“Fixers never fix themselves” It hit hard...

I dont care if I'm a man, I'm dedicating this to myself. Beautiful song.

To all the fixers out there…Here’s a guy who has us figured out. this song is deep🥺

I'm dedicating this song to my past self-the old me. Hang in there, sweetheart. You are going to get through this, I promise, and things will get so much better. I love you. ❤

I didn't search for it ,I found this song by coincidence. what a lovely coincidence

this songs hits you when you’re always by your friends side but they’re not on yours.

I cried when i heard this song for the first time. it felt like someone finally understood what i am going through 😟 and how on edge i am. thank you for this song💛

The tears won't stop. This is my life in a nut shell.

I absolutely adore this song. This is the empath anthem I've always needed. People don't really understand what its like to feel others pain so deeply it brings physical pain to yourself.

As a fixer, I've never heard a song more true to my mentality. You don't feel like you're worthy to be fixed. So to ignore yourself breaking apart, you fix others. Hoping one day you'll care about yourself as much as you care about others. At least that's what I do.

As a fixer, I always focus my energy on those who need me. Focusing on myself only causes me pain and anxiety of the past and present that haunt my thoughts when I am alone. This is a beautiful song that has put perspective on my emotional health.

Hospice nurse here… this could be our anthem in hospice. We take care of the patients and the families (no matter how crazy a situation we walk into) and we have to keep staying strong no matter what.

Who told Brent my life's story!!! Such a comforting song just cause someone else feels our pain!

She's addicted to fixing others, so she doesn't have to face and deal with her own brokeness. Saving other people is a coping mechanism. It's escapism. It's running away from a victim mentality by escaping into it.

Some songs just hit you so hard that all you find yourself doing is crying to them at almost 4am…thank you for this beautiful masterpiece!

She's a fixer with no one to fix her She's a lover who won't love herself She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a fighter with no one beside her In a corner alone on the ropes She's a let down away from a terrible place She'll fix every scar but her own Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most Buried in bandages, hiding the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a liar, a calm to the fire Shamed when we all follow suit She's a whisper away from a dangerous place 'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who need fixin' the most Packed with prescriptions, disguisin' the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a handful A whole lot to handle But worth every thorn in my side She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight

All I did was click on this suggested song and now I’m crying

YT is doing a fucking good job with the recomandations. Why am I crying, again?

I'm dedicating this song to my mother because my mother is always helping us fix our problems while she always hides her problems and cries alone.

I am a fixer who now prioritizes fixing myself first, and I now only fix people who ask for it, and appreciate my energy. We are learning 💪🏾.

So I decided to write a response to it... Here y'all go. Same tune different words. I also just did a video of me singing this, vocals only, since there were many requests to do so. Thank you! - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/q590ZKuUv5mRhKs.html I’m a fixer who found my fixer I’m a lover being loved in return My heart’s shattered and dazed from all the pain But this fixer has a fixer herself. I’m a fighter with people behind her In a corner they ensure my health. He pulls me away from a terrible place. He’ll fix every scar he can find. Oh, She fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke. Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most. Cleaning the wounds and fighting her hell This fixer found a fixer herself. I’m a liar, alive with a fire Shamed that I burden you But he whispers my name, and I am saved. No more lies, I’ll be honest and true. Oh, she fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke. Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most. Backed with persistence, fighting the hell. This fixer found a fixer herself. I’m a handful A whole lot to handle. But he says it’s no trouble, he’s fine. He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place He’s fixing the fixer each night. He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place He’s fixing the fixer each night. Hope you enjoy and thank you for this glorious song and inspiration!

"She's lover who won't love herself" damn, it stabbed me

This song made me feel so raw and naked, all I did to hide away my issues and this song rips them from my hiding places slowly and painfully. I'm tired, I'm sad, I'm lost, I'm lonely in a house full of family this Thanksgiving. I can't get over them leaving me here, I miss them so much I can barely breathe 😪 I just want my dad, mom, and brother back 💔

As a fixer myself, this hit really hard. It's been a long and difficult journey to understanding that it's not my responsibility to fix anyone...especially when doing so only breaks me even more. Thank you for this.

I have never felt more personally attacked by a song in my life. And never had a song put my feeling into words better than this.

Reminds me of a Mother going through a hard time being a single mother

Beautiful song... why do i have tears in my eyes.... bless ur heart...

When a song puts yourself into perspective and you know things have got to change.

"Lies aren't a fix for the truth" Yes thats true but it sure makes a great bandaid.

Smart choice of words!

Wow!!!!! I'm in tears listening to this beautiful truth!

Oh what a beautiful song. The trumpet is beautiful.

When youtube recommendations know you better than your friends.

Talked with a friend and we started talking about what each others theme songs would be. I sent him his theme song and then he took almost 10 minutes going through his history to find this song. And right after he sent it he said, "Just in case you thought nobody noticed what you've done for everyone around you.", and then he said he had to go. After the call ended I listened to this and I nearly cried. My heart you guys, it feels.

Thank you for such a beautiful lyrically written song from those who are highly sensitive and dealing with depression. This is a masterpiece the world needs to hear. We are all creatures of habit. Some of us just get sick in a continuous loop until someone is courageous enough to see the beauty beneath the broken!!

I never knew I needed a song, until I heard this beautiful song!

"Buried in bandages Hiding the hell" Guys I'm 7 days free! I know it's not much but I'm very proud of myself!

Fixers cant fix themselves because they are to busy fixing others. And maybe they are like me and run away when people try to help. This song hits home for me

This song found me. I've been listening for months. It's my go to when I need that reminder to fix myself before trying to help others.

😭Dear Father God, I praise and thank You for Your loving-kindness and great mercy which is new every morning and remains steadfast and sure throughout the day - to strengthen and hold. Thank You for the glory of the cross.. knowing that I was a estranged from Your heart of love and an outcast from the kingdom of heaven.🐢

As an empath, I really don't know how to feel about this song. I always reach out to people who are sad and I offer an ear when I think people need it cuz I love helping, but it's astronomically hard for me to open up about myself because I feel so misunderstood. I feel like a liar and an entitled person though, for relating to this...

to anyone who's listening to this with me, i hope you know that you are loved. you are enough. you are worthy of being loved and you should be kind to yourself, too. you can do that. when you feel that no one's there to fix you, you can come back to this song and remember that you are your own fixer... and you don't have to fix others.

I believe that you do yourself/your soul the most good by caring for other souls. 🙏 HIS yoke ist easy and HIS burden is light when both are borne by HIS Love.💞

It really does get tiring comforting others because you dont want them to feel the pain you've been feeling but no ones doing the same for you

My soul is naked and spirit is broken. This song was able to rip tears out of my eyes that I didn't even know I'd been holding back.

Admit it, you didn’t look for this song. It just found you and now you get to cry by yourself cuz it’s probably not the best that you relate lol. ;w; Edit: Whoa that's a lot of likes...

My experience, is it's the hurt that makes us fixers. We know how bad it feels and how much it hurts, so we work, and fight like hell to keep others from that pain. I hurt, and someday it might kill me. But until then I can do everything in my power to make it mean something. Tell a stranger their outfit looks amazing and the color brings out their eyes. They might really need it.

I almost forgot about this song. Thank you for recommending this to me randomly.

I'm always trying to help ppl probably cause I can't help myself..

I became the Fixer early in life, I was as a child when I was powerlessness over my mother’s mental and emotional health. When I was young the stigma of mental health problems meant my family survived by learning to hide the truth about the hell we were living behind closed doors. My mother was institutionalized many times, all her breakdowns and outbursts, being present or finding her after multiple suicide attempts, I was the daughter who learned to carry the burdens of others. Our family was about rescuing my mother in order to save our whole family. Over time I was conditioned to fix problems. So I’d respond to certain things like when I heard "I can't" that meant they can't, so I assumed the role that "I can". I saw my father as Superhero who always helped our family. I wanted to be like him so I helped him, I was the little superhero I assumed that role costume and all. It meant I was good and worthy for helping my family like my father. I spent many years in chaos where I learned to believe that’s what families, especially parents do, they help one another. Marriage meant in sickness and in health but that meant sacrificing my needs and myself. I was conditioned to carry the weight of others, and their problems. It takes a toll over the years as it became too heavy at times making me angry, and resentful when I couldn’t help the people I loved. I thought being needed was being loved. I placed the needs of others above myself sacrificing time and energy from my own life to help others on their path forgetting my own since I was a young child. I did like fairytales but I learned quickly the stories many girls are told are lies. People who become fixers learn that the only real way to connect with others is to rescue them and or fix them not realizing the cost is too much to carry and heartbreaks too many. I lived this life for over 40 years. The hardest thing I did was something nobody in my family had done before, I divorced my husband of 20 years, he became an alcoholic, and his anger grew with age. I believed for years if I did this or that he would change, but he didn’t want to change. I couldn’t make him care about me or our children, that was his job. It’s exhausting watching your family fall apart. I even felt guilty when he got in trouble, lost his job, went to jail, he had girlfriends who harassed me and my children. That wasn’t my mess to fix nor clean up so i quit helping him. The mess was his, he made that choice when he didn’t want to fix anything when he had that choice or he had to leave. He chose to leave our family behind. He looked for women like me, anyone to take care of him. I learned the hard way that it wasn’t my job to make him better. It’s hard to know my children suffer with the fact he left and the choices I made that kept him around too long. I know now that what he does is his choice and his problem. There’s times i feel the need to watch from afar and say it’s about our children but I know it’s me. Truth that’s hard to accept is that if he loved me or our children he would have stayed. His choices are not mine, his burdens of his choice aren’t mine either. I hope others realize their self worth and their identity is not found in someone else, and free themselves from a life in chains. I spent too many years caring for people who didn’t care for me. It’s hard to comprehend and heal the brokenness caused by giving your all to love someone and it’s not returned. Do not be a doormat or assume your own identity in someone else. If this is you know you’re drawn to unhealthy relationships, attracted like a magnet for anyone needing a rescue, it’s a vicious cycle, a cycle that has to be broken. You must love yourself before you can love someone else. Most important message I’ve heard in a song, thank you!

Beautiful❤️ I'm a broken fixer. I make others smile as I hide pain,I'm there for others as I fight demons alone.I've given sunsets to others,there isn't any left for me♡ seeing them shine makes me happy❤ God Bless the kind hearted & the broken fixers

Thanks to Brent Morgan, whenever I feel like there's no room for me anymore, I come to his channel, and feel better in the end. God bless you because you may have saved many lives0

I'm in love with this song 🥺💖

Lyrics: She's a fixer with no one to fix her She's a lover who won't love herself She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a fighter with no one beside her In a corner alone on the ropes She's a let down away from a terrible place She'll fix every scar but her own Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most Buried in bandages, hiding the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a liar, a calm to the fire Shamed when we all follow suit She's a whisper away from a dangerous place 'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who need fixin' the most Packed with prescriptions, disguising the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a handful A whole lot to handle But worth every thorn in my side She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight

Literally my life. When you're always told that you're the only one who listens, and you don't know how to open up for those willing to listen to you. I won't fix myself, I'll carry the weight and keep on. I'll lie everyday until I'm convinced I'm fine.

I was always told I was a fixer, even though I was the most broken inside. I was fighting my own battles and didn't feel like anyone was there to help me. This song relates to me so much. Thank you so much for such a beautiful song as this one.

Who else didn't want to miss a single line because when you heard the first line you already know that this song is all about youuu. 💓💓

It's sad that we instantly have a name in our minds the moment we heard this song. I hope everyone finds someone who's willing to fix them and have someone to fix them.

This song has a very deep meaning. 😭 love you Mom 🥺🥺🥺❤

I've never felt so understood in my life. This song makes me feel relieved whenever I feel stressed. Thank you!

Damn this made me emotional. This song is relatable as hell

Until the fixer finds another fixer ❤️ they build you up, are real with you. You'll heal together

I I never heard so much truth in a song. That's what we moms do and do it all over again. So thanks! this song means a lot to me. ❤

You wrote this for me. No question. I’m her. The bleeding heart fixer of everyone. Yet drowning in my silence

Much love to all Fixers who are trying their best to fix others and to survive this world

I Really Love this Song it made me feel like Someone's Understand my Side.. really appreciated the lyrics and Brent Morgan Voice ❤️❤️❤️

Mom and dad is the best fixer I ever met :) Love them a lots!

"She's a lover, who won't love herself" Calling me out again I see

My daughter told me to listen to this, after a traumatic event. I’m in tears!! 🥺 do the work!! Stand tall, even when it hurts it’s worth the work! Tape and glue only works for so long!

I tend to fix my friends problems, help them fix themselves but when im broke i couldnt even apply not even one of those things and words i used to give them. It's always easy to fix others and seems hard to fix your own self, hope we find genuine fixer who will fix us too😌

Hands down... this is a beautiful song 🥰

I never knew this song existed and now that I am sitting here raw, broken, and frustrated I feel like I just learned alot about myself. Thank you. -A fixer

This is not just a song,this is a feeling 💜

So me... And I'm just hearing it for the first time. I keep making people smile but no one knows the storms I battle alone.

I don't know when was the last time i listened to this song, but at the time i was on the brink of that terrible place. And now I'm at a place where I'm not fixing anyone not even myself. I just feel like I'm floating in space and i don't know how to get back to my better self...The more cheerful and outgoing self...I don't know whether i even dare being a fixer again, bc it burns you...

I feel noticed when listening to this song. I'm listening to this everyday from now on and showing all my friends that need to hear it

its like when you hold everyone up to realize that your drowning and there's no one to hold you up.

It's been over 2 years and each time this song plays, silent tears still flow without fail. The warmth from feeling seen turns into ache from becoming aware of my reality all over again. It is strong enough to lift the heaviest floodgates. Thank you, Brent. 💜

I don't know why, but this song hits so close when you're battling sickness alone. Keeping up a happy face when you're drowning in meds, bad results from tests, ER visits, and having to keep everyone from being sad or stressed while trying to keep yourself alive.

I can’t listen to this without crying! 🎁It’s so meee!! A I agree, us empaths feel the pain and don’t worry about our own. Thank you for this beautiful beautiful blessing🥺❤️

Finished my therapy session, left crying and disturbed with thousands of questions, take out my phone, open KZfaq, this song pops up first. Damn you life with your coincidences, thank you!

Most beautiful song ,awesome

I've only just today heard your music. Wow. Beautiful. Love from South uk xx

Super relatable as a male, my whole life story tbh. Ive always found it easy to help others but can never help myself. I choose others over me, i mean I am even pursuing a career in psychology... this song hits hard tbh

To all my fixers, it's worth addressing. I'm done fixing others and am fixing myself.

Someone sent this to my mum this after her father passed. She really resonated with it, and she thinks it’s a beautiful song xx

Simply Beautiful & Raw 🦋 ❤ Thank you!

Sitting here feeling numb and came across this song. I'm crying. I lost my myself in healing someone else and loving him too. Really loved these words sang.

I don't even know why I'm here. But I'm crying when he sang the first line. And now I'm a crying mess. This song made me realize that I was always the "shoulder to cry on," the one who's always available and "one call away" and the one who listens to either the loudest rants or most silent chaos, but no one bothers to do the same for me.

I.. cried.. thank you for this beautiful song.

"She's a let down away from a terrible place" got me

This song is so beautiful. This year I have faced being abused my husband, missing my son who would of been 2, I didn’t get to see my step daughter, I lost my job, he took the car, and I blamed myself for it all. I’m finally looking forward and trying to care for myself, and this reminds me I can’t help others if I don’t care for myself ❤️ I found my new repeat 🥰

I prayed for healing and comfort and this is what I got. Thank you!

Am going threw recovery an I listen to 3 songs every morning to start my recovery na course some days love them thanks Brent x

I’ve always been told that I always try to fix other peoples broken wings, im healer , an empath but at the end of the day I end up the one who’s alone , feeling empty inside. I’m not doing it anymore , I’m choosing myself for my future & my inner child ❤

As an INFJ I can relate to this song in a spiritual level lol

This song touches my heart. This is how Ive felt for too many years of my life. But Ive finally found someone who is willing to stick with me and help fix my fucked up life I have been sober for about 4 months now and its all thanks to my husband. I could never ask for a better father to our future children. I have truly found the light in my life and I'm happier than I have ever been.

Well, I certainly feel called out!! Beautifully tragic song that a lot of us who are healer’s that can’t heal ourselves but we absorb the suffering of others to lighten their burden.

Beautiful lyrics.

This song makes me think of my mom. Love her so much. Hope she never grows old