the issues I have that keep me from ordering fish in a formal gathering.
@audraantrum4035 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful tips, I'm often at semi-formal lunches & menu tastings for work as a gala planner. I always knew trying to balance all the morsels on top of my fork wasn't up to snuff😂. Thank u
@maryellenelizabethhart73707 ай бұрын
I heard that lettuce represents money, dollar bills, and that cutting lettuce means you are cutting money. It is better to fold your money.😊
@user-ku7tz6qu5o5 ай бұрын
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@mikehong269110 ай бұрын
Thanks!-Heidi!-For The Advice Of Eating-A Salad!-Fold-A Lettuce!&Cut-A Cherry Tomato!-I'll Rememmber&Do-THAT!-Raymond "Mike" Hong!&(Thanks!-Heidi!-All Your Videos-Are Extremely Useful&Helpful-To Me!-Mike!)😎👍!!!!!!!!!
@dingleberryridesagain3606 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother and her sister in law,the Dowager Duchess Thittipool Patarpooon of Putikapoonon always ate salad which mainly consisted of Radish spring onion Tomato Lettuce a raw carrot and a large clove of garlic, the acoustics were something to behold, it always reminded me of a Donkey munching on a turnip or an Orangutan with a digestive disorder declaring his affinity to a bunch of raw banana ,
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Bloody hilarious!💕
@dingleberryridesagain3606 Жыл бұрын
Nothing quite like a good laugh,, or as I say when quoting myself,laugh and the world laughs with you,don't laugh and no one knows what's going on, where's my bloody Mary with a stick of celery,a shake of pepper,a dash of worchestererer sauce and a good book with big print !
@therealitycheck980420 күн бұрын
Could you please teach us how to eat a whole fish?My grandpa kind of did but I don’t think it’s the proper way
@HeidiDulebohn118 күн бұрын
That’s a terrific idea! Thank you so much. I’ll put it in our queue! Thank you very much for taking the time to watch the video and leave such a great comment! 💕💕🐟
@kenealissanrios724 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing! This is my first time watching your video and I can guarantee you I am going to subscribe❤️ please how us on how to eat a hamburger with fork and knife; I saw that in Europe, but never on the US. Thank you!😘😘😘
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello so much for watching, I’m thrilled you found me! Yes, when you are dining at the highest circles, this is how you would eat salad. A hamburger, though is meant to be finger food, so it is perfectly fine to eat your burger with your hands. However, sometimes lovely gourmet burgers are simply too thick. There’s just too much with the bun etc. to fit into your mouth in a bite. So it’s easy to use your knife and fork. If you’re watching carbs, the way I do, leave off the top bun, and use your knife and fork to eat the rest of it -like an open face sandwich. Just start cutting piece by piece and you will be as proper as the day is long! But remember a good hamburger is meant to be eaten with your hands, so have a little fun with it. I’d be so happy if you would kindly subscribe to my channel and please watch some of my other videos, I’d love to hear your thoughts! Warm regards, Heidi.💕🍔🍴
@cyndibailey50462 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the information! What do you do with a wedge salad?
@HeidiDulebohn12 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Cyndi! Yes, a wedge is a great example of a salad where a knife would make it a lot easier to eat, easily! But, wedge salads came into vogue long after the "rules" were made. In the 1970s the wedge with blue cheese crumbles found its home as a staple in steak houses. Sometimes, you have to be flexible and use a little common sense. I love a good wedge salad, with extra blue cheese crumbles! Great comment, thank you so much, Cyndi! Warmest regards, Heidi
@pasteldreams8 Жыл бұрын
Mam., some food items just won't cut with the knife, no matter how much you try, for example, Pineapple pieces. What should be done in such cases? Would really appreciate a reply.
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you so much for this terrific comment, and what a great question! You’re right, some foods are very hard to cut, and pineapple slices, because sometimes it’s quite stringy, can be hard to cut with a knife. If you are at a restaurant, and you having trouble cutting, I would ask for a better knife, perhaps even a steak knife would help, but ask for something much sharper than what you have if you’re having trouble cutting the pineapple slice. However, if you are at someone’s home, and you cannot cut the pineapple, I would keep trying, discretely, but, I would not ask the host for a better knife, that could cause offense. Just do the best you can in this situation and if you cannot cut it then just leave it on your plate. Please let me know what you think and how it’s going for you. it really is nice when people cut pineapple into small pieces, next time I serve pineapple I’m going to be very aware of your insightful comment and make sure I cut the pineapple into Chinese bite-size pieces. Sending you best wishes for a lovely day, and I’d be very grateful if you could kindly subscribe, and please keep turning back in for posting new Content all the time. Warm regards, Heidi💕🍍
@arjunrajendran4826 Жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on using fork and spoon to eat rice dishes ? also on how to eat Lobster or Crabs with using utensils ? Thank you very much..!
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you so much for watching, and ask such a terrific question. I think the video about rice is a great idea, and will put it in our queue to create. I did make a video about eating crab legs, and I will attach the link below. Please check it out, at your convenience, and let me know your thoughts. Eating lobster is very similar, unless it is prepared. In addition, something like the lobster Thermidor. Sending you very best wishes for a lovely day! And I would be so thrilled if you’d kindly subscribe and help me pass the word!. Creating new videos all the time, so please keep turning back in. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qL5lkqqhr9mngok.html Warm regards, Heidi💕🦀
@arjunrajendran4826 Жыл бұрын
@@HeidiDulebohn1 Thank you so much for responding to my comment Heidi, your videos are really helpful and i've subscibed from watching the first video itself without any hesitation..! Much love from India 🥰😇
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
@@arjunrajendran4826 Thank you very much!! I’m so delighted that my videos are helpful to you! By the way, India is one of my favorite countries, so vast and diverse, full of beautiful people! I am adding a link to a rice video I posted, please let me know what you think. Best wishes for a fabulous day! Warm regards, Heidi💕🍚🇮🇳
@carolyn7127 Жыл бұрын
How should someone go about eating a micro chopped salad, where piercing the micro chopped salad with your fork picks up too few pieces?
@thomasp.1426 ай бұрын
I use chopsticks for salad.
@irenemurzyn61492 жыл бұрын
Is using a place mat not good?
@HeidiDulebohn12 жыл бұрын
Hello Irene! Thank you for watching and asking such a great question! Yes, placemats are great and I love using them. They can lend an easy elegance to any dining space. I’d be thrilled if you’d kindly subscribe to my channel, help spread the word, and offer any suggestions for future video topics. Thank you and best wishes for a great weekend! Warm regards, Heidi💕
@StevenHughes-hr5hpАй бұрын
Is there ever anything in a salad that requires a knife? A big chunk of chicken or fish can easily be cut in half with just your fork.
@VIpanfried Жыл бұрын
What credentials and bonafides does one have to be an Ettiquette Expert?
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you for watching and asking. Such a terrific question! My answer would be, you could be considered an expert if you spent a lifetime reading Traveling, and experiencing and being trained by known experts in the field. I have spent my lifetime doing exactly that. In addition, I am a graduate of the London Academy of protocol and etiquette, and I hold a masters degree from a European university in protocol, soft diplomacy, and cross-cultural competence. I have executors certificates from Northwestern University, and the Kennedy school at Harvard. I think that combining formal education with a lifetime of experience can make you an expert. However, learning is never finished, you can always keep growing. I want to keep improving and learning, so I am always traveling to experience new cultures. I’m constantly reading to enhance my knowledge, and combined it with the history, the roots of the rules and guidelines and etiquette. .The history and the “why” in etiquette is fascinating! I’m headed to Japan next week to immerse myself in the culture and learn more than I already know about Japanese etiquette. Thank you for asking about this, and I’d be very grateful if you would kindly subscribe to my channel sending best wishes for a lovely day! Warm regards, Heidi💕🌎📚🍽️
@a.n267511 ай бұрын
...😅💪... 😏🙏❤️
@Existentialnausea Жыл бұрын
Today, I cut my lettuce! Next time I'll fold it!
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thanks 1 million for watching and leaving this great comment! When you’re dining at the highest circles, everyone is going to be at so impressed when you fold the lettuce! However, for your every day, it’s fine to cut the lettuce. It’s fun to know what the rules are at the highest levels, but also knowing how to be reasonable with them. The bottom line is, etiquette is really about being a kind and caring person and treating others with respect. Let the let us holding begin! Lol. I’d love it if you’d be so kind to subscribe to my channel. I’m sending you very best wishes for absolutely lovely day! Warm regards, Heidi.💕🥬🥗
@ceknott Жыл бұрын
Wat about cucumber. I cut it
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Absolutely perfectly fine to cut cucumber! Thank you again for watching and another fantastic question! Best wishes for an awesome afternoon! Warm regards, Heidi💕🥒
@user-ku7tz6qu5o Жыл бұрын
Хелло Класс! LOVE
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@tomboyraider101511 ай бұрын
This didn’t need to be 6 minutes long lol.
@HeidiDulebohn111 ай бұрын
Hello! Thanks for watching and for your thoughts. I’ll try to make a short about this subject. I’d love it if you would kindly subscribe. Meanwhile, I’m wishing you a super day!💕🥗
@MrBluemanworld2 жыл бұрын
I’ll keep cutting lettuce if it’s too big, that’s way too uptight, we’re American.
@HeidiDulebohn12 жыл бұрын
Hello! Thanks so much for watching and commenting!I, too, have been served enormous pieces of lettuce, sometimes you just have to do what you have to do. I was demonstrating what’s expected at very high levels of fine dining. But of course, you do you, bottom line is be reasonable. Sending best wishes for a great weekend!💕 Kind regards, Heidi
@candacewebb120 Жыл бұрын
🥗 ♥️👍🏻
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, as always!💕💕
@candacewebb120 Жыл бұрын
@@HeidiDulebohn1 You're welcome 🙂
@5herwood3 ай бұрын
So. Don't cut lettuce with a knife; fold lettuce with a knife. Lettuce (ph 6) will blacken your knife while tomato (ph 4) won't. I have a better idea. Send your salad back. If it's the kind of place where cutting lettuce matters it should come from the kitchen ready to eat. I'm down with most points of etiquette but neither logic nor flavor support this.
@JudgeDredd_ Жыл бұрын
Ok how do I eat a wedge salad in an expensive steakhouse that’s the main thing I’m looking for haha
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hey there, Judge Dredd, Excellent point! Thank you so much for watching, and leaving this terrific
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you so much for watching and what an excellent comment you bring to my attention! Thank you!!! I love a good wedge salad, which has its roots in ancient Egypt, believe it, or not, and in the 1970s the steak houses embraced and adored, wedge salads. They are back with a popularity in all the great steak houses, and yes, of course you need a knife and fork for a good wedge salad. Put your fork in the middle, as an anchor, and work with your knife, inward. Thank you for watching, and I wish you many awesome wedge salads in your future! I would be very appreciative. if you’d be so kind to subscribe to my channel, help spread the word about it, and offer any future video topics you might like to see. Best wishes for a lovely day, Warm regards, Heidi💕🥗🍴
@JudgeDredd_ Жыл бұрын
@@HeidiDulebohn1 Done and done! Thank you for your response! I recently had an investor meeting and the wedge salad looked amazing, however, it wasn’t necessarily the best “conversational” appetizer (if there is such a thing) hahaha! Have a great upcoming Friday and weekend!
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
@@JudgeDredd_ Thank you and best wishes to you, too, for an amazing weekend!! PS I love a good wedge, extra blue cheese crumbles, please!🥬🧀
@ceknott Жыл бұрын
No more than three different leaves at one time
@HeidiDulebohn1 Жыл бұрын
Hello Clara! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video, and to leave such a fantastic, and informational comment! I did not know this, so thank you for bringing this to my attention and helping me learn something new today!🥗 I love doing these videos and I truly believe, from the bottom of my heart, we can help each other to keep learning, growing, and improving ourselves, every single day! I’d be thrilled if you’d be so kind to subscribe to my channel, help spread the word about it, and offer any topics for future videos that you would like to see! Sending very best wishes for a lovely day! Warm regards, Heidi💕💕