Brené Brown: How to “Brave the Wilderness” & Find True Belonging

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Marie Forleo

Marie Forleo

6 жыл бұрын

True belonging is SO much more than “fitting in.” In this episode, Marie joins cultural icon Brené Brown in Texas to talk about her book “Braving the Wilderness.” Brené explains how to balance our need for individuality and standing out with our innate need for social acceptance. Plus, she breaks down the seven elements of trust, why shame never leads to a productive conversation, and why Brené doesn’t wear a suit - or watch her language - when she speaks to organizations. #MarieTVInterviews #BreneBrown #BRAVING
Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor, storyteller, and best-selling author. Her TED Talk on vulnerability is one of the top five most viewed TED Talks in the world with over 50 million views. She’s spent decades studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy, and is the author of several #1 New York Times bestsellers, including “The Gifts of Imperfection,” “Daring Greatly,” “Rising Strong,” “Braving the Wilderness,” and “Dare to Lead.” Brené is the founder and CEO of Brave Leaders, Inc., an organization that brings evidence-based courage-building programs to teams, leaders, entrepreneurs, and culture shifters.
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@marieforleo
@marieforleo 3 жыл бұрын
Jump to these great nuggets of wisdom from the brilliant Brené Brown: 2:45 - The 5 words Maya Angelou shared that shaped Brené’s speaking career. 6:49 - Why we must practice “braving” if we want to stay connected to ourselves and others. 11:00 - The concept we *must* understand to heal polarization in our country and our world. 15:55 - How your fear of criticism is holding you back - and what you can do about it. 24:11 - The critical difference between shaming and holding people accountable. What’s next? Watch this playlist to see more inspiring interviews: kzfaq.info/sun/PL4D5277E0F92106D2
@guillerminaproverbio2401
@guillerminaproverbio2401 2 жыл бұрын
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@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Marie
@annammazur9712
@annammazur9712 2 жыл бұрын
Hi that's was great 👍 I have one question because English it's not my first language. What is the wilderness?
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I AM THE WILDERNESS!!
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381 Жыл бұрын
@@annammazur9712tanding on your 10 toes Alone, no matter who doubts you or are against you & your beliefs. You remembering that you are brave, courageous and faithful.
@blaisegirl420
@blaisegirl420 4 жыл бұрын
"Don't walk through the world looking for evidence that you don't belong because you'll always find it. Don't walk through the world looking for evidence you are not enough because you will always find it. Our worth and our belonging are not negotiated with other people. We carry those inside of our hearts" Amen ❤👏
@kamsiahenching238
@kamsiahenching238 Жыл бұрын
Permission to share. Thank you
@masyhthompson2901
@masyhthompson2901 6 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@JannicaSeraypheap-wp5mb
@JannicaSeraypheap-wp5mb 2 ай бұрын
I’ve noticed that people always seem to be attached to the same quotes during a video so I may add that it’s humanizing to know we sip from the same pool.
@LeezPgh
@LeezPgh 6 жыл бұрын
"Don't walk through the world looking for evidence that you don't belong.. because you will always find it. Don't walk through the world looking for evidence that you are not enough.. because you will always find it. Our worth and our belonging are not negotiated with other people. We carry those inside of our hearts." "I will not negotiate who I am. If I negotiate who I am for you, I may fit in with you, but I no longer belong to myself."
@pcwhite100
@pcwhite100 6 жыл бұрын
LeezPgh I found that so powerful as well!
@DiSaValCrescerTranscender
@DiSaValCrescerTranscender 6 жыл бұрын
That part was FUCKING AMAZING too
@bobdole564
@bobdole564 5 жыл бұрын
#preach
@Lauraisgreen
@Lauraisgreen 5 жыл бұрын
Powerful shit ❤️👌
@cherriemckinstry131
@cherriemckinstry131 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you... I hear and feel this...
@nelidalewis9034
@nelidalewis9034 4 жыл бұрын
I have a KNOT in my throat, after 45 years and being ostracized from the siblings, and thinking there was something wrong with me because I didnt fit in, NOW I know, I will never fit in, I AM OK standing alone and I DO BELONG. I finally know what BRAVING is and I am the FKN wilderness! Thank you BRENE
@ruthkingng8663
@ruthkingng8663 3 жыл бұрын
Totally get your comment Nelda !! It's difficult to see we may be ok when others around us have a similarity we do not share. Love brene brown
@thejogayogafiles
@thejogayogafiles 3 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏🥰👋
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Nelida
@annammazur9712
@annammazur9712 2 жыл бұрын
Very true 👍 I have question because English it's not my first language what is wilderness in Brene content
@canicebarbone8313
@canicebarbone8313 8 ай бұрын
Amen to that
@quikboarder93
@quikboarder93 6 жыл бұрын
That was insanely powerful. Brené is the type of person that could completely change your life with just 1 conversation
@sheilamutaramuka5400
@sheilamutaramuka5400 6 жыл бұрын
"At the end of the day, At the end of the week, At the end of my life , I want to be able to say that I contributed more than I criticized" It's saying everything. Thank you for sharing a part of you
@nursynikki
@nursynikki 3 жыл бұрын
Lesson for me to go edit some posts
@startblogup
@startblogup 6 жыл бұрын
What I keep thinking... can anybody give Brene a Nobel prize for peace?
@itskenziebrenna
@itskenziebrenna 6 жыл бұрын
yesss!! I agree w this!!
@margolandon1565
@margolandon1565 6 жыл бұрын
I have said that many times!
@micheledaniels8803
@micheledaniels8803 6 жыл бұрын
Start Blog Up. Блоггинг для творческих предпринимателей I️ totally agree!
@micheledaniels8803
@micheledaniels8803 6 жыл бұрын
I️ totally agree. She is amazing.
@journeysxtraorthopedist5371
@journeysxtraorthopedist5371 6 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Allred
@maxwellcooper2
@maxwellcooper2 6 жыл бұрын
"Dehumanization is not a social justice tool" -- Yes, brilliantly pointed out. Thank you. This is resonating with me so much right now.
@tamarajessup1398
@tamarajessup1398 5 жыл бұрын
I have Borderline Personality Disorder. The hardest part of for me it isn't the poor emotional regulation or even unstable relationships; those are painful, of course, and have affected my life and the lives of those I've loved in lasting ways. It's the unstable sense of self. Having been dehumanized, I haven't been able to agree with the expression "Wherever you go, there you are!" Wherever I go, I'm whomever the people I find there need me to be, which may differ from whom they want me to be, which has no relationship with who I am. I'm 56 years old as of this moment, and have almost no idea who I am - a wilderness, indeed, about which I often feel bewildered. I'm grateful to Brené for giving me a compass to help me find my way.
@carrad123456
@carrad123456 4 жыл бұрын
Which of her book helped you most
@susanharris3952
@susanharris3952 4 жыл бұрын
So BEAUTIFUL, Tamara. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable with us. It's a high art. And your writing is a pleasure to read.
@selina6651
@selina6651 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'm barely finding out about this woman through videos. Best wishes to you on your journey, there have been times where I've felt very similar to what you are saying. I like the mnumonic device braving, it just simplifies alot of what we are already trying to do.
@inspiredclarity2014
@inspiredclarity2014 4 жыл бұрын
Tamara, look at you and all that courage! My daughter is diagnosed with Borderline pd. So did my dad and sister when they were alive. I wish I could've understood my dad and sis better when they were alive. I didn't see the trauma side of it, how they had been hurt only my frustration and anger when I felt they were being difficult. I'm glad to have a better chance with my daughter, who is an adult with a child of her own. I guess I'm not entirely sure what I want to say except people like Brene Brown help with the excellent and courageous work they do and you help by demonstrating that it's okay to talk about. It's important to yourself and others to admit and talk about. Together we can blow shame out of the water and move towards healing. Thank you. Sending love.
@inspiredclarity2014
@inspiredclarity2014 4 жыл бұрын
Tamara, another quick comment/question: have you looked into learning about fragmentation and/or shadow work and/or integration? These may help point toward what you might be rejecting about yourself so you can learn to accept and heal those parts and be more authentically who you are. I like Teal Swan's work. She has a ton of content on KZfaq. I'd start by listening to her personal story of her childhood and teen years. She's so beautiful and confident you would never guess how far she's come. To me it shows we can heal more than we could imagine. Take care, Margie
@Clau1982
@Clau1982 6 жыл бұрын
"If the only two tools that you have in your tool bag are shame or coddle, that's a sorry-ass tool bag" that nugget of wisdom just blew me away
@ramapublishing5
@ramapublishing5 6 жыл бұрын
Me toooooo
@coconin5941
@coconin5941 6 жыл бұрын
oh hell yes!! right?!
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Claudia
@AnnaPugacova
@AnnaPugacova 6 жыл бұрын
"When I fit you - I don't fit myself anymore!" BEAUTIFUL
@janicemaguire8551
@janicemaguire8551 3 жыл бұрын
So true x
@mrs.riche3939
@mrs.riche3939 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful!!!
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Anna
@hgg324
@hgg324 6 жыл бұрын
"In the absence of data, we will always make up stories." So true! Wonderful conversation.
@colleencampbell7878
@colleencampbell7878 8 ай бұрын
I love Brené Brown. Every time I listen to her I learn something valuable. The lessons are all at once simple and profound and always life changing when embraced. Today the Break down of trust was huge. Some people close to me have broken my trust and I always struggled with why because it wasn't always huge, horrible, movie worthy events but I wanted nothing to do with them. I always had a sense of unease and defensiveness around them. Now I feel validated in my previously unexplainable feelings and the boundary to keep myself peaceful and safe feels easier to keep. Thank you for always being open, genuine and kind.
@TeamForleo
@TeamForleo 8 ай бұрын
We're so grateful you shared this experience with us, Colleen. Setting boundaries isn't easy work, and we know how hard it can be when our loved ones break our trust. We're so proud of you for keeping yourself safe and at peace. Keep up the amazing work - thank you for watching 💖
@HusseinBarbaar
@HusseinBarbaar 6 жыл бұрын
Marie and Brene are a breath of fresh air in a stinky world. I'm a guy and I'm not sure if they caught me in a sweet spot in my life (within the first week of the birth of my first son) but I was fighting back this watery stuff in my eyes because they've put my Dreams into words I wouldn't know how to describe. Full of Gratitude for Brene, Marie and Team Forleo! #Classic!
@adelewalker9651
@adelewalker9651 6 жыл бұрын
Ridwanullah PodasTv x
@shelpow
@shelpow 5 жыл бұрын
Awwwwwww, congratulations new daddy!
@MyrnaDeJesus
@MyrnaDeJesus 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your thoughtful response. May your journey through fatherhood be enriching and healing. Thank you for existing and for giving a damn!
@lynnrussell467
@lynnrussell467 4 жыл бұрын
How awesome to see/hear a man be soft n squishy out loud in public! You, sir, must be a REAL MAN! ;-) Thank you 💝
@NikkiCFO
@NikkiCFO 6 жыл бұрын
"I am the f&cking wilderness!!!" I love the vulnerability and authenticity of this video. Will definitely watch it over and over again.
@poppyorangeflower
@poppyorangeflower 6 жыл бұрын
"I am the fucking wilderness." "Amen." Lol these ladies are terrific.
@journeysxtraorthopedist5371
@journeysxtraorthopedist5371 6 жыл бұрын
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@timbawangu3038
@timbawangu3038 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Nikki
@bobdole564
@bobdole564 5 жыл бұрын
Rehumanise rather than dehumanising. Had to pause for a bit, getting odd looks tearing up in an airport. So hard to do, but you're right, it's so toxic. Urgh... Now I have to think of other things to say about my boss 🤔 hardest homework ever. P.s. Brené Brown, you and you're words are literally a God Send 💙 ♥️
@divinewryte
@divinewryte 6 жыл бұрын
Loved this! "I may fit in for you but I'm betraying myself." Yes! Thank you!
@JovanaMiljanovic
@JovanaMiljanovic 6 жыл бұрын
This was the best invested 30 minutes of my day today. I am so grateful for this episode.
@marsinafrica
@marsinafrica 6 жыл бұрын
Jovana Miljanovic Amazing interview. I just watched another amazing Brene Brown speech that was also powerful on trust here ... kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m92emqmfvcnVkaM.html that you might enjoy 💓
@aquababe7
@aquababe7 6 жыл бұрын
Jovana Miljanovic
@miles4rubys
@miles4rubys 5 жыл бұрын
Jovana Miljanovic ditto!!
@LeonidSpartanKing
@LeonidSpartanKing 4 жыл бұрын
Slazem see
@63mirian
@63mirian 3 жыл бұрын
Y k jun
@susangregory680
@susangregory680 6 жыл бұрын
I so rarely have the patience to watch videos of this length. This one is different. I kept "rewinding" if I tuned out for a moment, I didn't want to miss anything. This is gold!
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Susan
@janet6348
@janet6348 4 жыл бұрын
I told my children when they were growing up "your religion should be the way you live your life. If you turn your back on someone who needs your help; shame on you." Brene has a way of addressing the uncomfortable, putting it in perspective and making it simple to deal with. I just love listening to her; The questions and discussion were great and I thank you for posting this video.
@MissNatalonga
@MissNatalonga 5 жыл бұрын
I love how she brought up that the dehumanizing concept goes both ways. I'm so worried about what I see happening in our culture today, how each side blames each other and how the supposedly compassionate, loving side has no problem in being hateful and punishing towards those they perceive as enemies. One of my favorite sayings is "Cuando apuntas con el dedo, tres apuntan hacia tí." "When you point a finger, three point back at you. We should always be vigilant of our self righteousness. Loved this talk. Cheers.
@cindywho134
@cindywho134 5 жыл бұрын
As she said, no one has the moral high ground.
@chriscunningham8807
@chriscunningham8807 3 жыл бұрын
This is a major problem today when extreme left and extreme right clash with both claiming that they're simply protecting or promoting their cherished belief systems. Meanwhile people on the left, right and in the centre are blamed, misjudged, falsely accused and attacked with minimal hope of resolution. Walking the line between complicit silence or calling out crime and injustice while preserving respect, fairness and tolerance for the often demonised opponent is like walking the razor's edge. I fail abysmally when trying to navigate the potential landmines set by contemporary political correctness and the championing of minorities who sometimes feel entitled to react with disproportionate vitriol and self-righteous rage when they feel "offended."
@melaniefox-smith8776
@melaniefox-smith8776 6 жыл бұрын
"I am not going to negotiate who I am for you". How powerful is that? I love that!
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 3 жыл бұрын
IT IS SUPER POWERFUL! Thank you for re-sharing this! :)
@amberts180
@amberts180 6 жыл бұрын
"Contribute more than you criticize" - Love it!! Thanks, Dr. Brown!
@emmamclaughlin6508
@emmamclaughlin6508 7 күн бұрын
The whole kōrero with the amazing Brenē Brown...so inspirational...and so grounded.
@flyingcrew2640
@flyingcrew2640 3 жыл бұрын
So beautiful.. Brene for president.. So many jems here.. Brene us such a wise wisdom teacher with soul and class I love her morals, values and her bravery to stand on her own two feet.. Your my inspiration.. I love your quote which I will try to remember. I might fit in for you but then I won't belong to myself anymore.. And I have heard her say it before and it's so true.. If you look for love and belonging outside of yourself you will always suffer.. Love this quote from brene which is amazing.. My worth and belonging us non negotiable with others, it's something I carry in my heart.. Rock on
@isiluysal
@isiluysal 6 жыл бұрын
I cried when Marie cried and said I love you. This is being human. Thank you for being yourself in front of cameras and millions of people.
@Judymontel
@Judymontel 6 жыл бұрын
well THIS is a keeper. Thanks Marie, Brene and everyone responsible for getting this to me (I know there's a lot of you I don't see - blessings from me!)
@cynthiagifford7828
@cynthiagifford7828 6 жыл бұрын
Love this! You are speaking my language! I Love the wilderness, and I Love to dance! 💜💜💜
@cynthiagifford7828
@cynthiagifford7828 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing what you do! Both of you! 💖
@jodikirkwood666
@jodikirkwood666 6 жыл бұрын
I want to be their friends!!!
@gracemckenzie8138
@gracemckenzie8138 6 жыл бұрын
Yes! I love the part about the dangers of dehumanization and how it corrodes moral obligation and goes against who we are as people. Might I humbly stand alone and suggest that the dehumanization of unborn children is chipping away at our society's soul? There is so much pain, regret, and loss for the dehumanized and the ones who practice it.
@sparksolutionssupport7198
@sparksolutionssupport7198 6 жыл бұрын
Love this video! Chock full of insight and great advice from two awesome women! Thank you Brent and Maria!!
@alyssaslauenwhite451
@alyssaslauenwhite451 6 жыл бұрын
The ending had me in tears. I'm sitting in my little shabby office after 10pm working away on projects listening to Marie interviews, as I always do. The ending gave me a jolt and a nudge to the soul and a very VERY heavy reminder of why I do what I do and how I have come so far already and sitting here able to watch the future and all it's possibilities before me. I AM THE FUCKING WILDERNESS
@adelemoreau9354
@adelemoreau9354 2 ай бұрын
I’ve listened to this talk several times, sometimes with years or months apart and every time I’m blown, but in a different way. I feel on every replay, how ever more deeply this sinks into my skin and how much I’ve moved forward as well as dived into my own depths and awe fully terrifying moments of despair . Every talk of Brené feels deeper and deeper every time I hear it. Cheers and Amen to that
@TeamForleo
@TeamForleo 2 ай бұрын
This filled our cup to the brim today, Adele. We're so honored to have you here. Thank you for sharing and for watching with us, and keep in touch. ❤🙏
@Vanderwoman
@Vanderwoman 6 жыл бұрын
I've always felt very uncomfortable when people talk about politics, from both sides, and dehumanize each other. I never know how to articulate how I feel or even explain to myself why i feel the way I do and this episode helped me understand why. I know where my values are aligned to and I feel very strongly about it but I also respect others. I know one thing for sure, I will go out and get this book for me sooner than later(and will look for the other books as well.) Thank you for this wonderful episode.So refreshing to watch both of you. Blessings!
@pandorapada
@pandorapada 6 жыл бұрын
Maria Christina Doppler, I agree! I avoid threads and topics that involve too much bullying. It is quite sad how much social media has caused people to become so cruel and hateful. We need to reeducate ourselves and our children and steer them away from hateful crimes and conversations.
@Vanderwoman
@Vanderwoman 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@mangalover0149
@mangalover0149 5 жыл бұрын
She actually talks about that dehumanisation in the most recent podcast she did with Russell Brand.
@RoseKetring
@RoseKetring 6 жыл бұрын
I loved this nugget of wisdom from this episode: "Our worth and our belonging are NOT negotiated with other people. We carry those inside of our hearts." I have lived the first thirty years of my life trying to belong by trying to be who they wanted me to be, including the Church I grew up in, my mother, my sisters, my father. I couldn't fit in for any of them. It was hell believing that I was not enough, that the reason I lost both of my girls to "family" people I couldn't fit into because I was unable to fit into the places that were "acceptable." Losing my girls to their fathers because I was an "unfit mother" broke me for many years. Hearing these words about worth and belonging are found within my heart was soothing. Thank you for for that.
@chalesefelt1981
@chalesefelt1981 6 жыл бұрын
I've done OK at being brave in the wilderness my entire life. Won't bore you with the details, but I've definitely recognized my life as a wilderness and have felt that I was largely braving it alone. I now find myself challenged to stop insisting upon braving it alone and to instead let others in. I am learning about vulnerability - I've *felt* vulnerable, but I haven't *shown* that I'm vulnerable. I don't want to walk the entire trail alone anymore. Brene is teaching me how to create a new little side path that can hopefully someday become the place where I live.
@caroleleigh7179
@caroleleigh7179 6 жыл бұрын
Chalese Felt efu90df
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Chalese
@annammazur9712
@annammazur9712 2 жыл бұрын
What's mean wilderness in Brene content? English it's not my first language and I'm struggling to understand this meaning
@adrianapamplin5419
@adrianapamplin5419 4 жыл бұрын
Can’t get enough of this Brene Brown stuff! I’m been applying for jobs and this has been the best preparation
@fearlessmakeup9350
@fearlessmakeup9350 6 жыл бұрын
Brene is one of my favourite people and favourite authors. She showed me through her teachings that I too could be braver and put myself out there and share what I have learned with the world through my own struggles by being vulnerable. It was because of people like Gabby, Glennon and Brene that I wrote my own book about shame and choosing to be who I am after my own personal struggles. So thank you Brene for sharing even more of your wisdom with us students of of life who want to continually learn more about this world around us and how to be better people in it.
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. There
@erinbarkel7996
@erinbarkel7996 6 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!!!!!! These two together are like a powerhouse!!!!! 💕💕💕💕
@kmcg2us
@kmcg2us Жыл бұрын
The wilderness and wild... getting to a place of confidence and self-assurance has been one of the toughest terrains I have traveled. Standing alone is so painful and yet so rewarding in the end. It took the violent murder of my 26 year young grandson Zack, 18 months ago for me to truly understanding the life affirming practice of "I will not negotiate who I am." Thank you Brene (and Marie) for teaching and leading the way for me.
@TeamForleo
@TeamForleo Жыл бұрын
Hi Karen! We're so sorry to hear about Zack's passing 💗💗We know that grief never fully goes away. You absolutely do not have to negotiate who you are. You can absolutely be you. That's not always easy sometimes and we see your bravery and strength. - Monauar, Team Forleo
@itsmulanali
@itsmulanali 7 ай бұрын
The most impactful thing about this conversation was feeling seen, heard, and understood. I feel more connected to humanity as well. This has given me more courage to just be me and be vulnerable. Thank you ladies for your courage to brave the wilderness and share your experiences and insight with us.
@TeamForleo
@TeamForleo 7 ай бұрын
What a kind and uplifting message. Thank you so much for being here, watching, and for sharing your beautiful heart and spirit. We feel connected to you, too. 🫂
@jennifervanegas1
@jennifervanegas1 6 жыл бұрын
I AM the "wilderness" too! Thank you! The end made me cry!
@goodwayinlife111
@goodwayinlife111 4 жыл бұрын
wow we are the wilderness I love this interview what resonates with me the most: choose brave instead of comfort Rehumanize rather than Dehumanize in the Absence of data we tend to create stories
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 3 жыл бұрын
You explained this really well! 😄 Thanks for the great points about choosing bravery instead of comfort! :) I'll remember this for next time!
@taylor82x
@taylor82x 6 жыл бұрын
Brene Brown you are a gift to this world
@livelythings
@livelythings 6 жыл бұрын
Very thought provoking. My take-away is the "tool" of courage combined with self-check. Many speakers talk about just courage and "go for it" attitude, but that's not very realistic for most people. But when it's combined with "i see my vulnerability" "this is what makes me angry, i need to look into this" or "this is how i feel", it makes the decision making and process of approaching people more conscious and less stressful.
@1632mermaid
@1632mermaid 6 жыл бұрын
The last nugget of wisdom: we carry it inside of our hearts. BRILLIANT! Thank you Marie and Brené ❤️❤️
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Mackenzie
@charlieh.9193
@charlieh.9193 6 жыл бұрын
Brene always opens my mind. Every. Time.
@rionboyd
@rionboyd Жыл бұрын
The thing I most appreciate about this conversation is that it asks us to think reflectively and process our sentiments and values. I tend to look inwardly first and I find myself asking: Am I betraying myself? Before this conversation, I wasn’t even sure what it looks like. Forget about trying to fit other’s demands of who I should be (not to say this isn’t an important exercise- it’s not where I am at this moment), who and I demanding myself to be? What does betraying me look and feel like? What triggered that betrayal? How can I not betray myself again? These are just a few questions I am asking… Thanks for shifting my thoughts toward loyalty- self-loyalty: I belong to me. I give myself permission to be authentically me! Thank you for this episode. I give your flowers- 🌸 🌺
@TeamForleo
@TeamForleo Жыл бұрын
Hi Ma Rion! Those are some incredible questions to guide you to honor yourself and who you want to be. We know they're going to serve you well! Thank you so much for sharing them with us. Giving you a heart in exchange for your flowers💖- Monauar, Team Forleo
@superjonz9958
@superjonz9958 6 жыл бұрын
Indeed that part in 34:13 hit me real hard just exactly as Marie's reaction! "We are The Wilderness!" 😌 Thanks Brene!
@hildabeauxbilda
@hildabeauxbilda 6 жыл бұрын
I'm going to need to watch a few more times to fully digest all the topics covered but WOW! This was such a meaningful conversion to get to listen in on. Thank you for sharing it ❤
@treenaBe
@treenaBe 4 жыл бұрын
"True belonging is a spiritual practice, and it's about the ability to find sacredness in both being a part of something but also the courage to stand alone". The world needs more Brenes, and I'm blessed to be alive in a time that her voice and messages impact me in such a deep healing way, in my own recovery and lifes challenges to show up & be in the arena. Thank you Marie and Brene.
@CCTBYOUVSYOU
@CCTBYOUVSYOU 6 ай бұрын
I don't write many comments but I had to express how much I enjoyed this conversation. I now have BRAVING written down and will look at it frequently. There is a daily devotional that I don't use every day, but on the days I need help, I go to it and mention being brave, so this is alignment. I am now subscribed to the channel and will get Dr. Brown's books.
@TeamForleo
@TeamForleo 6 ай бұрын
We're so honored you shared and watched. Thank you for being here - we're sending you so much love as you continue to be brave on your journey forward. 💖
@yabe1496
@yabe1496 6 жыл бұрын
Im crying a river, you 2 touched my heart. Thank you for puting in words my feelings.
@KirstinWolf
@KirstinWolf 6 жыл бұрын
Wow! First of all, I truly value both of you, the way you teach in such a relatable language. Then there's content... Brene, I am consistently moved by your words. This conversation had so many hot points. From dehumanizing people to shutting down the “Shamer's”, contribute more than criticize... it opened another level of awareness and perspective. The most impactful part of this video (tears flowing) was when you read the last paragraph of your book. As a 49 year old, still struggling artist who fights daily the stories in my head, scared and exhausted...I know now that I am the wilderness 🌿 THANK YOU beyond measure. Can't wait to read the book
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Kirestim
@christianharbin21
@christianharbin21 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my GOD! I was so waiting for the day that you'd feature Dr. Brené Brown on your show!! All ears ALL EARS!!! Thank you so much for this! #Grateful
@nosebirdy
@nosebirdy 6 жыл бұрын
I Love Brene Brown SO MUCH - this video is so timely. May we all find this much courage and this much empathy.
@karenlyons364
@karenlyons364 5 жыл бұрын
I am so impressed with this program..... I have not watched and listened before on Marie TV but I will definitely do it again. Thanks to Marie and Brene for love, candor, insightfulness and that willingness to be vulnerable. Karen Lyons
@ChrissyScavezze
@ChrissyScavezze 6 жыл бұрын
I'm braving the wilderness of finding my self worth. Thank you for your words of inspiration reminding me that I'm on the right path.
@patspears2226
@patspears2226 5 жыл бұрын
You may consider reading Marianne Williamson's A Woman of Worth.
@mangalover0149
@mangalover0149 5 жыл бұрын
I’m on the same path right now..
@Sunshine44008
@Sunshine44008 6 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in this interview. Truly loved this interview. Thank you both for your honesty, authenticity and wisdom.
@cdjokich
@cdjokich 6 жыл бұрын
"I am not going to negotiate who I am with you because I may fit in for you, but I no longer belong to myself"... . I always walk away from your conversations wiser. Love your books!! Gave them to my daughters to read. The world would heal if everyone listened (and acted) on your words.
@karlapadilla9395
@karlapadilla9395 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! This episode was recorded in 2017, but is so relevant to all that is happening in our world today in 2020. So many incredible takeaways and action items. It is time for some deep soul searching. Thank you Marie and Brene!
@umsafiyah
@umsafiyah 6 жыл бұрын
I feel connected to this talk on so many levels.. so much insight into human behavior, on point about dehumanization and courage. loved it.
@michaelshozi1491
@michaelshozi1491 5 жыл бұрын
The whole conversation for me has been amazing to watch and listen to. Loved the 7 elements of Trust!!! Why did i not bump into this interview sooner!!!
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your input! It is great! :)
@elizabethmcloughlin3775
@elizabethmcloughlin3775 5 жыл бұрын
You are the wilderness - says it all - so beautiful and profound- I cried too.
@noelleb9020
@noelleb9020 6 жыл бұрын
LOVE THIS. Love your warmth, authenticity, and strength. Thank you for being part of the light this world needs.
@TeaBrew4
@TeaBrew4 6 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful, and I cannot express this enough. As a young MSW I am often shaken by the ugliness of the world. I spent most of my life living in very conservative South Texas and many times, this ugliness was the center of holiday get togethers and even nightly dinners. I cannot wait to read this book to get a better understanding of cultivating conversation and inviting others to experience this, along with kindness. This is the content of conversations that need to be had in every home, neighborhood, workplace and news station. Thank you both so much for this. I don't think the goosebumps from the powerful words will ever go away. I can't wait to see a world full of wilderness xoxo
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Tori
@judgejudyjudyo8099
@judgejudyjudyo8099 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh! That end! The love and sisterhood between these two! Just, BEAUTIFUL! God bless you both
@katrinamarie7732
@katrinamarie7732 5 жыл бұрын
I am crying. Thank you so much. Both of you are amazing.
@marcuslouison3998
@marcuslouison3998 6 жыл бұрын
Hey, Brene! Your work is EPIC! This interview is absolute GOLD! Thanks for bringing this to us, Marie!
@RossQuintana
@RossQuintana 6 жыл бұрын
On point, it is about critical thinking, and contributing to humankind in a way we are all responsible for.
@terrA0091
@terrA0091 3 жыл бұрын
The most impactful thing for me was discussion you had around not talking about religion and not cussing and what you are permitted to wear at the speaking engagement and the concept that " I am not going to negotiate who I am with you because then, I may fit in for you but I no longer belong to myself." I LOVED this. I have struggled with this my whole career. Recently, I was berated and ostracized at work for saying the F-word. To be clear, I wasn't running up and down the hallways screaming the F-word, I was having a conversation with someone wherein I reiterated at statement that had just been said to me (by a man) which included the F-word. I was hauled into an office and given a talking to, the man was not! I lost friends over this. I walk the halls at work alone now over this. And it's not okay.
@DaveIrish66
@DaveIrish66 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Marie and Brene, Her work has impacted my life in so many ways . she is an angel sent from heaven. Please keep sharing all your knowledge to all those out there that struggle with life and need the change for the better.
@mamawhys3773
@mamawhys3773 6 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THIS! My husband and I both have been struggling heavily with this issue. I feel so detached from everyone because we all seem so triggered for like the last year and a half...
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. There
@melissaonirique
@melissaonirique 6 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL!!!! Oh my gosh!! Wow. I need this book in my life. Thank you Brené and Marie 💕
@dynamicduoalexanders6222
@dynamicduoalexanders6222 4 жыл бұрын
Brene has done it again! What a beautiful soul! I love how you say this! BRAVING is what our world needs. You absolutely contributed to the world!
@jenniferarnold2494
@jenniferarnold2494 5 жыл бұрын
A very sweet young friend of mine, told me about Brene yesterday. So, I have decided to to start my day with her from now on. Now, I have Marie tv! I just want to say that I am 54 and have wondered almost all my life, ‘what is wrong with me’? ‘ Why am I not good enough’? ‘Smart enough’? Ect, ect.....I made a decision about 4 years ago to be myself. Because of that, I have lost people. You know why, because I am honest and kind and don’t allow people to tell me WHO I should be to make their world better.....anyway, Brene and Marie, I will buy all your books and live MY truth! I’ve known this in my heart all my life, but have changed to make others comfortable. Thank you. Thank you for saying my truth and helping me to be me! Be kind has always been my motto. You so help me feel that is ok and the the thing WE all should do! Love, love.......💕💕💕
@marieforleo
@marieforleo 5 жыл бұрын
We're so glad that you're here, Jennifer. Keep being the amazing person that you are because the world needs it. - Team Forleo
@mariamilavazquez
@mariamilavazquez 6 жыл бұрын
Yes to all of it. Yes to living and acting from love and not playing into the religious or political propaganda that operates from fear or shame. Yes to not minimizing my greatness for another's comfort. And hell yes to me dancing in the wilderness. There is something beautiful in knowing that I'm not alone, although I'll stand alone whenever I need to. Thank you for this. Thank you Marie. Thank you Brene. With love and gratitude, Maria Milagros
@katelinjenkins3463
@katelinjenkins3463 6 жыл бұрын
Omg this is so powerful!!! I definitely need to purchase her book and take a hard look at my own biases and angers... as you say... and get On it ... chills ❤️🌟✨
@tarynoneillDirector
@tarynoneillDirector 6 жыл бұрын
A powerful start to my week. I've been saving this video since it came out, and now can't wait to watch it again. Thank you Brene and Marie for the wisdom and strength through vulnerability that you both share with the world.
@sharonmast1292
@sharonmast1292 5 жыл бұрын
I have watched this video multiple times and have passed it on to several of my coaching clients with questions for them to ponder. Each time, I go deeper with my own learning and growth. Thank you Brene and Marie. Love you ladies to the moon!!
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Sharon
@AmaliaGhiban
@AmaliaGhiban 6 жыл бұрын
Grateful to both for sharing so much wisdom! for speaking up, showing up and letting yourselves be seen. Such a great reminder! Lots of love
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Amalia
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Amalia
@crystal1530
@crystal1530 3 жыл бұрын
Omg.. I’m speechless. This conversation is so needed and life giving that people aren’t talking about especially about dehumanization! They way Brene described it and what it creates, it just clicked. It defiantly made me pause and think about how I interact with everyone, what I say and the energy I bring. There were so many good nuggets. I want more!!
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Crystal
@letalwandle4553
@letalwandle4553 9 ай бұрын
I am the wilderness, too. I always come back to this session to remind myself that there is nothing wrong with standing alone at times...
@fionadrake7431
@fionadrake7431 5 жыл бұрын
'Opting out of speaking out is the definition of privilege' This, this is so true.
@rupalisarda
@rupalisarda 5 жыл бұрын
This conversation is so engaging, so authentic... just loved it 💕
@angiedublin1449
@angiedublin1449 6 жыл бұрын
Oh man alive! I have tears streaming down my face over here! Thank you so much for sharing! What you say about belonging Brene just gets me in my heart! That kind of response makes me realise the areas I need to heal. I'm so excited to read the book! I'm also more encouraged to share publicly my experiences & views with the world. Thank you x
@nina1528
@nina1528 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brene for shining the light. To remind me of what I feel is true to me.
@beam8250
@beam8250 6 жыл бұрын
This entire episode impacted me Marie! Every part of the conversation. Every word spoken. WOW! Brene is truly a game changer, and I am off in search of her book. With all my love to you both!
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Bea
@nika1404
@nika1404 6 жыл бұрын
MY TWO FAVORITE LADIES TOGETHER. I think I just died and went to self-help heaven.
@MsLiberianLady
@MsLiberianLady 6 жыл бұрын
Nika Ambrožič lolol right!!! This is awesome
@ccovergirl
@ccovergirl 6 жыл бұрын
(self-help heaven) You nailed it!!
@LXSeaV
@LXSeaV 6 жыл бұрын
Nika Ambrožič Basically!
@tomboard
@tomboard 5 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I’ve just discovered your channel Marie. And I consider myself well-informed LOL! I am SUCH a Brene Brown fan. She speaks such truth, with such care, that I start to feel calm and centred when I hear her voice. She truly models and lives her work. And her work is much needed in these times. This was a great discussion. It really made me think about my own anger about some aspects of the economic and political system, and my own reactions to other people that are on the ‘other side’. The call to all of us to be respectful and take great responsibility over our words, is an important message. Thank you both.
@dorotaflorczyk7240
@dorotaflorczyk7240 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brene and Maria for digging deep in our souls and hearts to reach the 'true and wild' ourselves
@owenomalley1815
@owenomalley1815 6 жыл бұрын
This is so emotional, healing and wholesome - energetically it is so powerful that a tear came to my eye when i heard the ping of the email arriving - BEFORE I even watched the video - how crazy is that - great work you powerful gracious ladies of the light.
@martinajacksonforkentucky6244
@martinajacksonforkentucky6244 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. As I navigate some really hard conversations, I needed to hear that I can stand alone, even when it is tough.
@luciencastie8301
@luciencastie8301 2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Martina
@veronica82507
@veronica82507 4 жыл бұрын
being yourself means braving the wilderness, no wait, you are the wilderness ! Love this. Thank you.
@jacquelinecruz4602
@jacquelinecruz4602 6 жыл бұрын
Love it. Marie, I felt deep your closing words.... This is the first time I see your passion and i definetely feel your love for what you do. You're a very smart and precious soul. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing with us this wonderful time with Brene Brown 🤗
@momswearheels
@momswearheels 6 жыл бұрын
So excited to dig into this! Listening while I clean the house. Thanks for great content!
@itskenziebrenna
@itskenziebrenna 6 жыл бұрын
"At the end of the day I want to say I contributed more than I criticize." She's amazing.
@AnnaSzabo
@AnnaSzabo 6 жыл бұрын
I’m blown away by the value of this interview! The most impactful nugget for me: understand and respect who you are as human and understand other humans respectfully, humbly and kindly.
@lindamarcus49
@lindamarcus49 4 жыл бұрын
"In the absence of data we will always make up stories" "Take responsibility for the energy you bring into a room and online, for the energy you bring into the world" "Shame never drives positive behavior. What shame drives is Rage, Anger, Rationalization and Blame" "Our worth and our belonging are not negotiated with other people. We carry these inside of our hearts. Because then, I may fit into you, but I no longer belong to myself". "Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams, because the world needs that very special gift that only you have". Thank you so much for this loving interview it made a lot of sense and opened up my mind and created peace and quit for me along with posibilies of all kind.
@Sasha-vs6sd
@Sasha-vs6sd 6 жыл бұрын
I could listen to you two chat for hours ❤️
@happycam1686
@happycam1686 6 жыл бұрын
Me too! They are so passionate about their jobs!
@marialamberson7490
@marialamberson7490 4 жыл бұрын
I have watched every Ted Talk that you have done, every interview and bought every single book that you have written "Brene Brown!" Thank you for making these conversations about the issues of shame, vulnerability, courage, boundaries, belonging and healing that were not discussed. For me you have allowed me to heal from being vulnerable and I say this because all my life, I walked around feeling shame for speaking up or not agreeing with the conversation and standing up for what I believed. Only to be silenced by others who thought that their opinions were correct and mine did not matter. Or people being judgmentally harsh, but thanks to you. I am healing and I am putting myself out there. One last thing the sense of belonging and being present is reminder that I matter to me and I am important to me........Thank you...
@unhingedravenclaw
@unhingedravenclaw 2 жыл бұрын
What was most impactful to me was simply the gift of watching these two wonderful, wild, free, brave women having an honest and generous conversation, and being so open to sharing it. It is such an inspiration. Thank you.
@frankrobling1144
@frankrobling1144 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you both ... words cannot explain the worth of Brené´s message and what it does to people and what it could do if more would know ... thank you Marie for spreading her words ... love & light, Frank
@superjonz9958
@superjonz9958 6 жыл бұрын
I hope Marie will be able to read this because this episode is definitely one of my all time favorites among her talks including her conversation with Elizabeth Gilbert. Brene and Liz are my favorite people to listen to as long as I live. And I'm so glad that my equally favorite person "Marie" got to finally made this talk a reality which I've been yearning to happen for so long. Such wisdom and enlightenment truly sustain my disposition in Life! Very informative, well-thought and inspiring talk as always. Keep it up Marie and shoutout to my torchlight Elizabeth G and Brene B!!!!!! Sending much Love! ❤️
@coconin5941
@coconin5941 6 жыл бұрын
those two are my fave also!!!!
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