What bothers me about videos like this isn't the video, but the comments. None of these people were saying any of these were a reason to not be healthy. They were just saying that they want people to respect them as people. Everyone has problems, but because theirs is more noticeable than others, people think they have the right to be rude to them, and they don't. There's no excuse to be rude to anyone. The point of these videos is just a reminder for all of us to love ourselves, and to be good to each other, despite what's going on in our lives.

body size misleading I thought they were gonna talk about all body sizes not one

Bruh these comments are triggering me lol How can you all sit there and make excuses for your shitty character, or lack of character for that matter, by telling "fat people" that "Well, maybe if you were skinnier people would stop bullying you." 😂 Man, how small minded are you that you are incapable of loving people for who they are rather than what they look like? The people being triggered by a video where all people are saying is that they love themselves, are the people who truly need to learn to love themselves because once you reach peace of mind with yourself you can truly start to love everyone around you. So prayers out to you guys ❤️ Hopefully you can learn to love yourselves, such as the individuals in this video. 😊💕💕💕💕

do one for skinny people

I'm on a weight loss journey and I think these body positive videos are necessary and I don't think that they are there to advertise an unhealthy lifestyle. I've always been fat and hated my body and tried to lose weight many times before. I've been successful at weight loss for the first time in my life now and already lost 20+ pounds in just 5 weeks. Do you know what's different now compared to the other times I tried to lose weight? I learned how to love my body and myself the way it is and learned that losing weight has to happen to better my body. Weight loss for me couldn't happen when I hated my body, because it made me hate myself in return, and I would always convince myself that I didn't deserve to lose weight and look good, because I just had such a negative outlook on myself. A negative mindset doesn't bring positive change. A positive mindset brings positive change from my experience :)

These comments set the word disgusting to a all time high!!

"Cause pretzels in Philadelphia are very important" 😂😂😂😩👌🏼 you tell em

So basically this is a part of a series of videos you did of low self esteem individuals complaining and implicating that people who are not like them should adopt to them. You had Gays, Black, Women, and now "fat" people or as they like to call themselves big boned. What happened to "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. " How did we go from judging people based on their character regardless of size color or sexual orientation to these videos of people with no character to speak of expecting everyone else to adapt to their super low standards. Well I got a quote for you.... “It's not men who limit women, it's not straights who limit gays, it's not whites who limit blacks. What limits people is lack of character. What limits people is that they don't have the nerve or imagination to star in their own movie, let alone direct it.” ―Tom Robbins, Still Life with Woodpecker (1980) ....I too have a dream where we stop making videos such as these and actually take responsibility for our lives without the need for victim stories or pointing fingers. Everyone has limitations but guess what we all have a choice. Responsibility. Response-able. Being able to make a choice. That is our responsibility. A choice how you see the world, regardless of how it see you. Responsibility not to tell victim stories. Responsibility to not eat more calories than you burn. That is my dream.

I hope you could talk with people suffering from depression and see how they feel. As one who feels like I'm suffering from it, it's really hard to find things that could get me through my days.

This made me cry cause like it means a lot to get accepted no matter what size you are or what religion you believe in and son on:)

What I really hate is when someone offers me something to eat and I refuse (because I just don't want to eat at that moment) they suddenly ask if I'm on a diet. Or when I'm at a family gathering and an aunt talks to me (alone) telling me "a really good diet that really works". Just stop, I know how to lose weight; if I ever wanted to lose weight, I would, so stop it.

All these people are big, yet the title of the video is BODY SIZE. I've always been extremely skinny, made fun of for being so skinny, and not very muscular. Props to the misleading title.

Me: I can't breathe. I need to rest. P.E. teacher: it's cause you're out of shape. I have asthma...

I love how positive they are! You can tell they have a healthy esteem about them and acknowledge their self-worth. They just seem like really good people.

I love your channel. Please keep doing more awesome videos that will inspire us viewers. Kisses from the Philippines :)

"Venti Caramel Body", love love love it!!!

Could you make a "white" how you see me?

I love this series

Not sure if this has been mentioned, but I am a thin person and people think that it is okay to just bring up my weight because apparently if your skinny then their shouldn't be any issue with talking about your weight. I always get, "Wow, you're so skinny or How are you so skinny and have 4 kids." I have been told to gain weight and I constantly hear blowing away jokes. For me there is no way to answer these facetious questions without sounding rude so I just suck it up and act polite. I have been accused of having an eating disorder and people look at me weird when I am eating like it never occurs or something. oh, but all this should be okay since I'm skinny. It definitely feels like a double standard to me.

I think it's very rude to straight up call someone fat. I see fat people the same way I see everyone else, I don't treat them differently or make fun of them. But it's such a big health problem and people need to realize that just accepting obesity will not do you any good at all. You will feel like crap all the time, die at an earlier age, and it will be harder to keep a stable relationship. I'm not saying this to be "that asshole", I'm saying this because I know so many people that are like this and they always tell me these same things. Just try some healthy routines and maybe things will go your way.

i'm an overweight person and this is not what i need to hear! i need motivation stories to help me on my journey for losing weight, i don't care what others think about me because at the end there are always people who will criticize others and try to make them feel bad about their selves whether you're fat, thin, tall, short so the most important is being healthy so you can be happy

its crazy how this video only talk about how big people aren't accepted. I've been skinny all my life and it's like the world hates me for it and constantly ask me if i eat. i was hoping this video would show both point of view of body size, not just from only thicker people

I love this video

Great message wow.

This is a little out of topic but does anyone know where I could get the blue dress the blonde girl is wearing? Cause omg she's slaying, I love it

if these people love the way they are it's ok. If people want changes they will change. We just should take them as they are now, as we really don't know a true situation in their lives

You can't choose so many things about yourself but weight you can. If these people didn't want to deal with things they said then all they had to do was not eat as much and take care of their bodies. People give a negative vibe to overweight people because they tend to have a lower self esteem and show physical signs of bad habits (just like smoking). If you love yourself you will take care of your body and therefore love others and set a good healthy example for them. This comes from someone who's mother lost an incredible amount of weight to be there for her children, set a good example, and so she could be around long enough to see us grow up. I hope these people can someday do the same.

This reminds me of a really good Australian show called 'You Can't Ask That', I highly recommend it !

tfw buzzfeed is talking about not excluding body sizes but fails to incorporate any other body sizes than overweight

What about thin people like me. We get made fun of too. Being call too thin or do you eat?

Preach it. Soooooooo true

What nobody talks about is being ''skinny", I'm underweight and I dream of having muscles, getting called "skinny" is like calling someone "fat" it hurts and I know that that sounds stupid because people dream of the ideal of skinny but I don't feel skinny like the people on the magazines I feel unhealthy and people say just eat more but its not like that.

true..video making me think..my body type is quiet female..big cups, round hips, not super skinny etc .. what unspoken thoughts and also subconscious information is triggered by that? ???

It's simple just don't listen to people opinions just be yourself and love yourself

How do you know how I see you?

Thank you

"I am smart, I am talented, and funny" haha me too.

i think they should do one for skinny people, like i've been skinny my whole life and i always get called a twig or a toothpick and people think i'm weak and can't do anything. since i'm 14 it really gets to me when they make fun of me, but i just can't really gain wait to look "normal"

I think this video is good because it talks being heavy! However, I wish they talked about all body sizes including being skinny!

I thought am gonna see different body size like short, thin, etc.

People always tell me that I at least I am not being called fat but it hurts just as much as being called as it does as being called skinny. My dad sometimes calls me a "skinny *ss" I have learned to ignore it and hide my feelings since I have done since u was only 4 years old. The only good part of my life are my true friends cause I know just by looking in their eyes that they will stay with me forever

There is only one size?

I am a very large girl, a side effect from life-saving medication that I have to take. And I have come to own the word fat. People when you are in person with them are always afraid to use the word in reference to my body, but I'm like that's what it is, it's on my body and I'm going to accept that and not be ashamed because that's who I am. An older relative of mine freaked out the other day because one of my kids made a comment about my fat, and I told them that I was okay with it, and I wish more large people like myself were okay with it as well. But me being fat doesn't define me.

That curly haired girl is so pretty!!

would love to see a video about smaller sized people

I have lost 28 pounds. ya I still have about 50 more to lose . I was at the Doctor the other day and the first thing he said was when are you going to lose weight

you must do one for tall people

I see a lot of people in the comments talking about these people's possible health issues due to being overweight. I would like y'all to know that I'm almost 100% every single one of them knows the possible health issues due to being overweight or obese. Y'all can act like doctors all you want (only aimed at people that are not in the medical field), but it won't change the fact they probably already know the related health issues. This video isn't about people's health issues, it's about being respected like the human beings they are. How can someone choose who they want to respect and who they don't want to respect based off a person's looks? Bullying is being disrespectful as well. How can some of you say, "Well, you people wouldn't get bullied if you weren't fat," ? Y'all need to teach people/kids to respect others instead of encouraging them to bully. How much of an asshole do you have to be to make a person feel bad about themselves? I don't think any of you understand that some overweight people are comfortable with their bodies and they can actually be very healthy, regardless of their extra weight. I've gone to the doctor's offices with friends of mine that are way past their "ideal" weight and they receive a clean bill of health by the doctor. Do they have to lose weight in some cases? No. They're bodies can be 100% healthy. Would it help them have a better image of themselves? Maybe. That brings me to my next point. Just because someone is overweight doesn't mean they aren't happy with the way they look. I've met wayyyyy to many people who are overweight and are comfortable with their bodies. Just like some athletes are comfortable with theirs, just as some skinny people are comfortable with theirs, etc... At the end of the day, everyone should RESPECT one another regardless of weight, color, race, etc... And, for y'alls information, if it isn't your life, don't worry about it. You can be judgmental all you want (because as humans, we're naturally like that), but it ain't your life. Live your life the way YOU want. Whether it be with a bomb athletic body or a little junk in the trunk that make the ladies/men run wild.

Honestly, the comments here are so discouraging. People think they're helping or pushing people to lose weight by being cruel but the amount of time I, myself have been on a diet, even for months and it would take just one person to say something before I would go back to eating the foods that brought me comfort. Most people who are overweight didn't get there overnight. I have a lifetime of going to food for security, so when I'm trying to stop and someone says something like some of the things that were said in the comments here, it is so easy to go back to it because I am truly fragile when I don't have the life-long safety blanket. Instead of saying it's unhealthy, say nothing because we know it is and I would every single person who has been overweight has truly hated themselves at one point or another and all you're doing is adding to the reason why we find it so difficult to lose it in the first place. These people are beautiful and brave ❤

I'd like to point out that some overweight people are that way because of health reasons, beyond they're control, boy necessarily because they don't exercise or what not.

Iiiim gonna cry

That’s why I myself frown upon body shaming. ❤

my oldest sister always put me down even if I lost weight I was never good enough. I used to hear you have such a pretty face if you'd only lose weight. But I know now that was and is her issues she has and tried to put them on me. We haven't spoke since my mother passed away 4 yrs ago. I have 3 brothers and I don't hear from them either.

People make fun of me all the time because I have really skinny arms.... I'm 130 lbs... I think everyone is judged to an extent. Just love who you are and respect the people around you. Empathy is very important. Some people are lacking in it

As someone who used to be obese, I lost over 50lbs, yeah, eating right and exercising should be a part of everyone’s life. Thing is, I don’t think it’s fair to make nasty comments about how these folks should live their lives. This video wasn’t to justify their weight like a lot of “body positive” people do. This video was about respect. At any weight a person should be respected, whether they’re fat or not. You don’t always know what a person is doing at home. For me, it bothered me when I was made fun of when I was fat, it bothered me when people made fun of me when I started losing weight, and guess what... I’m literally like 7lbs from being average for my age and height, but I still feel self conscious. What if they’re ok with being fat? What if they already lost some weight? The fact of the matter is that there will always be big people, so why not respect them.

I liked that on Gilmore Girls Melissa McCarthy was on there but it wasn't about her being big!! Don't think they ever even mention it!! I thought that was so cool!!

The first blonde lady slayed that dress I need it 😍

There are fat people and skinny people. Neither extreme is healthy, and of it were so simple to fix, we'd all be a healthy size. No one should be taught to hate themselves.

big people are fun and when needed there strong from personal experience although not all are like that. obviously some are different society needs to know to not be stereotypical you are you!

As they say here you should be able to accept your size, or other people's size, since elementary school being overweight was a reason to be ridiculed or laughed at. I agree, but as far as being satisfied with your obesity, that perspective might prevent a person from trying to lose the excess weight, not for social acceptance but for health reasons that can be dangerous.

I only saw one size in the video

What about skinny people?

cool

I cried but I don't know why

pls do one for skinny

All these comments are gross. I work out, I eat right but thanks to health issues I have to work 100 times harder then most. I would do anything to stay skinny! Genetics also are horrible.

Okay let me say my opinion, I totally get people with slow/fast metabolism or any other reason that makes their body extremely unhealthy (too skinny or too fat it doesn’t matter) and they can do nothing to stop it it’s not their fault but what makes me mad that people use body positivity that is made for people who can’t help themselves as an excuse to eat more and not take care of their body. BODY POSITIVITY IS TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY! IF YOU LOVE YOUR BODY TAKE CARE OF IT’S HEALTH!! Don’t try to starve yourself or overeat please .

I see you without even looking

Pretzels are very important in Philadelphia.

They should do one on short people

I was expecting to see thin people too with a title like that. Slightly misleading.

Obviously being overweight is unhealthy but I think it's very important to say that there is more to these people and that they shouldn't be judged on their looks, just like everybody else. Their weight might not even be their fault but still all people in the comments seem so be writing is "go exercise" instead of helping them to make a change by following the message of the video and saying "you are more than your body and you are in control of it"

I was really hoping that they were going to make it a full circle video, but I figured it was going to focus on big people. BODY SIZE should include all sizes; thin, thick, short, tall,etc. How many Little People would like to have a voice about how people see them. I'm thin and get a lot of thin shaming from people when I try to complain about not being happy with my body or going up a pant size. I don't judge people for their size, I judge them for their life style. If you are lazy and eat garbage, that's not good. I have become more lazy and am eating more junk so I am gaining weight and can feel how it is affecting my body. I feel fat and there is fat on me, just cause it's not a spare tire doesn't mean I don't have the right to be upset about it.

Hi

I'm sorry but that blue jumper dress stole the show for me. 10's across the board honey!

Not just big people struggle with body size, but also thin people. My daughter gets told she is too skinny, but she can't put on weight. Body size, thin or big, should not define a person. Ever. Comparing ourselves takes away our own identities.

I don't know about ya'll, but in this video I just see some beautiful individuals talking about a our struggle being comfortable with ourselves, and being accepted for who we are. I'm surprised this, and any of the other "How You See Me" videos are getting flack in the comments, SoulPancake can create and share whatever content they'd like, and if someone is that uncomfortable with hearing out people who are part of a minority group, or part of a group that's has been, or still is, oppressed, then that's on them. The human heart has room for a lot of love, and it is sometimes very hard not to judge, but when we are able to let go of our judgement, we can connect, and we are kinder to ourselves and others

Its true that this world see the people by there body structure. I hate such people because iam a chubby fat girl but I am happy that iam different from every one in this world sooo plz respect the person hw is she/he dnt comment on them because their are humans. Like u 😍

I realize body image is a very sensitive topic for many people that are overweight and for people in general, and I realize conditions that cause people to become overweight that are genetic and not their fault. and for those people Doing the best they can with what they're given I commend them and I do not think that they should be criticized. but at the same time I also have observed Those that have not taking care of their body those that have lost the motivation or never I had it in the first place and I have watched them become an unhealthy weight and it is disheartening scary and heartbreaking so for those people we cannot continue to justify their actions Saying that they should not a positive self body image Or a positive perception of themselves There are those that cannot afford it up ignore any longer because they risk hurting themselves as well as those that they love

Major fatness, obesity, blubber, etc can cause long term affects for many especially in hot climates.

I can’t stand people always thinking I’m hungry.

As a fat person I can say that we shouldn't be judged based on how we look but based on who we are but we should try to lose weight

Eating too much is like being a cigarette smoker. overindulging in elements that aren't needed to survive is not beneficial to overall health. I have no qualms with people who choose to live a life of overeating, smoking, or drinking as long as they accept that. If they're constantly trying to push off blame for their sadness as needed acceptance they must look inward first and foremost. This comes from someone who quit smoking a pack a day and has lost 47lbs in 2 years. The true problem with obesity is education. 99% of people think eating veggies = weight loss or running = weight loss when in reality fat storage or usage is only attributed to caloric expenditure vs caloric intake. These things only help push the scales to one side or another but if i had a nickle for every time i saw someone drink a gatoraid (that completely nullified the caloric loss of a 10 minute run they just did) i'd be a millionaire. Same goes for healthy hive-mind on scary cancer causing diet soda which completely goes against the findings of the FDA. Just take notes on your "healthy/natural/bullshit" articles on how much the products they are trying to sell are and how none of their findings seem to definitively say yes/no OR say at what volume something becomes an issue.

No skinny people?

meaning no offence, but are they gald for being fat?

I'm healthy and I have a little bit of a belly.

Hi dear

I don’t think this video should be JUST overweight people. People of ALL sizes experience body image issues, including myself who is underweight

My comedy is making fun of myself because I am overweight. I do this because that way people know making fun of me for my size won't work.

I Am NEW To The LGBTQ Community. Growing Up I Was Forced Into Being A "STRAIGHT/Normal" Female, Especially By My Grandmother Rose Marie. My Former Relationships Had To All Be With Males ONLY!! I Could Never Go On Any Dates With A Female. My Relationship Even My Marriage With My Ex Husband Was Arranged By My Mother, And Her Mother (Both Now Deceased), So I Am Really Confused. I Am Attracted To Women More Than Men!! I Have A Lot Of Questions To Ask. I Don't Really Truely Have Any Decent Friends. Thank You For Your Time!

All Body Sizes Matter!!!!!!

u r funny love u guys But I think you are ordinary and cheerful people, and you can do all what you love A number in the balance can not affect your sweet spirit

Where are skinny people? :/

1:28 GIVE IT BACK!!!

What about skinny people? I'm super skinny and not because I want to. I'm like this and honestly I don't like it, I have been bullied because of it.

I think it would be cool if y'all did a how you see me with christian pastors and youth pastors. We are misjudged in the world and in our own churches. The world thinks we are bigoted, self righteous, judgmental people that wield the Bible as our right to condemn people for their sins, which don't get me wrong, some pastors are like that. But honestly most just want to show others real authentic love and grace as much as we can and tell others about the Jesus that we truly believe is the Son of God who loves you no matter what. As a pastor, I am just as messed up as everyone else is, I just want to show others the love that has been shown to me.

when I read BODY SIZE I thought it was gonna be about different body sizes. Skinny people are judged and stereotyped too. And I'm still waiting for the Latino video.

2:42 she is super beautiful

that guy is so attractive oh my god 😍😍😍

You could create the same video regarding height, shorter people are ridiculed and teased in our culture. Most American women refuse to date someone who is shorter than them. This gets overlooked because there is nothing the short person can do to overcome these issues, at least if your overweight you have ways of reducing your weight.