If your ex never contacts you during no contact, it DID work, no contact is to heal and move on
@streakkiller81305 ай бұрын
Not for everyone my friend...It depends on the kind of relationship you had with your partner
@danaparfitt249118 күн бұрын
@@streakkiller8130well, what ya gonna do anyway lol if they are a runner ...classic paralysis
@losheroes6076Күн бұрын
@@streakkiller8130 it hurts man... i did everything for this girl... i overlooked so many things to be with her, and as soon as i did something wrong all that went out the window
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
Testimony share. 2.5 months of no contact. I was hurting depressed. Got back in the gym constantly, started working on my mental, emotional, my body, back to church. I even started a mens group. Then got a call on a job I applied for and got a contract for 200k a year. No bull all in 2 months..... Still no contact but damn all of this focus on myself has helped me elevate my game and now as I progress I turn into someone she used to know pointing as she sees me elevating higher than she thought possible. Your videos helped me move on and really consider my flaws. I do it for me not for her.
@blackenigma6777 Жыл бұрын
Has she reached out?
@willow_pillow Жыл бұрын
@@blackenigma6777Please read the first line again, lol
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
@@blackenigma6777 Noooooo not at all muh dood
@coreybeats3335 Жыл бұрын
Continue to focus on yourself, your testimony is proof that they were blocking your blessings , and they know all of your achievements and they know you are untouchable. Stay blessed
@lovelyshay777 Жыл бұрын
Awesome! Congrats
@Sheku107 Жыл бұрын
He’s 110% right, and if your ex never contact you again you are better of my friend.. let them GO.
@marandalynn6611 Жыл бұрын
Amen but you should pay them back and get complete with them so you can move forward without regret.
@MichaelCorleone365 Жыл бұрын
@@marandalynn6611 no just move on
@yaasy77smart1 Жыл бұрын
Of course move on it wouldn’t give nobody the time or day if someone who don’t want me I leave it to god and focus on myself the right one will come
@whosyourdaddy4579 Жыл бұрын
Yep! Looking back at someone who literally tore my life apart...had we somehow got back together, even as much as I wanted that at the time, I know it would have been even worse had we got back together. He was brutal...very egotistical... very hurtful man! And not just too me! He's divorced now and I'm sure all these years later, he's still the same man! I just lacked the perspective and insight to see it then.
@youtubeusername1965 Жыл бұрын
yes SIR.
@SpaceAlienJesus2 ай бұрын
If an ex is gone for months and you've grown and worked hard, there is no reason to move backwards. Love yourself and that real someone will find you.
@babydii348710 күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@biancao6853 Жыл бұрын
If he's not coming back, it's because you haven't moved on yet. The moment you start moving on, somehow they'll know and will contact you 😏
@grimoire80010 ай бұрын
Does this apply to a girl ex as well?
@jasminjaemorrissa67729 ай бұрын
Now this is the truth!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@greggregory27566 ай бұрын
@@grimoire800yes.
@milkystrawbae6 ай бұрын
Damn this hits
@tonya57914 ай бұрын
He moved on so not true. We was only together 2 months tho. But man it was a great two months
@focusedallday5620 Жыл бұрын
It’s because they’re using as a “strategy”. When you go no contact you have to continue to live your life and be completely okay with losing the other person. Stay Focused!
@nicksaveka5078 Жыл бұрын
The point is not to worry about ur ex , it’s to improve ur self and learn from ur past mistakes
@bellezanegra0206 Жыл бұрын
I thought for sure he was never coming back and then he unblocked me and started messaging me 6 months later. I’m interested in someone else now.
@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын
The rebound didn’t workout
@charlesbuckwheat2347 Жыл бұрын
That's when it happens!!
@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын
@@wtcmedic911 my question is why coaches say when after the rebound don’t work they come to you it call place holder or you’re an option. When that happens he’s not going to respect you as he would respect the ones he thought he wanted. Meant to say you’re not his or her priority. They can never be happy with you. I’m soooooo confused. Isn’t it supposed to be like when the gras is not green in the other side.
@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын
@@wtcmedic911 thanks for your input on this. Sorry about your experience. Sometimes things are never meant to be and sometimes they meant to be but with struggles. Mine left and now resurfacing very slow. Could it be after a rebound? Who knows. But according to coaches who believe that when they come back you become an option for them which is no good for you since you’re not what they’re looking for. But what about getting your ex back thingy isn’t what it is about? Wait for them to come back? This is where I got confused about. I feel like he’s breadcrumbed me. I shut down and see what next.
@whosyourdaddy4579 Жыл бұрын
Yeah well GOOD FOR YOU! Leave him at the curb with the rest of the stuff you don't need and is starting to rot! 😉👍🏻
@ParisianStreets Жыл бұрын
Golden! It never takes this long with the right person. If he misses you too he'll reach out.
@TiffMoFlo Жыл бұрын
But I told him not to reach out... 😢
@ParisianStreets Жыл бұрын
@@TiffMoFlo Had he truly loved you he couldnt have stayed away. Love always finds a way.
@adenizenabroad95937 ай бұрын
Key word *he..most of the time nc doesn’t seem to bring women back
@risevision10807 ай бұрын
@@ParisianStreetsno because some men like myself are respectful, and we listen and stay away like we are told, I miss her more than anything but she asked for this. I'm a gentleman and I'll respect her wishes
@ParisianStreets7 ай бұрын
@@risevision1080 I respect that. If you've done due diligence and after a few months reach out, no harm done. Regret is a painful.
@Lboogs7 Жыл бұрын
my ex broke it off with me. her behavior had changed a little a few weeks or maybe a month before she ended it with me abruptly. I didn't understand why. after 8 month I LITERALLY, Purely by the universe coincidence I run into at a store. I wasn't angry. wasn't sad. I was indifferent. come to find out her new Dude ditched her. she said give her a call, I said yea sure sarcastically. my how Karma comes back. never take a woman that disrespected your valuable time, energy, and spirit. NEVER
@jessasmrcd Жыл бұрын
Same would go for men
@danaparfitt249118 күн бұрын
Woopdeedoooo the big win
@danaparfitt249118 күн бұрын
Same would go for heffalumps n wuzles let's get over ourselves shall we smdh
@danaparfitt249118 күн бұрын
never say never Same would go for hermaphrodite worms...wait ..much better species, can regrow entire sections of body😂
@sts42ss Жыл бұрын
It's been 10 months no contact.Im on my healing journey doing well.Guess who I saw?Yes the jacka$$.He's married and happy. I didn't know how I would act when I saw him.He really betrayed me.He just knew I was going to say something but I walked right pass him like he didn't exist. I was proud of myself.I will let karma handle this one.
@mrjamesgrimes Жыл бұрын
Damn married after 10 months ? Harsh
@growandheal Жыл бұрын
💚😮💨
@shawny979 Жыл бұрын
Married after 10 Months, he was already seeing her. Smh!
@nikkiibanks8888 Жыл бұрын
@@growandheal 😢🙌💟💝
@charlotteclark6061 Жыл бұрын
...💜💜💜👑💥
@karenmarie3932 Жыл бұрын
He’s with someone new … I don’t want him back. Ever. 🙌🏼
@user-gu7ef5vx2g Жыл бұрын
Hi Please move on.
@anthonyharmon92657 ай бұрын
Im sure he doesnt want you back either
@peta-gayrobinson5022 ай бұрын
@@anthonyharmon9265why so mean?
@danaparfitt249118 күн бұрын
@@anthonyharmon9265I'm sure nobody asked you
@churchofchristapostolic34326 күн бұрын
No contact with people that betray you and cheates on you! I chose me and my peace!!
@martinramos56325 ай бұрын
It took me 2 years to realize, she is never coming back. The pain I have for this situation is only matter of time where I’ll be a better version of myself. So gentleman let them go and work on being a better man. And eventually when you forget about her and realize you’re value is off the roof then that’s when god will bless us all. Stay up kings 🙏🏾
@chelle_w_7311 күн бұрын
In a couple more weeks it will be 2 years for me. How does someone leave you at the worst time of your life? How do they act like their life is perfect while yours is falling apart? He was all I had & he knew it. I stood by him through everything only to bail on me. I’m so hurt & I want to hate him but I can’t.
@hollywood217727 күн бұрын
8 years together, she had a kid before now 8 years old… and it’s been 5 months no contact.. life has been hitting me hard lately, I just keep climbing with God by my side. I believe the slowest pain anybody can experience is letting someone go who you thought was your end soulmate & a kid you looked at as your own❤😞
@antimike1123 күн бұрын
I'm in a similar situation minus the kid though. I've been hit hard this year financially. Was in a good relationship no arguments no cursing and no fights. She breaks up with me a week before my birthday. And couldn't even wish me a happy birthday.
@joekie71 Жыл бұрын
I agree. People love consistency. That is why I left and blocked him for good. He can practice that stuff on someone else. I'm not going back. I put him in a "bucket" and gave him to God. Only if God Himself change my mind, nothing else is going to. I love my peace of mind more. 😁.
@user-iu6bv8vu8o Жыл бұрын
Oh, he reached out several times, but - after doing no contact- I realized that I am so much better off without him. I saw him more clearly, did the inner work, found peace of mind & my intuition is telling me to stay the course- someone better is coming- Im committed to myself now & I decided to leave him right there- Im moving forward & nothing feels better… sometimes no contact is necessary for you to see more clearly, gain momentum & hear your inner voice say- Gurl- he is not the one- God got something so much better- Keep on keeping on- I don’t want anything to do with him✌🏽💯
@nicoleblackburn3788 Жыл бұрын
I went no contact with my ex and it lasted about 6 months and he came back but he was not in a good energy he only came back for convenience so I went back to no contant this time around even though I love him to death I'm not going out of no contact for me not him. Thank you so so much for your channel.
@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын
Update
@julyguynjАй бұрын
🔥😘❤
@victorianorris1916 Жыл бұрын
Everytime I think about texting him I’m listening to this. 💪🏽💪🏽
@MentionDav3 Жыл бұрын
7 months no contact here and man I loved that girl. I loved her enough to leave her as a memory. I got her her first LLC, cameras, photography lighting, $500 for a dog, clothes etc. when I was only bringing in about 3000 a month 1300 went to rent alone. Then when I was really done I Bought her a bouquet of photos from our 6 year relationship for her birthday and never contacted her again. I still love her but just enough to never speak to her again. I graduate school next December to become an A&P tech, read my Bible everyday, and won’t be in another relationship for maybe another 2 years to fully heal
@movingsaudade602825 күн бұрын
Don't wait to fully heal your broken heart.Work on your toxic traits and let new love heal your broken heart.Love is a healer.If someone loves you right while you are broken. Your scattered pieces come back together and you become whole again.
@I90west Жыл бұрын
I miss her .. damn . But I’m staying the course . I wasn’t perfect and made mistakes , but I really cared about her . Keeping my mind busy ..
@x26darkw0lf10 ай бұрын
I feel you been about 3 months for me at this point never felt pain like this... sad days
@michaelcruz2048 ай бұрын
Coming up on 5 months mid December. I feel you but we all make mistakes. I'm going the distance with this. If she comes back we can talk . If she doesmt I as a person am in a better place
@chelseydenkins7 ай бұрын
Your the man , you said you made mistakes reach out. Try to change for her . For you guys
@MICROCAPTIGERS2 ай бұрын
It doesn’t matter if you made mistakes because all humans make mistakes. If she didn’t forgive you and try to work it out then let her go. 99.99% of the time she was already talking to another man and she’s with another man. She will beg for you back when it fails and 99% of the time it will fail. Never allow her back. She’s sleeping with another man. She’ll never admit it. A good woman stands by her man and doesn’t create major fights or arguments often. The women who do that make us feel crazy or psycho but they only gaslight us and get irritated because they have a new man who is piquing their interest and that man is more exciting than you. Never never let them back. She’s for the streets
@dionila_728 күн бұрын
Same here man, i kept blaming myself because i did not give her the 100% commitment she wanted. And when i gathered my thoughts and said i am ready she didn’t want it anymore. I was fighting for her fighting for the connection but all went cold as ice for me. So yeah, i wish her well and hope she will take care of herself and her family. I was the one taking care of her even though i wasnt 100% committed to her. I showed her love, protection, care and safety and showed her how much she means to me how important and special she was to me. I wish you well Azizam.
@davidgreener423 Жыл бұрын
My Dad said don't step in the same shit twice!
@movingsaudade602825 күн бұрын
Yo dad hilarious 😂😂Where is he?
@babydii348710 күн бұрын
💯💯💯🚩
@fana7181 Жыл бұрын
Lovebombing, future faking me into a relationship. Then after short time. He suddenly changed emotionally and pulled away i broke up with him, bc i couldnt stay beside him for a second with that stonewalling like nothing happened
@hanihamid4450 Жыл бұрын
Keep it real!! None of the coaches mentioned this and you're right especially when dealing with toxic partner
@gomunkul Жыл бұрын
Your strength is not giving a fuck for real. It's not about trying to pretend you don't care if she texts you someday, it's about you minding your business, your job, your hobbies, working out, etc. One more thing is meeting other women. Once you meet a woman who's better than your ex, you're going to forget who that ex is😄 let her go. You may think it's hard to find someone the same as your ex or even better. No, it's not. Of course it's going to take some time, but eventually who seeks will always find.
@deedee446 Жыл бұрын
Dont be with another woman if u havent healed or moved on from ur ex. Its not fair on the other person
@ankitahahaha Жыл бұрын
This is breaking my heart I really need a hug
@Sunshine-ms8ce2 ай бұрын
Damn,I wanna just cry at this point! Saddest shit I've ever heard.😢
@mikebrown6930Ай бұрын
@@ankitahahahaHere’s A Big hug from a good Man , who’s been broken completely in half by two particular women in my life ! One was a baby mama, the other was A 6 year relationship with whom I assumed was my Soul mate. They both had 2,things in common A temporary hate for me & they cheated on me ! I refueled my pain with Kindness and prayer to never allow someone like them in my life again… Best advice be careful who you give your heart ❤ to..
@morpheus3190 Жыл бұрын
Best advice in under 3 minutes. Preach it !
@clairelittle9182 Жыл бұрын
Never thought about it this way 🤔. Great explanation
@1111spiritualone Жыл бұрын
i love when he said stay the course lol
@porgieriolo5614 Жыл бұрын
I’m on 21 days no contact with my ex-girlfriend. Everyday has been torture. She wanted to break up. I didn’t want that. We agreed to a break and space. It’s been just over 3 weeks and nothing from her. I can’t take it sometimes. But, I have stayed the course. I’m truthfully scared af. Help!!!!!
@jayspartan324811 ай бұрын
did she reached you? How is it goin?
@rkntuessday-3485Ай бұрын
Any update?
@gummygirl467Ай бұрын
I always said I wanted to break up , not cause I didn’t love him , but he always pushed me to do things. We agreed to do no contact and give space , but we often kept in touch . After 3 months we decided to meet and give it a try , we tried for a month or two and he gave up on me
@alwaysaccurate8725 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I know my ex is stressed the hell out. Its not always about u. A person figuring out life should never put out more energy into you then themselves. So ask urself what going on in their life. If ur at peace be glad they dont come To disrupt it with their chaos.🎉🎉🎉
@nikkiibanks8888 Жыл бұрын
We were not on the same path, so it is best that they go their way and I go my way. 💟
@leizelcabalsi3937 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely works just be patient trust the process of no contact they will comeback i been that he cameback now
@sarahlopez54312 ай бұрын
How is that going now?
@TM-fm3hh Жыл бұрын
If we ain't talked in months, she ain't even gotta bother to reach out. All the bodies she'll have caught in those months...nah, we good 🤣🤣
@inspirationalshanae51295 ай бұрын
Right
@user-zc5km1yx6r Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today. I almost break and text cause it’s been a month. I’m so thankful I saw your video before doing so…thank you!
@stevesoto7761 Жыл бұрын
I think this is the most heartfelt advice i had watched so far
@MaryellenS.137 ай бұрын
When they’re involved with a new relationship….trust they aren’t coming back. And won’t text or call.
@katlynnmyers59272 ай бұрын
Lol says who my ex literally called me as his pregnant wife was about to give birth to their daughter wanting to hook up of course I said no, but come on that’s not true
@ReadyorNot8112 ай бұрын
Yeah that's definitely not true
@ReadyorNot8112 ай бұрын
@@katlynnmyers5927 agree..my ex was full on engaged 💍 to be married
@mikebrown6930Ай бұрын
@MaryellenS.13, That’s untrue. Even when they’re involved they still need the reality check that somehow you can still Wow them even tho, they’ve moved on .. They will always wonder in the back of their minds if they truly made the right decision! They will always question their own judgement but in silence & embarrassment. Trust & believe the new person does not compare to what you use to be in the former relationship. You will always be thought of…They’re just not going to admit it…
@scorpion86696 ай бұрын
Thanks once again my brotha. Strong words.
@paulsanjurjo43906 ай бұрын
She's your ex girlfriend for a reason. If you go back to them, usually the same issue(s) that broke you up in the first place will resurface. "Going back" to them has a negative connotation and it's counterproductive to do so. Build a better version of you for someone who is going to value you. If they had valued you, they would not have left in the first place. I have always moved forward with my life and it's served me well. I learned that lesson over 30 years ago and it goes like this; " things end for reasons and if those reasons didn't exist then things wouldn't have ended". ALWAYS MOVE FORWARD AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD!
@TheUltimateBreakupCoach11 ай бұрын
This is why I wrote my No Contact book Silence is your Superpower … no contact HAS to be done right ♥️
@vg773 Жыл бұрын
I love you and Thank you Sr. Listening to your advice teach me to be strong enough to never come back again
@sivgechheang2570 Жыл бұрын
Well they didn’t contact cuz they were cheating and ashamed of it to even think of coming back
@jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын
Super facts… he was caught and his pride won’t allow him to reach out
@karenmarie3932 Жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!!
@sonjamcintosh78134 ай бұрын
IT WORKS!!! HE IS ON POINT!!! THANK YOU BLACADEMICS!!!
@abiyubeshah2 ай бұрын
If the ex left a good relationship out of greed for another person CLOSE NO NEED TO WAIT FOR HIM OR HER SINCE IT IS A COMPLETE CHARACTER FLAW. IF YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG EXCPET CHEATING CORRECT THEM , SINCE THEY ARE FIXABLE. IF IT IS MISCOMMUNICATION AND MISUNDERSTANDING GIVE THEM SOMETIMES TI GET CLARITY.
@FairyGirlMagic13 күн бұрын
Finally setting boundaries was the reason for No Contact. I told him, I didn't like his behaviour and that I hope it will change because I actually liked spending time with him. He got dramaticly defensiv said I make a mosquito to an elephant, belitteling parenting him and it would be a one sided accusation. (Yes, just because I told him I felt treated respectless on the last meeting) I stood my ground so he was like: "Cause of your overstepping..." For telling him I felt treated very badly and set a boundary...? "...I wish you are not contacting me for the next time." (Background: he rejected me twice, but we stayed still friends until to then.) I deleted his number and chat with him. I told him I can't be taken for granted - especially with your past - and his last message showed very clear he did take me for granted. So I went and never came back. In 7 months he never tried to contact me. Speaks more than 1000 words he didn't care about me at all. I was just comfortable to have around and taken for granted.
@mrs_is_the_name3377 Жыл бұрын
Yup people do feel your desperate energy plus never chase no one because your basically saying their not yours and if u know their yours you wouldn’t have to chase they would come back very fast because they would feel your energy moving away from them NEVER CHASE OR BEG FOR NO ONE AND NOTHING ✌🏼
@username25256Ай бұрын
He is so true. I was the one that left men and I always came back to them in the past. But now I am saved and a born again believer. Im not sure if this applies to christians lol
@sneakyflavour6655 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad I came across your videos I really needed the ones I seen
@Wittylee8828 Жыл бұрын
I don't want him back God please 😭 He hurt me Soo much I don't want him back Never
@Cra2y_M3rmaid Жыл бұрын
I hope you're allowing yourself to properly heal🙏🏽❤️🩹🥺
@rooseveltday66877 ай бұрын
No Contact ALWAYS works... If they come back (that's what you were aiming for) & they're back changed for the better then there you go.... If they DON'T come back then guess who's not suppose to be in your life 👀
@iandiru6433 Жыл бұрын
Noted with thanks my goal is to be a strong man as you🙏
@electrodominicus6 ай бұрын
Because no contact is NOT to being your ex back! It is space for healing.
@angelasamuels9037 Жыл бұрын
Yes people STAY THE COURSE know Ur WORTH ❤an🌟☀️⭐✨
@tonytaylor3640 Жыл бұрын
food for thought Bro! Thanks for sharing! God Bless!
@aarondaniels4221 Жыл бұрын
You tha man goddamn it! I'll keep saying it
@WeirdLoner. Жыл бұрын
To everyone out there if person requires more than a MONTH! (In my book 2/3weeks) of no contact , your answer is clear....on both ends. Ppl love holding onto everyone but themselves and its sad. Relationships can have issues here and there, but your feelings should never feel hurt often.
@carthy29 Жыл бұрын
Had an ex 4 years relationship, i did no contact, moved on met another girl maybe 1 yr later, then the ex deciedes to make contact but it was already too late for me, i just felt that the ex had been such a dick post break up, it turned me off just enough to not want to go back
@denisem5437 Жыл бұрын
You are so right. AMEN
@brenagade3 ай бұрын
Fkn solid bro, thank you
@jumpedintheriverwhatdidise54999 ай бұрын
Keep strong. as time goes on the love haze lifts and you start seeing their flaws and realise this is for the best. peaceful life along is better than drama with the wrong person
@donnat4650Ай бұрын
I needed to hear this ty. My friend felt bad for my break up and I was having surgery, so she called him, and he responded, as I’m glad she’s feeling better. Keep me posted. So, I called, but he didn’t respond ugh.
@queenmj8916Ай бұрын
Please talk to GOD ..call on GOD for your Emotional healing...just leave him for now ..but if you know you offended him sent a simple apology text no excuses on your error ,APOLOGISE & LET HIM BE/ GO...FOCUS ON JESUS CHRIST.
@Cra2y_M3rmaid Жыл бұрын
It's been a month since our break up & I'm still having difficulties doing the no contact. I wish I had the strength to move on & never contact him again. Smh, I wish I had the strength🥺💔
@Cra2y_M3rmaid Жыл бұрын
@wtcmedic911 Thank you. I started the no contact. I'm on day #6. It's been an agonizing nightmare. Words can't explain how much this hurts. I miss him everyday all day. Smh, I can't wait to heal...😔❤️🩹
@inamioh Жыл бұрын
Girl can i message you? I am going through it
@inamioh Жыл бұрын
I messaged you girl!
@toriquethefreak68 Жыл бұрын
I feel you it's extremely hard. I'm one month and a few days in. Almost folded and drove passed her house. I want to see her bad, but I know I gotta move on and do what I need to do.
@roseannegallagher83777 ай бұрын
Do affirmations
@dimotrifonov5109 Жыл бұрын
I hope, you are right !!
@Veronicaj1010 Жыл бұрын
My ex knows who I really am he knows I’m a good person. He knows he effed up. He knows that he use people to harm me. He knows the truth and soon the world will he need to just get help. Treat himself did healing for the crap, he went through as a kid and stop pursuing me.
@corissacarter98452 ай бұрын
Thank you for your words of wisdom. ❤
@lemuriam4253Ай бұрын
Long time no talking. First time thinking about him doesn’t make me emotional. Don’t feel it anymore. Ready for someone new
@elijahcordero718 Жыл бұрын
thanks alot man I e been seeing your videos and your right on point thanks 🙏🏾 for telling me and everyone else this because it means alot to me as a man
@wendyfromtheblock674317 күн бұрын
Thank you 😓🤞🏾💪🏾
@katwomaneyestarot24 күн бұрын
‘They may be getting ready to text you in a day or couple of days’….valuable!
@SaudiSymbol9 ай бұрын
Love you for this message cuz. 🤝🏼
@josephinecampolieto897725 күн бұрын
Tyvm 4 the good advice
@majicflash22Ай бұрын
You're Very smart and knowledgeable
@user-tz1hl3pf2w2 ай бұрын
Are u talking about avoidants too?? And what if he’s not an ex, just had an argument 4 weeks ago and neither one of us is reaching out? 😢
@skoozie79418 ай бұрын
It kills me thinking no contact will work and that she’ll come back and text me one day but in reality she’s probably talking to other guys
@ripbozo56038 ай бұрын
In the same both man, it's been a month for me, but I'll never break it. Just know man I'm feeling what you're feeling and I know it hurts right now I have so much sadness in my chest like a heavy feeling, but we have to realize women mostly initiate no contact and expect us to chase. I loved her but I will not be treated as some dog on a leash, know you're worth man genuinely
@yocool98837 ай бұрын
@@ripbozo5603:( how u doing now bro
@ulutasatilla7 ай бұрын
No contact could work but what’s the point of it? it’s just a chasing game basically and you’ll never have a stable secure relationship that way bro. In reality, she probably is talking to other men if you can’t keep her attention or the dynamic just isn’t there
@shantakoa85967 ай бұрын
It’s working ❤I’m so at peace
@proudlatina8497 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message
@vickyalvarez6886 Жыл бұрын
Thank GOD he's gone and never coming back‼️ He's doing and where he wants to be, why come back⁉️ #Grateful4thedump💕
@TheNicolelpn Жыл бұрын
Lord he doesn’t want you well not at the moment he has someone else right now he may double back but right now he ain’t thinking about you Sis go live your life and heal
@iamtheonlygino9 ай бұрын
Words of encouragement thank you my friend
@charlotteclark6061 Жыл бұрын
Yep, that's it, cuz he calling & I assumed it was over.. Only days of no contact, but I really don't need him cuz he's selfish & thinks his kids are made of Gold. Just crazy! I'm tired of his games,idc of he's a Narcissist,I don't have time for NOBODY'S games! 😒😡
@benithacalloway8286 Жыл бұрын
my question is why coaches say when after the rebound don’t work they come to you it call place holder or you’re an option. When that happens he’s not going to respect you as he would respect the ones he thought he wanted. Meant to say you’re not his or her priority. They can never be happy with you. I’m soooooo confused. Isn’t it supposed to be like when the gras is not green on the other side meaning when the rebound doesn’t work they will come back to you. A good thing right? Or not? Are you an option when rebound didn’t work?
@thesavageboyschannel36436 ай бұрын
I did the no contact after 5 months she's marrying somebody else lol she said if I would have talked to her we would probably get back together. No contact is fake it doesn't work just call her ask if she says no move on
@julielopez8502 ай бұрын
My ex is getting married too all I did was try n reach out but haven’t for 3 months and now round out he is engaged.. told me I was his wife for a year and 7 months and now he engaged
@ranginijeyatharan6665 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice
@monir3275Ай бұрын
Contact after 3 months. Still the same. I set boundaries before No Contact. It's been awhile afterwards. But, I'm NOT bending...Stray Strong, Ladies
@cawi8450Ай бұрын
Did everything right during the relation and after the break up. No contact since almost 2 years. Sometimes they fail you. Not you them.
@msgs6850 Жыл бұрын
The way they came back in March wasn't good enough for me ! He's gotta do better i use to fall for the little things now im making him work .... And if he doesn't i still won't speak to him at all idc honestly...
@riley6740 Жыл бұрын
When someone becomes my ex, they stay the ex. I don’t do the backstroke. I don’t look behind me because I don’t want to run into something. A street, a pole or, if boating, I run into a sandbar.
@goldengodyse16856 күн бұрын
Idk why this popped up in my feed but some of you guys have to learn detatchment.Give a person what they give you. All these people speaking on no contact but why would you want a individual you have to play mind games with.Never tolerate disrespect.Make them stand on their words and action that caused the issue.Make a list of the pros and cons .No contact is a temporary fix.Whats not going to make them do the same thing to you again.Let them go.Im good at letting go.Once they cross you cross their ass out.Thats your power.Let then deal with the loss.Find you a new love and move on.Relationship coaches need to tell you guys this is a temporary fix.My new man is pouring life into me on all levels.Something my past didn't. Replace them with better.
@mona99336 ай бұрын
9 months now NC and his wedding invitation cards are out. He is getting married to somebody he met while we were together.
@amelie-db7guАй бұрын
Oof you are gonna do so much better. You dodged a bullet hope you can see that clear as day. Good things are coming.
@mona9933Ай бұрын
@@amelie-db7gu thank you so much 😊 🙏🏾. I believe Better things are coming 🙏🏾
@arleneramirez5408 Жыл бұрын
Yes I affirm this blessings I have no contact with them at all when we have a argument
@mysterybox8837 Жыл бұрын
Man I feel like I’m going to explode lmao , glad I came across this 🤣☢️
@denisehouston7805 Жыл бұрын
Great Wisdom Nuggets..
@lisamarievelez5428 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 They are an x for a reason. I was done the moment I said Bye
@christieleigh77286 ай бұрын
Me and my partner didn’t break up. I was disrespected and I stood up for myself. No contact 48 hours. Received a text this morning.. Apologizing, taking ownership, arranging to come visit, professing love. I learned a lesson - no contact is about me. I was moving on. I am prepared to move on at anytime now.
@JamieHager07272 ай бұрын
It’s been 7 months I no longer think about it anymore 👌🏽
@janayadevine2975 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much 🙏🏾 love this so true Thanks u very much
@user-fr9ho2nv9qАй бұрын
Some come back and some don't... the difference in btwn the two was that... with 1 i knew he wasnt coming back and i mourned him... with the other i knew he was coming... so i had peace
@Remorsecode12310 ай бұрын
What does it mean if your ex calls you “babe” during a phone call conversation? So I was on the phone with my ex. I called her after her father told me she was hospitalized. When I called her, we started having normal conversations. I don't know how, but she called me “babe” and mentioned something like "but my stuff is still with you, babe." I’m really confused right now. I’m thinking maybe she wants me back. The crazy part is that she told me that she’s seeing someone, and it’s just a rebound. I'm wondering if I should be the first one to ask her to start over or let her ask me, but I think she won't ask me because she's scared.
@idihamingomcalves8689Ай бұрын
I like your video brow Thks a lot
@anthonyyoung4872 Жыл бұрын
I will not text then and never begged and never chase then
@rhysdyson28807 ай бұрын
Why would you expect, or want your ex to come back to you after a breakup? Especially after you decided to cut ties, walk away, and. Not contact them anymore. Why would you the WANT them back? You chose to absolutely close that door?