Hey everyone! Hope you enjoy this breakdown! I have a few additional post-edit comments I want to make that could be important. Also if you’re new to behavior analysis and want to learn more about the science of it and some amazing studies about it; check out this video of me and one of the best in the business, explaining everything you need to know about this amazing field: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hrh3n86hqLHJdGw.html 1) A lot of you caught that in the clip I asked you to “bookmark.” She said “loosened my grip” instead of “his grip.” Great catch! In my initial listen I heard “the grip,” then heard “my” in editing. But for those of you who caught that. 👏🏻 👏🏻 2) Another really crazy thing about the bottle he was allegedly holding is she says “did you drink THIS whole thing?” It is excessively rare that we say “this” about something somebody else is holding. She would have said “did you drink THAT whole thing.” Of course anything is possible… .. except that, she’s totally making it up. 😆 jk! (Kinda) 3) Other analysts have mentioned that she often shifts from past to present tense while telling her story and it’s important to them. I always respect other pros in my field and we all have our own styles. But I know that a lot of people think back and step into the moment and re-experience it in the present tense, it’s common in trauma recall. Especially sensory memory like “I can feel the heat on my arm and there’s this noise behind me.” I would say SHIFTING back and forth is suspicious but I wouldn’t call using present tense for recall a sign of deception. (While respecting other analysts who do.)

Johnny’s responding verbal abuse is called “reactive abuse”. Basically the narcissist pushes you past your breaking point intentionally. Then when you lash back, the narcissist points saying, “see, see! You’re abusive to me!”

She said “I don’t know if he let go of my neck or loosened MY grip.” Putting herself in the aggressors place once again !

I consider myself an empath, highly affected by other feelings. It was so confusing watching her and not feeling anything.

I find it interesting that the times she seems to show actual emotion are when she discusses "being embarrassed." This happened several times during her testimony. Describing the abuse doesn't get to her, but talking about being embarrassed, or a worsening of her reputation, she gets genuinely upset.

According to Johnny Depp's assistant, he would routinely book a second room so he could escape when things got out of hand. And Amber would never know where it was. Let me ask everyone out there. How out of place does it seem to be for an abuser to want a room he could escape to so he could get AWAY from the person he is abusing???

When she talks about slapping him across the face; did you notice that she says "loosened MY grip" ? I think she often tells the story, giving him the role, of HER actual answers. I, also, believe she is a gold-digging hussy. And, as a survivor, of a 22 year, abusive relationship, I feel more threatened by her.

So in the middle of being abused, thrown across the room and him being on top of her beating her she asks "did you drink this whole bottle?" As if that's the major issue.

The biggest difference between the two is Johnny actually accepts his mistakes, admits them, and lives with it. Amber's reversing everything that was violent and she's passing the blame on everybody but herself.

I'm so glad you pointed out her behaviour when reminiscing about the start of their relationship!! You're the first I've seen address this. Her behaviour didn't make sense to me at all. I was in an abusive relationship for 8 years and I've been out of it for another 8 years. I do not feel in any way nostalgic about him or our beginning. As you say, the emotion that comes up when I think back to that time is disgust. I've been around many other abused women in group therapy as well and never once have I seen someone discuss their abuser the way Amber did. Again, it was disgust or deep disappointment/sadness.

I think her entire "abuse" testimony is a description of what she did to Johnny. She just switches the perpetrator.

You’re a therapist AND a body language expert?!?!?! Wow. Congrats on the lifetime of education and knowledge seeking. You’re so charming and your accent is adorable! Love this channel!

When you mentioned empaths, I was just thinking about how I felt absolutely NOTHING when she told her story. With Isaac at the beginning of the trial, when he started crying I started crying.

I’m surprised that you didn’t mention she slipped up when saying “At some point I’m in his face. I don’t know if he had let go of my neck or loosened my grip, but I remember slapping him across the face.” In that moment she says “loosened MY grip.” Chances are, she was the one holding his neck and she let that slip out in this moment.

For me the biggest red flag is that she never looks into "nothing" to recollect events. Usually when people are recollecting events, especially so dramatic, they stop looking around and they seem kinda lost in their own thoughts as if they are reliving them. She never does it

Re: fearing for safety and not feeling embarrassed: I always thought, whenever I saw someone having a medical emergency in public, that it would be so embarrassing to be surrounded by a crowd of gawkers while being loaded into an ambulance or something.. then I got hit by a car and not for one instant while I was waiting for the ambulance to arrive did I consider what others were thinking or how I emotionally felt. My entire being was focused on surviving. No tears, no embarrassment, no emotion. All the energy I had was put to protecting myself and staying alive.

She did it again, at about 26:24 she says the “he let go of my neck, or loosened MY grip”. Love your breakdowns, I watched the entire trial minute for minute (with the brilliant Emily d Baker, of course 🤩) and Amber has truly given so much information to teach others about deception and what to watch out for, that it’s a whole book in itself on personality disorders. I was in a relationship with a narcissist, I feel for Johnny having to sit there and listen to this all. Knowing the truth and having her distort if for the world.

This man just plainly laid out what we were all feeling subconsciously while watching Amber lie through her teeth. You know something is wrong, but can't quite put your finger on it.

I think Ben Chew, Johnny's attorney, got excited about the "bee story" Amber was telling, cause she went to the vet for the dog, and suprisingly didnt go to the doctor for all the psysical abuse she allegedly suffered. Edit: Yes, while its totally common for abuse victims not to speak up, you have to first remember she (Amber) isnt just some "housewife" in the suburbs, financialy dependent on her husband, taking care of the kids, with no one by her side. Her friends lived with them, she had a NURSE and a DOCTOR dedicated to her needs. She is in the entertaiment industry, fotographed every day, hairstylists,makeup artist are around her EVERYDAY. And she coudnt tell 1 person to take her to the doctor to have the visit documented?!

As a nurse of 30 years, Intuition plays a huge part of my daily patient care. Reading patient behaviour. Analysing their reactions. I see right through her. I've seen this manipulation and victim playing so often. I saw it from day 1. Lucky I'm not on the jury 😂 or....maybe I should be 🤔

I'm one of those empaths that you were talking about and I find it so interesting how I react to Amber Heard! If I just listen to her (with my eyes closed or looking at something else), I find myself reacting somewhat. But the moment I look at her, the sympathy just shuts off. It's like she sounds right, but looks wrong to my brain. I'm curious if other empaths react the same way? I love that you pointed that out because it really explained a lot about why I don't buy what she's selling!

When she was crying, I couldn't see any redness of her nose, hear any congestion, or see any physical signs of the physiological act of crying. As an empath, that part made me angry, not sad. You're so right

Empath here. Her hysterical testimony didn’t make me feel her pain, it left me absolutely exhausted. I’ve been with a narcissist who was abusive. The abuse I experienced made me do and say crazy things that I have never done in any other time or relationship before or since. It doesn’t surprise me that Johnny said or did some crazy sh!t. Narcissists can push you to the edge of your sanity. I don’t necessarily think that makes him an abuser.

I got mainly overdramatised acting from her testimony. I almost start doubting myself when I react that way to alleged victims but your explanation makes so much sense! Thank you!

I think most people who are not experts in body language can see that Amber Heard was lying so much. She had to remember her lies and then cover up the lie with another lie and so one gets found out. Excellent analysis here from the body language expert.

That smile she did, when she talked about their first kiss, I straight away thought that was a genuine smile. But I’m so glad you mentioned it because it confused me. I can’t look back on any of my past relationships, that involved lying, cheating and/or abuse, and smile. They make me feel sick and disgusted. It’s the instant feeling I get when I think of them as a person and any memories attached the them. There’s no happy memories because bad things they did tainted the whole memory of the relationship.

The way that Heard’s testimony actually matches up with the forensic psychiatrist’s observations a few weeks back is uncanny. Seriously, go back and listen to it and then watch Heard on the witness stand. «Will spend more time on trivial details when recalling a supposedly specific memory of abuse» Check. «Grandiose words that in the bigger picture add no substance to the topic of discussion» Check. «Play-acting emotions» Check. The list goes on.

Johnny's text apologies are interesting. There's a certain... vibe to them that really resonate with me. Having grown up with a physically abusive mother, I was very close to her at a young age (5 or 6) only to go in the exact opposite direction during my teenage years as we began to yell and scream at each other more frequently. I think I was about 16 or 17 when my mom tried to hit me in the face and I had finally had enough of it. I reached up and grabbed her hand and stopped it in its tracks. The look on her face was unforgettable. For the first time in my life she looked truly frightened. In that moment, she realized that not only was I now stronger than her, but I wasn't going to let her hit me anymore. That day was a turning point. From then on, she stopped being physically abusive, and mostly stopped yelling altogether. All that aggression that had plagued my childhood seemed to have finally worn her out. My siblings thought that she had changed and became a better person, even if they had no idea why that was the case. The truth is that my mom was forced to find a different way about going about things. The aggression was replaced with passive-aggressiveness. Now, SHE was the victim. She would make sure to say the meanest things in the most polite way so that any resistance to them whatsoever, even if it were just a rational statement of disagreement, was somehow a personal attack on her. If she was being incredibly rude and insulting by giving advice that no one asked for, well you couldn't be mad at her because she was just trying to help! It took me a long time to realize that the best way to deal with this stuff was to ignore it completely. I cannot argue with my mother because I will never win, even if it's just to point out a minor thing she misspoke about. I have to just let it pass by me like I didn't even notice. The reason why I bring all this up is because I've found myself in countless situations where I've reacted a bit too strongly in a situation, only to feel badly about it after a small amount of stewing time. Because of all these interactions with my mom, and it always being MY fault no matter how correct I might have been and how wrong she may have been, and it being MY responsibility to be the bigger person, apologize, and accept the blame, I found myself getting into this habit of apologizing for every conflict I ever participated in. That is, if I had an argument with someone and we parted ways being mad at each other, within a few hours I was ready to apologize to them for everything I did or said and tell them that they were absolutely right, no matter what the argument, especially if it was someone I deeply cared about. I would always exaggerate in my head the severity of my most negative responses and minimize the other person's role in raising the tension level of the conflict until I was so upset over the strife that *I* caused that I *had* to profusely apologize. Even if they continued to stay mad at me, I just couldn't leave the situation as it was without at least attempting to apologize for my part. I'm not saying this to excuse Johnny's behavior or to say that he did nothing wrong, but these texts read to me like a lot of text messages I've sent to various people, especially if I had an argument the night before while being drunk. Him saying things like "you're absolutely right," in bold letters no less, really remind me of myself when I felt distraught over the thought of having possibly negatively impacted an important relationship because I got a little bit too carried away in the moment about an ultimately meaningless argument for a brief period of time. It just feels a lot to me like someone who is used to being the one who has to extend the olive branch and make amends after a conflict, like we're our own impartial arbitrator of our personal disputes because no one else is willing to step up. When this happens with an abusive person, it often takes the most profuse apologies to even open a channel of communication, while with everyone else, it's usually immediately met with a "no big deal, I'm sorry, too" type of reply.

The detailed dirty carpet part also reminds me of the sort of poetic description you might see in a movie or book, like a poignant commentary on the strange things you notice/remember in traumatic situations. Only it feels forced and unnatural though, like it was a preconceived idea that she had as someone from a drama background, and thought would have a big impact on her audience. Rather than a genuine recollection of an actual event.

She’s been grooming him since she met him…she realized this kind hearted man would give her everything she wanted…so she captivated him basically to destroy him for her own sake. It’s sickening

Interesting her father “broke” horses. Personally I find the whole practice, traditionally (there are kinder ways to train a horse rather than break it but it’s not as quick and requires more patience), is cruel in my opinion as someone who works with rescue horses. She seemed to have applied similar tactics in a way to break Johnny. They use fear, stress, exhaustion and trauma bonding to make the horse submissive. Interesting parallel.

She went from acting scared and backing into the wall when he walked near her to blushing and smiling when retelling their first kiss. This was such a tell. No one switches like this in real life.

One thing that really stuck out to me was not only did she seemingly unconsciously put herself in the role of the abuser, but, at the beginning, when she’s saying what she did to get away/ placate him and how it gradually escalated, those are all things he said he did to get away from her. This tells me that she not only knew she was the aggressor, but that what he was doing is inherently more sympathetic.

When you said Empaths didn't feel anything from her testimony, you were so right! I literally watched her and everything just felt so fake and my face was sorta scrunched up because it was painful to watch, the "acting" was so bad. I don't really care about the outcome. I don't think Johnny does either. He made his point. Amber is NOT an innocent DV/SA victim. She is just as guilty, if not more at fault than him. I pray they move on from this.

When I saw the texts in the end, I broke down. I am a guy who was in an abusive relationship with a younger woman for 12 years. Being the older one, I was always trying to be the "bigger" person in all situations taking in verbal and sometimes physical abuse, quick to apologize and always ready to admit my shortcomings. I was an eternal optimist that being patient and forgiving will eventually work out... but the abuses kept escalating. Those texts seem so familiar, I authored quite a few of them. I cut my losses and called it quits finally, and got out clean. I really feel for Johnny, but I am glad things are turning around for him, there is overwhelming support for him everywhere I see. Good people deserve redemption.

Her story of what “Johnny” did is the closest thing to a confession we’ll ever get!

This is the exact definition of perjury! I don’t know how she isn’t in trouble for lying under oath.

I am a really empathetic person (towards humans and even the smallest of animals) and I tend to feel with people what they feel. But when I listen to Amber I feel almost nothing but being annoyed and sometimes angry about her. It's a bit like sitting in a bad movie with a bucket of popcorn and waiting for it to be over. Sometimes I get a sense of deviousness from her...that's it. The rest is cold as ice.

It's honestly so hard to watch her during this case. The lies. The discrepancies in her story. The acting. I roll my eyes everytime. Thank you so much for taking the time to even sit down and watch through her testimonies.

Idk if he's covered this before, but I found it so CREEPY how in Amber's deposition, she answered one of the lawyer's questions with a "no" but she was nodding her head, indicating "yes" when she did so. I tried doing it - it is a gesture that is SO Odd to try to replicate. It feels so strange. Whereas shaking your head and saying "no" feels completely natural.

So glad you caught that "walking away from me". I caught it while watching the trial Live and was disappointed that no one jumped on it.

“Truth tellers tell, liars sell.” Thanks for that quote. EXCELLENT video my man. Learned a lot!

When you are in a relationship with a Narcissist most of the time the victim is the one that say sorry for everything that happened, the manipulation is so deep that we take responsibility of their and ours actions

I have a lot of compassion I work with victims, I felt nothing for her during her testimony. I felt like almost everything she said was a lie besides all the word salad stuff. Lot’s of detail that has nothing to do with the story in my experience, liars do that. I’m so glad I have some time off to come back and watch these videos again. During the trial I only got to watch bits and pieces and never from start to finish. You did such an excellent job covering this.

28:20 I laughed so hard picturing it as you repeated what she said 😂😂😂😂😂

As a victim of abuse myself, I have to thank you. It’s a nauseating experience to have been abused, and then see Amber almost mocking abuse, and using it as a weapon to further her own self-interests. It’s a slap in the face to anyone who has been abused, and has had to painfully recall the abuse in order to get better and heal… not to use against anyone.

My fiancé who has experienced abuse watched a clip of Amber recounting an alleged abuse moment and I asked her if she thought it was truthful...she said no and her reasoning was that when you tell your true story you don't want to make eye contact with anyone...much less stare at a jury.

I'm almost glad that I didn't find these videos earlier, as watching them with the benefit of hindsight is extremely interesting. What impresses me the most is how you're able to pick up on even the slightest of details and you're consistently accurate in all of your analyses. This is masterclass-level content. Thank you so much for taking the time to make these videos! Subscribed!

She said I loosened my grip!

Finally someone who isn’t scared to point out her blatant lies & contradictions on the stand! Your analysis is amazing as always 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

This was absolutely fascinating. When she was talking about when she slapped Johnny across the face (@26:20 the one you told us to keep in mind for later) she says "I don't know if he let go of my neck or loosened my grip". If it was Johnny holding her, wouldn't it be "or loosened HIS grip"? Could this be another slip like the first one where she's actually the aggravator?

All I'm saying is that when I got the courage to tell my husband about my past assaults'- I can honesty say that I can't remember what the classroom walls or floors look like- all I still remember now as a 34 year old, is the fear, sadness, disgusting, dirty, shameful feeling. That was a red flag for me.

We all know she lied under oath. It’s so obvious.

I have never heard someone say "I remember" so often during testimony. You're telling us what happened so you don't have to tell us "I remember." It happens so often it makes me think she's "remembering" her story, not the truth.

She needs to be made an example of for lying on the witness stand. Perjury in civil cases is usually not enforced, but the number of offences is unreal. AH should be a perjury poster child. The US legal system is based on witnesses telling the truth.

Spidey - love how you shared that you spent years as a therapist and how you explained the situation starting at about 4:40 in this video - you are spot on when you state how people who are/were in abusive relationships and they spoke how they met, you overwhelmingly saw signs of disgust. I was recently asked how I met my husband and your analysis rang true because I showed massive disgust and aversion. I am in an emotional and verbal abusive relationship (fortunately not physical) and I no way have happy and giddy memories of meeting my husband as Amber does.😖

I watched this live and to me it was as if she thought she was narrating a movie.

When it comes to his apologies, abusers are very good at making their victims feel it is their fault. I am a victim of DV and for years I blamed myself and apologized constantly. It took a long time and many instances of my wife beating on me, scratching me, and even chasing me with a knife before I finally broke free of the gaslighting and realized what was actually happening. When it comes to Johnny Depp, this would be easier to do to him because of his addictions.

As an abuse survivor, I have apologized for "being crazy" and horrible to my abuser, begging for forgiveness..but now I've realized it was because I was being gaslighted and thus convinced that I was the cause of all the conflict when I truly wasn't. Just something I wanted to add for thought in regard to the text messages.

I used to apologize all the time to my abuser, When your constantly being told your a piece of shit, you believe it, so you are always the one to apologize, because you've been made to believe that your are the one who is the crazy one, when in reality, they are just warping your view of yourself so they can use it to there advantage.

Her talking about the carpet sort of reminded me of an old movie where the abuse victim talked about something inane when giving testimony where the audience saw the attack and feels bad when she has to talk about it.

As a TRUE survivor of domestic violence who suffers from PTSD I gotta say, she has the same mannerisms as my ex who was my abuser. It really triggers me watching her testimony...not because of the story itself but her mannerisms and how she says things. I get flashbacks when I watch her. I am "free" from that abuse and the person now but I don't ever feel like I'm actually free. I have severe anxiety, I get physically sick (nauseous and even actually throwing up), I shake uncontrollably, I dissociate from life and people around me, I have night terrors and wake up drenched in sweat and screaming and crying. All caused by the abuse I endured. If I was to ever have to be in the same room with my ex now I wouldn't be able to physically handle it and I would probably have to go to the hospital for an anxiety attack...

This is a woman who claims that this man has sexually assaulted her with a broken glass bottle, how could she be remembering their first kiss so fondly? It’s very odd and extremely uncommon of a survivor of such an event. I believe she is an actor portraying a specific performance.

I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years and when I start to tell about the beginning of the relationship I actually do smile a bit because it was fun, happy, and sweet but the rest of the relationship story takes that smile away

She is gonna get rinsed. Imagine having that life and doing what she's doing. Why is she trying to hold up all this? How bad do you need to hate someone to lie this much about them? Why not just take the divorce settlement and move on?

26:18 “At some point, I’M IN HIS FACE and he had…I don’t know if he had let go of my neck or LOOSENED MY GRIP but I remember slapping him across the face…” - Who is actually the aggressor here????

26:24 - 26:28 : “I don’t know if he had let go of my neck, uh, or loosened MY grip.” Another HUGE slip up of Amber that wasn’t caught in this video. She, again, slips up and hints that she was the one with the grip on him and not the other way around. Someone online edited together how many times Amber uses “I remember” at the start of her sentences. It happens so many times that it’s almost comical. If someone is recalling their story I would expect them to say “This happened, then this happened, then this.” OR, “I don’t remember everything due to blocking it out.” She starts almost every single sentence (especially after being asked a question) with “uh, I remember…” “I rememeber” “I DO rememeber.” This, to me, sounds a lot like someone who is trying to recall a script or story rather than truly recalling an event. Even if someone said “I remember” while recalling, I would think she would say it quietly and meekly because she would not want to remember these events, but she emphasizes it to ENSURE us over and over again that she remembers it correctly and not to challenge her. Kinda the same idea as saying “honestly” or “sincerely” as you pointed out. I also wanted to point out that in JD’s apology letters: when he mentions “the monster” we know from him and Amber that that is talking about his addiction. It is not uncommon for someone who’s abused to apologize because they’ve been broken down to think it’s their fault or something they’ve done to cause the abuse happening to them. Also, apologizing for setting her off isn’t really a fair thing to look at because he testified that him taking his own boots off would set her off. Him trying to leave the room to escape her abuse would set her off. Him trying to explain to her why he would ‘leave’ in those moments would set her off. If he didn’t compliment her right, that would set her off. I don’t think JD is a saint and We know he said some not very nice things, but I’m sure there were times he didn’t want to put up with her abuse anymore. I’m sure that the more wasted he got (to escape her and his situation with her) he would be less willing to accept it and be more angry at her about what she was doing to him and probably wanted to throw some mean words at her to hurt her, as she had been hurting him. Just some perspective. Not justifying his behavior in those moments, but trying to understand why he would get that way. Thank you for all the hard work you put into analyzing this testimony and providing this video for us. 💖 I appreciate you sharing all your expertise with us for FREE and I really think your knowledge will help/is helping a lot of people in the world. 💖 Thank You!!!

Johnny came from an abusive household. So I see his texts, and his lashing out at items, and I know it's one of the bad habits we can form from such childhoods. I know this well. I was self abusive, with a tendency to get into schoolyard fights. I had anger issues, but later in life, I only broke my things, or hurt myself. I think when Johnny was angry and under the influence, he was speaking his mother's words. Not saying his behavior was right, but it was what he knew. I truly hope he stays clean, and gets some good therapy.

I wish the jury could watch this to form their opinions

You're totally right about the empath thing. I literally just rolled my eyes when she started saying "it wasn't him anymore." She looks like what she THINKS someone upset would look like, not like an actually upset person.

There's something vital I think you missed in that apology letter you went over. He was regretting BOTH his behavior and hers, and taking the blame for her behavior. He also mentioned that he felt he was being conditioned by her to respond like that. This is indicative of someone who is the victim. What he's apologizing for is reactive abuse. I'm not saying JD is a saint. The world isn't so black and white. But what I am saying, is one is the perpetrator and one is the victim, the latter being conditioned to respond to abuse with abuse.

Thank you for taking the time to break everything down. I watched her testimony live and I knew somethings felt off or not right. But you putting a name and explaining things completely made sense to me.

Interesting that when she describes abuse she’s always showing what the abuser would do and not explaining how it felt. She doesn’t say what it felt like to be hit, slapped, thrown etc., instead making the motion of hitting, slapping & grabbing. And who says “I remember….” when describing abuse suffered? I don’t understand why “I remember” is said and not simply what happened.

Anyone catch where she said, " I don't know if he had let go of my neck, or I loosened MY grip!" Why or how would she loosen her grip, if he's the one choking her? I hope his lawyers are catching these slip ups of truth! This is beyond sad, and a huge step backwards with how far we've come with abuse cases in general.

I'm an empath and within minutes of her starting to testify, I had to close my computer. It felt like a violation. I have not able to watch, except in small pieces. It's so important that we now have YTers like you who can break this down and offer a reality check on what we can feel with our hearts. Thank you.

Excellent point about the fact that she displayed little emotion in her deposition but now is in touch with all of these 'distressing' emotions. LOL

You’re fabulous! I’ve never studied in school what you’re explaining to us but I naturally have noticed all these things💕 great work!

You gave me chills when you said “I will bet those same empaths in this scene, didn’t feel a thing”. You were spot on!!

It’s her own projections. She said that she hated it when he would walk away from her! She perceived that as weak and cowardly and would start yelling at him. Everything she is accusing him of is what SHE did TO him. I feel like this entire situation is a stark reminder to all us plebs that actors and millionaires can be waaaaaaay more fucked up than regular everyday people, or at least AS fucked up as we are

Trial is over... jury is deliberating Tuesday. Can't wait to hear an update from you!

This channel is so awesome. I'm new to "interviewing" and I'm scribbling notes furiously. Thank goodness there's a pause button. Thank you!

The difference between him and her is that most of us who grew up with Johnny know already that he is a "bad boy" so to speak. Also, he has admitted the things he has done...she dances around and admits very little. In my opinion, she is still defaming him while sitting in a courtroom. I was so upset and in tears that he had to listen to the tape of when he was trying to harm himself. I hurt for him. With her, I feel no sadness or hurt.

excellent video, as always, Spidey. I am a psychologist and I have worked with survivors of abuse, but also with people who pretend to be victims of "life", who are always whining and complaining about everything, they act "like crying" but they don't actually cry, they are like "sad" but they are not actually sad. AH acts in the same way, and you have explained it perfectly. And it's true, they have had, in fact, a very toxic relationship. But I guess she is great to push your buttons, specially those of someone that has suffered abuse during his childhood. Also, in the messages when he is apologizing, it's strange her lack of response, only "i love you", "i miss you", she is not engaging in a real conversation, she is not wasting her time texting to him, using more words. Only beautiful, universal phrases, very stereotyped and short, and she is not apologizing! Usually victims are the ones that apologize. And in a functional couple, after a disagreement both of them apologize, in a sincere way. Anyway, sorry for my bad English. But I like your videos enough to make the effort to write in a foreign language.

I cant remember the last time in a bar fight someone picks up a bottle and the victim said did you drink the whole bottle???

4:35 comparing the way amber talked about that kiss to JD talked about that same kiss. You can see it in JD’s face how regretful JD was about having that kiss.

As a former victim of domestic abuse, the last thing you want to do when the abuser is attacking you is to draw more attention to yourself, so there's no way you're going to get up and walk away while they're shouting at you. You do your best not to antagonize them, so they leave you alone. She's lying and hurting so many victims of true abuse. She's disgusting.

This is the moment we've all been waiting for! 🥳 Appreciate you so much, thank you. Please get some rest, sleep is so important. 🤗 love and hugs!

its almost impossible to successfully lie in a situation like this (about intense abuse, in a court room where you dont know what the questions are)

Amazing stuff! Thanks for your work!

With that ping pong table introduction, and the "black eyes" description, I belted out laughing during her testimony and I just thought to myself "you have been watching too many movies". Also, she slipped again just before that saying "I don't know if he had let go of my neck, or loosened MY grip" after being held down. Yes, I am very empathetic and I tend to tear up uncontrollably with the slightest mention of an other's pain. I felt NOTHING for Amber.

I am an empath and if someone is genuinely crying it causes me to immediately start crying because it's like I feel their pain. I've never felt anything but disgust watching Amber.

I’m so happy I stumbled upon this video! Very interesting, straight to the point analyses, great job!

OMG , "walking away from me" & "pulling me in", felt like I an watching an horror movie and finally evil is unmasked.

I just noticed, and I've watched this same testimony multiple times, that she's not wearing mascara or eyeliner here. Her eye makeup is very light, just some natural looking eyeshadow. She'd been wearing both mascara and eyeliner every day until this one. I'm not one to speculate but we know at this point that everything this woman does is calculated and has a reason. Mascara and eyeliner would smudge while tears are being shed, even if using waterproof formulas because of dabbing and rubbing, and would make it obvious that someone is or was recently crying. If she knew ahead of time (and she obviously did) that she wouldn't be able to cry on the witness stand and that her makeup would reveal this, it is entirely plausible that she chose to forego these products altogether as a way to further conceal her deceit. And it would also give her an excuse if questioned about it because, knowing that she might cry during her testimony, she can say that she chose not to wear eye makeup. I swear this bitch.

She isn't just an abuser she is also a cheater. Anybody who's been in a relationship with someone that cheats knows how crazy it can make someone get. Especially if you're married to that person. The relationship can become volatile just on that alone. Also the fact that she mimics Johnny is only further proof that she's a sociopath.

@25:22 OMG. I've been crying laughing for 5 minutes. I can't stop! Your face said it all. 🤣🤣🤣

When I talk about my abuse … I am very disconnected. I dissociate a lot. I say it very bluntly and very fast. I have disconnected from my trauma mostly just unintentionally because honestly it’s really painful to think about and makes me extremely uncomfortable. I try to say it fast and quick to get it over with. I don’t see this with her

I didn't even want to watch this because I'm tired of this drama, but you are so damn good I couldn't stop myself from watching all 40 minutes... amazing work. The only reason people were flaming you for not uploading sooner is because of your amazing talent... props

I find it interesting how often she is addressing the jury in her testimony where you normally see the person on the stand talking to the lawyer who is talking/asking questions. Her whole mannerisms is that she is preforming for a live audience.

Who says she didn't respond? She could have deleted those texts.