Brandon Novak Talks Sobriety and Addiction with Mike the Situation

Brandon Novak Talks Sobriety and Addiction with Mike the Situation - The Hope Dealer

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In this first episode of The Hope Dealer, Mike "The Situation" Sorrentino sits down to interview fellow MTV alumni Brandon Novak - formerly of Viva La Bam, Jackass, and ex-professional skateboarder.
Both men have another thing in common too: they overcame their personal obstacles of addiction to lead a better life.
Mike talks to Brandon about sobriety, resentment, growing up in Baltimore, and more.
"Tough Times Don't Last, But Tough People Do"
TIMECODES OF WHAT WAS DISCUSSED:
0:50 - Brandon's story, and celebrating five years clean and sober
3:44 - Brandon: "I'm not in control of anything. The moment I put expectations on you, all I've done is put unrealistic expectations on you... I'm sure to be let down... The #1 offender is resentment."
5:40 - Getting sober is just the beginning
7:00 - The dangers of having a job that consisted of "knowing everything"
8:31 - How Mike helped Brandon get out of his own way
11:00 - What it means to say "I'm an alcoholic"
12:05 - Do you still have an obsessive or addictive personality?
15:35 - "My defects have become my assets"
16:57: - What was meant to destroy you has given you an entirely new life
18:45 - Brandon on being a certified interventionist
20:39 - Brandon's new book "The Streets of Baltimore"
22:54 - Brandon's people were finished with him
24:40 - Brandon didn't have a laptop before quarantine
26:35 - Brandon is a keynote speaker for the DEA
29:39 - What advice could you give someone who has to make a change?
31:24 - Any specific stories that standout you want to share?
35:54 - What should people know about the steps of recovery?
37:41 - Finding 1,000 ways to fail
38:05 - Closing thoughts: "find what you love"
40:58 - "Tough times don't last, but tough people do"
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@svddsosa7396 3 жыл бұрын

the most unexpected crossover ever !! i love these two

@mandalynn33 3 жыл бұрын

Yes I love these two people

@BeNZoJosh 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. & I love it‼️ haha. Hell yeah!

@gusulises1758 2 жыл бұрын

sorry to be off topic but does anyone know a method to log back into an Instagram account? I was stupid forgot the password. I appreciate any help you can offer me!

@StephyG95 2 жыл бұрын

Same! Although it does makes sense since they both worked for MTV, I'm not surprised they know of each other.

@CristianIvarra 2 жыл бұрын

I been watching these two for so long I forgot it was 2 different shows!

@Retro-2-now 3 жыл бұрын

Huge Novak fan and a fan of Mike. I just celebrated 5 years sober in May. I battled a 15 year opiate addiction. My life has completely changed. Mine and Brandon’s sober dates are like a day or two apart. I have a video on my channel the thumbnail is a map that says “Why Ohio?!”

@TheSituations 3 жыл бұрын

Congrats on 5 years 🙏🏼

@Retro-2-now 3 жыл бұрын

The Situations thank you, do you have an email? I can send you my video. I would love o talk addiction and sobriety with you. That’s ones reason I started my page, I wanted a bigger platform t tell my stories. People used to ask why I would ever move from Florida to Ohio and when I would tell them, my now wife would always ask me why I told everyone, I always say “you never know who you are talking to” meaning, you never know what they are going through.

@Retro-2-now 3 жыл бұрын

The Situations and congrats on your sobriety. To be honest, you went from the douche bag to our favorite member of the show. Every time we are in the store and one of us sees Funfetti cake, we say “funfetti(s)” 😂

@Retro-2-now 3 жыл бұрын

@@mattd6323 thank you 👊🏻

@SS-cd6ie 3 жыл бұрын

How did you recover? Thx.

@2dope278 3 жыл бұрын

“Don’t ask me how to prepare taxes”. Love how mike laughed right away after Brandon said that LOL

@corrinaamato8805 3 жыл бұрын

Oh shit... I just "got" that lmao thanks for pointing that out . Mike was cool tho... said no worries I have no ego--- such a different cool person!!

@jesusiscomingsoon7711 3 жыл бұрын

I started running from God at 14 and stopped at 31.. I'm 35yrs old and clean now. All Glory Be to God !!! Jesus Christ is my power!! And only reason I'm alive today!!!!

@michaelcrennan7856 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mike. I am starting my journey to recovery.

@jaybird8009 3 жыл бұрын

I've been in rehab with 10 other addicts and we watched Brandon Novak's addiction story on KZfaq. I ALSO use to love Jersey shore and have been watching all of Mike and Lauren's food reviews. Not in a million years would I see a collab from both of these men. I'm 3 weeks sober and I dont plan on going back. Whenever I think about using I TELL somebody.

@deannepeabody9829 3 жыл бұрын

420Bake dankshit hang in there. It’s 4 yrs for me. You can do it!

@jenniferlove4553 3 жыл бұрын

This is so awesome! I am clean 14 years now. Watching shows/ podcast/ documentaries about addiction and sobriety is kind of like going to meetings for me. Educating myself on other people’s stories makes it easier to understand my own story.

@michaelsorrentino7423 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jennifer for your time spent, in viewing my post 🖐️🖐️🖐️❤️

@michaelsorrentino7423 3 жыл бұрын

My dear, I can see that you are a good fan of mine........and as well a friend to me. Dearie is a pleasure to have you here ❤️❤️❤️

@MarkDorschJr 3 жыл бұрын

I actually also got 5 years back on April 2nd. Congrats to Brandon. And Mike, love that you're doing so well. It has been awesome to see, man.

@lynettez72 3 жыл бұрын

I grew up watching Novak getting wasted while I was getting wasted. I'm so blessed to have celebrated 13 years sober this past July. I should be dead with the things I did to myself. I'm so unbelievably proud of these two role models. If anyone is struggling with the disease and honestly wants to get help, reach out to someone. You don't have to do it alone; actually you can't. God Bless Everyone!

@562debkat 3 жыл бұрын

As a mother, I am so proud of you Mike. You are consistent at blowing me away with your goodness. That was a great interview with Novak.

@jesusiscomingsoon7711 3 жыл бұрын

We all are living on GOD'S Grace and Mercy!!! This message is so important!!!

@empowerlovegrow 3 жыл бұрын

This was absolutely beautiful! I’m one year sober after overdosing and my life hasn’t been the same ever since. I feel sooo grateful! It was one of the hardest things I had to do but the payoff was a lot better than using. Thanks for putting this out! I always loved Novac and never though you two would collaborate but I was super excited when I saw this pop up on my timeline. Thanks again! ❤️

@davidjohnson10285 Жыл бұрын

BE STILL AND KNOW I AM GOD. AT this moment Im sitting on the Right side of the street from the wrong side of hell I Left walking out of. Today is Beautiful! Thanks for sharing, and all the hard recovery work you all are doing.

@CarmenReyes-wv9oy 3 жыл бұрын

Just wanted to congratulate you on your five year anniversary!!! You are definitely an inspiration and proof that it can be done. Good luck to you, you deserve all good things. Blessings to you and yours.

@carlosmacias8530 3 жыл бұрын

Wow this is interesting! Never thought I’d see these two ever talk! Totally different world. Viva la bam, & jersey shore! Both MTV tho. So stoked on this. Thanks for the vid, keep it up!!

@MuskokaLocal 3 жыл бұрын

Very inspirational for people going through the same type of addiction issues. It's good to see you guys on the same track and only feeling better. It's a hard fight and you both beat It's ass.

@sanietorres1090 3 жыл бұрын

Man I absolutely LOVED this! It is always such a blessing to see other recovering addicts thriving and inspiring! April of next year will be my 10 years sober and it is always just a crazy thing to hear myself say the number of years sober. May you both continue on this sobriety journey to many many more years! ❤️🙏

@michaelsorrentino7423 3 жыл бұрын

Alright dear I acknowledge your effort, and time spent in viewing my channel for years. And knew that you can not let me than. God will continue watch you as you keep watching this channel 🙏🙏🙏

@jacobandreas2231 3 жыл бұрын

3 weeks clean today from fentanyl and 3 months from alcohol. I know it’s not much but longest I’ve been sober for awhile . Wishes to everyone tryna get sober. It does get better I promise.

@boidinktwistie4389 3 жыл бұрын

how you doing man?

@gnd333 3 жыл бұрын

This series couldn’t have come at a better time. Thank you for all that you do

@michaelsorrentino7423 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks dear

@corrinaamato8805 3 жыл бұрын

Love this. Mike as everyone says your comeback is so very inspirational. This interview was GREAT you are a natural. I haven't watched seasoned pros do such an awesome job. You didn't talk over Brandon your sincerity in genuinely LISTENING to him could really be seen. I pick up on things like that and haven't seen such a natural discussion. I'm trying once again at 39 yrs old to get sober . I woke up and had some green tea and decided to watch something positive instead of opening social media etc... I'm so glad I did. I listen to you and Lauren's podcast which I LOVE and heard u both talk about this new project. ... I'm so glad I chose to start my day on this positive note. Thanks for sharing Mike and Brandon..

@mimilarue80 3 жыл бұрын

LOVED THIS‼️‼️‼️ fan of both of you🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️‼️‼️‼️ this was such a great conversation to listen to

@SarahSizzle 3 жыл бұрын

God and his living Word saved me from addiction. I went to Teen Challenge Cincinnati which is a nine month faith based inpatient rehab and I have never been the same since I started studying God and having a relationship with him. Now I have custody back of my kids and I am in college aspiring to be a lawyer !

@drummaboi5879 3 жыл бұрын

stay blessed & never 4get the hell addiction put ya thru

@michaelsorrentino7423 3 жыл бұрын

Believe my dear and you will be save🙏🙏🙏

@danetritz2706 3 жыл бұрын

so awesome to see you're both doing well! used to watch you guys on tv a lot

@garythefish5743 3 жыл бұрын

*Love seeing you guys together*

@paulschmac8098 3 жыл бұрын

WE NEED MORE VIDEOS GUYS. THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH FOR DOING THIS. WE ARE NOT ALONE AND THATS COMFORTING. EVERYBODY THAT HAS SEEN THIS VIDEO, I PRAY FOR THE STRENTGH TO GET THROUGHT ANOTHER DAY..🙏🙏👊💯

@paulschmac8098 3 жыл бұрын

O YEAH ONE MORE THING... WHEN SITUATION MIKE SAID...(TOUGH TIMES DONT LAST PEOPLE DO) THAT WAS DOPE. NEVER HEARD THAT ONE IT WILL STICK WITH ME FOREVER THANKS MY GUY

@loriloo1039 3 жыл бұрын

You need to have Steve O on. He also has an inspiring story.

@michaelsorrentino7423 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks my dear.

@dazzads 2 жыл бұрын

that would be so awesome.

@cv6979 3 жыл бұрын

So inspiring! So much strong and positive energy! Thank you so much! 🌱✌️💪

@samanthalundberg1283 3 жыл бұрын

Mike you have come a long way from all the shit in the past you are a big inspiration to me and a lot of people in this world. bless you # yeah buddy

@jesusiscomingsoon7711 3 жыл бұрын

This is the massage we have to spread!!! Thank you Mike and Brandon. I'm been a fan since jumpstreat! My hats off to you both!!!!

@danielleleven7676 3 жыл бұрын

This is a fantastic message to spread. I hope the brothers and sisters that are still suffering come across this video ❤️ 7 years clean here!

@donnamorano8517 3 жыл бұрын

I love to hear success stories . Im so happy for you !!! Stay strong , stay positive and Stay Safe !!! Congratulations to you !! JerseyGirl 👍🙏

@brittanystephenson8332 3 жыл бұрын

I watched all of this and im motivated by it and inspired!! Please keep striving!! I know I will!

@mattwinston1745 Жыл бұрын

Mike you are an inspiration to me, I am coming up on one year clean in a few weeks. Your recovery is motivating, thank you for showing me that change is possible.

@bebe7385 3 жыл бұрын

Made me so emotional! May the universe bless you and yours with continual strength, unconditional love and peace of mind. Thank you for the truth, power thinking and positivity.

@trancehead3232 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words. Don't know you but hopefully somewhere down in life I can run into u at a meeting. But if not God bless you and your family...

@PapawsDadillacOEMplus 3 жыл бұрын

Two solid people who weve all watched grow over the years. Great collab

@believ3urok513 3 жыл бұрын

The hope you guys give is so awesome. 2 1/2 years clean and sober, the isolation of the pandemic is almost overwhelming. Case of the "fuckits". but grateful I clicked on this vid today

@danielle228512 3 жыл бұрын

So proud of you Mike you are a real inspiration for me to get sober for good! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

@sheteg1 3 жыл бұрын

When I look back at episodes I can see when Mike got a bit depressed and short with his cast mates. Was probably when he was out of drugs to take. The up and down of addiction. You have matured to an awesome guy ! Thank you Lauren for being his best supporter. Lauren saved your life. Lucky Man ! Btw: love the videos. 💕. Come to Canada 🇨🇦 when covid is over to try some of our fast food options on cheat day.

@sinenomine7405 3 жыл бұрын

That being said I was addicted to opiates for 12 years Started with oxycontin and moved to heroin when they became scarce and expensive Started selling heroin to support my habit I got sick of the chase, got sick of being sick got sick of being watched and constantly harassed by cops, got sick of the whole scene The day came where I had enough and looked up detoxing from opiates That when I discovered methadone I went to many clinics is was in and out of them still dabbling with using blah blah and one day it clicked I don't want to Live that life anymore, I dont want to die like this or spend 20 years in jail for dealing I got back on methadone worked the program and it saved my life and it gave me my life back and I was able to be a functioning member of society. Alot of people look down on methadone or suboxone because yes, it can be abused and used as a crutch for when you just don't have your drugs and you don't have to be sick but can still use (not suboxone so much because it blocks the opiate receptors, if you take it like you're supposed to) I've been clean for 9 years and still to this day I still have moments where I want to use but I know where that road leads and it solves nothing, I recommend it to anyone looking to stop using as long as that's what they truly want and if they are willing to be uncomfortable for a period of time, because even that way there is a still a time of withdrawal when coming off methadone, some say it's a bit worse and longer because of is half life, especially these days street drugs have become more tainted than ever One of the best decisions I've ever made

@mikeyrizzo7606 2 жыл бұрын

Holy crap dude! How amazingly awesome is this? Two of my recovery guru's talking about their long journeys to sobriety with each other.

@shellisapp 3 жыл бұрын

Mike, your stories are keeping me going in sobriety! You may or may not know how inspiring you are. Thank you!

@asuas3115 3 жыл бұрын

I would've never thought... I loved watching both of them growing up huge fan of both of these big personas & their stories what a treat God bless brothers 🙏🏼

@lasenorita4256 2 жыл бұрын

Glad 2 c u r doin so well. Keep u in my prayers 🙏👍

@KombuchaBabe 3 жыл бұрын

Greatful for you Mike ! You are a huge inspiration ♥️

@martincorbett7168 3 жыл бұрын

wow i just found this, have my own problems rn awesome to see these too together

@mikepastorelli9475 3 жыл бұрын

Mike thank you for this interview. Between you and brandon I'm going into detox this Saturday for the 5th-6th time. All of your stories. Have pushed me to do better for my family. And who woulda thought. My fav jersey shore cast member would make me look at life so much differently. Thank you Mike. And wish me luck buddy!

@MrManofallmen 3 жыл бұрын

i really enjoyed watching this, a crossover that we didnt know we needed, one thing i would have liked to see is mike share his side of sobriety and addiction.

@teresawright4748 3 жыл бұрын

THIS IS OUTSTANDING!!!!! Beautiful!!

@genavievevenuto3984 3 жыл бұрын

Love this I can relate I’m 12 years sober great message!

@jaybates4910 3 ай бұрын

Mike donated the gym at discovery. I just got out of there and that gym saved me from myself. Thank you mike

@mitchellshaw3145 3 жыл бұрын

Wow!! Just a conversation I never thought I would here. I have so much respect for you mike. What a beautiful transformation, so much authenticity. Keep spreading the positivity. One day at a time. Really beautiful. Soberity is a wonderful gift. I have subscribed ❤️

@mitchellshaw3145 3 жыл бұрын

Novak I have been following you for a while now such a big inspiration in my recovery ❤️

@mitchellshaw3145 3 жыл бұрын

I’m 53 days sober today. God willing I will make it to 54

@chrisb616 3 жыл бұрын

So proud of you, Mike! Anything is possible!!!

@amberducharme7108 3 жыл бұрын

I love this so much and it opened my mind and eyes to so much. Im currently trying to overcome this one day at a time and you both are big inspirations 🙏🏻 Also I love that you put time stamps and topics in your description, thats a great idea!! Thank you for this 🙌🏼🙌🏼

@TheSituations 3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏼

@johng4950 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheSituations when you Mike and Lauren are going to come back to you guys channel

@johng4950 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheSituations when are you guys are coming back to your guys channel and eating your guys best life

@christinaainsworth7781 3 жыл бұрын

Day 16 being clean!!! I feel amazing

@michaelsorrentino7423 3 жыл бұрын

Wow....... that is good

@iwatchvideos1 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy for both of them

@buddymccollum7088 3 жыл бұрын

Great show mike, Brandon is one of my favorites I was happy to see another stellar speach, filled with hope and purpose.. keep shining, congratulations on 5 years....#themessangerman

@jakemitchem7726 3 жыл бұрын

I was about to say yea that's so relatable I have ocd now bad cuz I quit everything it's fun being sober y'all are my favorite people

@karabates7823 2 жыл бұрын

Love them both and their honesty.

@Dmorebread 3 жыл бұрын

That was great! I was just thinking about novak the other day and wondering if he was clean or not. Good shit bro!!!

@MDeL101 Жыл бұрын

Love these 2.. never would have thunk it!

@bradical333 3 жыл бұрын

Mike, yur an inspiration. In the process of getting sober myself, and you (and other people) are a real inspiration. Stay well Big Daddy Sitch!

@mikepalmere7406 3 жыл бұрын

Great Video, happy for u both. Brandon don’t know me, but I know him. Highlandtown n Little Italy, same age. Glad to see you are doing well. 1 day at a time, keep it up and kudos for your message and helping so many others.

@jasonsimpkins9069 2 жыл бұрын

I'm almost done this video. It's amazing. Love me some Brando! And BDS! Also by following Brando's past you would never think of how smart he is.

@heatherabbe662 3 жыл бұрын

This is inspirational and real.

@Ashbash-kf5xd 3 жыл бұрын

In the 19 second intro alone, that is the first time I’ve ever been able to understand the words Brandon Novak was saying. I’m already impressed with his sobriety.

@izzytheminigoldendoodle 3 жыл бұрын

Congrats on the baby news guys, me and my wife have been together for 10 years and nothing yet but we still hope one day we can make one too . Happy Thanksgiving.

@irietropicals4255 3 жыл бұрын

The situation! Respect bro! Keep doing ya thang homie!

@RyZe_DaBoyz 3 жыл бұрын

Never thought I would see you talking with Brandon novak he is 100% a walking miracle he helped me get clean and congrats to the both of you on your sobriety

@karencrouse4130 3 жыл бұрын

I am watching my son .. 14 yrs of poly substance abuse ... pills- heroin- fentanyl - meth .. are literal souls are crushed as parents .. we closed the door - sold our home- moved away - just to escape our enabling behavior ... we’re waiting for him to say enough and truly want help ... to see people in recovery gives up hope

@FourDimensional1086 3 жыл бұрын

This deserves more views.

@yahir1018 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful stuff - “if he got clean I can too “ I get that saying towards me too My boy mike doing awesome stuff

@mikenoftsier6336 3 жыл бұрын

Good show Mikey Mike, I myself am in recovery also I am now a substance abuse counselor working in the field of helping others like my self. I enjoy your take on things, No Homo I been a fan going back 10 years and outta everyone I can't believe how you changed for the positive!...I have also had a lot of blessings come my way now I am clean and sober. probably won't read this or It wont mean much from me, but I am proud of you my guy!...God Bless you and beautiful wife. Keep inspiring others who need to hear this peace.

@Hunterheartspurple 3 жыл бұрын

Mike you are the best. Thank you for this 💚

@mspsychgenius 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, I really enjoyed this. I have nothing profound to add except keep your own side of the street clean. X

@christoferrbethea3488 Жыл бұрын

this is amazing

@eaglesnfc7957 3 жыл бұрын

This is great stuff and you both are an inspiration. Starting today I am going to challenge myself to be sober and ditch the booze.

@meadydoheny 3 жыл бұрын

So understand him, with the anxiety-provoking media/REAL WORLD problems...and trying to stay mentally balanced and sober

@jessicapurol2332 3 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love what you have become and still growing.... you have become such a great person i dont know you but i feel very proud for you. ✌💘

@michaelcampbell6327 3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Mike and Lauren on your new addition, all the best in the coming situations.

@stevee231 3 жыл бұрын

I watched this because of Novak, I follow his story and progress because while his story isn't any different than any addict, I follow his story because we hail from the same town, were active on the street at the same time and on more occasions than I can count we have stood in the dope lines in Highland town and various other sections of east Baltimore. I knew who he was but never approached him cuz #1 in that scenario, I didn't care nor did I think he cared to be recognized. I always thought if I approached him in that place in time then he would've tried to get in on my drugs thinking I was into his celebrity. That's how goofy your mind works. And #2 I'm just not that type of person. But none the less, we've been in the same shit hole back alley holes, 30 people deep waiting for the pitcher to come around the corner and hit the line off. For that simple reason I follow his recovery. I always remember being shocked that he was copping on the street, thinking he had the money to have connects where you didn't need to do that....but that's how hard he fell. It shocked me that were copping the same dope and coke in the pits of Baltimore city. Any way, I came here for Brandon but was pleasantly surprised by Mike. I couldn't stand him on that damn show. Now I wonder if he was merely playing a character on a "reality" show or if he's really grown that much. I couldn't believe how humble he was...it was totally unexpected.

@JayChadwickRugby 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome conversation!

@geminigem5828 3 жыл бұрын

Happy for you. Congratulations on your marriage ❤❤. You were my favorite on the show..

@jessierav3rpokehollow108 Жыл бұрын

He’s such an amazing speaker for real though. So natural and easy.

@thedriverofallthings 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you and your family Mike

@playgroundofsound7683 2 жыл бұрын

Wow that’s pretty cool video man good work

@casabonita2702 2 жыл бұрын

Mike you haven't posted on your channel in a year! Hope everything is great with your lovely family, especially that little mini Romeo. He is absolutely adorable and is your twin. Best of luck you four. 💗

@trancehead3232 3 жыл бұрын

Yo situation Ive been battling with addiction for a while. U are my inspiration for this. I recently relapsed again and again. But I'm still trying... God bless

@bebe7385 3 жыл бұрын

Keep your head up, easier said then down but don’t look back keep going forward. Better Help is an online therapy if you wanna look into it. (Affordable and convenient) sending you good juju

@TheSituations 3 жыл бұрын

1-888-270-5712 for help 24/7 🙏🏼 God bless

@johng4950 3 жыл бұрын

Mike when are you and you wife coming back to your channel

@johng4950 3 жыл бұрын

Why mike you did not reply my reply