That’s not true.

Well said.kind of ironic huh...

Prove it😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@StanleyBaldwin-um7jn literally y’all have never seen this happen in real life. It is a fucking Reddit talking point.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Mainly because the dude is attractive and ain’t trying to lose him

Exactly What he says can go both ways Alot of our men trying to look and act like a woman

Your body, your choice, rightf? Also, have you ever heard of the term Baby Trap? Yeah, I think you have. Nobody's asking these skeezers to get pregnant.

@@jetisonn1 - Oh be quiet … you BM have the temerity to look down y’all’s noses at the baby mama’s you willfully helped to create. Now go sit down at the kiddie table where you belong and wait to be told your opinion.

What do you mean??? What's another man's kid got to do with the new man she's looking for??? Man crazy.

Stop letting loser ass dudes inside of you. If you pick a guy to lay down with that isn't father material, then that's your fault. Most Black men are not pookies and ray Ray's. It isn't our fault y'all like loser ass dudes with no ambition, drive, job or proper education. You are making your own selves single mothers because of your poor choices in men. Then you Blame all Black men because you chose the scandalous ones. Take accountability!

It’s black women who are doing it. He simply gave a factual rebuttal that both discredited and disproved her inaccurate statement. Where 🤷🏽‍♂️ was the bashing? Your cognitive dissonance is what is actually ridiculous and embarrassing.

well that wont happen until there isnt a reason for them to bash each other. they built themselves a culture in america. not white people, they built it. a culture of crime, violence, terrible lifestyle, no responsibility and no respect for law and moral values. the single motherhood rate, obesity, crime rate, the behavior itself indicates that.

Black Women through their behaviors and actions have damaged themselves and our Culture to an astounding extent.They won't be right for a long time. Until they understand that shame and accountability are actual things. Until they get their Masculinity and their Hair in order, they will be basically useless. Sad for us but we've been overcoming since forever, so I imagine we will work this out somehow.

I never heard any woman say this in the 90s or early 2000s. Now that black women are starting to feel the consequences of their delusions and actions, now we hear cries for unity. Why though? You don't need us.

Where are the black men bashing women can you show me cause I’ve never seen that

We don't care what you think

We dont care😂

Well maybe you should go back to the Caribbean. Just saying. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Yeah but where your from they treat black women wayy worse

@JBingram89 facts. In the Caribbean you women get boxed all day for talking outta your neck. In America the women have all these ruled which allow crazy mouth to a run

Learn to hear the message behind the message. Not only does she get her claim wrong about black women being the most educated. Even if that was true, that's irrelevant. She also goes on to mention her accolades. None of which are of consequence for a romantic relationship with a man. And on top of that, she does so with a smugness and pompousness that is akin to the queen in game of thrones. Good for entertainment, not for a relationship.

@@reallyshel they're the most in debt and always begging who do they help most don't even pass nothing on to they kids because they're selfish and all the money goes to bills 😂😂

She won’t offer anything either.

@@reallyshel Men ask what a woman brings to the table. She is proud of her accomplishments; they aren't handing out degrees like Halloween candy.

@@24goodbuddy A woman's degree in a relationship is useless. That's my point. It's good for her. Not for "them". Y'all just putting too much emphasis on the external accomplishments instead of the underlying fundamental romantic compatibility that is needed to sustain a long term relationship. A degree is irrelevant in that regard.

Who chose to lay down with those men?

The same women who chose to open their legs before marriage 😂😂😂 Duh, easy answers

Many of you. That's why the system loves throwing our taxes at them. But most of you are too slow to recognize this almost a century old pattern....

you did, you chose to lay with him did you not?

@@Victhemightybaby I was married for 9 years… was married 6 year prior to having kids. Next! 😂😂😂

black people wanted to end racism, but ended up judging themselves based on the surface

There is nothing wrong with holding women accountable for their actions

@@Gr8rome407 Well, at this point it's not holding Accountable, it's just bashing and a lot of people are getting tired of it.

@@BadBloodOfAHustler Only those who cant admit they are wrong feel that way...you should not feel bashed if only the negative behaviors are being addressed

💯

Its because she never answered the question. All of her achievements and such will only benefit her. Let me put it in a different way. She's only going for a man that is at her level and above in all things she finds important. But will any of her financial success be available to both of them? Probably not. She will most likely be expecting the male to shoulder the financial burden. Everything she has Is all for her self sufficiency, aka when she plans to leave. Let a man have a plan for if he or she leaves and watch what happens. Most of the time he gets shamed for having those plans and is told that he obviously doesn't love her if he has a plan for if she leaves (Like when asking a woman to sign a prenuptial). Men ask the "what do you bring to the table" question because for all that she claims she brings to the table, while he will get none of it, its also not what he is really looking for in a woman. These are things she is looking for in a man. Sadly the things that men want a woman to bring to the table is something that is very easy for women, but they disregard it. Most men do not care about any of her finances or anything like that. All men really care about is that you be feminine, friendly and at the very least not someone he has to fight when he gets home. You can make more money than him, most of the time he won't care. You can be more successful than him, again, he won't really care. This is mainly because ,like I stated before, these are things he will never have access to anyway. Her success won't elevate his social status. So none of it matters to a man. We can easily tell that he will not have access to any of her accolades or achievements. This is evident in her last phrase "I bring me, and you can't sit with that" The I bring me speaks volumes to anyone who listens. Aka just her, no income or anything like that. But you will have to fight against her income. Because she will bring up that she makes more than you if she does

Are you slow?

She is acting like she knows what men find attractive and think thats gonna get her the man she wants but it won't. Pretty simple.

@@igpxmaster Not quite

@@SupaSnupak00pa So you are saying the ideal answer to this question would be: I'm feminine, friendly, nice and supportive? I get what you are saying completely. However, at least she is being honest with herself. If she is dating with the purpose to marry she is putting out there she is educated, she makes money and has her own stuff. She isn't seeking someone to take care of her and would be an add on to whatever a man brings not taking away.

Still wearing cut up eyebrows like some try-hard 8th grader. He just screams insecure dusty vibes.

They want to keep the black community poor and uneducated.

@♡ Lolita ♡ According to findings compiled in a study by the National Center For Education Statistics, Black women have been obtaining degrees at a consistently high rate for the last eight years and counting. Information collected about the higher education among African-Americans between 2009 and 2010 shows that Black women accounted for 68 percent of associate’s degrees, 66 percent of bachelor’s degrees, 71 percent of master’s degrees and 65 percent of doctorate degrees awarded to Black students during that time frame. T.I. Partners with Tidal to Launch ‘Money Talk With TIP For Education’ Challenge By both race and gender, the study also shows that Black women are enrolled in college at a higher percentage than any other group including white women, Asian women and

@♡ Lolita ♡ What misinformation did she spread? Black women are the most educated culture in this country. Black women are also getting paid more than black men.

Today: Most Educated Least Married 100 Years Ago: Least Educated(Supposedly) Most Likely Married

Weirdo

But he is stating the truth in america

​@@JBingram89no he's not

Simp harder. I'm sure they'll notice you one day.

@@brandondrew4914 miserable

your men are so handsome 😍❤❤❤

Shame on you

Good for you, so happy for you.

​@@erikmorales1004 Why did you be mean? 🥺😥

@@ms.divine2024 why on earth would you go with black when your own people better looking

cant unite with a group of people that cant pick who theyre attracted to or have kids with

@@RobinXlone I'm impartial to the gender war. Both, men and women need to do better, but it starts with the man.

Black women do better

@@23redcomet If you like men, just say so. We won't judge you.

@@23redcomet you complain

The irresponsible women who can’t tell the difference between a good man and a hobo are teaching boys to be soft as they teach girls to be masculine.

There are more quality husbands than wives. That's for dam sure. Look in the mirror

Modern BW that's who😂, these boys BW are raising are effeminate, they cannot conflict resolve unless someone dies, shytt they can't even change a tire, but they can dress and play Xbox till the cows come home though 😂

@@robertcortez3526 you are a liar bro... I don't see any quality men these days. Y'all behave like girls

Not the women, they forgot you have to make the man propose to you , not the other way around

That study is only talking about the Blk Community in 2015 mam. Stop spreading the false narratives 😂😂😂.

@@kingstrong5351 The yearly statistics are stated up above, including the most current year the statistics were recorded. Anyone can access the NCES's website for statistics relating to the year 2015 or earlier. It's a U.S. government website.

The part that yall are missing is the fact that those degrees arent really translating into anything. Most of these women arent studying difficult stem subjects that lead to solid careers. Thats why they also have the highest level of permanent student loan debt. Theyre getting degrees in communications, psychology and business administration and then going on to work entry level jobs in call centers. The man that went to trade school was actually more intelligent. By the end of that same 4 years he makes 70/80k+ with 0 student loan debt. Its been known for at least a decade now that the bachelors degree is basically the new high school dioloma. The market is oversaturated with graduates and it doesnt mean what it used to. Theres people literally driving uber with college degrees. 🤔

That's a whole lot of debt , no wonder they were the biggest advocates for student loans forgiveness

Now we can say that the wage gap doesn't exist. Thank you for this.

They could care less

Cos she said BW and quoted a stat. So basically using her own experience to represent every BW which is false advertising

And there's plenty of statistics that shows black women are second to white men when it comes to higher degrees!

@@jennalud4748 But what you don't realize is the question is what do you bring to the table you guys don't realize none of the things she named are what we actually are looking for... Therefore you're not bringing anything to the table. How do you guys not understand this?

@@Crisis201 Someone up top asked the question. I'm waiting for yall to confirm the answer. So the answer to what you bring to the table is fit, friendly, feminine, submission, and cooperation.

@@jennalud4748 white women and asian women have more degrees then yall. look it up.

You know black men are allergic to responsibility. 😅

@@Lenae23 it’s always that “you chose wrong” argument! How about they actually become men that black women don’t have to “wrongly” choose from

@@_Palesa_M Thts where u fukked up thinking men gonna acquiesce to what u want instead of going for actual real and true good character but is y'all who gonna continue to suffer

And they never talk about std and conviction rates of black men. Terrible.

@@_Palesa_M The women still chose at the end of the day, you decide who hits it or not. It takes two to tango...in plenty of cases we are both to blame. Let's just leave it at that

If thats the case then most of yall must be children, not adults because most of yall dont have any of what she mentioned.

​@@PhDiva02 Yep that's probably true

Lotta y'all "real men" can't even do the first thing you're supposed to - PROVIDE, that's why black women gotta be out here bringing the whole table and y'all intimidated . Next!

@@ms.massiah7466 that would not be a real man if he could not provide🙄 make better choices and stop being toxic

@@ms.massiah7466 - Lot's of men who can provide. Of course who wants to work hard for someone while the other wastes their money on fake hair, fake lashes, fake nails, fake lips, etc. You "show ponies" have more plastic than a barbie doll with even less character.

Hahaha 💯 most black men are broke and want a "submissive provider" 🤡🤡🤡🤡​@@ms.massiah7466

aka a slave that y'all can manipulate easily LMAOO💀

This issue is bigger than black and white. The whole western world has this issue. Women tout masculine characteristics (strength, dominance, competence, etc.) and then get shocked when men don't want them long term 🤦🏾‍♂️

And you think white men desire this attitude?

Why ? Cuz they calling you out females on your BS?

Yes, yes conference zone. 🤔

conference? lol now you really need to shut up

It was black women that first opened their legs when the Europeans came to Africa. Every black feminist is with a non black man 😂

Lets be real. That aside our ancestors wpuld be highly disappointed in what weve become. Get rid of rap and youll fix most of the problems.

How would they feel about bw aborting 20 million kids and counting mostly boys since 1970

Black men are the most involved fathers statistically when they live or co-parent

​@@ddontewith2ds791What rap got to do with anything

How nice it would be if we as black man and women start supporting each other it doesn't matter how many degrees you have earned.

​@@allanhunte5324That's true same I agree.

🤡🤡🤡 its sad how BW keep other black woman down smh

We dont ever care about yall enough to be mad. Lol.. Yall arent loved, liked or desired.

@@user-om5wk6zh4r By you. You don’t speak for the whole world.

@@user-om5wk6zh4rfacts!

I was thinking just the same. He took time out just to supposedly put her right! Another attempt to put down black women. He could he could have disagreed without adding the latter-an attempt to belittle

@@mee-mee1924 I have a simple short answer for him...."YOUR MOMMA!"

@@kfowl3656 honestly it's such a shame it has come to this. I'm getting Kevin Smith vibe ... not positive at all. #shame

@@mee-mee1924 they are ALL getting lined up, to pick up where Kevin Samuels left off. He got rich off the plight of black women! He death was very unusual, I must say. They ALL better be careful, whose feet they wanna follow! IJS

She went out of her way to spew arrogance, it’s a free world baby

When you try to build a man up chances are they will use you until they come up then get with a broke woman who thinks they are a provider

Right! men and women are competing for nothing because a lot of them still don’t know how to love one another.

You better speak!!!! 🗣

Aww you seem like you have a big heart. Protect that, all cost! ❤

exactly , this video hurt my feelings , at first i though she did something wrong so i was like, yo girl shut up. but then i realize she just was talking about her achievements

Or talking about going outside of the race for women! They can ALL go where they feel they must, just don't ask us to help when Becky nem' stab their a$$es, and the WS shoot them down, in the streets like dogs! The best and safest place for a black man is with a black woman, don't nobody understand our struggle in this world but, us! these ninjas be in denial of this WS system we ALL live under! Let them keep up this mess, see where that gets them!

Expressinf your thoughts isnt feminine, and what he said wasnt respectful but its true. On an individual sense it might not be of course

@@NoRockinMansLand expressing your thoughts through verbal communication is feminine. Otherwise men wouldn’t say women talk more than they do. Try again.

@@maatguidesme9691 im sorry, are you actually suggesting that verbal communication/talking to people is feminine??😂😂 please read what you write before you rush to respond because you're digging a hole for yourself

@@NoRockinMansLand SOCIETY sees communication as feminine, is that broken down well enough for you? Call centers are full of women, counselors at large are women, teachers are at large women, public relations are at large WOMEN, early childhood behavioral development shows it is boys who struggle with communication, and it is displayed from men into adulthood, can you see the pattern because It went over your head before? Gossip and clap back for someone who was minding their business and answering a question from their comments on social media about what she brings to the table, is also seen as FEMININE, even when sitting in front of a camera with a goal to make money from it.

i just went outside and smoked a blunt does that count

@@evilhitler6979 I guess you're somewhat wiser when high ?

@@ScientObject40 are you sure I feel retarded the comment section killed my braincells faster then the weed

@@evilhitler6979 no, just wasted money buying something that just puts smoke in your body, gives a short satisfying feeling that doesn't last, and stinks.

Thank you and yes I agree

THIS! This dude really gives me hypocrite vibes

@@justhere4food552 no this is a pretty well documented fact. Males aren't seeking security from females. So degrees and finances are an extremely low priority. I can guarantee you the hot Becky who works at the coffee shop can steal "Mrs degrees" husband if she really wants to. Beauty > bank in a man's mind (especially a successful one)

Because you dont fail to analyse the Friedman Robertson Walker model of the universe, but you fail simple things

@@leeroyhustle it would be nice to hear you just say we are glad women are getting educated to teach our children when they bring that hard @ss homework back from school. These kids are struggling in school. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to know this.

@@jonjeskie5234 Yeah, true in a sense. Eh think long term ... Seee a lot of men do this to themselves. You might cheat for looks but "beauty" looks overall fade... Just let that sink in. Honestly, I think that's why a lot of people fail at these 2022 relationships. Most leave people with value just for someone with the right amount of temptation lol and then they usually regret their actions later on in life. Yes, that's your opinion, and that's fine. I think it all depends on the man, at the end of the day. Loyalty is loyalty but yes with most men ofc a degree won't keep em but ion think anybody was strictly saying that it would. And I agree on the "successful ones" part

O stop the BS

You make a valid point. I like how you didn’t make your statement gender-specific. WE……but I guess some folks ignored that part 🙄

Right

All the back and forth finger pointing & deflecting get on my damn nerves.

Other races don't have to deal with this shit in mass. So yeah

My feelings exactly

💯

Yup

Literally. It’s soo predictable, boring, and exhausted that I already know what both sides are going to say. And there still won’t be any solution. In other news, we being targeted and killed all over the world, hidden agendas, poisoned waters like in flint Michigan… and… sigh… they still on “what do fee-MAILS bRaNg to Duh taBle?!” Sir. People are dying.

We gonna be going back & forth................................................ FOOOOREEEEVA *Cardi V voice* 😂😆😆😆😂😆😂

That's not even on the table. Too busy pointing out all our hurt and pain. Ugh *we are too busy playing the victim game!*

@@slim404 at this point I wouldn't be surprised if this was on purpose. They destabilized the homes, introduce drugs to the community, red line our advancements, imprisoned our men... Why wouldn't they also make us hate each other. People will say whatever you want if you pay them enough. We are starting to look crazy.

sign unfortunately they are too caught up in showing how spiritually immature we are

Men don't love women, they never have. Shout out to financially independent women. Stay strong Ladies, take no beef from peewees.

Frfr I love my sister

It’s because of her cocky and arrogant attitude which is highly obnoxious. Y’all get a little money and power and think you’re better than everyone else. Y’all are the most aggressive and argumentative women out there and this is why you are the least desired in the world.

Mad hater alert!☝️

@@josephsilas9945 you mad she’s right

What's annoying is that you guys think that we are insecure we're just telling you what we want.. You guys need to stop telling yourselves this just to justify bad behavior

The craziest thing is the 1st thing that came out of my mouth was a absolute lie and you skipped over it because it felt good when you heard it.. But it's false... All of these things that you guys say is important to you is not important to us do we not deserve to have what we want? Or just we are here to serve you only only?

And the construction worker was earning income while she was sitting in her Psychology 101 class, paid for by her student loan.

All successful black men are dating white women

🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ for the ones in the back‼️

😂😂😂 he really did spoken like a true fool 🤡 🤦🏽‍♀️

😂😂😂

That part!!

Right no tf he didn’t

It’s just the facts. Ignoring the facts only makes matters worse.

Yep it happens a lot

Mannn 😂😂😂

Facts

You’re implying that people should be dishonest and allow delusional individuals to spread lies just because they are the same race. But hey, I’m not black so I guess I wouldn’t get it 🤡🤡

@@atp180 Nah you're just a garden variety woman hater. How nice of you to come in and visit your fellow bussies of color. 🌈

@@atp180 According to findings compiled in a study by the National Center For Education Statistics, Black women have been obtaining degrees at a consistently high rate for the last eight years and counting. Information collected about the higher education among African-Americans between 2009 and 2010 shows that Black women accounted for 68 percent of associate’s degrees, 66 percent of bachelor’s degrees, 71 percent of master’s degrees and 65 percent of doctorate degrees awarded to Black students during that time frame. T.I. Partners with Tidal to Launch ‘Money Talk With TIP For Education’ Challenge By both race and gender, the study also shows that Black women are enrolled in college at a higher percentage than any other group including white women, Asian women and

Right, better to pretend you have no issues

No back in history and seem who had to work and try to hold them family together Who were the ones who took a stand for equal rights, black women, who's always leading the way, strong black woman Black men don't appreciate black woman enough

It's because she is lying, that's why. If people just try, do their best and not care what others think, that will help you have peace within.

Accountability isn't "beating each other down". He just called her out on her lies and BS. If yall did this more instead of enabling the criminals in your community maybe others might actually respect you?

@@Mr_Daddy1980 wait so it’s Black women’s fault that so many Black men are criminals? 😂😂😂 You can’t make this up.

@@brokeandnamelessnyc Please point out where I said that...

Over nearly the past decade-plus, Black women have been overachieving in the classrooms, according to a report by the National Center for Education Statistics that was released in 2020, the most recent year the data was made available.According to the National Center For Education Statistics (NCES), Between 2018 and 2019, Black women made up 68% of associate’s degrees, 66% of bachelor’s degrees, 71% of master’s degrees, and 65% of doctoral, medical and dental degrees.

Women raise boys with lies. Eventually, the man wakes up and can easily become a man who hates women.

Proximity and poverty.

Huh this isn't black on black crime. This is accountability. Because only black women will sprew out their mouth is don't need a black man. And blak man ain't shot. Them goes have kids with these same no SHIT men

Perspective is a bitch.

How exactly are we going to get anywhere by continuing to allow female delusion to damage our people?

Ask Willie Lynch...

And that's the problem of why Brothers like him have to keep making videos. As she is, she has no value to a man of value. Everything she described is nothing, meaningless. Women care about that when it comes to men. I have a degree and I'm making good money already. I went through the military to get mine so I have zero debt and no children. You think I care if a girl has a degree and is making "good money"? Women like her are automatically disqualified. 🤣 Purity, beauty, youth , fitness, feminity and submissiveness. For everything else I have my brothers, other strong black men that I can rely on when when I'm down as they can rely on me in turn. No one gives AF about women having degrees, I will never see women as my equal as women don't see children as their's. Go date other women or men in the streets.

Exactly! Young BW who are educated, have their own and can handle their own while being CHILDLESS should be celebrated more instead of being beaten down but I already know they do this to break their spirit and self esteem to make them easier to access and use and manipulate.

So here is the issue, did you not pay attention that she just bold face lied on the statistics? I love my black women, but yall got to stop defending when yall are in the wrong. Also you have to understand what a man wants, and the things she named men DON'T CARE ABOUT. The only thing she named that might raise a man's interests is childless.

If you deserve it you don't and shouldn't have to ask for it. If you deserve it then take it because it's yours , it belongs to you

These guys are idiots. It’s like the goose that laid the golden egg, they lack foresight. Black men don’t make it to middle class without marrying a woman with income, but they act like they don’t want a woman with awards, certificates, degrees and income. Maybe they are comfortable in poverty and should be left behind. They are allergic to responsibility and being a provider anyways.

You call it bitter yet he articulated himself just as well as her and could assume he has everything she has or more, you say bitter I say the truth hurts

@@opiumdealer101 not really, lol he may has been articulated, but the content of his words scream hurt. Like why was what any of she said deserving of such a hate filled ramble. It wasn't, he is just a hater

@@niagambino1714 thats all you have to say " he is just a hater"🤡

@@niagambino1714 what was hateful? Facts are hateful? When men ask you what you bring to the table we don't wanna hear about the crap YOU want being projected onto us, men and women look for completely different things in each other

@@fikayoomole8808 name one fact that he laid in this video. And really your reply is hilarious seeing as that all you can say yourself 🤡

Ummhmm.

Exactly.

And she’ll spend the next 35 years going through relationship after relationship because no man can fit her standards meanwhile the first guy that she dumped would have been married with kids in college by the time she wakes up… and then she’ll be looking at his Facebook like that could’ve been me And I can’t find a good man

Or if they're feeling upstaged

@@mrcarterfx885 Nah, she will be married by 30 with a man who isn't afraid of her accomplishments. Ive seen it happen 4-5 times now ;)

These brothers are weak. Ma. That's all. They're weak!!! Strength has no gender that's like telling a lioness, female hawk, falcon etc. They're too strong and masculine. Foh. Stay beautiful black and strong these dudes aren't gonna make it.

Sista I hear you ..but a table is an inanimate object which is to be made or set upon . The more I hear women answer this question in that way . Shows they are not really thinking about question..the answer always comes from a narcissistic view point and always pertains to I operable variables in a relationship

BW are absolutely NOT the highest paid. Good grief stop repeating this lie

Your analogy is pretty close..... The problem is that you are part of the minority. Women just don't get it... Your degrees and money are not attracted to Men. Women like yourself have developed a BALANCE 👈

Thank you I totally agree with you. I disagree with both points as well.

Why is facts demeaning? Black women place this pressure on us, and can barely respect us. If she said I bring respect kindness, support, and love no one would bat an eye, because that’s literally what matters, not some stupid degree the white man gave out

So you didn't hear one word of the foolishness coming out of that woman's mouth

Hopefully you're making comments like these on die vester channels who call for the mass murder of bm

They never do bruh

As a non black man you are not always in your men's corner. Please stop the cap. Why do you guys lie to yourselves so much? Stop playing victim. I bet you won't answer me

Do you sell Donuts in the US?

Well said❤️

💯 💯, yes 🙌🏾 it’s a beautiful thing to see.

My parents been married for 40 years, I know what you mean.

All men and women do is argue all day. Like y’all get together and make some love and shut up. All y’all just miserable and single. Fighting fighting fighting. I’m glad I found my king cuz I’m sing of the back and forth with y’all. I’m off the market 💍

The samething I know.

Shiii they started. Why do you think more and more bm are getting with difference races

​@@jackcable1028 No! The group that's supposed to be the "head" but has no problem submitting and being the "tail" started it! Black women have always followed black men's "lead", good, bad and indifferent! If black men were operating in their true function as MEN the black community wouldn't look the way it does! Black men literally created the very community they complain about! How about y'all raise your daughters and be a positive influence to black girls so they learn and see the type of women y'all say y'all want! 🤔 Oh that's right! Y'all have a worldwide reputation of abandoning families y'all helped create (your "seed" so powerful right?, but it can't keep you in the home 😂) and to busy chasing the skirts of nonblack woman so that'll never happen my bad!

It's the African American community. Not all black communities are like this. I'm African. We don't humiliate each other like this. African American men and women humiliate each other but I have to say it was the men who dropped the ball first. Left African American women to fend for themselves, made single mothers, made these women hard and masculine because they wanted to play as fools instead of being men. Now they complain so much while calling their women b!tches and such. An African man would never refer to his woman as his b!tch. That's disgusting and disrespectful but it's so normal in the African American community. Ew

​​@@jackcable1028 did you know that the divorce rate for African American men is just as high when they marry outside their race as when they marry black women? However African American women marrying outside their race tend to stay married. It's a shame African American women are so loyal to African American men because they are the least likely to marry outside their race from all ethnicities. Look up divorce stats on the US census and you'll see the issue with African American men. Y'all are embarrassing. There is a reason the whole of Africa think African American men are a joke. We aren't laughing with y'all either, we laugh at y'all. Bunch of lazy mfs. All that opportunity in a free country but can't stop whining. No wonder the African American women became so masculine, she has to compensate for the beta that is the African American man.

@@Freya1412 first off I ain't American 😂second those are recent studies go back a little further away you'll see for yourself

He did, he exposed her lies and went viral for it, get over it 🤣 🤣🤣

@@kingstrong5351 now who is delusional. Yall are unstable creatures.

@@kingstrong5351 actually he exposed his own ignorance bc you can actually find statistics by state, college, etc on how many blacks/whites/others, males/females/etc attend & graduate. 🤷🏾‍♀️

She thought she ate but she didn't

@@lesliejohnson-nelson4003 alright pickmesha

Yeah Whatever happened to building?

She prefers pookies 2am booty calls 📞 🤣-in 5 years she will have 3 kids to 3 different men & will be complaining men are no longer interested in her....😭

That’s was 29 years ago times have changed and life is harder

@@roxywyndham 🤣 🤣 "LiFe iS HaRdEr" No.

@@inshaallahhephzibah2640 They're not building anymore, they just want to move in and take the house, they didnt help build, when they leave.

No my dear, men are looking for wives that complement, complete them, not match and compete with them.. A left foot is looking for a right foot, another left foot will just get in the way. Men naturally want to protect and provide, they want a woman who will play HER role (bearing and raising his children, nurturing the family), not his role...

@@DLBMOS exactly. They don't want a woman that has assertiveness toughness if that's the case they'd date men but want a feminine woman who is caring and nurturing & kind wife material like to take care of their off springs. Not a woman that talks so damn much! They just want Food sex and peace of mind that's it. 😌

Ok ask yourself this. If u in a relationship with someone who this proud n gloating about eating 70k n a few degrees do u think they gonna respect u or fight u at every turn? I only see BW doing this no other race is so obsessed with their personal accomplishment even tho they tend to accomplish more to the point they use it as a weapon against their own partners. That's bcos it's normal to them we BF earn a lil money n we become so pompous and rude to people we are in relationships with. I remember my uncle losing his wife as soon as she got a new job that paid her more she started treating him so bad. I jst don't understand why BW r so nasty like that in western society.

@@truthspillaz2 1. She was only counting/listing her achievements because she was asked or challenged. Its dumb to state things the two of them already know about because they live it everyday. 2. I'm African who is 2nd gen American/Canadian. Back in Africa..women are Queens and can take commoner husbands...the men don't make a fuss and understand that each individual male or female have a purpose to accomplish in their life..whether its higher or lower then that of their spouse. 3. Women are not hungry for competing for titles. We work hard and earn them for ourselves..not to trump our men. Most (unevolved) men especially Black Men here whine and bicker about the smallest achievements we make as if to be jealous or compete with us even at home. BM must understand..life is for the living..and without the need for sex and intimacy, women are fine on their own. That's a powerful and strong advantge which BM often forget

@@truthspillaz2 U say ur dad owns a mansion and Im sure has afforded ur mother a lifestyle where maids and "common helpers" to chop off fresh hens and stand on top of furnacea for that good Jollof rice. Married for 35 years yet I doubt ur mother had to both work hard at home and outside. Im sorry to say this..if a man cannot provide comforts for his wife then he has not earned the title of "Master". It is his duty to be a generous provider..not a miserly one who penny-pinches and forces dictatorship down everybody's throat. Lets not confuse privelaged living and exceptions to the lifestyles of average citizens in America where it is expected that fathers and mother have to clean their babies bums and nappies.. not the maid (aka the neighbour's daughter). Where they both have to stand under the sun after a long days work to cut the grass. Where "Masters" have to take the garbage out, even in Nigeria.. its not all roses for the average citizens. The 70K u say so what about..helps clothe and educate and put a nicer roof on families in a safer gun free area instead of living off a 40K single father salary who cant secure a better stable job due to being an ex convict incarcerated for a crime he has not even comitted. Ur grievances are rooted from a sense of entitlement. The average BM's grievances stem from an unjust social system in America and they take it out on no other but their women. If ur father mistreated ur mother in the slightest way and she was empowered believe me she would call the JuJu masters on him till he comes back begging her forgiveness with 40 cows and 3 SUVs. But the average African American woman deals with a whole lot of crap and breadcrumbing from their broken men who have not felt the true power of mahood nor were raised to be go-getters in a dog eat dog world society like here. I am raised here..Muslim..and still a virgin becauae the conditions of companionship in this part of the world is repulsive given the men who have approached me. Endless dating and no marriage. Wanting the flesh but no committment. No giftgiving or trying to win a woman over. Running away from meeting the fathers..the list goes on on how broken and afraid these men are. Unless they are seduced there is no way they can get themselves to make any progress. Im fortunate to choose not to date due to my faith..but from what I see around me annd what I have been exposed to..its a trashy situation. The men are losing their testosterone.

*financial success. She seems to be struggling in the dating world... which makes perfect sense considering how she is.

@@jonjeskie5234 me too, its hard to find someone who’s worth it.

@@jonjeskie5234 she wouldn’t struggle if she dated white men or Asian men. Only black men beat down black women who come with standards.

70 thousand lol ! Please lol!

@@GoBooYourself uh there are entire movements of white guys pursuing Asian and Latin women because they are fed up with the feminist western women... have you ever wondered why so many white guys go to the Philippines to get a wife? 🤨

You misinterpret what is being said. This is based on statistical data from data apps and other sources. Stating a fact is not an attack. Like it or not BW are losing in every relational category against other women. We point it out because we want BW but BW are extreme feminist and are combative when it comes to taking their medicine! We want to see you win sis, it directly affects us. But we can't act like $#!+ don't stink!

@@davidperry4310 David do you not think that there could be an improvement on both sides?

Well. Statistics from dating apps proves it.

@@sheiladavis9130 No one is perfect, but when it's time to wash my car, I don't knock on everyone else's door to see if they need a haircut. I just do what I got to do. To me that's like saying BW are not willing to change until the BM is perfect. I don't know why our sistas always bring up we got work to do. Many of the things sistas complain about are in the lower level guys. Just leave them alone.

@@sheiladavis9130 No one is perfect, but when it's time to wash my car, I don't knock on everyone else's door to see if they need a haircut. I just do what I got to do. To me that's like saying BW are not willing to change until the BM is perfect. I don't know why our sistas always bring up we got work to do. Many of the things sistas complain about are in the lower level guys. Just leave them alone.

There you go feeling again. What is the whole point of their back n forth though? Like seriously at the end of the day what was gained? Someone's feelings got hurt or ego was bruised. Because ultimately there's an underlying lack of respect on both sides. She could be pulling up in a Tesla and he's on an electric bike he built himself. (Bc yes Blacks were the original inventors). Point is who cares it doesn't matter. We all have some THING to bring to that table. It's never been about whose table it was to begin with. Let's build, let's network, and level up for the culture! 💪🏾

I do not ever see a black woman uplifting a black man, so talk to your sisters and see what the fuss is about

Facts don’t care about your feelings

@@smfdysmf6969 😂😂😂😂🤷🏽‍♀️

I guess there will be no unity with those mind sets . It’s okay. You should do what makes you happy

👏 👏👏 exactly

threatened wtf😭😭

How did you see threatened? He bought statistical facts...are facts now threats? The simple thing is that she did all those things and I am proud of her but she obvious dates guys below her or she can't keep a guy...she wouldn't be on social media doing this telling us her resume if she did

Doesnt sound like he's threatened to me. Sound like he's correct the wrong with facts. Where is the lie?

@@av8r_art he didn’t bring up any facts all he said was PHD‘s are representative of education but that doesn’t have anything to do with education and wealth, anyone can go to school and get a degree and some debt, but tell me out of the top 10%, how much of those people have PhD‘s that they’re actually making money off of?

Ohhh trust me & the feelings are mutual

I’ve definitely kicked a dude to the curb for his stinkin thinkin

Nah this the kind of man they hate cause he got a white girl 😂😂

@@Nick-bd4tf I promise you there’s no hate just pity for his self hatred and naivety.

Yep, you are 100% correct. I met BM like him when I was young and dating, and I realized if this is how they view BW, I'm better off going where I will be loved, valued and appreciated. Now I am married, when BM like him said I would be single, lonely, and ran through because I was "too masculine". He foolishly said with his chest men don't care about a woman's degree and ability to make money, only her ability to be a wife. It's clear he doesn't interact with other races of men. As a BW married to a Chinese man, his parents would have never accepted him marrying an uneducated woman, with no capacity to add to the families fortunes. Only BM think like the fellow in this video and it's exactly one of the reasons why black love does not build generational wealth. BM been hoodwinked by their white massa, they don't understand an educated wife brings in supplementary income, which further stabilizes a family's financial situation and helps to generate wealth for HIS children. Even the Holy Scriptures talks about how a Proverbs 31 woman has wisdom and brings in money. In China, in wealthier families the wife has her own business separate from her husband, heck in ancient Chinese culture the dowry was usually a business the woman owns that she brings into her husband's household, and if he divorces her she takes her business with her.

Having a job and having your own place is not bringing anything to the table, those are basic necessities. Every adult should have a job and their own money and not have kids put of wedlock. She doesn't get a pat on the back for this.

@@ejay2075 if you're black you do. even as a man i absolutely take pride in having a home a car a job and no kids, so it's definitely not bare minimum for a woman

@@Chris-ir7tc I don’t think the people who say it is nothing pay their own bills nor do they understand the concept of money. Most black men don’t even make it to middle class without the income of a wife, if they were responsible they would know a woman like that could really enhance their life. It’s pure immaturity.

@@ReisePiece No manly man looks for a woman to enhance his life. in most cases when women are the bread winner they talk down to their men like their children. Enhancing a man's life is not about the finances, it's about the encouragement and the support they give the man that will give him the energy to run through walls for a her

@@devaughnholt3284 you can say finances don’t matter in a woman, but no woman is going to be satisfied stuck in lower class. It would be better for a woman to live on her own if her life isn’t enhanced financially and otherwise

She's wrong and she won't find a guy with that attitude.

@@thadonjuan2339 by that logic, she will be alone and rich bc ALL men want a woman that has nothing going for herself. 🤦🏾‍♀️ you can’t blame a woman for having high standards when she has achieved more than most men ever will.

@@SydTheBeautifulManifester what are you talking about? What has she achieved that most men never have. The average man makes more than the average woman. The point is men and women aren't the same. Women want a man with money, not the other way around.

@@thadonjuan2339 not exactly. Women want a man who provides in more ways than just financially. Once a man can be trusted to take care of himself, he can be trusted to take care of her, and in turn, she’ll ALLOW herself to be taken cared of. But if a man can’t be.. a MAN, and ensure he’s got it together, how can she expect him to meet her needs as a partner? As for the average man average woman, if you really look at it from a relationship standpoint, both have the space to build together, but let certain standards get in the way. And building together is more than how much each partner makes per year. It’s about investing in a future, ensuring their children and grandkids have something of value to maintain. It’s about breaking generational curses and building wealth in the family. The woman in the video said “I won’t ask for what I can’t offer” why should the man ask for what he can’t offer? What can he offer then?

@@SydTheBeautifulManifester men dont want career women sorry. u can have a regular job but being a mother is way more important than a career

That is true. That's what she feels She brings to the table and how she believes it's valuable, but the things she values men don't value in aggregate. A man does not want a ignorant or stupid woman, but degrees don't impress a man in the same way that degrees and success will impress a woman. A man is not looking for a provider in a mate. He is looking for a nurturer and a supporter.

@@tiaquannewebb8702 Perhaps that may be the case for some men but defiantly not all men. Women want security and trust and stability so then can at some point be a mother and not have to work as your equal partner while there is a babysitter who raises a child who grows up with zero respect for their own mother and father as it is a true fact in most rich and wealthy families who have nannies 24 seven. Personally I would recommend this wonderful lady to perhaps start dating outside of United States because the mentality of American culture is utterly destroyed to a point where you are a man or a woman you’re always putting money and materialistic things before anything. Thai so why I tell women never say your an independent woman, as I do not believe that weather your a men or a women we as humans are always dependent on one another. I prefer to use the phrase self-sufficient. We all need and want each other . But I guarantee you if you are a man who has everything you sir are not looking for a self-sufficient woman aka independent women .

Her answer wasn’t for her, she was answering for ALL black woman and then obviously turned it into a race thing by saying black people are smarter and richer which idk what graphs she was looking at but no studies there to support it

Well he was also just responding to the part where she lied and made up a statistic too so it's fair.

@@KRISTINAGMLS You said not all men. I want to tell you that all men don't care about your education and success. Why, because men have always been financially responsible for both, from the first date we have to pay. Ladies have already required us to have a car a job and a place to stay. Just look at all the social media posts of ladies saying that they refuse to pay 50/50 when it comes to household bills. Ladies want traditional men but are not traditional. Ladies can try to go overseas to date men outside America but those men overseas are actually more traditional and will require a more traditional wife with new modern day wife duties. You don't choose to cook clean and work you better cook clean work raise the kids and submit to overseas men.

That part , man is so sissy

Some of the things he stated are the truth. Black women do not like when black men voice their opinion.

@@kbflawless93 what? how did u reach to that conclusion?

You just proved it with your comment. He said nothing degrading, he replied to what the woman was saying. You were ok with accepting her fake stats , but when a man correctd her its a problem. Blk women dont like when we blk men voice our opinions

@@cedscorpio5657 hint hint, look at the title of the vid, what does it say? by saying that black women have the highest degrees of these traits, ur r treating them as a monolith and not as the complex and nuanced beings as they r. and she provided true statistics abt black women, the guy talking is just pulling bs out of his ass. don’t believe me? google is right in front of u

Indeed .... let's keep it moving ...

Facts

Another episode of...blk women telling lies again getting owned with facts.

Not another one

And yet you're here. Don't like the truth? Everything other BW podcast says BM ain't shit with no facts to back up the statement and you're all for that but when you get hit with facts about yourself you wanna exit? Make it make sense.

Because black men hate black women

Exactly!! Why shade an educated woman who's not saying anything to offend anyone? I seriously don't get why all the hate from boys on this woman

@@mscece1900 she wasn't asked about her personal achievements. She was asked what she brought to the table as a far as a relationship. She led with her education, job, and independence. Considering your statement, you clearly are unaware, that is not conducive to beginning a relationship. Let me help in this way: What the question "what do you bring to the table" is asking is simply, what do you bring to this man that will make his life peaceful? Your degree,jobs, and independence is the wrong answer just so you know.

@@shaungarrett5291 there's no right or wrong answer to that. She gave the answer that made sense to her. That's what she feels she brings to the table, so you saying it's wrong is solely your opinion. You can't determine how a woman should answer that because it's based on how they see themselves and their qualities. Yall getting bent outta shape and stressing over a simple response 😆😅🤣😁

@@mscece1900 yes there is a right or wrong answer. Those answers may be subjective but there is a right or wrong. The question was about relationships, not her personal achievements. As a man, I'm telling you as a woman, don't lead with your degrees or job. That is not what a relationship is about.

Simp, momma's boy.

Yeah time is running out when Bio clock kicks it’s game over for her…

The more money a woman makes the higher the likelihood of divorce

This is cap. She did a good job listing what she has. She did a poor job of saying what she had to offer. Classic case of women being completely clueless about men.

Frail a$$ ego's

Facts!!! They dont want u to have shit until its time for the divorce and they got to cut that check monthly lol

I don't encourage mediocrity, and most BLack women college educations are mediocre. Just look on the stats of Black Women when i comes to Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math (stem). How is it there's more Black women that are in college than black men, yet there still more Black men in S.t.e.m majors? Black women are literally going into debt for trash majors.

Oh she did lmao

I don't think so. Why do you guys have to be like this? Like I'm being serious, these are genuine things he's pointing out. It's called constructive criticism.

👆🏿I-🙀 we found the black male worshipper. His static’s are from the incel websites.

@Tiffany W nah she didn't stuck a nerve just some feminist bullshit. You and women like her will stay being single.

right?! 😂

She didn’t do nothing. Black men tear down black women with standards. Only black men date hypergamously and It’s actually the reason the black community is a mess - Full of single moms that black men turn around and then blame black women for not “picking better”. So a black woman comes with standards and she’s called “selfish” for having boundaries, and expectations. How dare she expect her man to be able to support his entire family with his income! She should be willing to risk her life to have his kid and still get back out there and work a full time job cause he can’t support his family on just 50k a year. On top of that, he gets access to 🐱 for free. Black men call that a fair deal from a “good” black man. Here’s reality: She can get paid by the hour for the D. She can get a roommate to pay 50/50. A cat makes a more reliable and loyal companion than a black man. Black women have been dating black men hypogamously and it’s getting them killed 3x faster than her white counterparts. Our sister is on the right track in choosing to date hypergamously. The only thing she needs to understand is that there are no black men who can meet her expectations. Most just can’t and the few who can would prefer to give it all to a white woman. She needs to find her a white or Asian man. You don’t see them making videos calling their women selfish for having standards. They don’t make music calling their women b!ches, thots, whor.. they don’t abandon their children. They marry their children’s mother. Black males are effeminate and use women as a resource. They seek out the 70k woman with talk about 50/50. They then switch it up and she end up paying 100% of everything while he rests in his femininity. Then she get to sits there proud that she, at least, has a “man”. lol.