How to Improve Your Relationship

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How to Improve Your Relationship

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@melinaalowe 8 жыл бұрын

"Love is the appreciation of the totality of a person." Oh my goodness what a powerful line.

@pasdarwin2509 6 жыл бұрын

Melina A very very powerful♥

@tuotnguyen7580 5 жыл бұрын

I discovered a great compilation of videos that may help you at Secret fixer blueprint

@animaki5372 5 жыл бұрын

Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else wants to learn about how to fix a marriage try Dalz Partner Mender Discovery ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.

@karagerlock3547 5 жыл бұрын

Loved this line myself. Such a .great vid :)

@twisttv6638 4 жыл бұрын

@@animaki5372.

@lionelmasoane391 4 жыл бұрын

1 Pay More Attention. 2. Appreciate who they are. 3. Adore Your partner.

@hrnordin5909 2 жыл бұрын

The speaker may not realize how remarkable is his contribution to people’s life

@anewloveofficial9137 6 жыл бұрын

Improving one's relationship is a bit hard these days because people are becoming more impatient but if you love someone you should never give up on him because fights and arguments are just part of the relationship.

@theultimateman7231 4 жыл бұрын

Relationships are hard. The commitment part I think is the most important

@margretnyirongo1167 Жыл бұрын

wow

@MrJ777666 9 жыл бұрын

Love is the appreciation of the whole person appreciating them as a human being, their struggles & success, seeing the good and their other side, seeing them as one, accepting them at a level they have never been accepted before

@buchachatv6210 5 жыл бұрын

Appreciation is all I want .. seeing the good in me ..but definitely he can't figure it out because his to busy to trash all my efforts.. and one day I see my self don't really care anymore .. hope he really see my worth ..and I hope when that happened .. I had enough care..

@shirleyvargas1117 4 жыл бұрын

Including the acceptance of their shadow self. Not just loving them for all the good, but also to appreciate the things you don’t like about them. We all have flaws, big and small ones.

@charlesdsouza3893 4 жыл бұрын

Very nice and good tlk on how to improve yr relationship. Attention, appreciation n do not complain. Love is appreciation. Thanks for help. These r very useful for everybody who wants to improve relationship. God bless.

@anderstermansen130 3 жыл бұрын

That sounded almost humane.

@MrJ777666 3 жыл бұрын

I was young when I wrote this and I definitely have to say it depends on the person are they narcissist or they a genuine person that’s just misunderstood struggling 👌❤️👍

@TheKyson89 8 жыл бұрын

I wish I had seen this video a couple months ago, I could still be with the love of my life.

@carlostoro2768 7 жыл бұрын

here's several suggestions for saving your partnership Try to talk more Cooperate with each other more Start to give and take more (I learned these and the reasons they work on Pavs partner pundit website )

@yoboy3220 7 жыл бұрын

That might be true, but be grateful that you now know this information as well so that you can use this in your new relationships!

@skyscout3 7 жыл бұрын

that's sad man

@tonyaukanah97 7 жыл бұрын

Maybe it wasn't meant to be. Think of like this, now you have a gift of knowledge to be better person to yourself and to the next person you decide to be with at any given time expecting unexpected for life but also know that what you learn always good for the future and for now I wish you the best of luck

@neothunder195 7 жыл бұрын

Same here

@soraii 5 жыл бұрын

*Takes notes* I never had a boyfriend but I’d rather be ready & know these things, than being lost.

@Connetification 4 жыл бұрын

Yah need a bf ? Signing up, there’s like ten guys behind me waiting in line

@mklibuto2879 2 жыл бұрын

I also don't have a girlfriend

@nicholeparrish5253 2 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend and i of 9 years are having a tough time with our relationship... this video just reinforces what ive been trying to communicate with him.. putting the phone down and being present... showing attention is so important.. to connect on a soul level not just a physical level... going to share this with him.. thank you!

@robertwilliams6245 2 жыл бұрын

I'd like to talk to him

@ademike1899 2 жыл бұрын

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman who brought us back together and she can solve any kind of problems. ???

@ademike1899 2 жыл бұрын

Whatzapp her now....

@nicholeparrish5253 Жыл бұрын

@@PersonalDevelpmentHub it's working out better.. thank you..hope you have a wonderful weekend

@maxwellart2417 Жыл бұрын

It’s so crazy. I find myself touching my phone for no reason while talking with my lady.😢

@lisahind8858 7 жыл бұрын

Brendon, your eyes show your passion and integrity. Thank you.

@ilearnmore5001 4 жыл бұрын

Aagrreeee

@ConradKurtMorgan 11 ай бұрын

Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?

@AniOwo 9 жыл бұрын

I love how passionate you are, so inspiring!

@unniek.9834 8 жыл бұрын

i've been struggling with my boyfriend for a while, and it's a very big problem in our relationship and my life. And when i saw this vdo, i realize about what i should do to improve my relationship and myself. Thank you a lot! this is a very great vdo.

@luluwest7143 5 жыл бұрын

Unnie K. Me too! I was looking for a comment like this, thankyou

@lourdesruvalcaba-marra7591 5 жыл бұрын

How is it going now?

@nancyfelix7457 5 жыл бұрын

Unnie K. Me too girl me too..

@carolines7513 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes i feel like we trying too hard wile dey dont

@Sweetiekins23 4 жыл бұрын

Me too. Had to watch this.

@pierrebonneau7753 8 жыл бұрын

Brendon you set a timeless example of what it means to be alive. thank you

@megan1368 9 жыл бұрын

this should be shown in school.....nobody truly knows the true meaning of an amazing relationship.

@mrswagins4594 8 жыл бұрын

After watching this I see where I fucked up and now I'm going to try to fix it if it's not too late

@Robert-lb7jq 7 жыл бұрын

Was it too late?

@beans9019 6 жыл бұрын

Left on a cliffhanger 😭

@annieliney7013 4 жыл бұрын

1) Attention; Opposites 2) Eye to Eye; Attention 3) people don’t want your presents 🎁 they wants your presence. 4)

@salmachi9836 8 жыл бұрын

Your wife is lucky 😊😊😊

@fifamaniac04 3 жыл бұрын

Aren't most marriage therapist divorced?

@Liliann31 9 жыл бұрын

Everything you teach and share is life changing, powerful and meaningful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us it really makes a difference in my perspective on life. God bless!!

@nandspeartree7263 8 жыл бұрын

I just wanted to cry while watching, I know I can't blame my partner for our meaningless relationship but I was thinking e-mailing this video to my partner with the message, "Open only when fully willing to watch until the end and with no distractions " Is it a good idea?

@gracetavita1306 8 жыл бұрын

yes! go for it (: honestly with all my freaking heart everything works out for everyone i seriously mean this

@kassandrasilva617 4 жыл бұрын

I hope u did it & I hope ur still together

@joveriarashif2404 4 жыл бұрын

same here

@jakecordero7228 3 жыл бұрын

This video is 6 years old, but I’ve never needed more today than ever. I actually cried watching this because I needed to hear this. I needed to hear every word. Thank you so much.

@lenanicolevance 9 жыл бұрын

I was wondering if you can do video about, "How do you deal with the difficult times?"

@annaclared_ 9 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed this ! Me and my boyfriend have only been together two months but we already argue about the silliest little things but we always end up laughing as we stop and realise we love each other so much it's ridiculous !

@destinyvail5640 5 жыл бұрын

A Clare are you still together?

@jakeoswald8017 4 жыл бұрын

99% sure you didn't love each other after 2 months

@kevinvanhorsing5141 3 жыл бұрын

Awe🤸

@aztan8555 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my... Was having a bad time in my relationship and came across your channel today. You really brighten up me instantly and gave me so much confidence going ahead. Thank you Brendan. 🙏

@maryclaudiapitman 8 жыл бұрын

I go to work without my phone and people think I'm weird. I only go through my emails a couple of times a week and I don't watch TV because I'm too busy reading personal and professional development materials or listening to Burchard FM while I'm working out and doing my chores

@natsfitnessandwellbeing5280 8 жыл бұрын

hjp

@viktorijakostadinov1047 7 жыл бұрын

I've been researching improving your marriage and discovered a great resource at Mirykal marriage plan (google it if you are interested)

@tunisact8160 7 жыл бұрын

There are several suggestions for making improvements in your partnership Try to communicate more Cooperate with each other more Try to give and take more (I discovered these and the reasons they work on Mirykal marriage plan site )

@afrobeats4511 3 жыл бұрын

I also think you're weird

@maryclaudiapitman 3 жыл бұрын

@@afrobeats4511 🤣 I appreciate your input

@EloisaGene 6 жыл бұрын

"Love is appreciation of the totality of the person." Wow!, just wow.

@Sams-purpose 9 жыл бұрын

i just love the part where he giggled and said... " I know you think your important, and we all think we'r important! but let me tell ya their is no person in the world who can't learn to have a few hours where they can be human again, with the people that they love! "

@TheM1cK3y 4 жыл бұрын

Have a great girlfriend, where we first started dating we were younger and had to transition into being adults. Throughout that time I showed less attention, and focused on trying to figure it out; even using that as an excuse as to why I was acting the way. Just showing her attention and appreciating her more is something I’ll work on. She’s awesome and I’m glad I saw this.

@lucaleandro2563 9 жыл бұрын

Dear Brendon, this is the best description of what a real relationship is for me! Thank you for "formalizing" it in this simple way!

@joemanifesto8742 4 жыл бұрын

I just found you and watched this video from 5 years ago. I like you right off the bat. Your delivery is very comfortable and genuine. My girlfriend is in for a surprise and that's just after 1 video. Thank you for sharing!

@Sassybutterfly101 4 жыл бұрын

This is such a motivational video. Your passion makes me want to do better and improve myself

@mihaelabouros2430 8 жыл бұрын

You have such a good soul! thank you for your videos!

@anjasavic4309 7 жыл бұрын

here's several things for making improvements in your marriage Try to discuss more Cooperate with each other more Try to give and take more (I learned these and why they work on Pavs Partner Pundit website )

@unadrubic6208 7 жыл бұрын

I'm researching improving your partnership and found a fantastic resource at Pavs partner pundit (google it if you are interested)

@johncarlodequinon5944 7 жыл бұрын

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@aprilpittman1796 4 жыл бұрын

exactly right! me and my husband are working at this also. I'm trying to get him to connect with me and getting out of the old habits and engaging then embracing :) Thank you for sharing!

@lilag10 6 жыл бұрын

best relationship advice i've ever heard!

@Ironbarkblues 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this extraordinary video. I really appreciate these heart warming truths.

@bibialia7312 5 жыл бұрын

I’m crying watching this. I love my guy so much, I give all the attention, do everything to makes him happy but I don’t feel appreciated at all. I always get ignored. My text will get reply in a day. Simple text just wanna know how was his day going also unanswered and leave hanging. When I tell him to give me little attention he’ll go silent for days even a month. I’m so tired ..it’s only a year and I feel he lost interest in me. But whenever I ask what he feels towards me, he still say he love me but his action didn’t show up. Feels like dying

@jakeoswald8017 4 жыл бұрын

hope you've left him!

@teetabeatz5127 4 жыл бұрын

Time to move on

@geness9676 4 жыл бұрын

No matter what you do , things won't change. Leave him, obviously he doesn't really appreciate you.

@user-zt1vp5gv7l 4 жыл бұрын

Mine is lack of attention and appreciation as well..

@Anita-is8pb 4 жыл бұрын

Move on! U deserve someone who does the exact same things as u do for him!

@JoyXieJoycelynXie 9 жыл бұрын

Hi Brandon, thanks for the video! I read through the rest of the comments and I cannot be more agreeable when they mention that words of wisdom just flow of your mouth. I just wanna thank you for the book, the emails (they're indeed not the repetitive type) and for always coming up with such diverse range of videos with the same, helpful and motivating intention. Here are some videos I'd like you to share with us if possible, since we're in the topic of relationship: 1. How have or how do you intend to nourish your child in the growing teen years? How do you keep that father to son/daughter relationship great while at the same time adjusting you tone, degree of discipline and the amount of time given to be with them? 2. I'm sure you have a pretty great relationship w yourself too! You always look charged, ready, alert and I wanna know if there's anything or a routine you do in the morning when you're up, at night before you hit the sack and in the mid afternoon when most of us really just wanna nap. Haha! How do you fuel you body as well as you fuel your mind? 3. I find myself reserved on most times; at work or at a gathering. What are some of the ways I which I can express my existence without appearing aloof/ serious/ emotional?

@sravyavallala725 9 жыл бұрын

True...one could get very lucky whn dey find someone who gives them their time

@thithanhdaitran2610 5 жыл бұрын

If in laws, acts are mostly more important than intention then in relations, intention is maybe more important for honest people. If you have difficulties to say good things to those awful people who just want bad things for you, you are authentic ! Congratulations ! This is very rare quality in these days. Keep it and never think that you are a person with relational problems. Imagine one day when all those garbages will be cleaned, how will authentic people be together ?!

@linda08540 8 жыл бұрын

Amen Brendon. You touched me today! Thank you! This should also apply to parent with their own children.

@hodgesbenjamin9770 5 жыл бұрын

Linda Sommer hi

@edrobertson8503 4 жыл бұрын

Hello my dear. Can we chat on hangout.

@ConradKurtMorgan 11 ай бұрын

@jackye6846 8 жыл бұрын

So glad i found your channel! I've been looking for postive talks for a while.

@beverleybaldacchino9323 8 жыл бұрын

hi brendon can you do a video about reducing anxiety please?

@Anita-is8pb 4 жыл бұрын

Amen! The best message I have heard about relationships in a long time! Just broke up an 11 yr relationship and that’s exactly what was missing!!!!! Thank u!

@ConradKurtMorgan 11 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear about that Most people get caught up in a situation where they fall deeply in love with someone that gives them all they’ve been looking for in a relationship, they feel that comfort and security whereas the person does not actually love them. How can you get out of such situations?

@emilylehmann8143 8 жыл бұрын

My bf needs to watch this

@skyscout3 7 жыл бұрын

good girls

@TheEthalon 7 жыл бұрын

Your boy friend doesn't need to do anything.. You need to find a new man

@jonahkarp2938 6 жыл бұрын

LOL

@patrasculucian2403 6 жыл бұрын

You two are still together?

@justclickedtodislike9236 5 жыл бұрын

You chose to whine online instead . Maybe you're the problem

@lovemecom3832 6 жыл бұрын

Relationships are build with a great love and affection towards another. Improving yourself as a way of improving a relationship.

@LeMarais88 9 жыл бұрын

I can certainly attest to the importance of genuine attention: 1) Totally dislike when people ask you how you or your family are doing but don't make eye contact or are fiddling around with other things while you reply; totally RUDE :(! It's like why bother asking at all when you don't really care! 2) My husband and I noticed that his brother was totally glued to his smart phone during his entire visit with us (even when we were speaking with him and no, he wasn't on call etc.). Very sad but true... his wife just separated from him 2 months ago and they are definitely headed for divorce :(.

@jadenhasnoclout 6 жыл бұрын

i was never taught how to handle a serious relationship bc my dad n mom got divorced so idk what i’m doing these videos are teaching me and my mom

@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796 4 жыл бұрын

True what you say, however if one appreciate another, and that the other doesn't appreciate themself, the relationship is very hard to live. All the best

@Artaxian_Debacle 4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel like a burden to my girlfriend I want her to do great things the thing that sucks rn is that she lives an hour and a half away from me with her parents and doesn’t have a car... I admit I get frustrated but I care for her immensely and I want us to work

@Am-vq7rr 4 жыл бұрын

Michael Rodriguez I’m in the same situation, but on the other end of things. My partner lives an hour and a half away, and I feel like he’s going to get tired of me because I’m still saving up for a car. He’s the only one with a way of transportation, and I always worry or feel bad when he makes the trip to see me :( I hope your relationship works out!!

@AnonymousEasternPotato 4 жыл бұрын

Things will work out. Take your time and while working it out, be presence to each other. You'll be alright.

@chaoticsheepo220 6 жыл бұрын

Thank god Im watching this only a week after I got into a relationship

@traviantaylor2004 6 жыл бұрын

My woman told me I wasn’t giving her the three things he mentions. I accepted her word and will work on this everyday... I LOVE HER TO THE POINT MY HEART HURTS WHEN SHE IS NOT AROUND

@whatthebluff 2 жыл бұрын

This video makes the world a better place. Thank you!

@deniseszelagowski2565 8 жыл бұрын

You're amazing Brendon. Thank you for your videos. I'm so grateful. You're wife, children, and anyone in a relationship with you are very lucky people. I'm so grateful you are here on KZfaq. God bless you. :)

@hodgesbenjamin9770 5 жыл бұрын

Denise Szelagowski hi

@luvmusic540 7 жыл бұрын

Get the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Incidentally, they are: Gift giving; quality time; words of affirmation; acts of service (devotion); and physical touch. If you figure out which one of these is your loved one's love language (it's usually the one they do themselves for other people) and do that for them, they feel loved. This works for all relationships, not just spouses. Most people have a secondary love language, too. For example, maybe someone feels most loved when they get to spend time with family members. Quality time is their first love language. But they also really like to hear that they're worthwhile. Words of affirmation is their second love language.

@abigailmcdonald3300 5 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊

@jrwren7101 5 жыл бұрын

This is really inspiring to me my relationship is going through a rough patch but im gonna try a diffrent route and this seems like the best way thank you so much

@bro-pw9ld 4 жыл бұрын

I’m in 8th grade, and I got my first relationship this year, and I love him and this helps so much. I was afraid to lose him...

@donovanferreira88 4 жыл бұрын

You will lose him you're in 8th grade. You'll have many more like him. Your a child. Plenty of time to find yourself first squirt

@kimdaria187 5 жыл бұрын

Intention Appreciation Adoration ☺️☺️☺️😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️

@funnygirlever 9 ай бұрын

Relationship is not perfect. It's a big headache sometimes but worth it. Communicate to make your Relationship better. Choose and make a decision to listen more and better. More Communicate to better your relationship.

@consciouscateringco 9 жыл бұрын

absolutely love your videos. They have helped me a lot in the last 2 months in terms of achieving my goals seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for sharing your words of wisdom in such an open and passionate way! :)

@rebuttalc2075 Жыл бұрын

You dont need to improve them if you dont have any. All friends and family choose a life without me and it feels great

@Lyslyou 7 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾 I wish you a wonderful relationship. It must be filled with a lot of love. Thank you Brandon for this video. Hopefully it will help me in my future relationship :)

@martinj0414 5 жыл бұрын

Great video you're 100% correct. I was blind for 9 years! My childhood was not good I didnt know how to step outside myself. My ex gf is similar closed off It just hit me recently that we had to connect I knew I loved her I just didn't know how to express it. I can say that even though she is not talking to me we finally had a conversation last night where I could be truly open and present. And not worry about judgment or rejection. I'm an at peace it showed me what we could have been..

@Grischi14 4 жыл бұрын

This is one of the best videos here on KZfaq!

@rokhayasam5793 7 жыл бұрын

so amazing... right on time

@kashankhan522 7 жыл бұрын

Rokhaya Sambe hi

@Testeverything123 2 жыл бұрын

This is great advise. I recently improved my marriage with those exact things. To adore and be interested in them makes a huge difference. Thanks for this message

@abeedakhatoon5199 8 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this! So many true words "you have to appreciate their soul.."

@FaithCourt 5 жыл бұрын

Having a really hard time in my relationship this opened my eyes something crazy , you are a gem thank you so much ❗️

@karenmedina505 9 жыл бұрын

I swear this video made me cry because it's so incredibly true♡ thank you!

@mariannedelarosa4344 8 жыл бұрын

Well Said! You Explained It Perfectly!!!

@karithesprink5395 5 жыл бұрын

TRYING TO! I can't, I don't know how to work in my relationship, I talk to him about something but he seems to not care, he doesn't listen, at least I think he isn't. I try to keep him occupied but I have been it seems to not work, I can talk to him, I try to improve and listen to our relationship but he wont HELP ME! It isn't fair, I am doing this all by myself! I try to tell him what is bothering me but he wont listen or care! Well, he may listen but he still has no interest of helping me. I try to make him feel better, cheer him up, but he wont do the same. This is a one sided relationship and it's going downhill, I need as much advice and praying as possible. For both parts.

@zoemcpartlin4367 5 жыл бұрын

Kari on the same boat ☝🏻👋😩

@baileybolton436 5 жыл бұрын

Same here girl I feel for you

@jmest3571 5 жыл бұрын

It is time to let go.

@SophiaFadhil 4 жыл бұрын

Who is here in tweny tweny this is real advice

@dlrsb1968 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, you have helped my relationship a grate deal

@sibby291 9 жыл бұрын

Wow. You are a true inspiration!

@RudyRamone13 4 жыл бұрын

Watching this so I can learn how to be a better man to my lady, thank you for this. ✌

@theultimateman7231 4 жыл бұрын

I love the point "be intentional to be great". Thats fantastic

@talonreye1776 7 жыл бұрын

This honestly saved my life. I don't know what I would've done without watching this. Thank you.

@mathewstonelock5588 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤ This helped me understand what I was lacking in my relationship and although you may not see this comment 😅 I thank you so so much from the bottom of my heart ❤🖒

@lsgmail4300 8 жыл бұрын

When i reflected back, she accused me for criticizing her. When I asked for more to encourage her to talk, she turned around to ask me to listen and don't ask question. I left the relationship clearly that we are incompatible.

@Evajeanfreedom 6 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you Brendan - love this video and have finally found someone who believes in making relationships as fulfilling and full of love as I do ☺💖

@dustydamsel6314 8 жыл бұрын

So wonderful. Thank you so much Brendon = ))

@courtneyeastwell9465 7 жыл бұрын

This made me want to cry this is so true and I think this could have saved my marriage thank you so much eye opening

@vitalitybypaul6966 3 жыл бұрын

I got divorced because I wasn’t given enough attention. My wife told me that she was showing me love by doing the laundry and paying bills and cleaning rather than allowing me to be her partner in doing all of those things

@Greenwitch_Garden 3 ай бұрын

Sounds like her love language was acts of service and yours was quality time. Sorry you went through the misunderstanding.

@Ateam143 16 күн бұрын

Do you think that maybe telling her how you feel could give you the relationship you want rather than leaving

@jeromeforman5064 8 жыл бұрын

That background music has anchored so much motivation for me! Quality :)

@candy123kisses 9 жыл бұрын

As always another amazing video! I'm trying to get my friends to watch too so we all can live fuller happier lives. 😃 Thank you for your service Brendan.

@AirForce1Collector 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for opening my mind up.... I see where I went wrong before... I'm going to do better this time 😍

@elkaleather231 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, this guy is so likable.

@kipo7639 3 жыл бұрын

Great energy!!! You're a shooting star ⭐✨

@nikol8462 7 жыл бұрын

That made me cry... So beautiful

@montgomerydoug 9 жыл бұрын

Brendon I Love Your Stuff man...Just Love It! Love your passion and the words of wisdom that just flow out of you mouth. And....I Love to 'share' that wisdom with my friend here in Poland. Those that speak 'perfect' English can sometimes keep up (almost) with your speed and energy and understand maybe half of what you say. Those that don't speak 'perfect' English, well, there's no way they can keep up and understand anything really. They can feel the positive energy but don't have an understanding of what you're saying. I have only one request, can you make your videos available for captioning? I see on some videos on KZfaq that they can be translated and captioned. Your's unfortunately don't have the captioning ability. My friends say that even the auto generated English subtitles help them. If they're available for captioning I'd be more than willing to have some of them even translated via Amara. Thanks again for such a wonderful and inspirational video.

@kellyash45 4 жыл бұрын

This is great advice for people that aready know, and accept, you. Close relationships, not new ones. Taking this deep of a perspective and with this level of energy will usually conflict with people's ego and they can become uncomfortable and can reject you.

@sharonboyle4196 8 жыл бұрын

Brendon you are so engaging, motivated and inspiring. I love watching your videos and reading your books!

@jonathanjohnson9725 4 жыл бұрын

Watching this 4 years later and I still think this guy is a genius

@djjd1music 5 ай бұрын

thank you for this video 🙏🏽

@njdonovan755 3 жыл бұрын

I’m in my first relationship right now, it’s weird right now. If I remember that I commented this I will keep you guys informed.

@yakubusani7172 2 жыл бұрын

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@yakubusani7172 2 жыл бұрын

Whatzapp her now....

@asdfFdsa-nl4ty Жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video and helping set an example for young men or woman

@thomasharr4793 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you... Very helpful... I love learning how i can be a better person.

@s0ftyirl452 7 жыл бұрын

idk, my bf and I are a month together, hes the kinda sad type of person, and I'm on the other hand always smiling, I first felt like I was giving him lots of happiness but I now feel like his sadness is taking over me, our relationship is really complicated, I've had a few relationships before but I really wanna keep him, he has a few struggles but I take him with those because I love him, I wanna show him that I really love him, make him happy again like I used to the first week we met each other and we were together, I was feeling down, and I wanted to change something about all the frustration between us, we both have hard times but I don't want that to take us apart , this video really helps me, thanks a lot ^^