I LOATHE manipulation and control, and make EVERY attempt not to do this in relationships. My mother is a very dominating personality, so is one of my sisters. Sucks the life out of me when I’m around them. They use isolation and rejection when they’re upset with me. Emotional abuse. It went on for years like this. I prayed, and the Holy Spirit impressed upon me, We’re your family now. Father God is the Best parent, and the Holy Spirit is the Best teacher, Helper. And Jesus is Lord over my life. I trust Him completely!

Thank you for such good counsel. I really needed this. I’ve been the one controlled and God showed me it was because I was dependent on the person. I was man pleasing. God has given me the strength to see it and stand up to my controllers. God bless you and Karen.

The last thing said was, "...I'm going to be an equal part of this relationship or I'm not going to be in this relationship." When do you call it quits when this has been warned on multiple occasions? If you're bluffing, controllers will always call your bluff.🤔

I LOVE PASTOR SERMONS.HE IS A REALLY GOOD TEACHER WE REALLY LEARN ALOT FROM HIM.HE IS A REALLY GOOD TEACHER.AND REALLY.HAS ALOT OF WISDOM.WE WOULD.LIKE TO GO TO HIS CHURCH. I AM SUPER GRATEFUL THAT WE FOUND HIM ON CHRISTIAN T.V.AND WE HEAR HIS TEACHING ON WHAT WILL BE THE SIGNS OF JESUS COMING .I AM NOT TO SMART.BUT HE MAKES IT EASY FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND.I THANK GOD FOR JIMMY EVANS AND HIS WIFE. THANK YOU FROM N.G

Wow, I wish I knew all of this a long long time ago. Good lesson. 😊

I needed this, i need so much prayer. This sounds like me. I am so controlling, this sermon actually made me cry

Excellent wise counsel. Thank you Pastor!

Funny thing. Those that seek to control others, do not exhibit SELF CONTROL.

Thank you, Pastor Jimmy Evans for that message; it blessed my marriage!Praise God!

I Claim It And I Receive it and I Touch And Agree with Pastor Jimmy Evans In This Spiritual Message And Prayer In Jesus mighty name AMEN And AMEN

Jimmy your life reminds me of what I went through. It is different but so similar it's not funny. I am struggling in my life right now and need this message

1) Don't yoke w/an Unbeliever. 2) Don't yoke w/an Idolater (Prideful, lusts of eyes or flesh [eg Ecclesiastes 5:10 NIV]). 3) Don't yoke w/one who's maligned w/ Parent or ExSpouse or ExBf/Gf issues. 4) Exercise the Pauline Privilege, liberally applying the definition of abandonment. 5) Don't raise children to be either Controllers or Door-Mats, & don't continue to be either of those, yourself. 6) Don't stay yoked to one who won't agree to counseling & says they aren't the problem; you are the problem. 7) Don't yoke w/ someone who smiles & says to not worry, everything will work out fine. They're conspiring against you already. 8) Don't yoke or remain yoked to someone who plays the unsuspicious or gullible or indifferent Crowd as a goody-two-shoes, but is two-faced evil behind the scenes in private. 9) Value yourself as a Creation of G_d, who's given gifts talents abilities & opportunities to flourish & serve, and do NOT yoke, or remain yoked, to anyone whose goal is to derail & impede & oppress & retard you.

As i listen to this...i realize im definitely a control freak. Yet i feel like I'm in not control of myself or anything.

Amazing. Thank you.

I cried watching this

Those who 'dominate' (put under foot - so as to 'walk upon') others - especially their spouse and family, are in effect, 'doing despite to, (as in 'despising and doing injury to'), the Spirit of Grace.' 'God resisteth the proud, but giveth Grace unto the humble. Humble yourselves in the sight of the LORD, and HE, (not you or I), shall lift you up.' James 4:6‭, ‬10 KJV No one can 'elevate themselves' by stepping upon another...

1: Control = witchcraft 2: Leader = summit to God 3: love alone doesn't keep a marriage. Love and knowledge is what keeps a marriage.

You’re right; God gives all of us “free will” to choose to follow Him, or not. God is looking for people with sincerity. He wants us to “worship Him in spirit and in truth.”

If your husband tells you to sin are you to submit to it? No. Pray for him to be a leader of the home through Christ. Husband love your wives as Christ loves the church.

So good 👏👏👏👏

GOD IS BOLD,NOT CONTROLLING......ONLY THE WEAK ARE CONTROLLING! GOD IS STRONG!! .........💖

Hallelujah!!!

Deuteronomy 7:12-26

Deuteronomy 7 : 1-11

1000 and the meaning to my purpose

Thanks

This is a great sermon but this does not work if your married to a narcissist. People who are healthy can change.

Amen

LORD break the Spirit of Control in my marriage with Theodore Y Lee and myself

Lots of good nuggets here.

The ad at 11:30 is for Emotionally Healthy and when I go to the website I do find the page but I’m not able to make a donation to receive the teaching. Can you help with this please?

@Issabelle M Lol! it matters not how many of my comments are deleted. I spoke the truth and apparently that also bothers you. The thoughts l expressed in my comments/replies to you, stand.

What happens or what can do if my spouse doesn't even know that they are controlling...if they would never admit to my feelings that I don't feel free?

LORD INTERVENE INTERCEDE

She is a Ruby in your life or eyes

I love this mans testimony and listen to many of his videos and most of it i agree with and i know it has helped and continues to help many. Yet i must say that this video as good as it may sound and perhaps even work, it is not biblically correct. With all respect, this teaching of equal submission to one another is false and is developed in order to accommodate the feminists culture that we live in, it doesn’t stand up to biblical scrutiny, ever so subtly its a compromise in order to appease woman. It is clear that the Husband is the head of the woman, equally so as Christ is the head of the church. The church goes too the Lord in prayer with their requests etc, and the Lord answers according to His own good pleasure and will. Like wise a man should listen too the wisdom and counsel of his wife and look out for her best interests, considering her needs before his own (laying down his live), yet at the end of the day he needs the respect from his wife to have the right to make the final decision on a matter. If the husband is wise he will listen and consider her words yet at the end of the day it is his right to make the final decision and she should follow him and support him in the matter, even if she still disagrees, apart from gently warning a few times, she shouldnt nag, complain, content and rebel but rather pray for her husband. Even if he makes the wrong choice, apart from the choice being unrighteous, harmful or untrue, she should follow, and know that she is protected by God, in that she is in the will of God, allowing her husband to lead, even if he finds himself outside of the will of God. Control is wrong if it is for selfish gain, yet at the same time the Bible uses works like, Submit, rule, Lord and obey, these have negative connotations in a woman’s mind, and sadly because of the curse, it often triggers the flesh. Even in 1 Peter 3, Peter even warns the woman not to be afraid with any amazement at these sayings. Far to often it is the woman that manipulates and says, you are not hearing me, or you not loving me, implying that if you loved me then you would do what I’m saying, and far to many man just cave into this, cause the consequences are perhaps, no sex tonight or some form of disunity that removes peace, and so the man often will just do as she say’s to keep the peace, this can happen to differing degrees. To generalize, in the past the sin was with the man to be selfish and have woman serve his selfish needs, she never had much choice cause he was the provider and security. But today the woman manipulates to get her needs, provision is often needed by both spouses, removing the gratitude, and the legal system creates the security in that it favors the woman. Woman what to be equal with men while maintaining the benefits and treatment of a woman. At the end of the day, if this method works or not is irrelevant, what matters is, is it true. This is not the order God has outlined in His word, following God’s way doesn’t mean that things are going to work out every time, in fact doing what is right may cost you your relationship or life, yet compromising may cost you your soul.

Do not touch their filthy things or it will be a snare against you

Almost cruelty

Know

Bottom line....you arent going to win anything without GOD 😉 So lets do what the azusa Revival did....let the leader say a few words then turn it over to God/The Holy Spirit to do the miracles and healing!!! That was a real church!!! 💖💖💖

'For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. Be not deceived; God is not mocked: (he who elevates himself as he aught not - mocks God) for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. (He that seeks to 'take, and hold another - captive' will himself, be 'taken captive' Revelation 13:10 KJV) And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not. As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men,(and women),especially unto them who are of the household of faith, (and OUR household of FAMILY - especially when it is within 'the household of faith'). For in Christ neither circumcision, (nor being Jew, nor being male/man) availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision, (nor being Gentile, nor being female/woman) but a new creature.' Galatians 6:3‭, ‬7‭-‬7‭, ‬9‭-‬10‭, ‬15 KJV bible.com/bible/1/gal.6.3-15.KJV

Wise council with just enough poison to kill(lead astray)

In this age we are in if the Man of God does not have complete authority and control over his wife and family then that man is in deep trouble . . This means all decisions are based on the Word of God for in Christ there is no male or female . And since The husbands head is Christ he has the last decision .

That doesn't work well in blended family.

"Wives , submit to your husbands in everything because the husband is head over his wife as Christ is head of the church " Ephesians 5:25 By not teaching this , Evans just shows who he serves. It is scary.

Not a curse. I do not want to be controlled by God

"Once equal to man , woman becomes her superior" Socrates

"because we're both submitted to Jesus" LIE " I want you to know that God is head of Christ , Christ head of man and MAN head of woman" 1 Corithians 11 Man is submitted to Jesus but woman is submitted to man .

" become equal partners in the relationship " Satan is talking.

Amen