Mel wasn't listening and ran off with an incorrect perspective

@@bangmain5355 Yall niggas love being broke and in need of a care taker. smh

@cheatingscoobydoo if you don’t get that idk what to tell ya

@@bangmain5355⛽️💡

@cheatingscoobydoolove her no matter what she’s worth or love her as she is

I can tell why some women are single

He lo key just exposed how selfish Mel an most women are

That's a fact 💯💯

Exactly…these females in this society is soo annoying‼️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️it’s really sad smh. But according to the black female “all men ain’t shit”…well alotta of em need to start lookin in the mirror as well💯💯💯💯

Yep! he understood what the message was...all these women getting triggered over light bill.

Why did those relationships end?

Exactly 💯 relationships and real love should never be about money.. it is supposed to be for richer or poorer

​@@chanceklein They ended because no woman with a healthy amount of self-esteem and worth wants a low wage earning ninja😅

@@catmouse2882he’s college educated and is a working man … We have no clue why they ended. Crazy of you to assume that!

@@chanceklein🫢

Exactly 💯. It's extremely difficult for a lot of women to look in the mirror.

Damn lol

She just haven’t met a nigga like me yet

@@dallastx3322 🤣🤣🤣🤣based on her age and datin history i think its safe to say she's met alot of "niggas"

How much of a priority does she make romantic interest tho? Everytime she talks it doesn’t seem like romantic partnership is her focus or her priority in her life and maybe she’s not mad at that.

Thank you

Yes he was very much on point about everything he said and explain correctly..

Right!

It wasn't that complicated🤦🏽‍♀️

Well, women have preferences just like all of us. I don’t fuck with fat women, or women who can’t cook. Nobody gonna tell me to change my standards. So I’m not gonna tell a woman what her standards should be. If she wants a man with money, don’t shame her for that. Just get your Money up you Brokies.

We arent confused. We just said, F*ck Outta Here! These bums r always looking for black women to be there come up woman. And then it's a thankless position, at that. Yall dusty's dont even be grateful. Most bw are the breadwinners in their homes, meaning, they are more than likely ALREADY taking care of a "man", yet, look at how they do nothing but trash bw or LET bw be trashed knowing damn well they wouldnt have a roof over their head or food in their belly's if it werent for a black woman, yet they will us get trashed mercilessly by males who dont do sh*t for nobody, incl their damn selves.

Then why not listen to the WOMEN in his community about what their struggles and needs are. As a rich man YOU DONT TELL A BW HOW TO OR WHAT TO DO with their money, hearts, bodies nor emotions, without at least having a 2-Sided conversation. He did say at your worth.... BUT IF THE WOMAN´S WORTH IS NOT NEXT TO A BROKE ASS.... WHO IS HIM TO TELL HIM WHATEVER?? This why as men, you are never beating the allegations of mistreating your own.

@@claualexis1737 👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌👏👏🙌🙌🙌Now THAT is how real men responds!!!!!!

How tf can a man or woman have peace if all they can afford to do in life is pay a light bill? Yall sound ridiculous, doing mental gymnastics to make this sound less awful than it really is. Yall shld be ashamed of yourselves but instead yall are doubling down and trying to make running from manhood palatable to black women who deserve SO much better. Tyler's gay ass need to go preach to his own community and stop worrying abt how to keep BW's self esteem so low that she cant see the grift that is before her.@@Agent_Number13

and thats how a realistic man responds. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

Are you married? No disrespect. I just had a daughter myself and I want to know the right way to go about teaching her things

Most black man are deadbeats so, u not even shouting out no one 😂😂😂

Good for you

I'm in 80s baby, and my mom always made more than my pops. He was still 100% man, protected his fam (my brother nd I), and provided as much as he could, where he could, when he could. I grew up just fine, make a respectable money, and hold my fam down (and lady), who makes less now. My path was different than his. Ultimately who cares...cuz love should trump all. Your backhanded statement sounds like a stray, at men like my pops 👎🏾👎🏾😂 Its also why a lot of modern black women will end up old, lonely, and die alone.

@@StinkMello12the OP didn’t say anything about their father making more money than their mother. you *interpreted* their comment as backhanded because of your personal situation that you described (your mother always making more money than your father). all the the OP said is they’re glad their father set a good example for them of what manhood, protecting, providing, and showing up for the family looked like. it sounds like your father was a good example of that for you too, regardless of him making less money than your mother. you *projected your own experience* onto this comment, taking it personally and assuming it was a negative take on your experience. protecting, providing, and showing up for family includes SO many things, not only the monetary income contributed.

isn't she a porn star? can't expect too much from folks in that field

AT YOUR WORTH not at your worse clean your ears

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@@johncapo2843😂😂exactly

That's all any of us needed to hear. 😂😂 No REAL man is proposing to a woman for whom he can only pay one utility bill. That is so NON masculine.

@@princellasmith7562 Jesus Christ was a broke/poor carpenter. Yes I'm throwing Jesus in this argument. 😂

Faacts!

Yall are so comfortable with being in a bitches position that yall are fighting it tooth and nail. Only black men are okay with this bullshit. This is why the rest of the world doesnt respect yall. Yall dont even care that youre comfortable being in the position of a woman. So damn sad how men have gone from being kings to slaves to now wanting to either BE a woman or be takin care of by one. Tragic.

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Please 🙏 Preach

YES!!!!!

@@reddingmalik Dating down for men isn't a issue whatsoever! Its when we date down SIGNIFICANTLY that presents endless problems. I'm all for paying all of the bills, however, a woman who enters a relationship with only the shirt on her back is a COMPLETE liability!

FACTZ

Men are some of the most emotional beings on earth

Demeaning statement. Mel is speaking from a place of passion- black women are expected to settle no matter where we are in life.

@@mrspgrewabsolutely!

So you are okay with black men making less than black women on average? You are okay with every other male group out earning their female counterparts by $10,000 or more, and bm being ok with only being able to contribute a light bill payment to the household? Where will the bm sense of pride come from, being some kept man?

He did. She missed that point.

Obviously she knows that the topic was about woman being the bread winner! Lol

​@Aliciaw867 She's the one that brought it up as one of her talking points on the topic about expectations of women at 7:20 I was just pointing out those two points are not specific to just women

And we can all do that as single

@@MariyahBrown-fi4hmthen be single 🤷🏿‍♂️

@@mbonds44 you be single

As many women

Emotional driven response, right? 😅 typical women character

She was better as a guest tbh

She not intelligent but they let her say this silly shit lol 😂

NO POINTS!!! NONE whatsoever!!

That typical Mel. I don't care for her being on here

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He usually does 😅

He really didn’t. The first question I would’ve asked that would’ve shut all them up. So, you will be ok with y’all daughters being the breadwinner and their men staying at home. Because let’s keep it real! It sounds good when they talking to random females . But, they won’t have that same energy with their baby girls. So, if you want be ok with your precious daughter doin it then you just talking a bunch of BS! Also, people not getting Tyler message because everyone is focus on the woman settling. The real message was that BM are at lowest of every other race of men when it comes to having their finances together, having wealth, having a career. That’s why he specifically said black women. Because BW will most like seek a BM. He’s saying BW will most likely not see that from a lot of BM so show them grace. That was the message.

“Won’t be ok”

@@crystalthomas6064 In Tyler Perry's statement everything else was good, it was just the money not being equal so yeah having my daughter in that type of relationship would not be a bad thing. He said what needs to be done in this transitional time period with women becoming more and more equal to men when it comes to finances. They will need to start taking up that role or be okay with being alone with the fwb. Men will also need to be able to take on the other side of the role without feeling lesser than.

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It doesnt matter. Love dont pay the f'n bills!! Yall stay talking abt emotional shit when the rest of the world is passing yall non-ambitious asses up. The point is, hardworking black women deserve to be with hard working men, not males who cant even afford to take care of themselves bc if all they can afford to pay is a light bill, then that means he cant feed, shelter, or clothe himself but yall dusty's want to keep putting lipstick on a pig bc yall dont really wanna do shit in real life. Thats why yall r okay with being taken care of by a woman. Yall dont wanna work hard, but yall want to benefit off of a woman's hard work. What a bunch of bitches black women got stuck with. Thats why Im SO glad we r finally waking up. Black men are TOO damn comfortable with being in a female position. Sickening.

That part!

This is even a debate in nonblack communities. This shit is embarassing. How tf are yall kings but need a woman to support or even help support you?? GTFOH

And if u think that that is gonna change ANYTHING abt how Melyssa navigates her personal life, than I wouldnt be surprised if you were one of those "I can only afford a light bill" kind of kid😂, cuz, alpha men dont need women to lower their standards for them.

@@DanceArchives24 This wasn’t about Melyssia. You missing the point.

He right though that equally yoked stuff be bullshit

How did she "prove" that?

She proves some women don't listen and comprehend well and those particular women don't hold themselves accountable.

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​@@bangmain5355a small minority of women hold themselves accountable.

Can you hold black men accountable for killing each other like it's goin out of style??

Statistically black women aren’t out earning black men but they’re a few thousand from matching it

“It’s only happening in our community” So women took all this time to fight for more pay and become more independent but now that they are black men are thinking this is some male castration and black women are downing men now?

Women don't wanna listen

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He literally said black women NEED ro be with broke men who can only pay the light bill 😂

She Canadian anyway keep that food

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Right

Man thats why I hate debtaing/ conversating with women they hear what they wanna hear. 4 men said he said worth, but you think he said worse and since you a woman you right

Oh please. Yall want to pretend that was he said was deep that many could draw different conclusions from it, meanwhile it's not that complex. He thinks that it's ok for black men to do next to NOTHING while the woman shoulders most of the burden. So if that woman shld die, that black man is gonna be HOMELESS bc he cant take care of himself or anybody else. Yalls gaslighting days are OVERRRRRR. Either step up and compete like other male groups, or get left with desperate women who dont mind that the male she has chosen aint shit and will never be shit.

Wrong.

He wasn't.

Glad I'm not the only one, he definitely said worth. Him saying worst wouldn't even make sense in the scenario because she was the bread winner

They act off emotion and he definitely said “worth” Not“worst” it wouldn’t even make sense with his statement 😹

Spice girl Mel b?😏

Is there ever a time she doesn’t?

I also hate how she plays dumb to the narrative that this is not embedded into our culture. That you can ask ANY black women and they will tell you they aren't planning on splitting shit with no body. I understand why, but it there.

​@franchizeism referring to Melyssa Ford. And I wouldn't say she looks like melanie brown who got pregnant for Eddie Murphy

Its the Western way

Thats right and now we realize being single is better than having to take care of a useless, broke ass male that cn only "pay the light bill". We choose PEACE, bitches🤣🤣🤣And btw, contrary to YALLS own beliefs, there are PLENTY of nonblack men that want/desire black women. I see them. I know some of them. Black women have REAL options😂😂😂

Also, arent the Passport Bros "single"? Isnt that the reason why they have to travel to the poorest countries to find "love"?😂

BINGO 🎯

But yall will take advice from a SINGLE man without an accomplishment to his name. Shut yall useless asses up. We're sick of yall. If yall cant pay for yourself, you dont hv the right to speak on SHIT but the light bill...that is, of course, if the amount due doesnt exceed his poor lil Tink's income😂

Basically she a typical woman (hear what she want to hear and run with what SHE heard).

Facts

Exactly!!!!!!! But these bums dont get it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Basically, she's saying BM need to attain higher education so they can get a good job and stop crying on the internet.

@@starrr2you that would actually have to be men to do something for themselves and that's a hard thing to do so the internet is the easiest

​@@starrr2youwell when they do it and don't pick you dont be crying then😮

Exactly!!

Punto

@@LSULADYTIGERS "Loving you at your worth" has nothing to do with money, it's about the way the man is treating her, attention, respect, fidelity and so on. This is so easily understood if the man was the one with the money but as soon as it's the other way around the woman is somehow selling herself short.

@@LSULADYTIGERS This is cap these women espallically BW hook up with dudes that can't even pay the light bill, even have kids with them 🙄these women ain't worth much

It doesn't matter who he loves at their worth. In this scenario, the woman is loving him at his worth bc he can't do much else but pay a light bill and take her to a dinner...maybe ...once in a while.... Guess y'all will be having dates at her home, since he can't afford to take her out. 😂 b real. He can't even court her properly. This is going to be an imbalanced relationship. Even a guy who is a manager at Walgreens makes more than enough to pay a light bill. The guy that Tyler Perry is auditioning for his next struggle love movie has no reason to be dating a high earning woman, unless the arrangement is that he wants to be kept and she wants to keep him. That's not the scenario most black women want, so I don't know why he is even suggesting such foolishness to us.

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Great, have fun with that!!! Black men not the only option if they can’t step up DIVEST! TF

Actually men are. Because she don’t agree and he was really referring to BM don’t have their money and careers together. So, when a BW don’t agree she gets bashed by BM. So who’s really the sensitive ones?

And Ish (and Tyler Perry) explained how the whole experience of a man is the same thing but from the males perspective AND it's also EXPECTED to be that way. Meaning men will have to do all these things that come with being an adult while ALSO having the expectation to be financially free enough to be like "Hey bae heres $X go on a shopping spree" or "Here bae here's $X for your hair and nails and when you get back get ready we going out" with the thought that a Olive Garden isn't DARE good enough. Men aren't "entitled" to their womens funds but (some) women feel "entitled" to their man's funds. The ultimate point to Tyler Perry's point was focus on finding the men with character and quality over the men with just a bag. If you find a man with both be grateful

lol men know how to live cheap .. just make some money and be single so you don’t have to worry about a women’s expectations

Vice versa

The problem is, there are too many "physically undesirable" women (who make a decent amount of money) and they can *ONLY ATTRACT* men who can barely pay a light bill. But these same undesirable women *EXPECT,* wealthy, tall, dark, and handsome men to want them. That's not how men operate. Men with money don't go looking for women with money (we look at her physique, *NOT* her finances). But women with money, *DEMAND* a man with money.

80% of black women are over weight or obese, so they don't even need to be worrying about this issue.

Facts. In the home, Men have to be: Plumbers Security Landscapers Mechanics Pest Control Therapist Computer Repairmen Teachers Counselors Coaches etc. Women act like all men do is come home from work and do *nothing* else until it's time to go back to work the next day.

​@@Remember-Deathbecause alpha females like mel usually end up with beta guys.. look a Niki Minaj as an example.

@@blissdad13big facts! They can't handle it so they go to the weaker prospect

😂😂😂 The irony.

Exactly my thoughts

All facts!

They literally agreed with her about him saying worst other than flip 😂

Thanks for letting us know your ok with helping your woman with the bare minimum

@@Aliciaw867 🤨

With 20 seconds on the shot clock

AT YOUR WORTH not at your worse clean your ears

😂😂😂

yup, femcel with an onlyfans.

How can you be secure with yourself only paying the light bill?

​@@aquarius-woman5364Girl.... that's exactly what I said. I can deal with us going half on all the bills. But Tyler Perry is talking about an SSI niggah. Gotta be the case if that's all you can afford.

You’re preaching today 🙌🏾

That's a fallacy. Yall dont know most women, havent polled most women, therefore, you're speaking from ignorance. If women have the minds of children, then why are so many men. literally, trying to be us??? Including black men.

Talking abt the mind of children, isnt women going around killing their own ppl?? Is it women terrorizing our communities?? Women are the breadwinners in the Black Community, if we have the mind of a child, and are still thriving, in a world that has actively fought to keep us from being successful, then Im afraid to know what kind of minds the males have bc if yall cant even keep up with women who have the mind of children, then it's not looking to good for yall out here.

That is why they get traded for a younger one that requires less maintenance and is more reliable.

Keep listening to these dummies and ur gonna die alone. Check the stats. These males cant show you ONE successful relationship theyve had yet yall give them all this praise. Blind leading the damn blind. Do you even know what a fallacy is? It's the ignorant leading the ignorant, as well. If you truly want a successful relationship, take advice from a successful man who is IN a successful relationship. Otherwise, yall are just whiny males, who dont want to do anything and expect more from a woman than you do yourself. And tht is sad if that's the case.@@TheOMasterJ

Talk to em 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣

BRUH🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Well.... Goddamn! Dropping 💍💎 and 🎤🎙️

Shorty didn’t listen at all, I almost don’t even know what she responding to

So true

Whew this comment right here!

Good point. REST IN PEACE KEVIN SAMUELS.

Kevin Samuel's was broke, was RENTING A ROOM FROM A WYT WOMAN, DROVE A CAR THAT WAS LEAKING GAS and WAS BANNED FROM A STORE FOR TAKING DESIGNER CLOTHES HE WORE BACK, ALL THE TIME, KNCLUDING THE CANDLES HE USED ON HIS YT VIDEOS. SOME ROLE MODEL HE TURNED OUT TO BE😅😅😅

​@@sheelahales3834proof ? I love how y'all can just make stuff up about people you don't like

You can't be the alpha AND only pay the light bill. There's a reason the saying is "I pay the cost to be the boss". Most men who don't want to work outside the home aren't doing much with inside the home either. They want a submissive wife but fail to realize most women aren't submitting to a man who isn't a leader. You can't be a leader sitting at home chilling while your wife goes out and slaves to make ends meet. You're a dependent.

Which is crazy right but they will also say a man that takes care of everything 100% is controlling 😂

It really be the people thats actually broke and bring nothing to table that have all these expectations of what somebody should be doing its all cap bro yo folks did right

Crazy thing is how folks apply it has nothing to do with money 😂

@@aceshouse3389Exactly

😂😂😂 saying "respectfully" after that is nuts.

I'm honestly convinced that women (of any race) can't be happy. They'll find something to pick or nag about when everything is perfectly fine.