I'm trying to cut off my haram relationship for the sake of Allah... please pray for my strength to face it

Being single is very difficult nowadays, the social media is crazy out there. I just pray Allah to give me a pious wife, i am 24 and sick of these temptation. muslim communities should make the marriages easy wallahi. May Allah guide us all and give us sabr.

Man, this perfectly describes my situation right now. I am a student in a boarding school in Malaysia. I'm a 16 year old boy. There's this girl that every once in a while (not often but it's noticeable) comes at me to ask questions related to education. You know, subject related questions. Not personal questions. Thing is, she decides to ask these questions to me, and only me. Alhamdulillah, Allah has gifted me with the ability to be able to understand what the teacher teach in class really easily. However, in my class, there are students even better than me. So it makes me think, why me? I thought to myself, 'There's other students in my class that are better than me, and most of them are girls. It would undoubtedly be better if she asked these questions at them (my girl classmates that are better than me) rather than me because well, they're better than me, they can explain things better than I do and most of all, they're of the same gender, so I can keep my distance and insyaallah, avoid zina.' Once, she asked me these questions, again, and I told her about what I think. I told her it's better if she just asked her girl classmates rather than me. However, she insisted that she only wants to ask me. Now here is where things escalate. One day, she's at it again. Asking me questions. However, this time, my girl classmates shipped me with her. Like, they made a joke that both me and the girl are in love with each other. I denied it, of course, but to my surprise, the girl didn't. I said things like 'No, we aren't in love' etc. But she just stood there, not denying what her classmates were saying. This is where I got the idea that she likes me. Thing is, I also like her, but I choose to keep this halal and I will approach her dad and talk about my feelings for her when the time is right. But the time is, 100%, not now. Now's the time to learn, not to love. I have been trying my best to contain my feelings for her. Alhamdulillah, so far, it's still under control. I haven't started a haram relationship with her yet. I hope to keep it that way. I hope this goes the same to all others too. Stay strong and remember, this world is only a pitstop, where the real destination is Heaven, our homeland.

Almost 80% of my friends had girlfriends before or have now. But Alhamdulillah I never had. Allah protected me from this. May Allah make our eyes wide awake.

Only the perfect couples are those arranged by Allah.

best thing I heard: you're not giving her advice, you're just spending more time with her

I have'nt seen her but i love her , i have'nt heard her but i am waiting for her , i dont care if she is buetifull or not , i dont care if she is rich or poor , i lower my gaze even if the girls are attractive to me becuase i know that she only deserves my sight , she only deserves my love because she is the other half allah has made for me , the love of my heart, the love of my life , the love of my eternal after life , my unknown future spouse that allah has created for me ... They may say that we muslims doesnt know the meaning of true love , but we muslims are filling our clouds of love for all these years so that we can rain her with love after the nikah ,THE TRUE LOVE May allah provide all of our muslim singles (including me) a worthy pious wife/hus ... Ameen

i broke up with my girlfriend 7 years ago and i was heartbroken and sworn not to have a girlfriend for years and after 2 years i was thinking that I should find a girlfriend, but alhamdullilah after not having a girlfriend for 2 years I was thinking to myself that theres nothing wrong with it. I can live without it, and after 7 years (im 26 years old now) and I can say ive matured a lot, I think more on responsibilities more and If i were to marry i want to find a good pious women, inshaallah. I thank Allah for breaking me with my girlfriend 7 years ago and save me from adulteries tilll now. Pray for me brothers and sisters so that I get married fast and with a good women. haha

I would be happy if I got a dad like him

We are living in an Ultimately shameless world. May our Creator protect all of us and bestow his peace kindness and mercy upon us.

My last breakup was 2 years ago, and until now I don't have any close relationship with any men. The great thing about being single is I have lots of time to develop myself, spend time with families and good friends, and of course get close to Allah. I don't think I can love Allah this much if I'm still in a relationship with my boyfriend. But what disappoints me is I'm living in a society where having a boyfriend/girlfriend is winning. A single man/woman is being treated as a loser. It's a "sin" if I spend Saturday night alone or go anywhere alone. People look down on me because of that. I hate it because I don't want this to ruin my iman. I don't want this to affect me and make me fall into relationship that Allah forbids.

I fell in love a year ago, but never been in a relationship. It was just my heart that yearned for him. We talked few times only, but my feelings were rooted . I prayed for allah to help and guide me. Although it still hurts I learned long ago to hide my feelings and now and then I pray for him. May Allah guide us all insha'Allah.

When I had my previous Instagram account. I used to text guys a lot. I never dated anyone or had a boyfriend but my guilty actions were texting and chit chatting, but later I swore to never do it again and Alhamdulillah it's been months and I had never felt better and happier and to my SISTERS who think that chit chatting in social media will bring you a husband. You are in a BIG delusion. May Allah forgive our sins and grant us Jannah Al firdous.

I wish I could press "like"more than once!

my 1st language is Arabic and I really love when you explain and translate the Ayat to English , you make it so simple and understandable May Allah Bless You

I am 22 & in those years I haven't engage myself into this gf/bf thing ever, Alhamdulillah. It's not like that I was not tempted by this idea but in the end, I restrain myself from envolving in this loopwhole. All praises to Allah who gives me the mental strength to do so. Now-a-days this relationship thing is becoming normal day by day which should not be, so thank you for your valuable advice, it'll be a reminder for my future & keep spreading peace.

Ya Allah, i felt like he was personally talking to me -.- May Allah protect us all from haram relationships, Ameen

I want to get married by end of next year, I'm only 21 now and I have found someone who is serious about me and marrying me. We are both students but want to get married to please Allah and earn peace and contentment of the heart InshaAllah. Make dua for us that Allah grant us the strength to work through it InshaAllah

Although I fell in love with my lover, I left her because it was a sin. I hope it will be good in the future.

Man when he just said, "I hope you man up and turn this into an hallal relationship!", I just had a sigh of relieve! Subhanallah!

MashaAllah, I haven't had any boyfriend since birth. And I guess that's something to be proud of, anyway I find all ur speech and stuff so comforting and helpful, indeed ur making a great difference to once life esp. to the youth nowadays.

Allah is with the patient.

i watched this video three years ago while i was in a haram relationship and prayed i can get the courage to break it off and alhumduallah i finally did last year. i kept this video in my mind for a long time

...don't say i m strong and i can handle......gentlemen Hazrat Yusuf a.s. was much...much stronger than we all yet he ran to the door.....amazing....may Allah help us take heed, aameen!

May Allah give me a future husband can guide me more better.. Aamiin. InshaAllah.. Just follow Allah for better life. He never leave us . Allah Ya Kareem

Alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah Allah has protected me from social media alhamdulillah Allah has always protected me from the GF bf culture alhamdulillah after watching this video I realized how big trouble Allah has protected me from alhamdulillah shukran allah

Alhumdullilla i m 22 nd never had any haram relationship i just believe that pairs are made by allah long time ago so when right time comes will find it automatically

I was in a long distance relationship..we were so much close and was best friend before... Then suddenly we broke up and it was from her side bcz of a family issue.. I am born muslim but didn't have much knowledge about islam.. And i used to think it's not that much haram or something to be in a relationship.. Actually i didn't even prayed except jum'aa... But when she left me i started praying and supplicating to Allah that to give her back to me(ASAP as a gf)...bcz i missed her a lot and truly loved... Than i suddenly found some videos on islam.. I started learning a lot than before.. And understood Rltnship is haram.. But i was still praying to Allah to give her back if as a friend..but i decided if she come back want relationship i will try to make it halal through marriage and if she want friendship(as she asked at the time of brkup to be a frnd) i'll give it bcz i thought it's may be not that much sin to be friend.. after 2 month suddenly she came back and wanted friendship so i give it her as decided.. But by the time passed i get to knw that even talking to girl without reason is also prohibited.. So i decided to leave her.. And i did few days back...and i stopped talking to other girls... But some days after i again started to miss her and i'm feeling like i still love her.. I knw it sounds dumb...like I want her in halal way by marriage but it's not possible... I'm so much broken now...can't even concentrate in my prayers. So will someone suggest me what to do in that situation.. I don't want to continue any kind of haram things...I just want to be a religious person... Pray for me that Allah may give me proper hidayah.. Keep me in the right path... And plz suggest me how can i overcome that broken situation and can stick to my deen

i just got dumped by someone who i thought Allah sent to me for a life to be spent together. i thought the mutual pure intentions to marry each other were the signs of a relationship bonded by Allah. but i was proven wrong. as soon as i got dumped i started questioning why my relationship didn't work out and all that. in the end i just accepted that i was chasing the person more than i pursued Allah the longer i stayed in the relationship. people would be sad and yes i was sad only for a short period of time then i started to pursue the love of Allah and Alhamdulillah the "pain and sadness" slowly faded away and the key is always acceptance. by being sad and not moving on, you're not accepting the reality bc of the one you made in your head, where you stay w the person forever. throw that mindset away, Allah has saved you from the wrong one. the love of Allah is greater than any form of love you can ever have in this world

I was in a relationship( never did anything physical) and both sides wanted to make it halal but it broke off and now I'm here regretting giving a namehram my heart and trying to get over the feelings...

He's absolutely right- the problem is that Muslims make it so excruciatingly difficult to get married.

when you r being seduced,run like Yusuf!

I am a sophomore and sometimes I feel a bit lonely because nowadays people look at relationships and having a girlfriend as a success or happiness. May Allah guide me to a good relationship one day and get me to be a better place in life.

everytime im tempted icome here, Alhemdoulillah this person exist. thank you allah.

The way he can connect something from the Quran with something and make an example out of it is bonkers beautiful!

May Allah grant us all the highest ranks of jannah Amen 🤲🏽

Eyes and shirt...same colour

His eyes reflect his pure soul ,Noor of salaah subhanallah

I used to be a stud but I'm trying to be a good Muslim and the hilarious thing about it is that I just have turned 18 today and I know Allah will help me in this journey. you guys pray for me that may Allah grant me courage. why courage because I'm an orphan and I was trying to find out love in the wrong place but I ended up terribly.

This story of Yousuf (peace be upon him) helped me to overcome my haram relationship and thanks to Nouman Ali Khan for the excellent explanation. All praise is due to Allah 👌

I'm so upset with my self. I'm in haram relationship and yesterday I leave her for the shake of Allah . But still her memories are hurting me😓 . I just need allah's guidance and I hope I'll be a better muslim .

I once had a girlfriend but she isnt muslim. If I followed everything she wanted, Id probably be a fornicator already. recently she left me because she doesnt like the fact that im a muslim and I am very sad because I really love her very much. And this, here is a good reminder to stay away from such things. Anyway, I do hope she finds the right path and not have to endure hell. Anyone wants free good deeds, please pray for my well being and hers too. Thanks

I never had a boyfriend but felt bad because all my friends had but not anymore 😊😊thanks alot

I really love him he is fab.And he changed my way of thinking about the Quran .May Allah guide us all lots of love from kashmir brother Noman

alhamdullilah i never talked close to strange girls but allah gave me one more extra ability to run away from girls haha but i am upset in my class there r so many boyz who have gf may allah open thier mind to wright path ameen i m in 10 th std allah pls keep the whole world away from sins ameen and inshallah we will score good marks in 10 th pray for everyone

im scared after hearing this. i hope i dont do it again, thank you brother, definitely something i need to hear.

May Allah save us...

"... If you can not cut it off, that you make it halal ... " at 9:05. Amen, for all my brothers and sisters. May Allah guide us.

thank you brother Nouman, i really needed this. May Allah SWT grant you and the people in Quran Weekly a special place in jannah. and may Allah SWT keep us away from doing this sin ameen

جزاك الله خيرا .. و رزقنا الله جميعا العفاف و التقى .. و أغنانا بحلاله عن حرامه 🌸

I really like Nouman Ali Khan ...the way he speaks and the way he tells us all this ...love it! May Allah give him a HIGHHH place in JANNAH!

It could not have been explained better. The best response to an indecent situation as described is 'no response'. How beautifully explained in the Quran and how well explained by brother Nouman! Jzk

Thanks for highlighting these verses of Quran. I didn't paid attention upon the essence of these verses before. Just pass by it. Brother Nouman is Blessed with knowledge we require today.

I can't believe that there's brothers and sisters out there that don't trust this guy or rate him. Like.. why? What valid reason do you have to not like this guy and believe in his knowledge. Allah subhanahu wa ta ala has blessed this brother with piety, respect and digestible knowledge. May he be rewarded greatly! Ameen. May the blessing, peace and mercy of Allah subhanahu wa ta ala be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad. Ameen.

brother Noman Ali khan: Allah swt guided me through your youtube video! Thank you so much, May Allah swt grant you and your family Jannatul Ferdous.

THIS SIMPLE EXPLATION BOOSTED ME ENOORMOUSLY mashALLAH, Barakallah alayKum.

What a priceless finishing. The last few minutes could be no better. 💓 Thank you Nouman Ali Khan for everything you are doing.

I just want to thank you, not just for this video but for all the ones like it that you have made. Each was great and reminded/taught us about things we should be/not be doing. May Allah swt bless you

I really needed to hear this, thanks

Youssef had encountered a serious set of temptations !! Beauty of the Queen , wealth , position !! Yet refused !! someone of us will run to , not from such ** treasure ** :( , except those who are being preserved by Allah the Almighty , May Allah keep us clean until we find the Halal , ameen

I'm speechless, Baraka allahou fikoum :)

Shukran for sharing this much needed reminder for the youth!May Allah Protect us all Ameen..

I thought it only me avoid from haram relationship..Actually many people know the reality and fear of Allah swt.. Alhamdulillah,i hope everyone sabr for so long because of Allah..I pray all of u get great reward in shaa Allah..

JazakAllahu Khairan Ustaz for your advice :)

Mashallah In my although life I was fetching for a perfect method for cut off my those sins, ultimately ustad you show me a perfect practical task to stand away from these harams, may allah bless you, jazakallah khair

SubhanAllah, just the strength I was looking for ! Allah bless

MashAllah. after watching this video, I'm seeing this story differently. May Allah reward you for beautifully explaining this story to all of us!

Nouman Ali Khan, please suggest me a dua to recite for someone who in a haram relationship. May Allah shower you His mercy and keep you healthy and wise to keep leading us toward becoming practicing Muslims. Jazak'Allah Khayr.

Liked the Video just because of how he used "awesome" to describe his character. In todays world where awesome people have one (if not more) "Girls" {and the other way round as wello} its nice to here awesome ness in the sense of his character being "awe-able"

alhamdulillah.. I have been tru a really tough situation which has left d biggest scar of my life so far.. due to d insult from d dearest one whom u nurtured and fostered for 3 years like ur own kid.. but ultimate result was very terrific which has shattered me completely.. However, I became close to Allah bcoz of that dearest person for which I would always b thankful to her. and indeed grateful to Allah for making me withstand and move on in my life..Nouman videos r like d healing antidote for such circumstances..May Allah bless us all. ..Alhamfulillah

YUP! HE'S THE MAN! LOVE THE WAY NOUMAN IS DIRECT AND TELLS HIS AUDIENCE HOW IT IS AND HOW IT SHOULD BE! ...man there's way too many Muslims youths thinking it's totally okay to have bf & gfs ...may Allah guide us all!

The feeling of ignorance keeps us constantly learning and trying to know. 🌍⏰👍👌

SubhanAllah! you explained it so well ustadh and the seriousness of the tone really makes us ponder that how can we disobey Allah for such silly things!

Jazāk Allāhu Khayran Nouman! May Allah [Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala] protect you & shower His countless blessings upon you and your family.

I need to watch this from time to time. Thank you.

I just wanted to thank you, thank you thank you

I am listening to your speech with tears in my eyes. I try to pray five times and keep my utmost faith towards Allah SWT but the problem is I have a girlfriend. I am having this immense problem to leave her. I just can't leave her. I love her and I have given promises to her. I want to make the relationship halal right now right this moment but our parents won't accept it because I'm still doing my graduate and I don't have a job.

Jazaak Allah Khair for sharing Qur'an Weekly..

Patience is truly the key word here, I live in Australia and I can say that temptation is everywhere, I’m 24 years old now and I mean everyone is doing it. Nowadays, if you tell people that you’ve never had a Gf/Bf they think somethings wrong with you and that kinda made me depressed, but I’m adamant that I’ll only get married.

I always make dua so that Allah can help me overcome temptations, but its very hard.

Thanks Alot I needed that advice I'm lucky I watched this video

May Allah (swt) bless the makers and speaker of this video... Jazakallahu khair ...

May Allah bless you usthadh Khan this is a very edifying reminder and warning

He is talking about me I mean this is to me Ameen Ameen Ameen Masha Allah Ustadh

Subhannallah it is very scary. I dated Once and only Once and it was I who initiated the seperation because I was beginning to loose sight of myself and I was thinking more and more like her. I knew what I was doing was wrong and I knew Allah was watching me and I didn't care anyway... it's very scary. And each time my mind was cleared of lust, all the guilt and shame and my senses everything came back all at once. But Alhamdulillah we did not spend much time together because of distance and things didn't get far, with support from my friends Alhamdulillah I was able to overcome the test and end the relationship. Especially in this day and age, it's a constant struggle for young muslims especially with so much temptation.

I really appreciate your videos they are so refreshing and hold much guidance. Jazak Allah

Every human must listen and understand this is of great piece ,., subhanaAllah This is why ollamas are essential for our LIVES May Allah bless u and all of us with emaan and FILLUP our hearts with noor-e-emaan Ameeen ya Rabbi

let's make it simple: 1)spot a boy/girl in your workplace whom you're interested in 2)start talk (and it should be big talk) 3)develop a platonic relationship 4) find similarities 5) inform parents 6) after a month or two, get married

"Astagfirullah, that's haram sister, you really should think about what you're saying..." XD That made me laugh, wonderful analysis of this juz, a prevalent reminder for us all indeed

I was finding this 😭😭😭😭😢😢😢 thnkzz to Allah ..has all answers in the Qur'an ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Such a nice video! Jazakallah brother Nooman!

Assalamu alaiykum.. dear ones plz do dua for me... Include me in ur prayers... I didnt want to be in this haram relatn anymore... I just want to live a happy...halal life.... Faithful to my parents and to Allah.... Plz help me ...

I wish there was a resit button in life, I feel like drowning , alone and feel distant from the most high. Can you guys pray for me as a brother in Islam? Or is it too much to ask?

Shukriya Brother Nouman..I am pleased this video was put up. Many thanks!

Amazing :) so glad i watched this today!

I had haram relationship😥😥 ya allah forgive me

I once had a Girlfriend, i prayed to allah to make us break up without both of us not hurting up , i prayed soo hard , next day we broke up , may allah always grant our wishes

May Allah grant u the highest level of Jannah

MasyaAllah a very beneficial content especially for young people

Looool 'you have a husband woman' 😂😂 mashallah this is an amazing guide and inshallah you will get ajar from each person that this affects